Psychotherapist with Insatiable Desire for Sex Conspires to Kill | Michelle Theer Case Analysis

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  • @TheSahand68
    @TheSahand68 Месяц назад +1271

    After watching this video and after following the horrific story on Ruby Frankie and Judy Hilderbrand I'm becoming increasingly aware that mental health professionals can be dangerously crazy. Having a licence in mental health doesn't automatically mean that the person is mentally healthy.

    • @allenbanks9034
      @allenbanks9034 Месяц назад +145

      In college, every person I knew who was pursuing a psychology degree was demonstrably nuts, one way or another. The all had one thing in common - whatever you were doing, whatever the size of the group, wherever you were…it was all about THEM. Definitely interesting when with a group of them, but mostly annoying.

    • @danielkomorowski7966
      @danielkomorowski7966 Месяц назад +46

      Hanable was a doctor of psychiatry

    • @jenniferfox6300
      @jenniferfox6300 Месяц назад +53

      I just had my therapist end the session cause I had a question. I thought we were supposed to talk in therapy?

    • @swl9104
      @swl9104 Месяц назад +16

      Hanable

    • @hydrostatic8048
      @hydrostatic8048 Месяц назад +12

      Has anyone ever stated otherwise?

  • @counterbalancelife4305
    @counterbalancelife4305 Месяц назад +174

    She was actually dual certified, as both a Psycho and a Therapist.

  • @dawndraper9371
    @dawndraper9371 Месяц назад +413

    Dr. Grande needs merch that's says: "Mostly because of the murder part"

  • @djt8937
    @djt8937 Месяц назад +509

    Someone asks if they can borrow my firearm, that is registered to me, and it's hell no.

    • @Catherinzsl
      @Catherinzsl Месяц назад +30

      Practice run: "Hey, are you using your handgun this weekend? Could I borrow it? I need it for.... a thing. I'll bring it back Monday - assuming it hasn't been stolen or anything weird like that."

    • @BokushingusKendoTV
      @BokushingusKendoTV Месяц назад +14

      Right!!! Isn’t like borrowing a jacket!

    • @ImNotaRussianBot
      @ImNotaRussianBot Месяц назад +11

      ​@@BokushingusKendoTV Borrowing a jacket is even weirder. Who calls up a buddy to borrow a mundane article of clothing?

    • @JMazzaTaz
      @JMazzaTaz Месяц назад +8

      What about somebody that’s anonymous? Like me. Can I borrow it?

    • @BokushingusKendoTV
      @BokushingusKendoTV Месяц назад

      @@ImNotaRussianBot you really wasting you time on this?
      Who makes a comment of this?

  • @Eagles.Fan.Since.Super.Bowl.52
    @Eagles.Fan.Since.Super.Bowl.52 Месяц назад +335

    A good amount of people who become therapists choose that career path to try to figure out their own problems.

    • @24JJ821
      @24JJ821 Месяц назад +10

      And people who don't become therapists don't care to figure out their problems.

    • @williamrunner6718
      @williamrunner6718 Месяц назад +4

      True

    • @lamulatonagrande9835
      @lamulatonagrande9835 Месяц назад +7

      Amen !!!! I’ve always suspected that.

    • @nurse580
      @nurse580 Месяц назад +13

      Absolutely true
      I am an RN, worked in a psychiatric Hospital with a lot of unstable people
      Psychiatrists had the highest suicide rate amongst professionals in Australia for a while & Im sure Nurses have a much higher rate as well

    • @ISTPx5w6
      @ISTPx5w6 Месяц назад +13

      @@nurse580yup I'm a mental health nurse in the UK with bipolar disorder. With that comes my own commitment to my mental health albeit over here we suffer much vicarious trauma & appalling working conditions that's the main reason for our mental ill health; I've been off by far more with work related stress

  • @gauthamseran
    @gauthamseran Месяц назад +259

    "The only involvement of a birthday was through the deployment of a birthday suit." Stellar writing.

    • @DAmore143
      @DAmore143 Месяц назад +6

      🥊

    • @russes088
      @russes088 Месяц назад +16

      This one got me so good!! Stone cold delivery as always- Dr. Grande has a PHD in comedy 😂

    • @sarahjaye4117
      @sarahjaye4117 Месяц назад +7

      😂

    • @micnorton9487
      @micnorton9487 Месяц назад +5

      COULDA BEEN BETTER lol,, I know it's warped but there should have been a lot more soldier allusions,, "John tried to be all he could be, assigning himself to duty with a real moving unit who kept his pecker hard and his powder dry, but when an enemy incursion happened he almost lost his little spitfire so he got a gun from Navaronne, but he went a bridge too far and ended up standing tall before the man, trading the sands of Iwo jima for a lifetime deployment in The stockade" lol.......

    • @aread7
      @aread7 Месяц назад +3

      Awesome 😎

  • @ethorii
    @ethorii Месяц назад +480

    I turn heads too. People prefer to look away from me.

    • @petergianarakos4439
      @petergianarakos4439 Месяц назад +30

      Awww, I bet that you are a fine person inside and outside. It's really the person you are inside that matters. Beauty and "handsome " fade all too soon. Never undervalue or be negative about yourself. ❤

    • @dissidentfairy4264
      @dissidentfairy4264 Месяц назад +14

      Lol.

    • @nellybean69
      @nellybean69 Месяц назад +11

      ❤ 😂

    • @russellgoulding4263
      @russellgoulding4263 Месяц назад +19

      Eat your heart out Rodney Dangerfield.

    • @ethorii
      @ethorii Месяц назад +21

      @@petergianarakos4439 It's just a play on words. I'm a smoke show.

  • @naturalroyalflush
    @naturalroyalflush Месяц назад +114

    Buying life insurance can be hazardous to your health.

