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If people gossip TO you about someone else, they'll gossip to someone else ABOUT you. One of the life lessons I've learned.
Exactly! People think it’s because they did something that this person would gossip about them, but the truth is that it’s from that person’s character.
So true
Some bullies are direct and obvious, others are more dangerously subtle and leeching into your soul.
I felt that before. Got bullied during my high school year. No friends , depressed but I managed to graduate alone. I don't even need friends to help me. I'm the lone ranger
most people aren't compatible, i find it easier to have guys as friends..less drama and they talk about better things and don't judge as much
Same here I got bullied really bad all the way threw high school it fucked me up bad . I was brought up by my dad so I did not know how to style my hair right and had to teach myself how to use makeup. There was one guy who had a crush on me but I never got with him because he was more popular then me and I worried if we broke up my bullying would get worst. I have had one side friends where it's been me putting in all the effort and they don't give a shit. I have now stop trying to make friends because I always get let down and they are not real friends.
@𝘼𝙣𝙞𝙩𝙖 𝙆 yep me too, high school is meant to be a time when you learn and your confidence grows but a lot of these girls with attitudes (bullies) just waste it for others.
I was bullied too. When I was in middle school, it was hard time for me. Kids on the bus would blow “spit balls” in my hair, and one day someone put gum in my hair. They snuck up behind me and did it and I unknowingly walked around school all day like that, and nobody told me, including my best friend at the time.
I was a shy kid, and on top of that, my parents were going through their divorce. I ended up staying back because my grades suffered. I remember coming home and hyperventilating crying, and told my older sister what was going on. She took my bus and they never bothered me again.
As I write this, all these years later, tears are streaming down my face. I guess some inner child work is needed!🙃
I would have cake with a cannon of spit balls and gum and threw it all down their throats
I feel you...I was also bullied in school..mostly by the guys ..they would push me, hit me, steal my stuff throw my stuff around classroom..hide my backpack spit on me and similar stuff...I was also called by names...such as stupid, idiot, ugly ....and they bullied me beacuse I was different from others...I was shy and they also bullied me beacuse I listened to Kpop and trained jiu jitsu..what's bad about that??
I can't believe you never told your parents about the bulling you recieved one of your parents should have been their for you!
@@priestessmikokikyo77
For me, I didn’t have a close relationship with my parents, so I didn’t feel like I could talk to them.
@@Ivonahi know your comment was two years ago but you are absolutely beautiful 💗
I wasn't bullied in high school, I was ignored!!! I was invisible and the few girls that I tried to talk to refused to even give me the time of day.
same happened to me, i cant understand it hurts
I'm sorry. You didn't deserve to feel that way. Those people have pathetic lives
It is a form of bullying @@DIAMONDSSSZZ
no one deserves to be bullied :(( imean i live my highschool life w/o problems, you truly deserve what you have right now ily🖤
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What if this person did something terribly bad?
@@justinjoe2749 nobody deserves bullying even tho a person that bullied other kids alot. People change! Theres always time to change :)
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No one really makes it out of high school "without problems". Everyone's situation is different but there's always moments where kids cross paths with people who treat them unfairly or disrespectful for no reason.
Fist fights in schools don't occur among teens becuase everyone likes them.
Bullying can ruin someone's days.
I still remember being bullied during middle school years and how that made me feel upset and frustrated, but I had to deal with it and not letting it affecting me.
I really don't know how possibly can bullying be stopped.
I am so thankful that I never experienced this in school. I definitely witnessed it though. I will never forget in elementary school people teasing one girl because her mother was dead. They would say to her “our moms are taking us for ice cream is your mom? No she’s dead.” Still makes me sick. I think that really shaped the person I became. No one deserves that kind of treatment.
Oh my gosh it's really crazy how low people can stoop
That's disgusting, I hope the girl is ok
I had most of my bullying done in elementary school because I was shy, wore thick glasses and read a lot (why is reading bad?!) and I literally moved schools it got so bad. I think it definitely shaped how I make friends to this day. I'm very hesitant and don't open up to many people. But I'm a great friend once I do open up. I'd rather have 1 best friend who would lay down their life for you than 100 just "friends" who aren't even really your friends because why waste your time?
