The Death of Larry Whittaker

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  • Опубликовано: 24 мар 2024
  • Soft White Underbelly follow up Larry Whittaker's death in Odd, West Virginia.
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Комментарии • 42 тыс.

  • @leerexford4508
    @leerexford4508 3 месяца назад +8754

    Notice how Betty had that "uh-oh" look on her face when Mark rolled in? She knew exactly what was up

  • @smokejc
    @smokejc 3 месяца назад +9396

    Also Timmy being super excited to see Mark was wholesome

    • @DogFish-NZ
      @DogFish-NZ 3 месяца назад +173

      bet he thinks of watermelon every time he sees Mark 🍉😍

    • @katakombi7229
      @katakombi7229 3 месяца назад +139

      That was honestly so heartwarming

    • @kymfrancis4612
      @kymfrancis4612 3 месяца назад +212

      Timmy is such a genuine person ❤❤❤

    • @HkMp5Guy
      @HkMp5Guy 3 месяца назад +268

      In my opinion, he’s the only one who deserves any kind of help or donations. Looking back, they never should have been given money like that without some supervision. They aren’t capable of handling that amount of money

    • @heather3244
      @heather3244 3 месяца назад +153

      Aww, Sweet Timmy and Ray 💙💙 GOD BLESS YOU MARK

  • @aswinprasad1011
    @aswinprasad1011 22 дня назад +164

    The way Mark was frustrated but he never raised his voice shows how good of a human he is

    • @bennypit4411
      @bennypit4411 8 дней назад +2

      But not very smart, what did he think would happen giving this family $100K cash? Of course they were gonna get taken advantage of, it would be easy to talk them into anything and with kids who have learning disabilities obviously they know $100K is coming in they are gonna try to get their hands on it. You can't just give people like this who have never had anything for 70 years of living that kind of money all of a sudden, Mark should've(or his assistants) arrange purchase of furniture, construction on the house and things like that. Give em $1K walmart card for food and things like that every now and then. You can't really blame people with mental retardation for blowing $100K, you blame the guy who fooled his viewers into giving that money and him just handing it over without any precautions in place.
      You also know they didn't pay taxes on that money either, so now they will probably end up losing their property to the Govt. They probably now owe $30K+ in taxes

    • @rhondaketterman8352
      @rhondaketterman8352 8 дней назад

      New Bathroom new toilet😮😮😮😮

    • @thyninjanickbaker6732
      @thyninjanickbaker6732 7 дней назад +1

      He's on camera, and has also made a lot of money off these people

  • @ScottBison123
    @ScottBison123 24 дня назад +130

    Ray pointing to “the price is right” to Mark is hilariously ironic. Ray knows what’s up.

  • @GuiltyPleasures2
    @GuiltyPleasures2 3 месяца назад +19083

    Betty isn’t as clueless as she’d like everyone to believe.

    • @teriandjacobsworld
      @teriandjacobsworld 3 месяца назад +921

      No she's not, I've said that in the beginning! So now we know what happened to all that money 😢

    • @sweetaudrina_
      @sweetaudrina_ 3 месяца назад +1619

      She’s being taken advantage of obviously… they’re telling her to lie and she doesn’t have the skills or intelligence to stand up for herself.

    • @jeanniewhite5687
      @jeanniewhite5687 3 месяца назад +371

      Boy that's so true! I'd be running for the hills if I was mark.

    • @lissamay3380
      @lissamay3380 3 месяца назад +143

      I agree sadly.

    • @lissamay3380
      @lissamay3380 3 месяца назад +321

      They aren't good liars.

  • @jmuduke99
    @jmuduke99 3 месяца назад +6858

    That’s baller to hop on a red eye flight to fly across country to call somebody out on their BS! Well done, Mark! Had to be done!

    • @m.sb.1806
      @m.sb.1806 3 месяца назад +225

      He pulled up like a gangster

    • @CanMoose
      @CanMoose 3 месяца назад +75

      They ain't gonna care..they don't have to answer to him.
      If he don't want to give them money he don't have to...
      If he can't handle the way they are he should leave them alone.

    • @shellyscott4822
      @shellyscott4822 3 месяца назад +14

      Agreed

    • @jmuduke99
      @jmuduke99 3 месяца назад +113

      @@CanMoose You sound a little Odd, WV yourself. 😂😂😂

    • @juanitaadkins3138
      @juanitaadkins3138 3 месяца назад +35

      @@CanMoose You have no clue about the situation

  • @dylanh2591
    @dylanh2591 25 дней назад +66

    Lying about your own loved ones death for drugs is the lowest of the low. This is the kind of stuff that makes me stay away from drugs.

    • @kevinwilliams1367
      @kevinwilliams1367 9 дней назад +2

      And sadly, it happens every day all over the planet. Drugs make you do some crazy shit.
      What’s Betty’s excuse? She was sober as fuck, and still lied. That’s what would be sketched to me.

  • @nolanbromley5254
    @nolanbromley5254 24 дня назад +57

    Sorry this happened to you mark, don’t let this discourage you from continuing to be a good person and do good things for people. You are a rare breed out here in today’s world.

  • @user-xy9ls6py2c
    @user-xy9ls6py2c 3 месяца назад +4863

    Getting scammed by the Whitakers is the plot I never saw coming !

    • @rhiannonpeach4571
      @rhiannonpeach4571 3 месяца назад +67

      Same 😂

    • @laurenrios1911
      @laurenrios1911 3 месяца назад +48

      lmfao!!

    • @Currawong
      @Currawong 3 месяца назад +151

      It was inevitable. They are hooked on his money, as there is no where else they can get income. Without it, they are back where they were in the beginning.

    • @mistymountainmiss
      @mistymountainmiss 3 месяца назад +143

      I did. Quite a few poor mountain people are GREAT at scamming the system. They're smart in all the right ways. Sad, but true.

    • @Spiderdan-59
      @Spiderdan-59 3 месяца назад +7

      You know that 😂

  • @protonelectronneutron6038
    @protonelectronneutron6038 3 месяца назад +17234

    Faking Larry's death to scam money is just.... disgusting 😟

    • @dipmeingloss
      @dipmeingloss 3 месяца назад +202

      Nah fr like WTF ... 😒😒

    • @BAKER22-l4u
      @BAKER22-l4u 3 месяца назад +19

      So are you?

    • @SophieBird07
      @SophieBird07 3 месяца назад +769

      Drug addiction has absolutely no moral code. It’s an absolute soul destroyer.

    • @GenxJul
      @GenxJul 3 месяца назад +271

      Aww that’s a shame… but I know Mark knows they don’t know any better way.
      Mark, you are a God send to this family❤ Bless you Mark for your caring heart, many rewards await you in heaven, I do believe. I have soooo much respect for you.

    • @ThunderLips730
      @ThunderLips730 3 месяца назад +117

      ​@@BAKER22-l4uwhat does that mean? That's an honest question, I'm genuinely curious

  • @kuallalumpur5417
    @kuallalumpur5417 Месяц назад +158

    The family motto should be "I don't know".

    • @dillfincollins6516
      @dillfincollins6516 19 дней назад +4

      Definitely agree! The funny thing is they all know what's up, I don't buy that shit for a minute..

  • @heatherlynae5128
    @heatherlynae5128 Месяц назад +260

    Given over 100k and still living like that is crazy

    • @WoodysOpinion101
      @WoodysOpinion101 25 дней назад +12

      And did you expect them to be normal after coming into money?😂

    • @groundbeef662
      @groundbeef662 24 дня назад +34

      You can't just give them 100k or even 1k they have not been educated to manage it. Someone needs to manage their lives on a daily even hourly basis.

    • @miew8204
      @miew8204 22 дня назад +4

      @@groundbeef662 and they never will, that's what disabled means in this case. The house does look alot better nowadays. And As proven again Mark keeps good taps on the money to make sure the Whittaker's in need get the money they need to cover expanses.
      And BJ is not in need of this.

    • @alshore6227
      @alshore6227 21 день назад +5

      It's like people who win the lottery and don't know how to manage it

    • @stupiditypissesmeoff330
      @stupiditypissesmeoff330 21 день назад

      Funny how people think all these problems with all these poor people stem from them just simply “not having money”. Rarely the case. And money always makes these people worse! They can’t manage not breeding their sisters and mothers, what makes you think they can manage $100,000???? Smfh! I mean come on……

  • @morgenmachen2400
    @morgenmachen2400 3 месяца назад +5723

    Timmy and Ray are the only ones who greeted him properly. Everyone else seems to know what's going on, which is strange considering they 'don't know' about Larry's 'funeral'.

