Beware of Gossiping Girlfriends
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- Опубликовано: 18 фев 2021
- Ever someone who wasn’t your friend know your business? We weigh in on the rules of friendship and the boundaries put in place when it comes to gossiping with friends.
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Be honest: Do you gossip to your friends about other friends?
I am not someone to discuss a person I really consider a friend, unless I have a specific need to mention him or her. If there is anything related to gossip, it is usually about someone that we mutually dislike or are not really friends with anyway.
Listen everybody is/ has one's gossip's about a friend to the other friend. That's a fact👌, maybe now more than ever people are too grown for that and I'm not mad at it at all, however if you my friend, don't always let the gossip comes from you cause then i get mad and blow up.
Helll no
I don’t !!!!!
I do but, I don't mention their name.
If you can't keep your secret, don't expect others to keep it for you.
"those who gossip to you, will gossip about you" remember that!!
Facts
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This is why you don't tell people anything they could potentially use against you. It's okay to keep some things to yourself. This goes for friends AND family.
Thank you Garcelle for being real lmao
Don’t you hate when someone tells you something about someone else that they shouldn’t have and you can’t unhear it?
Garcelle is such a Sag LOL love her.
She keeping it real.
Whatoa Sag?
@@noluthando6757 Sagittarius
There’s a difference between venting about how a friend upset/frustrate you vs gossiping about a friend, especially if you are no longer close or not on good terms. Tells A LOT about someone’s character.
There’s also levels to gossip. This show is a form of gossip. Let’s not pretend it and other talk shows are not. There’s levels.
yup
Don't gossip with me, you're going to drain me. I really can't take it at times. If you happen to tell me something best believe I'm gonna forget it the miunte I step away from you😂😂
Same 😂
Same 🤣
Thank you for saying this. I feel the same way. People confide in me so much about everything. But after we walk away I'm like wonderful weather we're having, I think I'll order some Chinese food tonight. I don't care enough to remember. I know it sounds harsh but I could care less about your gossip or secrets to tell others or store it away in my mental note files. A few friends say they like telling me things because I don't use what they tell me against them. Well that's because don't really remember. Nor do I have the time or energy to be that petty.
I had a friend from high school. We talked a lot, she often talk about her other friend. I was always puzzled by it because she spends so much time with her. I just decided to stop talking to her one day. No explanations. Life has been good since. It’s been 3 years.
Yea I find that weird when people do that.
Eh, What is gossiping really? Talking about the personal lives of other people, right? Everybody does that from the women on the show, to men in a barbershop, to the commenters on this video 🤷🏽♀️
Exactly!!
Exactly. People here actin holier than thou when they are the pro at gossiping 🤣
Thank you. I think people think of gossiping as just like making up rumors and spreading them around. Mean-spirited. But it's not necessarily just that.
Jeannie, you’re not supposed to announce that you’ve told someone a secret!
How does she knows for sure Loni didn't say it?...
what's wrong with saying u hv a secret or u told someone? Everything a person says these days is put under a microscope. If you would not say it then its ouk for you. Do not make it a law. Let her live!
@@malaikapaul6315 She trusts her.
@@melmel7011 If you tell someone something private, you should keep that private itself. Would you want other people trying to find out the secret?
How y'all gonna tell Jeannie what to do with her own secret lmao
THANK YOU @Loni for keeping it real and @jeannie YES sometimes you have to remind friend to not disclose your private Bussiness.
Hmmmm... Adrienne.. why do I feel like u r the most gossipy one from the girls......thank u Garcelle for ONCE AGAIN keeping it 💯
I know, love Garcelle
I think Jeannie or Loni would have called her out if what she said was not true.
I have noticed everyone in her life tends to say she is loyal. It has been alluded on the show that while she looks like the life of the party, she is actually quite introverted and keeps to herself and her family for the most part. What we see is her public persona. So, I doubt she is the gossipy type.
All of them are.
