She was blonde, beautiful, intelligent. I had never met a woman who had her act together like that. Perfect credit score. Deans' list in school. So polished and polite. My parents loved her. And it was death by a million cuts. So small, I hardly noticed. Her strategy was so subtle that I'm blown away in retrospect. I began to doubt myself, and my friends, as if it was my own introspection. Because she often spoke to my mom and sister, they began to feel anything wrong was probably my fault. She manipulated everyone within reach. It isn't always as obvious as you might think. Be careful, boys.
Similar story. Girl was cute, an attorney, good job, seemed so good and polished that when she met my family they instantly fell in love with her, they have that way about them (Narcs). But when it falls apart, they have setup relationships with family to keep track of you and do digging. Mine bought candles from a family member, just because she knew when I ended things with her, she had a way of still getting info by needing "those candles again" from a family member. I realized after it ended why she bought those candles, because she never used them; she was setting up for when I did end things with her to keep up with me.
They do it to their female friends as well. I always thought it jokes were just horrible but it's the true envy that lies beneath it. My family and friends all feel the same way about me! It's so heart breaking 💔
I also had a natural blonde, extremely beautiful & intelligent ex but her personality was a horrible she was extremely money hungry & wanted me to buy her designer clothes & she like to hang out with other men
So true on everything said. Guys I ended up with a Covert Narcissist who was a Godly Christian Woman, I thought.!? Do you know how hard that was as man of Faith. I almost walked away from my Beliefs/Faith but at the end I came out stronger in my walk. What an experience that I wish on no one. Stay strong and let God.
That's the most evil type of narcissist! One who hides behind the Christian title and word of God 😭 God told us we would know them by their fruits and those narcs can't keep their mask on forever ❤
@@WalkingwithChrist97 I will never want to hurt anyone or even bother someone but these people sit down and sickly plan on how they will try and ruin/hurt you and while playing the part. Talk about ugly and sick 😨 moving on all you can do is laugh.!! 😇🤣🤗 imaging being that way.? Miserable..!!!
Gentlemen, we must take things a day at a time. We must pray for the strength to not give in to temptations of the flesh. I've learned that the older I get, I simply want peace and quiet.
Terry, the narcissist ignoring you while in your presence thing is so true-holy sh%t.🤯 My ex did the same to me whenever we went out together. One moment, he’d hold my hand while we were walking, and the next, he’d be glued to his phone, acting like I wasn’t even there. On our last trip to Florida before we broke up, we were sitting by the pool having breakfast, and he spent the entire time on his phone without saying a word to me-until he got up to leave and bring his plate back to the room. At an old Spanish fort we visited, he did the same thing: glued to his phone, walking off and leaving me behind, and calling his dad for 90% of the visit and the entire 45-minute drive back. Not once did he even mention he was out with me. I felt invisible, like a ghost. They are so unbelievably rude.
I was walking with an ex down BOURBON street and when shots were fired I ran into a bar while he stool outside laughing at me! He is really demonic and evil! Even walked extra fast so I would have to basically run to keep up through a crowd 😭
But with an emphatic partner, being vulnerable is the best connection ever possible. Too bad most of them won't get it, only bad relationships because they're unable to open up. I'm emphatic until a narc starts their play. It's end for me then.
U got it wrong they stay in relationships because they master fooling their victims.. study before you speak..everything u saying is opposite it ain’t that easy..yes they’re deceivers..
Been through it!!! .. its everywhere!! .. still recovering daily 🤦🏻♂️ Had another love interest do the EXACT same shit as my EX just last week. Made me very nervous. Told her get out of my house or I'll call the police.. and i did!!! .. i wasn't playing around!! .. then she publicly shamed me Infront of my neighbors and on social media!!! .. falsely accusing me!!! ... SCARY SCARY STUFF!!!!
Listening to you describe them word for word to an absolute t is bringing up traumatizing memories for me. It's a good thing though because it helps me to look back on people from my past with a clearer view as to who i shouldn't ever let back into my life. The one's i was unsure of. Not just the one's i knew were killing me slowly. This channel is super helpful! Thank you brother from the bottom of my heart!
The WORST type of narcissistic ABUSE... is having a narc parent(s) and/ or "flying monkey" S.O. enabler. And IF that narc is covert (and likely, your own mother...) it's MUCH harder to simply 'discard' them... and go: "no contact."
Started dating a chick in June. She was the sweetest most down to earth gal I'd ever met at the time. Love bombed the shit out of me. Called me special and rushed to meet my family vice versa. Spent thanksgiving with each other's families and she took a bunch of pics with my mother. Shopped Christmas gifts for my family then first week of December right before the holidays dumped me out of nowhere lol like it was planned or something. Who does that shit? Pretty messed up. Anyway glad she did it in 6 months rather than years from now. I feel less stress, fuck it. Lesson learned, boys.
