I could tell Betty was having a hard time at the cemetery. She’s the one that has raised all of her siblings as her own children. God Bless the whole family.❤🙏🏼
Betty is amazing! She isn't the oldest tho. She is somewhere in the middle of the 14(?) kids. She's definitely the family's caretaker and homemaker. It's especially sweet the bond between Betty and Lorraine. They all look out for Ray. I think that's why he seems so happy most of the time. They just accept each other just as they are.The bond they share is inspiring.
@@karenfitzpatrick6256 When Lorraine called out to Betty, in her own special way, so she should grab her arm and steady her walk in the cemetery, for some reason, was very touching, I don't know why but it is the bond that you speak of, they know what the other one needs and wants.
This channel has shown me how fragile the human spirit is but also how strong we can be. For people that can’t afford to donate money just show a little kindness when given the opportunity. 🇦🇺💙
Aber viele von uns sehen uns dass mit Freude an... nur um sich besser zu fühlen... Die Gesellschaft ist schon ein bisschen weired, ver-rückt... (Disclaimer* das gilt nicht für alles... 🤪)@@DubElementMusic
My heart just about broke when I heard Ray say his first word I could clearly understand "Paw". How meaningful that was to him.This is why this family is so close. Others may not understand but indeed THEY understand each other. God Bless them.
I think they are in this predicament because sometimes they get "too close". If you know what I mean. I think the better take away is that Mark is expanding their horizons outside of their isolation. Not only that, he asks them questions about how they are feeling when doing activities. This is what is truly bringing Ray out of his shell, especially if you watch the bowling section from the Christmas video. I'm not saying that his family isn't loving and important. It definitely is. I just think that Mark is providing them with something that their ancestors never did.
This family is doing so much better because of you and all your support as well as Marks efforts and time taken to make several visits! May God bless everyone that has made it possible! I can see the life back in them and how far they have come from the very first video. Now isn't it amazing how much can be accomplished with a little bit of love and support from everyone? Too bad this world couldn't be such a better place and everyone get along and all help each other. It hurts me to see anyone struggle in any type of way. Thank you everyone and Thank you Mark!
@@btnhlYou're a jackass. These people didn't ask to be born. They didn't ask their parents, grandparents, etc to inbreed them. They didn't ask for their situations with low education and poverty. You talk about your God, but then you say all those horrible things about this family. Typical christian hypocrisy at work.
@@oldironsides4107you probably have a ton of bodies somewhere in a basement... They aren't "gross out" people the only gross person here is apparently you... Get help
When I was young I was terrified of people who were mentally handicapped because I couldn’t read them! After a while you begin learning the cues and suddenly you begin to see them like anyone else! A good teaching lesson for young children (and adults), to help them overcome the fear (or misunderstanding) of those who are “different”! You did a fantastic job humanizing this family and hopefully others who don’t fit to the “norm” (whatever that is)!😀👍
I'm glad our loved ones aren't hidden away to be misunderstood mysterious beings as much as they once were. I'm glad people like yourself have the wisdom to reflect and learn a new way of seeing those who are different then themselves ❤️ 😊
Nobody asks to be born, or chooses their parents or circumstances. This family has many challenges, but they stuck together and they look after each other. That’s certainly more than I can say for plenty of wealthy educated families. Mark has done right by them. They now can live a more comfortable secure life. Well done Mark. 👏👏👏🌹🌹🌹
There are so many things that people take for granted,like going to a family cemetery or Burger King. Thanks to Mark, the Whittaker family is given this opportunity. Well done, Mark. You're a great human being.
What is most amazing about this family is they are all patient with each other and they take care of each other. They do not fight, or name call, like most families. They truly love each other. So many things we can learn from the WHITTAKER’S! Thank you Mark for your channel and bringing so many unique and humbling stories to our lives! ❤️
Isn't it wonderful that so many people love this family....so glad that people can see the Whittakers as the loving family they are...Lorraine is too cute
Many of us don't realize this...but, remembering the dead is one of the most important things we do. What a blessing for Mark to help this beautiful family visit their loved ones. Beautiful!
"There are three deaths. The first is when the body ceases to function. The second is when the body is consigned to the grave. The third is that moment, sometime in the future, when your name is spoken for the last time." -David M. Eagleman
I couldn't agree more... They are a Lovely family. Mark and the young woman are so kind to them. I love Ray though he's an absolute character... Hes my favourite.
The person who came in Burger King to see them was so kind by speaking good words of encouragement over Ray & Timmy. I loved that part. And Lorraine looked so adorable with her crown on! Such a loving, caring family. You guys take great care of the Whittier's, job well done! 🌟
Being from a large family (8 brothers and sisters) that don't speak to each other, the Whittaker family warms my heart because they love each other so much.
Everytime I see a video with The Whittakers, I pause and smile. Something so simple but sometimes not so easy to do. They are a light in a very dark world. Thank you, Mark! 🖤
I admit I first started watching your channel because of a morbid curiosity with the Whittakers…but through following their story, their heart-breaking experiences with their community and the church, I began to see the family. And come to love them all. I’m so so happy that they are being recognized as a family with hopes, fears, love, joy, heart-breaks just like any other. They are real. They are a joy. I have really enjoyed their journey. I’m ashamed of my initial reaction to them, but I sure am glad that I have learned, grown, and changed my perspective. I would be honored to meet this lovely family. God bless them all.
is Mark dating Lauren. If so, smart move. She is a sweetheart! She took to the Whitakers quickly. When she showed up ALL of them went and gave her a hug. They never did that with Mark.
This family is genuine. Unlike those that pretend to be what they're not. I have total admiration for them. They aren't victims of anything! They are your neighbors and friends.
I love this family. I've watched them for years. I love that Mark takes care of them, and as a community we help with that through donation. And if we can't donate, that's ok, because we can show love through acts of service. Life is short. Love big.
Me too. When I was a small child I giggled at a disabled neighbour. My Gran was horrified and told me, and I quote ‘All it takes is a knock on the head and you could be the same’. Well that certainly shut me up and moreover made me aware that I could be the same one day’. I grow up to be a research scientist in cancer and cancer related diseases. I’m so glad I had a Granny like her.🤗🇬🇧🌹
Thank you Mark for bringing these Sweet Lovable family Into our Life and you have did great things for them looks they change since you come into their Life Thank Mark and God for Introduced them Into My Life.
@@CountryLifeEngland Thank you for choosing to dedicate your time and work to science and cancer. You could have chosen any field, I admire and appreciate you! You give us hope 💙
This family shows that happiness isnt in money, its in love, friendship and family. I absolutely adore this sweet family and how they take care of eachother the best they know how. Thank you Mark for helping them and making sure the world knows they deserve kindness instead of judgement and ridicule.
Knowing today that this is the last proper video update with the whittakers I just want to thank Mark for his dedication and efforts. It's absolutely heartbreaking to watch the conclusion of the relationship. I'm sorry TylerO did that, it wasn't right. Thank you Mark for sharing their story and for the time and effort you invested. I wish the very best to the whittakers, may life be kind moving forward.
Here’s my beef with Tyler Oliviera. If he’s so worried about the Whittakers getting what they need, why doesn’t HE make regular forays into Raleigh County, West Virginia like Mark does ? Why can’t he be more hands on?
It makes me extremely sad too😢. Watching a friendship develop between everyone was truly touching, and to think one person ruined everything. I don't think Betty really understood the question, it's just all sad. I wish Larry and Kenneth had been honest, and didn't involve themselves in the money - that was wrong. Mark, I wish you well, you are a compassionate, kind person - keep loving people 😊❤
Mark, I'm sure you get many comments on how The Whitakers are being exploited by your site but I can only see the kindness of you and your associate in showing them a piece of heaven they would have never experienced if it hadn't been for your video's as well as documenting the lives of people who I would have never seen except for your exceptional video's. You have a God given talent in all the videos you show. Keep up the great work and there is a special place in heaven for you both. Your videos will be watched long after we're all gone
Beautiful comment!! That is so true🤗 those negative comments are so boring, always the same uninformed, uncaring, no compassion. Half of them haven't even watch a whole video! Just parroting someone who gets off on calling other people names and pretends her mean comments are just expressing herself. So much hate and judging. Thank God for Mark & Lauren who Really Care for the Amazing and Interesting People. ❤💕.....