@@gaila.9852 Maybe they didn't want to embarrass her this time by putting her on blast lol not saying she is I dont know her like that just saying🤷🏽♀😊
For me it is the 'friend' who feels keeping your secret or confidence means they could tell your spouse.
Well now they know not to confide in garcelle 😂
That's what I'm saying😁😁🥴 but i don't know or think she's like that tho I think if its something personal I don't think she'd share it out at least I hope not😐😕🤭😬🤐
Had to cut off several ‘friends’ because of this.. you know when you know, trust your gut ~
I am definitely the kind of person who can keep a secret of my friends if I believe they want it kept it secret or if they tell me I should keep it secret. If I know of something juicy about just acquaintance or colleagues, I am definitely going to gossip that with my close friends😀
Im exactly like this.
I completely agree with Loni & Garcelle
Love him or leave him but don’t get stuck with the tab! I loved that book 📖
Welp, at least Garcelle and Loni are honest.
And the other two Jeannie & Adrienne???🥴🥴
I LOVE Loni's headwrap!
This whole show is about gossiping "friends"
Word
I think there is a fine line, if someone did something silly at the bar, vs. having actual problems at home, hopefully real friends know what is fair game.
Now I want to know what is Jeannie's secret. Lol.
Hmm probably the new house she got :b
That she was building a house in Atlanta
Right lol I was like so what it is it🤭🤭😄😊
For the most part we all gossip from time to time. But I am with Loni in terms of keeping gossip that a friend tells me in confidence, I'll keep it under wraps.
I'm going thru drama right now with a close friend that betrayed me and she refuses to apologize. She told me "It wasn't a big deal Bee, get over it". Oh I'm over it alright😖😫😣
I don't believe Adrienne, you trying to look like a saint here girl , women do like to gossip but there are different levels of gossiping I agree with Loni it just depends
Adirenne seems like big gossip.
I'm a woman and I hate gossiping. If I hear a story about a person and I care about know about it I ask them. If I'm scared to ask them I keep my mouth shut and won't gossip about it.
@Jean McElroy Girl, you don't know how the wording of your comment exposes your envy of Adrienne. When you make such derogatory comments about someone, attach evidentiary support to prove you aren't just repeating speculations by people who have nothing going on in their lives and keep resenting other people's success.
I do not keep a big circle of friends, so I do not get caught up in telling my business or drawing attention to myself to create potential gossip. I am too business to spend much time discussing other people, esp if they are not really adding to my life in any way. People will use your words and/or personal business against you somehow, so you are better off just watching your back and keeping your circle small and very selective. People will smile in your face, but ultimately ghost you and/or stab you in the back in the end.
Yess Amen, this is a word 👏🏾👏🏾😩
My mother said this: "People only know your business unless you tell them"
Im quite good at keeping secrets. If you told me something in confidence I just don't see why I should talk to anyone else about it?
Same here. I will hold on to it, it's one of my loyalty traits. I can't expose people or put their business out there
@@melissalitus8879 yeah❤❤❤
I definitely talk about my friends to other friends I just don't mention names but I don't share super sensitive information. For me if I don't want something to later come out I don't share it with anyone. Can't trust that people will always remember that your information is a secret. Sometimes you can get caught up in a conversation and something private comes out.
i agree with the statement. i hate when a friend tells me the business of one of their other friends. i had to tell a friend not to do that anymore
Judge them when they ain’t around you
And then when they smile in your face
Yep. That's the fake stuff I can't be on just keep it real or get away from me 😒
@@melissalitus8879 Lol
I think the way a person talks about their friend once they’re in a space where they aren’t necessarily on the best of terms... the way they talk about someone and tell their business when they aren’t friends with them anymore pay attention... cuz they’re most likely gonna do the same thing to you if y’all stop talking !!! Gossiping about people is not of my taste... I just choose to always give love and take the high road
Garcell! Yes! 😅🤣😂 I Live ❤
I’m sooo ready for them to get back into the studio ! I wonder what it’s gonna take
as long as this pandemic is around, no chance of them getting back into the studio
We are still in a pandemic, the virus is here and not everyone is taking it seriously. So the chances of them going back are limited unless they all get tested or vaccinated and feel comfortable to do the job with no audience members or big groups.
