Not surprised at the confusion. They are LITERALLY 2 times the same kind of woman. They don't raise their voices but you could cut slices off the passive aggressiveness in the air it's so thick 🤣
He is trying to intimidate her , make her despareate until she bows down to him in humility... That is because he have more money 💰. But in the Day of Judgement, money won't avail him against the Almighty.
@@adrianabonitaaziz Coudn't agree more sis. How are you playing a practicing muslim man yet using none islamic tactic to abuse people around you. Strange dude
He definitely set up the meeting between Shaeeda and Shadidah hoping that will convince her that the prenup is about the kids having a secured future but instead it definitely came off as confrontational and was not the ex wife’s place to have that talk. Bilal and ex are so narcissistic and weird just get back together lol
They tag teamed her. Bilal is manipulative and doesn’t have Shaeeda’s back in any way. But Shaeeda is extremely intelligent and aware based on her individual interviews. It’s sad to see that she’s not able to be herself at all. When she approaches him and he fails to respond appropriately, she is extremely measured and reserved because she recognizes he’s not an ally. I’m convinced Shaeeda is playing chess. She’s sacrificing significant parts of herself and her life to get married. It makes me think she Bilal is creating the situation he fears. She’s going to leave him once she has something to show for being treated so badly. She’s going to show Bilal who the real puppet master was all along. Her awareness and self control allows her to see him, tolerate him, and move forward despite his shenanigans. I’m predicting she leaves him after the American citizenship, children, and spousal support.
She needs to have a lawyer review and revise the prenup, don't let him get over on you. I bet you if she waited a while and used more wisdom, she could find a good husband that would value/ be considerate of her.
I don’t think this guy is worth it. Why is he getting remarried if he is so selfish ? He should want to take care of you. he’s not saying ours and us , it’s all mine me etc .
@@dannyg1k75 That's why I said she should use wisdom as money doesn't equal joy/happiness. I can't see his treating her with honor and respect🤷🏽♀️ Prayerfully he's alot different in real life.
@@linat5671 This is not what a marriage has to be. Perpetuating this in the media is the reason why divorce rates are high in the U.S. Everyone is always focused on planning for the divorce than fighting and building a healthy marriage.
Bilal didn’t even introduce the ex and Shaeeda right? Yet the ex wife is questioning Shaeeda on her intentions like they’re the ones about to be married? He definitely set this up because he’s got no backbone
We’ve sat through 13 episodes already. The only thing these two have to talk about- prenup and babies. She hasn’t even read the prenup, and he won’t answer the baby question. And the other couples- same thing every week- interfering parents ( or brother) pregnancy scares, wanting to live somewhere totally different, is he/she just after a green card. Come on TLC, come up with some new angles, find couples who actually seem to like each other. Oh and the constant whining about the non- American not contributing financially- they are bringing in plenty from TLC, so their partners should give them a break! Rant over, lol!
The best one is Love in Paradise 90day but the Caribbean version. Aside from one couple the others seem to use their brains and not cling on wanting to come to America.
Hey!! Every couple needs to bring some drama 🧐……what’s the matter with you😤?The only reason I’m season 9 is because Shaeeda is from my country and also I’m a little familiar on how the K1 visa works
@@dotishboy I totally agree, every couple needs to bring drama, but this season they’ve been dragging out the storylines and frankly it’s boring. 13 episodes and Bilal still hasn’t answered her baby question? How many weeks have they been arguing about the prenup- and she only actually sees it by episode 13. I have nothing against Shaeeda, she is classy and elegant. But if you want drama, check out Jasmine and Gino- funny, unpredictable and weird.
Why did they not discuss the prenup issue before she came to US?! She would have had enough time to think about it in a safe environment for her and it have been easier to analize it. Now dealing with so many new people and all their expectations is just more stressful
He wanted to blindside her… best way to do that is on his turf, where he’s comfortably surrounded by family. She’s got no way to earn money in the states… nor does she have support outside of him
No wrong he did bring it up in Trinidad but just didn’t harp on it as she wasn’t keen and he didn’t have the nerve to discuss it with her support so he dropped it… he’s very sneaky
A prenup can be written in a fair way by a mediator who has both parties in mind. They are responsible to make sure both parties are taken care of in the case of a divorce. Something that takes into consideration time and if Shaeeda is taking care of the home and children it is not looked at as if he is supporting her but looks at the contribution she is making. I believe everyone should have these agreements made before even moving in with each other.
