It's Time To Be Honest...😦 Ep. 287.

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  • Опубликовано: 1 янв 2025

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  • @suelowcockharris1954
    @suelowcockharris1954 4 месяца назад +41

    Exhale. Step back and find the joy in the planning! Don’t let the wedding industry drag you into their stuff. It’s about LOVE not event details!

    • @johnmull59
      @johnmull59 4 месяца назад +2

      Spot on!...If you don't you have to ask yourself if it's worth it. 🤷🏻

    • @itsdebs
      @itsdebs 4 месяца назад

      I love this message xxx

  • @jamesbeaman5944
    @jamesbeaman5944 4 месяца назад +6

    Yup, as hard as it is, try ro stay calm n have fun. Best, Jim.

  • @riverflame
    @riverflame 4 месяца назад +2

    We love you both regardless. Take care and be gentle on yourselves. I relate totally. Be brave dear ones.

    • @riverflame
      @riverflame 4 месяца назад

      BTW you’re both looking younger by the day!

  • @alaenke
    @alaenke 4 месяца назад +4

    I love you guys, no matter how often you post.
    I love your authenticity AND your outtakes ❤

  • @janeperanteau6129
    @janeperanteau6129 4 месяца назад +2

    As always, fun to hear you talk. Thanks for checking in.

  • @dennismatthews6660
    @dennismatthews6660 4 месяца назад +4

    Relax and enjoy. Thank you.

  • @AjG007
    @AjG007 4 месяца назад +3

    Concern is not negative. It shows that people care and that is really positive!

    • @FoxesAfloat
      @FoxesAfloat  4 месяца назад +1

      I didn't say concern was negative. I said messages where people think I need support can be negative, as opposed to "you seem very happy". Being anxious, stressed, unhappy, needing support can be seen as a negative time. Please pay more attention in the future! 😂

  • @Lighting_Desk
    @Lighting_Desk 4 месяца назад +1

    As long as you both are taking care of yourselves that's the main thing. I get the headspace mixed with neurospicy in. Take time to enjoy what you can, and hopefully you can get some answers and calm again soon.

  • @sdrailfan892
    @sdrailfan892 4 месяца назад +2

    Thanks for the update. A wedding is as complicated and simple as you want it. The most important part is the two of you are there. Relax and just enjoy your day no matter what happens. Something will happen, but it really does not matter. Just enjoy your day. Like you said, the outtakes can the funniest and most fun parts. Looking forward to see video of the wedding. Do take some down time to relax and heal.

  • @AmandaBrown-nu7wo
    @AmandaBrown-nu7wo 4 месяца назад +2

    Oh Colin!,just want to give you a great big hug!.good luck to you both on your wedding.xx

  • @Kuuvalgus
    @Kuuvalgus 4 месяца назад +1

    It's so nice to see you, thanks for sharing your feelings. The world seems more stable and safer knowing that your log will still keep coming. Much joy and peace of mind to you.

  • @FBASD01
    @FBASD01 4 месяца назад +2

    The wedding is going to be great! just enjoy. Have a great weekend!

  • @rickisnor14
    @rickisnor14 4 месяца назад +2

    The best thing I can offer is a virtual hug 🤗 and thank you for all you have both shared.

  • @AlistairsHoles
    @AlistairsHoles 4 месяца назад +2

    Sending you both lots of love and hugs, both you and Shaun deserve to be happy, hope you both have a lovely evening and a lovely weekend.

  • @pameladwyer2244
    @pameladwyer2244 4 месяца назад +3

    Colin, I love you and Shaun! I wish you guys a few fun surprises on your wedding day! Perfection does not make good stories, nor memories! From your ND granny in Ontario. Love you both to pieces!

  • @jamesvanian5524
    @jamesvanian5524 4 месяца назад +2

    I must be the worst overthinker and it's much worse in the middle of the night. I understand how you are feeling but you will prevail. I wish you every success and joy for the future to all of you.
    Keep well and safe. James.

