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AITA for telling my birth sister that she does not have the right to make demands?
I (27f) was given up for adoption at birth by my birth parents. I was adopted into a family where my parents had already adopted my older sister Grace (29f) and three years after me they also adopted my younger sister Cassie (24f).
So getting some details/info out of the way before I continue: Both my sister's were given their first names by their biological mothers/families. My parents kept the original first names for both because they felt it was important to allow them that connection to their biological families. I was not given a name by my birth parents. My parents also kept some items from my sisters birth families but nothing was left with/for me so I didn't have that growing up.
Anyway, about 5 years ago I learned that I had a birth sister (25f) who is two years younger than me. So I was 22 and she was 20 when she reached out. She had been told all about me from day one. She knew I existed, they called me her sister, they made up this story that I was basically stolen by my parents and they hadn't wanted to give me up. So when she reached out she intended to "shine a light on the truth" and "save me from those people". I told her I wasn't interested in a relationship and that I didn't believe her parents story. She ended up with a different one from her maternal grandparents but chose to believe her parents (I would believe her grandparents version a lot more).
She begged me to have a relationship with her. She said she always wanted her sister in her life and pleaded with me for days about not shutting out the relationship. I told her I really wasn't interested in the relationship she was seeking and she said she would take anything, even very occasional DMs to each other.
In the last year she has been insufferable and she has brought up my parents "changing my name" even though I was never given a name by hers and I have told her this. She dismisses the fact that my parents didn't name 2/3 of us because they kept the original names and believes they chose not to do the same for me. She also made up this idea that her parents left me with a blanket, etc. I reply to her very infrequently because she gets on my nerves and I have told her this.
Now I'm pretty much done with her. It started with me posting about a weekend trip with my sisters. Birth sister DM'd me and said I shouldn't say things like that and I need to acknowledge her on social media as my "real sister". She told me to do it right away. She sent a bunch of short messages when I said no. She told me I choose other stolen kids over my real flesh and blood. This is when I really snapped and told her she doesn't have the right to make demands and that she is not, in fact, my real sister. I told her I never wanted her in my life and only gave in because of her begging and she still had the nerve to try and demand something from me.
She accused me of being evil and cruel to her for "speaking the truth". AITA?
Thank you!!!❤❤❤
NTA!!!
NTA!! Absolutely NTA! This 'bio sis' sounds, conceited, inconsiderate, selfish, depraved and delulu! Block across the board. You've gone your whole life w/o needing nor wanting them in your life. You keep doing you boo! ❤🎉🎉
You're a real one, thanks 👍
Neither of you know the Truth.
Rest of the story is mostly that the bio sis kept bugging op and even tho the bio grandparents said that her bio parents were lying about wanting to keep op and having op stolen she still chose to ignore them and tried to convince op some more. And refused to listen to the truth. Then op posted about a weekend with her sisters and bio sis got angry saying she should edit/take down the post. Op got angry and yelled at her. I say NTA, bio sister should have listened to the truth and backed off about the post.
Ty pookie 😻💖
Yes. Because to OP even though they’re not biological sisters, they’re still a part of her family. And her bio sister should be a bit more open minded but what can you do. Sounds like the parents drilled it into her that her sis was stolen and she refuses to think any other way and badly of her parents for giving her up for adoption.
Thank you, Pookie. I was looking for this comment.
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Bio sis is younger tho.
NTA. OP only lost their cool and yelled at them when the bio sister wouldn’t stop bugging them even when she was proven wrong. She made dumb demands and after ignoring everytime ope asked her to stop she deserved that scolding from OP. Bio sibling or not your not allowed to make demands like that when you barely even know eachother
It sounds like thr Bio Sis needs to get therapy.
NTA. Your need to block her, her parents, & grandparents. Then take all the harassment messages & posts & file a restraining order & harassment charges.
