how is it he's throwing his friend under the bus? or are you just an online troll saying irrelevant shit online because you'd never say shit to their face?
@@tryscience-px3fs she hopped on the vid on her own accord and she knew what the channel was about ...do you even know the meaning of "throw someone under the bus"?
1) Relationships are transactionable 2) Renting is cheaper than buying. my exs' cost me a fortune 3) always look poorer than what you are 4) keep your personal life and details to yourself 5) only give money that you do not expect to get back 6) manage your resources to ensure your freedom 7) be happy as a single person and love yourself first and foremost. 8) Have fun, life is short!
Let’s say there are a lot of scammers like this worldwide especially in the Caribbean, Central and South America also throughout Africa. It’s very unfortunate however men in general have to be smarter and not fall for this. Great story Paul thanks for sharing 👌🏾!
They exist in the US too. Hiding body counts, playing the long game, hooking White Knights into marriage and being stepdads. It's not about being "smarter", it's about insecurity. Extremely insecure men fall these scams and there are a lot of insecure men in the West. I'm guessing 100% of single men would answer "no" to the question "would you get with a single mom" yet many do. They know the correct answer, but don't feel worthy of a woman without serious problems. They feel more secure with a single mom feeling she needs his money. Thinking you can be smarter than a scammer is how to be a target. I know I can be scammed. If someone asks me for money there's nothing for me to figure out. Is this a scam? Instead I know I can be scammed so I assume it's a scam and I say "no". Basically I say "no" to anything I didn't initiate. My phone rings with a number I don't know I don't answer. Text message I don't understand I delete.
The thing I find sickening about this is it displays exactly why I will never fully trust any woman! We men have been used and abused by women most of our lives and once we reach that point where we have had enough, we get jaded and stop caring. We hear about men who treat good women terribly but what no one bothers to ask is how he got that way?
The point that your story makes is that you can never trust a Filipina. Even if she ever finds "mister right" she's going to lie about her past. She knows no man will accept her if he knows her past. Therefore, she doesn't really have a future. If she's smart she will put some of that money aside, because the day will come that she's too old for this kind of business.
There's only 2 types of people you can never trust, women and men. And I'm one of them. It's not just that you can't 100% trust others, a person should not trust themselves. I question my own thinking, motives, even more than I do with others.
Meritocracy in action. Smart people can take advantage of others. Sensual Emotions, when used for a purpose (like Kate's) can easily overwhelm logic. CEO's. Religious People. Generals and Kings. Any Man on Earth.
My career was creating video games. I thought it a lot of fun to make a game as addictive as possible and to sell for the most money. I saw it as a game. And I told players this too in interviews. I always thought playing video games was a waste of time, but if people are going to waste their lives I may as well be one of the people they pay for that.
I bet you're on the right track! Not only there are many girls like her, but there are organised agents teaching them what to do and how to take out of a Joe or many Joes pockets as much as they want.
There's a lot of women like her within 10 miles of your current location. You kidding me? Not telling partners about their past, body counts off the chart, getting men to be stepdads, marriage, divorce, alimony, child support, etc... Playing the long game is an old scam.
It's the same everywhere. I met a girl online in the USA. She was attractive and kind. She was always finding ways to make money online without a real job. Our first date was church. I later found out she owned her home free and clear at 30 years old. I was more impressed. After while I figured out her background. She was working as a stripper and then a server at the club. I told her that the relationship couldn't continue if she kept that lifestyle. She found a normal job was to hard for her vs showing body parts and getting a load of cash. Needless to say, the relationship came to an end. She ultimately ended up with a man that paid her bills and I'm not even sure if they're still together to this day. She even claimed in the relationship that I wasn't a good enough Christian for her. It was like her new addiction. Yet she kept the same lifestyle.