  • @jessicafalconmetcalfe3959
    @jessicafalconmetcalfe3959 4 месяца назад +2

    I just wish you both well and will love anything that you choose to share with us. I hope your wedding is totally wonderful. xox

  • @RoundaboutVintage
    @RoundaboutVintage 4 месяца назад +1

    You have a special gift of seeing details. Trust that you got this and things will fall in place. Love you guys! ❤

  • @helenplatt5599
    @helenplatt5599 2 месяца назад +1

    I have always really appreciated you and your in-depth 'talks' with us all Colin. 🙂 Thank you for having the courage to be you! xx

  • @ElizabethMcGalliard
    @ElizabethMcGalliard 4 месяца назад +1

    Thank you Colin. I’m so fond of you both, and am glad you plan to slow down a wee bit after the wedding. I’m looking forward to your weekly, informative vlogs…love them ! The ‘lives’ are funny, but the modern banter sometimes goes right over the top of my old grey head !😁
    Enjoy your special day. Who cares if the odd wee thing doesn’t quite go according to plan. Your loving friends and family certainly won’t !❤❤

  • @irenamangone
    @irenamangone 4 месяца назад +1

    Blessings Colin and Shaun. Love listening to you and learning stuff. Re your bee keeping and marmalade making. Etc etc

  • @wendyh2708
    @wendyh2708 4 месяца назад +7

    Organizing a wedding is only as difficult as you want to make it. The big stuff is easy. It's the little stuff thats a pain in the ass. As long as you remember that NO day is EVER perfect, you'll be fine. Wishing you both all the best in this newest step in your journey together.

    • @KDVoller
      @KDVoller 4 месяца назад

      Well said...

  • @soniadooney77
    @soniadooney77 4 месяца назад +1

    You are very much a professional in everything you do. Perfect couple and cared for so much.❤

  • @gavinparkes1515
    @gavinparkes1515 4 месяца назад +1

    No pressure; no expectations. Honestly! Enjoy life. All the best.

  • @rosaliatrevisanut5967
    @rosaliatrevisanut5967 4 месяца назад +1

    Overthinking, sleepless night's, anxiety, you have described my life, Colin. I hear you. All the best. ❤

  • @mikepatton9537
    @mikepatton9537 4 месяца назад +1

    Colin, thanks so much for the post!

  • @zee2012
    @zee2012 4 месяца назад +4

    I think a lot of it is concern from all your supporters and fans that the both of you are doing ok and everything is fine ❤

  • @maryearll2135
    @maryearll2135 4 месяца назад +2

    Thanks for the update and glad all is well!! Boy , those middle of the night thoughts - how crazy are they and even try to tell yourself they are a waste and all will be well in the morning - well, that doesn't usually work!! Oh well, we just get on with life - just a bit more tired!!! Take care and good luck with all the wedding plans.

  • @fumbleknit719
    @fumbleknit719 4 месяца назад +4

    When I'm stressed about stuff, my favorite calming mantra helps me to reframe things with reasonable, long-view perspective: "In a hundred years, nobody'll know."

  • @Sanderini63
    @Sanderini63 4 месяца назад +2

    On your day, find some quiet and take a step away from all the celebrations,
    and take in the day.
    I hope you will enjoy it all, Colin. I wish you and Shaun so much happiness on the day and all the days forward.
    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @msvaleriah
    @msvaleriah 4 месяца назад +3

    Putting together a wedding (or any other big event) is just plain stressful, Colin. Been there, done that, and I think a bit like you do, so I was listening and relating pretty sympathetically to what you were saying! Given you can't stop taking care of the bees even if you wanted to, and Sherlock and the chickens and the rest of the croft, something's got to give somewhere! Thanks for checking in and letting us know what's going on.

  • @gregorystthomas8390
    @gregorystthomas8390 4 месяца назад +1

    Thank you for the update. You both are amazing!

  • @elizabethmondulick8209
    @elizabethmondulick8209 4 месяца назад +1

    I totally understand how consuming planning a wedding can be. I did it once, and even though the marriage didn't last I still have some beautiful memories from that day. Eight years later when I remarried it was a simple civil ceremony with just us, our two witnesses and a couple of parents. We will be celebrating our 30th anniversary next year. Wish I had waited to throw the big party for the second time around. 😂 It may be stressful now, but once the big day has come and gone you also will have memories to cherish for the rest of your lives, and your lifetime together as the most beautiful foundation for it all. 💜

  • @TTRider88
    @TTRider88 4 месяца назад +2

    Thanks for this vlog, Colin. It's good for us to know that everything is sort of OK. I'm sure the wedding will go absolutely fine, just because you guys will make it so. As you say, we'll all still be here when you get back to regular vlogs. You just do what you gotta do, and take care of YOU. "See" you sometime soon.

