Women Stay Single For This One Reason
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YEP 💯 💯 💯 #DRIZZLEDRIZZLE 😂😂😂
he told her to her face she is not wife material. if he really wanted her she would not want him anyway .
They can friendzone guys. Guys can girlfriendzone them
I call it fun zoning
The difference is when men friendzone we keep having sex.
Bend zone = D'Nieka Marie
The girlfriendzone is the friendzone for women
No, it's the f*ck zone.
Most men want a woman's sexuality first and foremost while most women crave stability from men in the form of marriage.
So, the situation where a man gets everything he wants while the woman gets none of what she wants would be called the f*ck zone or the fun zone.
Touche' 😅
Glad I found a good woman.28 years later and still going strong.I feel for brothas these days because that dating pool is horrendous.
❤️ God Bless your Union my Brother ❤️
Thanks, you have no idea
she can still cash out anytime she wants .
@@TheBlackpillPhilosophy
Yep, take HALF of everything.
Horrendous 🤣🤣 yeah it’s really that bad.
I bet you money this is a I want the wedding, I don’t want to be a wife type.
This right here. ☝🏿
As soon as they take that white dress off they are done!
So basically she wasn't listening to anything he said
They never do
Uh, women in general don't listen. Too much internal chaotic dialogue.
Dude literally told her she was a sleeper and she didn't flinch.
A man knows when he is with his wife.
Exactly,,,,,,(1,000 %),,, men always knows,,, when he has truly (Court something special/,,,, wife material) 💯🤷❗
His smirk told us everything we needed to know. That smirk was because he knows that she knows that she hasn't been doing the things he required of her to deserve marriage. Her filming him and trying to embarrass him, or shame him into compliance was confirmation that she wasn't a good wife candidate. Any woman that will run to the internet to discuss your business, shame you or insult you in front of the world doesn't deserve to be someone's wife. She proved she didn't qualify. That was also part of his smirk and why he said what he said. He knew she was trying to make a public spectacle of him so he made it a point to make sure he wasn't embarrassed alone.
@eachonereachone, I agree! That's what I got after watching that video too.
If he was dirty he would get her a fugazi and propose to her but never marry her.
Marriage & Dating Suck These Days. I Quit. Lol! 😂
Women don't wanna offer anything but expect everything they truly think they queens they attitudes will destroy a man future , I laugh at suckas who got them pregnant they're life is hell
Correct 💯 💯 💯 #DRIZZLEDRIZZLE
Totally agree 💯 same here
Have you heard of a country called Madagascar my brotha....
@@ElliotHolden Yes I Have. 💯
Dude answered an emotional question with straight logic. “I haven’t found anyone to marry.”
Modern marriage is a risky investment, & she didn’t make it worth the risk.
The state of modern women is; They’re not +1’s, they’re seat fillers!
He said he hasn't found anyone to marry....She did not even acknowledge what he said. The delusion is real.
the hardest lesson i had to learn about dating as a man is that it’s rare that you come across a women whose vision fits yours…and that’s the only way i feel it would work.
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Correct 💯 💯 💯 #ALLFACTS
She has to want your vision. She is already going to come with her own. She has to drop hers and get on board with you.
Underrated comment!
Bet. Only way.
I blame the court system. Men get destroyed in divorce. It is very unwise for a man to get married now a day.
Say NO to marriage fellas
Yea, we don't know. She wants him to marry her bad and give her a ring. And he is not interested. Apparently he is satisfied with her as a girlfriend. Question is, did she do something in the past that destroyed his interest? He knows what she wants, but dude ain't interested. Bottom line, they need to sit down and talk seriously. Young lady if you really want that and you realize he does not and he will not; then you may need to move on.
At the same time, marriage is so risky for men. Reason being, stats prove women will divorce us within 3 years. And all of our pennies and material things will be taken from the man by the courts and given to the woman.
THEY PLAYING FOR THE LIKES AND VIEWS, because there is NO WAY a sane woman would upload this thinking she is doing something to shame him, just NO WAY!
That boy is cold. And she didn't hear a word he said.
Women like her give the guys that don't take them seriously the most energy. As this is happening, they completely ignore or even play with the guy's that are willing to give her the relationship they desire. When the main guy doesn't pan out, then they get angry the guy's they dismiss aren't really applying pressure like they were. Those very women then expect all the energy they didn't get from the guy they believe they are "settling" for. They play themselves.
they are the Satans daughter . THEY are the confusion Satan is the Author of.