I hope they stay home
Some people just honestly can't hold secrets. Sometimes if it a really "wow that really happened" secret you just have to share it with someone especially if it's not about someone in your circle. But it depends on how heavy the secert is and if something like health or if the secert is going to put people in danger also.
I have a friend who always mentions someone who she used to be friends with, I try to change the subject sometimes 😒
Be careful. There’s a difference between venting about how a friend upset/frustrate you vs gossiping about a friend, especially if you are no longer close or not on good terms. Tells A LOT about someone’s character.
That true
Well it depends like if it’s something traumatic, health wise or financial then I automatically won’t say nothing to no one . However, if it’s like “ I just got a new job” or “my man and I are back together ” and you don’t tell me that I’m not supposed to say nothing to no one, just know my sisters gonna know as soon as I get home 😂 I tell my sisters almost everything
Loni, why would you tell someone that someone else is buying a new house? How does that even come up in the conversation? I absolutely agree with what Adrienne said. Let people share their own news.
Maybe another friend was talking to her about their thoughts on switching out their apartment for homeownership and needs advice and Loni mentions her friend that just bought a house and she had a great experience through her realtor and offers to get the info for her?
@@ninak2346 That’s a good point, but I don’t think it was like that based on what Loni said, haha.
Loni is a snitch.
@@deborahfox3943 Eh, I wouldn’t call that snitching.
You should not have to tell someone not to repeat something, but you should just in case.
It's like Forget Paris! They told that couples whole relationship step by step. Then they show up to the dinner party, it's awkward for everyone else. Just wait plz
Hear this girls ...I had this one neighbor who was/is always up in everyone's business. When we were close she used to say to me if you ever repeat this im never going to speak with you again. God knows how many of us she told that to...🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
So you guys talked😂😂😂😂, she shouldn't talk to any of you again... the fact that you found out she was telling everyone means you talked😂
It doesn't mean that at all. She was and still is today a busy body. 😆😆😆 People just tell me things voluntarily. 😛😛😛
I'm like Adrianne, I'm a volt. Gossiping with ill intentions bring me zero joy...Unless you're my Enemy, than it brings me plenty of Joy to hear about your downfall.
Sorry what do y'all mean on by the word volt I mean I looked the word up on line and still can't find the right it just gave me the scientific deinition instead
I say that all the time.
A secret is for ONE and ONE person. Once it's out of your mouth, it's no longer a secret.
I have never been one to like being around a lot of women but I do have my best friend and we can go a while without speaking but I’m like Adrienne I am a volt even if we stop speaking I would never tell anything she told me !!!!
I’m like Adrienne. No gossiping PERIOD. God don’t like that either. DONT TRUST anyone who is gossiping.
i had a bff that would constantly tell me her other bff's business. I hadn't seen or spoken to the girl in 10 years. I didn't want to know nor did i care to know what she had going on. It's just personality traits. I'm very private plus I hate gossip.
When Adrienne did this to dorinda on the cheetah girls 😂😂😂 hella told all her business. She was in the foster care home and all that. Then they fell out
Agree with Adrian
I sort of get where Garcelle is coming from but with me there’s always 2 rules. Make sure it’s someone who will keep a secret or just don’t mention any names. That’s what I do it’s easier that way haha
My family talks to much then wonder how the kids know everything
Because they are gossipy, my family is the same, not my current friends, I broke up with gossipy people.
Scorpios 🦂🦂🦂🦂
The best friends to have we are loyal to the end.
If it’s actually private then don’t tell anyone, but if it’s nothing bad then I don’t see how it would be wrong. Names come up in conversation or something that is said that sparks a memory and if the person would tell the story if they were there then I don’t see a problem. I also agree with A that if there is absolutely no way the paths would ever cross than 🤷🏼♀️🤷🏼♀️
Definitely agree
I agree with Adrienne 100%, if you have to tell at least do not mention their name.