Hey Paul my dear friend, very interesting topic. This is a great and very informative video. Men, listen to this video please. And learn. Paul, you are approaching that 100k subscriber mark brother. I predict that you will surpass 100k subscribers in the next 24-36 hours. So here is an early CONGRATULATIONS on hitting that 100k subscribers milestone. You truly deserve it brother. I always have nothing but love for you and the beautiful Baby Mae. Stay safe and healthy brother 👍 👍 👍 👍 👍 👍 👍 👍 ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️.
I thought you were describing Claire M. Quitoy from Dumaguete. She is a headache, absorbed a year of my time that I cannot get back. I see no fix in Kate's situation as well as any others unless someone goes to jail. It is like a gambler, you hear about their Ups and downs but no scammer will cutoff their income publicly. Spiritually, they are headed for Hell. That cannot be changed unless forgiven. Which has to BE ASK FOR, turned away from and sin no more.. If they even know Christ, is another good question. If they come from a broken home, it seems to escalade rapidly. Kate will go on and train a younger, for a cut. Its endless. The HOLE cannot be filled. Their life is messed up from normal. The clock will OUT RUN them. They will have what's leftover. The looks fade to zip and BATTA BANG BATTA BOOM.. Then, Katy BAR THE DOOR. Lights out.
This is a very interesting story and a reminder to all the men to be very careful. I've been with my wife for 8 years. We have 3 lovely Phil/Am babies. We have a good relationship but even then I bought her some beach front property but I also bought me some in a relatives name with two 25 year leases. You have to be smart when spending cash in the Philippines.
Very smart young lady there. Scamming is an art, and we men get played like a fiddle over a good looking woman. You let us into the mind of the scammer, thanks for the insight Paul.
Subscriber for many years but Paul I am on the fence on why you would associate with someone that does this to people. Sure they exist and everyone knows it but to make a video about this baffles me about you. This video glorifies her actions that she has done. And I think you were an enabler to a point. It’s a sad story but you can’t help everyone.
This makes me think about the youtube video I made about how I was roommates with people that worked as scammers at the Chinese call centers. It was really eye opening to see how the whole operation works and I was actually bewildered that their employer actually makes millions of dollars from lonely men around the world in a single month.
Are you saying she had plastic surgery that actually made her look worse? Sounds like she is kinda damaged goods for any relationship in the future. With all that she had been able to attain, she will do ok in the future. She has one house to live in, the second one to rent or maybe sell. As she gets older, she will always probably be able to get enough money for food and what ever she needs. It probably won't be as lucrative as it once was, however there will always be some "knight in shining armor" that likes to throw money at women. She will never work a normal job because she can make more from a fool that is willing to part with his money.
Great video… Very informative. We have to be self aware, and know when something is too good to be true. I feel bad for her and the people she hurt. Narcissistic people are everywhere, unfortunately…
Sounds like She and all of these Men got what they wanted out of the deal. Pay for play is acceptable to me with clear outlines of expectations. Love? LOL I stopped believing in that when I grew up. I hope this woman has planned for her future; the hard wall is coming fast.
Finally. Reading thru so many White Knight comments it's good to find some reality. These men get exactly what they wanted. Their insecurity soothed by giving money to a woman. However, the wall is not an issue for a woman like this. The wall has to do with age, looks and locking down a guy. A professional scammer is not limited by age or looks and has no use for locking down a guy. She has already adapted her scams to pull in more money. I assume she will do even better in her 40's and 50's as there are a lot of White Knights thinking Filipinas that age won't be a scammer, will be more desperate and therefore even easier to scam. Suppose a hot looking 18 year-old messages you. Shields up? But a 40-50's year-old, decent looking? Shields not so much up? I'd even advise Kate to try out pretending to be older. Might be a better scam.
There's a lady who's sure.... all that glitters is gold, And she's buying a stairway to Heaven. When she gets there she knows... if the stores are all closed, With a word she can get what she came for...🎵🎵🎶
Yeah, you eventually parted ways. Not before befriending, empowering, and even becoming an accomplice by providing your laptop. Even now you hide her. I think this says more about your character than hers.