  • @sallysmith155
    @sallysmith155 4 месяца назад +1

    Colin it's lovely that you talk to all of us I must say I love when you talk about different things.sending hugs to you both.Have a lovely weekend both of you.🩵🩵🦴🦴

  • @carollois
    @carollois 4 месяца назад +1

    Been there done that with wedding planning. It’s a lot! I hope you have a wonderful day with all of your loved ones.

  • @patbrandow5852
    @patbrandow5852 4 месяца назад

    Thanks for the update. Keep on keeping on, you two. ❤️❤️

  • @kathyrapiejko6318
    @kathyrapiejko6318 4 месяца назад +2

    If you weren't so loved, people wouldn't worry. Everything will happen as it should & it will all be amazing! Sending love to all! ❤️🐾🐾🦅🐝❤

    • @Dazzy84
      @Dazzy84 4 месяца назад

      This comment!!!! 👆👌

  • @thomastomlinson1992
    @thomastomlinson1992 4 месяца назад +2

    You are loved!❤

  • @damianleah6744
    @damianleah6744 4 месяца назад +1

    Just remember the wedding is Your special day and what else happens between now and on the day, remember to just enjoy it. ❤

  • @sarahldempsey4925
    @sarahldempsey4925 4 месяца назад +1

    Things in life will always get in the way. All you can do is what is right at the time for both of you. Nae haste nae worry xx

  • @scottdunn8550
    @scottdunn8550 4 месяца назад +1

    Thanks for the update... Enjoy your wedding 🧑‍🤝‍🧑. 🎉🎊👏

  • @alycespoto2099
    @alycespoto2099 4 месяца назад +1

    Weddings are about of stress but your day will be spectacular. Take care of yourselves… and the dogs…. And the bees…. And Sherlock 😋.

  • @MrFroglips69
    @MrFroglips69 4 месяца назад +1

    Always a joy to see you.

  • @rhondagover9237
    @rhondagover9237 4 месяца назад

    Thanks for the update, I do look forward to seeing you on Fridays. I totally understand the waking up overthinking thing. I do it too. I can't wait to see the photos of the wedding. I hope for good weather for you but .......

  • @jessiahstalbirds.j.794
    @jessiahstalbirds.j.794 4 месяца назад +4

    If you looking for perfection it isn't going to happen. You just accept the day and the moment as it happens. The moment is all that is real.

  • @renateschreiber4416
    @renateschreiber4416 4 месяца назад +1

    I wish you all the best.Have fun and enjoy it😊❤🎉

  • @nadseaglesnest
    @nadseaglesnest 4 месяца назад +2

    You’re awesome blossom 🌸😀 that’s why we all come back for more,

  • @tonysargent7787
    @tonysargent7787 4 месяца назад +2

    Another great video has always Colin Shaun and Otis and Ollie keep well guys 👍

  • @robertabiallas6923
    @robertabiallas6923 4 месяца назад +1

    Omg, Colin! I can SOO relate. When we were working on our wedding it was the same and that was 6 years ago! But lately, I’ve had the worst insomnia and just sit up at night after getting up for a wee. Aren’t ours brains a pain in the backside sometimes? Hang in there, it’ll be worth it all once it’s done. The vlogs can wait, just focus on the wedding. We’ll be here. Cheers!

  • @davidcollins9512
    @davidcollins9512 4 месяца назад

    Kia ora & greetings from New Zealand.. - Thanks for the update Colin.
    We'll see you when we see you.

  • @michaelspurling4376
    @michaelspurling4376 4 месяца назад +1

    I don't normally have trouble with anxiety but by the week before my first wedding I thought my head was going to explode. You have my sympathy.

  • @robyndolanbooksandmusic
    @robyndolanbooksandmusic 4 месяца назад +1

    I actually thought you guys were already married. Congratulations! How very exciting and it looks like a beautiful venue. I look forward to the sneak peek inside your special day. But definitely the priority is to relax and enjoy it.