It is very much exploitation you know these people don't get shit from this dude except a car ride and a super cheap meal, and yet he makes thousands of of these videos. First class douche.
This poor family is his best selling content, and he has several and several videos. There is a special place in HELL for these tools they know what they are doing is wrong and exploitation.
Saying “More like Ray and Freddy,” is touching. In the era in which they grew up these folks must have heard the R word a lot and to treat them with such a soft touch even on plainly sad issues is commendable. Glad everyone is accounted for and alive. Just a social visit. Good for them.
Oh yeah. The "R" word was a regular thing in the 60s & 70s when we had handicapped foster sisters cared for at my home. The numbers backwards on some of these gravestones, well, I hope those are mistakes and not bullying the Whittakers dearly departed.
@@redrooster1908 no doubt. I’m all for free speech but that word has become obsolete and saying it today is like saying “knee grow” (n*gro - I don’t want to get in trouble with RUclips by typing the actual word) to refer to a person of African descent. But was born in ‘88 and grew up in the 90s and even then people were saying the R word all the time; not just as a schoolyard insult said by kids, but as a regular word said by adults and even teachers in front of kids and even _to_ the children themselves. “Mrs. Doe, your son is mentally ret*rded,” type thing.
@@strangefruit8776 Yeah, you’re right. I don’t think anyone would sabotage a tombstone on purpose just because the recipient was a person with special needs. The stone mason might have been dyslexic or something, as he or she seems to have trouble with fours and twos... letters that look different when reversed as opposed to those that don’t like 1, 8, and 0. They also might have gotten them on the cheap due to mistakes being on them. If any family would be frugal (especially before Mark came into their lives and helped them with crowd funding) it would be the Whittakers.
Lorraine has become my favorite Whittaker. Although I do love this entire family. It brings a smile to my face seeing Lorraine become more comfortable with Mark and Lauren. She’s even talking more.
Thanks for sharing another visit with the Whittakers...I loved how Lorraine didn't want to leave her crown behind & proudly wore it home, with a big smile. 😊 She always warms my heart.
I just love Lorraine she smiles so much now feel like getting them out and about helps them a lot..Lorraine really looks happy like deep down she appreciates things Mark does I say they all do..❤
Mark you're an angel. Lauren too. To dedicate your life to people of all walks of life and supporting them in the way that you do is something that takes a special person to handle. The patience, the generosity and the care is unmatched.
@eatwithcandy7147 always a troll. And are people not allowed to make a living? If you do your research, most of his vids get demonitized. He was very successful well before RUclips. He makes pennies compared to what he already has...and giving most of it to the thousands of people that he encounters doesn't leave him making millions. So where's the negativity coming from? Jealousy is so ugly. I'll pray for you.
Timmy's THE MAN!!! The second you got them crowns, & tried putting one on Ray, I knew Tim was already sporting his crown like a BOSS!!! Thank you Mark, as well as all the Whittakers, for allowing us into your lives, & making us all an extended part of your family. You guys ROCKKKKK!!! 😊❤️🤘
These lovely folks are the reason I watch SWU... Lorraine's hair looks so beautiful, Betty is an Angel, Ray's so dear, Timmy's so inquisitive and I'm grateful to be able to have seen the 'growth' in them ALL! You're a great guy Mark.
Gosh I admire Betty so much as she has taken care of them all. She is the glue to this family. They may not have much but they are definitely blessed in so many ways. Keep doing the fantastic work that you do Mark.
@@kadeelacayo4806 why would she have to have had children and a husband to make her life matter?. Plenty of strong, powerful women throughout history have stayed single and childless. A man and a family shouldn't define you
I love "The Whittaker Family" videos. Always a favourite of mine. They are such a loving family. Betty is such a wonderful caregiver. She takes care of everyone. Bless her heart. Thank you for sharing this video with us. 👍🇨🇦😊 I'm so glad their lives have become easier since they met Mark. Renos to their house...an addition added to their property for the one brother who works. It's awesome. Being treated better by their own community. A blessing. 👍😊👏😍 Wow! Generations of Whittakers buried in the same cemetery. Amazing...👍🥹 So glad that you could take them there Mark. It's quite the drive. & Of course, a big thank you to Lauren as well. She is always there to lend a helping hand. That's alot of people to take care of...even for a short time. 👍😊👏
I always say this but Mark is an Angel. We need a billion Marks in this world. He is exactly what this family needed, and I’m so thankful that I get to see a little piece of the Whittaker’s lives. They are some wonderful people and I love them. Life is all about humanity and loving and caring for others.
What a lovely peaceful place ❤ I love how Lorraine reaches for Betty but Betty’s to fast and just takes off! I love Betty’s heart! She promised her ma that she would look after the kids and she is! ❤😊
I've noticed that as well,each video I think she gets better and better at it. GO LORRAINE!!! hope she will surprise us one day and talk more like her siblings. Ray might also pick up on it sometimes but I think with him it's gonna take some time but they can do it
Ray is a fantastic soul. He speaks his own sounds but he communicates volumes that we can all understand. Seems like the kind of fella you can just sit on the porch and listen to the leaves with.
These poor souls sad the circumstances they where born under, every one so close to there own blood to close ? . But also heart breaking cos these poor people are the end product poor harmless lost souls😊
These people warm my heart more than I ever anticipated. They care for each other in such a beautiful way and more than some families who don't face the challlenges they do.
@@FalconMidgetpoverty and the fact that we mankind needs to care for those less fortunate and also not to judge people from inbred families because it is not what you think it is. These people are lovely and want to be loved and have friends like anyone else
@@anniecandy3335 hey my grandpa clear in the 50's used to live up in a holler where this family called the blacks were kind of like the whittakers. But while in his model t they would chase him naked down the road cause they didn't see vehicles and i guess they liked racing him. But they would invite them over and fix them food really nice people, probably better than most today.
Because of you Mark, you helped create an environment where people want to go up to them and show their admiration and respect. Lots of love and respect for all the work you have done to help these amazing folks.
@@Irene-yd2sv if you would read the comments in the order in which they were written you will understand that we wasn’t talking about “the family” keep up Karen.. I mean Irene. SMH 🤦♂️
Idk what they will do without Betty. She is the sweetest and kindest heart! Ahh Larry that was so sweet cleaning up after your brother. This family is love! No judgement no anger just love
I just can't say enough for Mark bringing these people to everyone's attention. Such a memorable family and he has brought them so much help and spotlights them. Poor Ray looks like he's getting so much older. You can tell they certainly understand everything even though some aren't verbal. God Bless this family.
It's a small moment but I loved Betty yelling at Ray to wait after he took off across the parking lot at Burger King. It's clear she's always watching out for all of them
This is incredible. This familys story is amazing. And the compassion, respect, and loyalty you show them is how we all should treat our neighbours. Thank you.❤
Mark. How wonderful that you shared this cemetery experience with this family. You are the most non judgmental, thoughtful, caring person that i ever come across. All your interviews and interactions with so many people are inspirational.
Have you seen the SWU interview with prostitute named AMANDA RABB ? " THE ROAD TO HELL IS PAVED WITH GOOD INTENTIONS " The facility who swooped in and snatched up Amanda in its talons is named AURA. It's founded by LIMA JEVNEMOVIC. Amanda, IMHO, became a Guinea pig for the woman Lima Jevnemvic. The creator of the RUclips channel THE SURPRISE WITNESS was able to gather A LOT of information on this Lima woman. Court records, conversations between her and SWU Mark Laita. Then strange enough he invited Lima to be interviewed by him on SWU. OMG !!!! Ever since I watched that interview my total respect for ML went from 10 to -0.000000000. It'sduringthis interview he revealed his true colors. Lima and Mark absolutely tagged teamed against THE SURPRISE WITNESS TV creator. These two clowns did Amanda so dirty...they were able to get Amanda's father finding a way to convince a judge that Amanda wasn't able to care for herself so her father pulled a Britney Spears deception in order to file for conservatories. He was granted on. It's was after that cowardly move that Amanda lost her freedom. Once her father obtained " ownership " of Amanda Lima was then able to slither her way to gain control of Amanda via Amanda's dad's conservatorship. The evidence I'm talking about is in the SWU videos on his website Lima and Mark are wolves in sheep's clothing. When I was watching THE SURPRISE WITNESS evidence videos were posted online and I had read and watched these videos it felt as though someone socked me in the gut to be honest. She trusted these people and they did her dirty. RIP AMANDA. NO ONE CAN BETRAY YOU ANYONE SWEETHEART. 😢😢😢😢😢😢❤❤❤
Unfortunately there are quite a few families like the Whittakers in Appalachian country. Corbin Kentucky and Harlan/Hazzard have families that were isolated back up in those hollows that have been practicing intermarriage for over two hundred years. Both of a very good friends have birth defects. His first wife wasn't a cousin that they know of but they were still related because of the lack of new blood in the gene pool. One boy has a Taco ear and the other has severe spine problems. It happened because of the area being settled by like 8 families that were isolated for 200 years.
