OMG thank you so so much to share this documentary, really appreciate your courage to do this! haha yaaa it is a gruelling process out there using dating app and keep repeating the same thing over and over and over again HAHAHAHA. until I just copy paste sometimes. opps.
Aiya, dating apps is just for girls to get ego boost only. They don’t necessarily want to find someone but just want to see if they can get people to like them and chat with them. Something like seeing an estimate on how high/low their “market”.
Hmm I find that annoying too so I’ll always try my best to get to see the person irl to see if we actually match and help ground me abit cause likes and hearts from a good profile do not mean anything 😂 and people need to get used to dead convos keep going until u find someone who can lead a good conversation cause I always get the same vibe as I see them irl 👏that might be the one for you
i’m no film major i just make and post yt videos BUT i have to say i really enjoyed the editing structure of this! stalked the page a bit and the projects on here are actually really cool. plus yall all funny lah
This video is sooooooo relatable. The same problems you're having in the video I'm experiencing in Toronto. As someone looking for something serious the dating scene here sucks, apps don't work, cold approach always has the same answer (she has a boyfriend), the girls that do say yes only want hookups. It's so bad I've contemplated travelling to find love. Your sentiments at the end of the video was perfectly worded.
Great video bro. After using dating apps for many years, I think that they are a good way for introverts like myself to meet new people instead of randomly approaching strangers on the streets 😅
Started using dating apps during it's inception in Singapore.. It had been this way since then till now. Nothing dramatic has changed? I only noticed the $ has increased quite a fair bit. It's getting more expensive, more pay to play? The conundrum of dating organically or meeting people naturally is that it's also getting harder to when you already have a small social circle or not the kind of proactively trying to hit people up (strangers in any setting).... Dating apps was supposedly the way to mitigate this, but alas, they all have inherent problems too 😅
I hate dating apps because I hate taking pictures of myself and most dating apps, the pictures are the main part. Crappy pictures or few pictures = red flag most of the time. My former roommate tried to get me to download Tinder but I refused. I'm in the US smack dab in the midwest. I've watched so many peers my age and even younger have long-term partners, get engaged and married. None have kids yet. But I've accepted I'm more than likely gonna be single for a long time and it is what it is 🤷🏿♀️ More money to travel and spoil myself. Bright sides! 🎉 (Off topic but you are very attractive Nat)
hii Nat! firstly, i wna say im so glad i came across ur vid RANDOMLY.. or maybe yt recommended me cos these are the contents i usually watch haha. i can totally understand how u felt at the start of the journey but eventually got burnout from it cos i went through that too. im also currently in university and im pretty sporty (i dance as well!). people might believe its absolutely easy for me to find a partner so they get rlly shocked when i tell them that its been hard for me to find 'the one'. truth be told, i dont believe in that anymore, cos heyy the grass is greener where u water it!! i learnt that dating apps are rlly NOT for me and i think im someone who needs to have at least a friendship to even consider smth serious ... from what I've experienced, finding someone isn't tough but finding someone u can click with is really tough, and it gets so tiring i jus wna be a hermit crab haha!! i do still believe in love but these days im more interested in talking abt my frens' love lives instead (all the btos and marriage T.T). also, i think there's so much potential ur vid can go from here if ur group is still working on this project. topics like 'does bto take the romance out of r/s?', 'the success rate of dating events these dayssss' and alsooo 'can mbti or horoscope predict the success of a r/s?' not sure how to find a way to dm u this text so im sorry for the vv lengthy postttt, but goodjobbb with this vid!!
Good documentary! Iocal here as well and I essentially gave up on using dating apps because they are so toxic and pointless especially for men looking for a serious relationship only to realize it is mostly a market shopping playground for ladies looking for options using tactics like ghosting or gaslighting. I won't say one can't completely find a good match through these apps but it is much better to search physically.
In the U.S. it's mostly just a culture of materialism and ego in dating on the apps. At least when looking for women, IDK what the dudes are like I'm not interested in them haha. I got to a stage of my life where I was able to get easy dates if I really wanted to but the quality of people in terms of personality and spiritual depth is just low because the culture is dead. People aren't aiming very high and don't really understand the purpose of love. I think most people are trying to "get" something instead of taking an interest in mutual growth in building something, love is fundamentally about self-sacrifice, but this is also a very Christian idea, and we've killed religious wisdom.