Older man here… If you have to low ball yourself to convince him to love you, then pack up and find a man who will. He knows your worth because he has kept you around … unfortunately you do not know your own worth.
why do some people see stability as boring or not winning? stability is what most men are trying to achieve
Facts.
I interpret that she wants the marriage title more than wanting to marry him and he feels it, which provoked his response.
@melvinlovejones old girl is looking for a Husband, she is NOT trying to be a Wife, two different kinds of Energy. he should listen to his Instincts about Her and Stay Single. she is only doing the Bare Minimum (Cooking, Cleaning, Bill Paying) if she leaves he will Not Miss her Contribution. Men should Marry only those Women whose Contribution they Cannot live without.
Men are not getting married today. Why should they when the court system is solely against them? Women also are waiting too late to get a guy and expect him to rush. If a man decided not to ever get married, believe him. I decided not to ever marry at 40. Today, I'm 59.
I'm 8 years younger than you and in the same boat!
As men; it only takes us less than 6 months to know. For some even less than 3.😎
So from not settling for less than a $250k engagement ring to begging for a $128.00 ring.
This is VERY VERY common in the Latino Community, I lived around/work with Latinos for a number of years and you will see many “marriages” where the woman will accept a situation like this, have children, etc and the man never marry her (officially) and when she does decide to leave the situation, the man will often actually marry another woman a short time later
Latinos will stay together for decades while Black People will create multiple families and the irony is that many Black Men want to marry and create a single family unit while the Black Woman is perfectly content with serial monogamy until it finally breaks her
Slavery.
Latino men are the dominant group from their countries of origin. So their women are used to seeing the value of men, and their protection.
All of American society has been organized around denying BM the power and self-determination to adequately provide for and protect their families. The status of white American was founded upon keeping BM poor and powerless.
BW of earlier generations understood this, and were willing to work with flawed men. Because they knew the deck was so heavily stacked against them.
But in the 1960s, government (and feminism) got between BM and BW and incentivized them to push BM out of the home. So you now have three generations of women raised by other women… whom have no experience with the protection of any kind of man. So you can’t value what you’ve never had. Because you great grandmother abandoned it.
“In a land where everything is Purple? Green is not an option…”
What’s sad is that BW drank the feminist kool-aid of not needing men. While WW leveraged the wealth and social status of the very men they claimed not to need.
TLDR: WW used feminism to gain power from their men. While BW were tricked into leaving their men and trying to go it alone. To disastrous results.
Yeah cause they wanna be free to sleep with pookie and tyrone nem when they get ready
Facts. Nowadays, boyfriends receive everything a husband would receive. If anyone offers me a car without a contract it's on.. 😂
😂
I thought you were talking down on the lady for wanting an inexpensive ring for a second there Crimson. Turns out you were referring to her desperation*pheww😂
Had me scared too.. close one lol 😆
If a union is all about her happiness...failed before starting regardless
If she was worth marrying, he would have done it by now.
I wonder if its a skit.
Bingo. Why did you allow him to waste your time as if you have it, ya don’t! ⏰
He said that with a straight 👀 face.
For whatever reason he doesn't view her as a wife. The fact that she's trying to force him to marry her is a red flag. She needs to ask him why he doesn't see her as his wife. It could be something he wants her change that she refuses to change. Or it could be he'll never marry no matter how great of a woman he comes across. She wants marriage so it's up to her to figure it out and see if she's willing to change or move on.
Correct 💯 💯 💯
What did she think she was accomplishing by doing this? I guarantee you she's tried to publicly embarrass him before numerous times and he's mentally checked out with her bs.
As an older woman I 💯 APPROVE OF THIS ☝🏽 MESSAGE!
I don't get it ! When somebody tells you, i don't want to marry you. Why are you still hanging in there? It makes no sense!
The Music in the BackGround while She's Talking Got Me Laughing...Bruh-Man Looks Hispanic..
Pedro said "I Haven't Found Anyone to Marry"
😁😁😁😁
14:40 He takes her to that big California King for some play
$128 is not all it takes. It's just the beginning of his expenses.
$120 something is my cable bill. 😂😂😂
In other news Ebony K Williams is pregnant and expecting a girl
Yep and she looks highly ridiculous and the people who are praising her sound and look ridiculous as well. Smh
😂😂😂😂
Artificial insemination.
@@christophersterling6788Another future entitled 304 in the womb...🤷🏿♂️
And at 40 years of age, too. Now isn't that something?