Notice how he's never on her side... From jump, dude is always about himself. And that's how he was and will be (and the ex wife is exactly the same and chick needs to mind her own business as he takes care of his kids) and they are probably married now... Good luck Shee, not envious of you chica... Not at all but good luck with managing a man child.
And this ladies and gentlemen this is what TRIANGULATION looks like. This is a key tactic that narcissist use, in order to control the other person by making them jealous or insecure of the ex. While simultaneously telling the ex things to make them jealous of the new person. It's a trap! RUN! 🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️
I believe Bilal knew his ex was going to speak to Shaeeda about the prenup because he's obsessed with getting the paperwork signed and is a sneaky shite. Immediately he went to the prenup and dismissed her feelings. Sneaky, sneaky.
Not necessary! My husband has 3 beautiful children from his previous marriage. I love and respect each one of them and they love me too. The oldest is my best friend 💖💕💕
@@Chaintra that's nice. But that's actually not how it goes. I have a step daughter. We respect eachother. That's it. And that's ok. Stop the step mom guilt
This woman is giving up her studio / business, her family, her life etc. to be with this guy and he’s worried about himself / a prenup. He’s not compromising on anything. She’s the one doing all the compromising. Instead of setting up a mutually beneficial agreement WITH HER, he set one up alone (probably in his best interest) and expects her to fall in line. It’s incredibly sad watching their scenes. She deserves so much better. This woman is too beautiful, graceful and classy for him. Bilal and his ex deserve each other.
Someone has to make a song called "Saheeda, Shahidah". It would go something like this: "Saheeda, Shahidah, Saheeda, Shahidah, Saheeda, Shahidah, oh yah!, Saheeda, Shahidah, Saheeda, Shahidah, oh yah!, Saheeda, Shahidah, ah, Saheeda, Shahidah..."
When she say! She came to my house, she did not say,she came to our house or our home. If you read between the lines you can tell that she is not the one for you
Shaeeda is right it’s not the ex wife her place to confront shaeeda about this question She can talk about it with Bilal about it it is his responsibility to make sure that the belongings of the kids are save But she has to let Bilal handel the situation with his fiancée himself Financiële I hope he give her the change to save her own money He talks about his the belongings of his kids but if they got all what’s left for the child he has with shaheeda? I hope she don’t forget to put it in her agreement
I don't understand. You were successful in Trinidad, where are your savings? Where is what you build? Why would the prenup be an issue if you didn't do anything for him to have what he has? I believe, a prenup is needed. I would sign it, knowing that I didn't marry for security, but for love.
@@venecapop2548 if you're as successful as you say you are, you don't need to use marriage for security. It seems like she just wants to be pretty that's all. She doesn't even want to clean her own mess. His character is dirty, but she's a whole liability herself.
@@venecapop2548 you just proved the point Bilal is trying to make. He doesn’t want to go into the marriage blindly aka stupidity. He is trying to protect himself.
Nah she came off way too passive aggressive. There was no need for it. She could have made her point without the nasty attitude she had. Lol, she probably thought the new girl was a passive little punk she could run all over. Glad she stood her ground.
Atomix Well she need to take that up with her ex husband not the sheeda. Bilal is gonna marry a new woman and some of his money with go yo the new woman too. As long as her children are taken care of, how Bilal wanna spend his money is none of her concern anymore, she is not his woman anymore.
Bilals? ex wife came for Shaeeada without knowing ANYTHING ABOUT HER!!! Bilal has let his family and friends assume the worse of beautiful POWERFUL!!! SHAEEADA!!! Not only will the ex wife will be awakened to his bullshit to this BEAUTIFUL AND CLEARLY POWERFUL BEIN?! BUT SO WILL THOSE WHO PUT HIM ON AN IMAGINARY Pedestal?! SHAEEADA has no business wastin her value and efforts on a man such as him!!!