Bullies don't need a reason. As a kid, reading, studying, and getting good grades makes you a dork and nerd in their eyes🙄.
But then again, being a steriotypical pretty teen girl who wears make up, short dresses,
Makes them a "slut" in other people's eyes and they get picked on for that too.
Wow that's literally my experience..I was also bullied a lot during elementary school
I was never really bullied at all until I was 30! Had a horrible experience at a job where adult women, especially one did not like me for some reason and made my life miserable. It was that job that gave me the courage to quit that profession that wasn't for me, go on my own and become self employed. It's going amazing. Those low points can sometimes get us to where we need to be!
Sometimes good things fall apart so better things can come together 🤷🏽♀️
Amazing!
I’m so sorry 💔
@Alexandra R
That's unfortunate and shameful. Nothing worse or attractive an adult bully.
I know this experience. Often it's the ones who are older or younger than you.
I was bullied and talked about in ementary school middle school and high school, sometimes about boys, sometimes about my clothes, sometimes about how I look and being "ugly" and also for having a whole in my backpack. Even for having only one "friend" in middle school. She told other kids I followed her around when she knew she was my only friend in that school. It was rough. I used to sit by myself at lunch many days. I'm turning 20 in a few weeks now. I hope the rest of my life works out ok.
Can next story time be about your modeling days ? ❤
yeees
pleeease
Yes, please!
Errrr lol I feel like they were kinda boring tbh lol
@@ReneeAmberg we really want to hear about the experience 🥺🥺🥺😂
I feel like almost everyone has been bullied at some point in their life.
I agree
hmm, not sure about that, i went to school on a scottish island and there was only 14 people in our school house, and there was no bullying
Not me
Very true!
Not really me because I always fought back. Anyone who had something say, or felt that their opinion mattered to me, got popped in the face with my fist lmao ik I sound harsh but that's what happened because people are trashy 😂😂😂
this is terrible, im so sorry you went through that Renee!! i was bullied all throughout middle school because i was doing youtube. it was so bad, almost my entire grade would constantly mock and bully me and even people who i had no idea who they were, middle school was miserable. people can be so cruel.
Oh sweetheart I’m so sorry to hear you were bullied in your high school days. How could anybody bully you you are one of the kindest souls ever❤️❤️❤️✨, you deserve friends not bullies. I was bullied back in school because of my autism!
For me it was college that sucked. I just couldn't connect to anybody. No matter how nice and friendly I was, people just didn't seem interested in me as a friend. Never got asked out on a date either. I ate lunch alone everyday for most of those four years. It was so lonely and depressing. Made me miss high school so much.
Literally my school life, ate lunch alone, studied alone, played alone
Me too
Hello friends can I help you all?
“Definitions belong to the definers, not the defined.”
― Toni Morrison, Beloved
Everyone has a story. Thank you for sharing yours. I was bullied all throughout high school by my ex boyfriend and the entire football team. Kinda stupid but definitely traumatizing
Everyone really does have a story. All the people we pass by and don’t give a second though to , have a whole universe of inner emotion and its so interesting to think about! Lol
Thats just bullshit not everybody has a story. I know plenty of people who never got bullied and had the best time of their life in school so cut the crap please
Nobody should be getting bullied:( it's so sad:(
Thank you for making this video. So many people tell me that school was so amazing and they made friends for life, it was such a peaceful time etc etc and for me it was just awful. Kids were just mean and ruthless, especially girls. They would bully you and turn on you just for the hell of it. And you can't escape that like you would in your adult life because it's school, it's practically your life then and teachers keep telling you to just "get along". I also think parents underestimate just how much of an impact it has on a kid, mine always told me to just "ignore it"... But I can't just ignore something if I go through it 7h a day 5 days a week. Years later a girl that would bully me got on the same bus as me and I literally got a stomach ache even though I'm a grown ass woman. Good news is you grow up, you can choose who you want in your life and people just mature and change. But I would be scared to send my kid to school...
