There should be however you can't expect law enforcement to be the ones that treat mental health. Family members call the police because 1.) They are an immediate threat to themselves or the family member. 2.) Because there is no one else to call that would put themselves in a hostile situation, not willing to defend themselves from a threat and throw down their life to save the person that's threatening others. In this video you saw police from the mental health team that had to go hands on. Clearly, nothing that they did or said changed that. If that individual had a gun or a knife that situation would have gone differently. Mental illness has been a problem since the beginning of mankind. It used to be that mentally ill people were kept in institutions. Civil rights activists fought to have them released into the community. The real truth is that maybe these people can't be fixed. Maybe we can give them medication to the point they are vegetables in extreme circumstances but we also complain about over medicating. It's sad to think about but can we really fix some mental illness? Also, why do we constantly put this burden on police? This is a problem that even mental health officials can't solve yet we expect police to. We all need to be honest on what can be done.
Wow I cried when Christopher was hugging his grandmother and finally smiled and said "this is her! This is my grandmother" in a rare moment of insight after the intense paranoia. A rare glimpse of his true self instead of his illness. Incredible documentary, SO well edited - especially with the moments of honesty from the nephew asking if the policeman deserves another chance... made my jaw drop too... truly one of the best documentaries I've seen showing what is and isn't being done about mental illness/policing in the US and the personal fallout from the families outward to the wider community.
@@nandistaton2503 or the "you've changed" "I don't like you on anti-depressants". The boomer generation hide their problems and treat people who don't like there crazy. It's all about awareness
@@WoolfEdits I agree. If I post something regarding awareness, my parents tell me to take it down because it's embarrassing. What's embarrassing about mental health awareness? It's the stigma attached to it that makes it so bad.
@@nandistaton2503 Sorry you have to deal with that, you can limit your facebook posts as to who can see it in your privacy settings. You shouldnt have to hide it from you parents, and spreading awareness is key. Plus it's good to let your friends know about your mental health, so you can vent to them when needed. And one of your friends might have the same issues and needs someone to talk to about it as well. I'm here for a chat if you need it, you should never feel pressured to hide your feelings.... it's 2019
A woman (and black ) whose a cop wonderful!!! You should start a non profit to get other women of color to get into policing and other law enforcement.
@@thepolitea1545 I try to do as much personal outreach as possible. Not really in the financial position personally to start something like that up nor do I know the exact ins and outs of it, but it's definitely something I would like to do in the future. I've pitched ideas of similar programs to my Chief to no avail. I would love to have an outreach program for kids in the area served by my department but it's hard when you have no support from the necessary channels.
I heard the police say "just relax"so many times, I felt my anxiety rise just hearing those words. If a person has a mental health problem, you constantly telling them to do something they are incapable of doing, can make them get more frustrasted and makes things worse.
DatingMatis156 generally, yes. Being supportive while also maintaining an emotional distance is what’s best. Telling us or even suggesting this to us while in a state can make us more agitated. It all depends on the situation however. Sometimes, we do need force. If we are a danger to ourselves and/or others and there is no reasoning(it happens. A lot. Myself for example)the last resort is to restrain, confine and seek medical help immediately. There is no right way to deal with any of this. Only helpful tips and advice that can work 50/50. Mental illness isn’t predictable nor is it all that understood really. One person with a mental illness, and another with same will not react the same to way to the same actions. We’re all individuals. Mental illness or not. What my therapist told me, and has really helped me a lot was this: “expect the worst but hope for the best. That way, you are rarely disappointed in life.” Good luck!
@@nerdgeekcosplay909 I concur. You described it perfectly. It is a thorn in my mind and has been since childhood. I don't make it a problem for others though.
Agreed. Men should not be held to this "I'm not supposed to cry, I'm a man" narrative. Men have emotions just like women do, and to expect them to never show emotion is asking for trouble. It's ok for men to cry, express themselves creatively, be honest with themselves and their significant other, and receive love and kindness.
Jason Bellini I’m female and to this day? I’m not allowed to cry. My family? My partner and their family? I’m not allowed to cry. I’m not allowed to feel anything. I’m only allowed to smile and be okay even though it’s not real. I encourage everyone to show and express whatever emotions they have and to wear their emotions on their sleeves. Even though I’m not blessed with that privilege. But this isn’t only a male issue.
Donna Danielsen I agree it’s a human issue. China and Japan practice this to the extreme. That’s why they commit suicide like no tomorrow. All humans should be able to express themselves.
Aku Jo that’s totally wrong. I would rather you cry and tell me what’s wrong than hold it all in and blow up one day. People need to understand crying is NOT a weakness. It’s cleansing.
Agreed - even a follow up to see how implementing more and more of the mental health training is being deploying across the US police stations and following along cases like this to humanise the people with the illnesses, both during and acute episode and day to day so police can see its not just about threats and non threats . You can see how incredibly sad and contradictory something like bipolar and schizophrenia can be when families need medical info to help and the persons paranoia eont allow them to divulge or give cosign rights to family members- and why with medicine costs of $2k+ a mth people turn to street drugs. I thought this showed so many different sides to allow us to empathise very well but would love to see more!
And I wish they would focus more on brain health which dr Amen Danial was talking about not all these mental illnesses my mental health has gotten worse because he talks about all the things I need to stop doing like eating unhealthy and staying away from weed and alcohol it’s not necessarily these mental illnesses it’s getting our brain balanced. 😢 Dr keep focusing on the wrong thing we are all NORMAL not these crazy demonic people. I also think that the black people should stop focusing on race not every white cop is out there hurting black people they can do this to anyone and hurt someone it’s a tough job and focusing on race makes it worse the world needs to change we keep focusing on the wrong stuff.
but it's not taking a life iT's JuSt A tOoL tO sToP a ThReAt hurr durr i still wanna smack that guy, i'm stuck on that part. think i gotta fast forward. like. well maybe yall SHOULD be thinking of those guns as life-enders and not tools. even if they do get someone in a leg, we have things called arteries and they're going to sit there on your back until EMS arrives while you bleed out. how asinine. they don't even see it how the rest of us do because of their bullshit training. you killed my family member no, no, see you don't understand- all i did was neutralize a threat, it's fine. shhh.
official clown business no, getting assistance when someone is unwell is the right thing. America is very trigger happy so I'm not shocked really but mental illness psychosis episodes are scary and dangerous and is when someone ends up dead and that unwell person ends up in prison. Getting help can save two lives. Bad training can have someone dead instead.
@@neversaw No, you DO NOT call the cops for your mental child, it's not the cops problem. That woman fucked up, she should've called the mental hospital.
Man, watching Chris getting forced to go to the hospital. I'm not upset with the police, they did everything right. But it breaks my heart to see how angry and scared he was. Because everything he's going through is real to him and he doesn't understand. I can't imagine...
I've dealt with a schizophrenia family member, it was terrifying, he refused to take his meds, and was abusive to my mother and my brothers. I ended up moving in at 17 with them, and stuff up to him, protected my brothers, and my mother, he lays hands on one of my brothers, and I went chest to chest with him, he realized I didn't have the fear my mother and brother had of him, he had conditioned them. My mother called me one time, told me the relationship was over and she feared for her life, I did what I felt was right, but I knew was illegal... I say at her house with her, with my handgun 'laying in wait' with 'malice and aforethought' I was ready to spend the rest of my life in prison for my mother. He refused to take his meds because he said he felt like 'a zombie'... He was always anxious, and mentally and physically abusive towards my blood, and I went there to stop it. Now she's divorced him.
It’s happened to me. Twice. Believe it or not....it’s help. They cannot leave you like that. At that point they are responsible for whatever you may do. You get medicated and therapy for a few days. I am lucky. After two times....I had a good therapist who helped me deal with Bi polar. My meds don’t cure it. I have to apply coping skills. I choose to do that. AND.....if I feel myself losing control.....I let someone know immediately. This past summer I felt a change coming on. I called Behavioral Health right here in city where I live and admitted MYSELF. But there are SO many who cannot get the message....understand help.....etc. It’s a lifelong illness. Finally at 62 years old..... I am living a happy life....want to keep it that way....and will do what I have to to accomplish that. Sometimes it IS choice. If you think I had it easy......I couldn’t begin to tell you what I’ve been through. Enough that therapist and Psychs can’t believe I survived it.
these mental hospitals are really bad, I've been to one after trying to kill myself they force you into locked rooms, medicate you a lot, recreational activities are limited it's like a prison but more violence because people act out more often due to all the mentally unstable patients, it actually makes you feel worse, but in the end you're a danger to a society so there's no other option
It can be heartbreaking but, you have to ensure the safety of the person and others. These sitations can be deadly in many ways. Also, it is to help and I'm sure it sucks. I know...I do this everyday and have been in many situations with decomposed persons that may have caused myself to not go home.
Thank you for that we dont get much compassion and no judgements we get treated not only by cops but society too as scum its heartbreakin to feel like your not worth anythin Ive lived in Tx my whole life and its true tx is at the bottom of mental health funds and has been for MORE than 15 yrs I have PTSD major depression BPD its a war every second of every day alone trapped in a body and mind that betrays you constantly playin broken records over and over with no way to turn off the sound in a dark buildin ALONE... We want the pain to stop so we can live a better life than what was given or dealt to us alot of us would rather end the pain and our life than to hurt anyone else and see someone else hurtin cause we are completely DEPLETED from pain with no escape and no sign of rescue... No hope
Mental illness is so hard to understand, even psychiatrists still struggle with it to this day. You can't see it, smell it, touch it, it's not like having say a broken leg. I have Bipolar and one of the hardest things I have to do is to try and explain what "I feel like" or "What are you feeling". You cannot explain to people who don't suffer mental illness bcos they are never truly going to understand.
i remember being in the psych ward, a woman in our unit had suddenly become mute and would not speak. on the phone with the woman’s mother, she told her that psychology is an unfinished study. which broke my heart and made me slink back into my bed and cry. i have bipolar and ptsd as well.
It's a very lonely place to be, when no one around you, understands you. All humans crave connection. When we don't have that, it only makes it that much harder and emotionally painful! I'm here if ANYONE wants to talk 😊
You notice how the dog knew exactly the moment the tension was getting thick. I always felt dogs can sense that even without raised voices or sudden movements.
Having worked with dog’s & been a rescuer etc., a bad dog is a scared dog! Bad people are literally everywhere but dog’s can be man’s best friend.............they are mine!
They’re really smart, they have seizure warning dogs so it wouldn’t surprise me if they can sense the physiological symptoms of tension. (High heart rate, blood pressure, anger, ect..)
My heart aches for Chris.I’m in tears watching him I can’t imagine the distress he faces every second of the day believing that’s not his mom or grandma and he can’t prove it (Because it’s not real). He must feel so trapped and alone. I hope he is able to accept the medicine one day and work on getting help
Capgras delusion is a real monster. I've never seen someone this lost in it and not having an episode. People talk of a ten mile stare, this poor man has it, usually you'll find it with those doing heroin or meth. This man is that far away from this world, all by himself
Shalom Aleichem Nami, ...."believing that’s not his mom or grandma and he can’t prove it (Because it’s not real." May i ask, what evidence do you have that it is not real, what he is experiencing?
the amount of pain that family is going through after losing those 2 little kids and then their father, is unimaginable. not only were his kids murdered, they were murdered by the love of his life. he lost everything in the blink of an eye. there needs to be this type of mental health unit EVERYWHERE
To the viewer scrolling thur these comments after listening to these peoples experiences an storys you are loved and appreciated on this earth I hope you and have a awesome day n night
Agreed. They shouldn't approach him and say the things they said to him. Especially that "I miss the old Chris" that literally broke my heart. Like how can u say that to someone who's struggling
Alot of hospitals for mentally I'll people needs to be re-opened. Families of the mentally ill and society and police should'nt have to deal with people with these illnesses.
Tammy Day Rhoads They haven’t hurt anyone they are hurting themselves and there is help out there. It’s a journey not just a quick fix. They are a part of society and they could do some good if they became healthy enough to be productive and not destructive.
My husband was diagnosed with schizophrenia and bipolar. That's an illness that can be treated with no pills no hospital, the treating medication will not cure anything it will make the patients feel like vegetables. My husband was healed completely. Jesus is the only way people can get true healing physical and emotional. People with mental illness are going through spiritual torture. My husband was going through mental illness from childhood and only after he accepted jesus christ as his saviour at 24 years of age he was healed and delivered. We have been married for 6 years now and have a beautiful son that's 4 years old.
Hi I'm Christopher Remmey, they never put all of what happened. Me and my mom were doing meth and she would call the cops because I wouldn't sleep. She would hit me and now I'm in San Antonio State Hospital and she is cashing and using my SSI check for her bills. My house burned down in 2018 . But if you want to know more I have all the time in the world
@@nadine-patriciacorner6206 So heartwrenching to hear of your family's situation. I hope you all find the strength to comfort and unite each other! Many Blessings to you all and the loving memory of your brother!🙏🏻 💝
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@@ShamWoWGuy1231 psychological warfare. Against undesirables,political dissidents, or just ppl they dont like. The govt been doing it since the 30s.
being told “I miss the old Zoe” because of my struggles with my mental is one of the hardest things i carry on myself . someone shouldn’t say that to someone with mental health issues .