You already know he sent her he’s just disrespectful and she’s foolish to stay I wouldn’t deal with anybody that acts like him is no respect here at all😡😡🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️ And as far as his prenup goes he had a conversation with her about it that’s why she brought it up… he’s garbage all the way around.😡😡
That's what happened when you marry someone with kids. The ex wife is not going anywhere. She will have to deal with her as long she is married to him.
He sent his ex as a bulldog to close the deal. He has taken any ounce of romance in marriage. I agree the children need to be financially protected but their is a more civilized way to do this.
Nothing was said in that conversation. You were both just challenging each other in a quiet cat fight. You could have had a much more grown up conversation with a much better outcome. All 3 of you should go and sit with an legal counselor to draw up a prenup that can be acceptable for all parties. These are just 3 narcissist trying to get their way. I'm not surprised Bilal attracts these kind of women, any normal girl would run for the hills after 1 hour of his less than subtle gaslighting
Shaheeda is money hungry Bilal is right for wanting a prenup. If she isn't after the money why is it an issue to sign it. Shaidah should not have discussed it with her it is not her buisness. She does have the right to talk to her though this woman will be around her children and has already started being pushy trying to make them call her mom. Shaheeda bothers me she wants his life style not him and telling his kids to call her mom and not respecting their feelings is a red flag. He needs a prenup I would not put it past Shaheeda to take everything if they split up.
You only take marital assets. Assets owned prior marriage and inheritance do not get split in 2. Also Bilal can set up a trust for each of his kid now to protect them as well. It can be done in a more classy way. Surely, the ex has no rights to pressure Shaheeda to sign a prenup ..the ex should talk to Bilal about her concern re protecting the kids ..
You must listen to Shaeeda's financial background in Trinidad to understand her cunning and sneaky gold-digging manipulation. On TLC, she doesn't pay any bills living in Bilal's home and she is penniless being unemployed in USA. From Trini, she brought her luggages seeing if she had any assets she definitely shared her financial achievement being an old woman almost 40. Now, she is pushing Bilal's for her fertility expertise seeing her body really infertile because she cannot afford seeing gynaes before her geriatric pregnancy age. She is the first Muslimaa being successful at yoga instructor but failed to invest in her reproductive health treatment. Almost 40 , she can afford fertility service on Bilal's payroll which is late unlike women started their treatment during 30's. She is desperate more than ever and forceful to get her way
He might as well go back to his ex wife. I get it they have kids together but ex wife is way too involved in money decisions. They are straight up ganging up on this poor girl. I would’ve been like peace out go find another sucker for your 3some.
it not your house .u should doing things by getting a job to help .he have childern before ..u just come in his life u must ..try to understand .put yourself in the situition .sign have some thing for u and new man .make want to married u for u
Your ex came to the house politely express her thoughts in a very nice manner that was no bully from her part what so ever. You can take this to the bank
another power play set up by Bilal. He has so many tells if you watch him. The way he got uncomfortable and started moving around when she first started the conversation. He shouldn't even be talking about a prenup with his ex. I'm sure she gets child support and everything else. This is something shaeeda is going to HAVE to deal with. She was successful before she met him. Now she HAS to rely on him until she gets her papers. There's no way she wanted him for his money because he lied about everything and had been acting poor so... gtfoh with all that.
He and the ex got married in 2004. That was 18 years ago and Bilal was 25. It’s likely Shahidah didn’t sign a prenup because Bilal didn’t have anything at that age.
AGAIN that narcissistic bilal - everytime she tells him something is bothering her and how his ex wife spoke nasty to her, he doesn't even defend or support his future wife!! He just basically saying yeah , OK. He is supposed to be on HER side not his EX! I just can't with him . So narcissistic, manipulative , condescending ass***
I love how confident and self aware Shaeeda is. She’s way too mature to be dealing with people like Bilal and his ex wife.
You mean Shaeedah? Lol
It’s Shaeda.. shaheeda is his ex wife lol
Not surprised at the confusion. They are LITERALLY 2 times the same kind of woman. They don't raise their voices but you could cut slices off the passive aggressiveness in the air it's so thick 🤣
Lol just because a man wants a Pre Nup😂😂😂😂
@@honeybeesmakegravy It's Shaeeda, Shahida is his ex wife.