Omg I'm so sorry to hear that 🥺
@@repent. thank you😘 it's all ok now☺
@@martynka808 Glad you are okay now😊 I never been bullied but I got picked on once some random kid in 4th grade knuckled on my head
I was bullied relentlessly in middle school but was also popular at the same time, so it was a very weird situation. Come high school I wasn't bullied anymore fortunately, I was still one of the "popular" kids and had many different friend groups, yet was still very lonely. It seemed like people only wanted to talk to me during school, but as soon any breaks came or things outside of school no one talked to me lol, therefore resulting in me turning to social media. This was like 6 years ago too when it wasn't as big as it is today, and having online friends was pretty uncommon. Glad I made it out though, I hated every second of it. Thank you for sharing your story x
I’m sorry to hear you were bullied before Renee, it’s happened a lot to me too in the past!! That’s a reflection of them, not you 💛
“To err is human, to forgive, divine.”
― Alexander Pope
100%
I had an incident in high schoool where a girl asked a pretty family/personal question out loud in high school. I got pretty upset and I left the lunch room and got into the bathroom. I started to disassociate my self from her. I would not say hi to hi her at all when she would say hi to her. I started to become the "bad guy" and people disliked me for ignoring her. I feel like that happened because she is seen as a nice girl to everyone even though I can see right through her (I hate people like this). How could she ask a question like that out loud in public? I don't really know what to make of the situation. All I did was stop talking to her altogether even if people were hating that. I learned that you should be doing what's best for yourself no matter what people say.
Same...I learnt to forgive them all and I feel so much happier and stronger ❤️
This is so crazy I had all very similar situations growing up. I started getting bullied in 2nd grade and it went clear through high school. I’ve always felt so alone in the world. And it all contributed to my social and emotional problems today. Thank you so much for sharing ❤️
Same. I started getting bullied in elementary school and it continued all the way through high school
Thank you for uploading this 💛 I relate. I’ve been bullied since 2 days ago at work. One time, during lunch, the guy was saying mean things about me that everyone in the office could hear. I couldn’t take it. I can’t unhear it. Mind you, i’m a new girl there. I felt like crying, but i held it in. I felt like my pride was cracked. After talking about it with friends at work, it helped me understand the situation more. Bc of this, i’m choosing to show up in life to be myself more with compassion.
honestly, GO TO THOSE REUNIONS!! Show them how happy you are now :)
As time goes on and the older I got, the more I demanded good friends. If I did not have good friends, I would stay by myself until I found people that treated me right.
This is a good point to which i'm adding that quality is far better than quantity 😊
I’m so sorry you went through this. Being bullied is not fun. I can relate because I was bullied from 3rd grade all the way up through high school. I started a new school in 5th grade and the girls in my class were extremely catty and so I experienced a lot of ostracism. I tried to be nice and to be friends with them but they would just basically dismiss me. 6th grade wasn’t too bad except for maybe some mild teasing from boys but 7th grade was the absolute worst year for me. I had this one girl pick on me throughout the whole school year. She used to spit on me, throw paint on me in art class, and would just basically try to set me up in order to get me into trouble. It was so bad that I used to go down to the nurse’s office every day pretending to be sick so I could try to get out of school to go home. I changed schools in the middle of 8th grade because the bullying got so bad. High school wasn’t much better. I just didn’t really connect with anybody and on top of that I was tortured by my aunt for 5 years all throughout high school and my first year of college. I have had issues with depression and self esteem because of all of this but I am working through these issues and getting better little by little. I know this is long but keep your head up and continue to be confident and happy. Stay safe and have a Happy Thanksgiving. 🦃💞
i am a woman too but my mother helped with my bulling problem she went with the teacher and confronted the bully and she said to her " i am not blaming you but if you dare hurt my child again there will be severe consequences levee my child ALONE! " and it immediately stopped! Thank you MOM your the best!
So, as a man who is now 27, my high school exp. was interesting to say the least. Or not, depending on how you look at it. Made friends who were more or less outcasts so to speak. That being said, I had deep down wanted to be popular so bad( I have matured a whole damn lot since then ). To the point where I did t appreciate the friends I did have. Come junior year, I made friends with some “ popular” kids yet I still wasn’t considered “ in “. Eventually come, senior year, I cut off all ties with everyone and had no friends for the rest of high school. It was a little miserable but I feel like it gave me a new beginning. I was never really bullied so to speak in high school. I think I had a don’t fuck with me exterior that people were afraid of and respected. I wish I had made better friends and more genuine friends at that time regardless of “ popularity”. Mind you , this was from 2007 to 2011 lol. A loooooong time ago. Now I can say I am one strong motherfucker and am comfortable with talking to strangers at a bar or where ever. Back then, not so much. Just writing this so that any youngins’ whether boy or girl knows that it does get better as long as you put in a little bit of effort. Much love, be well.