    • @briant7265
      @briant7265 Месяц назад +12

      A friend of mine was shopping for a policy, and they told him they wouldn't write a policy over a certain amount. They told him that insureds with policies over that have a disturbingly high rate of being murdered.

    • @davidhull7814
      @davidhull7814 Месяц назад +2

      of course when trust goe's away!

    • @dwoodstwin
      @dwoodstwin Месяц назад

      @@briant7265🧢

    • @ethorii
      @ethorii 20 дней назад +2

      Having it bought for you is even worse.

    • @kathleensueoka3599
      @kathleensueoka3599 9 дней назад +1

      @@ethoriior the day you find out you have Cancer? Your husband hands you a life insurance policy that “just happened to come in the office mail” and told to fill it out asap. Nope!

  • @lindareboh-king1064
    @lindareboh-king1064 Месяц назад +685

    Proving. That a psychotherapist licence doesnt insure mental health.

  • @shameronstar7220
    @shameronstar7220 Месяц назад +385

    Poor Marty, he seemed like a stand up and handsome man and this is how he gets repaid for serving his country? SMH

    • @grbggaming6885
      @grbggaming6885 Месяц назад +25

      Unfortunately it happens a lot to servicemen

    • @Tyler-vw9bh
      @Tyler-vw9bh Месяц назад +59

      Unfortunately my experience in the military showed me that 90% of military wives don't view their husband's service (or mediocre paycheck lol) as sufficient motivators to stay faithful.
      The situation is made worse by the fact they live in a town that is 80% physically fit, testosterone-filled, lonely college-aged males. I learned to assume any woman within 20 miles of base was married. Even worse are the 'brothers' who couldn't care either way.
      I would say 80-90% of my friends' wives got caught cheating. I've never been married, I would like to be but that experience has made me very apprehensive/worried.

    • @perennialxennial
      @perennialxennial Месяц назад +16

      In the military they call them Jodie's.

    • @gregevans6044
      @gregevans6044 Месяц назад +5

      And he’s got your Cadillac. So, there ain’t no use in lookin’ back.

    • @augustek5382
      @augustek5382 Месяц назад

      @@Tyler-vw9bh lol so just military wives that cheat but military men do not. Looks like the other cheater in this story was also a military man.

  • @p52893
    @p52893 Месяц назад +112

    One look and I realize why I love my stamp collection.

  • @ea8269
    @ea8269 Месяц назад +270

    Her poor husband was married to the devil.

    • @motowngirl5891
      @motowngirl5891 Месяц назад

      That’s NOT marriage, the man is not even there
      It’s all stupid and unhealthy
      It’s been accepted forever, it should not be

    • @ivannovotny4552
      @ivannovotny4552 Месяц назад +4

      @ea
      No, to nymphomaniac.

    • @superxorn
      @superxorn Месяц назад

      I think they are refering to the homocidal aspect@@ivannovotny4552

    • @natas12rm
      @natas12rm Месяц назад +1

      Am I?

    • @Brando-wc8fz
      @Brando-wc8fz 28 дней назад

      @@ivannovotny4552That is disgusting. You are giving nymphomaniacs a bad name because of this monster?

  • @WilberforceWooster-uo2bl
    @WilberforceWooster-uo2bl Месяц назад +95

    I don't know about turning heads, but her photos certainly turn my stomach.

    • @raspberrykitten6676
      @raspberrykitten6676 Месяц назад +2

      Bertie!!
      👋🏻👋🏻👋🏻👋🏻👋🏻

    • @iangallager4091
      @iangallager4091 Месяц назад +14

      she had a very misty mirror in the bathroom and it told as many lies as she did throughout her life

    • @davidhull7814
      @davidhull7814 Месяц назад

      made me turn away too!

    • @ashleylala4293
      @ashleylala4293 Месяц назад

      Lol!

    • @MisterCaution
      @MisterCaution Месяц назад +2

      Turned heads because it’s not often one sees a human face without lips.

  • @JT1358
    @JT1358 Месяц назад +63

    I worked in a pathology lab for many years. When phoning lab results to our psych wards we could never be sure who had picked the phone up at the other end. There's often a fine line between the patients and those staff in those places.

  • @CB-ke9rs
    @CB-ke9rs Месяц назад +29

    Therapists fall into two categories: those who obtain the education in an attempt to heal themselves or those who have a genuine desire to help others.

  • @alukuhito
    @alukuhito Месяц назад +51

    Imagine you join the military and the worst thing that could happen to you is to be killed by an enemy in a different country, only to end up being killed by your own wife in your own country?

    • @halroxdynasty8683
      @halroxdynasty8683 Месяц назад +1

      I stg, I think about stuff like this all the time. 😢

  • @StartingOverSingleAgain
    @StartingOverSingleAgain Месяц назад +93

    I'm glad she didn't take the 10 year deal; she's the worst kind of evil betrayer. Her husband went to therapy and dates with her, had a good job, and didn't seem to notice what a POS she was. She never appreciated him. 😒

    • @iangallager4091
      @iangallager4091 Месяц назад +10

      photos suggested he looked a really nice guy

    • @jillruben8924
      @jillruben8924 Месяц назад +14

      They offered her only 10 years? Our Justice system at its best.
      Good to know she’s in for life.

    • @kylefaber5449
      @kylefaber5449 Месяц назад +6

      Probably thought she wouldn’t get convicted. If she would have taken it she’d have been out 13 years ago

    • @davidhull7814
      @davidhull7814 Месяц назад +2

      100% indeed!

    • @drkarats6147
      @drkarats6147 20 часов назад

      @@iangallager4091 Yeah and a PEDO XD

  • @Dark_AbsoI
    @Dark_AbsoI Месяц назад +168

    Usually with these older cases I grit my teeth cause I know the “she was free on parole after serving 3 years” is coming. I’m pleased to see they are both still rotting in prison where they belong.

