MEN’S PERSPECTIVE ON LOVE & HEARTBREAK | Adult Relationships with Rinaldi Jamugisa & Moses Karugaba

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  • Опубликовано: 3 окт 2024
  • This is our gift to the women this Women’s Day: the male perspective on heartbreak and navigating adult relationships.
    Thank you Rinaldi and Moses for joining us today.
    HAPPY WOMEN’S DAY LADIES.
    What’s your takeaway from this episode?
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  • @bumploveug
    @bumploveug  7 месяцев назад +27

    This is our gift to the women this Women’s Day: the male perspective on heartbreak and navigating adult relationships.
    Thank you Rinaldi and Moses for joining us today.
    HAPPY WOMEN’S DAY LADIES.
    What’s your takeaway from this episode?
    Video credits:
    Production: Garage Group
    Set: Golden Tulip Kampala
    Outfits: Fashion Episode
    Shoes: Shoe Puzzle
    Hair: Zuri Luxury
    If you found this video informative, please like it, share with someone who needs to watch it and hit that subscribe button for more videos like this one.
    Follow us on:
    Instagram instagram.com/bumploveug
    Facebook facebook.com/BumpLove
    Twitter twitter.com/bumploveug?t=kR7O...
    #HappyFriday #NewEpisode #BumpLove

    • @tumuhairweevas5258
      @tumuhairweevas5258 7 месяцев назад +1

      I actually patted my back when Rinald said we should😢😢😢almost teared up ......thank you

  • @estherauma9353
    @estherauma9353 7 месяцев назад +85

    I think we can agree that Rosette is really a good Host. Big ups Mrs. Ssegujja (hope I spelt it right😂)

  • @shamimkagere
    @shamimkagere 7 месяцев назад +47

    Big fact from Moses, "when women stop being emotional and crazy with you, you have been replaced", that's something I keep trying to tell people 🤩

    • @pumlanabachwa8668
      @pumlanabachwa8668 7 месяцев назад

      😅😅😅

    • @twebazejoy6182
      @twebazejoy6182 6 месяцев назад

      Eh, atte nga that's a tough one. So those of us who don't get emotional are at a disadvantage?! If he doesn't see me get crazy with him then he automatically assumes I'm not into him?????

    • @Deedor72
      @Deedor72 6 месяцев назад

      😄

    • @clarekenyena5721
      @clarekenyena5721 6 месяцев назад

      That's for a fact

  • @stellapreciousmulungi9069
    @stellapreciousmulungi9069 7 месяцев назад +45

    🥂
    To us who wake on Friday looking forward to Bumplove.

    • @mirriamatyang3419
      @mirriamatyang3419 7 месяцев назад +1

      You can imagine I wrote a to do list and blocked out time for bumplove😂

    • @NancyAyikoru
      @NancyAyikoru 7 месяцев назад

      Meeeee😊

  • @mr.governor
    @mr.governor 6 месяцев назад +11

    Rosette, i don't know whether you're reading my comment but thank you for being a very good moderator with your stellar kind of introduction and closing expression.

  • @godsfavoritechild3187
    @godsfavoritechild3187 7 месяцев назад +53

    Racheal is being Racheal. She has completely refused to sanitize cheating. 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Phi_semwezi
      @Phi_semwezi 6 месяцев назад

      Right!! And I really love her for that. 😂she even asked for facts on the Joseph (father of Jesus) issue.

  • @AllanKakinda1
    @AllanKakinda1 6 месяцев назад +12

    There is need for a deeper conversation for people who do not want kids... I think people who do not want kids needs to be understood better... I am always bothered when people who want to have kids impose their thoughts and beliefs on others....

    • @kanisakisakyewanyama459
      @kanisakisakyewanyama459 6 месяцев назад

      your so right personally am not a kids personally .infact am giving birth to help my dad settle and relax.

  • @MelyKab
    @MelyKab 7 месяцев назад +14

    I can personally resonate with what Moses said, "When a woman stops being crazy and emotional with you, theres a problem" as someone who left my marriage, that was one of the first things that happened, you emotionally close off, and just start operating logically most of the time, 1+1=2. usually for some women, before a woman ever leaves physically, she had already left emotionally and in her mind. so this physical leaving is just a tip on iceberg. thank you bump love.

