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  • Опубликовано: 11 дек 2024

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  • @naimahassan3818
    @naimahassan3818 6 лет назад +101

    May Allah grant her Jannah and forgive her sins. May Allah give you guys strength to go through this

  • @jaskayy6590
    @jaskayy6590 5 лет назад +61

    I suffer from severe depression but Islam helps me completely

    • @WanaagWadaag
      @WanaagWadaag 5 лет назад +6

      Alhamdulilah, I hope you feeling better.

    • @afaarax6322
      @afaarax6322 5 лет назад +3

      Make sure you seek Allah's guidance and blessings, consult a doctor and find a Muslim community help.
      May Allah cure you from all diseases.

    • @hodhanomar5186
      @hodhanomar5186 5 лет назад +2

      Alhamdulillah

    • @zeynand4039
      @zeynand4039 5 лет назад +1

      How, do you have tips?

    • @asad-dt8qq
      @asad-dt8qq 4 года назад +1

      If you need to talk anytime. I’m here for you💛

  • @sweetsaadia4134
    @sweetsaadia4134 2 года назад +12

    Amal gives us the whole story @Digital sisterhood Podcast and it’s beautiful. May Allah grant her the highest level of Janna and forgive all her shortcomings and grant her family sabr.

  • @banandababa
    @banandababa 6 лет назад +37

    May Allah grant her jannah and ease the hearts of her family and give them all strength. I really admire them for speaking about it as it will raise awareness.

  • @TheAmalHassan
    @TheAmalHassan 6 лет назад +23

    I am sorry, may Allah grant your mother Jannah Amen

  • @maryama8330
    @maryama8330 6 лет назад +32

    Honestly, before this video I turned a blind eye to mental illnesses. Jazakallah sisters for raising awareness of this issue. I pray that Allah grants your mother Jannah and also pray for Allah to ease you and your family's hearts. Ameen.

    • @naima8392
      @naima8392 6 лет назад +7

      mary: I am glad this video affected you positively. You are not the only one who isn’t aware of the problem. Some people are even judgmental about it as they see it as a weakness &/or a lack of faith. My husband was judgmental about it and didn’t know how to help me when I sought help & support from him. But Alhamdoullah over the years he has changed and has become more sensitive to the issue. It is a very lonely road for those of us who suffer from mental illness. It is even worse for Muslims as there is a stigma about it in the community. But things are changing thanks to the new generation of Muslims.
      Thank you again for sharing your thoughts.

  • @aslihassan1053
    @aslihassan1053 6 лет назад +61

    plz make sure u pray for ur mother allah to forgive her about suiciding. May He shower her wity his mercy. no one knows what this dunia holds for us walahi

    • @misspamba1
      @misspamba1 3 года назад +1

      Allah knows better

  • @Layla6793
    @Layla6793 5 лет назад +7

    My heart goes out to the family. May Allah give her the highest level of Janna Fardawsa... Just wanna hug those amazing girls

  • @boredomisnevergood
    @boredomisnevergood 6 лет назад +13

    May Allah forgive your mother and grant her peace in the afterlife. You girls are so brave for making this video and spreading awareness. InshaAllah our community changes and acknowledges that Allah created psychologists, psychiatrists and medication to help us in this life along with Quran and prayer.

  • @emmapatten
    @emmapatten 6 лет назад +24

    Sorry for your loss sister. To Allah we come from and to Allah we belong. My cousin (like a sister) committed suicide. Thank you for greating Awareness🌹

    • @samsamcusmaan3475
      @samsamcusmaan3475 5 лет назад

      Ilaahay jannatul fardoos Al aclaa ha geeyo, idinkana cawad khayr leh iyo sabir saadiq ah ha idin siiyo