    • @ew4932
      @ew4932 Месяц назад +9

      Not with the sentences she has. Life sentence plus 13 years in North Carolina. I'm sure that we don't have to worry about that. Especially as she is extremely difficult in prison.

    • @jose2226
      @jose2226 Месяц назад

      ​@@ew4932wdym she's difficult?

    • @ashleylala4293
      @ashleylala4293 Месяц назад

      You should look into the DuPont pedo case, very disturbing. Corrupt judge Jan Jurden gave that creep zero jail time because she said he “would not fare well in prison”. Unbelievable.

  • @Schnauzerpatrol
    @Schnauzerpatrol Месяц назад +169

    Deployment of bday suit😂. You are a master of language Dr Grande

  • @poetcomic1
    @poetcomic1 Месяц назад +93

    How can you live with, sleep with, eat with, know a man for years and then MURDER him.

    • @tomz1daful
      @tomz1daful Месяц назад

      Men are ruthless romantics trying to be practical, women are ruthlessly practical, trying to be romantic.

    • @ryanoneal8480
      @ryanoneal8480 Месяц назад

      lol considering how often ppl murder their spouse im really not sure how youre surprised

    • @istudios225
      @istudios225 29 дней назад +8

      You easily can if you have no soul. It would be like brushing their teeth or deciding what to have for lunch. No conscience is involved because they don't have one.

    • @spiroclimb2523
      @spiroclimb2523 25 дней назад +10

      Definition of a pyschopath

    • @gr8-fun162
      @gr8-fun162 25 дней назад

      Easy. Just be a typical woman. Women do not love like men do, and are ruled by their emotions. Like children, they are fickle. Once they decide they are unhappy, the switch turns off and they have NO consideration of the man and what he has done for them in the past. It's all about how he makes them feel in the moment. Mix that with female hypergamy, and she will always figure there is a "better option" out there for her. She'll dump the current guy in a heartbeat and have no second thoughts about destroying him in divorce court, or in this case, ending him. Because they don't accept accountability, she will actually find ways to blame the guy and justify her behavior.
      All that stuff seen in movies and in stories about women being sugar, spice, and everything nice, is just a fairytale. Never forget that.

  • @adamantman3200
    @adamantman3200 Месяц назад +53

    'I turn heads.', YES! But in which direction?

  • @littlemissliv100
    @littlemissliv100 Месяц назад +39

    I like it when dr grande says “mostly because of the murder part.”

  • @karilynn3535
    @karilynn3535 Месяц назад +55

    The arrogance of thinking you can get away with murder astounds me.

    • @Jenny-nz8fb
      @Jenny-nz8fb Месяц назад +1

      Yes, it never ceases to amaze me that people think they’ll get away with murder.

    • @markhillary7402
      @markhillary7402 Месяц назад +6

      And she’s not even an Israeli prime minister!

    • @michaelterango3074
      @michaelterango3074 Месяц назад

      lol

    • @NathanHigger
      @NathanHigger Месяц назад

      @@markhillary7402based

    • @Zach.3246
      @Zach.3246 Месяц назад +1

      People get away with murder all the time…

  • @SiganQ
    @SiganQ Месяц назад +141

    Why can't I ever get the therapists that are sexually insatiable? I only ever get the sexually satiable ones and, often I find, they're already sated before I meet them. It's really sad

    • @banjopete
      @banjopete Месяц назад +5

      All the ones I know are as Randy as Rabbits!

    • @fairy12324
      @fairy12324 Месяц назад +4

      😂

    • @adotintheshark4848
      @adotintheshark4848 15 дней назад +1

      you have to pay the "therapists" for a session!

    • @ratdad48
      @ratdad48 4 дня назад

      When I think about something that bothers me. I don't try to figure out why. I just stop.

    • @adotintheshark4848
      @adotintheshark4848 4 дня назад

      or how about an insatiable one who's 80 years old?

  • @aarondavis8943
    @aarondavis8943 Месяц назад +151

    She could have just left him. There was no way an insurance company was going to pay a claim in a motiveless murder where the payee was having an affair, and the police were always going to discover the affair and therefore the killer. These two never gamed out how these events would transpire; they just engaged in some wishful thinking and then acted.
    What a pair of absolute knuckleheads.

    • @mikewood8695
      @mikewood8695 Месяц назад +15

      yeah being a narc doesn't guarantee intelligence or wisdom!

    • @Bold11x
      @Bold11x Месяц назад +8

      Exactly these people actually really believe they are above, and smarter than everyone else. So smart in fact, that they don’t need to plan too much or over think little details, because we’re all so small and ignorant that we’ll all be fooled. They believe we’re are foolish for following “the rules” because they have gotten away with breaking them every time….until they don’t, and it’s beautiful to watch them squirm and have to face their utter ignorance when they get caught. Jodi Arias comes to mind here

    • @BadForYourKidneys
      @BadForYourKidneys 8 дней назад

      @@Bold11x very true, a narcissist literally cannot read the room.

  • @enjoystraveling
    @enjoystraveling Месяц назад +92

    Is an affair really worth all that prison time? Both of them were fools

    • @sheilagravely5621
      @sheilagravely5621 Месяц назад

      She'll be getting a different kind of sex in prison.😊

    • @MarlinWilliams-ts5ul
      @MarlinWilliams-ts5ul Месяц назад +2

      She had to have it. Now she's not getting any,

    • @Thatsinteresting363
      @Thatsinteresting363 Месяц назад +2

      She’s not in prison for having an affair.