Ewww you can tell he knows he sent his ex he isn’t even surprised that’s how you know.
Exactly. The Ex wife only knows what Bilal told her🙄.
He is trying to intimidate her , make her despareate until she bows down to him in humility... That is because he have more money 💰. But in the Day of Judgement, money won't avail him against the Almighty.
@@adrianabonitaaziz agree.
@@ajamma8139 He should not forget about that . It's dangerous game. If you say you believe , Allah wil test you.
@@adrianabonitaaziz Coudn't agree more sis. How are you playing a practicing muslim man yet using none islamic tactic to abuse people around you. Strange dude
Duh, he sent his ex over there to close the deal... his reaction is telling... 👀
Agreed !
And yet again it didn't work out the way he planned it.... He should stop trying to play mind games, he sucks at it big time! 🤬
Absolutely he sent her over, his response is so sarcastic
Good for him ship her ass backt to the island she thinking she is going to undermine whole family business and franchise with no experience or 401k
Exactly he knew what she did was ok with it.
He definitely set up the meeting between Shaeeda and Shadidah hoping that will convince her that the prenup is about the kids having a secured future but instead it definitely came off as confrontational and was not the ex wife’s place to have that talk. Bilal and ex are so narcissistic and weird just get back together lol
2 narcissists would kill each other
And both women have similar names lol
I was thinking the same thing. I wonder why they broke up in the first place
@martini stirred prenupe needs to be written for sure.
Ex wie has right.
He needs to be careful
It’s like a tradition whenever they do “sweet” or “romantic” things, something will ruin that event.
That seems to be a pattern
Well, his very presence guarantees any moment will be ruined.
@@XSemperIdem5 whaaaat? But he gets called ‘Mr Romance’. That can’t be right….?
Something = Bilal
I am trying to figure out what sect they belong ... This things are all against the Holy Quran 😳.. I am worried 😟
They tag teamed her. Bilal is manipulative and doesn’t have Shaeeda’s back in any way. But Shaeeda is extremely intelligent and aware based on her individual interviews. It’s sad to see that she’s not able to be herself at all. When she approaches him and he fails to respond appropriately, she is extremely measured and reserved because she recognizes he’s not an ally. I’m convinced Shaeeda is playing chess. She’s sacrificing significant parts of herself and her life to get married. It makes me think she Bilal is creating the situation he fears. She’s going to leave him once she has something to show for being treated so badly. She’s going to show Bilal who the real puppet master was all along. Her awareness and self control allows her to see him, tolerate him, and move forward despite his shenanigans. I’m predicting she leaves him after the American citizenship, children, and spousal support.
One can only hope
Sid you wrote an entire fanfic about that woman lol
Hopefully no kids with that man
If it even gets to that point
If it was a conversation for the two of them, how did his ex find out? 🤔🙄
Ohhhhhhh snap!!!
Exactly!!!!!!
The whole world knows caus it’s on TLC 😅
@@outjee do you know that they air this not in real time?
She needs to have a lawyer review and revise the prenup, don't let him get over on you. I bet you if she waited a while and used more wisdom, she could find a good husband that would value/ be considerate of her.
She could more than likely find a better man, but not one with the bank account she wants 🤢
I don’t think this guy is worth it. Why is he getting remarried if he is so selfish ? He should want to take care of you. he’s not saying ours and us , it’s all mine me etc .
The prenup is an insurance for men so they don’t get screwed over like many others have 👀
@@dannyg1k75 That's why I said she should use wisdom as money doesn't equal joy/happiness. I can't see his treating her with honor and respect🤷🏽♀️ Prayerfully he's alot different in real life.
@@melissat3341 EXACTLY, but she'll stay it might take her years before she realizes that he not going to change. 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
Tell me, humans. Is this what falling in love and getting married looks like?
Theoretically not 😂😂😂, but seems like a TLC 90 day standard
😂😂😂
@@linat5671 This is not what a marriage has to be. Perpetuating this in the media is the reason why divorce rates are high in the U.S. Everyone is always focused on planning for the divorce than fighting and building a healthy marriage.