Understandable , it’s heartbreaking Knowing you don’t know how to properly speak to someone who suffers from mental illness ... my heart sinks to my stomach jst thinking about if tht were me to my loved ones ... we need to normalize mental illness awareness and training , so our future generations can do better, ❤️
I don't even have a mental illness and my doctor kind of disregarded my ADD and made it seem like I didn't need the diagnosis of dyslexia because "people walk through my office every day and I'm sure they have some kind of diagnosis like that, but they still made though life. Kids today are distracted by phones.. gum.. all that. During my time the teacher was able to take the unfocused kid into a room and make them do the work" If that doesn't say enough on how bad doctors treat patients that can be somewhat more "clear" to understand, I am scared for those who suffer from something without clear understanding. We need more training for doctors, OTHER than the physical
I agree. But I absolutely can't tolerate people in the criminal justice system not understanding mental illness. The lowest point in my 22 years was sitting in front of a judge, in truancy court, who denied anxiety being an actual mental illness. He would sit there and repeatedly tell me that anxiety wasn't keeping me home from school, I was essentially just a bad kid that refused to go to school. I heard countless times how he 'has anxiety some times but it always goes away' as if this fuckin' dude's nerves before sending someone to jail, was comparable to a clinically diagnosed anxiety disorder. Imagine being told at least once every month that you're mental illness is invalid. I got put on house arrest for almost the entirety of a summer break because of something I was born with and will have to deal with to some extent for the rest of my life.
I never helped me. I was institutionalized about a year ago, and all that did was make me more suicidal and anxious (I have depression and anxiety issues and was sent to the hospital because I had tried to hang myself off of a door knob).
I have been in situations like this. Thankfully I was able to isolate my self when it becomes a psychosis episode. I’m just so tired of having to explain my self to people. I’m not crazy, talking to my self helps me process and sort my thoughts. Attention and memory stuff is f u n. Main point: we all have a lot of love to share with others. Just show some kindness and love to someone who’s in a bad place.
The man who was killed because he was in pain from loosing his two kids...wow that was so 😣. I can’t imagine the sorrow in his heart and soul. He was broken and they killed him
And his nephew saying the police officer should be given a second chance 😢 that maybe he made a mistake. I hope that little boy keeps that mindset - it’s a common saying that the children are the future, that little boy displayed a sense of empathy and forgiveness and I really hope he doesn’t lose that. He epitomises what our future needs.
The officer should've used a taser not a gun. Obviously Danny had no weapon on him. If a man with his pants down is the most threatening thing you've ever seen, y'all need to give back your badge. You're a gun wielding pu**y
As somebody who struggles with mental illness in San Antonio, I’ve never had fear of the police hurting me when they get called on me while I’m having a meltdown. They’ve always been helpful and compassionate and it helps SO much.
The official was correct they need more than only 40 hrs of training but i congratulate them on requiring the 40hr training. It should be required nationwide.
When they said his wife drowned there 2 children" myself having little ones my heart broke so hard for him, i hope if not already in time his soul is with his little ones souls with our Father.
Poor woman probably had postpartum depression like my mom when she had my sister... I’m glad nothing bad happened to me or my sister but my mom having to hide her mental illness to stay strong and watch over us isn’t healthy and refusing medication. In the Latino community (pretty much any color of race) it’s strictly taboo to talk about mental illness. Hopefully every woman with a newborn makes sure that they get help..
Bobs Fresh Baked Beans from Zambia not true at all clearly the men in this video are proof. They are all police and they are truly making a difference. Sad you don’t see that. They are trying to make changes nation wide.
Agreed. It's a damn shame this doesn't have more views. So much hard work and careful reporting went into this, and on such an important and relevant subject, and it's only sitting at 350k views. It should have millions.
C you want to get more pissed off? We as a country could CUT the military budget in HALF and still have the worlds largest military. That’s how much money we are wasting on the military. We could use that money to fund mental healthcare.
Think a lot of this began as drug abuse and possibly very abusive and neglectful parenting. Some of these people because of drugs don't sleep for days and that also messes with their mind.
Of course he is what do you expect he lost both his children to drowning, I think his family needs to be training better coping skills. This man has to live in his own head don't you think it's 10 times harder for him.
Velcro1997 ive spent 70+ days in hospitals if you get out in one day that means a psychiatrist calls bullshit in his illness.. probably found meth in his blood he probably refuses medicine an they kick him out
OFFICERS are part time in this unit? The agenda is to continue to make and create KILLING monsters. There is no Officer with careers on the Force who are INNOCENT. Period. The ones who leave bc of the despicable are the hope we'll never know. Sad and unacceptable! Officer's think of themselves as the LAW but make soooo many mistakes that it is HILARIOUS!!! that you think your nothing more than SCUM and you spit on OUR CONSTITUTION every time you don your clown suits you mock Justice and have been manipulated by evil men and have become their MINIONS so technically the Devil's Bitch. We are you and You are the people except you are welfare check whores and you work for US!! NOT THE OTHER WAY AROUND!~ watch how you talk to your BOSSES, punk. I'm truly sick of hearing about you Devil's Masquerading as Honorable citizens in OUR AMERICA!! This career , as a people we CANT STAND FOR A ANY BAD APPLES.
That was so sad when he said... This is my grandma...MY REAL GRANDMOTHER.... he was so happy thinking she was his real grandmother.... what a horrible life... I can't imagine how scary it must be thinking people you love aren't the real people you love...
She's a person w feelings too, living in her own home in fear. Imagine your son, much bigger than you and your lil old mom, thinks you killed his family. And he's already tried to strangle his girlfriend. Don't you think she's tired too?
@@prviolist Yes but the way she speaks to him only makes his delusions worse. Of course I understand she has feelings too. But dismissing those delusions and feelings, making him feel more isolated and misunderstood, will only further exacerbate his delusions and his mistrust. Potentially making the situation worse for his family.
@@isabelc6581 She should check for a local chapter of NAMI / familya they offer mental health support and crisis lines to loved ones. I won't be so hard on the mom, she's older. Not everyone is a psychology major. The more the mother can be educated about mental illness the better. It's obvious she's also caring for her elderly mother and has her hands full. I feel for that family.
@@prviolist are you seriously fucking saying that it's harder on her for her son to be mentally ill than for him to experience the mental illness?? YOU are what's wrong with the world. THIS is why there's a stigma. shut the fuck up.
Just because he's mentally ill she needs to stop him from verbally abusing her. He IS cognizant enough to understand that she wants him to stop harassing her.
I know, it’s like these people think they’re looking at animals. These are people’s with lives, family’s and futures. Utterly disrespectful. It’s so good to see changes beginning to be made.
Cut her some slack. She just meant that she wanted him to get better. She missed being able to spend time with him and felt terrible about what he was going through.
The average person doesn’t understand mental illness. So give family members some slack, they are trying to survive the mentally ill person too with no training and very little help or support and it’s all about money or lack of it.
Dang the heart on that little boy was incredible. As someone with multiple MI I feel for them all. My biggest fear is delusions and hallucinations. I can’t imagine how tiring it has to be for their loved ones when they refuse care. Even when I’m doing everything right I can be a handful for my husband. God Bless us all
Rachel Freeders she meant like when someone is drowning and they are splashing and going up and down/in and out of the water, I’ve heard many people scream “help grglgrgl helgrlp” when something happens and they start drowning!
@@amber_Forever16 there are literally PSAs about it... when you're underwater people on the surface cannot hear you and splashing may happen but only at first and minimal, but splashing at s pool isnt exactly a red flag, and then there's nothing. There are stories of children drowning when their mom was 3ft away.... and are you a life guard or something? Why have you seen "many" people on the verge of drowning? I do understand the metaphor in the original comment, I just don't think it was very clever.
I like the analogy. I would actually go one step further to say imagine you can’t see them, and they can’t scream for help. When you’re feeling so overwhelmed, depressed and anxious, it’s so hard to ask for help because words don’t seem to adequately express how you feel.
Even if they stabalize someone, when they are sent back out into the community with prescriptions they can't afford, what do you think happens to these people?
SuperMarbelle if they have insurance they can most certainly afford it... especially if they’re on Medicaid which most of them are because they can’t work. Options are available... people just have to reach out and take them.
Dena Barton the sad thing is medication doesn't solve the problem. It only suppresses and makes it worse overtime while turning them into zombies. They tried giving my brother a cocktail of antipsychotics when he was just 13 for ADHD and the medication made him start hearing voices yet his "hyperactivity" was only being suppressed because it turned him into a walking zombie that looked like a heroin junkie. I had him stop taking them and the side effects subsided. I'd argue that having ADHD is much better than having Schizophrenia. I urge you to educate yourself further on these matters before speaking on them, please.
When the journalist asked, "What is your biggest fear?" I have a feeling that Christopher's mother wanted to say, "That he hurts me," instead of, "That he hurts someone."...very sad situation.
Exactly what I thought she was gonna say. At that point I knew she had already thought deeply about that situation and realized that he could possibly hurt anybody
thats a real fear . i think being a mom of someone with a mental illness you stop fearing for your own life and fear for your child being hurt or in the wrong place at the wrong time. and for people around your child that can possibly be hurt by your child .my son has a mental illness and since kindergarten i feared for the other children .90% of the time my son is fine and a happy child its the other 10% of the time i fear he can snap and hurt someone . i couldn't live happily if i knew my child hurt someone else . even if he cant help it . or cant control himself . being a mom with a child of mental illness we go through alot .but god gives special babies to special moms . thats what i truly believe. no one else will love them like their moms .
Danny's little nephew is such a special, kind soul. My heart breaks for their pain. When his mother told him he will be treated differently because of the colour of his skin, his beautiful little innocent face had me breaking down. What a cruel world we live in where some children have to be taught this just to survive. Utterly heart breaking. I hope they thrive and heal.
My doctor is a black woman with small children. I plan on asking her if she says such disgusting things to her kiddos. Betcha she doesn't. And we wonder why these black children struggle. If my mom told me on a daily basis that I wouldn't make it in life bc I was black well I wouldn't make it either. I feel way more sorry for that child who already thinks he will have no life bc he's black. Disgusting behavior. We can't get mad at these kids when they do struggle in life as Adults bc mom is filling their heads with bs.
She didn't do him any good In that conversation they were having cause little man is gonna grow up looking over his shoulders and paranoid because he is black very wrong approach in what she said to her son and it's not exactly true either this is American equal rights are given to the all citizens of this nation
@@misskat8548 right that was foolish what she said to her son in front of camera for the whole world to see and make black people scared and paranoid for being black....I have a teenager I will never give him a reason to become a loser
When Chris hugged his grandmother and finally recognized her was where I seriously lost it and cried so hard. I have nothing that I can give to help you, Chris but if anything I pray for your health and well-being. God bless you and your family. You are a strong man ❤
@@cekaskywalkr1600 I don't think that would end well, unfortunately :( unless he permanently goes to an inpatient hospital. If he just was loose on the streets that would be terrible for him, and like you said his mom is the only one tolerating him so it's not like he can go to another relative. It's an awful situation with no good solution
@Johnnie Boi I disagree, even professionals struggle to control them, especially without meds. I live with someone who has BPD (Form of Bipolar) and its so difficult, we're not taught to deal with that I cant imagine living with someone with full Bipolar and Schizophrenia must be so heartbreaking and sad. Its so easy to blame parents/relatives when really it is that person doing it, its not their actual selves but its THEM, Cant speak for everyone but what can you do as relatives.
@@yeahyeah4433 i’m a mom Of a bipolar daughter who thinks she’s just signed away her kids when in reality she lost them. 4 now to be exact . it has been a toll on my/ our family as I wasted my life, helping her . no matter what she was still my daughter “crazy “or not. BTW father was undiagnosed molested me basically at 15/16 years old I had her at 17. and the chances were 50-50 and she got all 50.. unfortunately
@@brennyhughes7251 Damn I'm really sorry to hear that, Sounds somewhat familiar in terms of your daughter though to my situation. I hate that people blame parents all the time, yes of course sometimes its the parents fault but a lot of the time it isn't. Mental Health definitely can be parents fault because depression/anxiety are things that can come on, mental illness is something either a trigger/genes, so theres not really much you can do. You spend so much time trying to help them but really theres nothing you can do, it has to come from them. Its their battle in their own head, you can only do so much in terms of making them comfortable. For us its so hard because you have to walk on eggshells a little bit around those kinds of people, doing it in your own safe space (home) is really tiring. (BTW Im not the parent Im a sibling so its not a biased opinion)
As a heathcare worker, Our hospitals do not have the funding or facilities to hold psych patients for an extended period of time. It is very unfortunate but its the way it is. For them to put the blame back on us is unfair. We are very limited in what we can do. If we held every single psych patient until they were completely healed we would have no beds open for emergencies or other long term needs.
