trying to figure it out, I love color: pink, blue and green families; Quiet luxury trend which is the description of how I like to dress; and I like a little edge: accessories, jewelry or something unusual. It's taken me a long time to get here, and still changing, Truthfully, I haven't paid any attention to style for a long time as I couldn't see how it was in my life. I wore scrubs everyday, pajamas or sweats in the evening, jeans or sweats on the weekend. Seldom went out and then also wore jeans and whatever, I am 6 feet tall and wear 20 with an apple shape: not a lot of choices out there, I always compared myself to others and came up lacking, yet used to dress up when I was younger. My girls are grown and they are very stylish and know how to choose clothes that suit them, and are always put together. Is this innate? They didn't get it from me. I thought of my younger sister and a good friend, both of whom could make a trash bag look good, and continued to wonder. Personally, I think that for some women, their brains are wired for their personal style, while others, like myself, have to figure it out. I have watched many videos but yours is the only one that digs in there and makes you see the edge of the confusion so that you can get out and do something, I also appreciate your honesty. Thanks for that.
I like how you mention defining modesty between yourself and the Lord, and making sure it’s not shame-based. But what I really appreciate is that you don’t throw that concept completely away. I’m hoping to give my daughter some very basic modesty “guidelines” as she grows up, and explain as an adult she will be able to discern and figure her standards with God’s help for herself. I also love how you talk about waiting until you find the right piece before you buy something.
I’m so glad you resonate with this message. I’ve wondered how I would explain it all to my children one day. It’s cool to hear how you’re doing it. I love the idea of teaching discernment & trusting them to hear God’s direction, too. ❤️❤️
WOW this video is probably the most helpful one I’ve ever watched. Your “3 Acts” very closely mirror my own. I was such a tomboy growing up! And I too grew up with a religious household that, in a way, shamed femininity. I have healed that part of me and I love dressing feminine, modestly, and embracing my divinely-given gifts instead of swinging to the opposite spectrum. Your talk about doing the internal work for figure out “why you made the mess/clutter in the first place” was huge for me. I am the challenge right now of needing my clothes to fit my lifestyle (as a mom of little kids) but also wanting to feel pretty & feminine, and working with fluctuating weight & pregnancy & postpartum (it can be so discouraging when my favorite clothes no longer fit) and lastly, to really hone in on what I love , and why I love it. This is such a gripping video. I love hearing your story and seeing so much of my journey in what you said.
Christina, thank you so much for sharing a part of your life with me, too. When I recorded this video, I didn't know if it would resonate with people, or if it would sound off the wall. I didn't know!! To hear that you felt this in your soul really means the most to me. 🥰 I appreciate what you said about femininity -- I've learned to break free from all shame (thanks to my Creator), and that was CERTAINLY an area that required a new perspective for me. I'm not sure if you're asking for style advice as a mama -- and I'm not yet a mama -- so take it with a grain of salt, but from what I've observed from my mama friends: adding sparkly jewelry and some lip stick/gloss makes a world of difference when you have an activity day where you NEED to wear jeans and a tee. I hope this helps! 🤗
@@PriskaJordan oh I would love it if you did a video geared towards pregnant mamas, or polled your audience and gave all the best tips in a video! 😍 thank you so much for your reply! You have created such a beautiful space for women to break free from shame but also remain classy and dignified. I love that you mention your faith in videos, too!! 💖
Wow, thank you so much!! It's my hope to show women how beautiful they are -- the way the creator sees us. 🥰 And I love the pregnant outfits idea, but alas I couldn't model that style of dressing. Hopefully soon enough though. 😉
My new approach to my wardrobe is seeing my clothes as stock. I’m not rushing to clean out my closet and get rid of my things anymore. Now I’m trying separating the bulk of my clothing from the clothes I’m presently wearing. I don’t feel as overwhelmed and taking a piece out of my “stock” now frees me to experiment with it with the pieces I wear regularly without spending money and without the pressure of deciding quickly before the time to return said item has expired.