    • @tambourine36
      @tambourine36 18 дней назад

      Not worth it at all. Leave someone alone if you want someone else don't torture them. Let them move on and you take a hike. Should have gotten some treatment for nymphomania if she needed sex that bad and there was no love involved. Sounds like early childhood rape victim acting out with hypersexuality. Go get some therapy. Check your hormone levels. Poor self control. I guess there will be lots of opportunities in jail to counsel inmates or find lots of sexual partners. She's not well enough to help others and is clearly a predator who has shut off emotional and uses sex for her own gratification. See how it goes but hopefully she gets a thorough assessment.

    • @tambourine36
      @tambourine36 18 дней назад

      ​@@MarlinWilliams-ts5ulMaybe jail will be her next play spot😢

  • @tripledair
    @tripledair Месяц назад +105

    Turns head…away.

    • @danielkomorowski7966
      @danielkomorowski7966 Месяц назад +8

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @GeeBee909
      @GeeBee909 Месяц назад +2

      The Exorcist comes to mind. Also, clearly she didn't have any mirrors in her house. She was "writing checks" that her body couldn't cash🤣🤣🤣

    • @davidhull7814
      @davidhull7814 Месяц назад +1

      sure turned mine away!

  • @margonaut
    @margonaut Месяц назад +91

    just break up no need for these shenanigans

    • @lynnmartz8739
      @lynnmartz8739 Месяц назад +8

      It sounds like she came up with 500,000 reasons when making her decision...

  • @DominicMagrinoMassageTherapist
    @DominicMagrinoMassageTherapist Месяц назад +71

    Hi Dr Grande, don’t know if you read the comments but I wanted to say thank you. Watching your videos has helped me to recognize a lot of significant behavioral and psychiatric issues that are greatly affecting my life in almost every way right now, and if I look back they’ve always been there, its just I couldn’t recognize them. Because of you and your videos I’ve taken the steps to start receiving mental health treatment. I don’t even know how to thank you 🙏

    • @SpicyMango7
      @SpicyMango7 Месяц назад +17

      From a random internet stranger: I’m proud of you 😊

    • @tanikajones6213
      @tanikajones6213 Месяц назад +11

      This is amazing. I wish you all the best ❤

    • @briant7265
      @briant7265 Месяц назад +4

      Best wishes, for sure!

    • @greatamericandreamrealtyli6583
      @greatamericandreamrealtyli6583 Месяц назад +1

      It takes a strong person to admit that and an even stronger person to correct it. Best of wishes to you!

  • @pam7500
    @pam7500 Месяц назад +47

    They both threw their lives away because of lust. I feel bad for her husband. He was innocent in all this.

  • @nhmooytis7058
    @nhmooytis7058 Месяц назад +31

    ...”deployment of a birthday suit”...caught me with a mouthful of chicken soup 😮

  • @lilacbazzi493
    @lilacbazzi493 Месяц назад +47

    I hear that theres a good percentage of Psychotherapists that are truly mentally ill themselves that's why they're interested in psychotherapy to begin with. Except of course Dr Grande coz he's the best! His analysis is always spot on!

    • @PositiveMommaLife
      @PositiveMommaLife Месяц назад +7

      Wounded healer theory

    • @felixjones9198
      @felixjones9198 Месяц назад +11

      My former girlfriend was a family psychologist, she was good at her job, lovely to behold, but completely insane.

    • @ISTPx5w6
      @ISTPx5w6 Месяц назад +2

      I think people forget the sheer level of intellectualism it takes to be a psychotherapist & you have to go under continual therapy to practice legally

    • @geraldfriend256
      @geraldfriend256 Месяц назад +1

      How about a couples counselor with kids and no steady relationship? They’re out there trust me

    • @reneelibby4885
      @reneelibby4885 Месяц назад

      out of 4 - one was harmful and bAtsh*T

  • @emmapeel8163
    @emmapeel8163 Месяц назад +57

    15:08 .. by far, the weirdest people i've ever met were psychotherapists, psychiatrists & their children.

    • @staciacrick3373
      @staciacrick3373 Месяц назад +3

      Psychiatrists earn a medical degree while Psychotherapists can come from a counseling, Family and Marriage therapist with a PHD and clinical Social Worker. All have very different coursework. Psychiatrists aren’t focused on feelings/ emotions as much as the other degree’s.

    • @staciacrick3373
      @staciacrick3373 Месяц назад +6

      Also, life coaches are not licensed, likely do not hold a degree in the Psychology or other therapy focus nor regulated by any professional board.

    • @ISTPx5w6
      @ISTPx5w6 Месяц назад +3

      I wouldn't put psychotherapists & psychiatrists in the same bracket; completely different mental health paradigms

    • @thecorrectoification
      @thecorrectoification Месяц назад

      Me too!

    • @kevinowens6010
      @kevinowens6010 Месяц назад

      Extremely bent. Married one and dated three. I don't do that behavior anymore.
      Many never fix their damage, but will jump in and screw you up with enthusiasm.

  • @notozknows
    @notozknows Месяц назад +50

    Wow, I would be so mad at myself for turning down that 10 years instead of life.

    • @taydestiny38
      @taydestiny38 Месяц назад +10

      It shouldn’t have been offered in the first place.

    • @24JJ821
      @24JJ821 Месяц назад +4

      Yes, same. She was actually offered inside 10 years, so she probably would have been out on good behaviour much earlier.

    • @Seeker0fTruth
      @Seeker0fTruth Месяц назад +5

      I’d be mad at myself for far more than THAT particular error in judgement…🙃

    • @davidhull7814
      @davidhull7814 Месяц назад

      this is good example when your stupid and greedy!!!

  • @theglobalvagabond3074
    @theglobalvagabond3074 Месяц назад +101

    The first problem is purchasing a Pontiac Firebird. The second is his buddy needs to be charged with stupidity. Who loans a deadly weapon to a friend??? SMH.