Thanks for sharing this Renee! I was bullied soo much in middle school and part of high school. this huge group of older girls would call me names, without a doubt, every time they saw me. It’s hard to be hanging out with your friends and this group of girls constantly screams things across the halls and your friends are so confused. It was all over a boy but lasted for years. So shitty. But being almost 25 now, I can say this was so long ago and things do get better.
It’s always the beautiful ones that get bullied.
this story is so relatable to me rn. a rumour was spread about some private drama, my friends turned on me and got these random kids involved who are threatening me and picking on me for attention. it's friday night and i am already worried for monday because i can't deal with this school and these fake ass friends.
I’ve been watching your videos for about a while Renee and I really enjoy your content that you post, I hope you have a safe and healthy 2020! I was bullied in HS numerous times and it’s unfortunate on all levels. I’m sorry you went through that *sending a virtual hug* !
The amount of accuracy through this video - the end hit so hard I would always try to people please including trying to be the “bigger person”
I don’t understand why people do this like deep down if one person out of all thinks like this how do 1000 other kids not … it doesn’t make sense to me like how
YOOO 7 billion of us can relate!!! Literally everyone has been bullied!
Wow! I literally feel you on a spiritual level lol. I had a terrible terrible high school experience and went through a lot things very similar to your situation. I stuggle with anxiety now and I know the majority of my anxiety issues stem from childhood and my teenage years. I’ve watched your videos for the past year or so because I really admire your viewpoints and energy that you exude so much!! I 100% would’ve been your friend in high school😋
I am so proud of you to share this with us. I have had one experience where someone tried to manipulate and gaslight me just to make me cry on phone. And when I cried on call, they felt like their goal is achieved. At that moment i had no confidence because i was crying hard. However now, i am working hard on myself and will never let anyone even raise their voice at me. I have learnt that some people want to see you suffer. SO, JUST AVOID THEM AND LIVE YOUR LIVE HAPPILY BECAUSE YOU ARE AMAZING. THESE TOXIC PEOPLE DO NOT DESERVE YOUR ATTENTION. PERIOD.
You should go to your high school reunion and flex on them
I am so thankful you chose to share this. I was also bullied in high school with a similar situation and I’ve never really talked about it because people tell me that “it’s high school. Get over it” because they claim every person goes through this, but you’ve made me realize that my struggles are unique and I am who I am today due to my struggles. Thank you for making me feel heard and for being so brave. Love you always!
Thank you for sharing your story Renee. I hope that those people that bullied you watch this video so they can understand and learn from it. Who knows, maybe they have kids of their own now, and will help their own kids if they're being bullied. Sometimes, karma has a way of getting even with those that did/do bad to others. Hope that makes sense.
Thanks for sharing Renee. I’m glad your story has a happy ending. You are a beautiful person for growing from this!
Enjoy your time with noah. In India, today is teachers day. Thank you for teaching many things renee..🤗😘
Thats so cool!
In forth grade, i used to be very spunky and had a unique personality and then my best friend made a new best friend and left me alone. As a forth grader it damaged my self confidence so much. I started to think i was a boring person and couldn't have relationships with people. I still have major trust issues at 19 and I can't let people in my life because I am afraid they will reject me or think I am boring. That one pedy incident ruined my life. I hadn't had a friend since and I sometimes have problems even talking with my family. Its gotten worst. I pray that in the future, I will find peace and love in mylife😇🥲
Same here
Hey Renee, I just wanted to say thank you for sharing that story… Thanks for your honesty about everything, and I know that could not have been easy. I’m sorry that you had to go through that ....there are really some abusive And narcissistic people in the world… And it truly says more about them and the environment that they were raised in than it does about you… 💖😉 … Anyway love your channel! Thanks for being REAL...🥰
I had a rough 4 years in high school, I lost 3 friends in my class the last 2 years of hs, and one of them being my very best friend. I learned that I had anxiety and depression and went on a medication that turned me into someone I wasn't, it destroyed me. High school was some of the hardest years of my life but looking back I know that if I didn't go through that stuff I wouldn't be who I am today. So if you are having a hard time during hs seriously know that it gets better, this won't last forever. You are not alone!