No charges necessary. That’s extreme. Just block her on everything and if she continues to harass then you press charges
I agree with pressing charges (at least file a report so government knows it could escalate). With as demanding as she is, she definitely has a mix of "not as good as my older sister" and spoiled child logic
If you don't make a paper trail and they do something worse like show up to your house and assault you or assault your family then they will get less time if any time at all in jail @@lydiarouse8241
I bet meeting this younger sister made OP realize she dodged a bullet with these parents 😂
Sheeeeesh. I bet so
finally, a video that shows the clean carpet next to the dirty version of it
🙄🙄There are other channels that shows before and after..
It's a clip from someone else's RUclips channel. I recognize his rug scrubbing thing. He always does something goofy to it
@@lillianfortuin2983yeah that doesnt mean they have seen them dumb fuck
Mountain rug company really good cleaning vids he then donates them to needy causes
idk ive seen so many of these carpet cleaning videos idk if they're actually real. Like there's only so many people who can manage to make a carpet that disgusting on accident...
Didnt hear a word of what you said, that carpet is way more interesting
REAL
"Mountainrugcleaningshorts" I'm 99% sure
100%
The brushing is the best.@@01WeepingAngel
Don't promote it its a huge waste of water and they just throw the rug away anyways
@@natetepe6579 womp womp, it's satisfying
The parents really tried to pull the whole stolen child story when they didn’t even name her
The OP is most definitely NTA. But I do feel bad for the birth sister for ONE reason. She was probably brainwashed/ideas put in her head by her insane parents, then badly hurt when reality hit her. I was in a similar situation. Basically my stepmother lied to my dad about her age, claiming to be 19 when he met her and helped her cross the border into the US from Canada. She had been a victim of both abuse & human trafficking. They dated a while and she had with my first half sister (P). Was he EVER pissed when on the birth certificate, it showed she was 17, a few months shy of being 18. They married when she turned 18. She got pregnant with my second half sister at 22 (L). She cheated on my dad so he divorced her and took L with her but left P with him. I grew up with P. She was basically a horrible & mentally unstable person almost since birth, but got to visit L in Canada. Full custody of L was awarded to her stepfather when she was 5.
Dad always showed me pictures of my beautiful baby sister L as she grew up. Telling me all about her and her achievements. How smart, sweet, kind hearted ect she is. I adored that beautiful little girl. He passed away from cancer before I got to meet her and my mom was against me getting a passport growing up because she always feared dad would try to kidnap me to another country. Well, fast forward. My stepmother emailed me one day showing a video link how she completed chef's school as well as a newspaper article and RUclips video about her. I was SO proud of her. She suggested I reached out to her on Facebook. I did and expressed my happiness to finally get to talk to her, explaining about dad and even showing her childhood photos of herself he had sent me before he passed away.
She ended up being just as horrible and mentally unstable of a person as P. Maybe by her vile manipulative influence. She not only lit into me verbally attacking me/cussing me out from the start, but accused me of being a pedo lover because I loved my dad(Because she didn't believe idiot stepmother lied to dad about her age even though she ADMITTED to me she did!). She and P were also spreading lies about our older half brother, T SA'ing P when she was a child. She also alienated our 3 nieces with him and I can't find or contact him. Which I KNOW theyre 100% lying about him. This was the man 20 years older than me that raised me when my dad was working 16 hr shifts 6 days a week. He gave me bottles, changed diapers, bathed me, helped me learn to walk, potty trained me, played dolls with me and even took me hiking and fishing because my abusive mom was knocked out on pills all the time. I only have wonderful childhood memories of him. I wished he could've gotten custody of me, but couldn't because he was really financially struggling.
Yet they glorify my autistic full brother D who went to prison several years for actually having CP on his computer and my badly abusive mother who won the custody battle for me. Before blocking both P and L, I got wind of them trying to kidnap their young teenage half siblings my stepmother did not have with my dad and warned her. She moved far away from L and P. Don't get me wrong, my stepmother is not a good person/parent and has some loose screws. But no, kidnapping is never okay. Especially not okay by two extremely abusive & mentally unstable adults. So much for having even ONE decent sister. I don't claim either. In hindsight, if I knew as a kid what I know now, I would've NEVER saved P's life when she was 6 months old.
