For real he brought this on himself. He acting like she the one who gave him a prenup, don't want to have kids with him and has been humilating and embrassing him on public tv. He did all that to her she should be down and depress not him. But she is putting her foot down and not letting him steal her Joy.
Can you imagine what a nightmare he would be to have kids with? I bet he would mansplain every single thing and tell her to blame herself for every discomfort she has
@@lovethyself3989 true but when one plants love and turn it into business transaction in marriage then how do you over come it. That's 2 different things going on, I mean he is the solution but he ain't helping to solve it
I see what Bilal’s doing too. He’s trying to manipulate her by withholding any affection until she completely agrees with him. There’s no compromise with Bilal. Shaeeda’s beautiful, and nice. She can do better.
Yes this guy is a huge buzz kill. It’s only going to get worse with rime when he gets older, uglier, more bitter and can’t use his money to keep himself happy. Smh . In no time he will be looking for his next source of supply to appease his inner demons.
@@lovethyself3989 I wouldn't be with someone like Bilal even for a day. But I get why she is putting up with him. She met him and decided to be with when she was 35. She waited for 2 years. Now she is 37 and she desperately wants kids. She can't start over in another relationship, her biological clock is ticking. I am someone whose major goal is having children (as I grew up basically as an orphan). I can't even imagine being 37 and not have kids, if I were in her shoes, I guess even I would put up with his bs, have children asap and then leave the douche. But seems like Bilal will not have a child with her, he is just dragging the time, it's a miracle if she can even have children now, let alone couple years later.
I really really like Shaeeda and would be honored to have a baby with her so far from what i’ve seen. If it doesn’t work out with him i feel she has nothing to worry about, someone else would be honored to give her the things she wants.
@@crunchyflakepusssuk Who is we? HUGE RED FLAG: Shaeeda was defending Bilal on her social media, claiming that people are unfair to successful black men. She claimed people were branding Bilal a "narcissist", and that what we see is not reality. I therefore think her tears are acting too. I doubt she is better than Bilal's 2 ex wives. My mind just changed about her and she deserves what she gets. She might be a weirdo who enjoys being humiliated. 😔 😟 🤮
A baby from your wife is an honour. I don't know why he wants to have sex with her and use her body but don't want kids with her. Let nature takes its course. A baby will come if they don't prevent it.
I hate him so much. Also, no matter what version of prenup she might sign at this point, it's null-in-void. He never got her her own lawyer, this is documentation of coercion.
He is such a big baby. I don't think he ever considered that being in a relationship involves considering the other person's feelings and compromise. And I wonder how much time he actually spends with his kids
He's such a buzzkill... If things don't go exactly his way, he gets in this #mood and who wants to deal with that on a permanent basis... I know I wouldn't put up with his toddler like ways.
@@adeel-eh7xq Shaeeda play-slapped him in the car. She didn’t use a fist either. That’s my point. I have kids. I know they play. I also have a husband and can see Bilal is poor partner.
@@aschmum even Bilal's "tickling" at the end of Shaaeda's yoga class was pretty disrespectful. Bilal's son did seem to enjoy it, but like, that's not how a yoga class ends, and he seemed to enjoy disrupting that. It seemed to set the tone for the yoga mat hitting afterwards. Then he is so mean afterwards, stuck in his pride, etc, as she tries to put her feelings aside and just reconnect with him and his kids, and move forward. Maybe it's the editing, but Bilal had super low energy all day, then did the high energy tickling at savasana time- that must be unsettling for his kids.
He's an ass. I would feel so lucky and appreciate to have a partner that not only knows how to communicate but is genuine and can help me with yoga. Smh
This guy's attitude literally sucks ..he is a total downer. This entire season of 90 days is full of sad miserable relationships. Where's the passion and excitement for each other? Where's the love? I challenge the TLC producers to find some passionate loving exciting people next season.
as someone who does yoga and meditation myself. she is literally just trying to help him be in the now and forget about all his problems at the moment and she’s just such a ball of positive energy while he is still being negative… i really hope she has a plan to leave. bc she deserves someone so much better.