  • @naima8392
    @naima8392 6 лет назад +11

    I’ve just finished watching this video after I saw it posted on the MuslimLink newsletter I get via email.
    I admire you for speaking about mental illness and sharing your personal story. I am sure you will help many people who may otherwise not seek out the help they need.
    It was so moving to hear your story as this hits close to home. As a mother I have suffered from depression most of my life. It started when I had my first child when I had postpartum depression.
    I didn’t know what it was as I didn’t get the help I needed. I didn’t realize the impact it had on my two children until they have become adults. I read some poetry & writings my adult daughter did, & performed. I have sought help from the beginning, but I didn’t get it until years later after I moved to a bigger city. Muslim scholars were very unhelpful. I was so close to taking my own life few times, and had even a letter written and ready to leave behind.
    My daughter helped me to become more open about it over the last 3 years.
    In her undergrad training she has spearheaded mental illness awareness education. She continued to do so during her Medical training as it’s very common amongst medical students given the rigorous & demanding training they go through.
    Even though my daughter doesn’t suffer from mental (alhamdoulillah) she has always had a keen interest in raising awareness about it.
    Thank you very much for your video.
    This couldn’t come at a better time as I was thinking about a young girl Who opened up to me few weeks ago about her mental illness. I had encouraged her to see my Family Physician who is amazing as she is the one who has helped a great deal. I was thinking about this young lady making Duaa for her.

  • @ayaan8877
    @ayaan8877 5 лет назад +6

    This family has been through so much already. May Allah have mercy on her soul and her loved ones aamiin

  • @rayaanabdulkadir347
    @rayaanabdulkadir347 5 лет назад +6

    I’m so sorry, may Allah grant her the highest Jannah

  • @flowerarsh8983
    @flowerarsh8983 5 лет назад +12

    Mental illness is one of the hardest things to go through and trying to come on the deen or to practice is an on going battle. Theres highs and lows. The suicidle rates are on the high, people need to stop seeing it as a taboo topic or say that these individuals are selfish. When their pain has gone beyond the limit and a person can no longer cope and not thinking straight, they think they are better of dead to find some peace. You wouldn't even be able to comprehend on how much some people are suffering. Mental illness is a real thing and not just in people's head. Only the ignorant and unknowledgable would say that! May Allah swt make it easy for this ladies family. Poor thing. My hearts breaking for them, seeing your own mother in that state is heart breaking. May they have the strength to get through this

    • @jaskayy6590
      @jaskayy6590 5 лет назад

      But Allah says he doesn't burden us with more we can bear

    • @flowerarsh8983
      @flowerarsh8983 5 лет назад +1

      @@jaskayy6590 It's not that simple, if sooo much damage has already been done and a lot of trauma or people wrecking your life then the damage can be irreversible. If it's not as bad then there is still hope of being abls to manage it

  • @aishamohamed2955
    @aishamohamed2955 6 лет назад +5

    May Allah SWT grant your mother Jannah Firdosa, it is so hard navigating/dealing with a parent who deals with severe mental health issues my heart goes out to your family and I will pray for you guys.

  • @mooo2459
    @mooo2459 2 года назад +1

    May Allah Subhaanahu wa ta'aala grant her jannatul firdous al 'alaa and reunite her there with all of her loved ones.
    Ameen

  • @khadijaali9045
    @khadijaali9045 Год назад

    My heart breaks for this family. Mental health needs to be taken seriously in our communities. I suffer from PSTD and depression being a mum with a teenager who has a disability has its awards and its struggles. There not be a month in my life where I didn't think about ending it all, I know I can't my kids need me, especially my daughter she is so amazing I wanna see her grow up and watch her shine through life. Mental health can rob us of everything we love, may this family heal and Allah protect them.

  • @Primetime517
    @Primetime517 5 лет назад +11

    I feel deeply sorry for your loss abayo 😢 May Allah grant her jannatul firdaus. Keep her in your prayers 🙏🏾🤲🏾

  • @hfm9834
    @hfm9834 2 года назад +1

    May Allah grant her jannah.

  • @spirollanaj1791
    @spirollanaj1791 5 лет назад +4

    I feel deeply sorry for your loss! Don't worry for her since. She has no since!

  • @fardosawarsame8551
    @fardosawarsame8551 2 года назад

    Allah ya rahma may Allah grant her janatul firdous Amiin

  • @bizzle4505
    @bizzle4505 Год назад

    May Allah grant her Jannah,my condolences.

