for my subscribers that are interested in my british game show content, I apologise but I don't think I'll be making that content anymore due to copyright issues and a lack in british game show content coming out in general. for 911 fans, I didn't add everything in the original tweet, so if you're interested in this headcanon then check it out!
The worst part about Bobby keeping Buck out of the firefighting for a while was that Buck practically clings onto his job. It's his lifeline. He grew up believing that he was never going to amount to anything, knowing that he was a disappointment to his family. His job was his saving grace for it gave him the family he wanted and it gave him the sense of purpose. Losing that was like losing everything he'd worked so hard for, going back to the little Buck who got kicked out of school and was looked down on. That dinner scene kills me every time I watch it.
as someone with adhd, bucks character hits so hard because i’ve never seen RSD really shown at all and even if it’s not canon it feels like representation “i was mad at you guys for moving on without me” i think this line hits so hard for me because like. they didn’t move on. we see this whole arc really just through bucks point of view and to him, it looked like they just completely moved on, but they didn’t really. he just thought they did because that’s how he perceived it and it hurt him enough that he went through with the lawsuit. and they all care SO MUCH about him but at the time he can’t see it because he just is so hurt. and i’ve been there and when you have adhd feeling like you’ve been replaced is so painful also i think being a firefighter is a bit of a hyper fixation of his. being a firefighter, at one point, is all he had. it’s the only thing that matters to him and he’s absolutely terrified of it being taken away from him to the point where when it is, he becomes depressed and i think that’s another thing with adhd is being so convinced that This Thing is the Only Thing you can do because you’re not gonna succeed in anything else
Also more on the RSD, Buck basically shuts down when Maddie leaves, again. She promised she wouldn't leave him again, but, due to her suffering from Post Partum, she not only leaves Chimmy and their daughter, but Buck too.
His mom is worst than his father. Seriously can't believe she have the nerve to call her own son stupid. I mean, at least the dad sounded a bit concern when Buck starts to leave. That's what I think.
Oh I agree too. She also played the victim card and blamed Maddie and Buck for being difficult to raise when they were kids (plus she barely raised Buck and essentially left Maddie to do it). She reminded me a lot of my grandmother.
Yeah, the dad was basically catering to his wife's grief and ended up abandoning Maddie and Buck, while she didn't do anything to help her family and herself heal. I got so mad at her about the bike and she told her husband that they already live with a reminder of their dead son, like it was Buck's fault THEY brought him into the world -_- Poor Buck and Maddie.
something that always hits hard is how everyone tells him after the crush injury that there's so much more he can do. i had a work injury that left me with nerve damage/chronic pain and forced me to stop/slowdown a LOT of the things that helped me survive/cope with life and feel human. hearing people tell buck that he could do so many other things aside from firefighting hurts me because yea, he could, but he WANTS to/LOVES firefighting, and there's no replcement for something that makes you feel so alive and so you.
I love this! Most diagnoses of characters just base off of the common, situational symptoms like distractability and impulsivity, but you actually covered stuff like RSD! Thank you
I've been reading 9-1-1 fanfic for years and lately more and more of them show Buck having ADHD. As someone who's had ADHD my whole life, I was like 😮 because it makes so much sense! And it's also helped explain some of the things I have that I never even noticed or understood. Info-dumping, RSD, focusing, hyper fixation, impulsiveness, fidgeting, emotions... It's all a wonderful jumble tumbling together
*breathes* i have once again seen buck's parents and tbh I have never liked them 🤧. Athena and Bobby acts more like his parents than Buckleys do. And if he's really adhd and his parents did nothing about it... that only makes me hate them more 😞 they only saw him as "My sister's keeper" kinda person.
I genuinely thought that he had ADHD because as a someone with ADHD there are true and do happen so when I found out that it was never confirmed I was so confused because I really thought he had ADHD
As kid I knew something was off, I’ve experienced every single thing in this video and at one point I literally thought I was going insane. Started doing a little bit of research with a friend of mine after we realized we were feeling the same way, which led me to express my concerns to my parents which was brushed off immediately. I was labeled a temperamental, over dramatic kid who liked getting in trouble. I handle my adhd a bit better now that I know what I’m dealing with but boy is it a struggle. After years of confusion and uncertainty it’s take a 9min video to put the nail in the coffin. I can’t wait to bring the diagnosis home on paper so I can slap them with it😂😂😂.