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Sending you positive, healing vibes...😊
Hire a Private Investigator...
@@Queen-BlueThank you, I need them❤❤❤Are private investigators expensive? I'm on fixed income. But they might have a hell of a time finding Bubby as I call him. He's not great with technology, 10 years ago always switching phones and always living deep in the Appalachian mountains. Sometimes even off the grid. My "sisters" and butthead nieces are the only ones who know where he's at or other people who would know. And they're dead set on taking that information to the grave with them. 😢 What scares me is he's nearly 60 and doesn't have a very healthy lifestyle at all. He's one of the few good non abusive family members alive on dad's side of the family (mom's side is evil, dad's is mostly dead) Then of course my sisters made fun of me saying since I have no family I will die alone.
@@lordkrishnastolemyheart5485I think they are, but it depends on how much time they need to investigate for you.
Also, don't listen to your mother and sister (if you can even call them that). As an adult, you get to choose who your family is and make your own. Don't listen to them. Do you have support of your own to help back you up (friends/dad's side of the family/etc.)? Even if you don't there are a lot of support groups out there that can provide support systems for you.
Also keep a record in case you ever need to file a restraining order. You got this!
Bullshit, the SISTER is Crazy
@@yeyosilver7067 That's why the OP is NTA because the sister is nuts. But it was the bio parents' fault the sister ended up like that.
I would get a restraining order and change all my contact and social media.
Sounds and reads like the birth sister was raised in a cult or has been brainwashed beyond saving... The "stolen kids" terminology screams it.
If bio sis thinks they're stolen, she really needs to educate herself and read about actual stolen babies from the Magdalene Laundries in Ireland.
As a child conceived in the 80's to an unwed mother (they married at 7 months pregnant) I could have been one of those babies. As could my Granny in the 40's. The last of the launderies didn't close until September 25th 1996 and thr majority of those children were sold to American couples/families by the church. 😡
My biological mother also did that. Claiming she didn't want to give me away, I was "taken" from her, claiming how she tried everything to get me back.... my sister of course believed her but when we were older I called my biological mother and told her I have all the paperwork from back then (police report, cps reports and her signing to give me away) and if she doesn't stop I'll show everything to my sister. She thankfully stopped cause I didn't want to show it to my sister after all. It's a very complex situation, for her she's her mom, for me she's a stranger and someone else is my mom. We have a more or less friendship based relationship and not a sisterly relationship.
When our mother was in the hospital she wanted me to visit her, I told her no, I have no business with that woman, I'll come and wait outside to support you if you want or need that but that's all I can do.
It was really common in a few countries with religious ties like that. They would tell the woman that the baby died and they needed her to sign the death certificate. She would be grieving and not realize she was signing adoption papers.
And it happens today in poorer countries. They’ll grab a kid/baby and claim it was abandoned and basically sell it to someone in a richer country who thinks they’re adopting an orphan. Or they’ll tell the birth parents this child is being sponsored to go school in America, and the parents job at the chance because even if they love and want their kid, an American education could mean a better job opportunities and life than what they can offer, but then the kid never comes home and the family realizes what happened
The same happened in Argentina during the 70s and 80s dictatorship. People were getting kidnapped, tortured and even killed, and the children that were with those people, or the children that were born in captivity either because the kidnapped women were pregnant or because they got r*ped during their time imprisoned, got sold to rich families, many of them from the US. There are still mothers and grandmothers looking for the remains of their children or their living children and grandchildren, who are living under adoptive families out there without even knowing.
A few years ago it was up in Danish media that children adopted from Korea or Vietnam in the 20th century were not infrequently not actually orphans but just.. straight up stolen from loving parents.
NTA. To borrow from a story I read about regarding a situation involving the proper application of gratitude. If someone cooks food I don't like when they know I'm not hungry, should I be thankful? You don't owe intrusive people anything, especially after asking them to leave you alone.
not the ahole. she's trying to take you away from where you actually want to be and force a relationship against your wishes. if she keeps doing it, honestly just call the police and get a restraining order.