I love the joy on her face when she brings up a Yoga. He's so negative. I don't care how much money you got, you can't buy positivity. I could not marry that man. The kids seemed to have enjoyed it. Bilal: "Sign the prenup it's important to me"! Shaeeda: "I want something in there for a baby by 40, that's important to me"! Bilal: It's, not that important you're stressing me out".
What people like Bilal does not get… Is that a stress themselves out and everyone around them because they have such high expectations of everyone around them but none of themselves. I live with a monster for four years that is exactly like that and it is beyond difficult to heal and recover from it. It is not worth it
@@MasterOfBlackJackChannel2 I think with Big Ed you just have to keep a table or some other barrier between you and ignore him when he fake cries. Bilal is just plain infuriating to even watch. He's proving that the only thing he has to offer truly is money but he's not worth putting up with at all.
i was wondering how this lovely independent woman fell in love with him and I came to the conclusion that he was the total opposite of who he was when he was in Trinidad, Run Shaheeda Run
90DF is losing a lot of viewers lately.. this scripted BS is one of the many reasons.. thanks to MOB, I don't need to waste my time watching the whole episode..
I literally met guy like this in my life and I thought his set of behavior is totally non-replicable and odd but here it is. So bizarre how I tried tactics like Shaeeda to get along with this dude...
Im so over this dude.....this is the one thing she does and loves to do...the problems he talks about like prenup and baby talk are issues where he is the main issue🤦🏻♂️
I like her a lot, she's beautiful, smart and seems so kind and good hearted. I didn't really care for Bilal to much from the jump, he comes off as arrogant n stuck up. He thinks he's bad cuz he has money, a nice car n dope house like bruh humble ur self fr SMH Now since she she came to the US n seeing how he treats her makes me not like him even more because she simply doesn't deserve the bs ways he is to her, funniest part is he thinks he looks hella good or something, homie a real small piece of advice there are way more brothas who are way way more finer then u n Shaeeda is out ur mfrin league so might wanna treat her right cuz she's a gorgeous 10 n ur a wannabe eehh...6 n that's me being nice lol 💯🤦♀️🤣🙄 My opinion her n Kobe should be together, they would prob make a bomb couple based off their personalities...
I dont know why you guys are still blaming him for the way he streats ver when really you should be blaming her for accepting to got through such BS. Lets hope she is just riding with him for now (show checks) and will turn up at the end. But from the look of things, she seems to say people online are very harsh with him... owe !
Narcissists brood like that and make other people responsible for their happiness or misery. she feels responsible to make him happy. It's not healthy.
This woman keeps saying she had a good life in Trinidad. It’s unbelievable how she so much wants to be with Bilal. I would think she has other intentions and is just playing her cards right. This is not normal for someone who says they were well established. We never saw that yoga studio she keeps saying she had. Where is it🤷🏽♀️😳🤦🏾♀️
No yoga studio. It was located at her mom's house in Trini. Bilal is her only way to America on sponsored visa. She is a desperate Trini and it's just transactional for green card. She is a grown woman almost 40. I don't trust her victim narrative. Reminded us of Megan Markle. She will not be truthful about her intention.
Haha Narcissts are some other breed lol...dude you need Therapy....this lady is REAL TALK and narcissists hate that..they hate confrontations...he brought up that prenup and he tripping over baby talk lol...weak...he weak as every narcissist is
He is upset that she won't just do as he says. He wants her sign the prenup, listen to his lecures, go to the mosque and whatever else with no question. The narcissist can't handle it when you challenge them.
Even when Shaeeda tries to be positive, Bilal just has to be negative. He’s a real piece of work.
he deserves to be alone
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I really don’t understand this man he loves her very much but the way he treats her
He reminds me of every abusive narcissist I’ve ever known. I’m sorry she’s ignoring his behavior
For real he brought this on himself. He acting like she the one who gave him a prenup, don't want to have kids with him and has been humilating and embrassing him on public tv. He did all that to her she should be down and depress not him. But she is putting her foot down and not letting him steal her Joy.