I use to speak into my future with statements like : I will never & I will always. I try not to do this anymore. You are soooo correct. I may know myself today but I don’t know myself tomorrow. That person doesn’t exist yet. I’m constantly growing and evolving.❤
Last summer, I decided to really focus on my style almost daily until I could get a handle on it. The more focus, the faster you can grow! I started making videos with the intention of figuring it out, and you can watch and see the transformation visually with my outfits since then. I recommend taking photos of your outfits every day and analyzing what you like and don't like, and how you can improve your outfits in the future.
Okay wait, idk how I got here but this video was so good!! I'm currently coming out of an era that was starting to feel like a costume and my style is changing and this was just what I needed at the right moment ~ thank you!!
Thanks for sharing your journey so far Priska, I'm approaching my late 30's and can so relate to the costume era and buying lots of dream lifestyle 'fancy' outfits in my 20's 😂 This has left me with some stunning vintage and collectable items, however my style and lifestyle is now very home based and quite casual. I am going through the process of realigning my wardrobe to have better, chic, 'personal vibe' reflecting options for day to day life. I've learned a lot from your videos over the last week and it has sparked some very big changes over here in my New Zealand wardrobe and mindset when it comes to making so many clothing options actually work! Thanks so much for all your tip sharing and the effort you put in to your content 💗
Wow, I live for feedback like yours! I’m glad you can relate, but more importantly apply it toy your own clothes! 🙌🏼 I’m going to visit New Zealand some day. All the videos I’ve seen look so dreamy! 🥲 Thanks for your comment, Anna.
I just found your channel and subscribed right away. You have a love of color that most influences don't really have in their wardrobes. I also like different styles depending on which personality I have dominant that day😂.
You made me think of the first purchase I made on my first credit card in the 90's. Bongo jeans and Joop! perfume! wow, I can't believe I even thought of that!!! My first pair of fancy pants and, at the time, fancy perfume. haha I grew up in the bible belt, too and it seems like girls were expected to be tom boys or you were too fancy for them. They would let you know it, too.
Ha! That's great!! Good mems... I'm pretty sure mine was a Victoria's Secret card, and that's what I bought. 😂 Thanks for sharing your experience in the south, too. It seems the more convos I have on the topic, the more I see how problematic modesty culture was in our youth.
I smiled when you mentioned blue for a boy and pink for a girl - my favourite colour has always been blue, though I also loved taupe and now I’m gravitating towards grass green as I would describe it. I always loved long dresses and skirts though as a child I never had any. I seem to feel the cold more than some, so dresses are strictly for warm weather but I love them. The swooshier the better. Comfy jeans are my go-to though When you said you can find what you’re looking for because it exists somewhere!!! Oh wow! I bought some things even recently that I now realise were a compromise. Because I didn’t think I would get what I’m really looking for. Then ended up seeing the item later. Perhaps a bit more expensive, but closer to my preferred look. Yet I had already spent the money. I’m still learning
@@PriskaJordan I have been learning and my style has definitely improved. I’ve certainly acquired more basics so many things that were bought because of an instant ‘love that’ moment and had then hung abandoned in my closet now had items they could be paired with. I guess I’m still on a learning journey. I think I heard Alyssa Beltempo mention the concept before of choosing three words to describe your style and you just reinforced it. You learned from it. I guess I didn’t. Or maybe I needed another piece of the puzzle - learning to let go and pass something up if there’s a question in my mind about it. My biggest regret is getting a leather jacket on sale that is perhaps not the most versatile colour but also not very forgiving if my stomach bloats Perhaps this was not the best choice Guess I am a little miffed with myself
If I had a dollar for every time I was miffed with my purchases... I could buy us both new leather jackets. 😂 Alyssa is the first person I learned that from, too, and I trusted her because she truly embodies her style well. But hey, it took me an entire year of making style videos to figure out my words. I started with 10 -- TEN!! -- and slowly reduced. But it also showed me that my words last through all the seasons, which has its advantages. Just keep working at it until you feel settled for a bit in your descriptors. And if that approach doesn't end up working for you, try something else! It's guidance, not rules, right? 😉