So I live in Scotland and honestly the police were so great when I have tried to kill myself multiple times. They only cared that I was safe and didn’t leave me
"Maybe he didn't know, he just thought he was going to hurt him. Maybe he deserves a 2nd chance." That poor child being able to honestly think about forgiveness for something like that is something I can only hope to one day achieve 🥺
T DRIT what I think the point of the reply is that really forgiveness is something that can help the person let go of all the anger and pain and hatred but it is not meant to be something people should EVER feel obligated to do. what happened cannot be undone and because of the actions of the police a loving family member was taken from them. It is wrong to just forgive them because it will happen again and it IS HAPPENING right now to someone. The only lessons that can be learned are on the side of law enforcement and the procedural handlings of situations like these. Sadly changes are not made in way that reduces these things from happening. Nobody HAS to forgive and from what I saw the police never apologized or admitted to wrong doing. It is not justice when nothing is done to stop this from happening. I guess T DIRT has never been faced with this kind of senseless loss and can’t understand that there are better things than forgiving the police like CHANGING POLICY so that his death could be the last of this type. I don’t understand why other people think they can judge this family or this mother. If you cannot understand the anger and indignation his sister has then you either are suffering from mental illness yourself (in which case watch out for the po pos) have no heart or are some kind of “Christian” (basically a combo of the last 2 minus common sense.)
defunding means rerouting funds to be better spent elsewhere. for example less money on firearms, use that money so that all cops have min 80 hours mental health/de-escalation training.
Better training is not enough. Defunding the police puts the funds where therapy can be provided so these type of crisis don't even escalate to the point police needs to be called. There are people running around with mental illness that is not treated because they have nowhere to receive proper treatment or lack the funds. Prisons are the number one mental health providers right now. It is insane. That's not where mental illness should be treated.
@@shootfilmnotguns2023 We used to do this in the past, they were called mental asylums where the mentally ill were "treated". These institutions, even the best of them, were deemed inhumane. This video proves the police were trying to make real strides in improving the interactions with the mentally ill. The last thing we need to do is defund the police. Restructuring is the answer. Don't be fooled by people who have alternative motives.
@@willh7690 We do not live in the 18th century anymore. I work in mental health, so I know what I am talking about. Does the system need improvement? Sure! And that's why funding is so important! If you saw the whole video you must be aware that in the US funding had been cut to the point where many patients have nowhere to go or no services they can afford. As long as getting a gun is cheaper than getting good long term therapy we have a huge problem. Just look at some other countries and how they successfully deal with funding their police department versus social and human service institutions.
@Harry Harry Like I said LEAVE THIS INNOCENT DOG ALONE AIN'T NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS.....SO WHAT IF THE DOG DRANKED FROM THE TOILET...IT AIN'T THE DOGS FAULT THAT THE MOTHER N GIRLFRIEND OF THE VICTIM DON'T HAVE A WATER DISH FOR THE VICTIM'S DOG!!! BUTT OUT....GERMS OR NOT .....YOU.... need to BUTT OUT!!!😡😠🤬🤡👹👽
Danny’s 11 year old nephew who wanted to be a police officer until his uncles death.. I really hope he reconsiders. His precious heart would be such an asset to so many people.
Nah his mom is filling his head with garbage. Would u go anywhere in life if your mom told you you wouldn't go anywhere in life bc he's black? Disgusting parenting. My doctor is a black woman and has young children. I'm going to ask her if she talks to her children that way. Betcha she doesn't.
I'm kind of worried for Chris's family. I'm not sure that he won't attack them during one of his episodes. It must be so frightening to have paranoid delusions. My heart breaks for these individuals.
Looking at the public arrest record it seems he has been arrested three times this year for assault on his family. The latest one that I found happened in July. jailalert.com/arrest-records/christopher-daniel-remmey-10032070.html
@James Estelle did you even understand what the message of this video was? If a voice is telling you your grandma is fake and you truly believe it and are terrified by everyone around you, bad shit is going to happen. Stop the stigma mate.
About to be even more broken once she's taken during an already stressful situation, held against her will, drugged against her will, turned against most of the people in her life because she's been branded by the system, and possibly even abused behind closed doors, which happened to me ar both the psych wards I was placed in.
@@officialclownbusiness7788 I couldn't agree more. I went into a psych hold as I was seeking treatment for detox and couldn't stay off drugs so I knew they wouldn't let me out and if have no way of getting my drug of choice in there. But seeing how others were treated in crisis was truly eye opening and scared me shitless. They don't deal with the problem, they drug them to sleep and then let them on their way. It's so sad. And it's got to be terrifying. So I really couldn't agree with you more. Hopefully better methods and more understanding will be found in the years to come
I know someone who adopted a little girl who had been trafficked. The girl was Deaf, had attachment disorder, and severe psychotic episodes where she thought she was fighting off her former abusers. 😭 The girl was tiny, but it took four grown men to subdue her. Whenever the mom had to call for help she always had to ask for specific officers by name. Because the girl was Deaf, if she tried to sign, the police might think she was reaching for a weapon.
Your documentary is so deeply amazing and educational.. Having lost my Brother who was serving in the Army due to mental illness ..How I wish we could turn the clock back but it is already real.. God bless you for teaching me how I can heal myself from that pain.
My brother came back from over seas he had severe PTSD and took his own life..there needs to be more resources set aside for mental health..so the people can get help before it gets to a crisis point.
Thank you for giving people with mental illness a voice, for highlighting the inadequacy in resources and medical treatment available. I pray that these people and their families are treated with dignity and respect. To those officers that show a true understanding of a person in crisis and the importance of empathetic listening, you should be commended for the admirable work you do. Thank you to all who contributed and opened their lives so that others can be educated. It’s a conversation that needs to be had worldwide, and hopefully this documentary will be a catalyst to begin that conversation. From Australia with love
@Rosie Cheeks : If you have private health insurance it isn't. However, I agree that public mental health is pretty bad and needs more money put into the system. The only saving grace is the small cost of prescriptions, being just $6.50 AUD for each medication.
@Rosie Cheeks : We're senior citizens in Oz. Only people with a concession card would pay this amount, i.e. people on low income, unemployment, etc. However, even when both of us were working, we paid this small amount for prescriptions on the PBS. Are you in Oz?
I am crying for chris right now because it's like emotionally you lost somebody. The world cares for people like Chris. The world needs people like Chris. I just hope that he can get the help that he needs. His family loves him and his whole community loves him.
The breakdown and begging to not go….gets me every time. 2 years clean off psyche wards. I NEVER want to go through that again but it did save my life. More than once.
My mother has paranoid schizophrenia and bipolar, and was beaten by the police and almost killed. She was charged with resisting arrest, which is so disgusting because of course someone with schizophrenia is going to resist arrest. The statistics don't lie, thank you for what you do to help!
I’ve had a few experiences with mental health facilities and honestly those places have brought me to my lowest points. Many things need to change about how our society deals with the mentally ill.
Exactly. Just look at those places. It's the last place anyone wants to be. With 10 people around you stating at you, and armed policemen repeatedly asking you to "relax".
Word up to that. Facilities should be the last resort and should be highly overthought. Psychological psychotherapy should be favored instead psychiatric intervention. If people don’t learn to deal with their troubles during or before medical intervention their side-effects can be far worse and long-term success might not be achieved.
@@Catlily5 For that moment he felt loved again. Perhaps a fleeting moment. I’ve seen some on meds do very well. So then they think they are better. So now. I don’t need the meds I’m doing fine! Cycle starts again. Pray for all of US!
@@kathleenfurlong2619 That can be a hard cycle for people. I hope somehow the situation with his family will improve. That mental health care in the USA will improve.
Most often the hospitals don't help. They don't want to go back to the behavioral health unit because they suck! I work in this system, and it's broken.
I agree! So happy to see there are finally changes being made! I'm praying 🙏🙏🙏 these changes take effect in every department all around the country! #Thementallyilllivesmatter♥️
@@patrickpritchard1498 this is a much better piece of journalism than any of the reactionary right wing shithead videos you've liked. You little incel.
De-escalation training is a major part of our training. But the way we are trained to de-escalate training should be tweaked. Most of it is legit though. Atleast in my department.
Whoever mentioned that having mental illness is like having tunnel vision in those moments was spot on. I know from past experiences, truly amazing documentary
I am a RUclips junkie, straight out. Lockdown hasn't helped - but i literally spend my spare time here. This is the best doco i have ever seen. The photographer was epic, the content real. Bravo. To the lady who lost her brother, god bless and keep you - and may he be at peace. Btw - your son = politics 100%. To Chris and your family, i know how psychosis can manifest and erode someones personality. The pain he and his afmily are going through is unimaginable. To the psych cops - out - fucking - standing! Real diplomats, real empathy. 10/10 you guys, be safe.
@@halodregs Wake up, fool! Most of the _other_ "best health care systems" in the world are _also_ expensive, but the people and governments of those countries believe that the most vulnerable individuals in their societies _also_ deserve good health care (and actually _require it_ more than most). Why do you struggle to comprehend this?!?
@Benaiah Ahmadinejad wannabe badass but you came to be an idiot who is trying to impress who the fuck you trying to "I hAd JuSt ThE OppOsItE ReActIoN, i enJoYeD IT"... oooh i'm so badass.. i am that psycho dude that loves to watch suffering and deaths oooohh .... Just grow up. You would cry like you've never cried in your life when you would see death on your own eyes.. pussy
@@skullhead8617 Well i will. If he want to act like his favorite actor or singer ? Whatever. But pretending that these situations are just a videogame or just different weird dimension where you can be total psycho and murder half of the city... now it is something wrong and pathetic. Some people should come back to earth and use their brain. That's what i wanna say
@@aregulardude428 Reasonable,it's true the internet can really be hysterical when it comes to reacting to these types of situations/videos. Shame on them if he isn't actually mentally ill though.
when the little boy said that the police officer deserves a second chance my heart shattered. he has such a pure and good soul. we need more people like him.
@@spacecat7125 I hope no one murders your brother and then your anger is put on camera and judged....she was not that bad considering how she probably truly feels
Mama was still in the mourning process and her son told her to let go and the will be gone. She must of raised him good for him to make a statement like that. Hope they all can move on and have a great life in the future.
Yeah and then mom turned around and told that lil boy that basically he won't have a life bc he's black. Great job being positive mom. My doctor is a black woman and i plan to ask her if she says such terrible things to her kiddos. Betcha she doesn't smfh
When the mom, ask his son he'll have to prepare himself cuz he's black, it got me so deep. I could only imagine that young kid will continue his life with the same thought. Super sad!!
@@auroraborealis2442 true it had nothing to do with race that man had a mental issue unfortunately it escalated it has nothing to do with because he's black I just find disappointed the automatically is a race thing but really what it is not
I gotta say that I’m really impressed with the sister who’s brother was shot by a cop. She hasn’t taught her son to hate cops because of what happened and that in my opinion shows integrity. I am just really impressed by her. Thank you for teaching him correctly.
Lol yeah she's only teaching him that bc he's black he won't go anywhere in life. It's disgusting what she said to that kid. Now he won't even try bc why should he? He's black🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️
I have a brother who is struggling with his schizophrenia diagnosis and this hits so close to home!! I love my brother so much and all I want is for him to feel sane again. I pray that all these beautiful souls find peace and that society can be more understanding 🙏🏾
I came across this today as my brother relapsed after 8 years, I too love my brother and am walking alongside him in this journey. I know in heaven he will have a new body, and there will be no more tears. I rejoice in knowing that for my brother. Don’t lose hope and keep praying for your brother.
I know it may sound crazy but PLEASE try to get him to eat for his blood type.... even it you have to fix his food. I promise you will begin to notice a difference
People thought the same about me but let me tell you about brain washing by neggatives that they turn a group effort in covert training to destroy anyone who hurt them cause that's the mental illness that they keep evolving in and the rest of us are being feed for they have no actual idea to destroy the monster they created without destroying those who fell in and participated in crime and mirrors their character and attitude is one of the same but left in the dust for ignorance is like a backwoods or mountain man being in the city having to eat all his politics of prison for it's truthful why it is sobering then to continue eating the attention feeding the machine of worth by the economic force being rigged is treasonous
The mental health facilities are horrible, understaffed, uncaring and dirty. The real problem is finding "real" help because most of the time we are just shoved into someplace and get no real help. It's: "Take this drug, give me your money and get the hell out!" I know because I've been in them and so have several of my family members.....Mental issues seem to run in my family.
Just to add to this, sometimes even those who care and are dedicated to their work will go through periods of immense stress and will try to cope by becoming "colder." It's called empathy exhaustion I believe, so you may have also caught people who did in fact care and want to show concern for you and were just extremely overworked. I hope you and your family are doing well now :)
@@do7735 Yes you are probably correct. But the system itself is broken too because it's set up for making money instead of healing so they just keep handing out drugs and never giving psychological help that is needed the most. I myself decided it was the drugs causing me the most problems and I decided to get off of all of them and find natural healthy homeopathic help and I am so glad I did because I am much better now at dealing with my depression and anxiety. My sister on the other hand is now addicted to so many drugs she struggles every day just to try and "live." It is overwhelming and horribly sad. Please pray for her, her name is Karen. God Bless you.