  • @Tuongeemediahub
    @Tuongeemediahub 7 месяцев назад +17

    Moses is such an intelligent man and he's speaking reality of what actually guys out here are doing.

  • @fk5371
    @fk5371 6 месяцев назад +8

    I liked the fact that these guests complemented each other. One seems to make decision based on religious values mostly and the other gave us the cultural perspective. Thanks for being candid when you shared. Moses is more of a realist although he was hushed when he brought up cheating. The hosts should allow the guests to share their experiences/views even when they disagree with them other than living in denial (some men will cheat eventually.........if not now, later in life no matter how religious regardless of whether they mention bible or lord lord😅)

  • @aggya.a.k.8159
    @aggya.a.k.8159 6 месяцев назад +4

    Moses could be Tyler Perry's brother - the resemblance is striking!

  • @mpagirosemary9603
    @mpagirosemary9603 7 месяцев назад +29

    Rosette this look!❤

    • @gift2362
      @gift2362 7 месяцев назад +1

      Yeah❤

    • @lamwakanancy3217
      @lamwakanancy3217 6 месяцев назад +1

      Kumbe u also noticed! Rosette is just looking mwaa❤

    • @gift2362
      @gift2362 6 месяцев назад

      @@lamwakanancy3217 walai she is glowing

  • @blessingwandera2927
    @blessingwandera2927 7 месяцев назад +10

    Rinaldi is the real one....
    Big ups to him

  • @mknasser6949
    @mknasser6949 6 месяцев назад +5

    Counsel's heartbreak stories are mashing me up 😂

  • @GodsPrincess256
    @GodsPrincess256 6 месяцев назад +2

    wow❤I love the way Manuela's brother honors God 🎉

  • @brendadawa4165
    @brendadawa4165 6 месяцев назад +4

    Banange Sandra and Rebecca have the best men any woman would wish to have. Rinaldi being present during labor and Moses spoiling her wife. These are rare virtues to find in men. Flowers flowers flowers to y’all. The emotional nature of women is obvious even for the boss babes who are assertive in other aspects get so soft and calm when they’re with their men (that is if the man is pampering her like Moses does😂)

  • @ugandankitchen.
    @ugandankitchen. 7 месяцев назад +14

    I love it when men are hosted on the show to get their perspective. I cant wait though for the muslim perspective edition.

    • @kstephen88694
      @kstephen88694 7 месяцев назад +2

      Letsfixit counseling would be the best guest she does alot of Muslim based challenges

    • @ugandankitchen.
      @ugandankitchen. 7 месяцев назад

      @@kstephen88694
      She is good and i appreciate her but i think we have other muslim women who are in different fields that have alot to educate the world about women in islam.

    • @merabsexoticbites
      @merabsexoticbites 6 месяцев назад +2

      My takeaway is not to propose to a man. I made the first move in my relationship even though my husband proposed to me but he would always tell me how I made the first move on him every time we would have an argument. 😢

  • @clairenakasi8042
    @clairenakasi8042 7 месяцев назад +9

    Yeeeeeyyyy🎉🎉🎉 thanks for bringing Rinaldi back. His perspective on various matters is amazing!!

  • @InspiredbyBarbNatifu
    @InspiredbyBarbNatifu 7 месяцев назад +3

    I like the truth of Moses's submission. He is actually bringing in the cultural beliefs and practices of the Western Uganda...