Love this and so true, am currently moving house and ditching a lot of clothes that Dont suit me anymore… this came at the right time for me. Love it…Thank you x
Cool! Moving brings such clarity to our clutter, right?? I just made videos about my recent move & decluttering. It should be helpful for you, too: ruclips.net/video/4irJt_uVc0A/видео.htmlsi=2P8hhw_12U4B4W0p
Sorry for the millions of comments here I'm just watching along and keep having things to say haha. Literally same next phase as you when I worked at American Eagle in high school. I soo wish I had saved some of that money now haha
Actually I love it! Don't apologize! And OMG American Eagle would have been my dreammmmm. I always wore their jeans in high school. (And it helped that they didn't do the excess cologne smell like the competition. 🤐)
Thank you! 🥰 🙏 It's been a really fun year making videos. Your words could easily be mine, too. That's another cool aspect about stye descriptors --- the words themselves have different meanings to each of us. It leaves a lot of room for creativity. ✨
@@PriskaJordan I feel like I could happily wear some of your dresses! I love that it's not all neutrals. I'm also in the Bible belt in Texas so I understood your points on our bodies. Lots to think about! Have a lovely day! 👗 😍
We speak the same language. Same thing for me the past 2 yrs. Only thing I seem to have a problem with living in Florida is finding closed shoes for a dressy casual workplace. I tend to wear loafers, booties and menswear inspired oxfords. I don't wear heels and only wear slacks/pants, skinny, bootcut, straight and wide styles. Shoes are my toughest challenge with the heat. So far Oxford and booties are my go to's.
I sure wish I could help you with this one, but the entire time I lived in Florida, my feet were hot. I wore open-toed shoes any chance I could get. I love the look of Oxfords though! 😍
I loved my tomboy era with birkenstocks and zip off windpants lol but totally coming into a more feminine era as well so your videos are so helpful to me right now!
Totally understand you with the whole modesty thing. Ive grown up a Christian and am now more than ever, but I had to learn what modesty was for me as well. I would say I do dress quite modestly, but it had to come from my own spirit and my own feeling together with God- what is right for me. Everyone is different!
I am 46. Raised strict modest apostolic pentecostal. I am jus now starting my journey of discovering what modesty and Godliness means for me. Honestly I have no idea where to start. I just keep reading scripture and trying to figure out how they should really be interpreted for Godly feminine ladies.
@@angelgrayson5807 I think the best thing we can do is read the scripture but also contact God in the Word. His Words are Spirit and life- touch the Spirit and life there, and He will guide you I believe :)
wow, I loved this so much🩷!!.. and relate to a lot of it. I had a very strict upbringing which also engrained in me that women's bodies are tool for sin. I felt a lot of shame and insecurity growing up as I only wore clothes that were 5 sizes too large for me and couldn't show any degree of my physical form. It took a loooong time to heal that mindset and feel like I could define modesty for myself. And actually your 3 Acts fall pretty closely in line with my own😅 Thank you for making this video Priska and I'm glad I discovered you!
I'm never not AMAZED at how similar our human experiences are, and just how encouraging it is when we share them with each other. Thank you for sharing your experience with me, too. 🤗 I hope you continue to dig deep to find any roots of these bad mindsets... I still find them as I ruminate on my thought process around modesty, purity, and marriage. But that's the whole work: dismantling the false ideas and deciding what we truly believe. 💕
Thank you. Having recently transitioned from decades working in a corporate office to retirement, adjusting one’s wardrobe to a new lifestyle is challenging. I too was a tomboy and a “late bloomer” as they termed it then. Thankfully, there was no one telling me I wasn’t really a girl…
Yayyy happy retirement to you! 🎉You're discovering a new era, with a new style and lifestyle. Those old layers shed off with time. It took me a year to part with my old business suits when I stopped working corporate. The sunk cost fallacy played a big role in that, for me anyway. I wish you all the best in this new season of life! 😊
I love your 3 words, ❤ vibey 😅I g ot the concept from Alyssa as well but i developed it into 6 words. 3 for looks & 3 for how I want to feel. So I want to feel tall, womanly and elegant, I can do that by wearing monochromatic, sweeping, loosely tailored looks. 🤷🏻♀️ this is it for now. But like you say the person tomorrow doesn’t exist yet, I love that line!