    • @ratdad48
      @ratdad48 Месяц назад +2

      So who would one loan a deadly weapon to. An enemy?

    • @mightymouse1005
      @mightymouse1005 Месяц назад +1

      Anything can be a deadly weapon.

    • @ISTPx5w6
      @ISTPx5w6 Месяц назад +2

      Firearms in general shouldn't be accessible to the general public. Sure we have knife crime in the UK but thank God we don't have guns to contend with as well

    • @ratdad48
      @ratdad48 Месяц назад

      @Tified96 Criminals don't give a shit about laws. Therefore, they will always possess guns. So your bright idea would be to disarm the law abiding general public and leave them at the mercy of an armed criminal. The authorities are always 20 or more minutes away but will arrive to draw a chalk line around your dead body. Very deep thinking you got going there.

    • @cg5648
      @cg5648 Месяц назад +4

      @@ISTPx5w6, your knife crime is unbelievable. At least in America, as a law abiding citizen I have the right to carry a handgun for protection.

  • @urielflames3799
    @urielflames3799 Месяц назад +72

    Marty was a handsome good man. RIP Marty

    • @dissidentfairy4264
      @dissidentfairy4264 Месяц назад +18

      I don't understand why people murder instead of divorce. It's unfathomable that they value money over human life.

    • @JustLift-ep9vr
      @JustLift-ep9vr Месяц назад

      @@dissidentfairy4264divorce is a long process where some individuals lose a lot of money.

  • @karen-dh8dp
    @karen-dh8dp Месяц назад +20

    As a side note, I loved the video of you with your dog, as you displayed the food. Both of you were looking right at the camera and both of you were smiling.

  • @Somegirl811
    @Somegirl811 Месяц назад +28

    How can these people even live with themselves.

  • @renee1961
    @renee1961 Месяц назад +46

    I remember when this happened. So Heartless. Rest In Peace Marty 🥀🥀🥀🙏🙏🙏💔💔💔🕊️🕊️🕊️

  • @jdd3786
    @jdd3786 Месяц назад +24

    It's crazy how all these stories that involve infidelity are exactly the same. Just the names and places are different.

    • @robinkuruda5249
      @robinkuruda5249 6 дней назад +2

      Exactly!! Man I am glad my wife just divorced me …I love her for that …

  • @tyrone4u559
    @tyrone4u559 Месяц назад +22

    Never ever let someone back into your life or forgive them for betraying you; they will despise you for your weakness and continue to take advantage of you.

    • @kevinowens6010
      @kevinowens6010 Месяц назад +1

      It's absolutely true.

    • @Malama_Ki
      @Malama_Ki Месяц назад +2

      FACTS!!!! When someone shows you who they are, believe them.

    • @armynurseshark
      @armynurseshark 20 дней назад +2

      That sounds harsh but it’s true- I learned the hard way

  • @festina_lente7655
    @festina_lente7655 Месяц назад +161

    Martin Theer wasn't an enlistee. He graduated from the Air Force Academy and fulfilled his commitment to serve.

    • @andrews527
      @andrews527 Месяц назад +4

      A noble set of junk.

    • @swl9104
      @swl9104 Месяц назад +2

      What's your trouble?

    • @jbinmd
      @jbinmd Месяц назад +12

      Yes, hard to go from enlistee to captain.

    • @joshuabekel9700
      @joshuabekel9700 Месяц назад +1

      ​@@andrews527???

    • @blainechild9068
      @blainechild9068 Месяц назад +1

      ​@@andrews527you've done nothing

  • @Candokettlebells
    @Candokettlebells Месяц назад +79

    The birthday suit reference killed me 😂❤

    • @MiaQuacko
      @MiaQuacko Месяц назад +4

      I thought maybe there was some sort of birthday cake situation but thankfully there wasn’t

    • @nickid5210
      @nickid5210 Месяц назад +1

      I am in tears😅 ... lol it was tooo early in the morning for that play on words 😂

    • @MiaQuacko
      @MiaQuacko Месяц назад +1

      @@nickid5210 the way how he just says it without ANY emotion cracks me the hell up. I would give it away and go on and on and on about it but he just drops the line in there like with ice in his veins lolol

    • @nickid5210
      @nickid5210 Месяц назад

      @@MiaQuacko Dr. Grande is the best, the videos are just long enough with enough information and you have to sometimes listen twice to catch his play on words lol😂.

  • @buzzcrushtrendkill
    @buzzcrushtrendkill Месяц назад +22

    Anecdotal, but every person that I've known to study Psychology are ultimately motivated to pursue that to understand something about themselves.

    • @Catherinzsl
      @Catherinzsl Месяц назад +3

      Yes, but I think there's a spectrum between wanting to understand and better oneself (and others), and being a manipulative, homicidal demon.

    • @24JJ821
      @24JJ821 Месяц назад +3

      Which is actually very healthy and it's a shame more people don't want to gain insight and self-awareness.

    • @ISTPx5w6
      @ISTPx5w6 Месяц назад

      @@24JJ821exactly. I'm a mental health professional with bipolar. Yes I want to enlighten myself and ultimately to pass that insight on to the young people I work with which I believe I do my best to do. It's shocking in society how surface level & unaware most people are. I had a lot to deal with re childhood trauma & also having bipolar disorder...The onus is on me to deal with those demons before beginning the process of helping others.

    • @buzzcrushtrendkill
      @buzzcrushtrendkill Месяц назад

      @@24JJ821 there are others ways then to pursue degrees.

    • @24JJ821
      @24JJ821 Месяц назад +1

      @@buzzcrushtrendkill Yes there is, so why rubbish people who have degrees?? It's always people who don't have higher education who do that. Deal with your own insecurities and leave those of us with higher education alone.