I was framed, discarded ,replaced , jail after 16 years ,homeless, to blessed but the thing is, I'm now withheld from my 3 kids, can't speak to them And I can't even see them, there getting brainwashed while I still fight to stay out of prison, set yourself free and isolate, stay quiet and move in silence ❤
These are all true facts! My 2-decade marriage to a narc was more bad days than good. They just couldn't stand to stsy on good terms without deceit or chaos between us for a day, sometimes not even hours. Had me scratching my head every other day, like I can't believe this is my spouse who likes to get me down. With kids and all. He would even smirk when he got me riled up over some dumb shit he did. Sick.
Most of them study Blacks Law and Pig Latin or Legal Ease it’s a tragedy when you realize the truth is we suffer for a lack of knowledge these peeps are the bowels of society
haha this happen to me at a family dinner when i got up to greet other members and she sitting there she goes nuts after for me leaving her alone for like 10 mins i gave her the look and slowly started breaking away but made it seem slowly over time that i was the problem thats how you have to get away from these types of sick individuals stay smart and strong boys
"Those who shine from within don't need the spot light" Narcissists need the spotlight, project their darkness and will call you a narcissist. Matthew 5:14-16 King James Version 14 Ye are the light of the world. A city that is set on an hill cannot be hid. 15 Neither do men light a candle, and put it under a bushel, but on a candlestick; and it giveth light unto all that are in the house. 16 Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father which is in heaven.
So accurate like that's what happened to me she got borderline and probably actually very sure she has narcist personally disorder to she said and did very hurtful things i always was like did she just really said that on just most random times its like little glands you see of them being them true evil selfs they like to hurt you on some weird level where they not even aware of or somthing its just so like what's going on and if your like me you want to know so you stay in a relationship trying to figure out if they actually love you or what is going on some part wants to know but now i realize that these people are just sick in there head you can't have a healthy relationship with someone like that
Yeah no person on this earth is conpletely free from flaws and negative qualities. Always kind of concerning when they do not have you nailed down in a committed relationship yet and there is nothing human about them. They are just too perfect. As they said in the old days if it seems too good to be true it most likely is.
My last date was also a narci, she said I'm not into her because I'm not saying "she's pretty" enough times lol. Gtfo, I cut the connection with her, im not here to play at 26 yo. I want a serious woman.
You’re breaking this down to the T. I wish I had this information before I got married. I’m divorced now but wow I really didn’t see what was going on at first.
I know this is a little off subject What is it about some relationships that leads people to cheat and then commit acts of violence? I would just walk away. No one could get me that angry. They could have each other and I would think thank God I dodged a bullet. It is as if their value is based on the other person.
she was walking in the mall with you minding her own business, and that was what pissed you off? what's wrong with minding her own business? happy new year 2025.
They are not positive people and will find anything to nitpick you, so right.
They are NEGATIVE people.
She was blonde, beautiful, intelligent. I had never met a woman who had her act together like that. Perfect credit score. Deans' list in school. So polished and polite. My parents loved her.
And it was death by a million cuts. So small, I hardly noticed. Her strategy was so subtle that I'm blown away in retrospect. I began to doubt myself, and my friends, as if it was my own introspection. Because she often spoke to my mom and sister, they began to feel anything wrong was probably my fault. She manipulated everyone within reach.
It isn't always as obvious as you might think. Be careful, boys.
Similar story. Girl was cute, an attorney, good job, seemed so good and polished that when she met my family they instantly fell in love with her, they have that way about them (Narcs). But when it falls apart, they have setup relationships with family to keep track of you and do digging. Mine bought candles from a family member, just because she knew when I ended things with her, she had a way of still getting info by needing "those candles again" from a family member. I realized after it ended why she bought those candles, because she never used them; she was setting up for when I did end things with her to keep up with me.
They do it to their female friends as well. I always thought it jokes were just horrible but it's the true envy that lies beneath it. My family and friends all feel the same way about me! It's so heart breaking 💔
I also had a natural blonde, extremely beautiful & intelligent ex but her personality was a horrible she was extremely money hungry & wanted me to buy her designer clothes & she like to hang out with other men
Been through this...LISTEN...he is DEAD ON!!!
He never misses! 💯
So true on everything said. Guys I ended up with a Covert Narcissist who was a Godly Christian Woman, I thought.!? Do you know how hard that was as man of Faith. I almost walked away from my Beliefs/Faith but at the end I came out stronger in my walk. What an experience that I wish on no one. Stay strong and let God.