I love how you’ve evolved from 3 descriptors to your additional feeling words. I’m actually working on that myself. 😊 Sounds like you’re well on your way to understanding your style!
I never would have guessed you were a tomboy growing up!! So interesting how much we change on those years between 15-25, I can’t relate to my 15 year old self very much now in my late twenties (Sorry to take it there but if you grew up now, you might have shipped off to gender clinic and put on the medical conveyer belt 😬 seems to happen too often 😔)
Yeah, it's wild how quickly kids grow up these days. They're so much more aware of beauty & style so young. I have to ask my Gen Z cousins to teach me how they did their makeup. LOL!!!
Fun question: How would you describe your current style era? 💃💃💃
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trying to figure it out, I love color: pink, blue and green families; Quiet luxury trend which is the description of how I like to dress; and I like a little edge: accessories, jewelry or something unusual. It's taken me a long time to get here, and still changing, Truthfully, I haven't paid any attention to style for a long time as I couldn't see how it was in my life. I wore scrubs everyday, pajamas or sweats in the evening, jeans or sweats on the weekend. Seldom went out and then also wore jeans and whatever, I am 6 feet tall and wear 20 with an apple shape: not a lot of choices out there, I always compared myself to others and came up lacking, yet used to dress up when I was younger. My girls are grown and they are very stylish and know how to choose clothes that suit them, and are always put together. Is this innate? They didn't get it from me. I thought of my younger sister and a good friend, both of whom could make a trash bag look good, and continued to wonder. Personally, I think that for some women, their brains are wired for their personal style, while others, like myself, have to figure it out. I have watched many videos but yours is the only one that digs in there and makes you see the edge of the confusion so that you can get out and do something, I also appreciate your honesty. Thanks for that.
Sorry. Stuck in the 80's and 90's.
Im a chameleon, I have many different styles.
I like how you mention defining modesty between yourself and the Lord, and making sure it’s not shame-based. But what I really appreciate is that you don’t throw that concept completely away.
I’m hoping to give my daughter some very basic modesty “guidelines” as she grows up, and explain as an adult she will be able to discern and figure her standards with God’s help for herself.
I also love how you talk about waiting until you find the right piece before you buy something.
I’m so glad you resonate with this message. I’ve wondered how I would explain it all to my children one day. It’s cool to hear how you’re doing it. I love the idea of teaching discernment & trusting them to hear God’s direction, too. ❤️❤️
WOW this video is probably the most helpful one I’ve ever watched. Your “3 Acts” very closely mirror my own. I was such a tomboy growing up! And I too grew up with a religious household that, in a way, shamed femininity. I have healed that part of me and I love dressing feminine, modestly, and embracing my divinely-given gifts instead of swinging to the opposite spectrum.
Your talk about doing the internal work for figure out “why you made the mess/clutter in the first place” was huge for me. I am the challenge right now of needing my clothes to fit my lifestyle (as a mom of little kids) but also wanting to feel pretty & feminine, and working with fluctuating weight & pregnancy & postpartum (it can be so discouraging when my favorite clothes no longer fit) and lastly, to really hone in on what I love , and why I love it.
This is such a gripping video. I love hearing your story and seeing so much of my journey in what you said.
Christina, thank you so much for sharing a part of your life with me, too. When I recorded this video, I didn't know if it would resonate with people, or if it would sound off the wall. I didn't know!! To hear that you felt this in your soul really means the most to me. 🥰 I appreciate what you said about femininity -- I've learned to break free from all shame (thanks to my Creator), and that was CERTAINLY an area that required a new perspective for me.
I'm not sure if you're asking for style advice as a mama -- and I'm not yet a mama -- so take it with a grain of salt, but from what I've observed from my mama friends: adding sparkly jewelry and some lip stick/gloss makes a world of difference when you have an activity day where you NEED to wear jeans and a tee. I hope this helps! 🤗
@@PriskaJordan oh I would love it if you did a video geared towards pregnant mamas, or polled your audience and gave all the best tips in a video! 😍 thank you so much for your reply! You have created such a beautiful space for women to break free from shame but also remain classy and dignified. I love that you mention your faith in videos, too!! 💖
Wow, thank you so much!! It's my hope to show women how beautiful they are -- the way the creator sees us. 🥰 And I love the pregnant outfits idea, but alas I couldn't model that style of dressing. Hopefully soon enough though. 😉
Lol.. Colorful is the word that came to mind for you.😂 I never seen a closet with so much color. Good for you..