    • @FoxesAfloat
      @FoxesAfloat  4 месяца назад

      We are married, but we never had a wedding x

  • @Madalf71
    @Madalf71 4 месяца назад +2

    My new favourite saying is "you do you " and "too many open tabs", chill, focus, life's meant to be fun after all.

  • @KDVoller
    @KDVoller 4 месяца назад +2

    You're basically in the same position we were in, we eloped and our "church" wedding was a year later. Just enjoy your day. Laugh at the crazy stuff that is going to happen, it's just an extension of your life together. I had a florist put part of my flowers on top of her car and they fell off into the snow and were ran over by another car the morning of the wedding. Ironically the person that found them, took them into the store my brother in law worked at and their delivery guys brought them to the church. They actually looked quite funny. In the grand scheme of things, it was a fixable.. The florist was very upset and thought I would be quite upset... NOPE... it was just another crazy day in our life.

  • @CyclingRobinToronto
    @CyclingRobinToronto 4 месяца назад +1

    For me, with the upcoming wedding, I figured that this was occupying your time and that eventually more blogs would come. Though I never got married, one of my close friends did two years ago and I saw what he went through with the planning aspect. The day before the wedding he sent me a message in a panic that they had forgot to arrange for anyone to speak and asked if I would do something. Of course I did and despite a few planning hiccups along the way that he told me about it was a wonderful day that I carry in my memory. Looking forward to seeing a "few snaps" (as my grandmother used to say), of the wedding once you sorted through them all:)

  • @Eberdeberdee
    @Eberdeberdee 4 месяца назад

    Thanks Colin. Best wishes to you both and all the animals.

  • @timothyqtully807
    @timothyqtully807 4 месяца назад +2

    Happy belated birthday. Hope you had a great day. Love ya

  • @margaretdyson8149
    @margaretdyson8149 4 месяца назад +1

    Best wishes, hope all goes well. I have had to try and reduce my stress level prior to Christmas as I once ended up in hospital with suspected heart attack.I used to stress about the gifts I was giving and weather I could clean the house through to make it sparkle and cosy.we have had some disasters .one year just before the in-laws were due to arrive a can of paint spilled all down the stairs carpet.Another time just before guests arrived the bag on the vacuum cleaner bust and the dust went everywhere. . I'm now in my seventies and it's hard trying to adjust to the fact that I cannot. do everything my self. When I got married my brother who was to drive me to the wedding, over slept.my sister said she was going to phone for a taxi, we had to use call boxes back in the day, she came back with the local butcher ,he must have brought us luck as we have been married 52 years. So to try to lessen the stress except that things may not go as planned but you will have a great day whatever.🍀😊🥂

  • @robertthomas7176
    @robertthomas7176 4 месяца назад +1

    People love you two, worldwide, so when you go to radio silence people tend to assume the worst. Sending best wishes from Nova Scotia as you both go trundle thru the whirlwinds that life brings.

  • @Syntdea
    @Syntdea 4 месяца назад +2

    Your feelings are valid.

  • @moonshine7869
    @moonshine7869 4 месяца назад +1

    I over worry all the time..about stupid none important stuff ect!! Bit glad your both OK and have a good wedding shaun a s Colin x

  • @wadethweattphotography6385
    @wadethweattphotography6385 4 месяца назад +2

    You guys take care of each other! We will be here when you get back in the swing of things! I have been following you both since the canal days. See ya soon when the wedding is done and you are back on here! Take some time for you and Shawn.. We will be here when you get back after the wedding!

  • @lesleyreynolds3910
    @lesleyreynolds3910 4 месяца назад +11

    Phew thought one of you was pregnant 😂

  • @philtremble4750
    @philtremble4750 4 месяца назад

    You boys do what you need to do. You have a lot going on, we will all still be here when you get done with the wedding and everything. congrats to you both and get healthy and sorted.

  • @mars2100
    @mars2100 4 месяца назад +3

    I understand what you mean, overthinking , been there, nobody can say well just don't. If only life was that easy.

  • @alienfrommarss
    @alienfrommarss 4 месяца назад +1

    Vlogs, live streaming, shorts, any are well received by us fans, and are appreciated no matter what you post! Grats on your upcoming wedding!! 🎉🎉🎉❤😊

  • @conradc9298
    @conradc9298 4 месяца назад +1

    Thanks for the update Colin and glad to hear that you and Shaun and the rest of the residents are all as fine as can be expected. I look forward to seeing what you choose to share from the wedding in due course. Please take it for granted that I have offered you lots of well intentioned but actually meaningless platitudes about looking after yourself, that everything will go fine, and so on.