Renee I had a very similar experience in middle school. it scarred me for life lol. but i find that people see a light in people like us that they do not have in themselves and it makes them jealous/ scared of our potential so they try to knock us down. We chose love and not fear ❤️❤️❤️
I'm sorry that you experienced that. It is an extremely painful thing to go through. But look at you now! :) I had something similar happen to me during my school years. It started in middle school due to a so-called friend, and she turned so many people against me. One morning after my Mom dropped me off at middle school (and after my Mom had driven away), a very large crowd of kids - my former "friend" included - approached me and they were all shouting "We hate you. . .We hate you. . .", and my former "friend" handed me a "petition" with over 100 signatures of fellow classmates who had signed it stating that they hated me. It just continued to grow from there, and it followed me to high school. It reached a point that was so bad and even dangerous that my parents had to go before the School Board and petition them to allow me to transfer to a different high school for my Junior and Senior years. Going to a different high school turned out to be the BEST thing ever. My last two years of high school were AWESOME. It was such an AMAZING feeling to be able to walk down the school hallways and go to class without fear or worry for my safety, and I made SO MANY friends at the new high school. That was the late 80s, and I rarely think of it. However, I will say that I am extremely sensitive to acceptance and approval of others, and looking back, I am sure that being bullied in school is the reason.
Hi Renee, thank you for sharing your story; your reflections and thoughts on this channel help me a lot. My childhood and schooling experience defines my mental health because of the alienation and emotional bullying I suffered. I started college this week, wanting it to be a brand new start. I have learned so much this year and now I feel like I can move on and be myself. In fact I was reunited with my best friend from five years ago (I thought about the possibility of it happening but it was super unlikely) and at first I was unsure how to approach her and what to say, since many things had happened since we separated and I credit her for genuinely saving my life. She doesn’t know how much she means to me, but in short she came along when my other friend had abadoned me for other people without a word. The one year I spent with her was better than the seven I’d spent with my “bully” and to see her again was unbelievable. It wasn’t like me to just grit my teeth and go up to her to say hi, as I got some social anxiety from my past, but I’m so glad I did. 10-year-old me would be so happy if she saw where I am today, and it goes to show that you can climb back up from rock bottom, and there are always better times ahead. It will get better, trust me. ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you for sharing your story. I too was bullied. All 12 years of school, and never made it to college. Thinking it was over after high school, and it has continued as an adult. Ended up sharing my story over a reunion group page, and got some apologies from it. Just this summer. I’ve had anxiety and worried thoughts my entire life. I do see a therapist for it. I’m so grateful I found someone on RUclips I can relate to.
If I am half a kind-hearted person you are, I would be happy. Thanks for sharing your story!!
it didn’t let you define you and I AM PROUD OF YOU! you are amazing Renee!! xoxo
I've been teased at school and it could have easily escalated, but my mindset was to not care about what random classmates thought of me, as they play no part in my life.
I had this really bad experience in high school (it was 7th or 8th grade). I had a few friends, but in one of my classes they just weren't with me, I basically knew nobody in that class. So some boys decided I was an easy victim for them and started bullying me. Before the class or on the hallways they called "I want a child from you" and other stuff and it was just so humiliating. The teacher of that class knew, but she did nothing. I told my mom, and all she did was to tell me to ignore it. Thanks mom, like I didn't figure that out myself.
This took a huge hit on my self-perception and it still affects me. Back then I was not very attractive, but until they started bullying me, I didn't really care or notice that. Thankfully, puberty did it's thing for me and I love the way I look today. But in all honesty, this whole thing still affects how I look at myself and others.
Today, I know that looks are not everything and that there is so much more to me than what I look like (heck, I'm a freaking physicist!). But back then I had no idea who I was and what my strengths were. The fact that I was bullied for my looks was all that defined me.