Mark I just wanted to say thank you so much for what you do for that family. They have really came a long way since the first show. It does them a lot of good to get out every now and again. I wish there was more people in the world like you and Lauren. ❤
I know he makes money off of it but some of the money that he's making he gives to them. He doesn't have to take them to Walmart or bowling or out to eat. He could just go to their home and do his videos and make all the money but he doesn't he gives back to them too! U don't see anyone else doing it for them?
This family is so endearing. Simple, honest people just enjoying life and not bothering anyone. God bless them for showing us that very little is needed to be at peace.
Mark you deserve a Humanitarian award!!! I have learned more from your channel than I ever had in school! Your love and compassion for people is beyond anything I have ever witnessed!! Your calling on this earth is also spreading to the rest of us who watch to be more understanding, more compassionate and loving to the people we dont understand or think we cant relate to!!! Your channel humbles me making me daily want to be a better person!!! So much love.....
Above all else, they are a tight-knit family who care for each other. Thank you, Mark, for helping them and getting them out into the world a little. Love the Whittakers and wish them well.
You can see the love they have for each other. They care for each other too. When I first saw this channel I thought it was for the wrong reasons, until I watched it. These people have done so much to help the Whittakers. I’m so appreciative. God bless the Whittakers and Soft White Underbelly.
I wonder why so many of their stones the numbers were backwards , also noticed a lot of the family passed when they were in their 60’s or younger , so sad . Thank you for keeping us updated and showing them so much love ❤
I was just looking for this comment, maybe someone from the family had to write it as they wanted it presented on the stone, maybe they wrote the numbers backwards? Could be dyslexia
The backwards ones could be because they were homemade. My hubby and I tried to make my mom one and the numbers would come out backwards because of the stamps.
Huge thank you to the Whittaker family for letting us all share a glimpse of your lives. It's taught me to never take any thing for granted, and the power of family.
Thks Mark for the Kind hearted person you are to take care of this family like you have without you they would all be dead by now Love you all here i enjoy watching the videos you have made & shown the world to see people have different ways & live with sickness & need help. GOD bless & loves this is the way to live happier life to help the people in the world it makes it a better place instead of a bad one when people all help each other.( RIP Ray) miss you 😢/ GOD has you now no more pain no more worries.
Oh, my heart. Lorraine walking back to get her crown had me on the verge of tears and I don't know why. To think these folks were tormented and made fun of all those years when they had absolutely no control over the cards life dealt them is heartbreaking. I am so glad they're being treated well now and not being harassed anymore. I don't know if it's just me but Ray isn't looking very well...I can't pinpoint it but the light in his eyes just didn't seem to be as bright as usual and his coloring seemed different. Maybe I'm imagining things. Thank you for raising awareness, Mark and for everything you've done and continue to do for this family of delicate souls.
@femmedraven I don't think Ray looks well either. Some of the other comments were suggesting that perhaps he is suffering from a UTI. Definitely seems like something about Ray is off. 😔
Every outing they get to experience makes their lives more fulfilling and brings out more of their wonderful personalities. Such a lovely peaceful spot for a final resting place. I photograph and document a lot of cemeteries and family cemeteries are becoming more and more rare. Thank you Mark and all the donors for assisting this family and giving them opportunities like this. A Happy New Year to all!
It’s sad that the county they live in couldn’t provide weekly assistance: 1 man to assist the men with a shower and hair wash, 1 female to help Lorraine with the same, and the female could assist Betty with laundry and cleaning. I am sure Betty can take her own shower but she’s not getting any younger and I’m sure helping out with household duties would make her very happy. Someone should check into this.
Yes they defanatly should get some sort of home assistance 100 per cent ,yes with there showering/bathing they are in need don't k now how they even survived all this Time 😊
I just love Betty....and Lorraine is looking so much happier all the time.. I am so happy that you both do so many wonderful things for this family... I have been watching since you began filming, and you can sure see so much difference in them. I think they have just been waiting for someone kind to come and just be with them and do things with them, and not treat them like they some kind of side show. You can see that with some other filmers on here and they make me so mad...Thank you so much for everything you both do!
I think it is amazing the joy you have brought to this family. I know it must be tough to see and hear the things you do everyday. We need more like you my friend.
This is the most I have heard Lorraine "talk". She just loved getting something to eat, and her beautiful crown she got to wear and keep. She is so innocent and delightful. So are all the Whittakers, just nice delightful people. Love them.
The Whittaker interviews were the first I saw when discovering Soft White Underbelly. We are all just souls who want the same thing. Love, respect, and being seen as people. Not how much you have, or condition. Just people. Mark has made such a tremendous difference in their lives. You are an amazing person!
They are such a great family and kind people. I'm so happy that Mark has helped them throughout the years to get to the point they are now. God bless them and you too Mark.
Nothing more rewarding than seeing how much they appreciate, how they’re recognized out in public, how good “ our family “ is doing! This channel brought so many together! Much love & cheers to all into the new year!
I’m glad people understand how life is at one time people were put down but we all grow up and we will never no how we will turn out in life thank you mark and your wife for being so good to them
People can call it exploiting all they want, he has done nothing but help this family. Not just money, Mark has shown this family attention and care that they probably have never experienced from anyone else. Also, I think he's done a lot more for them than what he shows us. Whether he makes money or not, these videos are to show that we may look different, we may have different opinions on things, different families, different backgrounds, but we are all humans. No one deserves to be judged on appearance, so many amazing people dress uniquely, but that doesn't mean they're a bad person, they just don't wanna be like everyone else.
The Wittakers seem pretty happy to see Mark & Lauren whenever I’ve watched them. I’m sure if they didn’t want to do it anymore they’d say so. But you only have to look at the positive reaction they got in Burger King from that guy. They are minor celebrities now which is far better than the alternative they possibly faced before which could have been staring and jokes. Now their community understands them feels connected to them and vice versa and are most likely proud of them.
I can’t believe someone would think that Mark is taking the Evang of them. Well actually I can’t believe it and people are so out of their mind these days. Mark is wonderful and he’s helped his family beyond measure and you know what I hope he makes money. I hope he makes a lot of money. There’s nothing wrong with making money people, as long as you do it legally honestly and ethically then the more you make the more you can help the more you can give but there’s certain people in the world that think of someone makes money that someone else must lose money. It doesn’t work like that. I get aggravated when I hear things like that.
I love the “fan” of the show, how kind he was, how encouraging with the crossword puzzles, and then in the background talking to someone else saying they’re in his prayers….ugh 😢😢😢
Yes I liked him a lot.He seemed so genuine and a real fan of the Whitaker family. God bless all of them. Loved this family from the first time I watched them. 🙏🏻🙏🏻♥️♥️
Thank You Mark for all you did for these people.. I know Betty was wrong.. however we do not understand how she may be limited as well. You have did right by these folks. I praise thee.
This was such an important and sweet outing. Mark, you were so giving and kind to this family, once again. I love how non-judgmental you are and the love you show to this family. You have enriched their lives. I watch all of the Whittaker videos, and this one is my favorite. Bless you for all that you do for them. They got to wear crowns that day. These sweet people will wear crowns of another kind in Heaven. Bless you,
Listening to Timmy say Mema grandpa pawpaw literally broke my heart that goes to show you the mind is a precious thing he can’t express everything but he knows what’s going on. Timmy even took his hat off to eat.
