Should Mom Buy Son Condoms or Is It Sending the Wrong Message?

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  • Опубликовано: 29 мар 2022
  • If a mom buys her son condoms, is she encouraging him to have sex? Plus, do we have a choice whether we’re offended by something or not? Guess which one of us believes this and revealed… she’s pretty good at it!
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Комментарии • 48

  • @et3130
    @et3130 2 года назад +30

    Lol I don't think any other daytime talk show has this level of friendship between the hosts

  • @ColieJr
    @ColieJr 2 года назад +10

    Better safe than sorry

  • @maddie19
    @maddie19 2 года назад +4

    Jeanie and I are the same on the death topic. Death is a natural part of life, it happens to us all, so I think as a society we need to loosen up, stop distancing ourselves from death so much, and stop being so afraid. You never know when it’s your time to go, so to be afraid just has you walking on eggshells. I think it’s fine to say you want something when someone goes, my family constantly makes joke about what they want when someone dies and what we want to happen to our bodies when we die.

  • @teejaybee9
    @teejaybee9 2 года назад +6

    Tamera is speaking facts about older girls going after young boys.The first time I noticed it was at an airport while visiting Jamaica. She was short but clearly a teenager. 🙄

  • @rrown6890
    @rrown6890 2 года назад +11

    Great thoughts however reality is teenagers can't predict situations they may encounter and need parents guidance and help to deal with situations that may occur. I totally agree with Jeanine and the ladies who promote open conversation.
    After talking openly with my teenagers, I placed condoms at home in easy access for my teens so if they decide the need exist it would be available for their safety, because no matter how open you are often they keep secrets. My children now are all adults. None were promiscuous. One has no kids, the others were well over mid twenties before having children.

  • @kaylenejantjes8113
    @kaylenejantjes8113 2 года назад +11

    Kids are gonna do what they wanna do. Rather get ahead and involved than sit with a teenage pregnancy. Adults need to be honest with themselves about when kids think about being sexual active. It happens sooner than we'd like to realize.

    • @Tan87ful
      @Tan87ful 2 года назад +1

      Exactly 💯💯👏🏼👏🏼

  • @kaylenejantjes8113
    @kaylenejantjes8113 2 года назад +7

    Nah, Jeannie. Let Aden be a kid that he is at this stage.

  • @CC-cv3xk
    @CC-cv3xk 2 года назад +16

    Jeannie was so inappropriate calling that child “fine!” I’m glad Loni spoke up. Shocked Tamera didn’t! Smh

  • @mandiwolfe6631
    @mandiwolfe6631 2 года назад +20

    I bought my son condoms and put them in his dorm room stuff when I sent him off to college. This was obviously after a few years of us discussing sex education, the importance of consent, and our own family values towards pre-marital babies. I'd rather have an awkward moment about the condoms than have him end up with an std or even a child before he's ready. That was almost 4 years ago and he's now a happily married man. No regrets

  • @meaganbianca2978
    @meaganbianca2978 2 года назад +1

    Seen first had families fighting over money, property, and cars. It’s ugly. I wouldn’t ask for anything because of the experiences I’ve witnessed.

  • @ilovemoney0214
    @ilovemoney0214 2 года назад +10

    Buy them some condoms! It’s alit cheaper than baby dippers!

    • @stephmonique1
      @stephmonique1 2 года назад

      At 18

    • @elora179
      @elora179 2 года назад

      @@stephmonique1 they can buy their own condoms I ain’t paying

  • @loosenuplivefully1089
    @loosenuplivefully1089 2 года назад

    When someone keeps bringing it up then you have to respond,I had a situation when someone kept saying you and your friend do you anything sensible to talk about do you even talk on day I got sick of it respond and he stopped.

  • @Bittyboo14
    @Bittyboo14 2 года назад +1

    Man I love this show. Why didn't I start watching this sooner?

  • @Chaptersaudio
    @Chaptersaudio 2 года назад +6

    Condoms
    IMO don't buy condoms. Share with son their family values and to wait until he is 18 to have sex. At that time you can discuss condoms. Tamera is 100% correct.
    Offended
    Absolutely it is a person choice! Too many people online (social media) are triggered by what is said. I say allow people their opinions, even if you don't agree with what is said.
    When I have those rare moments when I allow someone to offend me, I have an immediate reaction of "why am I allowing this stranger to affect my energy?"
    Deceased possessions
    That is super tacky and inappropriate. It should only be discussed or offered by the person that will be deceased.