Getting Married is not a good deal for men
Did she honestly think that filming and hopefully shaming this man was going to get her an engagement ring? You can't make this ish up!
The problem with alot of womwn is that the guys that would be perfectly content with marrying them and staying committed to them they do not want.. they perpetually chase guys that are out of their league or guys that dont want them instead of the guys that do
He said what he said!
We know there is no excuses. That’s the point if he wanted to he would…..Girlfriends automatically think they’ll be the wife. But a wife is wife. She comes out of the gate as such. She doesn’t waste her time or give her all to a man that doesn’t see her in that way.
I approve this message.
That’s a mess
I'll say this. Everybody time frame to marry is different, but if you want to marry them, then you will. Much needed advice, Mrs Kendra. 🌷
Something is very, very, very wrong... Why even still (after KS passing) do black women not understand that men really do not give a damn about traveling? while we will travel with our significant other and family... A woman in and of herself "liking" to travel is not an attractive quality we vet for, lol.. I'm so tired of hearing women; when asked why would a man want to be with her? She responds, "im funny, or I like to travel," etc lol.... Those are things men do not care about as a prerequisite to dating or wanting tocbe with you. Damn lol. Most men like to save money the fact that you just "like" to travel to us screams dollars out of my pocket. So we reserve that for not all women; only some. Damn
Conversation gets real dry if we aren't talking about their job title, traveling, their girlfriends, or something related to them
I know quite a few black men who love to travel. YOU may not like it, but a lot of brothers do.
Family let's not give up on Women they love Bears so now we bears 🐻✊🏿.
@@tommygunn2782 we need to stop answering them or being in their comment section. ignore them completely
If that's all it takes, then buy it your damn self.....
I'm sorry but they needed to have this conversation early in the relationship. If he said that, then she needed to leave
If she stays, it must be the eggplant or tongue or whatever.
I haven't found anyone to marry 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
She wasn’t hearing that 😂😂😂😂
Whenever a WOMAN is pressing you to marry, like this woman is doing, SHE IS TROUBLE, and the marriage will be horrible! I know...be there done that . I hope this man sticks to his word!
She can’t even negotiate properly, you start higher and then go lower 😂😂😂
That's a very unusual thing to say to a woman you're going out with for a while. There is more to meet the eyes and ears, there is something happening behind closed doors that we can't see and hear. He doesn't look drunk to me, if his high he knows how it hidden. We have to look beyond we can see and hear, all is not good. The public is a big television screen, where people knows how to play their part in the eyes of public, this is the place where all the fake people and things comes out. There is no rules against fake relationships. Ask yourself why would she put him on the point! Let's just leave it there shall we!
Hi Ms Kendra! Happy Birthday to you! 23 years you!🎁🎂👏
Well I guess I’ll go ahead and drop it on y’all as a man because we have to quit playing with this stuff. Instead of women just trying to find a man that is looking to be married, they should be also asking the man “ what are the things that qualifies a woman as marriage material according to his standards?” but most women are afraid to ask that question because that would mean that she has to meet the qualifications first before pressuring him about marrying, and most women today just don’t want to sign up for anything that requires any such thing
Thanks to RUclips I have engagement ring. Next year get married. I was clueless at 35 when I got separated from my baby daddy. Sorry it’s really hard if you don’t know and understand the game….. keep spreading info please 🙏🏾 ❤
I been done. Especially w blk woommen
Happy Birthday Crimson!!🙌🏾🎊🎉🥳🎁🎂🎈💯
Very good video! 👍❤
REPUTATIONS MATTER
Smh if I were her, I would take the hint. Smh
This could be a ReBoot for a lot of good people. Personally, I’m choosing the Broom
That is so sad
I'm a top tier guy and it's still hard to find a WIFE!!!
Great topic.
I never played house. The women in my family were married so it was natural for me to be a wife. I don’t understand when women say they found their husband. A man finds his wife. My husband chose me. After 23yrs of marriage and raising our children we are still going strong. I’m thankful I’m not out there trying to date. The lady in the video needs to move on. A man knows who he wants to marry, she’s not the one for him so she needs to leave.
What about a man who says over and over again for years that he wants to marry you but doesn’t?
Usually a man that says that, is giving her false hopes so that she can continue sleeping with him, cooking for him, cleaning for him, etc., while never intending on marrying her.
Why "buy the cow", when you already have the "milk"? I did not make this up. Old folks have been saying it for years.