    • @willystiles1665
      @willystiles1665 3 месяца назад +313

      Right I agree with u but I’m on the fence about if Kenny really knows anything or if he doesn’t it kinda seemed like he wanted to tell mark something in private but idk

    • @GordonGarvey
      @GordonGarvey 3 месяца назад +366

      I'm sure Lorraine isn't in on it though lol, she's always been the quiet one.

    • @Str8talker76
      @Str8talker76 3 месяца назад +15

      Absolutely

    • @tonyafox6176
      @tonyafox6176 3 месяца назад +72

      Kenneth is ALWAYS trailing Mark. It's almost like he didn't want to be by the camera cuz he didn't want to get interviewed / questioned. All of it is a damn shame 😢

    • @morgenmachen2400
      @morgenmachen2400 3 месяца назад +91

      @@GordonGarvey you're right. I should have mentioned Lorraine, Timmy, Ray but I discounted them due to my perception that they aren't mentally able to be complicit in any scamming. That was messed up of me.

  • @ericonca
    @ericonca 3 месяца назад +6269

    Larry making an appearance in his own death announcement video is the most Whittaker thing I've ever seen 🤣

  • @bkbooher
    @bkbooher Месяц назад +352

    So that’s what Ray has been trying to tell you this whole time

  • @mjaxs0114
    @mjaxs0114 23 дня назад +46

    The amount of patience and understanding that mark has is crazy!!!!!

  • @missgemini7614
    @missgemini7614 3 месяца назад +2173

    Ray is always so hospitable towards Mark, always offering a seat and pointing out things he finds interesting. Feel so sorry for him, Lorraine and Timmy! 😔

    • @brookebowers1229
      @brookebowers1229 3 месяца назад +85

      Made me cry Lorriane is never that verbal ... this must have been heartbreaking for Mark to sit with on the plane ride home - There should be a trust for those 3 and social media could do that - what are those 3 going to do in 5yrs when all of this over ? Since day 1 i have thought that ...or hoped for that ..everyone is sick here even Mark says BJ needs help ... this is tragic

    • @celticwarrior777
      @celticwarrior777 3 месяца назад +55

      We love ray

    • @TheNarcissus666
      @TheNarcissus666 3 месяца назад +6

      Agreed

    • @helenizzard8993
      @helenizzard8993 3 месяца назад +9

      So ❤Ray ❤❤❤

    • @pj123xyz
      @pj123xyz 3 месяца назад +14

      They deserve better than their living conditions for sure. They need to be stay together tho

  • @darcymccabe-pb1se
    @darcymccabe-pb1se 3 месяца назад +7973

    The fact that this man flew across the country at the drop of a hat to bust her for lying to him is gangster af😂

    • @jyellowhammer
      @jyellowhammer 3 месяца назад +66

      AF!

    • @katypotatoe
      @katypotatoe 3 месяца назад +106

      Savage on business 😂 (respectfully)

    • @Mymysticmama
      @Mymysticmama 3 месяца назад +73

      hard gansta love ❤i don't even think my parents would make that trip.
      notice they said the 'other guy' won't even answer his phone. grab clout + split. views are $$ don't waste 'em on sleezebags.

    • @jedipanda333
      @jedipanda333 3 месяца назад +17

      WORD!

    • @GypsyChlo
      @GypsyChlo 3 месяца назад +146

      He holds her accountable yet remains so kind and patient. ❤

  • @mattjford473
    @mattjford473 26 дней назад +40

    They all need a case manager or someone to help them with finances etc. they don’t have the education etc to do these things themselves . Wake up Mark

    • @Raquel_824
      @Raquel_824 9 дней назад +1

      Them hillbillies a bunch of druggies ... THE GIG IS UP !!!!!

  • @reneechadwickmelvin2161
    @reneechadwickmelvin2161 Месяц назад +56

    I just love watching Ray.
    He’s a good guy. I watched one of these videos where he was showing where some of his relatives were burried and he was sad. In another he was showing mark veggies he planted. He’s a proud man. He’s kind and he’s grateful for all Mark has done. He shows him his new things as if to say thank you. He’s expressive and helps everyone as best he can. For him to only grunt I wonder what his childhood was like. Was he left alone all the time with just the dogs as company. Hes the only honest one in that family!

    • @bennypit4411
      @bennypit4411 День назад +1

      There's a lot of stuff about him when he was younger, he used to be sort of a predator, several of his cousins have said he tried to SA them when they were all younger. Apparently he was arrested in his mid 20's a couple of times for actually attacking women and trying to have his way with em and sent to a hospital. A few people in the community posted about Ray and his brother being kicked out church and not allowed to go back years ago b/c they kept acting inappropriately around young girls.

  • @bessiefunk2037
    @bessiefunk2037 3 месяца назад +3249

    Giving BJ $2000 to 'get started" in NC would literally be funding her final overdose. She should not get a dime until she is in a clinic and discharged with a clean bill of health, THEN get receipts for every penny sent to the family

    • @lizzttedaphne5609
      @lizzttedaphne5609 3 месяца назад +106

      Good let her go.

    • @powderandpaint14
      @powderandpaint14 3 месяца назад +199

      Yes, giving money to a drug addict is always a mistake. Pay for a place at detox and rehab sure, but someone would have to make sure she went.

    • @ShotsFired50150
      @ShotsFired50150 3 месяца назад +29

      💯 facts

    • @timebot000
      @timebot000 3 месяца назад

      Daddy don't give his hoes CASH but he buys them the Things they Need .
      Not a bad formula in some cases

    • @marysunshine5587
      @marysunshine5587 3 месяца назад +104

      Mark never gets this

  • @sweetcandubandu
    @sweetcandubandu 3 месяца назад +4256

    The look on Betty's face when Mark showed up. Priceless. She knows more than she claims.

    • @pitchorditch
      @pitchorditch 3 месяца назад +302

      Personally I believe she knows exactly what’s happening. Everyone that said “I don’t know nothin’ about this” knows everything about it.

    • @tomsevcik1792
      @tomsevcik1792 3 месяца назад +145

      Oh my god I read the comments before I saw that and wow your right. Her face entirely says “Oh fuckk”

    • @suzettesaint-claire9423
      @suzettesaint-claire9423 3 месяца назад

      Yeah she knows but she’s also very easily manipulated and a people pleaser. She will agree with anyone like that other RUclipsd who got her to say that mark doesn’t give her any money. She may have a personality disorder or complex trauma

    • @brad4110
      @brad4110 3 месяца назад +148

      Betty an OG scammer

    • @ontariorox
      @ontariorox 3 месяца назад +61

      She definitely knows

  • @MeyerBen27
    @MeyerBen27 Месяц назад +54

    The price is right playing in the background is insanely crazy and ironic.

    • @klwthe3rd
      @klwthe3rd Месяц назад +5

      I was wondering if it was just me or the bad omen that Ray wanted to show Mark the prices is right on the TV. Talk about crazy vibes.

    • @dianabotton5342
      @dianabotton5342 20 дней назад +2

      Ray is smarter than he looks, he definitely put that up on the tv

    • @MeyerBen27
      @MeyerBen27 19 дней назад

      @@dianabotton5342 if you THINK Ray is smart you probably believe the Earth is flat.

  • @sheilacamp
    @sheilacamp Месяц назад +20

    Mark, you are an unbelievable man. We need more people like you. You teach patience at the top level. Thank you for teaching others patience, grace, kindness, compassion and love of service to everyone. May your path always be blessed ❤

  • @anaisrosso
    @anaisrosso 3 месяца назад +9376

    BJ is not sorry that she lied, but she’s damn sorry that she got caught.

  • @Jivolt
    @Jivolt 3 месяца назад +17862

    It’s amazing how Mark doesn’t absolutely lose his sh*t.

    • @pepperwestwood
      @pepperwestwood 3 месяца назад +774

      Yeahhh if I were him they might actually need clothes for a funeral or two 😅

    • @SilverToes756
      @SilverToes756 3 месяца назад +623

      That's because this is all about content

    • @aren1998
      @aren1998 3 месяца назад +131

      I would have gone crazy🤯

    • @JamieSuzanne.
      @JamieSuzanne. 3 месяца назад +49

      ​@@pepperwestwoodhahaha no doubt!!!

    • @DogFish-NZ
      @DogFish-NZ 3 месяца назад +342

      he is a everything Tyler wants to be, but never will.
      the timing though , wow.

  • @queenofswords420
    @queenofswords420 28 дней назад +25

    Betty keeps her cards close to her chest, shes not willing to admit to anything ..