That's the most evil type of narcissist! One who hides behind the Christian title and word of God 😭 God told us we would know them by their fruits and those narcs can't keep their mask on forever ❤
Those are the WORSE.
@@WalkingwithChrist97 I will never want to hurt anyone or even bother someone but these people sit down and sickly plan on how they will try and ruin/hurt you and while playing the part. Talk about ugly and sick 😨 moving on all you can do is laugh.!! 😇🤣🤗 imaging being that way.? Miserable..!!!
Gentlemen, we must take things a day at a time. We must pray for the strength to not give in to temptations of the flesh. I've learned that the older I get, I simply want peace and quiet.
Praying for all y’all. ❤️🙏
🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Same thing with me🙏🏾🤍
Do not give into the flesh, and always pray for strength. 🙏👍
amen
Terry, the narcissist ignoring you while in your presence thing is so true-holy sh%t.🤯
My ex did the same to me whenever we went out together. One moment, he’d hold my hand while we were walking, and the next, he’d be glued to his phone, acting like I wasn’t even there. On our last trip to Florida before we broke up, we were sitting by the pool having breakfast, and he spent the entire time on his phone without saying a word to me-until he got up to leave and bring his plate back to the room.
At an old Spanish fort we visited, he did the same thing: glued to his phone, walking off and leaving me behind, and calling his dad for 90% of the visit and the entire 45-minute drive back. Not once did he even mention he was out with me. I felt invisible, like a ghost. They are so unbelievably rude.
Self awareness is 0
I was walking with an ex down BOURBON street and when shots were fired I ran into a bar while he stool outside laughing at me! He is really demonic and evil! Even walked extra fast so I would have to basically run to keep up through a crowd 😭
@@80iyoyo That's because there is NOONE (i.e. no "soul," or actual "self") present. (It's ALL... an "act.")
the truth about attraction in the ebook Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki is so powerful that most people don’t know what to do with it
They are scared of intimacy and real love because it makes them feel vulnerable!
It's very sad, especially when you give yourself away.
But with an emphatic partner, being vulnerable is the best connection ever possible. Too bad most of them won't get it, only bad relationships because they're unable to open up. I'm emphatic until a narc starts their play. It's end for me then.
U got it wrong they stay in relationships because they master fooling their victims.. study before you speak..everything u saying is opposite it ain’t that easy..yes they’re deceivers..
@paymyself1st430 some good points, but if you recognise them earlier, get out! 👍
Been through it!!! .. its everywhere!! .. still recovering daily 🤦🏻♂️
Had another love interest do the EXACT same shit as my EX just last week. Made me very nervous. Told her get out of my house or I'll call the police.. and i did!!! .. i wasn't playing around!! .. then she publicly shamed me Infront of my neighbors and on social media!!! .. falsely accusing me!!! ... SCARY SCARY STUFF!!!!
Different person same demonic entities!! Stay prayed up 🙏🏾 seriously. It's a battle for souls and Satan is not playing fair!!
Listening to you describe them word for word to an absolute t is bringing up traumatizing memories for me. It's a good thing though because it helps me to look back on people from my past with a clearer view as to who i shouldn't ever let back into my life. The one's i was unsure of. Not just the one's i knew were killing me slowly. This channel is super helpful! Thank you brother from the bottom of my heart!
The silent treatment is a CLASSIC control tactic......
keep educating people ❤
Well said! 💪
The WORST type of narcissistic ABUSE... is having a narc parent(s) and/ or "flying monkey" S.O. enabler. And IF that narc is covert (and likely, your own mother...) it's MUCH harder to simply 'discard' them... and go: "no contact."
These people got bullied which is why they feel like they have too do it too everyone else
I think so to!
Or probably got daddy issues
Started dating a chick in June. She was the sweetest most down to earth gal I'd ever met at the time. Love bombed the shit out of me. Called me special and rushed to meet my family vice versa. Spent thanksgiving with each other's families and she took a bunch of pics with my mother. Shopped Christmas gifts for my family then first week of December right before the holidays dumped me out of nowhere lol like it was planned or something. Who does that shit? Pretty messed up. Anyway glad she did it in 6 months rather than years from now. I feel less stress, fuck it. Lesson learned, boys.
Indeed frustrating isn’t it. They will justify it thinking it was you but it’s really them. Keep doing you man.
I was framed, discarded ,replaced , jail after 16 years ,homeless, to blessed but the thing is, I'm now withheld from my 3 kids, can't speak to them And I can't even see them, there getting brainwashed while I still fight to stay out of prison, set yourself free and isolate, stay quiet and move in silence ❤
These are all true facts! My 2-decade marriage to a narc was more bad days than good. They just couldn't stand to stsy on good terms without deceit or chaos between us for a day, sometimes not even hours. Had me scratching my head every other day, like I can't believe this is my spouse who likes to get me down. With kids and all. He would even smirk when he got me riled up over some dumb shit he did. Sick.