  • @DaveandDebbieB
    @DaveandDebbieB 4 месяца назад

    Thanks for the vlog. Looking forward to more updates from our Guests from afar package when you are ready. In the meantime, take care. We'll be watching the live when it comes up tomorrow or Sunday.

  • @JohnfromEngland
    @JohnfromEngland 4 месяца назад +1

    Well surly it’s nice to know that you are missed and that we care about you because you become an extension of everyone’s family

  • @paulatyler8218
    @paulatyler8218 4 месяца назад +4

    I understand the stress but please keep it in perspective. Several mths of planning, stress and arguments, then in 4 hrs the wedding is over. Living life begins again. Stay present and stop being so hard on yourselves, you got this!

    • @FoxesAfloat
      @FoxesAfloat  4 месяца назад +1

      Unfortunately, the mind doesn’t take notice of being told what to do or think 😘

    • @DeborahSellars-ut3wo
      @DeborahSellars-ut3wo 4 месяца назад

      It'll all come right in the wash trust me whatever happens good or not exactly what you'd planned will become part of a memorable day you'll love and laugh about in the future. ❤

  • @annbuckle5880
    @annbuckle5880 4 месяца назад +1

    I admit ours years ago was basic had the dresses made by a aunt, we did our own food had my uncles cars it all went along nicely plus a work friend did the photos. I thinks funerals are more stressful as nobody knows how many are turning up and food goes to waste. The wedding is going to be beautiful😊

  • @DecoyDrone
    @DecoyDrone 4 месяца назад +2

    Air Traffic Control phase of wedding planning :D ... The day is going to be wonderful, I hope you both enjoy it!

  • @itsdeanya
    @itsdeanya 4 месяца назад +6

    My enduring wedding gift to you is to not offer you any advice whatsoever. I'm confident that you two know your own lives better than a few random toobers. Looking forward to spying in on your special day!

  • @lobstercrepe
    @lobstercrepe 4 месяца назад +1

    Happy birthday to you, my fellow Leo! And a blessed wedding time 🎉 ❤ - Frances (Los Angeles)

  • @douglasyoung7166
    @douglasyoung7166 4 месяца назад

    Most of us know you well enough to worry. Being over stressed cause you to have a melt down. Your doing absolutely wonderful. We're looking forward to meeting you both. Hopefully we will meet a few of all of our cruising friends as well. See you soon.

  • @nigetrucking3363
    @nigetrucking3363 4 месяца назад +1

    I wish you both all the best have a great day

  • @solarlifeportugal657
    @solarlifeportugal657 4 месяца назад +1

    You guys being the funny, warm, wacky people you are is all that any of the guests want - it is going to be brilliant even if it starts raining frogs 😂

  • @live2skide1
    @live2skide1 4 месяца назад +1

    I am awake at 3 am sometimes, overthinking () then useless during the day!

  • @jeanwhite2236
    @jeanwhite2236 4 месяца назад

    ❤ so pleased love watching you both.

  • @stevecrombie5357
    @stevecrombie5357 4 месяца назад +4

    Hang in there Colin. One of my problems is I look down and I see I'm pole vaulting over mouse turds. 🙏

  • @chriscohlmeyer4735
    @chriscohlmeyer4735 4 месяца назад +3

    Aahh yes, the joys of a nerurodivergent brain stuck in overdrive. As a teen and young adult I lived by the motto dead by 20 then changed to 30, somehow I survived childhood then I met my to be wife and her parents... this living thing could be ok. The wife used to worry a lot so I had to be the one to deflect and redirect her - I learned that 99% of what I worried about most likely will never happen and if something does happen we can work our way around it and often we would get a good chuckle out of it. Sometimes those weird things that happen turn out for the better. I was in my 60's when my as many call it these days AuDHD was identified. Keep on keeping on... and if you don't post for a while I figure that you just have too many spinning plates that you're holding up and can't manage one more to post to here.