It's a broken system. I recently got done paying $120 an hour for a therapist to help me figure out what was wrong. In the end I ended up quiting my job & falling into suicidal ideations & depression. She told me she couldn't help me & Now I have to find a psychiatrist & get on government assistance. I had plenty of money & a job before. No one helps you, so things just continue to get worse. They are just McDonald's workers with degrees.
Truth they are just there because it's a job. I don't ever want to go back a mental ward at a hospital. They don't care very much of the side effects the drugs have on your body if you tell them they just lower the dose and when you first get there they give you a large dose of those horrible drugs.
One thing I will say, never ever tell a mentally ill person that you want the old them back. Its hurtful and a lot of the time we were masking our real feelings. We are who we are right now and if you don't like that person, then shame on you.
Watching Chris is like watching my brother, this breaks my heart into pieces. I wont see my brother for the next few years, he was left untreated and stabbed my stepfather. Mental illness is REAL and everywhere you look. Don't judge people because of what you don't understand.
Jansen Turner so sorry to hear about your brother must be heartbreaking for you hope your brother is ok when you get to see him comment well said bless you
@@chanelgez2146 Thank you so much for the kind words. Its the hardest thing in the world to deal with. I got a letter from him yesterday, all it says is " This guy he met was himself from another dimension in the multiverse, coming to guide his former self who is in distress and destined for something greater than himself, explaining why he felt love for him" < That is all it said. Written on a little scrap piece of paper. My heart aches every day for him :(
Jansen Turner sorry for the late reply I am so glad you heard from your brother it’s is soul destroying my heart goes out to you if you need to talk I am here for you you must feel devastated feeling helpless it is so so hard for you thinking of you and your brother bless you please try and stay strong even though it is easier said than done xx
40:26 that's good, but this guy Christopher. was taken to hospital and they could nt keep him there. The system stinks, if the police do a good job they should have the infrastructure and legal system organized to continue with the good work.
Or, you know, reform the healthcare system so that people with mental health issues get the care they need. Most developed countries have a government healthcare system. It's cruel to deny help to the sick and vulnerable. Law enforcement shouldn't be expected to take the slack for institutional failings.
It took me and my sister to talk to my nephew's about it... Especially since they live among so many white and Hispanic children... Whenever the police all around my oldest nephew is always the one that they say something to or question and we knew it was time for us to tell them... That they are black and a Target... That to the police and too many people especially white people the lies are expendable and that they need to be careful because the color of their skin could get them killed... It sucked but we had to tell them.
@@ozymandias1192 America was built on racism... Stop acting dumb. There are two things that the cops do not know how to deal with and they always deal with poorly mental illnesses and black people...
I am a loner because i can't interact with people. Depression, anxiety, PTSD caused by sexual abuse when I was very young and vulnerable had set me on the path I don't want. Being a loner is a way of avoiding some of the pain. I only have my rescue dog Rosie who loves me unconditionally. I don't need people but I love people also.
Michael Burton Why should the police have the burden of dealing with mentally ill people? they are not equipped, no matter what training they receive. These people are living in our communities and many of them should be in a secure unit.
As a mental ill person, this brought tears to my eyes. My brother suffers from multiple things as well as schizophrenia. And he was wronged many times. Put in prison instead of a mental health hospital. And when he was admitted he left the next day. Its truly sad. 🥀❤️
@Steph Daigle I'm gonna read this to my mom. You described exactly how she feels. I think it will help her to hear that somebody out there knows exactly how she feels. She has an appointment today with a new counseling place and she's so thinks that it's not going to help and they're not going to give her the right medicine sadly she is highly addicted to klonopin it's not her fault the psychiatrist gave it to her and when she doesn't have it she literally goes into a psychosis and hallucinates it's really sad and really it could probably kill her it's scary to see if she starts having seizures kind of in starts not making any sense seeing things that aren't there. and what's really sad is how scared she is to go to a psychiatrist or counselor a new one because they are so even sometimes more judgmental than the general public they either don't care about you and they're just cramming different medications to try them out on people down your throat or they just want to give you medication and counseling is the biggest thing that all these people need with mental health issues need. these drs just want to give you medication and not actually help people to change their thought patterns and be there support system. Thank you for having compassion it's a rare and beautiful thing to see
“i want the old chris back” my heart is broken. the amount of times i’ve heard that phrase is too much to count. he can’t control it. my heart breaks for chris💔
Yeah it’s really extremely sad and it’s so expensive to get help, even with health insurance it can be almost $1000 per day in a treatment center. Hopefully affordable treatment options will be much more numerous and accessible to everyone who’s struggling and in need of help. It definitely helped me a lot when I needed help, but it took quite awhile to pay the rest of the bills even after my health insurance coverage.
the sad thing is... most all people all need help but you have to figure out things yourself inside your head. people can fake mental illness and that presents a problem. but i agree they do need help and it's sad they feel that way but medication.. chances are that will make it worse and dependent on the meds.
Oooooh, this is good, thank you! I have bi-polar 2, PTSD, adult ADD, and trauma induced anxiety disorder and the last people I want to see are law enforcement officers but I don't always know what's good for me.
“No one with a mental illness deserves to die because they are already dying inside”. I cried when she said that. So true.
Me to. my heart burst open when she said that.. it's too true.
It's so nice to hear someone say that though. To understand. I like that
Ashhh Marie I completely agree.
I surely agree. The cop didnt mean to kill him, he overreacted because of fear. Its not easy to judge the situation
I cried, too
There needs to be more units like this all over the country.
Agree
There should be however you can't expect law enforcement to be the ones that treat mental health. Family members call the police because 1.) They are an immediate threat to themselves or the family member. 2.) Because there is no one else to call that would put themselves in a hostile situation, not willing to defend themselves from a threat and throw down their life to save the person that's threatening others. In this video you saw police from the mental health team that had to go hands on. Clearly, nothing that they did or said changed that. If that individual had a gun or a knife that situation would have gone differently. Mental illness has been a problem since the beginning of mankind. It used to be that mentally ill people were kept in institutions. Civil rights activists fought to have them released into the community. The real truth is that maybe these people can't be fixed. Maybe we can give them medication to the point they are vegetables in extreme circumstances but we also complain about over medicating. It's sad to think about but can we really fix some mental illness? Also, why do we constantly put this burden on police? This is a problem that even mental health officials can't solve yet we expect police to. We all need to be honest on what can be done.
For real
This is needed in every country
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My heart sank when that woman screamed that they killed her child. No matter where you stand that was someone’s baby.
My heart sank too !
Nick Trybull but it wasn’t. Your statement has literally zero to do with that situation.
@Nick Trybull it wasn't that case tho... your argument is invalid.
Nick Trybull not just my opinion it looks like! 🤷♀️
Nick Trybull Lmaoo you’re mad cause you’re wrong and got called out about it... I call it like i see it!
Wow I cried when Christopher was hugging his grandmother and finally smiled and said "this is her! This is my grandmother" in a rare moment of insight after the intense paranoia. A rare glimpse of his true self instead of his illness.
Incredible documentary, SO well edited - especially with the moments of honesty from the nephew asking if the policeman deserves another chance... made my jaw drop too... truly one of the best documentaries I've seen showing what is and isn't being done about mental illness/policing in the US and the personal fallout from the families outward to the wider community.
no wonder this country is dying...People like you are super weak....
Hey lady telling him "You want the old Chris back" ain't helping one bit, when people say that to me it crushes my soul.
My mom said that to me when my anxiety and depression got bad. It's the worse damn phrase. 😢
@@nandistaton2503 or the "you've changed" "I don't like you on anti-depressants". The boomer generation hide their problems and treat people who don't like there crazy. It's all about awareness
Right!! That don't help one bit. You gotta meet people where they are.
@@WoolfEdits I agree. If I post something regarding awareness, my parents tell me to take it down because it's embarrassing. What's embarrassing about mental health awareness? It's the stigma attached to it that makes it so bad.
@@nandistaton2503 Sorry you have to deal with that, you can limit your facebook posts as to who can see it in your privacy settings. You shouldnt have to hide it from you parents, and spreading awareness is key. Plus it's good to let your friends know about your mental health, so you can vent to them when needed. And one of your friends might have the same issues and needs someone to talk to about it as well. I'm here for a chat if you need it, you should never feel pressured to hide your feelings.... it's 2019
I'm a cop and I 100% support this documentary and its ideals. I wish more departments would get on board with this.
-Officer Superman
A woman (and black ) whose a cop wonderful!!! You should start a non profit to get other women of color to get into policing and other law enforcement.
The world would be a better place with more Officers like you.
@@Grisuu I would go even further and say maybe around 45%. But that's dependent upon the area as well.
@@thepolitea1545 I try to do as much personal outreach as possible. Not really in the financial position personally to start something like that up nor do I know the exact ins and outs of it, but it's definitely something I would like to do in the future. I've pitched ideas of similar programs to my Chief to no avail. I would love to have an outreach program for kids in the area served by my department but it's hard when you have no support from the necessary channels.
@@shaunsymonds2373 Thank you for your kind words. I try to do what I can to make a difference.
I heard the police say "just relax"so many times, I felt my anxiety rise just hearing those words. If a person has a mental health problem, you constantly telling them to do something they are incapable of doing, can make them get more frustrasted and makes things worse.
@DatingMatis156 I am not sure what would work
DatingMatis156 generally, yes. Being supportive while also maintaining an emotional distance is what’s best. Telling us or even suggesting this to us while in a state can make us more agitated. It all depends on the situation however. Sometimes, we do need force. If we are a danger to ourselves and/or others and there is no reasoning(it happens. A lot. Myself for example)the last resort is to restrain, confine and seek medical help immediately. There is no right way to deal with any of this. Only helpful tips and advice that can work 50/50. Mental illness isn’t predictable nor is it all that understood really. One person with a mental illness, and another with same will not react the same to way to the same actions. We’re all individuals. Mental illness or not. What my therapist told me, and has really helped me a lot was this: “expect the worst but hope for the best. That way, you are rarely disappointed in life.” Good luck!
Right. Police do the opposite. They say the right things to do the wrong things... Big Narcissists
I’m not mentally ill but when people tell me to relax I want to slap the sh*t out of them. To hear it so many times is would make me crazy.
They're doing their best guys...
That lady said it so well, people with mental health are slowly dying inside slowly. No one understands their suffering
For me it’s more of a war with myself. My brain is a soldier in a war the enemy is invisible and it’s inside of my brain.
@@nerdgeekcosplay909 I concur. You described it perfectly. It is a thorn in my mind and has been since childhood. I don't make it a problem for others though.
only 10 cops out of 2,300 in the mental health unit? unacceptable.
Forget that. Look at it as a good start. More funding, more training, more exposure.
why don't you join the unit?
Emma S cause most of them dick heads just want to kill and ruin peoples lifes fuck all of dem
better than 0, gotta start somewhere
Absolutely unacceptable, police officers should be trained in mental illness way more
"When I was a kid I wasn't allowed to cry..."
Wow. How many of us, as men, can say the same thing.. We need to change that.
Agreed. Men should not be held to this "I'm not supposed to cry, I'm a man" narrative. Men have emotions just like women do, and to expect them to never show emotion is asking for trouble. It's ok for men to cry, express themselves creatively, be honest with themselves and their significant other, and receive love and kindness.
Jason Bellini I’m female and to this day? I’m not allowed to cry. My family? My partner and their family? I’m not allowed to cry. I’m not allowed to feel anything. I’m only allowed to smile and be okay even though it’s not real.
I encourage everyone to show and express whatever emotions they have and to wear their emotions on their sleeves. Even though I’m not blessed with that privilege.
But this isn’t only a male issue.
Donna Danielsen I agree it’s a human issue. China and Japan practice this to the extreme. That’s why they commit suicide like no tomorrow. All humans should be able to express themselves.
Idk, i'm a woman and i also wasn't allowed to cry. My dad would get angry and aggressive like "how dare you cry, i'll give you reasons to cry!".
Aku Jo that’s totally wrong. I would rather you cry and tell me what’s wrong than hold it all in and blow up one day. People need to understand crying is NOT a weakness. It’s cleansing.
i can’t imagine going into psychosis and having strangers coming in and trying to help
It’s terrifying
Well.. He didn't even recognize his family, so everyone was a stranger to him.
@@raine420 agree
Its terrifying but it has to be done.
This actually gives me hope, I would love to see this program develop further and gain more national attention.
Agreed - even a follow up to see how implementing more and more of the mental health training is being deploying across the US police stations and following along cases like this to humanise the people with the illnesses, both during and acute episode and day to day so police can see its not just about threats and non threats . You can see how incredibly sad and contradictory something like bipolar and schizophrenia can be when families need medical info to help and the persons paranoia eont allow them to divulge or give cosign rights to family members- and why with medicine costs of $2k+ a mth people turn to street drugs. I thought this showed so many different sides to allow us to empathise very well but would love to see more!
Like the police said, "We don't have the resources". The lack of resources and the fact that police are leaving for safer, better-paying jobs.