My grandmothers first son was actually stolen from her at the hospital. She was 15. Her mom had set up the adoption behind her back. She was distraught and looked for him for 50 years. She found him. The difference here is that none of my aunts or uncles forced a relationship on him. After the family found him (through one of those dna test thingys) they had contacted him pretty much saying “hi, we’re so and so. We’re your siblings. We’d all love to meet you and talk, mom would like to tell you her side of the story. If you’re comfortable with that please reach out to us, we’d be happy to answer your questions.” They left it to him to choose to have that relationship bc his brother had found his birth family and it went bad so he was scared. My aunts and uncles didn’t borderline harass him. We reached out, told him we would love to have a relationship with him and let him choose if he wanted that relationship.
My question is why these "parents" kept having children if they were just going to adopt them out.
You do not have to have a relationship with your biological sister if you do not want to at this time. Period.
Tuck the offer into the back of your mind to mull over as time goes by if you wish, but no, not compulsory.
Sounds like your family situation with your adoptive parents and adopted sisters is pretty darn good and you are happy😊
As somebody who got adopted around 2 years old, I still have the same first name given to me when I was born. When I was 14 my birth giver reached out and tried to convince me and my sister (who is my biological older sister that my parents also adopted) that we were brainwashed and lied to and that we weren’t even meant to be adopted, and our parents are inherently evil for taking us from her. None of that is true. My parents still have all the court documents and CPS paperwork so I know none of that is true. Now almost 10 years later her kids (she had 3 of us who got adopted out, and has 6 that never got adopted) still message me and all of them and our birth giver start unnecessary drama with my older brother and me. I have told them all off at different points since they act like I owe them something. I never sought a relationship with them and am not interested in forcing one, especially considering how messy they all are. I have all of them blocked across my social medias, and I’m thriving without them. So no ma’am, you are NTA.
I feel bad for the bio sis. Hearing something something like this has got to be hard. She has the trauma of thinking she has a kidnapped sister out there. So, now accepting your whole life your parents have fed you this lie? Why? I feel bad for her. In time she'll accept the truth hopefully.
That’s not a trauma, I don’t think you quite understand what that word means. That doesn’t mean it isn’t difficult, but using the word trauma isn’t right here
defo nta, but i do understand how she wants to form some kind of sisterly relationship with u. She just wasnt raised right, its not her fault.
NTA and i feel very sorry for the supposedly "real" sister. When she finally accepts the truth she will be very hurt.
Honestly sometimes the truth is hard to digest. It's definitely going to take your bio sister time to understand things and finally give up. I personally don't think you're the ass hole at all. You have every right to not want anything related to your birth family, especially if they were never there to begin with, including that of siblings. Even more so if there stories ain't adding up. However I sympathise with your bio sister because she's likely grew up believing all that stuff and is refusing to understand otherwise due to her own deniel, confusion and guilt. It's quite a lot to take in when everything you've believed turns out to be false, or not come true. Not mention she probably grew up wishing she had her sister there with her after hearing so much about you. And strongly believing that one day she would be able to have you back in her life. She probably imagined things would go differently after reaching out to you, and that you'd want her in her life as much as she does you. And though it's wrong, it's perfectly normal for her to likely feel overly jealous of your sisters that you grew up with. She doesn't and never have had that closeness with you, which in her eye's / mind isn't far because that was snatched away from her without a care and given to them. Who to her personally ain't your true sisters but impostors who have taken her place all these years, though to you, obviously in your eye's/ heart they are. To me it seems she can't process everything and isn't willing to give up because you are all she's been waiting for in her life. She can't understand why it's not the same for you, because she doesn't want to believe she could be dismissed as no importance at all by you when to her you likely mean everything xx
The carpet is way more intresting i had my volume really low and still enjoyed it-
NTA.. but if bios didn't even give OP a name, how TF DID THIS LOONY FIND THEM?😅 I'd say NC, that girl sounds unhinged.