Betty is always watching over the others to help them, she is the glue that keeps them together with such care. This family is so wonderful they keep their memories close to their hearts and never forget their roots. Mark you gave them such a special day Ray enjoyed that burger and I thought Lorraine looked more lively today. Mark You have put this family in all our hearts all around the world we have grown to love them and respect the other side of living. Sending love and virtual hugs from the UK xxxxxxx
Family means everything for those in those WV mountains. I lived in those mountains for 10 years. Most of them are basic, wonderful people. I was blessed to have cared for many there in my medical career.
after seeing these videos, it helped inspired me to take a road trip down through the Appalachian mountains, just seeing the scenery of the different states the mountains range through, its hard to not feel such a respect and admiration for the people of these areas. I can only imagine the hard lives everybody and their forefathers had to endure, I almost felt a sense of guilt, knowing i was just passing through these towns that generations have spent their whole lives around, and Id be back to my hometown with all the comforts a college town can provide. Since then, Ive been wondering if some people are stuck there, and how many are there by choice, its something I dont think ill ever truly understand. Thank you mark for providing people like the Whittakers the attention they deserve.
Betty looked overwhelmed at the cemetery. She's been the mother to all of her family but I'm sure she was reflecting on memories of her parents. Ray is looking older and thinner. His eyes were bloodshot and he wasn't as vocal as he usually is. I hope he is under a doctor's care. Thanks Mark and Lauren for everything you do for the Whittakers. Once again, I have tears in my eyes as I watch your kindness towards them.
All of them are aging quickly. Ray has become very hunched over and as you said, he is quieter and not looking very healthy. Betty has aged a lot too. She didn't used to need a cane, but does now. It seems like her hearing and her comprehension is going (could be early dementia setting in). Larry has all but lost his hearing since we first met him.
@@Danimal77 I agree that they all seem to be aging too quickly. I noticed that several of the grave markers showed that Whittakers commonly passed away in their 60's. I suppose they may be more susceptible to genetically related illnesses but it's sad to see most of them in somewhat failing health. Thanks for replying to my comment. Happy New Year to you.
@@stephaniebragg3081Yes he definitely needs medical attention but unfortunately I don't think he would allow any treatment to be administered to him. As you can see he wouldn't even let someone put a paper hat on his head. Imagine him letting someone drop medicine in his eyes. Not gonna happen.
I could tell Betty was having a hard time at the cemetery. She’s the one that has raised all of her siblings as her own children. God Bless the whole family.❤🙏🏼
Betty is amazing! She isn't the oldest tho. She is somewhere in the middle of the 14(?) kids. She's definitely the family's caretaker and homemaker. It's especially sweet the bond between Betty and Lorraine.
They all look out for Ray. I think that's why he seems so happy most of the time. They just accept each other just as they are.The bond they share is inspiring.
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When Lorraine called out to Betty, in her own special way, so she should grab her arm and steady her walk in the cemetery, for some reason, was very touching, I don't know why but it is the bond that you speak of, they know what the other one needs and wants.
Is it true betty passed away?
@@KE458S No. Betty and her siblings and nephew are fine.
@@KE458S No. Betty is alive and seems to be doing well as shown in this very recent video.
The way Ray reaches for Marks hand, he trusts and loves him, they all do.❤
Ray needs a dr visit ❤
Agree ray needs some medical attention … could have a UTI..
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Rays the best ❤😊😊
@Mia-qt4th In the Christmas video Ray reaches out and hugs Mark ❤
This channel has shown me how fragile the human spirit is but also how strong we can be. For people that can’t afford to donate money just show a little kindness when given the opportunity. 🇦🇺💙
Críticas pero das views, un poco estraño no??@@DubElementMusic
Aber viele von uns sehen uns dass mit Freude an... nur um sich besser zu fühlen... Die Gesellschaft ist schon ein bisschen weired, ver-rückt... (Disclaimer* das gilt nicht für alles... 🤪)@@DubElementMusic
The camera has to roll for us dumbies at home. Dummy.
@@DubElementMusic sehe ich genauso.
So a RUclips channel has shown you how to be a good person 🤦🏻♂️😂
It's so wonderful that Betty has a friend, she really softens when Mark mentions her ❤
My heart just about broke when I heard Ray say his first word I could clearly understand "Paw". How meaningful that was to him.This is why this family is so close. Others may not understand but indeed THEY understand each other. God Bless them.
He said chicken before I was so happy
I think they are in this predicament because sometimes they get "too close". If you know what I mean. I think the better take away is that Mark is expanding their horizons outside of their isolation. Not only that, he asks them questions about how they are feeling when doing activities. This is what is truly bringing Ray out of his shell, especially if you watch the bowling section from the Christmas video. I'm not saying that his family isn't loving and important. It definitely is. I just think that Mark is providing them with something that their ancestors never did.
@@candacee3297😂😊❣️
12:09 is the time stamp and it is definitely a heart touching moment ❤
He actually said it 2x in 2 minutes
There is something beautiful about having everyone together at one spot even after death
Such a mild winter so far in the north east.
I agree. Years ago families had their own resting spots. I always wished I had the same.
My family does that also.
There is. My family has a cemetery which I’ll be happy to be buried in. We’re all together in the end regardless of what any of us believe.
This family is doing so much better because of you and all your support as well as Marks efforts and time taken to make several visits! May God bless everyone that has made it possible! I can see the life back in them and how far they have come from the very first video. Now isn't it amazing how much can be accomplished with a little bit of love and support from everyone? Too bad this world couldn't be such a better place and everyone get along and all help each other. It hurts me to see anyone struggle in any type of way. Thank you everyone and Thank you Mark!
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@btnhl
These are what you call “ gross out” videos.
You watch it to be grossed out and shame them.
Like a hobo eating a cat.
If you don't have anything nice to say then maybe you should keep your comments to yourself
@@btnhlYou're a jackass. These people didn't ask to be born. They didn't ask their parents, grandparents, etc to inbreed them. They didn't ask for their situations with low education and poverty. You talk about your God, but then you say all those horrible things about this family. Typical christian hypocrisy at work.
@@oldironsides4107you probably have a ton of bodies somewhere in a basement... They aren't "gross out" people the only gross person here is apparently you... Get help
When I was young I was terrified of people who were mentally handicapped because I couldn’t read them! After a while you begin learning the cues and suddenly you begin to see them like anyone else! A good teaching lesson for young children (and adults), to help them overcome the fear (or misunderstanding) of those who are “different”! You did a fantastic job humanizing this family and hopefully others who don’t fit to the “norm” (whatever that is)!😀👍
I'm glad our loved ones aren't hidden away to be misunderstood mysterious beings as much as they once were. I'm glad people like yourself have the wisdom to reflect and learn a new way of seeing those who are different then themselves ❤️ 😊
Mark, thx for sharing this beautiful family with us. I’d still be a dedicated subscriber if the Whittakers were the only topic you shared.😊
So true ❤
they werent just mentally handicapped. also victims of incest
Facts 💯 💯 💯 💯 💯 💯
Nobody asks to be born, or chooses their parents or circumstances. This family has many challenges, but they stuck together and they look after each other. That’s certainly more than I can say for plenty of wealthy educated families.
Mark has done right by them. They now can live a more comfortable secure life. Well done Mark.
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@LeniDell ❤ 💯 agree with you ❤
Yes he has! Mark is awesome!
So beautifully said.
@@LisaBrown-wy9hi Thank you 🙂
@@LeniDell You're so welcome. Your comment was so beautiful indeed.
There are so many things that people take for granted,like going to a family cemetery or Burger King. Thanks to Mark, the Whittaker family is given this opportunity. Well done, Mark. You're a great human being.
Fact he's gotten this family to a place e where everyone deserved to be. Mark is amazing
Is the young lady with the blonde hair and the white coat a Whittaker?
@@parkerhalno she’s marks assistant
@@parkerhal FUCK NO, What are you on? If you think the hot chick is a Whittaker. Lmao
@@parkerhalher name is lauren she’s an ex marijuana smuggler, she has two videos on here. she’s his assistant now 😊
What is most amazing about this family is they are all patient with each other and they take care of each other. They do not fight, or name call, like most families. They truly love each other. So many things we can learn from the WHITTAKER’S!