Good point. But not everyone thinks what she's doing is wrong. The term "scam" is used but that's just White Knight talk. I didn't hear anything in the video that Kate was doing as being illegal in PH. No claims of prostitution was made. It's not illegal to provide sex to "generous" men. All I heard was she would say she needed something and these WKs couldn't wait to give it to her. The WKs only scream "SCAM!!!" when their money runs out. I'm 100% in favor of the work Kate is doing. These twisted men are looking for some woman to give money to so they can feel better about themselves. Findom is the term.
That's not a realistic assessment or solution. Shut her down, how? And what of the other million girls and guys pretending to be girls? Better, perhaps, to live and let live and learn the ways of the world.
she was on Pauls couch in a bikini with one of her facebook accounts . Dirty paul got scared he was gonna get busted for trafficking , now the operation goes through begging Maes Chanel
Thanks for sharing this story , some one out there may need the wisdom to protect them from the scam I agree only God can touch the heart and give help to the soul
Well, she was already damaged goods at age 15... 🙄Nothing any White Knight could fix at a later time, really. It's a sad story but, tbh, I'm not sure if I feel sorry for her.
I really have no idea about what her future may hold. But I would like to say I wish the very best for this person. I hope to life's journey she learns what she needs to learn. God bless you, Paul, and Baby Mae.
"Need to survive"? 99.9% of Filipinos don't do sex work and survive. This "survive" stuff is White Knight talk. When interviewed most sex workers say give the same reason..."the money is fast and easy". Yup, sex work has danger. I was in the Army. Kind of dangerous. Then in construction. Kind of dangerous.
I have frequent conversations with a scammer also, but with a different circumstance. The Readers Digest version is.. This girl was in a house full of video sex girls who were also ruthless blackmailers. These girls and 2 Ladyboys would keep notebooks about their marks. They all had multiple profiles on Pinalove, and each bit of info that one would get on a guy, would be intertwined into the next profile that was made, like their own little algorithm for gaining info, like email address, Facebook friends, Twitter, Instagram etc. and had files on these guys. The guys will sometimes have many different girls that he's telling they are the only one, but they're all sitting in the same room laughing and collecting info like the CIA. You can be battling 24-1 odds if each girl has 4 profiles. She claims that over 50% of the time, one of the profiles will get the marks into compromising positions on video chat. Then it's payday. Once they get a friends list on any social media app, they'll find your relatives and workmates, then craft an email letting you know that your family is about to see you on your worst day unless you pay, and guess what... the payments don't stop.
Ive met foreigners here thats happened to, and actually me to a degree but no extortion on me because I know the game of the pinays. A neighbor of mine doesnt leave his apartment without a mask and usually some sort of disguise. Its kinda hilarious and sad at the same time. He told me hid in a mall bathroom for about an hour over an altercation and the girls said they calling the police. I met those exact gang of girls 3 years ago while vacationing. While he was telling me his story I showed him the photos of them and me. I thought he was going to have a heart attack right there. All the locals share info on foreigners here, they even have chat groups to share the info, photos, video of foreigners.
@@tman46544 I don't know how prevalent it is where you are, or in other parts but these girls are in CDO and it's a hotbed for this sort of activity. Any guy that uses his real name online is crazy.
Lots of scammers with fake pictures and profiles all over these dating sites. If there's one piece of advice to weed them out is a video call. Scammers will find 100 reasons not to do a video call as they want to remain hidden and use fake pictures. Typical excuses is their camera doesn't work, no good internet for a video call, no data for video and can only exchanges messages but if you can just sent them money for a data plan, etc. etc.
Wow actually very sad…😢What a toll on her soul that must take…I hope and pray she does a 180 and settles down. I wonder if she will ever want to be with one man for true love? God can fill that hole in her heart ❤️…
@@AidaJof Hi Aida…I haven’t seen you in the comments lately as we both follow many of the same channels…I’m flying out of Michigan on Labor Day heading back to Dumaguete for a month. I’m going to retire in March and moving to Dumaguete.