Went as horribly as I expected, maybe a little better but only because you spammed and had the video as a reason. At least you are much more positive about it than I was. Was really brutal for me ngl Still, would be cool to see a solution. Because just showing that something doesn't work, isn't showing how it's done better. But your title didn't promise that. I just would have loved to see your take on how to do it differently
Instead of dating apps, would you prefer going to a socializing dating event instead? There’s ‘Never Strangers’ where they host dating events. Curious about your thoughts on it!
Appreciate the detailed breakdown! A bit off-topic, but I wanted to ask: I have a SafePal wallet with USDT, and I have the seed phrase. (alarm fetch churn bridge exercise tape speak race clerk couch crater letter). What's the best way to send them to Binance?
brotherrrr you're thinking too much when it comes to your monologue, the absolute best way to meet is with nothing in your mind about what the interaction will go like because it usually never goes the way you plan :) also, don't try to think of things to talk about before you meet because it probably won't sound natural in regular talk
somebody get this fella a sponsorship
OMG thank you so so much to share this documentary, really appreciate your courage to do this! haha yaaa it is a gruelling process out there using dating app and keep repeating the same thing over and over and over again HAHAHAHA. until I just copy paste sometimes. opps.
It is funny when you can't control your frustration when you are ghosted by the first girl 😂 That reaction is real
Aiya, dating apps is just for girls to get ego boost only. They don’t necessarily want to find someone but just want to see if they can get people to like them and chat with them. Something like seeing an estimate on how high/low their “market”.
Hmm I find that annoying too so I’ll always try my best to get to see the person irl to see if we actually match and help ground me abit cause likes and hearts from a good profile do not mean anything 😂 and people need to get used to dead convos keep going until u find someone who can lead a good conversation cause I always get the same vibe as I see them irl 👏that might be the one for you
probably the younger ones doing that, i think older people want something real
HAHAHA THE CRASHOUT AT THE END WAS VALID
i’m no film major i just make and post yt videos BUT i have to say i really enjoyed the editing structure of this! stalked the page a bit and the projects on here are actually really cool. plus yall all funny lah
This video is sooooooo relatable. The same problems you're having in the video I'm experiencing in Toronto. As someone looking for something serious the dating scene here sucks, apps don't work, cold approach always has the same answer (she has a boyfriend), the girls that do say yes only want hookups. It's so bad I've contemplated travelling to find love. Your sentiments at the end of the video was perfectly worded.
Great video bro. After using dating apps for many years, I think that they are a good way for introverts like myself to meet new people instead of randomly approaching strangers on the streets 😅
LOL the last bit what a mood honestly 😭👍 dating apps drain the life out of me too man
Amazing video hahaha thanks for putting yourself out there
Started using dating apps during it's inception in Singapore.. It had been this way since then till now. Nothing dramatic has changed? I only noticed the $ has increased quite a fair bit. It's getting more expensive, more pay to play? The conundrum of dating organically or meeting people naturally is that it's also getting harder to when you already have a small social circle or not the kind of proactively trying to hit people up (strangers in any setting).... Dating apps was supposedly the way to mitigate this, but alas, they all have inherent problems too 😅
Lol the frustration at the end 😂😂😂😂
I really enjoyed watching this !
I hate dating apps because I hate taking pictures of myself and most dating apps, the pictures are the main part. Crappy pictures or few pictures = red flag most of the time. My former roommate tried to get me to download Tinder but I refused. I'm in the US smack dab in the midwest. I've watched so many peers my age and even younger have long-term partners, get engaged and married. None have kids yet. But I've accepted I'm more than likely gonna be single for a long time and it is what it is 🤷🏿♀️ More money to travel and spoil myself. Bright sides! 🎉
(Off topic but you are very attractive Nat)
Bro thankyou for this video. Always see the American pov good to see the sg pov
Solid video bro
Such a great project! I love this video. Good job!
