I feel like some of us try so hard to be the opposite of our caregiver in that way. As in, we make sure we are not self serving. But instead we still end up doing something else that’s toxic. It’s great that we are healing though!
That struggle with validation from the outside world instead of validating your self is real. Thank you for verbalizing all these points, it’s so healing
Am definitely healing and your podcast are fantastically helpful....May the ancestors continue to guide you. ..I will listen to this podcast again..that's how profound it is!❤❤❤
Thru therapy I realized my mother is a narcissist but your words really help me with how to heal myself. You are a truth teller and I can't thank you enough ❣️❣️❣️
And this is why when I moved away from my entire toxic family and tried to start over. My situation may have changed but I was still suffering internally, I was still depressed, still crying every Mother’s Day, still in complete anguish and I thought it meant I made a mistake and needed my family back. Turns out i was fully programmed and what I needed was healing. Moved back home and ruined everything for me, now I’m busy rebuilding and weeding out the root of my problem.
I've done the no contact and went back trying to build a relationship with my mother because that's what a "good" daughter should do right? Either way still felt like shit. I've been asking my therapist how do I just get over this once and for all so I can just move on with my life?? Sending you loves and hugs ❤🫂
@@jan854 going no contact is best for sanity depending on the situation. If even speaking to them triggers you to any negative feelings then I would stay no contact. Over time it gets easier but you still are human so you’ll feel things. I hope you heal and become whole. Find better ppl who cherish, respect and make you feel safe. You can check out Tim Fletcher he does really well with the topic of how family can totally mess you up
You are amazing. I have been on this healing journey for a while and the things you are telling me just really solidifies where I am and where I come from. Thank you! New sister sub
My grandmother raised me from the age of one. I never knew who I was more angry with...my mother for dying or my grandmother who raised me but didn't want me.
As a white girl who has ALWAYS lived in an almost ALL white community, I have to say that I’d never thought about how those past generations raised their children, and how it still affects all of us. Everything about this episode is SO VALUABLE! Thank you. ❤
I am so grateful to come across your content… I feel seen & heard ❤ I’ve been on a self love healing journey for about 6 yrs now in therapy for 5 & this message resonates on so many levels… “when the student is ready the teacher appears”… Thank you for creating this powerful amazing platform for US!!🌻🐝
“If some one is thinking about you, they have the same problem you have.” SUBSCRIBED 😂❤
Welcome to the community!!
Lil me as my wallpaper and I hear my horrible and impatient voice. Ouch. I hear it so clearly. This is a wonderfully informative episode…thank you!
Its the same in Latin culture. Serve everyone but yourself. However, my mother served herself and men while I went to the wayside.
I feel like some of us try so hard to be the opposite of our caregiver in that way. As in, we make sure we are not self serving. But instead we still end up doing something else that’s toxic. It’s great that we are healing though!
"We were raised to want others & not ourselves"
That struggle with validation from the outside world instead of validating your self is real. Thank you for verbalizing all these points, it’s so healing
The picture of my 5 year old self on my phone is brilliant!!! Thanks for changing the game Jennifer 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Am definitely healing and your podcast are fantastically helpful....May the ancestors continue to guide you. ..I will listen to this podcast again..that's how profound it is!❤❤❤
Exercise has been such a great outlet!
Thru therapy I realized my mother is a narcissist but your words really help me with how to heal myself. You are a truth teller and I can't thank you enough ❣️❣️❣️
And this is why when I moved away from my entire toxic family and tried to start over. My situation may have changed but I was still suffering internally, I was still depressed, still crying every Mother’s Day, still in complete anguish and I thought it meant I made a mistake and needed my family back. Turns out i was fully programmed and what I needed was healing. Moved back home and ruined everything for me, now I’m busy rebuilding and weeding out the root of my problem.
I've done the no contact and went back trying to build a relationship with my mother because that's what a "good" daughter should do right? Either way still felt like shit. I've been asking my therapist how do I just get over this once and for all so I can just move on with my life?? Sending you loves and hugs ❤🫂
@@jan854 going no contact is best for sanity depending on the situation. If even speaking to them triggers you to any negative feelings then I would stay no contact. Over time it gets easier but you still are human so you’ll feel things. I hope you heal and become whole. Find better ppl who cherish, respect and make you feel safe. You can check out Tim Fletcher he does really well with the topic of how family can totally mess you up
Thank u, Jennifer. I'm definitely learning to trust myself again.
Ok my 3rd time here. The REAL information that you are giving keeps drawing me back. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.❤
Thank you sooooooooooooooooo much for this. This is so amazing.
You're so welcome! Thank you being here!
It's amazing how what I want to do I discover someone else doing that thing. I'm glad I found you and get to my true purpose!
I’m so happy I’ve found your page ❤ bless you sis 1000x
Glad I found this channel. Thanks❤
You are so welcome
Mee too!
You are amazing. I have been on this healing journey for a while and the things you are telling me just really solidifies where I am and where I come from. Thank you!
New sister sub
Right, there’s so much closure.
Yes, new sister club.
Jennifer! I am new to your page. This is needed so much! And, perspective is so valuable.
My grandmother raised me from the age of one. I never knew who I was more angry with...my mother for dying or my grandmother who raised me but didn't want me.
As a white girl who has ALWAYS lived in an almost ALL white community, I have to say that I’d never thought about how those past generations raised their children, and how it still affects all of us.
Everything about this episode is SO VALUABLE! Thank you. ❤
Thank you Jennifer 🌼🌸
Ms. Jennifer, thank you for sharing your perspectives. I appreciate your platform.
I am so grateful to come across your content… I feel seen & heard ❤
I’ve been on a self love healing journey for about 6 yrs now in therapy for 5 & this message resonates on so many levels… “when the student is ready the teacher appears”…
Thank you for creating this powerful amazing platform for US!!🌻🐝
This was powerful
❤ thanks for sharing your wisdom and love with me and the world ❤...
Thank you 🙏🏾
This was so good!!
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