❤100000000 facts
She should’ve felt real small when he said that. I surely hope they do not have kids
SHE SAYS ''THATS WHAT IT TAKES'' A CAMERA IN YOUR HAND ...... FOR ME IM NOT BEING TOLD OR PUSHED INTO WHAT I DON'T WANT
SO IM THINKING ITS SOMETHING THAT'S WRONG IN THE RELATIONSHIP WHY HE'S NOT LOOKING AT YOU LIKE THAT
I would vote Desperate.
And not listening is a Red Flag.
Also, Perks can be rewarded with Presence, but not Commitment...Which is "the Side Chick anthem."
The painful truth is that a lot of guys actually start out with the intention to marry... but over time, the mask comes off and the woman shows herself to be who she truly is. (This applies to serious minded men)
A lot of women enter a relationship PRETENDING to be whatever the man desires, most likely he falls for it until the gut feelings begin.
Why did he back down? Was she disrespectful? Did she undermine his feelings? Was she indifferent to their sex life? Men have flaws, but NO TRUE Man is going to knowingly make a bum investment.
He most likely found someone better or more compatible.
Watch his demeanor when he's says He hasn't found the one to marry... that's longing and sadness.
Women have to decide if they want marriage or the relationship with the man.
Its really that simple.
A man rejecting marriage is not a man rejecting the woman.
Wrong
Maybe its true that women want men who dont want her. This is why Chad and Pookie get away with so much. If he was groveling at her feet she would have the least concern about him.
Anyone promoting marriage is an enemy.
MANE 💯 💯 💯 🤷♂️🤷♂️🤷♂️
1, 5 10 20 ,50 100, 250 dollars in any amountis hard to earn . These women don't respect us at all for what we go through to make the money we make. Entitlement is eroding the relationship game.😢😮
Women think the choice is there’s because they choose the man they want. Problem is choice is HIS for marriage, Sis. You’re wasting your own time when it’s obvious he’s not choosing you 🤷🏾♂️
Men let their intentions be known very early in a relationship. Lets flip it though..men could never come to the table with a Walmart ring. This is main reason men are opting out of all of it! These chicks need to start adopting this womans attitude if they really want men to come back to the table.
I do understand what you’re talking about but women initiate over 85% of the divorces. So that being said why would a man take a chance to get things took from him by someone that didn’t help earn it? Just my thought.
I always tell good young women dont move in with a man before marriage because he will either take ax long time to marry you or make excuses. This guy is definitely wasting her time!
She's wasting her own time. Yall have to take accountability for staying.
She wasted her own time.
Not even that, before you guys even go on the first date, in the texting stage, you guys should discuss whether marriage is something you're looking for or not. After the first or second date, if he says he can't see himself marrying you then leave.
@@softbutterfly_xoxo that doesn't even matter the current crop of women can't communicate directly and move with intent with anybody towards marriage.
@@evos469 I see what you're saying, but this advice is for my fellow lioness to stop them from wasting their time and getting caught up.
A woman in this situation should also realize that not only is he wasting her time, he is willing to waste his time and therefore may not be the high-value man she thinks he is.
She is wasting her time by staying. If it got to this point of her begging its OBVIOUS he doesn't want her. If we can see it, why cant she. No one can make a person do what they dont want to.
Ion care what kinda content a woman does they all the same deep inside… you heard Kendra describing the ring as “cheap” and had to catch herself “inexpensive” lmao. Ladies all want the same thing. And that’s okay. She keeps bagging on that ring not costing enough lmao
Mm ha
Her fault, no matter how you slice it.
I need to see her because he looks terrible
They both not ready for marriage because she's rushing it and his response wasn't confident or reassuring of the possibility of marriage one day so you either keep playing house and don't trip or part ways
What can a man get in a marriage that he cant get in a regular relationship?
Feminism taught women to have casual sex and be okay with being a proud single mother.
Women have lost their leverage that they have had for years , do not get married fellas .
Who knows the context of why he feels the way he does....but if he don't want marriage and you do sis....then get with a man that does....question I have is....Why does he feel this way? He looks passive but apparently not satisfied being w her....all I'm sayin
💍 An engagement is like refundable down payment contingent upon a marriage. 😅 Technically a man can buy an engagement ring. Propose. Extend the engagement for 3-5 years. Enjoy 3-5 years of 🐈. Break up. Legally take the ring back. 😂😂😂 Some of y'all men are too cheap to buy $1000 worth of peace.