Thank you Mark for your channel and bringing so many unique and humbling stories to our lives! ❤️
Thank you!!!!
They were never influenced by the mainstream and haven't really witnessed how some American families are so dysfunctional
I noticed that too. I love how accepting they are of each other. They don't judge, they don't ridicule. So beautiful.
You took the words right out of my mouth! They truly are patient with each other and love each other to death!
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Isn't it wonderful that so many people love this family....so glad that people can see the Whittakers as the loving family they are...Lorraine is too cute
Betty is a Saint. She has cared for her whole family . Respect!
She is! She gave up her whole life for her siblings.
She wasn't looking so well on this visit..do they see doctors regularly or no ??
@@avalondreaming1433even like he great nephews !
@@SwimDeeep Nephew Luis is smart. He should get his GED.
@@avalondreaming1433mark no longer is going to work with them. He believes they took advantage of his kindness, especially Betty. 💙💙💙
This Family has so much respect and love for each other it’s heart warming. I wish them all the best.
Respect you do know the back story right?
@@jimbobjameshecksno most of us do not?
Do Tell
@@jimbobjameshecksenlighten us
@@jimbobjameshecksDo you know the back story? Indeed if you have nothing nice to say, please dont say anything. Peace
Many of us don't realize this...but, remembering the dead is one of the most important things we do. What a blessing for Mark to help this beautiful family visit their loved ones. Beautiful!
"There are three deaths. The first is when the body ceases to function. The second is when the body is consigned to the grave. The third is that moment, sometime in the future, when your name is spoken for the last time."
-David M. Eagleman
Considering theu are immigrants and live on others territory, id say what you said makes no goddamed sense 😂
I couldn't agree more... They are a Lovely family. Mark and the young woman are so kind to them. I love Ray though he's an absolute character... Hes my favourite.
Remembering the dead is a spiritual act of mercy.
Yeah because all of us is going to be dead soon times Flys by so fast
Larry being respectful and cleaning the floor and table. Grabbed my heart.
Yes that was nice of him. He’s a genuine good guy
And tying rays shoe❤ like a father figure
Larry is a true crook.
The person who came in Burger King to see them was so kind by speaking good words of encouragement over Ray & Timmy. I loved that part. And Lorraine looked so adorable with her crown on! Such a loving, caring family. You guys take great care of the Whittier's, job well done! 🌟
Being from a large family (8 brothers and sisters) that don't speak to each other, the Whittaker family warms my heart because they love each other so much.
I love how they seem to accept each other just how they are. I’ve never heard them criticize each other.
@@Segway99 💯 Most people look down on these folks but we can all learn a thing or two from them.
@melissaholleron719 that's the truth
Notice that every time they go for a ride they seem so quiet and calm. They really enjoy that time getting out.❤
Everytime I see a video with The Whittakers, I pause and smile. Something so simple but sometimes not so easy to do. They are a light in a very dark world. Thank you, Mark! 🖤
I admit I first started watching your channel because of a morbid curiosity with the Whittakers…but through following their story, their heart-breaking experiences with their community and the church, I began to see the family. And come to love them all. I’m so so happy that they are being recognized as a family with hopes, fears, love, joy, heart-breaks just like any other. They are real. They are a joy. I have really enjoyed their journey. I’m ashamed of my initial reaction to them, but I sure am glad that I have learned, grown, and changed my perspective. I would be honored to meet this lovely family. God bless them all.
Same here
Same. God Bless the Whitaker Family!!!
is Mark dating Lauren. If so, smart move. She is a sweetheart! She took to the Whitakers quickly. When she showed up ALL of them went and gave her a hug. They never did that with Mark.
This family is genuine. Unlike those that pretend to be what they're not. I have total admiration for them. They aren't victims of anything! They are your neighbors and friends.
@@kratoleaf7619 I don’t think so. I believe she just assists him.
I love this family. I've watched them for years. I love that Mark takes care of them, and as a community we help with that through donation. And if we can't donate, that's ok, because we can show love through acts of service. Life is short. Love big.
Me too. When I was a small child I giggled at a disabled neighbour. My Gran was horrified and told me, and I quote ‘All it takes is a knock on the head and you could be the same’. Well that certainly shut me up and moreover made me aware that I could be the same one day’. I grow up to be a research scientist in cancer and cancer related diseases. I’m so glad I had a Granny like her.🤗🇬🇧🌹
Thank you Mark for bringing these Sweet Lovable family Into our Life and you have did great things for them looks they change since you come into their Life Thank Mark and God for Introduced them Into My Life.
@@CountryLifeEngland
Thank you for choosing to dedicate your time and work to science and cancer. You could have chosen any field, I admire and appreciate you! You give us hope 💙
When I was youngi always thought if I made fun of disabled people I would end up like them
This family shows that happiness isnt in money, its in love, friendship and family. I absolutely adore this sweet family and how they take care of eachother the best they know how. Thank you Mark for helping them and making sure the world knows they deserve kindness instead of judgement and ridicule.
Very well said, I couldn’t agree more!!
True...but it also shows that money and fame help....
Knowing today that this is the last proper video update with the whittakers I just want to thank Mark for his dedication and efforts. It's absolutely heartbreaking to watch the conclusion of the relationship. I'm sorry TylerO did that, it wasn't right.
Thank you Mark for sharing their story and for the time and effort you invested. I wish the very best to the whittakers, may life be kind moving forward.
Here’s my beef with Tyler Oliviera. If he’s so worried about the Whittakers getting what they need, why doesn’t HE make regular forays into Raleigh County, West Virginia like Mark does ? Why can’t he be more hands on?
Yes ty god will bless u
What was the conclusion ? I guess I missed something
@@lacisewell6121I've been wondering the same...
It makes me extremely sad too😢. Watching a friendship develop between everyone was truly touching, and to think one person ruined everything. I don't think Betty really understood the question, it's just all sad. I wish Larry and Kenneth had been honest, and didn't involve themselves in the money - that was wrong. Mark, I wish you well, you are a compassionate, kind person - keep loving people 😊❤
Mark, I'm sure you get many comments on how The Whitakers are being exploited by your site but I can only see the kindness of you and your associate in showing them a piece of heaven they would have never experienced if it hadn't been for your video's as well as documenting the lives of people who I would have never seen except for your exceptional video's. You have a God given talent in all the videos you show. Keep up the great work and there is a special place in heaven for you both. Your videos will be watched long after we're all gone
Beautiful comment!! That is so true🤗 those negative comments are so boring, always the same uninformed, uncaring, no compassion. Half of them haven't even watch a whole video! Just parroting someone who gets off on calling other people names and pretends her mean comments are just expressing herself. So much hate and judging. Thank God for Mark & Lauren who Really Care for the Amazing and Interesting People. ❤💕.....
It is a form of exploitation, but not all forms of exploitation are necessarily a bad thing....
A quality of life that all this guy has given them. God bless you
It is very much exploitation you know these people don't get shit from this dude except a car ride and a super cheap meal, and yet he makes thousands of of these videos. First class douche.
This poor family is his best selling content, and he has several and several videos. There is a special place in HELL for these tools they know what they are doing is wrong and exploitation.
Saying “More like Ray and Freddy,” is touching. In the era in which they grew up these folks must have heard the R word a lot and to treat them with such a soft touch even on plainly sad issues is commendable. Glad everyone is accounted for and alive. Just a social visit. Good for them.
Oh yeah. The "R" word was a regular thing in the 60s & 70s when we had handicapped foster sisters cared for at my home. The numbers backwards on some of these gravestones, well, I hope those are mistakes and not bullying the Whittakers dearly departed.
@@redrooster1908I’m sure they just made a mistake when laying out the letters for the mold.
@@redrooster1908it used to be a specific medical diagnosis, along with moron and idiot.
@@redrooster1908 no doubt. I’m all for free speech but that word has become obsolete and saying it today is like saying “knee grow” (n*gro - I don’t want to get in trouble with RUclips by typing the actual word) to refer to a person of African descent.
