VLOG: sunday cleaning & trying to get out of a rut
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The feeling follows you because there’s nobody to change but self. Same with tarot, horoscopes, etc. they aren’t any power, they just reflect what’s already in your mind which you have the power to redirect.
It’s 2020 girl, the vibes are so low, they’re falling off the other side of the planet. Feel what you feel and keep working through it. 😘
I love how open you are with your journey. You’re crushing it xx
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I really appreciate how honest you are with your feelings, I can get so up and down so often and most of the time I don’t really know why so It makes me feel better to see that it’s really not uncommon to get in a funk sometimes! Thank you for always being yourself💖
One of your best videos ever. Your transparency is therapeutic. So many people are playing status games it is constantly refreshing and grounding to watch your channel.
It's the pandemic. I mean, you've been through so much this year and things just are not right. You know? But I think you're doing the right things and taking some really positive steps.
Who also skips the "this is sponsored by" parts of every vlog on RUclips? It became a sport to hit the part exactly where the vlog begins. I do that cause to be honest I never had one advertisement that was eventually a benefit for me. Never purchased anything from an advertisement from a RUclips channel. Most products are impossible for me to get anyway cause I live in another country but I mostly watched English talking people on RUclips. But I always skip the "this is sponsored by" parts. I know the person who is sponsored by a company still earn their money, Ben though I don't watch the information 😁
Same
You can’t force feeling happy and you can’t feel happy all the time,just feel what you feel!
Your videos make me feel like I’m not struggling alone. I think more people than you know struggle with the exact same things and thank you for being bold and sharing. Your videos truly help others!
I love how you are searching for clarity in different ways. Tarot cards, therapy, church. It is amazing! I hope you feel better, Renee :)
I love Renee’s chill vlogginng style 💛💛 she’s a big inspiration for my channel rn
the natural light in your apartment is amazingggg
The rut is real in 2020. I feel it. You feel it. We all feel it. Just keep going and something good will happen!
i’ve been feeling like i’m in a rut too, just so unmotivated and just overall struggling. thank you for sharing with all of us, you inspire us all❤️
Let me know what u did to get out of that rut. I feel that too, and the bad part is I can't figure it out! 😟
Love your motivation to always be a better version of yourself. I’m inspired to do my own analysis of the 7 things you mentioned. Thanks for the tips!
So happy that you have your partner back! I 100% feel the funk. I feel like I’ve found comfort in your videos the past 6 months because mentally things have been tough. & not that I want anyone else to go through this, but you’ve been like the only person I’ve been able to relate too. I’m gonna take your approach and do some journaling and mapping out ways to feel better.
Love that you keep it real & share your struggles.. theres so much strength and resilience in that that we can learn from. Gotta get back to feeling good from within 💕
Thank you for sharing your emotional headspace. I hear you on the “funk” and have been in the same place myself recently. Thank you for being you! Give yourself patience and grace to work through this season... 💕💕
sending you so much love!!! been feeling so down and unmotivated lately too and you + your vlogs make me feel so much better honestly :( you're the older sis i never had!! hope you and noah stay safe always!
you look so fit an healthy, an inspiration to so many, your doing great, we've all had a tough year, and it is very likely you are still processing your grief, and change in environment, love your vlogs, look forward to them every time you upload!
I wish we had more RUclipsrs like you. Appreciate the honesty & always trying to better yourself/mental health. Love your videos. Hope you find what you’re looking for - & find true happiness! 🤍
BTW - were all struggling this year. You are not alone!!
I’ve also been trying to get out of a rut!! Sending lots of love Renee 💛
Same here Renee! You are doing the best you can and that is enough💗. As a therapist, I’m glad you are getting back to therapy. It is so helpful but can take awhile to connect with the right person. One thing that helps me is Super Soul Sunday on OWN. Not sure if you are an Oprah fan but I find these episodes to really lift my mood😊
Thank you for all of these tips. I have such high anxiety. Plus a very poor body weight. And these tips may just be what I need. This has been one really tough year. ❤️
I totally get you and know what you are talking about. I deal with the exact same thing. Love how organized and thoughtful you are in your planning - I need to do more of that!