Hes only sulking because she outsmarted him in the prenup game LOL
Can you imagine what a nightmare he would be to have kids with? I bet he would mansplain every single thing and tell her to blame herself for every discomfort she has
He’s loosing control and is not happy about that 🤣
@@SteveAlexMinecraft33 this guy is a real dictator and I hope sheeda doesn't have a plan ahead of his because he is always grumpy🙄
@@SteveAlexMinecraft33 he needs to let go. Only then can he enjoy life
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He has no reason to treat her the way he does. She's a beautiful and smart lady and that deserves better.
But not until she respects herself, and puts a stop to all his disrespect
@@lovethyself3989 true but when one plants love and turn it into business transaction in marriage then how do you over come it. That's 2 different things going on, I mean he is the solution but he ain't helping to solve it
I see what Bilal’s doing too. He’s trying to manipulate her by withholding any affection until she completely agrees with him. There’s no compromise with Bilal. Shaeeda’s beautiful, and nice. She can do better.
Classic narcissist withhold affection, tantrum to keep control, whenever she is happy he will try to bring her down
Yep thats called abuse
He already slept with her, he does not like her, he is in love with his ex wife
@@asgharakram And she is a doormat, and has no respect for herself
You better speak a word 😳😳😳
Who the fuck wants to continuously play mental gymnastics?! He is soooo passive aggressive and difficult! Very toxic and exhausting!
Yes this guy is a huge buzz kill. It’s only going to get worse with rime when he gets older, uglier, more bitter and can’t use his money to keep himself happy. Smh . In no time he will be looking for his next source of supply to appease his inner demons.
It's to the point of him being aggressive. It's not passive
Mental Gymnastics... SUPER HEAD ACHE.
“You stress me out” 🤢 why cause she wants a kid and you won’t tell her straight up what you want
Who would want a kid with someone that has no respect for you? How unintelligent this woman is ? He treats her badly , I’m embarrassed for her😳😳😳
tbh hé is telling herand treating her like someone who doesn't care. She should not beg like she does...
@@lovethyself3989 I wouldn't be with someone like Bilal even for a day. But I get why she is putting up with him. She met him and decided to be with when she was 35. She waited for 2 years. Now she is 37 and she desperately wants kids. She can't start over in another relationship, her biological clock is ticking. I am someone whose major goal is having children (as I grew up basically as an orphan). I can't even imagine being 37 and not have kids, if I were in her shoes, I guess even I would put up with his bs, have children asap and then leave the douche. But seems like Bilal will not have a child with her, he is just dragging the time, it's a miracle if she can even have children now, let alone couple years later.
Shaeeda is such a sweetheart, she does try really hard to be positive in a negative situation.
Bilal is just sulky because she isn't going along with his narccisstic program. He wants someone he can control, not a woman who is her own person.
he is literally the worst everything he’s done on the show has made me so irritated for her, i don’t know why she’s trying to make it work so hard
Because she wants a child before 40 years old. She feel stressed.
Right! He’s so annoying like he wants to push her away n sabotage this relationship! I could tell he was so full of himself from the beginning!
She needs child. She needs money.
Seriously he's so annoying
She wants 💰 🤑
He’s such a joy killer just relax enjoy the present moment smile ❤️🌞😁
For real though
I really really like Shaeeda and would be honored to have a baby with her so far from what i’ve seen. If it doesn’t work out with him i feel she has nothing to worry about, someone else would be honored to give her the things she wants.
I agree. She will get swooped up after this relationship fails, we are all rooting for her!
Yes but because she wants a child before 40 years old. She feel stressed.
@@crunchyflakepusssuk Who is we? HUGE RED FLAG: Shaeeda was defending Bilal on her social media, claiming that people are unfair to successful black men. She claimed people were branding Bilal a "narcissist", and that what we see is not reality. I therefore think her tears are acting too. I doubt she is better than Bilal's 2 ex wives. My mind just changed about her and she deserves what she gets.