True love is how 12 year-old girls think. "Whole in her heart" is how White Knights think. She has a great career and is doing well. God's speed to Kate.
"She was doing what she had to do." This is White Knight language. IMO there's nothing wrong with being a sex worker, but let's be real. Women do sex work because the money is fast and easy. 99.9% of Filipinos do not do sex work. It isn't "needed to do". IMO sex workers are excellent business people. It takes brains and looks. Nothing wrong with getting White Knights to hand over all their money because it's something White Knights want to do to feel better about themselves. Win-win. The White Knights only complain when they run out of money. 21:50 More WK talk, "filling the massive hole created by her hard life"...nonsense. These WK are endless pits of delusion. Many people continue to amass money way beyond what is needed. Bill Gates, Warren Buffett, Elon Musk, etc... Very long list, all with normal childhoods. Getting money from people can be a lot of fun. It's like going to a casino without risking your own money.
Kate is a Street hustler Survivor who is above average intelligence that could succeed at practically anything but because of her rough early childhood will never be able to actually bond Sincerely with a Man as she can't as her Oxytocin levels is so low from being abused and used. So the Victim becomes the victimizer and there is NO man that can change her chemical levels in her brain. Her future is bleak as she will eventually end up alone and have nothing but bitterness missing out on what truly matters
Well said my friend. Great insight i wish life had a sifter to filter the stones from the gems. Unfortunately mine has only given me stones. Congratulations on 💯K it's been a fun journey, and im proud to call you my friend and brother! Peace out Brother!
This story reminds me of a buddy who works in a casino. At the morning meeting, the floor manager always says...it's your incentive to get every dollar you can from the customer. As the hourglass of time gets less and less, it might be wise to vette the ladies even more....when I did so, she remained a friend but nothing more. All's fair in love and war, they say.
Theirs nothing more dangerous than a beautiful woman with a sharp mine she will end up with nothing in the long run Paul you are a great story teller thks for sharing that with all of us Ron from the states take care my friend
Well, I think she will continue on until she is forced to retire and find a permanent sugar daddy It sounds like she is nearing that stage already. If not, I suspect, she will eventually get suicidal or have a mental breakdown when she realizes she is all used up with no options left to her. Sad but that is how I see it.
An old American guy who looking for a twice younger Filipina ultimately is an opportunist, a hunter, even we can say a predator who seek for an easy prey. That would be on the flip side of a story of the Filipina scammers. To not offend any of you guys l am going to tell that, l am sure vast majority of you are actually good honest men. We all tend to paint our portaits in a bright colours. The portaits for external and internal usage. It includes me myself of course. Guys no matter what enjoy yourselfs and stay gwapo !
Hi uncle Paul. What a deep explanatory video. I watched this one more than two times. When diamond was digged to know its back history and origin, 😮😮😮😮 found that its coal. Thats why we always plan for the future.
Hi Paul, enjoy your videos, thank you. Tough question! “A body in motion tends to stay in motion.” Sounds like Kate’s over compensating with her success acquiring wealth for the lack of love she received as a child. No I’m not a shrink! I suspect Kate’s future will look much like her past until she awakens to the needs of her void or she’s no longer able to compete with her younger, more attractive competitors. She’s mastered level 1; she needs to evolve to level 2 or consider her “end game” options!
Yeah.....it's the P.I. and not in the USA. But then.....for Americans, who want to follow that sort of "business model"....... When you think about it.......those who participate in that sort of income-making, pay NO taxes. And to add to the insult.....some in the US Govt are moving to make "TIPS".....not counted as income.
I honestly don't know how to think about this very cool story. I didn't seem to pick up on her doing anything ugly to the men who paid her so I don't see anything evil or very bad about giving some men the attention they wanted. I love that you befriended her at least and made her "success" possible but I don't see a victim unless someone was seriously robbed.
You're right Paul, our Lord Jesus Christ can fill that void in our hearts. But how will they know unless we give our testimony, and God will handle the rest. Thank you for sharing and God bless you and wife.