But was born in ‘88 and grew up in the 90s and even then people were saying the R word all the time; not just as a schoolyard insult said by kids, but as a regular word said by adults and even teachers in front of kids and even _to_ the children themselves. “Mrs. Doe, your son is mentally ret*rded,” type thing.
@@strangefruit8776 Yeah, you’re right. I don’t think anyone would sabotage a tombstone on purpose just because the recipient was a person with special needs. The stone mason might have been dyslexic or something, as he or she seems to have trouble with fours and twos... letters that look different when reversed as opposed to those that don’t like 1, 8, and 0. They also might have gotten them on the cheap due to mistakes being on them. If any family would be frugal (especially before Mark came into their lives and helped them with crowd funding) it would be the Whittakers.
Lorraine has become my favorite Whittaker. Although I do love this entire family. It brings a smile to my face seeing Lorraine become more comfortable with Mark and Lauren. She’s even talking more.
Mine too. She literally captures the meaning of innocence. I love her to pieces!
She reminds me of my mom rip
Me too!
She's so sweet
I was thinking the same thing. She is such a sweetheart.
Thanks for sharing another visit with the Whittakers...I loved how Lorraine didn't want to leave her crown behind & proudly wore it home, with a big smile. 😊 She always warms my heart.
I just love Lorraine she smiles so much now feel like getting them out and about helps them a lot..Lorraine really looks happy like deep down she appreciates things Mark does I say they all do..❤
YES SHES A REAL SWEETIE
Mark you're an angel. Lauren too. To dedicate your life to people of all walks of life and supporting them in the way that you do is something that takes a special person to handle. The patience, the generosity and the care is unmatched.
People don’t realize Mark makes hundreds of thousands of dollars doing these videos😛😛😛
@@eatwithcandy7147 So does our government, but they don't help us either!!
Your stupidity is unmatched.
@@eatwithcandy7147 You are SO full of it!
@eatwithcandy7147 always a troll. And are people not allowed to make a living? If you do your research, most of his vids get demonitized. He was very successful well before RUclips. He makes pennies compared to what he already has...and giving most of it to the thousands of people that he encounters doesn't leave him making millions. So where's the negativity coming from? Jealousy is so ugly. I'll pray for you.
Timmy's THE MAN!!! The second you got them crowns, & tried putting one on Ray, I knew Tim was already sporting his crown like a BOSS!!! Thank you Mark, as well as all the Whittakers, for allowing us into your lives, & making us all an extended part of your family. You guys ROCKKKKK!!! 😊❤️🤘
Timmy took his burger home to give to the dogs; what a sweetheart
These lovely folks are the reason I watch SWU... Lorraine's hair looks so beautiful, Betty is an Angel, Ray's so dear, Timmy's so inquisitive and I'm grateful to be able to have seen the 'growth' in them ALL! You're a great guy Mark.
Gosh I admire Betty so much as she has taken care of them all. She is the glue to this family. They may not have much but they are definitely blessed in so many ways. Keep doing the fantastic work that you do Mark.
It’s actually really sad. She never got married had kids etc. and when she dies what’s gonna happen ?
Betty is the definition of self-sacrifice.
@@kadeelacayo4806 why would she have to have had children and a husband to make her life matter?. Plenty of strong, powerful women throughout history have stayed single and childless. A man and a family shouldn't define you
I love "The Whittaker Family" videos. Always a favourite of mine. They are such a loving family. Betty is such a wonderful caregiver. She takes care of everyone. Bless her heart. Thank you for sharing this video with us. 👍🇨🇦😊 I'm so glad their lives have become easier since they met Mark. Renos to their house...an addition added to their property for the one brother who works. It's awesome. Being treated better by their own community. A blessing. 👍😊👏😍 Wow! Generations of Whittakers buried in the same cemetery. Amazing...👍🥹 So glad that you could take them there Mark. It's quite the drive. & Of course, a big thank you to Lauren as well. She is always there to lend a helping hand. That's alot of people to take care of...even for a short time. 👍😊👏
Mark, you are such a wonderful person. The world needs more people like you in it. ☮
I love how absolutely pure and innocent this family is. Almost like they haven’t been corrupted by the outside world ❤
I couldn't agree more with you Katee ❤
Yet they was born with corruption . incest . but they seem so gentle.
Amen!! They humble me and lighten my heart every time I watch them ❤
they haven't been corrupted. they don't watch TV for use any kind of Internet, and the neighbors are VERY protective of them.
@@MojoMountainMan They constantly watch TV
I always say this but Mark is an Angel. We need a billion Marks in this world. He is exactly what this family needed, and I’m so thankful that I get to see a little piece of the Whittaker’s lives. They are some wonderful people and I love them. Life is all about humanity and loving and caring for others.
He has over 5 million subscribers and he is making thousands off of this.
@@truthhurtswilky7785 hater
@@bobbybass3586 Just a fact cumrod.
What a lovely peaceful place ❤
I love how Lorraine reaches for Betty but Betty’s to fast and just takes off!
I love Betty’s heart! She promised her ma that she would look after the kids and she is! ❤😊
I just spoke about that in my comment..Thay truly are amazing ppl...
I said to myself on the last couple videos I watched that Betty moves way better than I would have expected.
Thank you guys for your kindness to their family....gives me a lil hope for humanity
Lorraine is getting more outgoing and speaking more each video and it’s so sweet 🥰
Yeah and Betty is speaking less.
@@Danimal77Betty has less to say each time.
@@Danimal77 I thought maybe at the cemetery she felt emotional and was remembering a lot about her family who have passed.
I've noticed that as well,each video I think she gets better and better at it. GO LORRAINE!!! hope she will surprise us one day and talk more like her siblings. Ray might also pick up on it sometimes but I think with him it's gonna take some time but they can do it
@@liddlekiddle1962I think she did. She said she was ok,but her expression said otherwise
Ray is a fantastic soul. He speaks his own sounds but he communicates volumes that we can all understand. Seems like the kind of fella you can just sit on the porch and listen to the leaves with.
me when i lie
@@kit-eb9jeme when I troll
These poor souls sad the circumstances they where born under, every one so close to there own blood to close ? .
But also heart breaking cos these poor people are the end product poor harmless lost souls😊
Yeah he’s a great communicator…
Or bark at the postman
These guys can teach us all something, stay humble, polite, and appreciate what you have! Best wishes from 🇬🇧 to you all.
Great comment! My regards to England. My favorite place!
I'm so happy they have you as a friend. You're a blessing to this family. Thank you for all you do for them.
These people warm my heart more than I ever anticipated. They care for each other in such a beautiful way and more than some families who don't face the challlenges they do.
Mark you are opening the world’s eyes to an issue rarely spoken about. Thank you for documenting this beautiful family’s history.
What issue is he opening?
@@FalconMidgetpoverty and the fact that we mankind needs to care for those less fortunate and also not to judge people from inbred families because it is not what you think it is. These people are lovely and want to be loved and have friends like anyone else
@@anniecandy3335 Thanks
@@anniecandy3335 hey my grandpa clear in the 50's used to live up in a holler where this family called the blacks were kind of like the whittakers. But while in his model t they would chase him naked down the road cause they didn't see vehicles and i guess they liked racing him. But they would invite them over and fix them food really nice people, probably better than most today.
Would that subject be about incest. If so that’s talked about all the time
Because of you Mark, you helped create an environment where people want to go up to them and show their admiration and respect. Lots of love and respect for all the work you have done to help these amazing folks.
Well that’s true, but…….. they want their 15 mins of internet fame also. “A lot of them”
@@VinnieVegaYou really think this family is concerned about having 15 minutes of fame on the internet??
WOW 🤦🏻♀️
@@Irene-yd2sv if you would read the comments in the order in which they were written you will understand that we wasn’t talking about “the family” keep up Karen.. I mean Irene. SMH 🤦♂️
Yes instead of the abuse they used to take 💖💖
@@VinnieVega Wrong context for the term “Karen” 🤣🤦🏻♀️
Thank you Mark and Lauren for your so ever kindness to this Family. Thank you for sharing their Story with us.
Idk what they will do without Betty. She is the sweetest and kindest heart!
Ahh Larry that was so sweet cleaning up after your brother.