She might be a weirdo who enjoys being humiliated. 😔 😟 🤮
A baby from your wife is an honour. I don't know why he wants to have sex with her and use her body but don't want kids with her. Let nature takes its course. A baby will come if they don't prevent it.
i want to have a baby with her and im a straight female lol she deserves better
He is an abusive man. Very much so. Emotionally, mentally and verbally abusive. This women will be a shell of herself if she doesn't get away from him
It’s honestly so sad, we’re basically just watching a man tear down a woman and her confidence until, as you say, she is a shell of who she once was
Girl! Please do not settle for less!
He does not treat you “at least okay”!
Is he just playing up for the cameras or is he really that big of a perpetual buzz kill?
Definitely buzzkill naturally
Could also be editing and producer led behavior and questions.
I hate him so much. Also, no matter what version of prenup she might sign at this point, it's null-in-void. He never got her her own lawyer, this is documentation of coercion.
Me too
Same he and his ex wife need to be together
It was so sad to see her smiling with her yoga mat. Please leave this man
He is such a big baby. I don't think he ever considered that being in a relationship involves considering the other person's feelings and compromise. And I wonder how much time he actually spends with his kids
That’s a valid point. A big spoiled baby
This guy acts a little like Jesse.
naw, the little dictator was way more explosive
Omg. That's it.
The little dictator lmao 🤣
He's such a buzzkill... If things don't go exactly his way, he gets in this #mood and who wants to deal with that on a permanent basis... I know I wouldn't put up with his toddler like ways.
She brightened my day even , look how happy she looked when she whipped out her stash of yoga mats
Some men can’t be happy with an amazing woman, Bc it makes them feel less
Yes this is the situation here
If one wants kids and one doesn't, it'll never work.
Yeah but maybe he just says so for the show. They need a storyline that keeps them revelant.
Interesting how he didn’t scold his children for hitting each other.
I really enjoy Shaeeda. I wish the best for her.
Yes, good catch there. Bilal seems to only serious about hitting if it's Shae doing it to him.
They were play-fighting with rubber mats. Children often do that with toy swords and etc. Now if they were fists.....
@@adeel-eh7xq Shaeeda play-slapped him in the car. She didn’t use a fist either. That’s my point.
I have kids. I know they play. I also have a husband and can see Bilal is poor partner.
@@aschmum Okay, yes, in that context it makes sense.
@@aschmum even Bilal's "tickling" at the end of Shaaeda's yoga class was pretty disrespectful. Bilal's son did seem to enjoy it, but like, that's not how a yoga class ends, and he seemed to enjoy disrupting that. It seemed to set the tone for the yoga mat hitting afterwards. Then he is so mean afterwards, stuck in his pride, etc, as she tries to put her feelings aside and just reconnect with him and his kids, and move forward. Maybe it's the editing, but Bilal had super low energy all day, then did the high energy tickling at savasana time- that must be unsettling for his kids.
If Shaeeda marries Bilal, she’ll definitely gain a child in her life. Lol.
He's just upset because she has standards 🙄
He’s a narcissistic jerk. He just wants to control her and is angry that she stood up for herself with the baby clause in his prenup lol 🤣💜💯🎉
Why is he acting like a jerk?
When he isnt ?
Because he’s not getting his way. He wants her to sign the prenup and ask no questions
Why do women think its okay to settle and allow themselves be treated like this….there’s so many other good dudes who wish they had a chance with her
Trying to think of a time when I’ve seen this man actually genuinely happy
She deserves better
Is there something this guy wont criticize/micromanage?
He's an ass. I would feel so lucky and appreciate to have a partner that not only knows how to communicate but is genuine and can help me with yoga. Smh
This guy's attitude literally sucks ..he is a total downer. This entire season of 90 days is full of sad miserable relationships. Where's the passion and excitement for each other? Where's the love? I challenge the TLC producers to find some passionate loving exciting people next season.