You’re only human you’ve lost your dad darling, we’ve all been through a pandemic it’s bound to mess with your mindset, just hold on and the clouds will disappear, I think going back to the gym will do you the world of good, baby steps, love you lots keep your chin up xxx
Where here for you Renee we love you❤️❤️❤️ and we love your videos hopefully you will feel better just know you’re my favorite blogger you rock.
I’m just sending u so much LOVE with really big air hugs, beautiful!!! I was in & out of a huge rut when I lost my dad unexpectedly last year & I am still having those moments periodically. I don’t know how you feel, but I pray you continue to be gentle with yourself (if you can) as you are discovering & rediscovering who you are in this season. Proud of you, my Gemini gal!!! 😘😘😘💯
Hi Renee! I really appreciate how open you are with your life, and your mental health, etc. You inspire me a lot and now i wanna try the 7 dementions of wellness, I think its gonna help me to clarify my mind!
I love your vlogging style! Please keep doing that☺️❤️
It seems a lot of people are in a bit of a funk, really... I think the covid situation all over the world isn't helping at all - it seems to have affected so many people in terms of mood, motivation, sense of future and goals... I think all we can do for now is take it one day at a time and see how it goes. So glad you posted when you did :-) xxxx
Thank you for sharing the reality of life, the ups and downs/highs and lows. Hope you can get out and do fun fall things in NYC soon!
we’re here for you Renee, we’ll get through this together 💕
That roadtrip to your hometown would be definitely fun!!
wishing you all the best, you deserve good things
Renee, you're not letting life flow! You're planning everything else and when it doesn't go that way you become upset! If you made that intention to be happy, then you have to truly mean it, and that means that if you're not following a plan and you're just doing things on a whim because that's what the day holds, then you should be happy with that. You can plan as much as you want and sometimes life just won't go according to your plan. That's part of the reason why you have anxiety and you're so stressed out. Let go of making plans, let go of sticking to those plans, you're going to get everything that you want on that list for as long as you can take it easy! Cut yourself some slack and give yourself a break!
I miss your morning and night routine. I am waiting for those videos ❤️ much love .
Your song choices are everything! 💛
Hey girl! I 100% hear you on the “just not happy” feeling. I almost wonder if it has to do with moving and having to find your groove. I have moved a lot over the past 9 years (6x’s for work) and after all the excitement of a new place, new city, new decorations and furniture etc. calms down, you’re kind of stuck with “what do I do now”? “Where do I go?” “What do I do everyday?” I find those feeling pop up more when you work from home (as a lot of us are doing) because you really don’t have to stick to a routine if you don’t want to and you have a lot of free time. I am feeling the same. I don’t have anywhere to go during the day. If I want to stay in sweats all day, I can. It’s just not a good feeling. I have started listening to “Atomic Habits”. I want to believe habits and routine are key. I’m hoping to start a morning routine with activities that make me happy and do them EVERY 👏🏻SINGLE 👏🏻 DAY 👏🏻! Get up, coffee, gratitude, exercise, go for a 20 min walk outside - this is my meditation time (I pick a color and then as I walk, I try to find something in that color or I look for something new to photograph and share with my friends - on social - who don’t live in my city. Etc) breakfast, get ready, then depending on the day it’s either errands, find a new site to see in my new city, learn something new, or cuddle up and read a non-fiction book. Hope you find your routine and peace of mind. Hugs! 🤗
It sounds like you should have a YT channel yourself.
I agree with you April. 👍
I love pic a card videos too! I’ don’t know about you but they are so accurate for me. Do what you feel called to do.. you gotta do what makes you happy! Thanks for opening up about everything.. I have a channel to so it’s nice to hear it come from someone I look up too/vibe with!