And I wish they would focus more on brain health which dr Amen Danial was talking about not all these mental illnesses my mental health has gotten worse because he talks about all the things I need to stop doing like eating unhealthy and staying away from weed and alcohol it’s not necessarily these mental illnesses it’s getting our brain balanced. 😢 Dr keep focusing on the wrong thing we are all NORMAL not these crazy demonic people. I also think that the black people should stop focusing on race not every white cop is out there hurting black people they can do this to anyone and hurt someone it’s a tough job and focusing on race makes it worse the world needs to change we keep focusing on the wrong stuff.
my state has mental health divison for police department
imagine calling the police to help your sick loved one, and the police murder them.
but it's not taking a life iT's JuSt A tOoL tO sToP a ThReAt hurr durr
i still wanna smack that guy, i'm stuck on that part. think i gotta fast forward. like. well maybe yall SHOULD be thinking of those guns as life-enders and not tools. even if they do get someone in a leg, we have things called arteries and they're going to sit there on your back until EMS arrives while you bleed out. how asinine. they don't even see it how the rest of us do because of their bullshit training.
you killed my family member
no, no, see you don't understand- all i did was neutralize a threat, it's fine. shhh.
Ocelot when you shoot someone, you’re shooting to kill them.
@@florese4804 why? This is not the army it is police with what 9 months training. Serve and protect is their job not shot and kill.
semira brenchley dont say murder they protected themselves
If someone is running at a cop with a weapon they have the right to shoot.
The mom who called the cops to get her son help only to have them kill him, i know that is killing her slowly in so many ways.
Lisa Duke serves her right for forcing "help".
official clown business no, getting assistance when someone is unwell is the right thing. America is very trigger happy so I'm not shocked really but mental illness psychosis episodes are scary and dangerous and is when someone ends up dead and that unwell person ends up in prison. Getting help can save two lives. Bad training can have someone dead instead.
@@neversaw No, you DO NOT call the cops for your mental child, it's not the cops problem. That woman fucked up, she should've called the mental hospital.
M Czenk In a crisis situation, most people don’t even know how to find the phone number to a mental hospital, they usually call 911.
@@CaroliniCrumbini Well, they should operate like it does in my area, mental health calls get diverted to another dispatch
Man, watching Chris getting forced to go to the hospital. I'm not upset with the police, they did everything right. But it breaks my heart to see how angry and scared he was. Because everything he's going through is real to him and he doesn't understand. I can't imagine...
I've dealt with a schizophrenia family member, it was terrifying, he refused to take his meds, and was abusive to my mother and my brothers. I ended up moving in at 17 with them, and stuff up to him, protected my brothers, and my mother, he lays hands on one of my brothers, and I went chest to chest with him, he realized I didn't have the fear my mother and brother had of him, he had conditioned them.
My mother called me one time, told me the relationship was over and she feared for her life, I did what I felt was right, but I knew was illegal... I say at her house with her, with my handgun 'laying in wait' with 'malice and aforethought'
I was ready to spend the rest of my life in prison for my mother.
He refused to take his meds because he said he felt like 'a zombie'... He was always anxious, and mentally and physically abusive towards my blood, and I went there to stop it.
Now she's divorced him.
Its like life in hell, for everyone involved. This is heartbreaking what people go through...makes my problems seem small.
It’s happened to me. Twice. Believe it or not....it’s help. They cannot leave you like that. At that point they are responsible for whatever you may do. You get medicated and therapy for a few days. I am lucky. After two times....I had a good therapist who helped me deal with Bi polar. My meds don’t cure it. I have to apply coping skills. I choose to do that. AND.....if I feel myself losing control.....I let someone know immediately. This past summer I felt a change coming on. I called Behavioral Health right here in city where I live and admitted MYSELF.
But there are SO many who cannot get the message....understand help.....etc. It’s a lifelong illness. Finally at 62 years old..... I am living a happy life....want to keep it that way....and will do what I have to to accomplish that. Sometimes it IS choice.
If you think I had it easy......I couldn’t begin to tell you what I’ve been through. Enough that therapist and Psychs can’t believe I survived it.
these mental hospitals are really bad, I've been to one after trying to kill myself
they force you into locked rooms, medicate you a lot, recreational activities are limited
it's like a prison but more violence because people act out more often due to all the mentally unstable patients, it actually makes you feel worse, but in the end you're a danger to a society so there's no other option
It can be heartbreaking but, you have to ensure the safety of the person and others. These sitations can be deadly in many ways. Also, it is to help and I'm sure it sucks. I know...I do this everyday and have been in many situations with decomposed persons that may have caused myself to not go home.
This was so touching and heartbreaking, my heart goes out to all who are suffering in silence.
Thank you for that we dont get much compassion and no judgements we get treated not only by cops but society too as scum its heartbreakin to feel like your not worth anythin Ive lived in Tx my whole life and its true tx is at the bottom of mental health funds and has been for MORE than 15 yrs I have PTSD major depression BPD its a war every second of every day alone trapped in a body and mind that betrays you constantly playin broken records over and over with no way to turn off the sound in a dark buildin ALONE... We want the pain to stop so we can live a better life than what was given or dealt to us alot of us would rather end the pain and our life than to hurt anyone else and see someone else hurtin cause we are completely DEPLETED from pain with no escape and no sign of rescue... No hope
*EDIT* its now 2022 for me
@@celestejustiss6414 Hold on man.
Mental illness is so hard to understand, even psychiatrists still struggle with it to this day. You can't see it, smell it, touch it, it's not like having say a broken leg. I have Bipolar and one of the hardest things I have to do is to try and explain what "I feel like" or "What are you feeling". You cannot explain to people who don't suffer mental illness bcos they are never truly going to understand.
i remember being in the psych ward, a woman in our unit had suddenly become mute and would not speak. on the phone with the woman’s mother, she told her that psychology is an unfinished study. which broke my heart and made me slink back into my bed and cry. i have bipolar and ptsd as well.
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Try a spiritual route, you may understand clearer.. I’m a crystal healer who’s bipolar. It’s a superpower once you harbor it and retrain your brain...
Calamety jayne
I immediately cried by the words you can't touch it etc
I have bipolar and I TRULY understand you're amazing message
It's a very lonely place to be, when no one around you, understands you. All humans crave connection. When we don't have that, it only makes it that much harder and emotionally painful!
I'm here if ANYONE wants to talk 😊
You notice how the dog knew exactly the moment the tension was getting thick. I always felt dogs can sense that even without raised voices or sudden movements.
Having worked with dog’s & been a rescuer etc., a bad dog is a scared dog! Bad people are literally everywhere but dog’s can be man’s best friend.............they are mine!
My mother's labrodoodle is especially adept at that. She's a tough woman so people can't always tell if she's upset. But the dog can.
They’re really smart, they have seizure warning dogs so it wouldn’t surprise me if they can sense the physiological symptoms of tension. (High heart rate, blood pressure, anger, ect..)
Yes, they sense everything!
Excellent point💯
My heart aches for Chris.I’m in tears watching him I can’t imagine the distress he faces every second of the day believing that’s not his mom or grandma and he can’t prove it (Because it’s not real). He must feel so trapped and alone. I hope he is able to accept the medicine one day and work on getting help
i felt everything you said 💔
I really hope he's doing okay now I would love to know how he is
Capgras delusion is a real monster. I've never seen someone this lost in it and not having an episode. People talk of a ten mile stare, this poor man has it, usually you'll find it with those doing heroin or meth. This man is that far away from this world, all by himself
Shalom Aleichem Nami,
...."believing that’s not his mom or grandma and he can’t prove it (Because it’s not real."
May i ask, what evidence do you have that it is not real, what he is experiencing?
Angela White is she supposed to let her son who is clearly too sick to work starve?
the amount of pain that family is going through after losing those 2 little kids and then their father, is unimaginable. not only were his kids murdered, they were murdered by the love of his life. he lost everything in the blink of an eye. there needs to be this type of mental health unit EVERYWHERE
To the viewer scrolling thur these comments after listening to these peoples experiences an storys you are loved and appreciated on this earth I hope you and have a awesome day n night
You too.❤
Sir Ismokebuds I hope the same for you. We need more people sharing hope.
Same to you 😊
Thank you.. To you as well
because of O N E L O V E Amanda Lafleur J A H B L E S S have a aswome day
I think christopher’s family needs to get some sort of training on how to deal with him
Agreed. They shouldn't approach him and say the things they said to him. Especially that "I miss the old Chris" that literally broke my heart. Like how can u say that to someone who's struggling
Alot of hospitals for mentally I'll people needs to be re-opened. Families of the mentally ill and society and police should'nt have to deal with people with these illnesses.
Tammy Day Rhoads They haven’t hurt anyone they are hurting themselves and there is help out there. It’s a journey not just a quick fix. They are a part of society and they could do some good if they became healthy enough to be productive and not destructive.
My husband was diagnosed with schizophrenia and bipolar. That's an illness that can be treated with no pills no hospital, the treating medication will not cure anything it will make the patients feel like vegetables. My husband was healed completely. Jesus is the only way people can get true healing physical and emotional. People with mental illness are going through spiritual torture. My husband was going through mental illness from childhood and only after he accepted jesus christ as his saviour at 24 years of age he was healed and delivered. We have been married for 6 years now and have a beautiful son that's 4 years old.
Hi I'm Christopher Remmey, they never put all of what happened. Me and my mom were doing meth and she would call the cops because I wouldn't sleep. She would hit me and now I'm in San Antonio State Hospital and she is cashing and using my SSI check for her bills. My house burned down in 2018 . But if you want to know more I have all the time in the world
Schizoprhenia is not a joke
Especially when its MANUFACTURED by communities.
Failure to pull the weeds.
S O What do you mean by manufactured? Not hating just curious.
@@nadine-patriciacorner6206 So heartwrenching to hear of your family's situation. I hope you all find the strength to comfort and unite each other! Many Blessings to you all and the loving memory of your brother!🙏🏻 💝
@@ShamWoWGuy1231 psychological warfare. Against undesirables,political dissidents, or just ppl they dont like. The govt been doing it since the 30s.
As a social worker this makes me so happy to see more efforts are being placed in protecting those suffering from mental health concerns!
being told “I miss the old Zoe” because of my struggles with my mental is one of the hardest things i carry on myself . someone
shouldn’t say that to someone with mental health issues .
@@gregking6481 not that ? its not going to cure the mental illness and it only causes more despair, as someone who is told this WEEKLY.
Just dont care?
Understandable , it’s heartbreaking
Knowing you don’t know how to properly speak to someone who suffers from mental illness ... my heart sinks to my stomach jst thinking about if tht were me to my loved ones ...
we need to normalize mental illness awareness and training , so our future generations can do better, ❤️
Same here
I tell myself that tho. I miss the old me, it’s getting harder to even remember her.
“Doctors never help me!”
I felt that one to my core! If ANYONE needs better training in mental health...
I don't even have a mental illness and my doctor kind of disregarded my ADD and made it seem like I didn't need the diagnosis of dyslexia because "people walk through my office every day and I'm sure they have some kind of diagnosis like that, but they still made though life. Kids today are distracted by phones.. gum.. all that. During my time the teacher was able to take the unfocused kid into a room and make them do the work"
If that doesn't say enough on how bad doctors treat patients that can be somewhat more "clear" to understand, I am scared for those who suffer from something without clear understanding.
We need more training for doctors, OTHER than the physical
I agree. But I absolutely can't tolerate people in the criminal justice system not understanding mental illness. The lowest point in my 22 years was sitting in front of a judge, in truancy court, who denied anxiety being an actual mental illness. He would sit there and repeatedly tell me that anxiety wasn't keeping me home from school, I was essentially just a bad kid that refused to go to school. I heard countless times how he 'has anxiety some times but it always goes away' as if this fuckin' dude's nerves before sending someone to jail, was comparable to a clinically diagnosed anxiety disorder. Imagine being told at least once every month that you're mental illness is invalid. I got put on house arrest for almost the entirety of a summer break because of something I was born with and will have to deal with to some extent for the rest of my life.
I never helped me. I was institutionalized about a year ago, and all that did was make me more suicidal and anxious (I have depression and anxiety issues and was sent to the hospital because I had tried to hang myself off of a door knob).
I have been in situations like this. Thankfully I was able to isolate my self when it becomes a psychosis episode. I’m just so tired of having to explain my self to people. I’m not crazy, talking to my self helps me process and sort my thoughts. Attention and memory stuff is f u n.
Main point: we all have a lot of love to share with others. Just show some kindness and love to someone who’s in a bad place.
People say that because the are crazy paranoid and insane
The man who was killed because he was in pain from loosing his two kids...wow that was so 😣. I can’t imagine the sorrow in his heart and soul. He was broken and they killed him
And his nephew saying the police officer should be given a second chance 😢 that maybe he made a mistake. I hope that little boy keeps that mindset - it’s a common saying that the children are the future, that little boy displayed a sense of empathy and forgiveness and I really hope he doesn’t lose that. He epitomises what our future needs.
😭😭😭😭
This one got me over here ugly crying
The officer should've used a taser not a gun. Obviously Danny had no weapon on him. If a man with his pants down is the most threatening thing you've ever seen, y'all need to give back your badge. You're a gun wielding pu**y
You think he committed suicide by cop? Cause it seems like it.
As somebody who struggles with mental illness in San Antonio, I’ve never had fear of the police hurting me when they get called on me while I’m having a meltdown. They’ve always been helpful and compassionate and it helps SO much.