It is beautiful how passionate she is about yoga and the way that her face lights up when she teaches yoga. 🧘♀️
She deserves so much better
Years of dealing with a narcissistic man I can absolutely tell he is trying to push her away.
“Can’t we just kiss and make up?!” That was awesome 😎 You could tell she was tired of his little mood and such. 😂
Shaeeda needs to leave already. This man doesn't care for her. I do not like him at all. I doesn't know what love is.
I really really really really really really don’t like him
It’s just isn’t the same without Homestay Dad Andrei or Mack Daddy Colt
as someone who does yoga and meditation myself. she is literally just trying to help him be in the now and forget about all his problems at the moment and she’s just such a ball of positive energy while he is still being negative… i really hope she has a plan to leave. bc she deserves someone so much better.
This guys is like the Kanye West of 90 day fiancé. He makes every moment so inconvenient lol
I really like her, she’s so positive. But he’s her literal opposite. Bilal seems like such a miserable person to be around
seems...nah sis he is absolutely terrible
Bilal is upset that Shaeeda isn't a pushover. She is a strong, beautiful, intelligent woman that knows her worth and I respect that.
I love the joy on her face when she brings up a Yoga. He's so negative. I don't care how much money you got, you can't buy positivity. I could not marry that man. The kids seemed to have enjoyed it.
Bilal: "Sign the prenup it's important to me"!
Shaeeda: "I want something in there for a baby by 40, that's important to me"!
Bilal: It's, not that important you're stressing me out".
What people like Bilal does not get… Is that a stress themselves out and everyone around them because they have such high expectations of everyone around them but none of themselves. I live with a monster for four years that is exactly like that and it is beyond difficult to heal and recover from it. It is not worth it
He’s trying to sulk his way into her complying with what he wants, bleh, awful man, ugh. 😖
This guy is patronizing without even saying a word!
I could never be with a man that treats me so poorly. I feel bad for her, he’s disgusting,
I can’t believe I’m saying this, but I’d rather hang out with big Ed than bilal!
Whoa! Lets not all start losing our minds. No matter what people think about Bilal, he's WAY better than Ed - come on now
@@MasterOfBlackJackChannel2 I think with Big Ed you just have to keep a table or some other barrier between you and ignore him when he fake cries. Bilal is just plain infuriating to even watch. He's proving that the only thing he has to offer truly is money but he's not worth putting up with at all.
Me too 🤣😂😂
She is like no matter what I need my green card lol
Bilal is her only way to green card
It’s her smiling while he says she stresses him out 💔🤔
i was wondering how this lovely independent woman fell in love with him and I came to the conclusion that he was the total opposite of who he was when he was in Trinidad, Run Shaheeda Run
90DF is losing a lot of viewers lately.. this scripted BS is one of the many reasons.. thanks to MOB, I don't need to waste my time watching the whole episode..
I literally met guy like this in my life and I thought his set of behavior is totally non-replicable and odd but here it is. So bizarre how I tried tactics like Shaeeda to get along with this dude...
This guy is a real piece of work😂😂😂😂🙌🙌🙌l cant deal
Im so over this dude.....this is the one thing she does and loves to do...the problems he talks about like prenup and baby talk are issues where he is the main issue🤦🏻♂️
The relationship is icy cold
Run 🏃♂️ Shaeeda 🏃♂️
Bilal makes such a big deal of things he can easily talk about .
I like her a lot, she's beautiful, smart and seems so kind and good hearted.
I didn't really care for Bilal to much from the jump, he comes off as arrogant n stuck up.
He thinks he's bad cuz he has money, a nice car n dope house like bruh humble ur self fr SMH
Now since she she came to the US n seeing how he treats her makes me not like him even more because she simply doesn't deserve the bs ways he is to her, funniest part is he thinks he looks hella good or something, homie a real small piece of advice there are way more brothas who are way way more finer then u n Shaeeda is out ur mfrin league so might wanna treat her right cuz she's a gorgeous 10 n ur a wannabe eehh...6 n that's me being nice lol
💯🤦♀️🤣🙄
My opinion her n Kobe should be together, they would prob make a bomb couple based off their personalities...