Awww I love this video, I was bullied too during the Myspace era...but I was bullied in middle school too and then we used Xanga (anyone remember?). Girls were so mean! I have been using Betterhep for over a month now and it's been so helpful
Xanga is a maaaajor throwback! MySpace top friends always caused drama. I met my now husband in an AIM chat room in 2007 though 😂
As I was watching this video I was thinking, "I'm so glad we didn't have Facebook when I was in middle/high school." I forgot about all the other online platforms we had. 😂
I got bullied in middle school I got harassed every day. I still have nightmares where I am back in school. High school was good tho. I moved to another part of the country with my dad and got new friends.
I wish you the very best, try to leave all these bad experiences behind you.
My wish is that good,fair people win against the wicked,evil ones,and that does include the devil worshipers,bullies. I had enough of being bullied by these kind. I need the girls,i need love,i need happiness…….i need respect.
I hope peace and happinness for you my friend,dont give up my friend,have a nice day
I saw your bullying story on your channel...I am also going through this thing at my high school at this time...Felt motivated by listening to your story I hope everything will be fine after some time
Thanks for being genuine and sharing your story!
Takes allot to be so open on cam, really appricate you making this video ❤
I'm so sorry to hear that you were bullied like that. I really hope that the got their comeuppance in the end.
Looking back, I was lucky at school through having an older sister to look after me. I remember a boy who kept on sneaking up behind all the girls who had pony tails and pulling their hair. He never seemed to back down no matter what we did. I told my older sister about him and the first thing she said to me was "you should knee him in the balls, that will stop him". I'd never thought of that. In fact I'm not sure I even knew what balls were at that stage!
After she'd told me more and showed me how to do it I still didn't feel brave enough. I did share her tip will all the other girls though, so I knew it would only be a matter of time before one of us fought back. It didn't take long. He'd followed me home and sneaked up behind me with some other boys and then he pulled my hair really hard. It turned out that my older sister had followed me and saw what he did and she calmly walked up to him and I saw the look of terror on his face as she kneed him really hard in the balls!! He dropped like a sack of potatoes 😂
It was so funny seeing the look of panic and fear on all the boys faces, yet somehow all the girls seemed to be happy about it. It was if the balance of power was totally in our favour after seeing the effect a swift knee to the family jewels had on a boy. He was howling in agony "my balls, she got my balls, my balls..." holding on to his testicles like his life depended on them, and I heard he didn't get up for about 10 minutes afterwards. I felt it served him right though.
He never ever messed around with any other girls after that! 😂
Renee your friend-bully felt so crushed when you guys called her out. Learning self responsibility is so hard and many adults still haven’t learned how to own their mistakes and behavior. If she had the wisdom she would’ve known that if she had just admitted to you guys that she loves drama but that she is working on this bad habit... you all probably could’ve moved on and stayed friends. Unfortunately when you’re young, that never seems like an option... you just want to defend yourself endlessly. If you’re in high school and you’re reading this and going through some bullying, I was bullied too. It’s so common and always tough. It really does end the second you graduate. Keep pushing and if you feel you have no one to talk to, make friends with your teachers and I recommend trying to take art classes if you’re not into sports. It helps a lot.
Thanks so much for sharing! Was kinda nervous about commenting, but this topic is extra important to me and I loved hearing how you got through your experience. I was bullied in elementary school and thought no one understood what was going on. I felt that same exact way with knowing we were all kids and it helped me put all that in the past, but I’ve always wondered about other people going through that, as well. It’s good to hear that conversations are being started about these things so everyone can know they have support and can get advice when they need it. Love your vlogs btw! 💙💙💙
The beginning of your story is very similar to what my experience was as well, and I've gone through friend phases throughout all the years since high school too. It is really isolating, and reflecting on this has made me realize that no wonder I'm so messed up and depressed a lot of the time now! Haha
Here's the best advice a middle aged guy and a combat veteran can give to someone being bullied. The only thing all bullies understand is a massive overwhelming response from the person being bullied. Hopefully, the response only has to be verbal. If you're getting bullied, do not hold back. Go nuclear on the bully and go nuclear hard and fast. You'll feel better you did. Never take counsel of your fears. Audacity is your ally and God is your co-pilot. You'll come out okay. How could anyone bully a beautiful girl like you, Renee...Peace.