  • @beatricemuringi4120
    @beatricemuringi4120 7 месяцев назад +6

    Moses said he died in his story 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. That heart disappointment story was so funny.
    Great conversation.
    Thanks Bump love for always understanding the assignment.......👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @clarekenyena5721
      @clarekenyena5721 6 месяцев назад

      Just know he is a funny guy,you will laugh your lungs out,more so doing it in his mother tongue...eeeehhhh

  • @nabaziiwasharlotte5968
    @nabaziiwasharlotte5968 7 месяцев назад +4

    Fridays are always bright because of bumpy love.thanks Ladies

  • @marthaakora306
    @marthaakora306 7 месяцев назад +14

    Nah it can't just be me who feels like this episode was too short🥹🥹 it's always amazing when men are hosted

  • @claranorris1611
    @claranorris1611 7 месяцев назад +4

    I will speak to the question of getting noticed by the men. I strongly believe that women need to get comfortable and good in what defines them. Because you can’t act to everyone’s definition just to draw them to you

  • @FilderOciti
    @FilderOciti 6 месяцев назад +3

    I strongly agree with Rinaldi,thanks for this powerful message

  • @helenbwesigye6075
    @helenbwesigye6075 6 месяцев назад +3

    Eeh, Rosette, your outfit is so cute. Rach, looking hot in pink. Thank you for bringing us the men's perspective, really insightful.

  • @ainembabazipenlope3139
    @ainembabazipenlope3139 7 месяцев назад +2

    This is so beautiful to host men on the show. Hearing from their side gives us much more easier way to understand them

  • @KiraboSylivia-gp3wm
    @KiraboSylivia-gp3wm 7 месяцев назад +6

    Thank you bumplovers for impacting my life

  • @InspiredbyBarbNatifu
    @InspiredbyBarbNatifu 7 месяцев назад +6

    Happy Women's Day Ladies❤🎉 Rach, that hot pink looks good on you.

  • @clarekenyena5721
    @clarekenyena5721 6 месяцев назад +1

    You forgot to day that Karugaba is a good and comical MC,I have laughed my lungs out at every function he has Mceed, never a dull moment around him.

  • @fortunatetusiime5550
    @fortunatetusiime5550 7 месяцев назад +6

    S-I-G-H!!!how i patiently waited for this boundlessly! Thank you so much ladies❤And to the gents, thank you for being so deliberate and international on bringing to the table a man's perspective. Now i am wiser!

  • @jackien404
    @jackien404 6 месяцев назад

    I really appreciated the sincerity and honesty from the men.
    We need more discussions across the genders!

  • @esthernaluguza5897
    @esthernaluguza5897 6 месяцев назад +4

    Banange the way men love children!!🤣🤣 I wish is the way they are all willing to take care of them

    • @athyjudy5682
      @athyjudy5682 6 месяцев назад

      The way I was side eyeing seriously! If they could even treat their women with respect, there wouldn't be too many debates 😂

  • @edgarkyeyune7729
    @edgarkyeyune7729 6 месяцев назад +1

    Fantastic moderation, Rosette. You nailed it! 😉
    Very enjoyable episode!
    ❤️ from Dubai, U.A.E 🐿️🍃

  • @dianahkalibbala5121
    @dianahkalibbala5121 6 месяцев назад +3

    My weekly dose of AWESOME! Love me some Bump Love and so proud of seeing the far that you've come. And love the show! 🎉

  • @apio100
    @apio100 6 месяцев назад +1

    Thanks ladies for bringing in the men,they always spice up the show ❤❤

  • @hossie101
    @hossie101 7 месяцев назад +4

    When intelligent bakiga men talk❤

  • @zaneleshongwe6133
    @zaneleshongwe6133 7 месяцев назад +3

    This was a very interesting episode, a big thanks to our brothers for empowering us, I have learned a lot from these discussions

  • @KomanaKatangaTee
    @KomanaKatangaTee 7 месяцев назад +4

    I’ve been waiting for an episode. Happy women’s day bump lovers ❤

  • @kwagalaisaac3888
    @kwagalaisaac3888 6 месяцев назад +1

    Who brought this gender to our show nga they were spot on.....I love the fact that they talk about values, culture ....name it...Mwebale Kujja

  • @doreennamujju9718
    @doreennamujju9718 7 месяцев назад +4

    Happy women's day

  • @kirabo.mariam5891
    @kirabo.mariam5891 7 месяцев назад +5

    It's a Friday. Happy women's day ladies ❤❤

  • @evejkay6749
    @evejkay6749 6 месяцев назад +3

    Totally agree with Moses, when we ladies stop throwing those bu little tantrums, just know that we are done...we may be there physically but emotionally we left a long time ago 😅