This family is love! No judgement no anger just love
I just can't say enough for Mark bringing these people to everyone's attention. Such a memorable family and he has brought them so much help and spotlights them. Poor Ray looks like he's getting so much older. You can tell they certainly understand everything even though some aren't verbal. God Bless this family.
It's a small moment but I loved Betty yelling at Ray to wait after he took off across the parking lot at Burger King. It's clear she's always watching out for all of them
This is incredible. This familys story is amazing. And the compassion, respect, and loyalty you show them is how we all should treat our neighbours. Thank you.❤
Mark. How wonderful that you shared this cemetery experience with this family. You are the most non judgmental, thoughtful, caring person that i ever come across. All your interviews and interactions with so many people are inspirational.
Have you seen the SWU interview with prostitute named AMANDA RABB ?
" THE ROAD TO HELL IS PAVED WITH GOOD INTENTIONS "
The facility who swooped in and snatched up Amanda in its talons is named AURA. It's founded by LIMA JEVNEMOVIC. Amanda, IMHO, became a Guinea pig for the woman Lima Jevnemvic.
The creator of the RUclips channel THE SURPRISE WITNESS was able to gather A LOT of information on this Lima woman. Court records, conversations between her and SWU Mark Laita. Then strange enough he invited Lima to be interviewed by him on SWU. OMG !!!! Ever since I watched that interview my total respect for ML went from 10 to -0.000000000. It'sduringthis interview he revealed his true colors. Lima and Mark absolutely tagged teamed against THE SURPRISE WITNESS TV creator.
These two clowns did Amanda so dirty...they were able to get Amanda's father finding a way to convince a judge that Amanda wasn't able to care for herself so her father pulled a Britney Spears deception in order to file for conservatories. He was granted on. It's was after that cowardly move that Amanda lost her freedom. Once her father obtained " ownership " of Amanda Lima was then able to slither her way to gain control of Amanda via Amanda's dad's conservatorship. The evidence I'm talking about is in the SWU videos on his website Lima and Mark are wolves in sheep's clothing.
When I was watching THE SURPRISE WITNESS evidence videos were posted online and I had read and watched these videos it felt as though someone socked me in the gut to be honest. She trusted these people and they did her dirty. RIP AMANDA. NO ONE CAN BETRAY YOU ANYONE SWEETHEART. 😢😢😢😢😢😢❤❤❤
I do think this video needs to be retitled: asmr crunchy leaves.
Makes you wonder how many more families like the Whittakers are out there hidden in the mountains that could use all our help.❤
A bunch.
Leave them alone, for their sanity .Life for them will be hard enough.
Not everyone from the mountains are the same as this situation.
Unfortunately there are quite a few families like the Whittakers in Appalachian country. Corbin Kentucky and Harlan/Hazzard have families that were isolated back up in those hollows that have been practicing intermarriage for over two hundred years. Both of a very good friends have birth defects. His first wife wasn't a cousin that they know of but they were still related because of the lack of new blood in the gene pool. One boy has a Taco ear and the other has severe spine problems. It happened because of the area being settled by like 8 families that were isolated for 200 years.
Mark I just wanted to say thank you so much for what you do for that family. They have really came a long way since the first show. It does them a lot of good to get out every now and again. I wish there was more people in the world like you and Lauren. ❤
Come on. He makes a lot of money out of this.
$$$
I know he makes money off of it but some of the money that he's making he gives to them. He doesn't have to take them to Walmart or bowling or out to eat. He could just go to their home and do his videos and make all the money but he doesn't he gives back to them too! U don't see anyone else doing it for them?
This channel reminds us how precious humanity is. Thanks Mark ❤️👍🏼
This family is so endearing. Simple, honest people just enjoying life and not bothering anyone. God bless them for showing us that very little is needed to be at peace.
I love that Lorraine is slowly but surely coming starting to show her personality ❤
I always love seeing videos of the Whittakers. Even watching the recent video of Larry’s grandsons, you can see that family means everything to them.
Yeah…perhaps a little too much.
I pray Luis can get out and make a good life. He has potential.
At end of day family is all you got but remember we all have the great father above 🙏🏻
They are so protective of their family.
Its so kind of yall helping this precious family-and taking them places-thank yall❤
Mark you deserve a Humanitarian award!!! I have learned more from your channel than I ever had in school! Your love and compassion for people is beyond anything I have ever witnessed!! Your calling on this earth is also spreading to the rest of us who watch to be more understanding, more compassionate and loving to the people we dont understand or think we cant relate to!!! Your channel humbles me making me daily want to be a better person!!! So much love.....
Above all else, they are a tight-knit family who care for each other. Thank you, Mark, for helping them and getting them out into the world a little. Love the Whittakers and wish them well.
You can see the love they have for each other. They care for each other too. When I first saw this channel I thought it was for the wrong reasons, until I watched it. These people have done so much to help the Whittakers. I’m so appreciative. God bless the Whittakers and Soft White Underbelly.
I wonder why so many of their stones the numbers were backwards , also noticed a lot of the family passed when they were in their 60’s or younger , so sad . Thank you for keeping us updated and showing them so much love ❤
That is very weird
I was just looking for this comment, maybe someone from the family had to write it as they wanted it presented on the stone, maybe they wrote the numbers backwards? Could be dyslexia
As far as their family dying in their 60s or younger… coal mining will do that.
The backwards ones could be because they were homemade. My hubby and I tried to make my mom one and the numbers would come out backwards because of the stamps.
@bushratbeachbum yes, that explains it better. That's what happened when we tried making my mom one. The numbers would cast backwards.
Huge thank you to the Whittaker family for letting us all share a glimpse of your lives. It's taught me to never take any thing for granted, and the power of family.
I love the updates on this family so thankful that they are blessed and cared for. Thank you Mark for all you do to help them !!!
Thks Mark for the Kind hearted person you are to take care of this family like you have without you they would all be dead by now Love you all here i enjoy watching the videos you have made & shown the world to see people have different ways & live with sickness & need help. GOD bless & loves this is the way to live happier life to help the people in the world it makes it a better place instead of a bad one when people all help each other.( RIP Ray) miss you 😢/ GOD has you now no more pain no more worries.
Oh, my heart. Lorraine walking back to get her crown had me on the verge of tears and I don't know why. To think these folks were tormented and made fun of all those years when they had absolutely no control over the cards life dealt them is heartbreaking. I am so glad they're being treated well now and not being harassed anymore. I don't know if it's just me but Ray isn't looking very well...I can't pinpoint it but the light in his eyes just didn't seem to be as bright as usual and his coloring seemed different. Maybe I'm imagining things. Thank you for raising awareness, Mark and for everything you've done and continue to do for this family of delicate souls.
@femmedraven I don't think Ray looks well either. Some of the other comments were suggesting that perhaps he is suffering from a UTI. Definitely seems like something about Ray is off. 😔
I agree. Ray has not looked well for a very long time. When he is quiet I know he is not feeling well.
Yes! I felt this way too! To me, it looks like his eyes have dulled over. They look like they've yellowed and the rims are red.
Sometimes yellowing of the skin and whites of eyes can be yellow jaundice indicating liver problems. I noticed the coloring, too.
@@LisaBrown-wy9hi That't what I was thinking as well...just didn't want to say it 🤐
This is done with such compassion and respect. This family is in a better place with all the help you have connected to them. Bless you Mark,
Every outing they get to experience makes their lives more fulfilling and brings out more of their wonderful personalities. Such a lovely peaceful spot for a final resting place. I photograph and document a lot of cemeteries and family cemeteries are becoming more and more rare. Thank you Mark and all the donors for assisting this family and giving them opportunities like this. A Happy New Year to all!
It’s sad that the county they live in couldn’t provide weekly assistance: 1 man to assist the men with a shower and hair wash, 1 female to help Lorraine with the same, and the female could assist Betty with laundry and cleaning. I am sure Betty can take her own shower but she’s not getting any younger and I’m sure helping out with household duties would make her very happy. Someone should check into this.
Yes they defanatly should get some sort of home assistance 100 per cent ,yes with there showering/bathing they are in need don't k now how they even survived all this Time 😊
They would have to apply for that it doesn't just happen if ppl don't ask for t he services
@@falloncowger6358So sad 😔 that people don't vote for their own best interests.