I do my own tarot card readings when I need to clarify my thoughts and get some direction I have done this for years it really helps, I journal my readings so I can look back on them. Keep up the good work your doing great. Love from the 🇬🇧 UK always supporting.
I just love how your so genuine and relatable, thank you for sharing how you feel ❤️
Hi Renee, it could be the stages of grief and loss that you are going through right now. You are super self aware and you seem so dedicated to helping yourself, so don't worry - this too shall pass
I've been in a rut and have been having a stressful week as not only am I still waiting for some things in my life to be sorted but my Phone won't charge so I have to get it repaired. Your vlog immediately brightened my mood Renee, much love!
I do tarot not often but some times I sometimes do 3 cards 1 for past 1 for now and 1 for the future or I do a keltic cross that is one that is more broad but the last one I did was soooooo on point ! I just cried ! I right every time down witch cards I draw and what I get out of it love it and know myself beter because of it. Also meditation ! Help me so much I have a app with meditation music and I just sit stil 15 minutes focus on breathing and clearing my mind and just be..... hope it helps you
I am in the same funk but this video helped me! thank you Renee. sending you good vibes
proud of you babe
I love tarot. I pick a few cards every morning to focus on for the day. Also I just downloaded the new Chopra app for meditation (the black and white app icon one). Loving it so much. 💜 take care of yourself. It’s a tough year..
It made me so happy that you mentioned tarot
I feel the same way. The rut feeling is real and it is so hard to deal sometimes. I hope you know you are not alone!
I agree. I've been feeling the same way. It has alot to do with everything going on in the world. When you have your life in alignment and balanced, it tends to make you feel much more motivated. As far as tarot cards, that is divination and it's best not to mess with it. It will open up a spiritual realm that is not of the Lord. Your spiritual growth is so important and affects every aspect of your life. With everything going on in the world, it's critical to choose what you listen to with discernment and wisdom.
Revamping is such a vibe! Perfect for fall! Love your channel!
Her vlogs make feel at ease 😭😭🤗
If you're going back home soon and want to get out in nature, I suggest the Everglades while it's still the wet season. I went down there last month to film "the river of grass" and alligator hatchlings and it was downright therapeutic - really the best time I've had all 2020. lol. I'm sorry you're still experiencing a funk, but be careful not to put too much pressure on yourself to be happy no matter what. It's ok to not feel a sense of happiness 24/7, you're human and don't beat yourself up for feeling some type of way. Your emotions are 100% valid, and it's ok to feel them. Much love from FL!
It’s normal, don’t feel bad about it! It’s the pandemic and everything else that happened to you this year. I love that you keep your content real! buuuuut, I really feel you should focus on getting a job and working with people, it would really change your life. It’s normal to feel the way you feel when working alone at home!
I am starting to like Renee more when she said tarot cards. Go for it gurl. I am coming out of mild anxiety mode and these pick a card readings and tarot cards have helped me stay strong the entire time.I ordered couple of tarot and oracle cards for myself and if you believe in them,they are of immense help ! Also ,if you haven't done already you can try calling psychics too.I spoke to them for 10 minutes a week ,I used all those keen offers (thanks youtubers) and the sessions were more of a therapy feel good session.
I completely feel the same. And you're doing great. There is no wrong or right way to be right now. But I just have come to terms with the fact I can't make any outcome happen faster in the world. So I am busying myself with learning a language (Korean!) and it's giving me a lot of time to focus on getting my head elsewhere. And I'm really enjoying it. While my head is remembering certain letters and sounds I cannot possibly be thinking about elections and vaccines and wildfires that give me anxiety.