Omg her and Kobe would be amazing, but can you imagine Bilal and Emily together?!💀
@@anyanorrie2556 right!? Lmfao omg he would left Emily on the side of the freeway a long time ago lol 😆
It will never work with Kobe for 2 reasons (1) He’s not a Muslim (2) He’s “broke” 😜
This is painful to watch seeing such a good person go through this. Shaheedah you are deserving of so much more.
He’s so mad about that prenup 😂😂
Does he not like her or something? If I were her, I would just ask.
Soooooooooooo over Bilal. I would NEVER say yes to this situation. Life is too precious to voluntarily endure daily drama this way.
I dont know why you guys are still blaming him for the way he streats ver when really you should be blaming her for accepting to got through such BS. Lets hope she is just riding with him for now (show checks) and will turn up at the end. But from the look of things, she seems to say people online are very harsh with him... owe !
Why whyyyyy whhhhhhyyyy🥺 why she still with him likeeeee oh my god she is beautiful inside out she deserves sooooo much better
"Did I have my man back"??
"You never not had him"
Is that what he said???
OMG
She's trying so hard and he hasn't given even 25%
She is amazing. He’s doesn’t deserve her
Narcissists brood like that and make other people responsible for their happiness or misery. she feels responsible to make him happy. It's not healthy.
Pls can anyone tell me if she got hair under that scarf on her head? Im so confused
..sha looks amazing everytime... forget him set up your yoga studio ..do something online because he needs deliverance lol
This woman keeps saying she had a good life in Trinidad. It’s unbelievable how she so much wants to be with Bilal. I would think she has other intentions and is just playing her cards right. This is not normal for someone who says they were well established. We never saw that yoga studio she keeps saying she had. Where is it🤷🏽♀️😳🤦🏾♀️
No yoga studio. It was located at her mom's house in Trini. Bilal is her only way to America on sponsored visa.
She is a desperate Trini and it's just transactional for green card.
She is a grown woman almost 40.
I don't trust her victim narrative. Reminded us of Megan Markle. She will not be truthful about her intention.
He is something else. Just enjoy
he’s so annoying
I still can’t believe she’s in her late 30s and her flexibility is lovely. So many goals my sister.
Bilal ... THERAPY. Shaheeda... RUN! FAR AWAY
She’s waaaaayyyy toooo good for him.
Ugh run Shaeeda!! 🏃♀️
Girl, run!!!
Bilal doesn’t even have the looks to back himself up, it’s crazy to me how he even pulled, let alone still has her 🤦🏾♀️
At this point I strongly believe it's more about the show and not the relationship. Because what???
She feels so miserable there
He is so f n miserable…he loves himself
Oh God...HE IS IMPOSSIBLE TO LOVE!
No one is impossible to love. Especially for God.
Haha Narcissts are some other breed lol...dude you need Therapy....this lady is REAL TALK and narcissists hate that..they hate confrontations...he brought up that prenup and he tripping over baby talk lol...weak...he weak as every narcissist is
How are u so sure u will get children? Why do want to have children so bad with this 👨 ma
This is what Homer Simpson would look like with money.
Of course you guys are going to argue she knows that she has some rights
She deserves so much better.
He is such an overgrown baby. Grow up Bilal.
Definitely sulky yoga 😂😂😂
"When you stress me out" 😒
He is upset that she won't just do as he says. He wants her sign the prenup, listen to his lecures, go to the mosque and whatever else with no question. The narcissist can't handle it when you challenge them.
This is him trying to guilt trip. He finally met a woman he cant walk all over 🤣😂💜
I like the squirrel.🐿
Run girl run
Clearly love is blind or she would've gone back to Trinidad already.
Bilal is her green card
All issues of his own making, but probably blames her