  • @isabellaagarura
    @isabellaagarura 7 месяцев назад +4

    Love this show to the core❤

  • @dorothykasemiire1087
    @dorothykasemiire1087 Месяц назад

    Waow. Thank you ladies for bringing the men's opinions to us.❤❤❤

  • @Asha_Ashemeza
    @Asha_Ashemeza 7 месяцев назад +12

    We like before watching

    • @bumploveug
      @bumploveug  7 месяцев назад +1

      ❤❤❤❤

    • @shantaOzi
      @shantaOzi 7 месяцев назад +1

      But Offcourse 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @babiryevictoria493
      @babiryevictoria493 7 месяцев назад

      It's our mandate

    • @nakasindelinda416
      @nakasindelinda416 7 месяцев назад +1

      Yes dear because,assurance is..content is top top notch❤❤

    • @Fablyflane
      @Fablyflane 6 месяцев назад +2

      Periodddttt ; and we watch while reading comments 😅

  • @nayigasylvia3139
    @nayigasylvia3139 6 месяцев назад +1

    Ladies your flowers to me,keep it up

  • @Asha_Ashemeza
    @Asha_Ashemeza 7 месяцев назад +3

    Happy women's bump love and bump lovers

  • @nshemeireaddah5313
    @nshemeireaddah5313 6 месяцев назад +1

    Well done Rossette on the hosting

  • @PrissyNatoolo
    @PrissyNatoolo 7 месяцев назад +1

    What a conversation on such a day!! Happy women's day ladies

  • @nabiryeasia9091
    @nabiryeasia9091 7 месяцев назад +4

    Ahaaaaaa that journey to Kigali 😂😂😂😂😂it's yet another bump love Friday ❤❤❤

  • @Vivilaks075
    @Vivilaks075 6 месяцев назад +2

    Manuela’s family is full of cuties I guess. Much love

  • @nakymercy8447
    @nakymercy8447 7 месяцев назад +9

    On behalf of all Rwandan women, we are sorry 😂😂😂. Yet another great episode ❤

  • @ayebazibwebabra5368
    @ayebazibwebabra5368 7 месяцев назад +1

    What a great choice of such authentic men....thank you for sharing your perspectives on the different topics...bump love oyee... Sandra and Rebecca... God bless you...

  • @effect9180
    @effect9180 7 месяцев назад +2

    Rachel came ready for today's show

  • @AidahNansubugasalama
    @AidahNansubugasalama 7 месяцев назад +6

    We've been missing their perspectives banange

  • @TheFranny31
    @TheFranny31 7 месяцев назад +5

    Bump Love, dating over 40 or 50....what is out there for the middle aged Woman?

  • @marykipingili
    @marykipingili 7 месяцев назад +3

    Happy Women's day bump loverrsss

  • @mercylinebirungi4485
    @mercylinebirungi4485 7 месяцев назад +2

    Ooh Rinaldi, very brilliant

  • @daphinekakooza
    @daphinekakooza 6 месяцев назад +3

    Me now the Pumla gang. @love u gal.bump love is my hero

  • @shamimkagere
    @shamimkagere 7 месяцев назад +3

    These two men are such gentlemen!! Great panel 🎉

  • @FilderOciti
    @FilderOciti 6 месяцев назад +2

    You ladies look really amazing

  • @stellahnamugerwa9433
    @stellahnamugerwa9433 6 месяцев назад +2

    when we fight we are also hurting but sometimes we need it

  • @gloriaclare8
    @gloriaclare8 6 месяцев назад +1

    Wow
    Beautiful show ..thanks Bump Love

  • @ssemudduabelambassadorhillview
    @ssemudduabelambassadorhillview 7 месяцев назад +1

    This is a nice one on such a day... happy women's day ba sweet

  • @bagumajulietkengonzi1908
    @bagumajulietkengonzi1908 6 месяцев назад +1

    Pumla and Rosette are looking 👌👌👌👌

  • @kihembotrust3583
    @kihembotrust3583 6 месяцев назад +1

    Well well done my Ladies ❤❤❤❤❤...