I hope not
I'm thinking just like you
She also is looking to have children with him so she too needs to protect her future children. Like girl gtfoh and mind your nosey business. UGH
He doesn't want to have any with her. That's why he fell out of love with the 2nd wife
@@rihannahaiti5570 ex wife left him, not the other way around.
Bilal didn’t even introduce the ex and Shaeeda right? Yet the ex wife is questioning Shaeeda on her intentions like they’re the ones about to be married? He definitely set this up because he’s got no backbone
We’ve sat through 13 episodes already. The only thing these two have to talk about- prenup and babies. She hasn’t even read the prenup, and he won’t answer the baby question.
And the other couples- same thing every week- interfering parents ( or brother) pregnancy scares, wanting to live somewhere totally different, is he/she just after a green card.
Come on TLC, come up with some new angles, find couples who actually seem to like each other. Oh and the constant whining about the non- American not contributing financially- they are bringing in plenty from TLC, so their partners should give them a break! Rant over, lol!
Fr it seems like TLC is casting toxic people deliberately
The best one is Love in Paradise 90day but the Caribbean version. Aside from one couple the others seem to use their brains and not cling on wanting to come to America.
Hey!! Every couple needs to bring some drama 🧐……what’s the matter with you😤?The only reason I’m season 9 is because Shaeeda is from my country and also I’m a little familiar on how the K1 visa works
@@dotishboy I totally agree, every couple needs to bring drama, but this season they’ve been dragging out the storylines and frankly it’s boring. 13 episodes and Bilal still hasn’t answered her baby question? How many weeks have they been arguing about the prenup- and she only actually sees it by episode 13. I have nothing against Shaeeda, she is classy and elegant. But if you want drama, check out Jasmine and Gino- funny, unpredictable and weird.
Why did they not discuss the prenup issue before she came to US?! She would have had enough time to think about it in a safe environment for her and it have been easier to analize it. Now dealing with so many new people and all their expectations is just more stressful
He wanted to blindside her… best way to do that is on his turf, where he’s comfortably surrounded by family. She’s got no way to earn money in the states… nor does she have support outside of him
No wrong he did bring it up in Trinidad but just didn’t harp on it as she wasn’t keen and he didn’t have the nerve to discuss it with her support so he dropped it… he’s very sneaky
He was showing off too much in Trinidad but now that she's on his turf now she's the gold digger
To make sure she is stuck when she comes to the U.S
He did bring it up, she even said that she didn't want kids back then.
A prenup can be written in a fair way by a mediator who has both parties in mind. They are responsible to make sure both parties are taken care of in the case of a divorce. Something that takes into consideration time and if Shaeeda is taking care of the home and children it is not looked at as if he is supporting her but looks at the contribution she is making.
I believe everyone should have these agreements made before even moving in with each other.
Notice how he's never on her side... From jump, dude is always about himself. And that's how he was and will be (and the ex wife is exactly the same and chick needs to mind her own business as he takes care of his kids) and they are probably married now... Good luck Shee, not envious of you chica... Not at all but good luck with managing a man child.
Exactly it’s like she’s looked at as the enemy it’s pretty disturbing in triggering to watch every episode like this
Shaeeda must really want to be in the US because at 37, dealing with Bilal and all his drama would be a no for me dang 🙅🏾♀️
Money and better advantage in life will have you doing back flips she would have been better off getting her own visa
And this ladies and gentlemen this is what TRIANGULATION looks like. This is a key tactic that narcissist use, in order to control the other person by making them jealous or insecure of the ex. While simultaneously telling the ex things to make them jealous of the new person. It's a trap! RUN! 🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️
Exactly
She has to use the gry rock method.
@@deelaljee7138 in this case, she should just cut her losses. It's not going to get better
I believe Bilal knew his ex was going to speak to Shaeeda about the prenup because he's obsessed with getting the paperwork signed and is a sneaky shite. Immediately he went to the prenup and dismissed her feelings. Sneaky, sneaky.
And he talked to the ex wife
Wow their names are really close
When I saw it my damn head was spinning 🙄. I would get out of there so fast. It's too much.