How the hell do these carpets get so damn dirty bruh 💀💀💀
My ears = hearing if the carpet thing has ASMR
My eyes = looking at the carpet getting cleaned
😂
At some point you gotta start using protection💀
She didn’t make any demands she just told you what she believed to be true
So these people had at least four children, and gave up at least three of them. What the heck?
They are sisters through adoption, OP and her siblings came from different families
Lol I love watching this guy clean rugs- how do I hire him??!
Ngl I only stuck around for the rug cleaning
Thank you for not only linking the story but also telling me how to find it. If I have to search a page for a video posted more than a week ago, I wont.
So as a former foster baby, I was placed un care after extensive injuries (broken bones for sure unknown brain damage) at the age of 2 months old. I was given to a foster family, wonder people I've seen pics of. They had me for somewhere around year. my parents had 2 slightly older kids (toddlers, my big bros) and had not told family about the situation. If it wasn't for my maternal grandmother I would have been adopted out, I believe that's the only reasons my parents contact them. Whatever happened to OP, idk. It could be big but also small. CPS/DCFS is a hot mix of cases with legit abuse and cases that are not so much. They can be willing to adopt out espcially if no other family will take the child or there is a danger. I would have been adopted out like right before I turned 1 years old. I was later given back to my parents at the age of 3 (from my understanding a default ruling based on a no show of my grandma (and grandpa) who was sick at the time and missed the court date. Even that story is a bit murky for me).
You would be surprised. Maybe mom was on a drug that was known and they took baby away before should could name her or maybe they disagreed with medical chocies and the state took control and never gave the baby back. Idk. but I'm always curious of both side. Not EVERYONE who has CPS involved is a bad parent so hurt their child. Some, like my parent, did and got away with and and took me back and I grew up in a toxic and abusive home
Damn, that carpet is really clean
I like this guy, he is actually competent enough to post and put the link for the full story. Good goin', RksAskR!
The sister is crazy, block her and don't put her in your life anymore
NTA. If she was 'stolen' ask to see a copy of the police report. The bio sister is a stranger. If she wants a relationship with her that's great. If not, also great. There's no obligation here.
That's one clean rug
The fact that this 1 min video had the full video attached.. I love it 😍
Im so distracted with the carpet
NTA
Bro is that Chris tyson
I just focused on the carpet cleaning
NTA, bio sister needs to get a life and the bio parents should've told the truth or just not mentioned her
NTA. I don't know what her parents told her, but they GAVE YOU UP.
And you have the right to love whom you love, and not care about people you don't care about.
Especially as an adult in your twenties. Even if they HAD stolen you, at this point you could CHOOSE to love them. Did they raise you well? Are you HAPPY? Then that's good enough.
Family is about the ties that bind, and about love, NOT about blood and genetics.
And this girl might be a wonderful person, but she is so OBSESSIVE that you can't see that, because it is hidden behind here controlling and needy displays of BEING RIGHT AT ALL COSTS.
If she could fix that aspect of herself, OP might be able to accept her AS A FRIEND and develop a friendly relationship with her. From friendship, a deeper relationship could develop.
But as it is, she's just going to make OP outright hate her.
Sis was told a different story, but she shouldnt demand.
Sisters needs help bc Bio Parents brainwashed her into believing some bs stories that aren't true
I am terrible. Second sentance and my first reaction was " lol loser"
Am I the only one who's here for the carpet?
Same, I’m a big carpet enthusiast and find this so satisfying 😁
is it just me or is it like every time in these stories OP is 100% in the right??
🚩 Evil Birth Young Sister 🚩
That's a nice rug
I watched the full story and really no means no
You think maybe the grandparents should have focused more on all the children their daughter was having with no regard for caring for them. They should have been very grateful someone did their job for them.
Who turned the volume down and watched the mat?
Me, my family are rug enthusiasts (whoda thunk for Russian empire immigrants ay) and we came to this country with several that were caked in dirt from the journey, so this reminds me of the rug cleaning sessions I saw as a kid
NTA. After reading the whole thing, bio sis sounds like she has a lifetime of abandonment issues.