This lady simply uses tactics that a narcissist uses naturally. Love ❤️ bombs, mirroring, gets the feel good chemicals working in the victim. Has to create an emotional bond with the victim. Once that happens she'll play off of his empathy to get rewards. Just whatever the victims weakness are will be exploited i.e. sex, empathy(feels sorry for her, hero(hes trying to save her)...
Growing up Catholic and middle class in the US, I had instilled in me a very strong sense of what I would call decency. It set the rules for me for the game of life. I don't know if there was an earlier incident, but I feel like that trike driver set the rules of the game for her future. If he had just been kind, things may have turned out differently, but he exposed a young girl to an unvarnished, naked, no-bounds transactional experience. I don't like it, but after that I can understand why anything goes. I find myself having the thought of showing her that it doesn't have to be like that, but I've fallen into that trap before without any positive results. She would have to have an experience from an act of kindness that borders on religious to change her understanding of the human condition.
VOID : I pray for "Kate" that someone will tell her about God's love and how she can find what she is looking for in Him. The caveat is that she must give Him everything in her heart-even her worldly possessions-before she will be accepted. She must come empty handed, not holding back anything. This is not about "poverty," but renouncing the "gods" of this world in which she has trusted to this point. She must give herself completely to Him. Maybe she will hear the Gospel preached. Maybe she will read the Bible. In some form, and in some fashion, I pray she will hear the truth about this world and the One who made us. Who will tell her? Who will be that friend? Who will love her enough to fill the void in her life with the Gospel?
If it was me and I had invited a woman,or man,gender doesnt matter,and saw that they commited fraud in my appartment with my computer,no matter what type of fraud, love fraud,car fraud,mail fraud,whatever, I would immidiately ask them to leave my appartment and not come back..thats not something I would never like to be a part of,allow in my appartment,by any way,facilitate by letting them use my computer to do it even..no chance..thats the first thing and main thing I think of this...
QUESTION...what happens to an American guy who goes to the Philippines...and dies there...do they bury him there or fly him back to the States...how does it work there? I'm 75 and thinking about coming over...but I know my time left is limited and what happens if the inevitable happens... Thanks Robert
When her beauty wilts, she will need someone to help her hopefully a good person but as we know birds of the same feather flock together, that person is going to take everything away from her until she will have nothing.
That's some story you created. Feel good? She sounds pretty smart to me. See no reason she will "need someone to help her". Many Filipinas do very well for themselves when older.
@@waterbug1135 My background: I grew up in Cebu lots of bad things happening during late 70s and early 80s, I immigrated to the US when I was 19, now I'm 60 waiting for my pension here in Cebu. The things I've seen growing up in Cebu you can only read it in comic books, but they happened IRL so based on experience, observation what usually happens to bad activities in the Philippines I am very familiar with them.
When someone has never been loved, this causes that hole you are speaking about. It can never be filled, EVEN when someone really does love her, because she will NOT believe that they really love her. AND this is the only solution. For her to recognize that she wasn't loved, and that was NOT her fault, and that others do deserve what she didn't get. When and IF she starts showing others the love that she missed, THEN she will become able to feel the love that's being given to her. Things can never replace what's missing. It also helps tremendously to believe in God, and that God is the source of ALL love. "We are the flowers of one garden, the leaves of one tree" Baha'i. All the best, Hope to meet you one day in Dumaguette
I know someone there nearly exactly as you have described. You nailed it at the end, she will never understand or accept love. Even when she has tried she always starts looking for her out or exit. In a way both a success story of survival and but yet a tragedy in the end.
Awesome story, Kuya Paul!!👍 I believe, from my experiences, these women are more 'opportunists' than scammers? They, like "Kate" had a meager life, and learned how to take advantage of people who were unaware of their vulnerabilities. Sure, it's scamming, and I feel it's wrong. But I also believe that I know why they do it. I've run into many people who have been in that situation, both in the States, and around the world. They're out there, everywhere! It's almost like they all read from the same script, and once you realize what their tactics, words and actions are, you can spot them almost immediately! 😲
I also know the “Kate” that you talk about and I too will keep her name anonymous. I feel sad for her and think she is a lost soul and probably the only thing that can save her is our Lord and Savior.