Thanks! 🎨
My new approach to my wardrobe is seeing my clothes as stock. I’m not rushing to clean out my closet and get rid of my things anymore. Now I’m trying separating the bulk of my clothing from the clothes I’m presently wearing. I don’t feel as overwhelmed and taking a piece out of my “stock” now frees me to experiment with it with the pieces I wear regularly without spending money and without the pressure of deciding quickly before the time to return said item has expired.
What a GREAT mindset! I love it!! Thanks for sharing. 🤗
I use to speak into my future with statements like : I will never & I will always.
I try not to do this anymore.
You are soooo correct.
I may know myself today but I don’t know myself tomorrow.
That person doesn’t exist yet. I’m constantly growing and evolving.❤
Oof! I soo resonate with this! I catch myself saying “never” & “always”, and have to roll it back, at least mentally. Great reminder! Thank you ❤️❤️
I love that youve found your style..Im finally finding mine at 55 and enjoying it as well :)
Well, as they say: there's no time like the present. 💃
That’s awesome. May I ask what your turning point was?
Last summer, I decided to really focus on my style almost daily until I could get a handle on it. The more focus, the faster you can grow! I started making videos with the intention of figuring it out, and you can watch and see the transformation visually with my outfits since then.
I recommend taking photos of your outfits every day and analyzing what you like and don't like, and how you can improve your outfits in the future.
This chat is so beautifully wise and self-reflective. What a refreshing voice you are on the internet! You are truly lovely! 💕
Wow, thank you very much! This is the loveliest comment to read. 🥰 🤗
Okay wait, idk how I got here but this video was so good!! I'm currently coming out of an era that was starting to feel like a costume and my style is changing and this was just what I needed at the right moment ~ thank you!!
Awww this is so cool to hear!! Thank you for telling me, Michael. 😊🙏
Thanks for sharing your journey so far Priska, I'm approaching my late 30's and can so relate to the costume era and buying lots of dream lifestyle 'fancy' outfits in my 20's 😂 This has left me with some stunning vintage and collectable items, however my style and lifestyle is now very home based and quite casual. I am going through the process of realigning my wardrobe to have better, chic, 'personal vibe' reflecting options for day to day life. I've learned a lot from your videos over the last week and it has sparked some very big changes over here in my New Zealand wardrobe and mindset when it comes to making so many clothing options actually work! Thanks so much for all your tip sharing and the effort you put in to your content 💗
Wow, I live for feedback like yours! I’m glad you can relate, but more importantly apply it toy your own clothes! 🙌🏼 I’m going to visit New Zealand some day. All the videos I’ve seen look so dreamy! 🥲 Thanks for your comment, Anna.
I just found your channel and subscribed right away. You have a love of color that most influences don't really have in their wardrobes. I also like different styles depending on which personality I have dominant that day😂.
You get it!! 🎭 I dress for my mood of the day… “MOTD” 😏
Thanks. That was a really interesting, relevant, realistic video about your style journey. Love your pink ensemble. Really suits you.
I'm glad you enjoyed it! Thank you 🥰
You made me think of the first purchase I made on my first credit card in the 90's. Bongo jeans and Joop! perfume! wow, I can't believe I even thought of that!!! My first pair of fancy pants and, at the time, fancy perfume. haha I grew up in the bible belt, too and it seems like girls were expected to be tom boys or you were too fancy for them. They would let you know it, too.
Ha! That's great!! Good mems... I'm pretty sure mine was a Victoria's Secret card, and that's what I bought. 😂 Thanks for sharing your experience in the south, too. It seems the more convos I have on the topic, the more I see how problematic modesty culture was in our youth.