  • @pennypositive9005
    @pennypositive9005 Месяц назад +18

    This is so sad😢 I'd be so grateful if someone like this amazing man came into my life and helped me. They used him and his money for their addiction, sad 😔

  • @kinzth6914
    @kinzth6914 3 месяца назад +1391

    What hurts my heart the most is knowing Timmy, ray and Lorraine are going without, because the other family is ruining the bond with Mark by taking advantage.

    • @nickicouture7297
      @nickicouture7297 3 месяца назад +93

      Exactly. When mark said he didn’t know if he could trust any of them I was thinking … ray and Lorraine and Timmy are so pure.

    • @rhondamadgirl
      @rhondamadgirl 3 месяца назад +37

      I’m hoping Mark is thinking carefully of them. It’s not their fault. A trustee should be appointee to manage their part of any money or maybe Mark will still be able to take them out.

    • @valeriefilerelli6794
      @valeriefilerelli6794 3 месяца назад +64

      If Mark truly and genuinely wanted to help this family he would get Adult Protective Services involved and get poor Ray, Timmy, and Loraine out of that disease infested, fire trap of a so called (home) ! They could be living in an assisted living facility and be taken care of properly. Not be exploited on RUclips for views and money by their family members.

    • @rhuntsinger8899
      @rhuntsinger8899 3 месяца назад

      Mark is socialist. Its his job to take care of others. Some people love to be doormats.

    • @wegotgame
      @wegotgame 3 месяца назад +20

      I am hopeful for Timmy & Loraine…Ray is another story…there is known violence and SA in his history. He would never make it in a facility…

  • @MarshaMarsha885
    @MarshaMarsha885 3 месяца назад +8068

    NOOO BETTY SHOULD NOT BE GETTING THE MONEY. They need a conservator

    • @curtismorris8243
      @curtismorris8243 3 месяца назад +477

      Ya' think!? If anyone with a brain was actually trying to help, they wouldn't just hand money to people who can't even care for themselves.

    • @TEM14411
      @TEM14411 3 месяца назад +319

      Exactly. They have no financial literacy. No stewardship. Which was always evident. Mark enabled this as well. May people learn how to serve the highest good and not their own distortions.

    • @TEM14411
      @TEM14411 3 месяца назад +63

      DISCERNMENT

    • @carolwilder2289
      @carolwilder2289 3 месяца назад +13

      Amen!!

    • @pauleiwalsh
      @pauleiwalsh 3 месяца назад +12

      so right.

  • @CasualPhoenix1
    @CasualPhoenix1 Месяц назад +16

    Mark, ive been watching your videos for many years. Ive seen the way you show compassion to people who have fallen through the cracks and the way your content has shifted as you listen to your viewers as they bring up uncomfortable truths.
    I had no idea this kind of money was involved in helping just this one family. Im so sorry you've been taken advantage of and lied to like this. I can't imagine the toll running this channel takes on your psyche. Bless you for all that you do and all the sacrifices no one sees.

    • @kevinwilliams1367
      @kevinwilliams1367 9 дней назад

      It’s donations from a GoFundMe. So ultimately, they’re hurting themselves. Then I see Betty is claiming Mark hasn’t given them any of the GFM money. She seems devious.
      I’m glad my man Kenneth straight called them out for lying to Mark, when he said you don’t do that, it’s wrong. They come off as a typical family.

  • @matthewthomasjames
    @matthewthomasjames 26 дней назад +34

    Betty shouldn’t be blamed. She’s easily manipulated by her family, obviously. They take advantage of her naïveté and simple-mindedness. The family should never have cash given to them. Someone should be in charge of arranging for food to be delivered to them, or home improvements being made, but they sure don’t need cash for the leeches in the family to utilize.

  • @JLowe304
    @JLowe304 3 месяца назад +5206

    FROM DAY ONE: You NEVER include money. Fundraise, fix their roof, buy their needs at Walmart but NEVER SEND MONEY. EVER

    • @vickypatout5361
      @vickypatout5361 3 месяца назад +213

      You are 100% right!

    • @francinegreenway8451
      @francinegreenway8451 3 месяца назад +52

      💯

    • @JunoBeachGirl_
      @JunoBeachGirl_ 3 месяца назад +219

      Mark should have known better. He had to know he was going down a rabbit hole? I think he knew exactly what was going on, and he simply followed through on the exercise to prove another point? If he had simply called the so-called funeral home to tell them that he would pay associated fees for the funeral, then this abominable creature who calls herself his daughter would not have been able to pull off the scam on the one person in the world who took an interest in their family and has bettered their lives exponentially. I have met Mark Laita’s sister and kinder person and a the Laita’s are honorable people. One of the reasons Mark began this channel was because he wanted to try to help people in a small way, and in the effort of helping marginalized people, he wanted to shine a light on the circumstances that some people find themselves. It was a way to help people avoid making similar mistakes. Shame on this woman for doing this!

    • @jviarruel
      @jviarruel 3 месяца назад +28

      Agreed 💯

    • @zoravibes
      @zoravibes 3 месяца назад +175

      Right!? Britney Spears and Bam Margera need a conservatorship yet let's just give the Whittaker's 150k cash; they'll budget it wisely!

  • @hoobsgarage
    @hoobsgarage 3 месяца назад +2270

    Everyone wants mark's money and ray just wants him to hangout and watch tv.

    • @Blessedishisname
      @Blessedishisname 3 месяца назад +25

      Bless man ❤

    • @franciscofranco5739
      @franciscofranco5739 3 месяца назад +41

      ***Mark’s viewer’s money***

    • @Blessedishisname
      @Blessedishisname 3 месяца назад +40

      @@franciscofranco5739 you sound like Tyler’s fan club bots

    • @franciscofranco5739
      @franciscofranco5739 3 месяца назад

      @@Blessedishisname and you sound like an idiot for assuming that this is something I would take a side on as if we were watching some sort of sporting event, you rube. Only a simpleton like you would view a situation like this through the optics of there being a “side.” Open your eyes and do a little thinking. This isn’t about taking a damn side, these are real people, whom all combined, still probably have an IQ lower than room temperature. These people are so mentally compromised I highly doubt a single one of them would be considered legally competent enough to stand try over a parking ticket….how is any of this ethical if they can’t even comprehend or have the capacity to consent to any of this? The Whittakers should be in the care of the state, they can’t make decisions for themselves.

    • @user-ws4vt7zu5o
      @user-ws4vt7zu5o 3 месяца назад +14

      @@Blessedishisname He's right

  • @billybarrett1
    @billybarrett1 Месяц назад +24

    Wtf all that money people donated and their house still looks horrible

    • @fbisecretservice2742
      @fbisecretservice2742 Месяц назад +3

      He felt the need to give it to thme when they asked for it since the money was for thme yk

    • @novelist99
      @novelist99 День назад

      It probably always will.

  • @WallsOfSpace
    @WallsOfSpace Месяц назад +16

    33:55 - Lorraine is happy in the background like "I got nothing to do with this crap" lol

  • @lbrty4all
    @lbrty4all 2 месяца назад +756

    I feel like Ray is trying to show you all the ways you've made his life better. The TV, his shoes, the puppy, the oven. ❤

  • @missnette444
    @missnette444 3 месяца назад +6098

    Mark, you are better than most people. After Betty *BLATANTLY* lied on you, you still chose to come to their rescue. That speaks volumes of your character.

    • @joyedwards4575
      @joyedwards4575 3 месяца назад +267

      You should be ashamed of yourself, Mark is an awesome man. ​@@mfranck1

    • @christine_lovelace
      @christine_lovelace 3 месяца назад +1

      Enabling ?​@@mfranck1

    • @celticwarrior777
      @celticwarrior777 3 месяца назад +237

      I love mark but he IS an enabler

    • @nicolabooth4441
      @nicolabooth4441 3 месяца назад +8

      Well said!! Xxx 💖 🌸

    • @candylove49
      @candylove49 3 месяца назад +89

      @@celticwarrior777Exactly! Also, in my opinion, being an enabler is NOT a kind thing to do. That doesn’t help others to grow, holding them accountable does.

  • @myoshasmith1511
    @myoshasmith1511 Месяц назад +9

    Kenneth is the one that mark should be communicating with when it comes to the Whitakers because he has the most sense
    And he has always been honest from day one he just amazes me❤

  • @kattmigra
    @kattmigra Месяц назад +71

    The fact that you still would help after she lied shows how kind hearted you really are

    • @klwthe3rd
      @klwthe3rd Месяц назад +1

      NO stupid. Those people don't deserve anything more. They can't be trusted.