Kate is no doubt aware that things don't come as easy as they once did and maybe she sees futility in her path. It may occur to her that the one treasure she has never found is true love and she will hunger for it. That might bring her to understand that she needs to be her genuine self in order to find love. Of course the farther she goes down that road the more she'll realize that a lot of men are just assholes looking to nail Filipinas. And she will find it hard to realize that for anyone to find true love , you just have to be just plain lucky.
As an intelligent lady, she will end up with her own hotel offering high-quality rooms with happy ending massages included. At same time owning a scamming agency where other smart girls will teach the not so smart Joes how to behave.
And it aint ending anytime soon, there's a male loneliness epidemic in the west, they will continue to take advantage of what's endemic in society. It's economics 🙃
Very good story. I would imagine she will have to invest some of her ill gotten gains into a small business or an education to learn a skill where she can earn. When her looks are gone so will here ability to easily scam some poor lovesick fool so easily.
No sympathy with people like that. Predators becoming the prey is so ironic. And if you think I'm talking crazy just look at the video that is getting recommended 'how young is tooo young'. If you have to ask this question outside the country you are from, you are a predator.
Why is it used car salesmen throw friends under the bus so easily
how is it he's throwing his friend under the bus? or are you just an online troll saying irrelevant shit online because you'd never say shit to their face?
@@ziezcogslaw8643 definitely a online troll
I get it
Paul Threw Clariss under the bus for a few views 😊
@@tryscience-px3fs she hopped on the vid on her own accord and she knew what the channel was about ...do you even know the meaning of "throw someone under the bus"?
1) Relationships are transactionable 2) Renting is cheaper than buying. my exs' cost me a fortune 3) always look poorer than what you are 4) keep your personal life and details to yourself 5) only give money that you do not expect to get back 6) manage your resources to ensure your freedom 7) be happy as a single person and love yourself first and foremost. 8) Have fun, life is short!
Well said.
Renting is not cheaper than buying I have made almost 40k ,buying and living in the properties ,then selling. Last 5 years
@@Mark-bi4ppHe was talking about women not property lol
@Mark-bi4pp the last 5 years has been a great for the Philippine property market.
Renting a woman can be expensive too. I heard “rent to own wives” in Thailand and other areas are quite expensive.
She's a quick learner, extremely smart, speaks multiple languages.... The Lord hath a sense of humor. She's a survivor.
Let’s say there are a lot of scammers like this worldwide especially in the Caribbean, Central and South America also throughout Africa. It’s very unfortunate however men in general have to be smarter and not fall for this. Great story Paul thanks for sharing 👌🏾!
They exist in the US too. Hiding body counts, playing the long game, hooking White Knights into marriage and being stepdads. It's not about being "smarter", it's about insecurity. Extremely insecure men fall these scams and there are a lot of insecure men in the West. I'm guessing 100% of single men would answer "no" to the question "would you get with a single mom" yet many do. They know the correct answer, but don't feel worthy of a woman without serious problems. They feel more secure with a single mom feeling she needs his money.
Thinking you can be smarter than a scammer is how to be a target. I know I can be scammed. If someone asks me for money there's nothing for me to figure out. Is this a scam? Instead I know I can be scammed so I assume it's a scam and I say "no". Basically I say "no" to anything I didn't initiate. My phone rings with a number I don't know I don't answer. Text message I don't understand I delete.
I figured it out. Kate's real name is Goldfinger.🥳🎉
Lol and nice hair, good one!
Hahahaha
Not money penny? Or pussy galore, a bond character.. look it up… lol
imagine goldfinger naked on dirty pauls bed with a lap top trying to be sexy for a dude . . . . it was probably Mark Thornton all buzzed up on V8
She sure has changed her appearance!