    • @ThatsEliane
      @ThatsEliane 2 года назад +4

      Say you don’t buy them but your young adult chooses to have sex . What’s the harm in telling them what you think they should do but telling them about precautions as well .

  • @shenquejames7598
    @shenquejames7598 2 года назад +7

    I love Tamera she is so funny

  • @wsidegurl6631
    @wsidegurl6631 2 года назад

    They don't really protect you if they break

  • @wsidegurl6631
    @wsidegurl6631 2 года назад +3

    They need to make the condoms more safer

  • @Stacieu
    @Stacieu 2 года назад +9

    In school take them to plan parent hood for a field trip! A class! Something, anything! Bc just having kids! Ain't it!

    • @stephmonique1
      @stephmonique1 2 года назад +1

      School has nothing to do with a personal and sexual conversation that parents should have with Their Kids.

    • @RosaMartinezLovesYou
      @RosaMartinezLovesYou 2 года назад

      I know there are teachers out there but their are some things parents can teach their kids. Sex is one of them.

  • @charisefields441
    @charisefields441 2 года назад

    Buy him some

  • @cassidysatterfield7327
    @cassidysatterfield7327 Год назад

    I would never buy my son condoms ever!! I will tell him its important to wait till marriage BUT if the time ever comes that he gives in to be safe!

    • @CityChristina
      @CityChristina Год назад

      So what are you gonna do when you find out your son has a baby coming? It'll be too late. Kids are gonna do what they want whenever you like the truth or not. So better to be safe than sorry.

    • @cassidysatterfield7327
      @cassidysatterfield7327 Год назад

      @@CityChristina i understand what you're saying but if I give my son condoms its like im telling him to have sex

  • @expo294
    @expo294 2 года назад +1

    How about marriage??

  • @jeromebaxter2987
    @jeromebaxter2987 9 месяцев назад

    12:50 really Adrienne

  • @joeyjackson9199
    @joeyjackson9199 2 года назад +4

    What is wrong with saying no? What is wrong with you're too young for that

    • @southerngirl4076
      @southerngirl4076 2 года назад

      There’s nothing wrong with that, if you want to be a young grandparent.

  • @charlesjrtayleravery4636
    @charlesjrtayleravery4636 Год назад +1

    Cause you got a kid lucky me sis's so carry on good ok😊😃😁

  • @justsaying8
    @justsaying8 2 года назад

    What if it's ur husband that keeps offending u f u walk away it will make them go psycho on u and threaten to beat u up? And u have kids and can't get a divorce for some reason so how can u handle that?? I try to ignore and say he can say whatever but it's not easy coz it's just disrespectful and makes u wana kill them at some point

    • @danix6452
      @danix6452 2 года назад

      You most probably shouldn’t be with them if they’re threatening you

  • @flashylights
    @flashylights 2 года назад +3

    Make him work and ever week or 2 weeks he gets paid deduct the cost for condoms and any possible test med he may need. Once they start seeing the cost hopefully he can put into perspective that its all fun and games until...

  • @wsidegurl6631
    @wsidegurl6631 2 года назад

    Ariana is right

  • @charlesjrtayleravery4636
    @charlesjrtayleravery4636 Год назад +1

    To stretch for me not that don't care don't care about action strreactioms strict ok

  • @buffibruce6926
    @buffibruce6926 2 года назад +1

    My future kids won't be able to be alone with no boys or girls

    • @Siredgey
      @Siredgey 2 года назад +13

      They’ll just do it under the bleachers.

    • @teresabrantley2538
      @teresabrantley2538 2 года назад +6

      Where there's a will there's a way !

  • @kathleenweinberg6442
    @kathleenweinberg6442 2 года назад +1

    I believe young men will explore I think it's okay

  • @meaganbianca2978
    @meaganbianca2978 2 года назад

    Seen first had families fighting over money, property, and cars. It’s ugly. I wouldn’t ask for anything because of the experiences I’ve witnessed.