  • @keiyhabib8573
    @keiyhabib8573 5 лет назад +2

    This is so sad 😞 May Allah have mercy on the deceased and give sabr and emaan to the family members

  • @fadumomohamed2407
    @fadumomohamed2407 5 лет назад +2

    May Allah Swt grant her jannah and give you guys sabir

  • @zkplays2686
    @zkplays2686 4 года назад

    May allah grant her jannah ameen and inshallah

  • @misspamba1
    @misspamba1 3 года назад

    May Allah give you comfort and give her Janatul fardowsa

  • @hodanhasan3331
    @hodanhasan3331 5 лет назад +1

    Ya Allah please forgive her and grant her Jannah. Ameen.

  • @alHollandi_1998
    @alHollandi_1998 5 лет назад +5

    Alhamdulillah she didn't die directly. Which might be the thing that saved her from the hell fire. Because Allah forgives every sin. She took the Shahada before she left. She asked for forgiveness because of her attempt. Allah In Sha Allah forgave her. She will be reunited with her family in Jannah In Sha Allah ❤️. Wish these sisters much Sabr

  • @faizaabdi4916
    @faizaabdi4916 3 года назад

    May Allah have mercy on your mom I too lost my mom it’s so painful May Allah forgive them and raise their ranks depression is real 😭❤️

  • @nicolesmith2615
    @nicolesmith2615 4 года назад +2

    Wallahi, as a 20 yr old somali girl. I struggle so much. I don’t know what to do or don’t even have the money to get help. I think I took the wrong path in life but I believe that if I just ended my life I don’t have to deal with it. Neglected by my family and friends, mentally and physically, also finically I don’t know what else to do because I am tired of fighting and I believe it is the time for me to go

    • @MohamedMohamed-ep1xm
      @MohamedMohamed-ep1xm 4 года назад

      Please seek out someone to talk to! We are here for you! You can reach out me

    • @أمالريانالصومالية
      @أمالريانالصومالية 4 года назад +1

      My sister, please if you need any one to talk to, you may speak to me. My mentor his Instagram is @talha_azam_ and he has assisted me through so much. people were about to commit suicide in the worst states, and then they learned from him and sought help and Alhamdu lillah they are so much better now. You don’t even have to pay money. Just private message him there. Please don’t leave without seeking help. When you seek help, there’s nothing to lose, yet there is so much to gain. I promise. Even if you take a wrong route, it does not mean that all is over. You can always tread a new path, form a new one, take a new route. Every day is a start to a new beginning. When you get weak on your journey, then that is when the people become like a walking stick is to the elderly, we help you until you’re ready to stand up. Please contact that person, you won’t be let down in sha Allah

    • @owyana
      @owyana 2 года назад

      Hi sister how are you coping now?

    • @faridamohamed1808
      @faridamohamed1808 2 года назад

      I hope you’re okey sis . Send me a private message of you want to speak. May allah make it easy for you ❤

  • @lolohilwa22
    @lolohilwa22 2 года назад

    May Allah grant her janatul firdus💕

  • @munaabdi4435
    @munaabdi4435 5 лет назад +2

    Ilaahay janadii fardowsa allah geeyo amiin

  • @aminsahid5636
    @aminsahid5636 5 лет назад

    May Allah grant your mother Janatul Firdawsa : really feeling the pain with you.

  • @fadumojama22
    @fadumojama22 2 года назад +1

    Ilahay haunaxariisto

  • @rodayusuf933
    @rodayusuf933 5 лет назад

    May Allah grant your mother jannat alfardaws and grant you ajar, patience and prosperity in this world and in the other granted life. Aamiin
    This video itself is a charity a lot will learn from it.

  • @shugrimohamed1287
    @shugrimohamed1287 5 лет назад +2

    May Allah have mercy on her soul

  • @mohamuddemohamed6621
    @mohamuddemohamed6621 5 лет назад

    My Allah give her mercy and Jannah.