I smiled when you mentioned blue for a boy and pink for a girl - my favourite colour has always been blue, though I also loved taupe and now I’m gravitating towards grass green as I would describe it. I always loved long dresses and skirts though as a child I never had any. I seem to feel the cold more than some, so dresses are strictly for warm weather but I love them. The swooshier the better. Comfy jeans are my go-to though
When you said you can find what you’re looking for because it exists somewhere!!! Oh wow! I bought some things even recently that I now realise were a compromise. Because I didn’t think I would get what I’m really looking for. Then ended up seeing the item later. Perhaps a bit more expensive, but closer to my preferred look. Yet I had already spent the money. I’m still learning
Oooh, grass green is a stand out color! 💚 And I’m still learning, too, friend. Give yourself grace, and learn along the way. 😊
@@PriskaJordan I have been learning and my style has definitely improved. I’ve certainly acquired more basics so many things that were bought because of an instant ‘love that’ moment and had then hung abandoned in my closet now had items they could be paired with. I guess I’m still on a learning journey. I think I heard Alyssa Beltempo mention the concept before of choosing three words to describe your style and you just reinforced it. You learned from it. I guess I didn’t. Or maybe I needed another piece of the puzzle - learning to let go and pass something up if there’s a question in my mind about it. My biggest regret is getting a leather jacket on sale that is perhaps not the most versatile colour but also not very forgiving if my stomach bloats Perhaps this was not the best choice
Guess I am a little miffed with myself
If I had a dollar for every time I was miffed with my purchases... I could buy us both new leather jackets. 😂 Alyssa is the first person I learned that from, too, and I trusted her because she truly embodies her style well. But hey, it took me an entire year of making style videos to figure out my words. I started with 10 -- TEN!! -- and slowly reduced. But it also showed me that my words last through all the seasons, which has its advantages. Just keep working at it until you feel settled for a bit in your descriptors. And if that approach doesn't end up working for you, try something else! It's guidance, not rules, right? 😉
I love what you said-you can't buy your way into understanding yourself. Been there & it feels like putting lipstick on a pig.
Thankyou for such a thoughtful, compassionate approach to style and living.
Love this and so true, am currently moving house and ditching a lot of clothes that Dont suit me anymore… this came at the right time for me. Love it…Thank you x
Cool! Moving brings such clarity to our clutter, right?? I just made videos about my recent move & decluttering. It should be helpful for you, too: ruclips.net/video/4irJt_uVc0A/видео.htmlsi=2P8hhw_12U4B4W0p
Amazing, honest, inspiring video 👏🙏❤️
I couldn’t stop looking at your turquoise ring! Where did you find such a gem?
Thanks! I received it as a gift years ago. It's from Kendra Scott.
Sorry for the millions of comments here I'm just watching along and keep having things to say haha. Literally same next phase as you when I worked at American Eagle in high school. I soo wish I had saved some of that money now haha
Actually I love it! Don't apologize! And OMG American Eagle would have been my dreammmmm. I always wore their jeans in high school. (And it helped that they didn't do the excess cologne smell like the competition. 🤐)
Congratulations on one year! My three words are colorful, feminine, and interesting. Keep up the great content!
Thank you! 🥰 🙏 It's been a really fun year making videos. Your words could easily be mine, too. That's another cool aspect about stye descriptors --- the words themselves have different meanings to each of us. It leaves a lot of room for creativity. ✨
@@PriskaJordan I feel like I could happily wear some of your dresses! I love that it's not all neutrals. I'm also in the Bible belt in Texas so I understood your points on our bodies. Lots to think about! Have a lovely day! 👗 😍
It's the bowl cut for me❤
🤣 🤣 😝
Good tips
Thank you!
We speak the same language. Same thing for me the past 2 yrs. Only thing I seem to have a problem with living in Florida is finding closed shoes for a dressy casual workplace. I tend to wear loafers, booties and menswear inspired oxfords. I don't wear heels and only wear slacks/pants, skinny, bootcut, straight and wide styles. Shoes are my toughest challenge with the heat. So far Oxford and booties are my go to's.
I sure wish I could help you with this one, but the entire time I lived in Florida, my feet were hot. I wore open-toed shoes any chance I could get. I love the look of Oxfords though! 😍
Yas yas! Love being a woman, love the emotional strength and accuity I've been given
💕💕💕
I loved my tomboy era with birkenstocks and zip off windpants lol but totally coming into a more feminine era as well so your videos are so helpful to me right now!