  • @markferguson3745
    @markferguson3745 Месяц назад +53

    Part of the reason that I changed my Psych major was realizing that the majority of my professors were mentally dubious themselves, in a few cases, perhaps dangerously.You often hear that those in the field became interested due to their own challenges and issues, and I've found that to be the case.Even in talking with less acredited counselors, I'd advise circumspection.I know several people who have been given heavily biased and poor advice that ultimately had a negative impact on their lives, and their mental health,- particulaly where medications were involved.
    Get a second opinion, and avoid those that champion specialized agendas.

    • @christinelee4780
      @christinelee4780 Месяц назад +3

      I work in the university sector, and I came to know that a lecturer whose area of expertise was the dark triad of personality was also a sexual predator

    • @jeffrey501green
      @jeffrey501green Месяц назад +7

      The majority of head-shrinkers are alot crazier than their patients....

    • @ISTPx5w6
      @ISTPx5w6 Месяц назад +3

      Yup I hate the biomedical model of mental ill health sure psychiatry has a role but isn't the be all & and all

    • @oldrandon
      @oldrandon Месяц назад

      I worked in a psych. department over 20 years ago as someone with only a bachelor's degree. The Ph.D. who ran the department was a total narcissist (and bigot). All the psychologists in the department hated him.

    • @chadx8269
      @chadx8269 Месяц назад +1

      There are several Phd psychologist in Prison, one is in Florida name Touchton-Williams. They are crazy and known it, that why they study Psychology.

  • @lindawilson4625
    @lindawilson4625 Месяц назад +33

    Your and your dog are so cute together. Yes, I watched the Factor commercial. And John didn't act alone. Michelle is where she should be.

  • @hrdley911
    @hrdley911 Месяц назад +270

    Tip for a happy marriage: DON'T CHEAT!

    • @riblets1968
      @riblets1968 Месяц назад +20

      That's easy enough to say, but there are two problems with this advice: 1) it ignores why people cheat in the first place and 2) even if the unsatisfied/marginalized spouse steadfastly refuses to cheat, he can still be quite miserable.

    • @donna119
      @donna119 Месяц назад +44

      @@riblets1968Tell me you’re a cheat without telling me you’re a cheat 😂

    • @M.Kabane
      @M.Kabane Месяц назад +18

      A "happy"marriage is based on several factors. Cheating is only the aftermath.

    • @SinisterScoundrel6562
      @SinisterScoundrel6562 Месяц назад +24

      Or just don't get married. Saves health, money, and resources.

    • @Ann-sj4pt
      @Ann-sj4pt Месяц назад +18

      @@riblets1968leave then.

  • @thesilversurfer7136
    @thesilversurfer7136 Месяц назад +19

    Dr. Kenneth Pope did a study on psychiatrists and their patients in 1976. He found that a full 55% of psychiatrists emotions were just as skewed as their patients.

  • @lizmonard
    @lizmonard Месяц назад +30

    In my experience, many people with mental illness/ psychiatric disorders are attracted to the psychology / psychiatric fields because of their own self obsession! My nursing course decades ago included psychiatric nurses who were doing required extra courses , and boy, there were some VERY strange ppl there! 😂

  • @Ironboots123
    @Ironboots123 Месяц назад +14

    I almost spit out the vodka in my mouth when you mentioned birthday suit 🤦🏽‍♂️

  • @marlaroberts2087
    @marlaroberts2087 Месяц назад +37

    The guilty always have the same laundry list of evil attributes! Poor Marty!

  • @derek04151
    @derek04151 Месяц назад +6

    I drove my therapist crazy. Now she understands me. 😁

  • @twown
    @twown Месяц назад +22

    Look how gently Doc stabs that Factor box.

  • @Gallop4Me
    @Gallop4Me Месяц назад +15

    I always want to ask the guy in a situation like this, "Well, was she worth it?" 😮

  • @sophiaandre139
    @sophiaandre139 Месяц назад +33

    Your dog is awfully cute!

    • @dallynutkat3252
      @dallynutkat3252 Месяц назад +2

      I came here to say this. He / she is adorable 🥰

  • @ninehundreddollarluxuryyac5958
    @ninehundreddollarluxuryyac5958 Месяц назад +11

    I knew the intro was an April fools joke because you rolled your eyes to your right instead of your left when you say "a situation like this". Your dog in the Factor commercial is adorable.

  • @Paul-ou1rx
    @Paul-ou1rx Месяц назад +14

    Once there is infidelity, the offending partner can be trusted to leave the room to make toast. Going out of town for an unknown classmate? Hell no.

    • @sarahalbers5555
      @sarahalbers5555 Месяц назад +4

      Boy, are you ever right about that(sadly).

  • @MrJacktown5
    @MrJacktown5 Месяц назад +13

    “The Deployment of a bday suit” doc, I wasn’t ready for that one 😂😂😂💀💀💀💀

  • @virginialangford6257
    @virginialangford6257 Месяц назад +29

    I quite admire your wife’s Easter rabbit salt and pepper shakers…she has a wonderful eye for home decor.

    • @totti.
      @totti. Месяц назад

      He made it himself

  • @JustineBrownsBookshelf
    @JustineBrownsBookshelf Месяц назад +12

    Our culture’s reduction of sex to recreation hasn’t served us well.

    • @marcoprolo1488
      @marcoprolo1488 8 дней назад

      Let's not exaggerate. It's fairly rare to end up that badly.

    • @JustineBrownsBookshelf
      @JustineBrownsBookshelf 8 дней назад

      @@marcoprolo1488 No, what I said was an understatement. The number of ill effects from the Sexual Revolution are in fact staggering.

    • @marcoprolo1488
      @marcoprolo1488 7 дней назад

      @@JustineBrownsBookshelf Yeah, loads of puritans out there that want to control other people sexuality. I'll never understood why. I could not care less personally.