  • @kathyfollett9776
    @kathyfollett9776 4 месяца назад +1

    Love to you both ❤

  • @jlunan
    @jlunan 4 месяца назад +1

    Colin I was the same with my hip,having to have x-rays,MRI,s then thank god an arthrogram and they finally found the problems

  • @anthonycooper5877
    @anthonycooper5877 4 месяца назад

    Hope you both OK always great to watch you and Sean xx

  • @jennifersherwood9538
    @jennifersherwood9538 4 месяца назад +3

    Great vlog, it must get annoying with all the comments you get when you don't do a vlog but it just shows how much people care about you both. You will always have your true Foxes Fans.

  • @lizwhitehead9171
    @lizwhitehead9171 4 месяца назад

    We had our wedding last July so can totally sympathise with you in relation to the overthinking and worrying. Luckily it went well, apart from the wet and windy weather 😆
    Thankyou for the update Colin. Rest assured all will be well, you are marrying the love of your life ❤ just remember to sit back and enjoy the day , it goes so quick xx Looking forward to seeing the photos xx

  • @UrsulaTevis
    @UrsulaTevis 4 месяца назад

    I just figured you were both busy with the wedding and everyday life. Take care of yourselves. Can not wait for the boat build and get back when you can. Have a wonderful wedding!

  • @kazzjacques8603
    @kazzjacques8603 4 месяца назад +2

    ‘Colin’ and ‘Shaun’ you will both thoroughly enjoy your ‘Wedding Day’ You love each other so much,nothing else matters but your ‘Happiness’……xx

  • @amandashaw9277
    @amandashaw9277 4 месяца назад +1

    Hope for the best plan for the worst with the weather,but what will be will be and that will be a lovely day

  • @cweenmjory6358
    @cweenmjory6358 4 месяца назад

    You just keep on being you. Love ya. 💖💖💖💖

  • @bren106
    @bren106 4 месяца назад +1

    The only thing I wake up in the night worrying about is whether I can get to the can before I piss myself. That's probably due to me being as aware and sensitive about stuff as a lump of rock though.

  • @dianespears6057
    @dianespears6057 4 месяца назад

    Best wishes. Enjoy.

  • @stevebriggs6469
    @stevebriggs6469 4 месяца назад +1

    Love you guys! There's magic in the entropy ;)

  • @ericrabinowitz2920
    @ericrabinowitz2920 4 месяца назад +1

    Having been involved in the planing of my own wedding and that of 3 of my children, I can report that on the day something will go wrong. In most cases how I reacted was far more important than what happened. Also remember perfection is the enemy of excellence. I hope you have a wonderful day! :)

  • @kaymoore
    @kaymoore 4 месяца назад

    Please get your pain sorted ,Good luck with the wedding ,

    • @FoxesAfloat
      @FoxesAfloat  4 месяца назад

      Believe me. I’ve tried - for over two years!

  • @deborahingles9392
    @deborahingles9392 4 месяца назад

    Glad to hear that all is good at the Foxes Croft and luv to all 🥰🥰🥰 And yep Weddings are events that we get ourselves involved in naively as they take us to a new level of complete and thoroughly truly fully mind blowing aspects that lead us to brilliantly planned and wonderful memories that last a lifetime - enjoy the mishmash of feelings and have a wonderful gobsmacking time 😍 Catch you and Shaun on the other side ..... Ps pain is a bugger and I do hope you get to the bottom of the issues cheers Debz from Oz

  • @zimtheinvader3906
    @zimtheinvader3906 4 месяца назад

    Life happens and you roll with it. You know what you want and it takes time. What your going through is what everyone goes through as the clock ticks down. No matter what happens everything will work out. Any issues that come up, years from now you will look back on this and laugh. Don't sweat the small stuff. Crap happens. Thanks for updating us on your updating us on the wedding. Congratulations!!!!

    • @FoxesAfloat
      @FoxesAfloat  4 месяца назад

      I’m sorry you don’t understand, but thank you for the good wishes ❤️

  • @jacquelineotis4322
    @jacquelineotis4322 4 месяца назад

    You are just being you,the wedding will be great.❤❤❤

  • @debbiegetscrafty
    @debbiegetscrafty 4 месяца назад +3

    I'm sure my opinion won't matter too much, but please just remember, the wedding is one day. It's the marriage that's forever. May the rest of your lives be the best of your lives. You both make my heart smile, and I wish you the very best of all that life has to offer. Have a great day! 💖