Very Unhappy People
2025 f them
Hold the line! Stay strong! 💪
Most of them study Blacks Law and Pig Latin or Legal Ease it’s a tragedy when you realize the truth is we suffer for a lack of knowledge these peeps are the bowels of society
haha this happen to me at a family dinner when i got up to greet other members and she sitting there she goes nuts after for me leaving her alone for like 10 mins i gave her the look and slowly started breaking away but made it seem slowly over time that i was the problem thats how you have to get away from these types of sick individuals stay smart and strong boys
You just described my entire relationship even with the grocery store situation 🤣🤣😩😩😩😩
They will also walk ahead of you in the Mall
100% true
for real
This happened to me. She walked 100 feet ahead of me because I wouldn't carry her jacket.
Appreciate your output, brother! Wishing you a successful new year! ❤️
To justify it, they will say it's just harmless banter, or If didn't like you I wouldn't talk to you, etc
They want you as their slave seriously! That's it that's all!
15:32 yeah I don’t like that either or they will be around someone else and try to make it seem like you’re lower than them or something weird
"Those who shine from within don't need the spot light"
Narcissists need the spotlight, project their darkness and will call you a narcissist.
Matthew 5:14-16
King James Version
14 Ye are the light of the world. A city that is set on an hill cannot be hid.
15 Neither do men light a candle, and put it under a bushel, but on a candlestick; and it giveth light unto all that are in the house.
16 Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father which is in heaven.
So accurate like that's what happened to me she got borderline and probably actually very sure she has narcist personally disorder to
she said and did very hurtful things i always was like did she just really said that on just most random times its like little glands you see of them being them true evil selfs they like to hurt you on some weird level where they not even aware of or somthing its just so like what's going on and if your like me you want to know so you stay in a relationship trying to figure out if they actually love you or what is going on some part wants to know but now i realize that these people are just sick in there head you can't have a healthy relationship with someone like that
They can't do it to me cause I know who I am.
Yeah no person on this earth is conpletely free from flaws and negative qualities. Always kind of concerning when they do not have you nailed down in a committed relationship yet and there is nothing human about them. They are just too perfect. As they said in the old days if it seems too good to be true it most likely is.
Last Lady I was with was narcissistic she told me I thought she was joking what the love bomb
My last date was also a narci, she said I'm not into her because I'm not saying "she's pretty" enough times lol. Gtfo, I cut the connection with her, im not here to play at 26 yo. I want a serious woman.
Ignore them
Torment 👀 that part 🤔🫂Hey you strong Men🦏
Wanna great relationship: Embrace Similarities
Respect ALL Differences
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That same dirty business happened to me at the mall one time. Ha no more after that
Just press to flush
You’re breaking this down to the T. I wish I had this information before I got married. I’m divorced now but wow I really didn’t see what was going on at first.
*ONLY IF YOU LET THEM*
They have the law on their side. If they think that you are dangerous or aggressive they call the cops on you and lock you up 😂
🥳 HAPPY NEW YEAR 2025 to you TJJ and everyone 🥳
Let’s all make it to the top 👆
i agree this shit is real
Thanks Terry happy new year to you!😊
Great video Terry Happy new year
They want puppets and punching bags......
Let's go.. Another 365🎉
You should have drove off......let her find her own way home....
Happy new year tjj it's annoying because it's so se through
Yuuuuppp!!! On Point 💯 🔥🔥🔥 Whatever The Background Jet, Whistling Noise Is Needs To Be Silenced.
You’ll never meet a bigger joker than a narcissist. Everything is a “joke”
they overlook ebooks like Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki because its insights on attraction challenge conventional thinking
I just say Peace
no one talks about the ebook Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki because its take on attraction is too raw and real for most to handle
I just realized this guy looks like Captain America
playing is all they learnted. from the get go.
I know this is a little off subject What is it about some relationships that leads people to cheat and then commit acts of violence? I would just walk away. No one could get me that angry. They could have each other and I would think thank God I dodged a bullet. It is as if their value is based on the other person.
♥️🙏🌎♥️💯♾️
Nice ❤❤
if more people read the ebook Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki, the way we understand attraction would transform overnight
Happy new year 2025
reading the ebook Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki could completely shift how you see and apply the principles of attraction
she was walking in the mall with you minding her own business, and that was what pissed you off? what's wrong with minding her own business? happy new year 2025.
❤🎉!
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