Watching this gladdens my heart. They are such gentle folk. Wishing them all good health and happiness for 2024 from Scotland.
They have never been so happy. Look at them. Thanks Mark and team. I love them, not a ounce of hate or animosity in them. God love them all! Xx
Timmy has the sweetest spirit. He's adorable. ❤
I just love Betty....and Lorraine is looking so much happier all the time.. I am so happy that you both do so many wonderful things for this family... I have been watching since you began filming, and you can sure see so much difference in them. I think they have just been waiting for someone kind to come and just be with them and do things with them, and not treat them like they some kind of side show. You can see that with some other filmers on here and they make me so mad...Thank you so much for everything you both do!
I think it is amazing the joy you have brought to this family. I know it must be tough to see and hear the things you do everyday. We need more like you my friend.
This is the most I have heard Lorraine "talk". She just loved getting something to eat, and her beautiful crown she got to wear and keep. She is so innocent and delightful. So are all the Whittakers, just nice delightful people. Love them.
The crunching leaves are turning the cemetery into a "Hello" from family!!👍
The Whittaker interviews were the first I saw when discovering Soft White Underbelly. We are all just souls who want the same thing. Love, respect, and being seen as people. Not how much you have, or condition. Just people. Mark has made such a tremendous difference in their lives. You are an amazing person!
I pray Betty lives a long life. They sure do depend on her. ❤
This is exactly what I was thinking. Sweet Loraine calling Betty to hold her hand 😊
I hope Betty stays with us for a long time, they really need her.
Betty is the glue that holds the family together
They are such a great family and kind people. I'm so happy that Mark has helped them throughout the years to get to the point they are now. God bless them and you too Mark.
Kind in what way would you say? Not disagreeing and its nice they get help. But there sure is a rather shady past in that family
Nothing more rewarding than seeing how much they appreciate, how they’re recognized out in public, how good “ our family “ is doing! This channel brought so many together! Much love & cheers to all into the new year!
I’m glad people understand how life is at one time people were put down but we all grow up and we will never no how we will turn out in life thank you mark and your wife for being so good to them
People can call it exploiting all they want, he has done nothing but help this family. Not just money, Mark has shown this family attention and care that they probably have never experienced from anyone else. Also, I think he's done a lot more for them than what he shows us. Whether he makes money or not, these videos are to show that we may look different, we may have different opinions on things, different families, different backgrounds, but we are all humans. No one deserves to be judged on appearance, so many amazing people dress uniquely, but that doesn't mean they're a bad person, they just don't wanna be like everyone else.
The Wittakers seem pretty happy to see Mark & Lauren whenever I’ve watched them. I’m sure if they didn’t want to do it anymore they’d say so. But you only have to look at the positive reaction they got in Burger King from that guy. They are minor celebrities now which is far better than the alternative they possibly faced before which could have been staring and jokes. Now their community understands them feels connected to them and vice versa and are most likely proud of them.
I can’t believe someone would think that Mark is taking the Evang of them. Well actually I can’t believe it and people are so out of their mind these days. Mark is wonderful and he’s helped his family beyond measure and you know what I hope he makes money. I hope he makes a lot of money. There’s nothing wrong with making money people, as long as you do it legally honestly and ethically then the more you make the more you can help the more you can give but there’s certain people in the world that think of someone makes money that someone else must lose money. It doesn’t work like that. I get aggravated when I hear things like that.
Who said that?
Lots of people look at Mark poorly because they say Mark is profiting off these people's lives. @@JohnSmith-c9v
Tons of people on other channels that steal marks material @@JohnSmith-c9v
I love the “fan” of the show, how kind he was, how encouraging with the crossword puzzles, and then in the background talking to someone else saying they’re in his prayers….ugh 😢😢😢
Yes I liked him a lot.He seemed so genuine and a real fan of the Whitaker family. God bless all of them. Loved this family from the first time I watched them. 🙏🏻🙏🏻♥️♥️
Yess!!
In case you missed it... Ray driving the R/C truck at the end was priceless! His smile and joy!!! He's surprisingly good at it.
Priceless, it put a big smile on my face.
I wouldnt say hes god at it haha hes just pressing the trigger lol. Joy is contagious nonetheless.
@@jackriess2551who cares
@@jackriess2551 Exactly
Thank You Mark for all you did for these people.. I know Betty was wrong.. however we do not understand how she may be limited as well. You have did right by these folks. I praise thee.
This was such an important and sweet outing. Mark, you were so giving and kind to this family, once again. I love how non-judgmental you are and the love you show to this family. You have enriched their lives. I watch all of the Whittaker videos, and this one is my favorite. Bless you for all that you do for them. They got to wear crowns that day. These sweet people will wear crowns of another kind in Heaven. Bless you,
Listening to Timmy say Mema grandpa pawpaw literally broke my heart that goes to show you the mind is a precious thing he can’t express everything but he knows what’s going on. Timmy even took his hat off to eat.
Precious
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I have a soft spot for Timmy. ♥ He has such a fun personality.
Timmy is such a precious soul. I thought the same when he was saying that.
I often think what will happen to Timmy when the others have aged beyond carrying for him or passed on.
Betty is always watching over the others to help them, she is the glue that keeps them together with such care. This family is so wonderful they keep their memories close to their hearts and never forget their roots. Mark you gave them such a special day Ray enjoyed that burger and I thought Lorraine looked more lively today. Mark You have put this family in all our hearts all around the world we have grown to love them and respect the other side of living. Sending love and virtual hugs from the UK xxxxxxx
Ray sure loves to eat… god bless dude that’s helping them and god bless the family
Lorraine was so excited about her burger King hat and said thank you Lauren and Mark after eating that was so sweet ❤
Family means everything for those in those WV mountains. I lived in those mountains for 10 years. Most of them are basic, wonderful people. I was blessed to have cared for many there in my medical career.
Thank you for your service...these are good people...
This one was fascinating, it’s lovely that they are all laid to rest together.
after seeing these videos, it helped inspired me to take a road trip down through the Appalachian mountains, just seeing the scenery of the different states the mountains range through, its hard to not feel such a respect and admiration for the people of these areas. I can only imagine the hard lives everybody and their forefathers had to endure, I almost felt a sense of guilt, knowing i was just passing through these towns that generations have spent their whole lives around, and Id be back to my hometown with all the comforts a college town can provide. Since then, Ive been wondering if some people are stuck there, and how many are there by choice, its something I dont think ill ever truly understand. Thank you mark for providing people like the Whittakers the attention they deserve.
This family shows us how strong the human and family spirit is. Love lives in the Whittakers hearts.
Mark, not going to lie this is your most heartwarming episode to date. God bless you for your kindness ❤
Mark, you have truly enhanced the Whittakers lives. It is very touching to see your patience and respect. You are making the world a better place.
Thank you Billy to come over and have a chat with them you are also amazing.
Betty looked overwhelmed at the cemetery. She's been the mother to all of her family but I'm sure she was reflecting on memories of her parents.
Ray is looking older and thinner. His eyes were bloodshot and he wasn't as vocal as he usually is. I hope he is under a doctor's care.
Thanks Mark and Lauren for everything you do for the Whittakers. Once again, I have tears in my eyes as I watch your kindness towards them.
All of them are aging quickly. Ray has become very hunched over and as you said, he is quieter and not looking very healthy. Betty has aged a lot too. She didn't used to need a cane, but does now. It seems like her hearing and her comprehension is going (could be early dementia setting in). Larry has all but lost his hearing since we first met him.
@@Danimal77 I agree that they all seem to be aging too quickly. I noticed that several of the grave markers showed that Whittakers commonly passed
away in their 60's. I suppose they may be more susceptible to genetically related illnesses but it's sad to see most of them in somewhat failing health.
Thanks for replying to my comment. Happy New Year to you.
Ray definitely seemed to be somewhat ill. I hope they get some drops for his poor eyes
@@stephaniebragg3081Yes he definitely needs medical attention but unfortunately I don't think he would allow any treatment to be administered to him. As you can see he wouldn't even let someone put a paper hat on his head. Imagine him letting someone drop medicine in his eyes. Not gonna happen.
What’s with rays grunting? He doesn’t say a word I find this hard to believe!