  • @MistyEE21
    @MistyEE21 7 месяцев назад +4

    The discomfort @Rachael had when the lawyer was justifying cheating 😂😂😂

  • @FilderOciti
    @FilderOciti 6 месяцев назад +1

    Wow,Moses really said it very well 👏 👌

  • @lornakigozi1747
    @lornakigozi1747 6 месяцев назад +2

    I love how Pumla laughs at Racheal's Innocence 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @mubianawamuwi3855
    @mubianawamuwi3855 7 месяцев назад +5

    Love from Canada 🇨🇦 . Just a positive note to say you reach not only Ugandans❤

  • @carolainembabazi6488
    @carolainembabazi6488 6 месяцев назад +1

    After flowers...this killed me 😂😂...it was lovely as always❤❤❤🎉

  • @kirabo.mariam5891
    @kirabo.mariam5891 7 месяцев назад +5

    Rach i love your outfit ❤❤❤.
    Pumla you absolutely look very amazing ❤❤❤

  • @harmonyalicia
    @harmonyalicia 7 месяцев назад +2

    Its nice hearing from the men as well...thank you bump love

  • @zirosavage6653
    @zirosavage6653 6 месяцев назад

    The show is well stated in my situation heartbreak and betrayal the other gender (females) thy disappoint i highly believe i have done the best for her

  • @stellahnamugerwa9433
    @stellahnamugerwa9433 6 месяцев назад +1

    money isnt everything but everything needs money

  • @Bedofroseshomeug
    @Bedofroseshomeug 6 месяцев назад +1

    I love all you ladies. Each of you with different personalities... you give view from all different aspects of life but how I wish you could at least invite a Muslim for that view too. ❤

  • @nangendowinnie5235
    @nangendowinnie5235 6 месяцев назад

    Moses is the long waited all along

  • @ahweraprimah3861
    @ahweraprimah3861 6 месяцев назад

    Big ups rosette, you should be a tv host

  • @rebecca-the-light
    @rebecca-the-light 7 месяцев назад

    🎉🎉🎉🎉The team at bumplove thanks for always thinking about us....

  • @MariamGisha
    @MariamGisha 6 месяцев назад +1

    Weldone ladies.lots of ❤❤❤❤

  • @InspiredbyBarbNatifu
    @InspiredbyBarbNatifu 7 месяцев назад +2

    This conversation should have been longer than an hour....in my humble opinion (imho). Just when it was getting in the depth of cultural perspectives of cheating as raised by Moses...it ended...You needed to probe more on Moses's cultural perspectives and values. That whole subject of children looking a like, widow inheritance...etc...I have conducted some research in the villages of South Western Uganda among fishing communities living near Queen Elizabeth National Park. I was so shocked about their gender norms cultural values.....Long discussion....though.

  • @NCN358
    @NCN358 6 месяцев назад

    Pumla my girl this outfit is mwah

  • @baraka256
    @baraka256 7 месяцев назад +3

    it doesn’t cancel itself out

  • @n.sophie2001
    @n.sophie2001 7 месяцев назад +1

    I'm just speechless today😢

  • @viviennemwebe2586
    @viviennemwebe2586 7 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you gentlemen
    I have really learnt a lot

  • @rachelnaigaga6634
    @rachelnaigaga6634 6 месяцев назад +1

    Wow i loved the show, and the guys shared candidly. I was glued its one of those shows that get so captivating! Thanks @bumploveug

  • @arnoldasiimwe1819
    @arnoldasiimwe1819 6 месяцев назад +1

    Some truth's from both m3n!!! 😊

  • @kigongowinnie4014
    @kigongowinnie4014 6 месяцев назад +2

    Here because i really want to understand men more. I left my cheating ex n walked away after so much bickering n unstable communication for four years. I was so heartbroken n that's a long story.
    He recently texted n said i broke his heart so bad when i decided to walk away, that's the part i dont understand.
    How did i break a man who broke me for four years straight until i decided to walk away .
    Let me listen 😅

    • @pumlanabachwa8668
      @pumlanabachwa8668 6 месяцев назад +1

      Please don't go back - REGARDLESS

    • @kigongowinnie4014
      @kigongowinnie4014 6 месяцев назад

      @@pumlanabachwa8668 I can't. The healing phase has been long and am in a much better place mentally.
      Thanks pumla ❤️