Leave girl Leave!!!!!!
He's showing you that he obviously dgaf about you🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
A man who has been married and has children is just headache. 🤕 they have to much baggage
Unfortunately yeah & with Bilal he’s just a hot mess
Agreed! If you're child free , marry a child free guy ! These dudes are too much heartache
Slim chance of his third marriage lasting.
Not necessary! My husband has 3 beautiful children from his previous marriage. I love and respect each one of them and they love me too. The oldest is my best friend 💖💕💕
@@Chaintra that's nice. But that's actually not how it goes. I have a step daughter. We respect eachother. That's it. And that's ok. Stop the step mom guilt
Wake up Shaeeda, he's more concerned about his asset's then marriage
She is such a strong woman. I admire her so much.
The master serving it again. Please post more
This woman is giving up her studio / business, her family, her life etc. to be with this guy and he’s worried about himself / a prenup. He’s not compromising on anything. She’s the one doing all the compromising. Instead of setting up a mutually beneficial agreement WITH HER, he set one up alone (probably in his best interest) and expects her to fall in line. It’s incredibly sad watching their scenes. She deserves so much better. This woman is too beautiful, graceful and classy for him. Bilal and his ex deserve each other.
She's not giving up anything, America is most people's dream
@@rihannahaiti5570 this will be an American nightmare!!!!
@@rihannahaiti5570 lol I think that’s what Americans think
Someone has to make a song called "Saheeda, Shahidah". It would go something like this: "Saheeda, Shahidah, Saheeda, Shahidah, Saheeda, Shahidah, oh yah!, Saheeda, Shahidah, Saheeda, Shahidah, oh yah!, Saheeda, Shahidah, ah, Saheeda, Shahidah..."
I could listen to her talk all day.
She was looking for support for how this crazy woman talked to her and he switched it to his agenda
When she say! She came to my house, she did not say,she came to our house or our home. If you read between the lines you can tell that she is not the one for you
His fault for that having creppy ass relation with his ex. Does TLC require them to have an entanglement with an ex?
He’s always turning things on her.. RUN GIRL RUN 🏃🏾♀️
Right
Shaeeda is right it’s not the ex wife her place to confront shaeeda about this question
She can talk about it with Bilal about it
it is his responsibility to make sure that the belongings of the kids are save
But she has to let Bilal handel the situation with his fiancée himself
Financiële I hope he give her the change to save her own money
He talks about his the belongings of his kids
but if they got all what’s left for the child he has with shaheeda?
I hope she don’t forget to put it in her agreement
They CAN have a good relationship, but his ex needs to know her place and if she's so close and trusts her ex so much why is she going to your Fiancée
He knew exactly what his ex was up too. Girl runnnnnnn
It’s him trying to act like he has no clue lol
I don't understand. You were successful in Trinidad, where are your savings? Where is what you build? Why would the prenup be an issue if you didn't do anything for him to have what he has?
I believe, a prenup is needed. I would sign it, knowing that I didn't marry for security, but for love.
Marriage is security! Don't manipulatie the word love with stupidity
@@venecapop2548 if you're as successful as you say you are, you don't need to use marriage for security.
It seems like she just wants to be pretty that's all. She doesn't even want to clean her own mess.
His character is dirty, but she's a whole liability herself.
@@privatecarrilho3108 are you married?
@@venecapop2548 no, where I'm from marriage is sacred not for financial purposes
@@venecapop2548 you just proved the point Bilal is trying to make. He doesn’t want to go into the marriage blindly aka stupidity. He is trying to protect himself.
Bilal is happy his ex checked her but he's trying to hide it lol
He doesn't have her back,not even a little bit..
The ex has all the right to make sure the money that belongs with the kids stays with her kids.
Except if she believes that Bilal is a good father than he will take care of the kids. 🤷♀️ and ignoring other options like trust funds.
No, the new wife will be taking care of the kids. So she is deserving as well.
Nah she came off way too passive aggressive. There was no need for it. She could have made her point without the nasty attitude she had. Lol, she probably thought the new girl was a passive little punk she could run all over. Glad she stood her ground.