    • @dianelee5463
      @dianelee5463 Месяц назад +5

      Don't give BJ one dime tell her to get clean or off to jail she goes!! She has five kids! Some mom!!? Lies lies and more! I'm glad they get no more money! They can live off their social security just like the rest of us have to do. Dishonesty never pays!

    • @etsout
      @etsout Месяц назад +2

      She would just get high with it in NC.

    • @BalBhatti-ze3mm
      @BalBhatti-ze3mm 28 дней назад +6

      Kind?? At this point you’re part of the problem...this is comical....keep enabling them and that makes YOU part of the problem, this sounds like a terrible plot for some low budget documentary....why is everyone surprised considering the history of this family?? It’s a shame the amount of money given to these scammers could have gone to families who desperately need it 🤦🏻‍♀️🙄🤦🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @bettywilliams9633
      @bettywilliams9633 21 день назад

      @@BalBhatti-ze3mmtrue

  • @TTcapri129
    @TTcapri129 3 месяца назад +1340

    As soon as Mark said he forgave her, she instantly stopped crying and got chatty.😔 I wouldn’t trust any of them moving forward.

    • @yellyman5483
      @yellyman5483 3 месяца назад +97

      I agree. They are using him. This family is a waste of time and money. It`s too bad people do this, cause it only hurts themselves. When somebody offers to help you out, you should be kind and appreciate. Not greedy and manipulative. They cannot be trusted. That`s the truth. Take your hard earned money, and give it to someone more deserving. There are families out there who need your help more than these leeches.

    • @DavidPrice-qu2yc
      @DavidPrice-qu2yc 3 месяца назад +37

      It gets tricky when drugs are involved. Addiction is a very self serving illness. People are willing to traffic their own children to avoid getting sick and withdrawing. Then sobering up and facing the damage that affects so many people. It’s a vicious cycle. I hope they get well.

    • @sugarshameless9933
      @sugarshameless9933 3 месяца назад +1

      He gives them the money that their docs have made. This video is going to make them more money. Amazon delivers anywhere. If they need something, it should just be ordered and sent to them.

    • @drakesdadsmustache
      @drakesdadsmustache 3 месяца назад +19

      First off it’s the other way around, he’s using them… i could even argue he’s exploiting them. Don’t bunch everybody in with one bad person, also keep in mind these people are mental they don’t make sound decisions. A mental person can get away with murder easy but being told to say “Larry is dead” because a family member told you to is too far? That makes perfect sense to her, everybody else seemed genuine of course the drug addicted lady isn’t… but that’s expected.

    • @pamelamessman975
      @pamelamessman975 3 месяца назад +17

      Those are the two of the worst drugs to get off of ,moving is not gonna do it. She needs in treatment for months . This ain’t going away anytime soon. They all think moving is going to do it . They either overdose end up in jail as a disease progresses. She needs in treatment. The only way I would help his family is if I purchased what they needed I would pay for treatment for her no more cash giving but that’s me.

  • @anthonysolis8933
    @anthonysolis8933 3 месяца назад +2147

    Imagine that, these people could have had a new house, but 2 drug addicts used up all of the money that was given to them in good faith. Just tragic.

    • @trishah2145
      @trishah2145 3 месяца назад +37

      Heartbreaking

    • @BeautyQueenFL
      @BeautyQueenFL 3 месяца назад

      🛑⚠️🚨 The small town is corrupt, jealous of their fame, EXTORTING the family. They’re scared now!! 😢

    • @leighleigh747
      @leighleigh747 3 месяца назад +23

      No way that's what happened

    • @lastcall170
      @lastcall170 3 месяца назад

      Yes way. Drugs are expensive over a few years .​@@leighleigh747

    • @mathiastepes3558
      @mathiastepes3558 3 месяца назад +2

      Shakespeare

  • @user-yd6yc1nz3f
    @user-yd6yc1nz3f 6 дней назад +7

    I just feel bad for the dogs that are living on that property.

  • @trinab6254
    @trinab6254 Месяц назад +1

    Thank you for doing these videos!

  • @jak3solo
    @jak3solo 3 месяца назад +2363

    Am I the only one that thought giving them money was a bad idea from the start? Buying them food and clothes is one thing but giving them cash is just a bad idea.

    • @Cexlbr
      @Cexlbr 3 месяца назад +119

      Nope! Betty and Larry taking advantage of the donations was obvious for a very long time. People are just so desperate to virtue signal that they feel the need to equate disability with quality of character. People are people- there will always be good ones and bad ones. Mental deficiency doesn’t overwrite that, but usually exacerbates it.

    • @jmcmahon1931
      @jmcmahon1931 3 месяца назад +77

      Notice how the extended friends and family came out of the woodworks. Even this guy that moved in next door is taking a slice.

    • @bowlingbbabe
      @bowlingbbabe 3 месяца назад +35

      He never should have he asked for money for the house. That’s ALL it should EVeR have gone for, they always have some sob story

    • @jak3solo
      @jak3solo 3 месяца назад +76

      Don't get me wrong, i think it's great mark helps them, unlike Tyler. But these people have been surviving without Mark's help long before he came into their lives. Cash in hand is not what these people need, systemic change is what they need. And any monetary help should be in the form of goods and services.

    • @KennyP-zh5uy
      @KennyP-zh5uy 3 месяца назад +17

      And with cash it only gets worse wants and needs more and more and more

  • @toimarie2000
    @toimarie2000 3 месяца назад +4079

    BJ is not crying because she is ashamed of herself or sad that she betrayed Mark. She is crying because she got caught. The gig is up, gotta find a new way to get money for drugs

    • @CashanovaXTREME
      @CashanovaXTREME 3 месяца назад +161

      The hustle never stops. Until something stops your hustle.

    • @shondasmith5470
      @shondasmith5470 3 месяца назад +46

      Lol, Just when you thought you've seen and heard It all.

    • @xtinamarie_333
      @xtinamarie_333 3 месяца назад +45

      I agree. Crying wolf 😢

    • @kimharvey3224
      @kimharvey3224 3 месяца назад +36

      I definitely agree with you!! She’s busted now lol it’s just sad

    • @protonelectronneutron6038
      @protonelectronneutron6038 3 месяца назад +11

      Indeed

  • @andrearomano9955
    @andrearomano9955 Месяц назад +11

    With 200k you could have built a brand new home for the three non verbal siblings and got the state to get 24:7 nurses care for free AND redone Betty’s home brand new….. why give them cash to make decisions with? They aren’t capable.

  • @BrianBallars
    @BrianBallars Месяц назад +6

    I sruggle now living after cancer...Thank you mark for all you do for these people..God bless you ❤

  • @dianad4633
    @dianad4633 3 месяца назад +2127

    As one of the donors, I believed I was giving to provide this family with a decent home. I don’t blame you Mark but I’m sad that the money wasn’t set up in a trust with a local lawyer in charge of administering funds. The money should never go directly to Betty or anyone else in this family. They are simply not capable of making good decisions and never will be. Sad.

    • @cassandraknight8804
      @cassandraknight8804 3 месяца назад +81

      Absolutely

    • @marysunshine5587
      @marysunshine5587 3 месяца назад +75

      everyone needs that donated to them tell Mark stop giving your money for drugs

    • @AK19909
      @AK19909 3 месяца назад +143

      People have their own life to, no one has time to meet with lawyers n go thru the whole process of setting up trust funds and rules on how the money should be distributed. He’s not a babysitter, plus if he did do that then people would be commenting saying he’s trying to control them and their life blah blah blah

    • @celticwarrior777
      @celticwarrior777 3 месяца назад +6

      Yes❤

    • @thecrosswordable
      @thecrosswordable 3 месяца назад +44

      These aren't the first people that mark helped fund their addiction through donations. His intentions are good atleast.

  • @nallyg5371
    @nallyg5371 3 месяца назад +2085

    Mark is the man, he showed up knowing Larry wasn’t dead. I truly love this channel.

    • @wrestlerx8494
      @wrestlerx8494 3 месяца назад +36

      Did Mark know that Larry wasn't dead though? Mark asked Betty and Betty said Larry had died. And Betty is Larry's sister, so I guess I would not believe that someone's SISTER would lie or not know that they died.
      Example, if my brother told me he found out that my sister had died and I contacted my mom and my mom ALSO confirmed that my sister had died. Then I would have no real reason not to believe that my sister had died. Even though my mom is shady and lies about things sometimes, you would have to be pretty evil to LIE about someone dying.

    • @sjp4u338
      @sjp4u338 3 месяца назад +30

      Mark is a good guy

    • @snookoed
      @snookoed 3 месяца назад +21

      Haha. Yes, Mark had to at least suspect a scam.