The thing I find sickening about this is it displays exactly why I will never fully trust any woman! We men have been used and abused by women most of our lives and once we reach that point where we have had enough, we get jaded and stop caring. We hear about men who treat good women terribly but what no one bothers to ask is how he got that way?
You’re admitting to enabling a scammer and potentially causing harm to her victims?
The point that your story makes is that you can never trust a Filipina. Even if she ever finds "mister right" she's going to lie about her past. She knows no man will accept her if he knows her past. Therefore, she doesn't really have a future. If she's smart she will put some of that money aside, because the day will come that she's too old for this kind of business.
There's only 2 types of people you can never trust, women and men. And I'm one of them. It's not just that you can't 100% trust others, a person should not trust themselves. I question my own thinking, motives, even more than I do with others.
@@waterbug1135YES.
Meritocracy in action. Smart people can take advantage of others. Sensual Emotions, when used for a purpose (like Kate's) can easily overwhelm logic. CEO's. Religious People. Generals and Kings. Any Man on Earth.
My career was creating video games. I thought it a lot of fun to make a game as addictive as possible and to sell for the most money. I saw it as a game. And I told players this too in interviews. I always thought playing video games was a waste of time, but if people are going to waste their lives I may as well be one of the people they pay for that.
What a story! I suppose there are a lot of women like her in the Philippines.
I bet you're on the right track! Not only there are many girls like her, but there are organised agents teaching them what to do and how to take out of a Joe or many Joes pockets as much as they want.
There's a lot of women like her within 10 miles of your current location. You kidding me? Not telling partners about their past, body counts off the chart, getting men to be stepdads, marriage, divorce, alimony, child support, etc... Playing the long game is an old scam.
Also in the USA
just like baby mae only her I.Q. was not 37 like baby mae
@@darrenbrooks5369 🇮🇳🤝🇺🇸 Where do those irs and grants money come from? Oh yeah, now Medicare scams
It's the same everywhere. I met a girl online in the USA. She was attractive and kind. She was always finding ways to make money online without a real job. Our first date was church. I later found out she owned her home free and clear at 30 years old. I was more impressed. After while I figured out her background. She was working as a stripper and then a server at the club. I told her that the relationship couldn't continue if she kept that lifestyle. She found a normal job was to hard for her vs showing body parts and getting a load of cash. Needless to say, the relationship came to an end. She ultimately ended up with a man that paid her bills and I'm not even sure if they're still together to this day. She even claimed in the relationship that I wasn't a good enough Christian for her. It was like her new addiction. Yet she kept the same lifestyle.
Church girls are a huge red flag. Born again virgins. Hypocrites. The only standard they have is a double standard
Church girls are a huge red flag. Hypocritical born again virgins. The only standards they have is double standards
Church girls are a huge red flag. Hypocritical born again virgins. The only standards they have is double standards
Hey Paul my dear friend, very interesting topic. This is a great and very informative video. Men, listen to this video please. And learn. Paul, you are approaching that 100k subscriber mark brother. I predict that you will surpass 100k subscribers in the next 24-36 hours. So here is an early CONGRATULATIONS on hitting that 100k subscribers milestone. You truly deserve it brother. I always have nothing but love for you and the beautiful Baby Mae. Stay safe and healthy brother 👍 👍 👍 👍 👍 👍 👍 👍 ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️.
God Bless you my friend
I thought you were describing Claire M. Quitoy from Dumaguete.
She is a headache, absorbed a year of my time that I cannot get back.
I see no fix in Kate's situation as well as any others unless someone goes to jail.
It is like a gambler, you hear about their Ups and downs but no scammer will cutoff their income publicly.
Spiritually, they are headed for Hell. That cannot be changed unless forgiven.
Which has to BE ASK FOR, turned away from and sin no more..
If they even know Christ, is another good question.
If they come from a broken home, it seems to escalade rapidly.