I did the free trial before committing to paying which is kinda pricey. The therapist I got matched with was not responsive and I felt like I was bothering her instead. Unfortunately I did not have a good experience with betterhelp..
Look how far you’ve come your so pretty in the inside and out your a survivor and winner! 👑🐬💪
I love you renee❤️❤️. You are such an inspiration. ❤️ And such a pure soul i love you so much girl. God bless you❤️❤️❤️
I remember at some point in high school I came to realization that NONE of that shit was going to matter after we graduated and from then on I didn’t give a fuck about the bullshit
It’s because you’re beautiful. Jealousy
Look at you!!! Tables had turns #blessed
Love the message towards the end 💕
I was bullied my whole life. I maybe want to do a bullying story video in a couple of years.
You are the strongest person and I look up to you ❤🧡💓
I was bullied in high school . It ruined my high school experience, then a few years later she tried to be friends with me on Facebook I accepted her apology but I told her that I didn't want to be friends with her .
Those bullies can be pieces of shit but you get the last laugh being financially stable ;)
+ReneeAmberg: Towards the end of your last VLOG, you said that you didn't know what you were going to do after a certain point in September with your content. THIS video is so intriguing, I and others want you to do more! This works! It's like story time in a way!
I had a similar school experience except I didn’t go to college. Bullying and pettiness and just childish behavior. And I was definitely a bully in middle school but then I high school it flipped and I became bullied. High school was the actual worst years in my life.
This comment will probably get lost in the comment section. But for those of you in school or anywhere and your getting bullied by a bunch of people. Know that they hate each other as well deep inside. They talk behind each other’s backs and it never ends. To you they might seem like a bunch of friends. But know they most of the time talk behind each other’s backs as well
Aww this is so sad I’m so sorry you went through that take care beautiful ❤️
I was bullied mostly because of being poor, too thin, and having the voice of a boy, even older kids commented that I was the one who 'sounded like a man', which is seriously annoying. I don't have this problem anymore, thank God.
I guess I had already developed the voice of a woman, but to those kids, it sounded like a man. I felt ashamed of my looks (because of dark circles). I also felt ashamed of my voice. After school, it took decades to overcome.
Thank you for being such a great person and thank you for nice videos 😍
it's hard to believe you were bullied, they usually bully fat or visibly different kids
I was bullied too in school it Sucks! I’m so sorry you were bullied in school! Glad you have better friends now I have better friends now too!
Anyone who bullies you will have to deal with me first
This is off topic but you're really pretty.
i was also bullied in all my school years. but when i reached high school i changed school...but they didn't stop..and i transferred my school to a far place..but they spread false rumours about me.and now also it keeps spreading.now i have my entrance exam coming but i can't study..cuz these things keep coming up....and i cry almost all day alone without anyone seeing me.it's so hard.but when they see they think i am happy
You had overcome, Renee. Just keep moving forward. ❤️
I was bullied by my English teacher and peers. It was painful, but then I realized that once the bell rings I'm done. No more school, no more suffering. ;)
I love your vibe. I am in 7th grade and don't have a lot of friends and I do not get bullied but I'm away getting picked on
High school was so bad for me. I hated it.
I’m getting bullied so much 😞
Thank you for this
This is a really good one Renee... it is true, things that happen in your formative years i.e high school could feel ‘petty’ but they do shape you and how you relate to people in adulthood. I found out that my confidence started going up once I started playing a sport. Being part of a team is a huge confidence booster for girls, sidebar :) Those girls seemed to have been insecure. And the middle school one seemed like she was riding that wave of fake popularity. It is true that it is work to get in with the in crowd and work to stay in and keep up appearances. And what is the ‘in crowd’ anyway?
Good points about 'in crowds'. Who says these groups are popular? And popular with whom? If they're that unpleasant they're probably only popular with themselves and that's usually a much smaller group than you think 😊
Affordable... I get that therapy is just pricey in general but then please don't consider this affordable. It's really not for most people
Karma..... look at all the friends you have now! Says a lot about the person you are. Keep growing! 💗🌼
Long story short, I’ve been picked on for my lack of paying attention in class. Imagine being a sophomore and your being bullied by a senior. Thank god this was a year ago and he’s off to college, while I’m a soon to be senior myself and staying as a virtual student (online class)