    • @danawhiteboy
      @danawhiteboy 3 месяца назад +17

      It’s easy views tho

    • @meco4068
      @meco4068 3 месяца назад +23

      It makes for good content. It also makes this whole situation seem like a game they're all playing, Mark included.

  • @bethjackman6728
    @bethjackman6728 Месяц назад +7

    I was on Methadone. They make you sign a contract, with very strict rules and conditions. Coming off drugs can be deadly, and coming off Methadone is dangerous as well. You can not imagine how sick you can get. I was nearly hospitalized when i came off Methadone. Getting clean from drugs is one of the hardest things on earth to do. And if you successfully get clean, it is a DAILY battle to stay clean. I wish BJ the best of luck and am sending her all tje strength and best wishes i can. I hope she can get her life back.

  • @laurimcneal5878
    @laurimcneal5878 24 дня назад +8

    I’ve been in recovery for a little over 5 years from heroin addiction. I can honestly say that the absolute worst thing you could do for BJ in give her money! I don’t know her from a hole in the wall, but as an addict I can guarantee if you give her even $20 it will go towards drugs. If you really want to help her, get her some out patient rehab. If she doesn’t show for those, you know she’s not serious about getting clean. She needs to get to the point where she wants to do it for herself. Do NOT give her one more dime because she will definitely use it on drugs.
    In the video where Mark said he would give her a couple thousand dollars to get to North Carolina , I’d bet my life on it that she was smiling inside knowing that she smoozed him again. Unfortunately, BJ needs to be left to support her own drug habit if that’s what she wants to do. She will eventually get exhausted and hit rock bottom and want help. Get her rehab, NOT money! Tough love is the only way to deal with addicts and I know that from first hand experience! Enabling is the worst thing you could do! Sorry for the rant!

  • @JadeLeaf1980
    @JadeLeaf1980 3 месяца назад +1150

    Stuff like this is why kindness in the world is dying. Too many people exploiting kindness until the kindness runs out, and the ones who need it rarely EVER get it.

    • @socal-rw9un
      @socal-rw9un 3 месяца назад +34

      Exactly.

    • @CassieShakespeare
      @CassieShakespeare 3 месяца назад +53

      Sometimes, you give people a hand, and they take your whole arm. 🫤🫤🫤

    • @dauntae24
      @dauntae24 3 месяца назад +28

      It’s nothing new. Don’t be naive.

    • @NiftyMahoganyMom
      @NiftyMahoganyMom 3 месяца назад +12

      Exactly. It’s really sad.

    • @brandyhardin-hj2cr
      @brandyhardin-hj2cr 3 месяца назад +3

      💯🎯 Sad.

  • @corywoehlke
    @corywoehlke 3 месяца назад +6767

    "That's how you're gonna dress for your funeral?" Marks got that dog in him.

    • @Bee-lieve623
      @Bee-lieve623 3 месяца назад +333

      LOL, he was over it at that point. 😂😂😂

    • @corywoehlke
      @corywoehlke 3 месяца назад +60

      @@Bee-lieve623 Right, lmaoo

    • @MichelleMmmmkay
      @MichelleMmmmkay 3 месяца назад +180

      Mark quietly shading 🤣 That was my favorite comment this whole episode.

    • @alysiagould8986
      @alysiagould8986 3 месяца назад +105

      I’m so glad Mark is getting his flowers for that one!!!! 😂
      He’s a saint when it comes to not unloading on these hustlers, but he loves a good shade!!!!!

    • @protonelectronneutron6038
      @protonelectronneutron6038 3 месяца назад +15

      💯🤣🤣🤣

  • @sarahmeyers6412
    @sarahmeyers6412 3 часа назад +1

    This is so unbelievably frustrating to watch. I’ve been following the whittakers since you started chronicling them. I was a bit behind in watching so I viewed the state fair video and then this one. It’s only because you have interviewed so many people with addiction that you can have any insight as to the lengths people will go for their addiction.
    I’m 15 years sober from alcohol and I didn’t do a lot of things that that I hear people talking about, BUT those things are only a matter of time if I go back out and it’s no different for anyone with addictions.
    I knew you helped them out here and there but over 100k??? I would not give her a dime. Not because she faked her father’s death but because she will always have someone to fall back on and will be robbed from the gift of desperation.
    Thanks for all you do. Good luck.

  • @user-bs6mz9yv9p
    @user-bs6mz9yv9p Месяц назад +1

    Hey Mark, thank you for being a good man! Really! You are a good human being with a large touch of class! Paul

  • @jeffblunte
    @jeffblunte 3 месяца назад +748

    Larry looks super guilty the way he avoided saying hello and he didn’t even look at you, he immediately knew he was fucked

    • @willieannwilliams3967
      @willieannwilliams3967 3 месяца назад

      I believe Larry took her around to buy drugs, They know exactly what she does how much did she get $1000 are $2000

    • @JLKDOOM
      @JLKDOOM 3 месяца назад +36

      No he was ashamed that his daughter did that

    • @pj123xyz
      @pj123xyz 3 месяца назад +73

      Larry was in on it too. It’s obvious the way he reacted when he got out of the truck and Mark said “is that the way to dress for your funeral “. Larry says calmly “I don’t know nothin about that”. A normal response from someone not knowing anything would be like what the hell are you even talking about and being surprised and not understanding the question. Larry’s been in on it. He didn’t even live across the road from them until Mark starting coming around and helping the others. I didn’t trust him or the rest of his clan when the first started showing up. Kevin is the most trustworthy person in the family other than Timmy, Loraine and Ray who are just kind souls who are clearly clueless about money and drama

    • @pj123xyz
      @pj123xyz 3 месяца назад +29

      @@JLKDOOM Larry’s side of the family is the ones who’ve been getting all or most of the money. I wouldn’t be surprised if he hasn’t gotten a huge cut and has thousands of dollars buried out there somewhere. There’s no way they’ve burned up 150,000 dollars in just drugs in that short amount of time. Larry has a stash I bet.

    • @Whatorwellsaid21
      @Whatorwellsaid21 3 месяца назад +20

      Yep Larry knew. He acted defensively saying “I don’t know anything about that” when Mark first asked him about the funeral. That is not what a person says, if he truly didn’t know anything he would have confused and amused by the funeral comment

  • @sophiadefrancesco4941
    @sophiadefrancesco4941 3 месяца назад +6726

    Creators accusing MARK as a scammer???! Watch THIS!!!!!!! No, never. He is genuinely trying to help them. Look at this!

    • @ropeyzkittlez9703
      @ropeyzkittlez9703 3 месяца назад

      man people really are gullible arent they lol

    • @Guanajuatoeddie
      @Guanajuatoeddie 3 месяца назад +134

      Ha… and look what they did to him.

    • @reneelabute5649
      @reneelabute5649 3 месяца назад +285

      Exactly! There are youtubers trying to spin it so that Mark looks like the bad guy. They have it all wrong!!!!

    • @alukeom3815
      @alukeom3815 3 месяца назад +132

      💀 yall act as if scammers can't get scammed

    • @user-fz9jw1lt4k
      @user-fz9jw1lt4k 3 месяца назад +129

      Well thats wait and see what Tyler will do. I bet he goes into hiding. He's a bully coward.

  • @indica321
    @indica321 12 дней назад +3

    The only thing I can think about is how Ray, Lorraine and Timmy deserve better than what their family has given them. To make them live in these conditions when the family has been given thousands of dollars is just evil.

  • @NW34832
    @NW34832 27 дней назад +8

    That money should’ve went towards Ray, Tammy and Lorraine and Betty to have clean environment, fresh clean bedsheets and pillows for poor Ray and sanitized bathroom. Vulnerable innocent people deserved a safe clean environment where they can thrive and be comfortable. It doesn’t take much to thoroughly clean the whole house. Why would you trust to give money to people who are not self aware with the environment they live in? The house badly need a loving mother’s touch

  • @canadianboyee
    @canadianboyee 3 месяца назад +1290

    Kenneth was 100% embarrassed by his family

    • @jessicacrouch7411
      @jessicacrouch7411 3 месяца назад +61

      He sure was

    • @tinageraghty8083
      @tinageraghty8083 3 месяца назад +107

      Kenneth should be afforded some of the $, he's the only honest one.

    • @danny208YT
      @danny208YT 3 месяца назад +90

      Need to get Kenneth out of that environment and get him section 8 housing his own apartment

    • @unicornblow6874
      @unicornblow6874 3 месяца назад +86

      Kenneth is a good fella.

    • @georgesikimeti2184
      @georgesikimeti2184 3 месяца назад +57

      Isn’t he the one still working?