This is why I don't bother to have friends
Loni got loose lips 🤣😭 she sounds so defensive. 😆
Loni literally used Jeannie’s secret as the example and then said ‘I ain’t even hinted to it’ 😂 The secret is that she was building a new house
jeannie said her business to Loni and not Adrienne (okay so she's closer to Loni hmmm interesting) I know she's not that close to garcelle yet
Maybe Adrienne is a tattle tale I dont know but who knows😊🤷🏽♀ but she seems close to with Garcelle now when they came back live on the show I don't know those two seems to hae a connection and a bond when there together at least in my opinion lol
Adrienne looks like Fred Flintstone.
The best gossip is when they share their own gossip. I don’t wanna hear about no body else. Tell me bout ya self 👀
Aww !!
Loni can you be my stylist? I may not be able to afford you but girl you look 10 times more gorgeous these days hmmm
Mammy Loni and Haitian Garcelle.
Every woman/girl is a natural gossip! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 life gonna be real boring without gossip, let's face it 🤣. My only concern is the gossiping that has an undertone envy but just mere harmless gossip 🤷♀️ come on now 🤣🤣
Not really I don’t gossip and not every woman does it usually the older woman gossip. Also gossip is draining and annoying and it could hurt others peoples feelings. I had two older woman that would gossip about me and my family and they were saying things that wasn’t nice. I find it immature tbh. Also whoever gossips about someone to you then they are gossiping to someone about you . If u are bored and gossiping is fun for you then there is something wrong with you. U cant find a hobby.
Loni and Jeannie Mai are ma girls love them both
jeanniee says " iam a private person " me ohh really all your business is out
😊 Right
I keep all secrets lol
If you tell me a secret, only me and my husband will know lol
I have a hard time keeping it in!
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Notice that Timberlake clip was longer.
They're producers support Timberlake.
Why do they look computer generated?
Unfortunately these women are toxic and perpetually talk about others This is hilarious and like a twilight zone episode. I know not to expect much educational or informative content from this show.
I'm like loni. I love a juicy piece of gossip 😋😂😂😂
The Real Daytime is but a diverse minority version of Gossip Girls 2.0.
It's not a Freind it's a sister carrying on and I'm Surprised By issues note Me interpatater s witnessing and unconchuse people any way and again do want you say witch is getting denied all the way but sometimes some times ok🥶🥶😡
Solution:
Be quiet don't talk about anyone, safer. Lol
Just speak good to build others up.
Just me
Loni...
Um no offense but I'm a little surprised here that loni says doesn't do it at times at least lol not gonna lie but she seems like the person who would do and tell🥴🥴 I dont know if its just me love her tho❤❤ just saying😊😊
LISTEN LADIES....This kind of topic is for lil girls. This is what i mean - Real Boring. Its not adult content. Boring!
Yaw gossip about people all the time but dont want nobody gossiping about yaw.They need to call this show The Fake.Tire of Loni and Garcelle kissing up to the white fan base.
Is gossiping something
Only white people do? 🧐🧐
@@mckenzie.8653 shut up
@Jean McElroy theyre full of it too.
@@mightyblack1 lol. I rest my case
@Jean McElroy both of them are racist and fake.
Loni have you gotten Garzelle a man yet
Give me a chance to see me,thank you
I only have male friends. ☺
Men gossip too they just have a different way of doing men women boy girl young old ain’t nobody excluded from gossiping sis
@@TheTruthAintInYa Sorry. Can't get along with females. I ONLY have male friends. 😁
If you can’t get along with an entire gender, maybe YOU’RE the problem.
@@rocksta201012 I only get along with males. I'm sorry if that offends you.
Question: Do you think any of your male friends would keep you as a friend if their significant other was jealous of you guys’ friendship?
Jeanne you private🤔
Right lol