I also feel like this, sending good vibes from South Africa 💖💖💖💖
Hi Renee, I feel you and I think some of us have those moments when we feel the funk and we don't know why. I love how you are so honest and so real. I also love your expression when you said "I feel ugh" & stuck out your tongue 👅. You made me laugh, been there. Thank you for that! Love you, and keep the vlogs/videos coming. 💖👍😃😋🙋
I really needed this💗 love the video
I feel you girl. I’ve been struggling with my health and don’t know what it is ugh. Sending you good vibes ✨💫
The main thing is you recognise what’s happening and you are actively looking for concrete life solutions! And for sure, these will help you, But please be patient with yourself. You’ve been through a lot emotionally. Think of this as having a broken leg, if your leg was broken you’d know not to run immediately. You are such an intelligent lady, you got this! But sometimes with mental health we need to accept things and that sometimes makes it easier to deal. Anyways, I hope I’m not sounding preachy, just saying things from personal experience. Big hug! ❤️
Highly recommend the podcast Shrink Chicks if your having a hard time getting into therapy right now. It’s definitely not a replacement for therapy but I have had some great aha moments in addition to therapy.
I think it’s the times man. We are all feeling it! ❤️🙏🏻
Renee I recommend you to watch "anne with an e" althought it is very emotional the main charachter is very bright and also no matter what happens in her life she always finds the brighter side of things. I really liked her view to the world it really helped me to look at the world differently
Just remember we will like anything you do! It doesn’t matter what RUclips says! 💕
I wouldn't be surprised if it's the adapting to the energy of a different human being living with you. Usually a funk is when you're worried that something new (even if temporary) that adds 'pressure' to your life is going to be permanent.
Hey Renee! In terms of your "environment" point, New York has a lot to offer not far outside of the city.
Beaches -
Rockaway beach in Queens is nice. Long Island has beautiful beaches as well - you can take the Long island Railroad from Penn station and get there within the hour
Long island also has a lot of beautiful parks and nature trails you can adventure too. You can also go north of the city and go hiking in the mountains. Bear Mountain is not far from NYC
I've lived in new York my whole life and love it because it offers city life, beach life, and mountain life all in one :) definitely check out these things when you can!
One thing I do for my spirituality that makes me feel so close with people who aren't in my life anymore or passed away, I like to read any books they mentioned or loved. Bonus points if it is their copy of said book. There is some type of magic that stays in the pages and as you read them, turning the pages they turned and reading the words as they did, you can get to a really interesting head space that way. I cry everytime, but some things just hit differently when you read them in that little magic bubble. I have had countless epiphanies while reading this way too. And also I reread Harry Potter, Catch-22, and Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy once a year. Those books all hit harder each time I reread them. Harry Potter especially. I couldn't really appriciate the whole sides of the book until I lost my parent and my other parent turned into a Dursley. Gave me viewpoints on the story I never thought I would see from. And the whole story is about love triumphing over death. Those books always give me a clear head and heart after reading. Anyways just some book witch magic! That is the closest thing I do to spirituality and religion, but damn it is really something.
Hi there! It may be hormonal, it may be that you need more sunlight or maybe you just need a RUclips’s break? Don’t think too much about it and go with the flow. Day by day. We are still living a pandemia. All the love from Spain.
I will literally watch ANYTHING you film.
there is virgo new moon and mars retrograde goin on rn so that might be why you are feeling this way. u are not alone
Renee, I love it that you mentioned Tarot. A friend of mine showed me this channel called Quitest Revolution at one of the difficult moments in my life and that specific reading really resonated with me. I delved into Tarot as a way of clarifying my life path. Carl Jung has a book called the Hero's Journey that ties it all together. Our life is a journey with people, events and surcumstances making sense through visual archetypes. Cards painted that story for me, it can be a tool of solving problems too. I need to start playing with my cards again. Thank you for bringing it up
Correction: Joseph Campbell was the author of The Hero's Journey. His work was deeply influenced by Carl Jung theory that the inner life of the human being is visual. Jung's view was that we process experiences by the flow of energies.
Can't wait for the fall videos😍
I love the black top you had on.