  • @funnyninjaxboy
    @funnyninjaxboy 3 месяца назад +467

    bro Ray showing mark the TV and trying to get him to sit and watch was honestly really endearing, shame that family is all that Ray has.

    • @sharontarin1310
      @sharontarin1310 3 месяца назад +5

      Shame man and he was watching adverts.

    • @DeeGeeDoll1
      @DeeGeeDoll1 3 месяца назад +14

      Yeah, Ray deserves better.

    • @marysunshine5587
      @marysunshine5587 3 месяца назад +11

      I thought he was hinting around for a washer and dryer 😅

    • @luv2luv720
      @luv2luv720 3 месяца назад +2

      He was also showing him shoes and a new stove i think.

    • @sharistrazz3313
      @sharistrazz3313 3 месяца назад +11

      Ray has MARK as a FRIEND, that's important to RAY I'm sure.

  • @pattivanderhart2221
    @pattivanderhart2221 23 дня назад +7

    I can't stop thinking about this. I have never seen Lorraine talk so much or so in your face. She looked happy and cheerful but I hope she wasn't trying to ask for help. Same with Ray. Then the scar on Timmy's head. I just hope and pray they aren't being threatened possibly by suppliers if BJ has a debt or they know the family has access to alot of cash.

  • @cordero666subzero
    @cordero666subzero 17 дней назад +5

    THIS IS THE KIND OF REALITY SHOW I WOULD WATCH👀

  • @high62609
    @high62609 3 месяца назад +2777

    Complaining that she can't get the same amount of money as Brandon does. Absolutely shameful.

    • @deb933
      @deb933 3 месяца назад +325

      The money was intended for Betty , Ray Loraine and Timmy ! NOT the scamming extended family !! This is sickening and needs to be legally delt with !

    • @sfwatxyo2162
      @sfwatxyo2162 3 месяца назад +308

      ​​@@deb933Betty chosen as the guardian of tens of thousands of dollars is insane to me. Is anyone watching this surprised? 🤔

    • @high62609
      @high62609 3 месяца назад +25

      @tlmorris6399 my family comes from WV, it's not just there for sure.

    • @Luvdiamondsandpearls
      @Luvdiamondsandpearls 3 месяца назад +74

      So sorry Mark, you tried to do what’s right and got scammed

    • @joanncoopertroupe3506
      @joanncoopertroupe3506 3 месяца назад +24

      Wow Mark this is Scary .God Bless you Mark!!🤗🤗💖💖😎😎

  • @cmmc3400
    @cmmc3400 3 месяца назад +875

    It is this type of behavior that makes generous people think twice about giving.

    • @myzacky96
      @myzacky96 3 месяца назад +9

      That's for sure,

    • @kaydenholmes3955
      @kaydenholmes3955 3 месяца назад +3

      Sad thing even the people that are indeed can see the weakness of the ability to say NO why sometimes it’s better not to do anything

    • @hoodstarlos8145
      @hoodstarlos8145 3 месяца назад +10

      You think he just gave them money cuz he was generous ? They made marks channel famous now he makes millions im sure. it’s really the least he can do ijs

    • @Bfsm8012345
      @Bfsm8012345 3 месяца назад +10

      Ill always help people, but I have had to set firm boundaries, because the majority of people who Ive helped/help are homeless and have been and probably always will be, because they show you, rather fast, why. They have almost certainly burned every bridge, thoroughly. It sucks and I still feel bad for them, but I have to make sure my home and family are safe before anything and I was, at one point, really putting myself out there, inviting people in my home, and unfortunately, Ive been screwed over, more often than not. God bless🙏❤️🙏🖖

    • @Tommy.OrginalvideosPhilly
      @Tommy.OrginalvideosPhilly 3 месяца назад

      Agreed ​@@Bfsm8012345

  • @italianmommaotts3185
    @italianmommaotts3185 12 дней назад +6

    STOP GIVING THEM MONEY!!! THEY GET ENOUGH IN SSI FROM ALL THESE ADULTS TO LIVE ON! THAT HOUSE SHOULDVE BEEN CLEANED UP FOR THAT KIND OF MONEY!!!

  • @debrperry1
    @debrperry1 14 дней назад +8

    How is it that Adult Protective Services is not involved with this family? They clearly need a custodian or guardian to protect them from drug addicts and moochers in their own family! This is nothing but abuse of vulnerable adults and these sweet people deserve so much better!

    • @Raquel_824
      @Raquel_824 9 дней назад +2

      You think these "SWEET" people don't know what is going 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️ you CAN NOT be that slow !!!!

  • @Gac3la
    @Gac3la 3 месяца назад +892

    Sad part is that when Mark started doing these videos, there were like 5 Whittakers, each new video more people would show up, begging for money.

    • @pj123xyz
      @pj123xyz 3 месяца назад +66

      Yeah I never trusted Larry and his clan when they showed up. They were all 💰👀

    • @baberuth2863
      @baberuth2863 3 месяца назад

      all lazy deadbeats

    • @heathernikki5734
      @heathernikki5734 3 месяца назад +15

      Agreed!

    • @LuLuRevenge6
      @LuLuRevenge6 3 месяца назад +5

      I think a lot of them were there, only not as interesting for the channel, or didn't care to participate and potentially be made fun of online.

    • @Krayforaday
      @Krayforaday 3 месяца назад +12

      Yup the more he got them help the more that came around

  • @edwardcaudill64
    @edwardcaudill64 3 месяца назад +547

    Ray and Timmy are the two that love to see Mark. Most genuine.

    • @dave93x
      @dave93x 3 месяца назад +48

      And Kenneth too, it seems. He seems like a stand up guy.

    • @davebrown188
      @davebrown188 3 месяца назад +29

      Don’t forget Lorraine

    • @ezmcclure05
      @ezmcclure05 3 месяца назад +5

      ​@dave93x yea I like Kenneth

    • @MargieRose777
      @MargieRose777 3 месяца назад +1

      Yes genuine hearts

    • @SUNSHINE-bf3bw
      @SUNSHINE-bf3bw 3 месяца назад

      FEMALES CAN BE VERY DEVIOUS, I CAN SAY THIS, I AM ONE, FEMALE THAT IS

  • @thebarnettpodcast
    @thebarnettpodcast Месяц назад +11

    Based on the latest video, we now know Kenneth lied to Mark about BJ leaving. Kenneth probably bought that property down the road with Betty's money. My sympathy goes to Ray, Timothy, and Lorraine.

  • @luckylaura12
    @luckylaura12 22 дня назад +5

    You should never directly give these people money. Hire people to do jobs around the house - but to give that much money to people that clearly don’t have much financial education is absurd and you’re almost asking for them to screw around with the money.

  • @brooklynne6435
    @brooklynne6435 3 месяца назад +3421

    Mark, rather than offering a drug addicted thief who scammed you a "couple thousand dollars to move away" you should have told her "get into detox today or I will be pressing charges for fraud and theft". If you want to help her, give her an ultimatum, not a reward of more money!

    • @MyTube754
      @MyTube754 3 месяца назад +393

      100% BJ should be charged with obtaining funds by deception

    • @sfss1918
      @sfss1918 3 месяца назад +124

      Forgive them guys, what would pressing charges against someone who aren't right in head will get us into. She should be taught rather punished. Let's be polite with people who need help,what fault is there's to get them all in this situation. What Timmy Ray and two sisters have to do with what they are.

    • @user-yn7on7ou8n
      @user-yn7on7ou8n 3 месяца назад +13

      Use your brain

    • @InspireFreedomForever
      @InspireFreedomForever 3 месяца назад +149

      She isn't well enough to have a couple thousand dollars

    • @brooklynne6435
      @brooklynne6435 3 месяца назад +152

      @@sfss1918 It would scare her into detox rather than rewarding her for lying stealing and threats of arson unless she gets paid. She will spend every penny on her drugs elsewhere than return home to live w Larry continuing to intimidate threaten and strongarm Betty for cash.

  • @kelliwaska5830
    @kelliwaska5830 3 месяца назад +388

    Timmy’s happy reaction to seeing Mark made me smile.
    His innocent and beautiful happiness is something I wish we could all share together.

    • @GoingWyoming
      @GoingWyoming 3 месяца назад +10

      Totally agree.
      Awesome hello from Timmy.

    • @slaydog5102
      @slaydog5102 3 месяца назад +4

      Ofc hes going to be, he has no mental capacity

    • @ErinKennedy-jn9qn
      @ErinKennedy-jn9qn 3 месяца назад

      ​@@slaydog5102 timmy graduated high school so he has some mental capacity. Unlike the miserable shit for brains you working with

    • @MyBeautifulHealth
      @MyBeautifulHealth 3 месяца назад

      He has the capacity to love..