The very first one, that explains a lot about me. 🤣🤣🤣 I always end up teary eyed when ever someone criticizes me or something like that and I never knew why. Now I know. Thank you
8:06 that girls reaction is the same my parents get when i talk about my hyperfixtations. Infact natrual disasters used to be one of my hyperfixtations. Soecifically tornadoes.
I can't see the twitter thread and I tried looking up the account separately and it said account suspended. Is there any way to still view the clips from the thread or no?
im not sure about this one.. maybe eddie moreso? not sure.. buck does push himself pretty hard so i can see that sorta, but he doesn't really cause harm to himself after breakups does he?
for my subscribers that are interested in my british game show content, I apologise but I don't think I'll be making that content anymore due to copyright issues and a lack in british game show content coming out in general.
for 911 fans, I didn't add everything in the original tweet, so if you're interested in this headcanon then check it out!
I know I'm 2 years too late, but do you know the name of this song? 😅
This makes sense and with the kind of parents he grew up with I wouldn't be surprised if he was never properly dionigsed
I’m gonna go with a hard yes to all of what you said. And I truly believe somebody will eventually get him a diagnosis, even if it is off screen.
"Would anybody like any corn bread" LMFAO Athena is so unintentionally funny sometimes, I love her so much
I don’t want my boys to fight here food
"Did anyone else try the chicken? I thought the chicken was lovely."
I have adhd , and I would like to add , his weird fixation and personality with the clipboards
And the trivia let us not forget the trivia
The worst part about Bobby keeping Buck out of the firefighting for a while was that Buck practically clings onto his job. It's his lifeline. He grew up believing that he was never going to amount to anything, knowing that he was a disappointment to his family. His job was his saving grace for it gave him the family he wanted and it gave him the sense of purpose. Losing that was like losing everything he'd worked so hard for, going back to the little Buck who got kicked out of school and was looked down on. That dinner scene kills me every time I watch it.
as someone with adhd, bucks character hits so hard because i’ve never seen RSD really shown at all and even if it’s not canon it feels like representation
“i was mad at you guys for moving on without me” i think this line hits so hard for me because like. they didn’t move on. we see this whole arc really just through bucks point of view and to him, it looked like they just completely moved on, but they didn’t really. he just thought they did because that’s how he perceived it and it hurt him enough that he went through with the lawsuit. and they all care SO MUCH about him but at the time he can’t see it because he just is so hurt. and i’ve been there and when you have adhd feeling like you’ve been replaced is so painful
also i think being a firefighter is a bit of a hyper fixation of his. being a firefighter, at one point, is all he had. it’s the only thing that matters to him and he’s absolutely terrified of it being taken away from him to the point where when it is, he becomes depressed and i think that’s another thing with adhd is being so convinced that This Thing is the Only Thing you can do because you’re not gonna succeed in anything else
Buck totally could be poster charcter for RSD.
YES whenever I have to explain RSD, I show them that part of this video!
Also more on the RSD, Buck basically shuts down when Maddie leaves, again. She promised she wouldn't leave him again, but, due to her suffering from Post Partum, she not only leaves Chimmy and their daughter, but Buck too.
His mom is worst than his father. Seriously can't believe she have the nerve to call her own son stupid. I mean, at least the dad sounded a bit concern when Buck starts to leave. That's what I think.
Oh I agree too. She also played the victim card and blamed Maddie and Buck for being difficult to raise when they were kids (plus she barely raised Buck and essentially left Maddie to do it). She reminded me a lot of my grandmother.
@@presleysmith1331 oh, wow.
Yeah, the dad was basically catering to his wife's grief and ended up abandoning Maddie and Buck, while she didn't do anything to help her family and herself heal. I got so mad at her about the bike and she told her husband that they already live with a reminder of their dead son, like it was Buck's fault THEY brought him into the world -_- Poor Buck and Maddie.
I swear Athena and Bobby were better parents to Buck than his own.