  • @omarbashir3926
    @omarbashir3926 5 лет назад +2

    Please make dua for your Mum. inshaAllah, Allah will rest her in Janatul Fridows and try to keep close contact with her best friends.

  • @sahraali5006
    @sahraali5006 5 лет назад +4

    Iam so sorry, Inalilahi waa ineilahi rajiun. I understand very well I have same problem your mum has r. I. P. God help us because is very difficult.

    • @kadrianana1245
      @kadrianana1245 5 лет назад

      Sahra Ali sister if you want to talk just let me know❤️❤️❤️ don’t give up, i have also the same problem but we got allah we don’t need no ones help other then allah.

    • @sahraali5006
      @sahraali5006 5 лет назад

      @@kadrianana1245 thank you very much God bless you Ishaalah we be OK in God's name. ❤️❤️❤️

    • @kadrianana1245
      @kadrianana1245 5 лет назад

      Sahra Ali god bless you too sis. If you use Instagram let me know so I can drop my Instagram here for you, so if you need something you can just dm me.❤️❤️❤️

    • @sahraali5006
      @sahraali5006 5 лет назад

      @@kadrianana1245 OK thanks I will god bless you.

    • @WanaagWadaag
      @WanaagWadaag 5 лет назад

      @@sahraali5006 please seek help, even from anyone, if not from those around you, and always remember Allah is with you and you are never alone.

  • @mohammedhashi9327
    @mohammedhashi9327 5 лет назад +1

    May Allah grant her Janatu Firdawsa and forgive all hers sins Aamin.

  • @sawdarashid3584
    @sawdarashid3584 5 лет назад +2

    Insh.allah may your mom enter the highest of jannah!

  • @Century2008
    @Century2008 5 лет назад

    As Salaamu Alaikum, May Allah grant her blessings for all the good she has done. May Allah forgive her and all and grant blessings for the suffering. amin.

  • @nabaddoonkaahin9254
    @nabaddoonkaahin9254 5 лет назад +2

    Allaha unaxariisto hooyo Walahi waana xanuun Aritan

  • @hodhanomar5186
    @hodhanomar5186 5 лет назад

    Sorry for your loss sister. To Allah we come from and to Allah we belong. May Allah grant her jannah and forgive her sin 😢😢😢🤲🏼🤲🏼🤲🏼🤲🏼🤲🏼🤲🏼🤲🏼

  • @ζῳδιακὸςκύκλος
    @ζῳδιακὸςκύκλος 5 лет назад

    Beautiful story, and how strong is she for telling it... it's indescribable ~

  • @kausarmohamed9482
    @kausarmohamed9482 5 лет назад

    God bless her And May Allah grant her Jannah 😩♥️

  • @FAO24383
    @FAO24383 5 лет назад +2

    Inalilaahi sa in a ileyhi rajicuuuun😭😭

  • @kowszara8322
    @kowszara8322 5 лет назад

    May Allah grant her Jannatul Firdows ❤️ sorry for your loss abayo ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @nasirabdi5249
    @nasirabdi5249 5 лет назад

    My Allah Grant her Highest jannah Amiin Amiin
    Please talk,comfort and support anyone I mean Anyone who is having metal illness, depression etc. If you're not in a position to help call someonene who can... A few phone calls will do,
    like A Dr or family and friend....

  • @leiladin4331
    @leiladin4331 5 лет назад

    I'm so sorry sisters😥

  • @afaarax6322
    @afaarax6322 5 лет назад

    May Allah subhaanahu wa taalaa forgive my parents and all the Muslims parents sins and reward them Jannah Aamiin

  • @khadijafulan8308
    @khadijafulan8308 5 лет назад

    Illahi Jannatul Firdaus ha siyo, iyo ha uu naxaristo. Illahi na sabar ha ni siyo, amiin 🙏🏽❤️

  • @bluebellbluejk
    @bluebellbluejk 5 лет назад +8

    Assalamu alaikum sisters. Sorry for your loss. Best things to do is make plenty of duas for her, give charity on her behalf, or do hajj or umrah on her behalf if you able to. Or build well or other things on her behalf But please remove her pictures from this video as it's not allowed Islamically.
    May Allah swt help you guy's in dealing with it. Aameen

  • @fartunsuleiman8941
    @fartunsuleiman8941 5 лет назад

    So I understand how u feel it's sad are community doesnt value mental illness

  • @jaskayy6590
    @jaskayy6590 6 лет назад +5

    💔🙏

  • @jaskayy6590
    @jaskayy6590 5 лет назад +15

    She probably wasn't in her right mind, Allah knows best.