The official was correct they need more than only 40 hrs of training but i congratulate them on requiring the 40hr training. It should be required nationwide.
I agree with that 100%
When they said his wife drowned there 2 children" myself having little ones my heart broke so hard for him, i hope if not already in time his soul is with his little ones souls with our Father.
Just gutted me
Poor woman probably had postpartum depression like my mom when she had my sister... I’m glad nothing bad happened to me or my sister but my mom having to hide her mental illness to stay strong and watch over us isn’t healthy and refusing medication. In the Latino community (pretty much any color of race) it’s strictly taboo to talk about mental illness. Hopefully every woman with a newborn makes sure that they get help..
duane jessup amen
This needs to be the next viral video!!! This needs to be shared!! This is so important to everyone!!
Have you shared omit yet?
Peyton Bell I’ve shared the video on all my social media’s.
Bobs Fresh Baked Beans from Zambia not true at all clearly the men in this video are proof. They are all police and they are truly making a difference. Sad you don’t see that. They are trying to make changes nation wide.
Agreed. It's a damn shame this doesn't have more views. So much hard work and careful reporting went into this, and on such an important and relevant subject, and it's only sitting at 350k views. It should have millions.
Wow "this is no different to you going to the doctor with a sore throat, you're just having sore thoughts" I love that.
It pisses me off that we, as a society, don't put more money towards mental health and law enforcement. WTF?!
C you want to get more pissed off? We as a country could CUT the military budget in HALF and still have the worlds largest military. That’s how much money we are wasting on the military. We could use that money to fund mental healthcare.
@@FukaiKokoro I know. You're right.
Yeah, many loons are socialist democrats and Antifa.
Think a lot of this began as drug abuse and possibly very abusive and neglectful parenting. Some of these people because of drugs don't sleep for days and that also messes with their mind.
@Mia Meow. I don't see how your comment on socialist Dems and Antifa loons is relevant to the original statement.
I think Chris is a huge risk to his Mother. You can see it in his eyes. He really, really needs help.
I think she understands that
Of course he is what do you expect he lost both his children to drowning, I think his family needs to be training better coping skills. This man has to live in his own head don't you think it's 10 times harder for him.
Camille Anderson I think you mistook my comment for judgement. I am not judging him. I sincerely hope he gets proper help.
Velcro1997 ive spent 70+ days in hospitals if you get out in one day that means a psychiatrist calls bullshit in his illness.. probably found meth in his blood he probably refuses medicine an they kick him out
True, he should not be living with them - he is a ticking bomb..he should be in the hospital.
these are the REAL officers who serve and protect
Yeah not the others who stop bank robberies and such.
@@C4RL1NN both are necessary ....deal ?
OFFICERS are part time in this unit? The agenda is to continue to make and create KILLING monsters. There is no Officer with careers on the Force who are INNOCENT. Period. The ones who leave bc of the despicable are the hope we'll never know. Sad and unacceptable! Officer's think of themselves as the LAW but make soooo many mistakes that it is HILARIOUS!!! that you think your nothing more than SCUM and you spit on OUR CONSTITUTION every time you don your clown suits you mock Justice and have been manipulated by evil men and have become their MINIONS so technically the Devil's Bitch. We are you and You are the people except you are welfare check whores and you work for US!! NOT THE OTHER WAY AROUND!~ watch how you talk to your BOSSES, punk. I'm truly sick of hearing about you Devil's Masquerading as Honorable citizens in OUR AMERICA!! This career , as a people we CANT STAND FOR A ANY BAD APPLES.
Megan {: how could you say this after watching this documentary. Brain worms.
That was so sad when he said... This is my grandma...MY REAL GRANDMOTHER.... he was so happy thinking she was his real grandmother.... what a horrible life... I can't imagine how scary it must be thinking people you love aren't the real people you love...
It pains me to hear Chris's mom keep saying "ok Christopher thats enough".. as if he can just turn off the delusions.
She's a person w feelings too, living in her own home in fear. Imagine your son, much bigger than you and your lil old mom, thinks you killed his family. And he's already tried to strangle his girlfriend. Don't you think she's tired too?
@@prviolist Yes but the way she speaks to him only makes his delusions worse. Of course I understand she has feelings too. But dismissing those delusions and feelings, making him feel more isolated and misunderstood, will only further exacerbate his delusions and his mistrust. Potentially making the situation worse for his family.
@@isabelc6581 She should check for a local chapter of NAMI / familya they offer mental health support and crisis lines to loved ones. I won't be so hard on the mom, she's older. Not everyone is a psychology major. The more the mother can be educated about mental illness the better. It's obvious she's also caring for her elderly mother and has her hands full. I feel for that family.
@@prviolist are you seriously fucking saying that it's harder on her for her son to be mentally ill than for him to experience the mental illness?? YOU are what's wrong with the world. THIS is why there's a stigma. shut the fuck up.
Just because he's mentally ill she needs to stop him from verbally abusing her. He IS cognizant enough to understand that she wants him to stop harassing her.
When I heard her screaming “Oh they killed my child”. My heart just sank 💔
I know. It made me feel some kind of way too. My central nervous system lit up.
I know, it’s like these people think they’re looking at animals. These are people’s with lives, family’s and futures. Utterly disrespectful. It’s so good to see changes beginning to be made.
Don’t we still have tasers? What happened about those?
Just so sad!
I JUST HEARD THAT as I was reading this comment.. that shit is terrible.. 🙄🙄😥😥😥😥😫😫😪😪
“We want the old Chris back”
That’s a horrible thing to say to a depressed per-
*Ex-Girlfriend*
Well that explains a lot
Right
Yeah, that’s just awful. He’s not a different person. He’s still Chris.
Ofcourse it’s horrible to say to someone in crisis, but they’re allowed to mourn the person he used to be
Cut her some slack. She just meant that she wanted him to get better. She missed being able to spend time with him and felt terrible about what he was going through.
The average person doesn’t understand mental illness. So give family members some slack, they are trying to survive the mentally ill person too with no training and very little help or support and it’s all about money or lack of it.
Dang the heart on that little boy was incredible. As someone with multiple MI I feel for them all. My biggest fear is delusions and hallucinations. I can’t imagine how tiring it has to be for their loved ones when they refuse care. Even when I’m doing everything right I can be a handful for my husband. God Bless us all
Imagine someone drowning....Now imagine you can't see them and they refuse to scream for help. That's mental illness.
Or even if they scream others don't have the resources to help.
You can't scream if you're drowning... its usually pretty silent.
Rachel Freeders she meant like when someone is drowning and they are splashing and going up and down/in and out of the water, I’ve heard many people scream “help grglgrgl helgrlp” when something happens and they start drowning!
@@amber_Forever16 there are literally PSAs about it... when you're underwater people on the surface cannot hear you and splashing may happen but only at first and minimal, but splashing at s pool isnt exactly a red flag, and then there's nothing. There are stories of children drowning when their mom was 3ft away.... and are you a life guard or something? Why have you seen "many" people on the verge of drowning? I do understand the metaphor in the original comment, I just don't think it was very clever.
I like the analogy. I would actually go one step further to say imagine you can’t see them, and they can’t scream for help. When you’re feeling so overwhelmed, depressed and anxious, it’s so hard to ask for help because words don’t seem to adequately express how you feel.
Even if they stabalize someone, when they are sent back out into the community with prescriptions they can't afford, what do you think happens to these people?
SuperMarbelle if they have insurance they can most certainly afford it... especially if they’re on Medicaid which most of them are because they can’t work. Options are available... people just have to reach out and take them.
Dena Barton the sad thing is medication doesn't solve the problem. It only suppresses and makes it worse overtime while turning them into zombies. They tried giving my brother a cocktail of antipsychotics when he was just 13 for ADHD and the medication made him start hearing voices yet his "hyperactivity" was only being suppressed because it turned him into a walking zombie that looked like a heroin junkie. I had him stop taking them and the side effects subsided. I'd argue that having ADHD is much better than having Schizophrenia. I urge you to educate yourself further on these matters before speaking on them, please.
@@Soul_Alpha I urge you to think twice before you assume what it is I know, please.
SuperMarbelle wasn't talking to you.
SuperMarbelle probably should learn how to read the first words of a comment before you get twisted in a bunch tho.
When the journalist asked, "What is your biggest fear?" I have a feeling that Christopher's mother wanted to say, "That he hurts me," instead of, "That he hurts someone."...very sad situation.
Exactly what I thought she was gonna say. At that point I knew she had already thought deeply about that situation and realized that he could possibly hurt anybody
thats a real fear . i think being a mom of someone with a mental illness you stop fearing for your own life and fear for your child being hurt or in the wrong place at the wrong time. and for people around your child that can possibly be hurt by your child .my son has a mental illness and since kindergarten i feared for the other children .90% of the time my son is fine and a happy child its the other 10% of the time i fear he can snap and hurt someone . i couldn't live happily if i knew my child hurt someone else . even if he cant help it . or cant control himself . being a mom with a child of mental illness we go through alot .but god gives special babies to special moms . thats what i truly believe. no one else will love them like their moms .
I need a night nurse. Lol
He's going to kill one of them
Maybe it would be worse to see your child hurting somebody else over you.. I could imagine.
Danny's little nephew is such a special, kind soul. My heart breaks for their pain. When his mother told him he will be treated differently because of the colour of his skin, his beautiful little innocent face had me breaking down. What a cruel world we live in where some children have to be taught this just to survive. Utterly heart breaking. I hope they thrive and heal.
My doctor is a black woman with small children. I plan on asking her if she says such disgusting things to her kiddos. Betcha she doesn't. And we wonder why these black children struggle. If my mom told me on a daily basis that I wouldn't make it in life bc I was black well I wouldn't make it either. I feel way more sorry for that child who already thinks he will have no life bc he's black. Disgusting behavior. We can't get mad at these kids when they do struggle in life as Adults bc mom is filling their heads with bs.
@@misskat8548 OK hun.
She didn't do him any good In that conversation they were having cause little man is gonna grow up looking over his shoulders and paranoid because he is black very wrong approach in what she said to her son and it's not exactly true either this is American equal rights are given to the all citizens of this nation
@@misskat8548 right that was foolish what she said to her son in front of camera for the whole world to see and make black people scared and paranoid for being black....I have a teenager I will never give him a reason to become a loser
@@thegracetofollow4194 couldn't agree more!!
When Chris hugged his grandmother and finally recognized her was where I seriously lost it and cried so hard. I have nothing that I can give to help you, Chris but if anything I pray for your health and well-being. God bless you and your family. You are a strong man ❤
Rise and Shine -thank you for being true
you just gave him the greatest gift of all..prayer
Anyone got an update on him and how hes doing?
Saying you want the old chris back...that hurts and causes more problems in my life when people say they want the old me. I can only be this me
@@cekaskywalkr1600 I don't think that would end well, unfortunately :( unless he permanently goes to an inpatient hospital. If he just was loose on the streets that would be terrible for him, and like you said his mom is the only one tolerating him so it's not like he can go to another relative. It's an awful situation with no good solution
@Johnnie Boi I disagree, even professionals struggle to control them, especially without meds. I live with someone who has BPD (Form of Bipolar) and its so difficult, we're not taught to deal with that I cant imagine living with someone with full Bipolar and Schizophrenia must be so heartbreaking and sad. Its so easy to blame parents/relatives when really it is that person doing it, its not their actual selves but its THEM, Cant speak for everyone but what can you do as relatives.
@@yeahyeah4433 i’m a mom Of a bipolar daughter who thinks she’s just signed away her kids when in reality she lost them. 4 now to be exact . it has been a toll on my/ our family as I wasted my life, helping her . no matter what she was still my daughter “crazy “or not.
BTW father was undiagnosed molested me basically at 15/16 years old I had her at 17. and the chances were 50-50 and she got all 50.. unfortunately
@@brennyhughes7251 Damn I'm really sorry to hear that, Sounds somewhat familiar in terms of your daughter though to my situation. I hate that people blame parents all the time, yes of course sometimes its the parents fault but a lot of the time it isn't. Mental Health definitely can be parents fault because depression/anxiety are things that can come on, mental illness is something either a trigger/genes, so theres not really much you can do. You spend so much time trying to help them but really theres nothing you can do, it has to come from them. Its their battle in their own head, you can only do so much in terms of making them comfortable. For us its so hard because you have to walk on eggshells a little bit around those kinds of people, doing it in your own safe space (home) is really tiring. (BTW Im not the parent Im a sibling so its not a biased opinion)
@@yeahyeah4433 🙁🙏🏼👍🏼
“oh they killed my child”💔
@Benaiah Ahmadinejad Enjoyed what? You need to explain this. If you are just trying to be edgy then fuck off somewhere where your type dwell.
He pulled a gun. Tried to shoot them. He deserved it
Benaiah Ahmadinejad wtf is wrong with u
Honestly this broke my heart. The pain in that mother’s voice echoed through my soul
@@mczenk5095 they could have just shot him in the leg or arm not freaking kill him
As a heathcare worker, Our hospitals do not have the funding or facilities to hold psych patients for an extended period of time. It is very unfortunate but its the way it is. For them to put the blame back on us is unfair. We are very limited in what we can do. If we held every single psych patient until they were completely healed we would have no beds open for emergencies or other long term needs.