Atomix Well she need to take that up with her ex husband not the sheeda. Bilal is gonna marry a new woman and some of his money with go yo the new woman too. As long as her children are taken care of, how Bilal wanna spend his money is none of her concern anymore, she is not his woman anymore.
Shae is so graceful and mature. She is unique and any man would be lucky to have her.
Probably the most classy person on 90DF
She’s very intelligent AND she’s beautiful. I wish her self-esteem was better so she could realize she deserves better than this.
Bilals? ex wife came for Shaeeada without knowing ANYTHING ABOUT HER!!! Bilal has let his family and friends assume the worse of beautiful POWERFUL!!! SHAEEADA!!! Not only will the ex wife will be awakened to his bullshit to this BEAUTIFUL AND CLEARLY POWERFUL BEIN?! BUT SO WILL THOSE WHO PUT HIM ON AN IMAGINARY Pedestal?! SHAEEADA has no business wastin her value and efforts on a man such as him!!!
I get her point.
I’m annoyed to Shaheeda
Lol in my house this girl not even married and she think it’s her house and she judged his x …….. this guy sure know how to pick them
WHERE is the chemistry ?? Absent... LOL
Shaeeda and shahidah…. That’s too much for me to comprehend 🤦🏽♀️
You already know he sent her he’s just disrespectful and she’s foolish to stay I wouldn’t deal with anybody that acts like him is no respect here at all😡😡🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️ And as far as his prenup goes he had a conversation with her about it that’s why she brought it up… he’s garbage all the way around.😡😡
Where would she go? Trust if she had paper, they wouldn't be together. They don't even want the same things. You don't even see the love.
@@rihannahaiti5570 home Because what she deserves is not there
The fact that his wives have the same name 😭😭😭😭
similar but different
Similar names that sounds almost the same
Get him sis!
he doesnt take her side... his ex should not have gone there to intimidate
He knows, he sent her to try and intimidate her into signing. This lady needs to run .. fast and let him and his ex get back together.
That's what happened when you marry someone with kids. The ex wife is not going anywhere. She will have to deal with her as long she is married to him.
"Bully me and intimidate me in my OWN HOUSE" lmao. It's not her house at all
It is. Islamicly they are already married. Since they are both muslims the Nikah is more importent then the civil marriage.
He sent her no question about it!!
I really think that he gaslighted his ex ! He must had said something to her for her to be confronting his new soon to be wife !
He sent his ex to intimidate her…so narcissistic
It's clear he sent her. She will regret marrying him very soon.
He sent his ex as a bulldog to close the deal. He has taken any ounce of romance in marriage. I agree the children need to be financially protected but their is a more civilized way to do this.
i mean, we all know she wouldnt be with him if he wasnt as ''wealthy''
I wish she found her true soulmate because clearly this baby and his narc ex are just wrong and destined for each other
Leave him ur to good of a woman for him .. They are plotting against u..
One lady, the momma, already ran. Girl, time for you to run too.
If the prenup is between the two of you... Why'd the ex get involved ?
Nothing was said in that conversation. You were both just challenging each other in a quiet cat fight. You could have had a much more grown up conversation with a much better outcome. All 3 of you should go and sit with an legal counselor to draw up a prenup that can be acceptable for all parties. These are just 3 narcissist trying to get their way. I'm not surprised Bilal attracts these kind of women, any normal girl would run for the hills after 1 hour of his less than subtle gaslighting
SIGN THE DAMN PRE NUP.
Love Shaesda she can handle herself these people messing with her has no idea what she is capable of
She’s too good for him I hate this
Anyone else noticed how chopped together that voice clip at the end was? I’m not sure its all even from the same day.
What about her as his wife, and any children they have together? Bilal, I can't imagine how she feels.
He wants ALL the control.
I can't wait for her to come back with a revised pre-nup he is not ready
I can not emphasize this enough girl! Run forest run
Love is soooooo blind!!! Why is Sheada still with this guy? What does she see in him?