  • @sBaum
    @sBaum Месяц назад +13

    The good old birthday suit bit got a good chuckle out of me

  • @coryskizm
    @coryskizm Месяц назад +9

    Yoooo 😂😂😂the flip from the microwave meal to the timeline of the crime with that picture of Dr Grande smiling ,,,fucking took me out..😂😂😂😂😂😂😭😭

  • @renee1961
    @renee1961 Месяц назад +23

    I love your sense of humor, Dr. Grande!🤣😂🤣😂

  • @25Soupy
    @25Soupy Месяц назад +13

    After watching video after video I can't believe how many people don't just get a divorce opposed to murder.

  • @pambennett3390
    @pambennett3390 Месяц назад +21

    Thank God there are no children involved.

  • @tomnohmy1273
    @tomnohmy1273 Месяц назад +7

    I would consider patreon but Dr Grandes voice causes me to fall asleep so I always forget.

  • @blondefro
    @blondefro Месяц назад +39

    Spoiler alert: does *not* turn heads

  • @drewintampa
    @drewintampa Месяц назад +16

    Given the amount of adjectives Dr. Grande used to describe Michelle, I believe it would be safe to say that he is not her number one fan. =)

  • @thelocalmaladroit8873
    @thelocalmaladroit8873 Месяц назад +11

    For having a PhD, Michelle fortunately didn’t know how to avoid prosecution.
    (I love the Factor ads Doc cause I get to see the puppies 😊)

  • @megret1808
    @megret1808 Месяц назад +8

    Proves my belief that many go into psychotherapy as a profession because they feel uneasy about themselves and want to know why

    • @ISTPx5w6
      @ISTPx5w6 Месяц назад

      Whilst this is true we have to understand that psychotherapy is a postgraduate masters degree incorporating a lot of philosophy, psychology etc; it's an extremely demanding course both academically & mentally plus you have to undergo consistent therapy yourself to practice. The vast majority of the population have trauma in some form indeed it's a mark of resilience- we need some trauma as a prerequisite for healthy development. At least they're willing to explore & face that trauma whereas a high percentage of the population walk around completely unaware & with little self introspection. This lady is indeed an exception to the norm in psychotherapy.

  • @EB-wl9st
    @EB-wl9st Месяц назад +2

    My favorite part of today's sponsor and Dr Grande's videos is that I get to see the doggies and I get to see the bunny salt and pepper shakers every time. It's somehow familiar and comforting❤❤❤

  • @sandrabaker1312
    @sandrabaker1312 Месяц назад +16

    Dr Grande makes me laugh with his quirky comments 🤣.

  • @pearlsbeforeswine60
    @pearlsbeforeswine60 Месяц назад +31

    Yikes, Dr Grande! That Factor PR photo of you scared the living bejesus out of me..I have never seen you smile and was not even sure you had teeth. I'm settling down now.
    And hello there, small white dog.

  • @JJ-ui4ph
    @JJ-ui4ph Месяц назад +12

    I’ve never understood In cases like this why they don’t simply get a divorce. Instead of killing the person and potentially going to prison, why not just get a divorce? Another thing is how many men was she having sex with before she got married? It’s as if she didn’t understand what was being asked of her in marriage. She clearly wanted to have more sex with men after she got married. Why get married in the first place?

  • @cobracommander8133
    @cobracommander8133 Месяц назад +18

    I'm curious about the schools she got her doctrate and undergrad eduction from??

  • @TheKatyPB
    @TheKatyPB Месяц назад +13

    Your pup is adorable❤

  • @LadyBabaji
    @LadyBabaji Месяц назад +6

    That picture at the end of the factor ad of you and your white puppy, absolutely made my day! A picture of joy 🤩

  • @gabe_2544
    @gabe_2544 Месяц назад +12

    I bet there was an uptick in online sales of men’s hairpieces. Those who couldn’t afford it or didn’t want to wait bought the spray.

  • @janetrogers4738
    @janetrogers4738 Месяц назад +8

    Divorce never enters these peoples minds.

    • @ayomidel
      @ayomidel Месяц назад +3

      There's no life insurance policy attached to that.

    • @janetrogers4738
      @janetrogers4738 Месяц назад +1

      @@ayomidel But there's no prison time attached to divorce Ty for the explanation.

  • @opium77757
    @opium77757 Месяц назад +30

    Dr. Grande: Your channel is very entertaining & I look forward to "daily visitation."🎉

  • @Swansong321
    @Swansong321 Месяц назад +51

    SO .. become therapists bc they've got serious issues themselves...mental health professional with mental issues are shockingly commonplace!😜

    • @crabofchaos7881
      @crabofchaos7881 Месяц назад

      It's not shocking if you consider how many people experience issues with mental health. 1 in 8 people in the world live with a mental disorder, according to WHO. 12.5%, man.

    • @terrorists-are-among-us
      @terrorists-are-among-us Месяц назад +10

      Very. You want to see sick? Meet social workers and therapists 🤯

    • @24JJ821
      @24JJ821 Месяц назад +1

      So it's common for therapists to be narcissistic murderers? Lol.

    • @ISTPx5w6
      @ISTPx5w6 Месяц назад +2

      Yup when you work in the appalling conditions we work in & are overworked & the vicarious trauma we suffer it's hardly surprising

    • @yankeecitygirl
      @yankeecitygirl Месяц назад +2

      @@ISTPx5w6 the pay is barely livable. It’s the heartless psychos who move up the chain that pull the big bucks. There are good people in social work and the mental health field, though. When you encounter them they are a treasure

  • @chelseaavalos3402
    @chelseaavalos3402 Месяц назад +3

    His smile in the factory ads always gets me coming back for another video

  • @rachaelb.
    @rachaelb. Месяц назад +7

    I always laugh when Dr. Grande says, "...mostly because of the murder part."