"maybe he just needs a second chance. maybe he can go out and do better" bless that kid man
A cop is the last person I'd like to be with if I was having a mental breakdown
The uniform doesn’t scare me. It’s the person who can shoot me on a whim and justify his actions that terrifies me.
This is part of the reason for the call to defund the police. We need to let trained professionals deal with this sort of issue, not cops.
David Okoro so they call 911 to report a mental health crisis and they randomly send “trained professionals”? Ok
Lynn Cohen so only let the police deal with crimes
So I live in Scotland and honestly the police were so great when I have tried to kill myself multiple times. They only cared that I was safe and didn’t leave me
"Maybe he didn't know, he just thought he was going to hurt him. Maybe he deserves a 2nd chance."
That poor child being able to honestly think about forgiveness for something like that is something I can only hope to one day achieve 🥺
And mom didn't want to say anything because she obviously doesn't agree. She could learn a lot from her child.
@@tracyd693 "Jolly jeez this mentally ill person raped me but he couldn't help it! Maybe he deserves a 2nd chance."
@@Meow-gp5nk WTF are you talking about?
T DRIT what I think the point of the reply is that really forgiveness is something that can help the person let go of all the anger and pain and hatred but it is not meant to be something people should EVER feel obligated to do. what happened cannot be undone and because of the actions of the police a loving family member was taken from them. It is wrong to just forgive them because it will happen again and it IS HAPPENING right now to someone. The only lessons that can be learned are on the side of law enforcement and the procedural handlings of situations like these. Sadly changes are not made in way that reduces these things from happening. Nobody HAS to forgive and from what I saw the police never apologized or admitted to wrong doing. It is not justice when nothing is done to stop this from happening. I guess T DIRT has never been faced with this kind of senseless loss and can’t understand that there are better things than forgiving the police like CHANGING POLICY so that his death could be the last of this type. I don’t understand why other people think they can judge this family or this mother. If you cannot understand the anger and indignation his sister has then you either are suffering from mental illness yourself (in which case watch out for the po pos) have no heart or are some kind of “Christian” (basically a combo of the last 2 minus common sense.)
@@tracyd693 Milton Waddam's comment for further clarification of mine snarky reply ...
When Christopher finally was saying this my real grandma and crying of joy seeing her even tho she’s there everyday really got to me.
Me too.
We don't need to defund police, we need to train them to be more like this, compassionate and understanding and educated and adaptive.
Amen
defunding means rerouting funds to be better spent elsewhere. for example less money on firearms, use that money so that all cops have min 80 hours mental health/de-escalation training.
Better training is not enough. Defunding the police puts the funds where therapy can be provided so these type of crisis don't even escalate to the point police needs to be called. There are people running around with mental illness that is not treated because they have nowhere to receive proper treatment or lack the funds. Prisons are the number one mental health providers right now. It is insane. That's not where mental illness should be treated.
@@shootfilmnotguns2023 We used to do this in the past, they were called mental asylums where the mentally ill were "treated". These institutions, even the best of them, were deemed inhumane. This video proves the police were trying to make real strides in improving the interactions with the mentally ill. The last thing we need to do is defund the police. Restructuring is the answer. Don't be fooled by people who have alternative motives.
@@willh7690 We do not live in the 18th century anymore. I work in mental health, so I know what I am talking about. Does the system need improvement? Sure! And that's why funding is so important! If you saw the whole video you must be aware that in the US funding had been cut to the point where many patients have nowhere to go or no services they can afford. As long as getting a gun is cheaper than getting good long term therapy we have a huge problem. Just look at some other countries and how they successfully deal with funding their police department versus social and human service institutions.
9:36 that dog drinking water right out of the toilet and then trying to look all casual when he realized the camera saw him lol
😂😂😂
A dog who knows that kind of behaviour can get you sectioned 😉
😂 I caught that
Marshall Smith SO WHAT!!!!!! Leave that innocent dog alone....BUTT OUT!!!!
@Harry Harry Like I said LEAVE THIS INNOCENT DOG ALONE AIN'T NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS.....SO WHAT IF THE DOG DRANKED FROM THE TOILET...IT AIN'T THE DOGS FAULT THAT THE MOTHER N GIRLFRIEND OF THE VICTIM DON'T HAVE A WATER DISH FOR THE VICTIM'S DOG!!! BUTT OUT....GERMS OR NOT .....YOU.... need to BUTT OUT!!!😡😠🤬🤡👹👽
Danny’s 11 year old nephew who wanted to be a police officer until his uncles death.. I really hope he reconsiders. His precious heart would be such an asset to so many people.
Nah his mom is filling his head with garbage. Would u go anywhere in life if your mom told you you wouldn't go anywhere in life bc he's black? Disgusting parenting. My doctor is a black woman and has young children. I'm going to ask her if she talks to her children that way. Betcha she doesn't.
I'm kind of worried for Chris's family. I'm not sure that he won't attack them during one of his episodes. It must be so frightening to have paranoid delusions. My heart breaks for these individuals.
Did you guys even watch until the end of this? He's in jail facing charges of assault on his family members.
beth 9891 1:03:07 he did
beth 9891 I was thinking all the same here
What can they do if he gets violent? Yet they love him so they wont kick him out. Heartbreaking.
Looking at the public arrest record it seems he has been arrested three times this year for assault on his family. The latest one that I found happened in July. jailalert.com/arrest-records/christopher-daniel-remmey-10032070.html
“this is my grandma this is my real grandma” 😭❤️ really really hit home i’m so glad he had a breakthrough
Hope he gets to keep her this time in his mind.
@James Estelle did you even understand what the message of this video was? If a voice is telling you your grandma is fake and you truly believe it and are terrified by everyone around you, bad shit is going to happen. Stop the stigma mate.
1:01:15
"I'm fine. I'm just broken" 😭 ugh girly I feel u
That was a man.
@@rubyrose6408 what? The very first woman said this when she was hearing things.
I feel ya on that one. I just wanted to give her a hug... Bless her.
About to be even more broken once she's taken during an already stressful situation, held against her will, drugged against her will, turned against most of the people in her life because she's been branded by the system, and possibly even abused behind closed doors, which happened to me ar both the psych wards I was placed in.
@@officialclownbusiness7788 I couldn't agree more. I went into a psych hold as I was seeking treatment for detox and couldn't stay off drugs so I knew they wouldn't let me out and if have no way of getting my drug of choice in there. But seeing how others were treated in crisis was truly eye opening and scared me shitless. They don't deal with the problem, they drug them to sleep and then let them on their way. It's so sad. And it's got to be terrifying. So I really couldn't agree with you more. Hopefully better methods and more understanding will be found in the years to come
I know someone who adopted a little girl who had been trafficked. The girl was Deaf, had attachment disorder, and severe psychotic episodes where she thought she was fighting off her former abusers. 😭 The girl was tiny, but it took four grown men to subdue her. Whenever the mom had to call for help she always had to ask for specific officers by name. Because the girl was Deaf, if she tried to sign, the police might think she was reaching for a weapon.
Your documentary is so deeply amazing and educational.. Having lost my Brother who was serving in the Army due to mental illness ..How I wish we could turn the clock back but it is already real.. God bless you for teaching me how I can heal myself from that pain.
Sanito Mike ❤️❤️❤️🇬🇧🙏
My brother came back from over seas he had severe PTSD and took his own life..there needs to be more resources set aside for mental health..so the people can get help before it gets to a crisis point.
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Sara Brant god I am so sorry
im sorry to hear about your Brother. he is in a much better place though.
Thank you for giving people with mental illness a voice, for highlighting the inadequacy in resources and medical treatment available. I pray that these people and their families are treated with dignity and respect. To those officers that show a true understanding of a person in crisis and the importance of empathetic listening, you should be commended for the admirable work you do. Thank you to all who contributed and opened their lives so that others can be educated. It’s a conversation that needs to be had worldwide, and hopefully this documentary will be a catalyst to begin that conversation. From Australia with love
@Rosie Cheeks : If you have private health insurance it isn't. However, I agree that public mental health is pretty bad and needs more money put into the system. The only saving grace is the small cost of prescriptions, being just $6.50 AUD for each medication.
@Rosie Cheeks : We're senior citizens in Oz. Only people with a concession card would pay this amount, i.e. people on low income, unemployment, etc. However, even when both of us were working, we paid this small amount for prescriptions on the PBS. Are you in Oz?
I am crying for chris right now because it's like emotionally you lost somebody. The world cares for people like Chris. The world needs people like Chris. I just hope that he can get the help that he needs. His family loves him and his whole community loves him.
The breakdown and begging to not go….gets me every time.
2 years clean off psyche wards. I NEVER want to go through that again but it did save my life. More than once.
My mother has paranoid schizophrenia and bipolar, and was beaten by the police and almost killed. She was charged with resisting arrest, which is so disgusting because of course someone with schizophrenia is going to resist arrest. The statistics don't lie, thank you for what you do to help!
Bullshit
Omg... sorry to hear...
@@catman8670 your comment is bullshit
I am so sorry. How is your mom doing now?
@Zerevv Careful mocking people. This could happen to you
I’ve had a few experiences with mental health facilities and honestly those places have brought me to my lowest points. Many things need to change about how our society deals with the mentally ill.
Exactly. Just look at those places. It's the last place anyone wants to be. With 10 people around you stating at you, and armed policemen repeatedly asking you to "relax".
Word up to that. Facilities should be the last resort and should be highly overthought. Psychological psychotherapy should be favored instead psychiatric intervention. If people don’t learn to deal with their troubles during or before medical intervention their side-effects can be far worse and long-term success might not be achieved.
Ali G me too ❤️
Man that broke me when he hugged her and said “this is my real grandma “
For real, same here.
Me too
Yeah, but how long will that last? By tomorrow he could think she's a fake grandma again.
@@Catlily5 For that moment he felt loved again. Perhaps a fleeting moment. I’ve seen some on meds do very well. So then they think they are better. So now. I don’t need the meds I’m doing fine! Cycle starts again. Pray for all of US!
@@kathleenfurlong2619 That can be a hard cycle for people. I hope somehow the situation with his family will improve. That mental health care in the USA will improve.
Most often the hospitals don't help. They don't want to go back to the behavioral health unit because they suck! I work in this system, and it's broken.
De escalation training should be the norm. Glad to see the changes.
NBC is such trash! I can't believe RUclips sent me to this garbage normie channel. Tisk tisk alphabet incorporated.
I agree! So happy to see there are finally changes being made! I'm praying 🙏🙏🙏 these changes take effect in every department all around the country! #Thementallyilllivesmatter♥️
@@patrickpritchard1498 this is a much better piece of journalism than any of the reactionary right wing shithead videos you've liked. You little incel.
De-escalation training is a major part of our training. But the way we are trained to de-escalate training should be tweaked. Most of it is legit though. Atleast in my department.
@@patrickpritchard1498 They sent it to you, because they thought you need this video. It depends on what you watch normally.
This show is heavy, should've been on national TV
Whoever mentioned that having mental illness is like having tunnel vision in those moments was spot on. I know from past experiences, truly amazing documentary
Well said.
I am a RUclips junkie, straight out. Lockdown hasn't helped - but i literally spend my spare time here.
This is the best doco i have ever seen. The photographer was epic, the content real. Bravo.
To the lady who lost her brother, god bless and keep you - and may he be at peace. Btw - your son = politics 100%.
To Chris and your family, i know how psychosis can manifest and erode someones personality. The pain he and his afmily are going through is unimaginable.
To the psych cops - out - fucking - standing! Real diplomats, real empathy. 10/10 you guys, be safe.
Doesn't help that the United States has *no health care system* and most people with severe mental illnesses are rendered unable to work.
The united states has one of the best health care systems in the world. That's why it is expensive.
Progressive Minds same as in every country. Actually worse in the countries with socialized medicine.
@@halodregs Wake up, fool! Most of the _other_ "best health care systems" in the world are _also_ expensive, but the people and governments of those countries believe that the most vulnerable individuals in their societies _also_ deserve good health care (and actually _require it_ more than most). Why do you struggle to comprehend this?!?
We're basically fucked as a nation unless we get rid of the stigma against mental illness and actually fix our politics.
This!👇🏽💚👇🏽
“Hearing is an action, listening is a process”
from listening , they learn more than from acting .....
"I want the old chris back"
Chris: "You don't even know me" haha
Chris has a good heart God bless him🙏🙏🙏🙏
Marketta's son broke my heart. What a sweet, gentle, beautiful little soul. 🖤🖤🖤
Oh my heart broke when they shot the lady's son in front of her. Oh god....
Maybe u need help
@Benaiah Ahmadinejad wannabe badass but you came to be an idiot who is trying to impress who the fuck you trying to
"I hAd JuSt ThE OppOsItE ReActIoN, i enJoYeD IT"... oooh i'm so badass.. i am that psycho dude that loves to watch suffering and deaths oooohh
....
Just grow up. You would cry like you've never cried in your life when you would see death on your own eyes.. pussy
@@aregulardude428He may have a significant lack of empathy,don't verbally assault him unless you confirm he is a troll ,be better then him if he is.