I bet that carpet stank of piss lmao
Morally. No
Legally. Probably
THIS TAME COMPARED TO SOME OF THE REDDITS I'VE SEEN. usually they start out normal-ish but desend into such madness that I usually cant believe they're real. they're all like:
AITAH for disowning my grandma after she showed up to my wedding wearing a brides dress??
for context, me, (21f) have been with my husband (22m) for about 8 years now and things have been great. we are step siblings, my mom married his dad when we were in middle school and we immediety started dating. our parents never suspected anything until we told them of our relationship when i turned 18. my parents were disappointed, but they accepted that this is who we are and I love them for that. my grandma, however, did not. she lived with us since her husband died in 2016, and has constantly made my life difficult with her conservotism. I hate her, and so does my husband. anyway, when my husband got engaged, she protested and told me it was sacrilege, and incest, and all that stuff. my parents tried to talk to her, but she couldn't change her mind. WE WERE GOING TO HELL FOR MARRYING OUR STEP-SIBLING. fast forward to out wedding day, we specifically did not invite my grandma, and she did not want to come. as soon as the "speak now or forever hold your piece thing" came, my grandma burst into our wedding chapel wearing a gorgeuos, flamboyant gown that probably cost thousands of dollars just to rent. she marched up the aisle and started addressing the guests, telling them of the incest and sacrilege, offering salvation for all parties involved. me and my husband are trying to get her to sit down, but she is just yelling and screaming prayers at the top of her lungs. finally, at the end of her speech, she pulls my husband in for a kiss. everyone is shocked and disgusted by her behavior and my husband pulls away immedietly. he backhands her and knocks her flat on the floor of the chapel. my parents rushed into the aisle, yelling and tending to poor old grandma. we finished the wedding, but the reception and the afterparty super awkward. my parents told me that we have to forgive her,that she cant be held accountable because of her dementia. they tell me that they agree with grandma, and my relationship with my brother is disgusting. I disowned my grandma shortly after, and lost touch with my parents. my husband and I have two baby girls, and another one on the way. our life is perfect without out family in it. I still think about it though, how grandma acted that day and i wonder if maybe I should forgive her
Did anyone else have to watch this three times because the background kept distracting them... or is that just me🤷♂️
God, some ppl these days are disgusting. These stories I hear on Reddit I hope I don't have to use Reddit to share stories like this
"link for the rest of the story" piss off, byee
Bait for a click to the whole story....
Yeah, no.
how do these ppl find carpets THIS dirty and how did they get that dirty
Where do they find these rugs?
This one looks like it was under three inches of dirt below a cow barn.
Here’s my thoughts. I’m in a similar situation
I was adopted at 4 months old from Hanoi, Vietnam into a loving danish family.
I have my biological first name as my middle name, but I infrequently use it as it is nearly impossible for anyone in Denmark (including myself) to pronounce properly.
I have contact with both families, my biological father and his family, and my adoptive parents, my biological mother died years before I turned 18, laws in Denmark stipulates that it’s illegal to reach out before 18 (legal age)
I do not see my biological family as my “real” family. And I always make a point of that
This obviously upsets my stepmother specifically. Whereas my biological father is fully aware he’s the one who abandoned me first and is trying to rebuilt a relationship whereas my stepmother (his wife) thinks we should have it because his sperm helped create me. Fuck those 18 years I didn’t even know his name.
My half siblings are still children, except one older brother who I have a bet going with. We’re betting on who the next wife will be once our father gets bored of the current one because she’s getting to that age where he looses all interest. My money is on his affair partner (the maid) whereas my brother is betting on the secretary because she’s younger and hotter (fair enough point)
If you’re wondering: my bio dad is on his 3rd wife. Older brother is son of the first, I’m daughter of the second and the rest are from the 3rd
Blood is not the only family.