Hehe! Oh the mems... I'm so glad my videos are inspiring you to embrace your style interests!
June six? Thats me boyfriends and I one year anniversary!! Congrats!
Good for y'all! 💕
Totally understand you with the whole modesty thing. Ive grown up a Christian and am now more than ever, but I had to learn what modesty was for me as well. I would say I do dress quite modestly, but it had to come from my own spirit and my own feeling together with God- what is right for me. Everyone is different!
I'm glad you feel God's leading, too. It bring such peace to know that it doesn't matter what other people say -- it matters what our Creator says. ❤️
I am 46. Raised strict modest apostolic pentecostal. I am jus now starting my journey of discovering what modesty and Godliness means for me. Honestly I have no idea where to start. I just keep reading scripture and trying to figure out how they should really be interpreted for Godly feminine ladies.
@@angelgrayson5807 I think the best thing we can do is read the scripture but also contact God in the Word. His Words are Spirit and life- touch the Spirit and life there, and He will guide you I believe :)
@@christinegonzalez7976 I totally agree ❤️
wow, I loved this so much🩷!!.. and relate to a lot of it. I had a very strict upbringing which also engrained in me that women's bodies are tool for sin. I felt a lot of shame and insecurity growing up as I only wore clothes that were 5 sizes too large for me and couldn't show any degree of my physical form. It took a loooong time to heal that mindset and feel like I could define modesty for myself. And actually your 3 Acts fall pretty closely in line with my own😅 Thank you for making this video Priska and I'm glad I discovered you!
I'm never not AMAZED at how similar our human experiences are, and just how encouraging it is when we share them with each other. Thank you for sharing your experience with me, too. 🤗 I hope you continue to dig deep to find any roots of these bad mindsets... I still find them as I ruminate on my thought process around modesty, purity, and marriage. But that's the whole work: dismantling the false ideas and deciding what we truly believe. 💕
Your BEST video yet! Thank you for sharing so much authentic experience and insight!
🥹🥹 I appreciate this compliment so much! I'm trying to grow, and it's encouraging to hear that you can see the changes. ❤️
Thank you. Having recently transitioned from decades working in a corporate office to retirement, adjusting one’s wardrobe to a new lifestyle is challenging. I too was a tomboy and a “late bloomer” as they termed it then. Thankfully, there was no one telling me I wasn’t really a girl…
Yayyy happy retirement to you! 🎉You're discovering a new era, with a new style and lifestyle. Those old layers shed off with time. It took me a year to part with my old business suits when I stopped working corporate. The sunk cost fallacy played a big role in that, for me anyway. I wish you all the best in this new season of life! 😊
I love your 3 words, ❤ vibey 😅I g ot the concept from Alyssa as well but i developed it into 6 words. 3 for looks & 3 for how I want to feel.
So I want to feel tall, womanly and elegant, I can do that by wearing monochromatic, sweeping, loosely tailored looks. 🤷🏻♀️ this is it for now. But like you say the person tomorrow doesn’t exist yet, I love that line!
I love how you’ve evolved from 3 descriptors to your additional feeling words. I’m actually working on that myself. 😊 Sounds like you’re well on your way to understanding your style!
This is such a wonderful message and video! Love it! Love your style!
Thank you so much! I'm glad the message resonates with you. 😃
I love your green romantic walk pants, where are those from?
They're from Zara, and they restock them in various colors every season. Here's the link: www.zara.com/us/en/pants-with-a-high-waist-p09929132.html
@@PriskaJordan Amazing! Thank you so much! I've been watching your videos a lot lately, feeling so empowered.
I never would have guessed you were a tomboy growing up!! So interesting how much we change on those years between 15-25, I can’t relate to my 15 year old self very much now in my late twenties
(Sorry to take it there but if you grew up now, you might have shipped off to gender clinic and put on the medical conveyer belt 😬 seems to happen too often 😔)
Yeah, it's wild how quickly kids grow up these days. They're so much more aware of beauty & style so young. I have to ask my Gen Z cousins to teach me how they did their makeup. LOL!!!
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❤ love your videos. Thank you
Thanks so much!