hii Nat! firstly, i wna say im so glad i came across ur vid RANDOMLY.. or maybe yt recommended me cos these are the contents i usually watch haha. i can totally understand how u felt at the start of the journey but eventually got burnout from it cos i went through that too. im also currently in university and im pretty sporty (i dance as well!). people might believe its absolutely easy for me to find a partner so they get rlly shocked when i tell them that its been hard for me to find 'the one'. truth be told, i dont believe in that anymore, cos heyy the grass is greener where u water it!! i learnt that dating apps are rlly NOT for me and i think im someone who needs to have at least a friendship to even consider smth serious ... from what I've experienced, finding someone isn't tough but finding someone u can click with is really tough, and it gets so tiring i jus wna be a hermit crab haha!! i do still believe in love but these days im more interested in talking abt my frens' love lives instead (all the btos and marriage T.T).
also, i think there's so much potential ur vid can go from here if ur group is still working on this project. topics like 'does bto take the romance out of r/s?', 'the success rate of dating events these dayssss' and alsooo 'can mbti or horoscope predict the success of a r/s?' not sure how to find a way to dm u this text so im sorry for the vv lengthy postttt, but goodjobbb with this vid!!
Surprisingly great production and insights! Can feel ur pain 😅
Tinder, Bumble: hook ups
Hinge: situationship / casual / talk buddy
CMB: legit srs rs
from personal exp
eye opening but its much worse as an asian guy in a western country
Can someone tell me what is the location of the date spot he went to to play games?
Got me laughing throughout, absolutely love it!
Good documentary! Iocal here as well and I essentially gave up on using dating apps because they are so toxic and pointless especially for men looking for a serious relationship only to realize it is mostly a market shopping playground for ladies looking for options using tactics like ghosting or gaslighting. I won't say one can't completely find a good match through these apps but it is much better to search physically.
very interesting local perspective, sucks to see that even with so many chats things still go so slowly and you even get ghosted
wa bro your standard still can get ghosted means all the more i cmi.
In the U.S. it's mostly just a culture of materialism and ego in dating on the apps. At least when looking for women, IDK what the dudes are like I'm not interested in them haha. I got to a stage of my life where I was able to get easy dates if I really wanted to but the quality of people in terms of personality and spiritual depth is just low because the culture is dead. People aren't aiming very high and don't really understand the purpose of love. I think most people are trying to "get" something instead of taking an interest in mutual growth in building something, love is fundamentally about self-sacrifice, but this is also a very Christian idea, and we've killed religious wisdom.
It's not a Christian idea. It's simply human. Human civilization all over the world have thrived under that. Christians are just taking credit for it.
Would u say that u had the slightest hopes of meeting someone in the dating app in this documentary?
It can't be as bad as it is in the US
underrated frr
Went as horribly as I expected, maybe a little better but only because you spammed and had the video as a reason. At least you are much more positive about it than I was. Was really brutal for me ngl
Still, would be cool to see a solution. Because just showing that something doesn't work, isn't showing how it's done better. But your title didn't promise that. I just would have loved to see your take on how to do it differently
Masterpiece
also like where do i send in my resume
Instead of dating apps, would you prefer going to a socializing dating event instead? There’s ‘Never Strangers’ where they host dating events. Curious about your thoughts on it!
Absolute Cinema
Your feelings is how i feel use Dating app.. because you prefer organic
the girl you went on a date with is so pretty tho
Appreciate the detailed breakdown! A bit off-topic, but I wanted to ask: I have a SafePal wallet with USDT, and I have the seed phrase. (alarm fetch churn bridge exercise tape speak race clerk couch crater letter). What's the best way to send them to Binance?
Lmfao! I had the exact same reaction after using dating apps. 🤣
this guy has some youtube balls 😂
hahahaha awesome i love it! love from a fellow stinkie
brotherrrr you're thinking too much when it comes to your monologue, the absolute best way to meet is with nothing in your mind about what the interaction will go like because it usually never goes the way you plan :) also, don't try to think of things to talk about before you meet because it probably won't sound natural in regular talk
wait this is so real dating apps are such a scam
fml i remember seeing ur profile
I dont think youtube was created for video sharing to get girls, it was just a video sharing site lmao
is this a school fyp project haha
abit like shermins march omg HAHA
you won't get jack in USA
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I get 30 likes everyday
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