Boh-oh wa-eh
Man forget the story how do these rugs get this dirty? Like what 😭
My question is why did they keep having children
Because crazy straight people can just keep pumping em out with no consequences
The birth sister sounds very needy
Why would one own white mud boots??
why does it matter? one knows what the boots are for and what’ll happen to the boots
I have my own story (more or less I just need to vent) AITA for thinking my sister and mum deserve everything they get. I 13rd female has a 15rd sister who is an asshole to me 24/7 she constantly berates me about just about everything I do and naggs me all the time, she as well calls me a brat or bitch quite a lot, whenever I insult her she always comes back sarcastic and snarky, but when I do it to her she either calls me a brat or hits me. My mum is an absolute hypocrite, she is constantly picking fights with my sister and my dad and me, less frequently for me, but it's impossible to know what she wants even after she tells you because she changes what she wants and yells at you when you don't do it like she wanted, she constantly naggs me as well, she never leaves me alone, and is honestly just a total bitch, I could go into more detail, but that would take too long. I'm the type that tries to avoid conflict as much I can, but these two make my blood boil and I can't do anything about it!
Omg my name is Cassie and it’s spelled the same way!!😮😮
NTA but I feel sorry for the bio-sister. I dont think her intentions were bad, I guess she was simply trying to bond with op, knowing that they are sisters.
NTA!!! She is batshit crazy 😳
I think it's a tad unfair to deny a relationship at all with the bio sister but she's NTA for showing her where her boundaries lie when she's practically a stranger.. Tho still imo she's just a clueless girl who would rather believe her parents but still wants to have a relationship with her sister, if the adopted sister at least attempted to have a good relationship with her bio-sis maybe the bio-sis would come to actually realise that her sis is happy where she is and the story is complete bs from their bio parents..
Adopted children don’t owe anyone a relationship, so saying no isn’t “denying” them one. Otherwise I fully agree
My name is Cassidy
Did you perhaps become a missing child? Along with 4 other children, specifically at a popular diner with robot entertainers?
@@garnetdoesstuff2626 no sorry
HELL NOO You did nothing wrong.
That's so sad, imagine beeing raised knowing you have a big sister that was stolen from you (that's what she belived). That girl has been longing and dreaming of OP all her life. I understand she's upset at the accusations and nagging, but it's a bit cruel to deny your sister.
If someone doesn’t want a relationship with you, then tough luck
OP isn’t “denying” anything. People who are strangers to you aren’t owed a relationship, especially after they insult your parents and family with vile accusations.
Unpopular opinion, you are! I doubt she was as annoying and intrusive as proclaimed. When someone reminds you of a traumatic event, even the way they breathe annoys you. The sister acted out, maybe it was because of upbringing or rejection, but there’s no reason to treat someone like that. She just wanted her sister. That’s not a crazy request! As much right as you have to reject her, she has that same right to look for that relationship with you. Over all answer. The op needs therapy to get over the misplaced resentment, the parents gave you up not your siblings.
for once, yes u are
Got a link to the original?
why the hell are you getting adopted at 24 and 27?
No I don’t think so
Yes
How so?
Sssssttttoooopppp you are making me mes up and nnmnmoooooooo
Nta
Okay like how tf did the rug get THAT dirty??
imagine opening reddit and seeing a whole chunk of text complaining about you and all the replies agree 💀
Would seem like it's time for some self-reflection. And in this case, therapy.
real
Womp Womp
No
And he says he wants to be mine
Wtf?
Ones who just watched it getting washed and didn't even notice the story
r u g
rug 👍
Someone loved you so much that they took all the pain to reach out to you and build a relationship with you. You are definitely angry at your biological parents. Justified. Taking that anger on your biological sister is not right. I know your desires are not being respected here by her, she is desperate to have you and doing all this- trust me she loves you and is scared to loose you. You must be very special to have someone who loves you this way. Just calm her down once in a while.
Dawg, she doesn’t know her. Don’t matter if they’re related. If someone doesn’t want a relationship with someone else, then tough luck
The sister is a stranger to OP. Imagine someone comes out of nowhere and tells you that they want a super close relationship, while insulting your parents and spinning things you know are lies.
What is aita and nta
Aita is 'am I the asshole' and nta is 'not the asshole'.
Am I the asshole
Not the asshole
m o w
Hm
You are both the AH for me
How?
How?
I got it