  • @smokiegirl2
    @smokiegirl2 5 дней назад +4

    Betty has been after money from the beginning. Watch how greedy she is when Mark takes them to Walmart. She knows exactly what she has been doing the entire time.

  • @debbieleonardo5190
    @debbieleonardo5190 12 дней назад +5

    STOP giving them money!!! They are no better off than before! People who donated money did it out of the kindness of their hearts, and these people have taken advantage of it.

  • @atiiee7
    @atiiee7 3 месяца назад +1618

    Timmy getting excited to see Mark was so sweet .

    • @tray4978
      @tray4978 3 месяца назад +12

      He can't be trusted either. First video they run into him in Walmart and he hadn't seen them in forever. Then when money starts coming in he moves next door.

    • @sallyhurst4273
      @sallyhurst4273 3 месяца назад +22

      I think this point is so true and probably the only reason Mark cannot let go and walk away. Timmy is amazing.

    • @kk-ff5ld
      @kk-ff5ld 3 месяца назад +53

      Timmy is just so innocent in his own world! He genuinely loves Mark!

    • @shaylaster1607
      @shaylaster1607 3 месяца назад +32

      @@tray4978the above comment is about Timmy not Larry

    • @flashinthepan3273
      @flashinthepan3273 3 месяца назад +7

      I'd be excited to see the money man too!

  • @itsG696
    @itsG696 3 месяца назад +529

    Even after being confronted by Mark, the two of them were still hinting about needing gas money. Time to just walk away Mark. It was a really nice thing you did for them, I'm sure your heart is broken.

    • @gmoney6508
      @gmoney6508 3 месяца назад +27

      All our hearts are broken . 💔 sorry mark

    • @christianweatherbroadcasting
      @christianweatherbroadcasting 3 месяца назад +9

      Repent and trust in Jesus. We all deserve Hell for our sins, such as lying lusting coveting and more. We can't save ourselves, but Jesus can save us. He died on the cross to save us for our sins and rose from the grave defeating death and Hell. You must put your faith in him only. He is the only way to Heaven. Repent and trust in Jesus.
      Romans 6:23
      John 3:16❤❤❤😊

    • @lukeslayer
      @lukeslayer 3 месяца назад

      ​@@christianweatherbroadcasting33 comments already spamming the same thing. You're parasitic scum.

    • @wendigojimmay9150
      @wendigojimmay9150 3 месяца назад +14

      I know mark was the first but how many people swing by they’re place now? I seen atleast two other content creators “visit the whittakers” now and it probably started off as a kind gesture offering afew bucks for the stuff at Walmart and groceries, but more people stop by now and they must realize people post this stuff and make a buck off it so they probably see it as “paying they’re dues” since they’re recording us. 100 thousand dollar flushed down the drain though, mark should of used the money to hire contractors and the like, rather then just leaving them alone with it. It’s like he set them up to “stop by and check in, since they can’t manage money themselves” like what did he expect sending them money and leaving all those donations with them.

    • @helensloss5294
      @helensloss5294 3 месяца назад +2

      ​@christianweayour therbroadcasti3491 your wrong putting your faith in Jesus does not save. KJV For God so loved the world he gave his only begotten that whosoever BELIEVETH IN HIM SHALL NOT PERISH BUT HAVE EVERLASTING LIFE. BELIEVE THE KEY WORD!

  • @eaglewinnings8003
    @eaglewinnings8003 Месяц назад +27

    The reason she stormed in the trailer immediately was to shoot up, not to avoid Mark.
    Chances are her and Larry just got back from scoring and she had to shoot up.
    You can tell she’s nodding out during parts of the interview

  • @pokemanwyman8858
    @pokemanwyman8858 23 часа назад +1

    “ The only drug I take is what the doctor give me” Love it Larry, killer quote 😂❤️

  • @rmmmmt2796
    @rmmmmt2796 3 месяца назад +772

    Imagine if Ray could communicate more effectively then Mark would really know what was going on

    • @hswifey247
      @hswifey247 3 месяца назад +74

      Lorraine too

    • @rmmmmt2796
      @rmmmmt2796 3 месяца назад +110

      @@hswifey247 Lorraine would spill the tea 😭😭

    • @whatsnext9977
      @whatsnext9977 3 месяца назад +39

      And Timmy

    • @kathylewis2484
      @kathylewis2484 3 месяца назад +61

      Ray pointing to the price is right on TV seems more than coincidence. I think he understands quite a bit he's non-verbal and without services to assist with communication.
      I remember when he showed Mark where a relative was buried when Mark asked about him.

    • @NikkiRich174
      @NikkiRich174 3 месяца назад +2

      Exactly

  • @saunch09
    @saunch09 3 месяца назад +801

    Immediately guilty when he gets out of the truck and doesn't even say hello to Mark.

    • @GuyJames
      @GuyJames 3 месяца назад +111

      yeah he knew what was up 100%. and taking $100k from someone, spending it on drugs, then locking yourself in the trailer without even a 'hello' is world-beating cowardice

    • @EarthsGeomancer
      @EarthsGeomancer 3 месяца назад

      Typical MAGA lowlifes.

    • @fourbyfourer
      @fourbyfourer 3 месяца назад +55

      Ya I thought the exact same thing. He knew exactly what was going on and he was as shocked as BJ to see Mark.

    • @michelleharisson664
      @michelleharisson664 3 месяца назад +35

      Larry was asking for money, we know where it went.

    • @kimberlywilliams9549
      @kimberlywilliams9549 3 месяца назад +60

      First thing he said when he got out of the truck was I don't know nothing bout it.

  • @karinvogel4358
    @karinvogel4358 Месяц назад +2

    Mark you've got the patience of a saint, and a heart of gold. All families are complicated, the Whittaker's are no exception. Painful to see this particular video aired, as it seems too private and personal.

  • @jimmurphy7390
    @jimmurphy7390 Месяц назад +11

    My god she is so vile with the horkin and spittin.Timmy And Ray Ray are the most sensible there

  • @Andrea_424
    @Andrea_424 3 месяца назад +1030

    $153,000 would be absolutely life-changing for any struggling lower, middle-class person of sound mind. Mark is a generous soul, but maybe the lesson here is to remember what the purpose of this project originally was: to show the world an anthropological snapshot of people suffering in America’s broken system. It was never meant to be one man’s burden to solve.

    • @janetarmstrong7010
      @janetarmstrong7010 3 месяца назад +29

      Yes, enabling others who take advantage and or use money like this for drugs is a hard lesson to learn and not repeat! Just as what happened with the Rebecca help that Mark repeatedly tried!

    • @FrannieMaeB5150
      @FrannieMaeB5150 3 месяца назад +11

      @@janetarmstrong7010I’m almost 100% certain mark and “Rebecca” were lovers

    • @DeeLytes
      @DeeLytes 3 месяца назад +4

      That’s a damn shame

    • @jjonez787
      @jjonez787 3 месяца назад +1

      lIFe cHaNgInG!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @sweetbabylove1298
      @sweetbabylove1298 3 месяца назад +23

      @@FrannieMaeB5150no tf they aren’t

  • @deirdrelavery9411
    @deirdrelavery9411 3 месяца назад +948

    An old teacher had a saying ‘You’re not sorry you did it, you’re sorry you got caught’. That sums it up.

    • @Tami_L96
      @Tami_L96 3 месяца назад +19

      I hate to break it to you, but your teacher didn't come up with that saying. Everyone's been saying it since the beginning of time. Rihanna even says it in her song 'Take A Bow'..

    • @marygregory2624
      @marygregory2624 3 месяца назад +3

      I just said that 2 my partner

    • @AmberTurd420
      @AmberTurd420 3 месяца назад

      Your teacher is a Phony. A big ole phony

    • @pottersi
      @pottersi 3 месяца назад

      @@marygregory2624What happened?

    • @maxxisdeadd
      @maxxisdeadd 3 месяца назад +8

      @@Tami_L96the comment didn’t say my teacher. It said A TEACHER. Take your time reading next time and you might catch the clues!

  • @daltonjohnson8171
    @daltonjohnson8171 23 дня назад +4

    How in the world would BJ think she could play this one off? She seriously thought Mark wouldn't find out? He's come to check on them multiple times since meeting them. How was she going to play that off🤦🏼‍♀️

  • @fallspring1033
    @fallspring1033 7 дней назад +4

    Should take some of that $110k+ and hire a cleaning crew.