  • @glendasully
    @glendasully Месяц назад +15

    Marty was a handsome & successful man & was too good for the harlot. It's so sad he couldn't see that

  • @Decgyrrl
    @Decgyrrl Месяц назад +6

    A story as old as time, almost. Same crime, just different faces. Evil is always busy. I feel bad for her husband. Poor guy.🕊

  • @nataliapolova2850
    @nataliapolova2850 Месяц назад +11

    Your videos are so peaceful! I wish they were a little longer but I'll just listen to them back to back before bed! Your voice is so soothing and the lack of background noise and music and sound fx make for an easy slumber!

  • @ceilconstante640
    @ceilconstante640 Месяц назад +51

    Just another important reason to know the traits of a Narscissts and pay attention to red flags! And take your time to get to know someone. People with Michelle's traits will never make a good partner.

    • @hallowedmeadow4636
      @hallowedmeadow4636 Месяц назад +3

      This comment is an important reason to learn grammar.

    • @JeannetteShoreland
      @JeannetteShoreland Месяц назад +2

      Michael Dippolito would agree 5000%

    • @Hilz28
      @Hilz28 Месяц назад +1

      ​@@hallowedmeadow4636I've seen worse.

  • @alukuhito
    @alukuhito Месяц назад +6

    Dr. Grande, can you analyze the case of Robert Pickton, the Canadian serial killer? Lynn Ellingsen was my elementary school classmate, but when she became an adult, she befriended him and became the key witness against him.

  • @debbiec4530
    @debbiec4530 Месяц назад +5

    Awww gimme those bunny salt and pepper shakers! 🤠💕🐰

  • @d.f.9064
    @d.f.9064 8 дней назад +2

    Having studied to be a therapist I can tell you MANY people get into the profession because they themselves need help. I confess I was no exception. Because mental health treatment is usually long and expensive, trying to cure yourself through self help shows motivation and initiative. I found, being emotionally damaged myself, I didn't like working with others with similar problems.

  • @herewegokids7
    @herewegokids7 Месяц назад +4

    "Mostly bc of the murder part" gets me every time 😅😅

  • @tplummer217
    @tplummer217 Месяц назад +23

    You couldn’t make up a better name for a home wrecker than John Diamond.

  • @dmr4450
    @dmr4450 Месяц назад +2

    Those puns are pure gold, Dr. Grande. 😂 Makes me smile first thing on my timeline.

  • @rayross997
    @rayross997 Месяц назад +34

    Hope you can cover the Sam & Marilyn Sheppard case. Thanks for all your work, Dr.Grande.

    • @nhmooytis7058
      @nhmooytis7058 Месяц назад +3

      I second that I’m from Bay Village where it happened, born 2 years before . We lived 4 blocks away! Who do you think did it?

    • @rayross997
      @rayross997 Месяц назад +3

      @@nhmooytis7058 I am inclined to think Sam killed Marilyn and staged the crime scene. I watched a video where a former FBI agent said that F. Lee Bailey, while speaking to a group of law students had admitted that Sam was guilty. Bailey said he argued the case on the grounds that Sam did not get quote, "a fair trial". Maybe Dr. Grande can give his speculation on the case. Who do you think did it?

    • @nhmooytis7058
      @nhmooytis7058 Месяц назад +2

      @@rayross997 well my dad who was best friends with the BV cop on the scene and saw photos said it was the then Mayor of BV Spencer Houk because he was having an affair with Marilyn. (The cop thought she was beaten by someone wearing brass knuckles). My mom’s hairdresser said it was Sam’s mother because she had bushy hair! I’m honestly not sure myself, but I don’t think it was the window washer which was Sam’s son’s theory. My dad felt Sam got railroaded by Louis Seltzer of the Cleveland Press. When I was in HS my guidance counselor lived in the former Sheppard house which I found creepy. It was torn down some years ago...early 2000s I think.

    • @raspberrykitten6676
      @raspberrykitten6676 Месяц назад +5

      Definitely would like to hear about what might be happening in a case like this 👀

    • @nhmooytis7058
      @nhmooytis7058 Месяц назад +1

      @@raspberrykitten6676 but only speculating 🤔

  • @KaraLey98
    @KaraLey98 Месяц назад +13

    I have to wonder what kind of “heads” she turned..

  • @thevaleyard69
    @thevaleyard69 Месяц назад +81

    Over 6 feet tall and not balding. God i hope she falls for Danny DeVito

    • @ktkt9982
      @ktkt9982 Месяц назад +2

      😅

    • @saraprva4172
      @saraprva4172 Месяц назад

      Only if he identifies as Danielle DeVito & gets sent to female prison. Thankfully she won't be getting any "D" where she is serving her time

    • @pannamal5182
      @pannamal5182 Месяц назад +1

      In prison

    • @Brendawallingbear
      @Brendawallingbear Месяц назад +5

      Danny DeVito is not in prison and he has a really cute fun wife and they love each other.

    • @pannamal5182
      @pannamal5182 Месяц назад +2

      @@Brendawallingbear if Danny should identify as female she’s in luck I suppose

  • @Angelica2020
    @Angelica2020 12 дней назад +1

    I went to HS with her. she graduated in my husbands class - 1988.
    I met her husband at one of the HS reunions. Very nice guy.

  • @KarlaAkins1
    @KarlaAkins1 Месяц назад +2

    “Deployment of birthday suit.” 😂😂😂 Dr. G never disappoints! 😂😂😂

  • @gracie1598
    @gracie1598 Месяц назад +4

    Self-esteem obviously does not come with a PhD.

  • @madelainepetrin1430
    @madelainepetrin1430 Месяц назад +14

    Psychology attracts crazies. Not all of them are, but sizeable numbers are not quite sane.