Love that you're getting into tarot! I am too and just bought a deck and some oracle cards!! Please talk about this more (:
love you Renee ❤️
This too shall pass, you’ll be feeling better in no time! 💜
Girl, you need to dance! It's impossible to be in a funk when you're dancing! There are lots of online dance classes right now. I know you have a small space, but push your couch back to the kitchen cabinets, move your coffee table and bust a move! Maybe a couples dance class would be fun for you and Noah? I'm sure you'll feel a boost immediately! xo
It was the “push your couch to the kitchen cabinets” for me 😭💀😭😭😭💀
this is probably super obvious, but are you taking Vitamin D? Since you're inside so much, it may really help you! Also, magnesium can naturally help that "cloud above your head" mood. Thank you for sharing all aspects of your life. The realness is what keeps me coming back. I'm so over the highlight reels on other channels :)
I think your suffering from low grade depression. Im glad your exercising, because that can help a lot. I would try to get out. Take a walk in the park or go to stores (as much as you can) instead of ordering online. Being in a different setting and interacting with people and be helpful too. Even when seeking therapy, try speaking with someone in person. It is much too easy to isolate and do everything over the computer.
Love you & you are so intelligent xxx
I think being outside more will help you out of your rut:) but I get you about being happy on your own. It’s really harder than it sounds. Tarot is fun and if you can find them, oracle angel decks! Which tarot deck did you end up buying?
I'm not plugging it or anything, but Better Help has been great for me. I was doing it before the pandemic just because of traveling and whatnot and I've been with the same therapist now for almost 2 years. I had to do a little research when I signed up for it so I could check out all the counselors associated with Better Help because I wasn't really a fan of being assigned like a social worker, if that makes sense, because I feel like I really wanted someone with a super ton of experience. It did take a few days of looking around and reaching out to people but in the end, I got a really good match and I've been happy. Just a suggestion. xoxo
Hi Renee, as a psychologist, I just wanted to let you know that reviews on therapists are not something you can count on because the relationship with the therapist is different for every person and a "bad relation" with a therapist does not mean that you'll also have this bad relation, the best thing to do is just to try and to take an appointment with the therapist, to know if you like him/her or not :) In my practice, sometimes people did not retake an appointment with me because I didn't suit them while I have a really strong connection with others, that's normal in a psychotherapy ! :)
I hope with all my heart that you're gonna be okay, love from Europe!
(& sorry if I made mistakes, French is my motherthongue)
I'd recommend meditation/mindfulness if you happen to read this Renee! It can help to accept how things are right now, I think we're all feeling a little off.
Best channel for pick a card The Tarot Priest! So frikken accurate
Love watching you Renee from upstate New York. 💜🙏🏻
I feel you...
Thanks for trying 💓it must be the universe cause I’ve been in a funk this month. Luckily I pre filmed enough vids 😭you will find it back I believe in you
Instead of therapy, you could also try to find a law of attraction coach/transformation coach/happiness coach. It's more affordable usually and sometimes good to get outside of the medical realm of modern psychology/psychiatry.
I think it's the mental tooll of the pandemic that's hitting us. Like the change that was forced on us and that we're not used to still. We didn't realize how much it affected us. I too am feeling like you are, I feel you. I'm so terrible emotional and feeling blah like you said without any explanation behind it!
Renu birthday..... Happy birthday
Spring cleaning woo
I would looove to see your workout routine ♡♡
♻️ recycle! and good feelings come from within not external sources
Love tarot 💜✨💜✨💜
I appreciate & enjoy your videos!!!!! I LOVE you're phone case.... Where's it from? STAY STRONG 😘
Renee if you are looking for something new spiritually I watch Leeor Alexandra and The Gem Goddess. The Gem Goddess does Tarot Card readings so they're super fun and it's not too weird.
See, I told you that it doesn't matter if Noah comes back because the feeling will still be there. It's something within you that needs to be worked out. Whether he's there or not has nothing to do with those feelings. It's in you. It seems like you understand that though and you're working on it. That's good!
I feel the exact same way and I can’t figure out how to get out of this funk. I hate it!!