  • @pamelawooten3251
    @pamelawooten3251 3 месяца назад +636

    Unbelievable how they said Larry was dead in order to get more money. Glad you confronted this issue with them, Mark. You are a good man, Mark.

    • @showmeyourteeth27
      @showmeyourteeth27 3 месяца назад +16

      Am I the only one... who would’ve absolutely LOVED to see them set up a fake funeral service on Facebook live? That sounds like the greatest video of all time 😂.
      “What can we say about dear Larry?”
      Betty: “I DONT KNOW”

    • @BlondeRockChick
      @BlondeRockChick 3 месяца назад +9

      Yea doing all that for 150 bucks!! Absolutely pathetic!

    • @blessedbythebest1003
      @blessedbythebest1003 3 месяца назад +2

      That’s taking it too far.
      Yikes

    • @AParticularlyConcernedCitizen
      @AParticularlyConcernedCitizen 2 месяца назад +1

      @@BlondeRockChick They took 1,000 for the funeral aka the new TV but the 150 probably was just actually gas money.

    • @BlondeRockChick
      @BlondeRockChick 2 месяца назад

      @@AParticularlyConcernedCitizen I wouldn’t doubt it a bit. Car doesn’t even hold that much but way they are their car could hahaha!!

  • @MaxineHarmon
    @MaxineHarmon 3 месяца назад +1139

    What an absolute insult to anyone who has financially contributed to the family

    • @slapdoctor707
      @slapdoctor707 3 месяца назад +35

      What about the fact mark has raised more than enough to buy them a home but still hasn't got them a new home

    • @kermitthefrog29
      @kermitthefrog29 3 месяца назад +31

      I agree Mark needs to own up and pay everyone back. Thst donated money but he won't it's disgusting.

    • @stevenloridunn6677
      @stevenloridunn6677 3 месяца назад +1

      ​@@bigmac5859Mark posted a different video breaking down all of the funds from their online fundraising.

    • @cindalee
      @cindalee 3 месяца назад +91

      He didnt take their money! You can see in the previous videos the new truck, the new shed-house the one guy had brought in.. and every other "need" they created with each request. He literally caught them in a friggin lie in this video, but yet he's the dishonest one? Accountability is a lost concept these days. Betty & BJ knew to lie to get money, but they totally didn't spend the donated monies​. 👌@slapdoctor707

    • @minniesimmonsmoody4761
      @minniesimmonsmoody4761 3 месяца назад +17

      The FBI needs to check into this.

  • @jocomikey13
    @jocomikey13 Месяц назад +6

    You are a kind humble man. I feel you are a Godly man. Thank you for helping them. May God protect and always be with you. Blessings 😇🐞🕯️

    • @bitchpepper
      @bitchpepper Месяц назад

      What do fairy tales have to do with this? This is reality, not your ancient science fiction novel.

  • @paulakestel1007
    @paulakestel1007 Месяц назад +5

    You can't bully or make an elderly person do things they don't want to do.Its elder abuse. I've had to take many courses on this subject.I feel in my heart that Betty especially has been bullied and made do things she wouldn't have done with that money.Elderly abuse is against the law plain and simple.

  • @natashastokes4265
    @natashastokes4265 3 месяца назад +1060

    On a lighter note, I've never seen Lorraine so verbal and interactive. Its good to see😊

    • @marisaortiz5819
      @marisaortiz5819 3 месяца назад +46

      I saw that too. That’s the most I’ve ever heard her speak! 😍

    • @amyLiz7
      @amyLiz7 3 месяца назад +12

      Came here to say this. ❤

    • @jessicajuliano111
      @jessicajuliano111 3 месяца назад

      @@marisaortiz5819😮😮😮

    • @powderandpaint14
      @powderandpaint14 3 месяца назад +82

      The three who need the most help, Ray, Timmy and Lorraine seem to have benefited a lot from Mark's involvement which is good.

    • @lisahansen8301
      @lisahansen8301 3 месяца назад +15

      Specifically since she died in a car accident before Christmas.

  • @slurpnterps698
    @slurpnterps698 3 месяца назад +812

    Ray is the only one that makes sense now

    • @jasonolinger7585
      @jasonolinger7585 3 месяца назад +48

      LMAO is that the one who barks??

    • @theesirniqueb.
      @theesirniqueb. 3 месяца назад +58

      @@jasonolinger7585 “barks” is crazyy🤣, but yes him.

    • @jasonolinger7585
      @jasonolinger7585 3 месяца назад

      LMAO! Yea he makes the most sense lol@@theesirniqueb.

    • @c.herish
      @c.herish 3 месяца назад +6

      @@theesirniqueb.right lol

    • @kathywright412
      @kathywright412 3 месяца назад +3

      😂

  • @sarahvonderhaar4961
    @sarahvonderhaar4961 23 дня назад +13

    I can smell the house through my phone

    • @MikeB85
      @MikeB85 11 дней назад

      Lmao 😂

  • @cwetan9608
    @cwetan9608 25 дней назад +4

    There is some people who don’t like to change, no matter what you do to help them. It’s happened over and over again.

  • @truter5243
    @truter5243 3 месяца назад +1037

    Dude, only $20 000 would've changed my family's life. And these people go burn 150grand on drugs!?! Not only disrespectful to everyone who donated but also to everyone who could've used that money for actual life changing purposes. Quit helping them

    • @christianweatherbroadcasting
      @christianweatherbroadcasting 3 месяца назад +39

      Repent and trust in Jesus. We all deserve Hell for our sins, such as lying lusting coveting and more. We can't save ourselves, but Jesus can save us. He died on the cross to save us for our sins and rose from the grave defeating death and Hell. You must put your faith in him only. He is the only way to Heaven. Repent and trust in Jesus.
      Romans 6:23
      John 3:16❤😊❤😊😊

    • @sarzbeth
      @sarzbeth 3 месяца назад +12

      Exactly 💯

    • @wintergreen777
      @wintergreen777 3 месяца назад +56

      Seriously! Even 10K would change my life. It would get me a working car. I can't really blame the Whittackers so much, though. Not enough cognitive ability there to really hold them accountable. Mark walks a strange road. He's learning and teaching all of us at the same time. This was a particularly expensive lesson.

    • @ronnydee34
      @ronnydee34 3 месяца назад +31

      Man I feel that. I pray everyday and just wish I could come into 5 or 10k. It would change the trajectory of my life for so many years

    • @Laced.Up.Gaming
      @Laced.Up.Gaming 3 месяца назад +1

      stop it, this is youtube not fucking church!!!!
      @@christianweatherbroadcasting

  • @cherokeelaketennessee7895
    @cherokeelaketennessee7895 3 месяца назад +708

    The sad part is Ray, Timmy, and Lorraine are the innocent ones and will suffer from the actions of the others. Mark, you're a good guy and it's easy to see you sincerely care.

    • @Billy.at.Raccoon
      @Billy.at.Raccoon 3 месяца назад +32

      Timmy and Ray were beyond excited to see Mark

    • @JoeRogansForehead
      @JoeRogansForehead 3 месяца назад +22

      Kenneth dosnt cause any problems

    • @nevillerobert318
      @nevillerobert318 3 месяца назад +18

      I felt Lorraine was itching to speak about it but couldn't.....they all understand but the three of them cannot speak....

    • @BlondieDoesCrime
      @BlondieDoesCrime 3 месяца назад

      They are not innocent 😂 everyone is on scamming you brainless viewers.

    • @Yeti_the_kat
      @Yeti_the_kat 3 месяца назад +1

      @@nevillerobert318 I feel the exact same way. Poor thing.

  • @justinburkhalter4353
    @justinburkhalter4353 Месяц назад +4

    This is amazing! What a new world i never knew existed. Ive heard about this kinda stuff but thought it was a joke. I would watch a live video of this family all day long

    • @justinburkhalter4353
      @justinburkhalter4353 Месяц назад +1

      I feel horrible now that i know about this family. I had no idea. I first saw this and thought “oh, heres some regular Trump supporters” but now i know the family and what they are about. Good people

    • @alwaysbecrazy
      @alwaysbecrazy Месяц назад

      I though the same at first too , the fact they could just set up a live stream and have the money they would make with a chanel , that after all the videos I saw, I feel they just can't.. sad and gentle peeps. ( by the way , love the trump comment 😂)

  • @karashelton9486
    @karashelton9486 27 дней назад

    Heartbreaking but i see the Hope. . This is the most amazing intervention. And the lengths you've gone to with benevolent Truth. May recovery find BJ and her son soon. Recovery is possible! i know, with an open heart and mind, you truly do want the best. I feel it too!