  • @nancy1692
    @nancy1692 5 лет назад

    May Allah forgive her 💔🙏

  • @hafsasaid9407
    @hafsasaid9407 5 лет назад +1

    Alaha unaxaristo

  • @fartunsuleiman8941
    @fartunsuleiman8941 5 лет назад

    Hey I had mom who.had.menlth health too she was bipolar. She had depression

  • @Faisalonation
    @Faisalonation 5 лет назад +4

    Ok I get that as a somali family it is taboo to talk about suicide and mental illness I still do not think that they should Broadcast sand discuss how her mother was. Mahallah to u girls for bringing this to light but plz do not make this seem like a normal suicide she was a somali mom and somali moms don’t talk about them selves and that’s the sad truth

  • @rehabkassem8844
    @rehabkassem8844 4 года назад

    How'd she take her life

  • @SwaveeyLive
    @SwaveeyLive 5 лет назад

    💔💔💔💔

  • @Arayshiya
    @Arayshiya 5 лет назад

    😞💔

  • @AMGIsLife
    @AMGIsLife 5 лет назад +1

    Should’ve put Quran saar instead of going to doctors

  • @fartunsuleiman8941
    @fartunsuleiman8941 5 лет назад

    So.she.end up.diyeng of x
    Cancer

  • @t6f
    @t6f 5 лет назад +3

    Maybe she was bipolar?

    • @bilaalabdi2261
      @bilaalabdi2261 5 лет назад +2

      dont jump into a conclusion if you dont know anything bout wat illness she had

    • @t6f
      @t6f 5 лет назад +1

      @@bilaalabdi2261 many somalis suffer from mental illness but they don't know their diagnosis or are ashamed to acknowledge it because of stigma. I don't know what she had but it could have been treated. I don't know why she didn't just stay in warmer climate like Abu Dhabi to lessen her depression symptoms.

  • @abdul-razzaqwitherspoon1705
    @abdul-razzaqwitherspoon1705 5 лет назад

    nobody will be granted Paradise if they take their own life....

    • @ruqaya2391
      @ruqaya2391 5 лет назад +11

      Im sorry but this comment is very insensitive and certainly not needed here. Please be considerate of others and remove it.
      At the end of the day Allah is the MOST merciful and forgiving, so you do not know whether Allah will pardon her and give her respite for all that she went through in this life. She suffered immensely and if you only knew what goes on in the mind of someone who is severely depressed, then perhaps you would be more sympathetic towards this strong woman MashaAllah. I am sure that her decision to take her own life was not an easy decision as she also had family that loved her.

    • @suhaylamkarkaar8261
      @suhaylamkarkaar8261 5 лет назад

      @@ruqaya2391 👏👏👏

    • @samsamcusmaan3475
      @samsamcusmaan3475 5 лет назад +5

      Jannada haddii baniaadam hayo cidina may gasheen

    • @mohamuddemohamed6621
      @mohamuddemohamed6621 5 лет назад +3

      Allah doesnt record the deads of mentally ill humans. Their actions aren't recolled in afterlife so please be educated before you judge.

    • @veronicaniklasson886
      @veronicaniklasson886 5 лет назад +3

      Do not judge her! You do not know what she was thinking only God does. He will judge accordingly and reward her for her suffering because mental illness is a form of extreme suffering. Take it from someone who has battled depression, PTSD and many other mental illnesses as well as having suicidal thoughts before treatment. Thank God I had people who knew the signs (I am NOT blaming the family, even having it myself I didn't notice my friend needed help before her death)