    • @TMM905
      @TMM905 6 месяцев назад +1

      He expected you to sit and stomach his bullshit so that he feels like the prize and feels so important and indispensable from your life,but you burst his bubble,so what broke his heart is that you didn't fulfil his fantasy ,yes that hurts

    • @kigongowinnie4014
      @kigongowinnie4014 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@TMM905 truth is there are days I felt like there's no other man like him, I never saw myself without him n now living my life not even knowing if he exists shows me how much we don't use our strength 🙌🙏

    • @TMM905
      @TMM905 6 месяцев назад

      @@kigongowinnie4014 indeed the power of the mind can only be explored where there's willingness after realizing certain things do not serve us, well done on breaking free from his chains 💪

  • @Vivilaks075
    @Vivilaks075 6 месяцев назад +1

    I agree with Rinaildi much as a woman is in love at least they should never tell the guy frankly. The man won’t ever value you. He will still go hunt for the one he loves.

  • @talemwaharriet1108
    @talemwaharriet1108 6 месяцев назад

    Bravo to these gents you presented to us ĺong live bump love l love the reality they expressed ❤❤❤❤

  • @phatiezcooks
    @phatiezcooks 7 месяцев назад +1

    Wow thanks Men 🙏🙏🙏🙏 I have also learnt something 😂😂😂I need to become more submissive walai 😊😊😊 thanks ba dia ,those things of proposing to men 😂😂😂 🤣 nkivuddemu bamikwano thanks for the show 😊😊we love you guys

  • @jdm3762
    @jdm3762 7 месяцев назад +9

    Not Pumla checking us before we start arguing with the men 😂 Kubanga some lines said eh... but you've got to trust we'd disagree respectfully, we are afterall Bumplovers 😄
    Tulina empiisa.
    Moses' submission on cheating has so much thats rooted in good old hypocrisy.
    Glad Racheal called it cap.

  • @nsiimentacathy3676
    @nsiimentacathy3676 6 месяцев назад +1

    Rinaldi said that, they won’t stop at 2 kids, they will keep doing what they got to do, and let God do the rest………I got stuck there at keep doing what they got to do and not stopping 😂😂😂😂😂like I wish he knew how it sounded 🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️

  • @julietkutegeka1513
    @julietkutegeka1513 7 месяцев назад +2

    Hehe Rach is ready for you guys this time round cheii

  • @Shar-N
    @Shar-N 6 месяцев назад +5

    I vehemently disagree with Moses saying that God had no problem with cheating...
    Ideally God would have created Adam Eve and prolly a second wife....for him but that was not the case.
    See..
    Marriage is biblically the two becoming one...
    It's not a western concept it is the original context that marriage was designed...
    Unfortunately after the fall of man...We live in a now imperfect world where so many things that are happening do not ordinarily align with God's perfect will
    Needless to say God's mercies are never-ending.
    Also when you read the scriptures, It is true Jesus had brothers but there's nothing that says they weren't Mary's children and if you notice...
    In the scriptures when His siblings were looking for him at the temple, they came with His mother...I believe that implies that these were her children...
    Anyway...
    That's my humble opinion.
    Let's not use scripture to justify cheating

  • @malaikamalaika4062
    @malaikamalaika4062 7 месяцев назад +3

    Hahahaha...I see my gango, Moses Karugaba...Hello Mo.

  • @julietnakitende2092
    @julietnakitende2092 6 месяцев назад +1

    ahhh Moses is so hilarious 😂😂😂😂 the disappointment stories killed me 😂

  • @CeciliaMwebaza
    @CeciliaMwebaza 7 месяцев назад +1

    Was waiting ❤❤❤

  • @shamimsulaiman4445
    @shamimsulaiman4445 6 месяцев назад +1

    I would wish to see Manuella's interaction with her brother.

  • @amazingmary8805
    @amazingmary8805 7 месяцев назад +2

    "Kids looking after you as you age"😮 depends on where! In America tekiriiyo...😊