Shaheeda is money hungry Bilal is right for wanting a prenup. If she isn't after the money why is it an issue to sign it. Shaidah should not have discussed it with her it is not her buisness. She does have the right to talk to her though this woman will be around her children and has already started being pushy trying to make them call her mom. Shaheeda bothers me she wants his life style not him and telling his kids to call her mom and not respecting their feelings is a red flag. He needs a prenup I would not put it past Shaheeda to take everything if they split up.
💯!! Finally, someone on the internet who sees past her BS. THANK YOU!!
You only take marital assets. Assets owned prior marriage and inheritance do not get split in 2. Also Bilal can set up a trust for each of his kid now to protect them as well. It can be done in a more classy way. Surely, the ex has no rights to pressure Shaheeda to sign a prenup ..the ex should talk to Bilal about her concern re protecting the kids ..
You must listen to Shaeeda's financial background in Trinidad to understand her cunning and sneaky gold-digging manipulation. On TLC, she doesn't pay any bills living in Bilal's home and she is penniless being unemployed in USA.
From Trini, she brought her luggages seeing if she had any assets she definitely shared her financial achievement being an old woman almost 40.
Now, she is pushing Bilal's for her fertility expertise seeing her body really infertile because she cannot afford seeing gynaes before her geriatric pregnancy age. She is the first Muslimaa being successful at yoga instructor but failed to invest in her reproductive health treatment.
Almost 40 , she can afford fertility service on Bilal's payroll which is late unlike women started their treatment during 30's. She is desperate more than ever and forceful to get her way
Ummmmm, you brought up the prenup sweetie
Romantic date ruined by bringing up convo with ex wife .. that could have waited 👀
Beloved. Please leave him alone 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
I had a feeling the ex was the one running the show.
I feel Bilal is trying to get back to his ex wife and uses Shaeeda to make her jealous and it seems to work.
My dear lady get out he doesn't deserve you. You are too smart and beautiful for him.
GIRL PLEASE, GET AWAY FROM THIS MAN, 😫😫
Frek hell.
This prenup is out of proportion.
It's not even worth the paper it's on in the uk
He might as well go back to his ex wife. I get it they have kids together but ex wife is way too involved in money decisions. They are straight up ganging up on this poor girl. I would’ve been like peace out go find another sucker for your 3some.
He totally disregarded her feelings dang
Well to be fair Emily you didn't seem happy or excited either.
it not your house .u should doing things by getting a job to help .he have childern before ..u just come in his life u must ..try to understand .put yourself in the situition .sign have some thing for u and new man .make want to married u for u
What prenup did he sign with his ex wife
Your ex came to the house politely express her thoughts in a very nice manner that was no bully from her part what so ever. You can take this to the bank
Can somebody tell him to send her my way, I won’t treat her that way
At this point, I wonder why are those two still together? Bilal wants a prenup and no kids, while Shakira wants a kid and no prenup...
Bilal sent his ex ..simple. He has utmost respect for the mother of his children
another power play set up by Bilal. He has so many tells if you watch him. The way he got uncomfortable and started moving around when she first started the conversation. He shouldn't even be talking about a prenup with his ex. I'm sure she gets child support and everything else. This is something shaeeda is going to HAVE to deal with. She was successful before she met him. Now she HAS to rely on him until she gets her papers. There's no way she wanted him for his money because he lied about everything and had been acting poor so... gtfoh with all that.
he dont care lol
Bilal needs to stick up for her, but he’s not because I’m sure he didn’t mind the additional help pressuring her to sign the prenup…. Lol 😂
Go back to Trinidad,Girl! These people are crass and rude.
He is using his ex to bully and intimidate her, typical narcissistic behaviour
Are all men dead? Why is Shaeeda still with him?🤦🏻♀️
Did the first wife also had to sign a prenup back in the day?
He and the ex got married in 2004. That was 18 years ago and Bilal was 25. It’s likely Shahidah didn’t sign a prenup because Bilal didn’t have anything at that age.
Bilal is showing her time and time again that he is not team Shaeeda.
AGAIN that narcissistic bilal - everytime she tells him something is bothering her and how his ex wife spoke nasty to her, he doesn't even defend or support his future wife!! He just basically saying yeah , OK. He is supposed to be on HER side not his EX!
I just can't with him . So narcissistic, manipulative , condescending ass***