@@derrickdaniels3955 no doubt.
something that always hits hard is how everyone tells him after the crush injury that there's so much more he can do. i had a work injury that left me with nerve damage/chronic pain and forced me to stop/slowdown a LOT of the things that helped me survive/cope with life and feel human. hearing people tell buck that he could do so many other things aside from firefighting hurts me because yea, he could, but he WANTS to/LOVES firefighting, and there's no replcement for something that makes you feel so alive and so you.
I have ADHD as well and I've noticed how the writers have pretty much made it cannon.
I love this, I really hope the writers take into consideration this headcanon and work around it, I think it would be pretty interesting to see
I love this! Most diagnoses of characters just base off of the common, situational symptoms like distractability and impulsivity, but you actually covered stuff like RSD! Thank you
I've been reading 9-1-1 fanfic for years and lately more and more of them show Buck having ADHD. As someone who's had ADHD my whole life, I was like 😮 because it makes so much sense! And it's also helped explain some of the things I have that I never even noticed or understood. Info-dumping, RSD, focusing, hyper fixation, impulsiveness, fidgeting, emotions... It's all a wonderful jumble tumbling together
*breathes* i have once again seen buck's parents and tbh I have never liked them 🤧. Athena and Bobby acts more like his parents than Buckleys do. And if he's really adhd and his parents did nothing about it... that only makes me hate them more 😞 they only saw him as "My sister's keeper" kinda person.
More like his sister is his keeper. But yeah his parents ain't it.
Those parents are embodiment of tornadoes wrapped in fluffy clouds
@@derrickdaniels3955they were talking about the movie lol
@@elianayvonne7386 What movie?
Ravi like his sister is keeper but yeah his parents ain t it
Wow, no wonder Buck's such a mood
I have adhd and he 100% does too
I genuinely thought that he had ADHD because as a someone with ADHD there are true and do happen so when I found out that it was never confirmed I was so confused because I really thought he had ADHD
As kid I knew something was off, I’ve experienced every single thing in this video and at one point I literally thought I was going insane. Started doing a little bit of research with a friend of mine after we realized we were feeling the same way, which led me to express my concerns to my parents which was brushed off immediately. I was labeled a temperamental, over dramatic kid who liked getting in trouble. I handle my adhd a bit better now that I know what I’m dealing with but boy is it a struggle. After years of confusion and uncertainty it’s take a 9min video to put the nail in the coffin. I can’t wait to bring the diagnosis home on paper so I can slap them with it😂😂😂.
I am both autistic and ADHD and so I for sure see a lot of my traits in him.
As a neurodivergent person I picked up on these things.
1:06 Chim and Hen walk away because they know Buck’s reaction
No wonder why I relate to him so much
I’ve never seen the show but I have ADHD and love the proper representation
The very first one, that explains a lot about me. 🤣🤣🤣 I always end up teary eyed when ever someone criticizes me or something like that and I never knew why. Now I know. Thank you
Came here for the content, leaving with the realisation I might have adhd-
ALSO
buck with a clipboard
very much adhd, rule obsessed trying too hard to get it perfect etc
8:06 that girls reaction is the same my parents get when i talk about my hyperfixtations. Infact natrual disasters used to be one of my hyperfixtations. Soecifically tornadoes.
I am in DESPERATE need of a part two!!
as someone with adhd thank you so much for mentioning RSD because that's rarely acknowledged
This definitely tracks
For me I think it a bit of autism like I have because he can’t read room, gets attached easily and more
Therapist jumpscare in the beginning 😭😭😭
4:06 Hits home for me😭
Hits home for me 😍
Damn- why did I relate to all of this I- ... chile anyway so...
Welcome back
I can't see the twitter thread and I tried looking up the account separately and it said account suspended. Is there any way to still view the clips from the thread or no?
1:00 😭😭
Man murdered a snake, I would’ve let the woman die since it’s fiction lmao
buck deffo has BPD too
@@gabbyward119 i wish people would talk more about his sh tendencies like idk, wish it wasn’t so overlooked
im not sure about this one.. maybe eddie moreso? not sure..
buck does push himself pretty hard so i can see that sorta, but he doesn't really cause harm to himself after breakups does he?
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1:57 Athena said "I thought the chicken was lovely!"