@@skullhead8617 Well i will. If he want to act like his favorite actor or singer ? Whatever. But pretending that these situations are just a videogame or just different weird dimension where you can be total psycho and murder half of the city... now it is something wrong and pathetic. Some people should come back to earth and use their brain. That's what i wanna say
@@aregulardude428 Reasonable,it's true the internet can really be hysterical when it comes to reacting to these types of situations/videos. Shame on them if he isn't actually mentally ill though.
when the little boy said that the police officer deserves a second chance my heart shattered. he has such a pure and good soul. we need more people like him.
Good thing he has more sense than the mother who is already teaching him to hate and instilling the victim mentality on her kids.
@@spacecat7125 yes exactly my thoughts.
@@spacecat7125 I hope no one murders your brother and then your anger is put on camera and judged....she was not that bad considering how she probably truly feels
Mama was still in the mourning process and her son told her to let go and the will be gone. She must of raised him good for him to make a statement like that. Hope they all can move on and have a great life in the future.
Yeah and then mom turned around and told that lil boy that basically he won't have a life bc he's black. Great job being positive mom. My doctor is a black woman and i plan to ask her if she says such terrible things to her kiddos. Betcha she doesn't smfh
When the mom, ask his son he'll have to prepare himself cuz he's black, it got me so deep. I could only imagine that young kid will continue his life with the same thought. Super sad!!
BY doing this, the mom is actually taking the chance away from her son to be confident and healthy in his adult life...….
@@auroraborealis2442 true it had nothing to do with race that man had a mental issue unfortunately it escalated it has nothing to do with because he's black I just find disappointed the automatically is a race thing but really what it is not
levar jackson how many white women or white men have you seen shot by the police? And how many black people? Get real. It’s a problem.
I gotta say that I’m really impressed with the sister who’s brother was shot by a cop. She hasn’t taught her son to hate cops because of what happened and that in my opinion shows integrity. I am just really impressed by her. Thank you for teaching him correctly.
Lol yeah she's only teaching him that bc he's black he won't go anywhere in life. It's disgusting what she said to that kid. Now he won't even try bc why should he? He's black🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️
Now to enforce mental health units in every city across the United States.
Right nothing great in my area or at least not all units. Some are so use to drugs they think it's drugs and not actual mental illness
They don't help anyone.
They are using police to lock people up who havent committed a crime. Its indefinite imprisonment for those who arent competent enough to get out.
I have a brother who is struggling with his schizophrenia diagnosis and this hits so close to home!! I love my brother so much and all I want is for him to feel sane again. I pray that all these beautiful souls find peace and that society can be more understanding 🙏🏾
Your very gorgeous Jules and prayers to your bro hope he feels better amen
I came across this today as my brother relapsed after 8 years, I too love my brother and am walking alongside him in this journey. I know in heaven he will have a new body, and there will be no more tears. I rejoice in knowing that for my brother. Don’t lose hope and keep praying for your brother.
I know it may sound crazy but PLEASE try to get him to eat for his blood type.... even it you have to fix his food. I promise you will begin to notice a difference
Won't happen. Put him somewhere safe
People thought the same about me but let me tell you about brain washing by neggatives that they turn a group effort in covert training to destroy anyone who hurt them cause that's the mental illness that they keep evolving in and the rest of us are being feed for they have no actual idea to destroy the monster they created without destroying those who fell in and participated in crime and mirrors their character and attitude is one of the same but left in the dust for ignorance is like a backwoods or mountain man being in the city having to eat all his politics of prison for it's truthful why it is sobering then to continue eating the attention feeding the machine of worth by the economic force being rigged is treasonous
The mental health facilities are horrible, understaffed, uncaring and dirty. The real problem is finding "real" help because most of the time we are just shoved into someplace and get no real help. It's: "Take this drug, give me your money and get the hell out!" I know because I've been in them and so have several of my family members.....Mental issues seem to run in my family.
Just to add to this, sometimes even those who care and are dedicated to their work will go through periods of immense stress and will try to cope by becoming "colder." It's called empathy exhaustion I believe, so you may have also caught people who did in fact care and want to show concern for you and were just extremely overworked. I hope you and your family are doing well now :)
@@do7735 Yes you are probably correct. But the system itself is broken too because it's set up for making money instead of healing so they just keep handing out drugs and never giving psychological help that is needed the most. I myself decided it was the drugs causing me the most problems and I decided to get off of all of them and find natural healthy homeopathic help and I am so glad I did because I am much better now at dealing with my depression and anxiety. My sister on the other hand is now addicted to so many drugs she struggles every day just to try and "live." It is overwhelming and horribly sad. Please pray for her, her name is Karen. God Bless you.
It's a broken system. I recently got done paying $120 an hour for a therapist to help me figure out what was wrong. In the end I ended up quiting my job & falling into suicidal ideations & depression. She told me she couldn't help me & Now I have to find a psychiatrist & get on government assistance. I had plenty of money & a job before. No one helps you, so things just continue to get worse. They are just McDonald's workers with degrees.
Yeah you're right. Me and my family suffer from mental illness
Truth they are just there because it's a job. I don't ever want to go back a mental ward at a hospital. They don't care very much of the side effects the drugs have on your body if you tell them they just lower the dose and when you first get there they give you a large dose of those horrible drugs.
One thing I will say, never ever tell a mentally ill person that you want the old them back. Its hurtful and a lot of the time we were masking our real feelings. We are who we are right now and if you don't like that person, then shame on you.
Watching Chris is like watching my brother, this breaks my heart into pieces. I wont see my brother for the next few years, he was left untreated and stabbed my stepfather. Mental illness is REAL and everywhere you look. Don't judge people because of what you don't understand.
Jansen Turner so sorry to hear about your brother must be heartbreaking for you hope your brother is ok when you get to see him comment well said bless you
@@chanelgez2146 Thank you so much for the kind words. Its the hardest thing in the world to deal with. I got a letter from him yesterday, all it says is " This guy he met was himself from another dimension in the multiverse, coming to guide his former self who is in distress and destined for something greater than himself, explaining why he felt love for him" < That is all it said. Written on a little scrap piece of paper. My heart aches every day for him :(
Jansen Turner sorry for the late reply I am so glad you heard from your brother it’s is soul destroying my heart goes out to you if you need to talk I am here for you you must feel devastated feeling helpless it is so so hard for you thinking of you and your brother bless you please try and stay strong even though it is easier said than done xx
Im so sorry
Jansen Turner so sad, the mind is a powerful thing
Every citizen of the world needs to watch this!!! Specially world leaders!!!
World leaders don't give a shit! Maybe Trump and a very few others.
@@Lyrical_tap I second that! Tamara Q is a dick head. Lol
World leaders are too busy stirring up hate and discontent.
terrence Brumer World leaders do not give a shit unless it affects their lives of privilege...
Finally ,police with knowledge , it's about time ,thanks guys !!!!
NO......A LITTLE KNOWLEDGE IS A VERY DANGEROUS PLACE......
68Camaro RS/SS 👎🏼👎🏼
NOT Funny!
hes gonna realize when he's in there somethings tho
40:26 that's good, but this guy Christopher. was taken to hospital and they could nt keep him there. The system stinks, if the police do a good job they should have the infrastructure and legal system organized to continue with the good work.
This video was beautiful. I truly pray that everyone in this video gets the help they deserve.
This is like a cancer, I think police officers should be train more about mental health issues...
Cetin Cambridge but they will never get that training
It keeps getting worse, too. We just had the police shoot an unarmed woman here. Smh.
Or, you know, reform the healthcare system so that people with mental health issues get the care they need. Most developed countries have a government healthcare system. It's cruel to deny help to the sick and vulnerable. Law enforcement shouldn't be expected to take the slack for institutional failings.
What the mom tells her son about having to prepare him for this world broke my heart 💔
That was tough to watch. .
I cried. I am so heartbroken for him and his community members.
It took me and my sister to talk to my nephew's about it... Especially since they live among so many white and Hispanic children... Whenever the police all around my oldest nephew is always the one that they say something to or question and we knew it was time for us to tell them... That they are black and a Target... That to the police and too many people especially white people the lies are expendable and that they need to be careful because the color of their skin could get them killed... It sucked but we had to tell them.
Joey Youn Good job bringing race into a mental health problem, Just more dividing
@@ozymandias1192 America was built on racism... Stop acting dumb. There are two things that the cops do not know how to deal with and they always deal with poorly mental illnesses and black people...
Mental Illness is a lonely, dark and vulnerable place to be... I know. 😞🙏♥️
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I am a loner because i can't interact with people. Depression, anxiety, PTSD caused by sexual abuse when I was very young and vulnerable had set me on the path I don't want. Being a loner is a way of avoiding some of the pain. I only have my rescue dog Rosie who loves me unconditionally. I don't need people but I love people also.
Coleen Hudson ! You gonna be ok. YOU HELPED ME ... by right WORDS! Thank you!
@@nancybogart3899 Thanks, Sweetheart. Much love to you from Florida. 💜🎈💜🙏🌞🌴💐
Coleen Hudson thank you for being so TRUTHFUL ABOUT THE SOUL YOU & OTHERS live in . Please DO not let ANYONE TELL YOU WHAT YOUR WORTH IS -- EVER!
Every state should have police officers that are trained in dealing with mental health
I hope one day every police station has a mental health unit it’s very much essential
They need actual therapist to teach them and also need actual degrees. In those areas.
Some of them are mentally ill. I knew two.
Michael Burton Why should the police have the burden of dealing with mentally ill people? they are not equipped, no matter what training they receive. These people are living in our communities and many of them should be in a secure unit.
@@skygazer6898 you sir are a disgrace
@@Michaelbsav707 Explain to me why I am a disgrace. Come on
As a mental ill person, this brought tears to my eyes. My brother suffers from multiple things as well as schizophrenia. And he was wronged many times. Put in prison instead of a mental health hospital. And when he was admitted he left the next day. Its truly sad. 🥀❤️
I hope things got better for you two❤️
Me too man, very emotional if you understand what they are going through
@@bouncybooty3252 I do in some way, I work in mental hospital.
Chris needs to be on medication and his ex should be out of his life.
tauresa ttauresa that hurt how she said I miss the old Chris like he is still the same individual
They have kids together
@@damnmuggle even MORE reason. What if something happens to the kids?
that assumes medication can "fix" the problem assuming there is one. we're medeival as far as brain knowledge/drugs are concerned.
@Steph Daigle I'm gonna read this to my mom. You described exactly how she feels. I think it will help her to hear that somebody out there knows exactly how she feels. She has an appointment today with a new counseling place and she's so thinks that it's not going to help and they're not going to give her the right medicine sadly she is highly addicted to klonopin it's not her fault the psychiatrist gave it to her and when she doesn't have it she literally goes into a psychosis and hallucinates it's really sad and really it could probably kill her it's scary to see if she starts having seizures kind of in starts not making any sense seeing things that aren't there. and what's really sad is how scared she is to go to a psychiatrist or counselor a new one because they are so even sometimes more judgmental than the general public they either don't care about you and they're just cramming different medications to try them out on people down your throat or they just want to give you medication and counseling is the biggest thing that all these people need with mental health issues need. these drs just want to give you medication and not actually help people to change their thought patterns and be there support system. Thank you for having compassion it's a rare and beautiful thing to see
Sorry for all those lives lost, God bless you all. Great documentary highlighting perceptions on mental health and how we deal with it.
“i want the old chris back” my heart is broken. the amount of times i’ve heard that phrase is too much to count. he can’t control it. my heart breaks for chris💔
This upsets me so bad. I cried alot.
I wish the health care in America wasn't as expensive..
These people just need help.
Yeah it’s really extremely sad and it’s so expensive to get help, even with health insurance it can be almost $1000 per day in a treatment center. Hopefully affordable treatment options will be much more numerous and accessible to everyone who’s struggling and in need of help. It definitely helped me a lot when I needed help, but it took quite awhile to pay the rest of the bills even after my health insurance coverage.
Mhhh
Glad I'm in canada
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the sad thing is... most all people all need help but you have to figure out things yourself inside your head. people can fake mental illness and that presents a problem. but i agree they do need help and it's sad they feel that way but medication.. chances are that will make it worse and dependent on the meds.
sofia lind this is why we have state hospitals to help those that don’t have the money. I’m a psych nurse.
A unit like this should be mandatory in every major city in America! 🙏
No it should be mandatory for EVERY officer to have this training. Less shooting more communication.
@@bear420bear yes
And Australia
Matt McLemore how bout the world not just America
Why stop there? Let units like this be all across the United States even the small towns.
Oooooh, this is good, thank you! I have bi-polar 2, PTSD, adult ADD, and trauma induced anxiety disorder and the last people I want to see are law enforcement officers but I don't always know what's good for me.
That first officer was excellent these programs and training desperately need to be expanded
Agreed. It should be a specialized field, not everyday cops.
They are doing what they are trained to do, murdering beat crippel we are he people.
Police Depts here Florida have them...
this should be a given. you shouldnt have to be trained NOT to shoot people. that being said, i agree with you 100%