Kate will go on and train a younger, for a cut. Its endless.
The HOLE cannot be filled. Their life is messed up from normal.
The clock will OUT RUN them. They will have what's leftover.
The looks fade to zip and BATTA BANG BATTA BOOM..
Then, Katy BAR THE DOOR. Lights out.
Christ has and continues to be the ultimate scam as clueless empty hole people continue supporting the fraud.
The empty space we have is missing God and that relationship ❤❤❤! Its not things or money even a relationship with another will not fill that void
There are still guys that will jump in eyes wide open thinking they can come to the rescue and fix it.
This is a very interesting story and a reminder to all the men to be very careful. I've been with my wife for 8 years. We have 3 lovely Phil/Am babies. We have a good relationship but even then I bought her some beach front property but I also bought me some in a relatives name with two 25 year leases. You have to be smart when spending cash in the Philippines.
you're a great storyteller Paul
need more of this type of content
@@bigdaddy5104 yes and most of it is fiction
Congratulations Paul On 100K...Ive been on board from the beginning...Thanks for Everything..
The farmer's daughter.......with a pitchfork! 😮 👿 🙏
Crazy people checking in
Very smart young lady there. Scamming is an art, and we men get played like a fiddle over a good looking woman. You let us into the mind of the scammer, thanks for the insight Paul.
@@gerrymcnally9344 Yes, because they know that lonely men are lonely because their brain is not big enough.
"We men". No need to drag us all down. You may think all men do the same as you, but nope.
Subscriber for many years but Paul I am on the fence on why you would associate with someone that does this to people. Sure they exist and everyone knows it but to make a video about this baffles me about you. This video glorifies her actions that she has done. And I think you were an enabler to a point. It’s a sad story but you can’t help everyone.
As time goes bye she will just adapt, but will never change.
I hope so. She's got a great career going. Why would she want to stop?
@@waterbug1135 Once she hits middle age she won't have many options
There's always another sucker, doesn't really change even with her age. @@Regi869
@@Regi869💯
This makes me think about the youtube video I made about how I was roommates with people that worked as scammers at the Chinese call centers. It was really eye opening to see how the whole operation works and I was actually bewildered that their employer actually makes millions of dollars from lonely men around the world in a single month.
The name of the video was "foreigners in destitution in cambodia"
Why don’t you simply report these thieves, cause that’s all they are. I guess anything for views. Disappointing 🤔
Old man paul aka froggy love to ramble and ramble. He makes 5 minutes story. To 60 looong boring minutes. Zzzzzzzz
@@sentinel80good point.. Froggy loves to ramble.
@@jpHarkins-kb2vvthe old man is Sharper than you I saw your comment coming a mile away his video is good your comment is boring 😂😂😂
Are you saying she had plastic surgery that actually made her look worse? Sounds like she is kinda damaged goods for any relationship in the future. With all that she had been able to attain, she will do ok in the future. She has one house to live in, the second one to rent or maybe sell. As she gets older, she will always probably be able to get enough money for food and what ever she needs. It probably won't be as lucrative as it once was, however there will always be some "knight in shining armor" that likes to throw money at women. She will never work a normal job because she can make more from a fool that is willing to part with his money.
I can save her 🤣
Great video… Very informative. We have to be self aware, and know when something is too good to be true. I feel bad for her and the people she hurt. Narcissistic people are everywhere, unfortunately…
Sounds like She and all of these Men got what they wanted out of the deal. Pay for play is acceptable to me with clear outlines of expectations. Love? LOL I stopped believing in that when I grew up. I hope this woman has planned for her future; the hard wall is coming fast.
I agree, the hard wall is getting closer awfully fast
Finally. Reading thru so many White Knight comments it's good to find some reality. These men get exactly what they wanted. Their insecurity soothed by giving money to a woman.
However, the wall is not an issue for a woman like this. The wall has to do with age, looks and locking down a guy. A professional scammer is not limited by age or looks and has no use for locking down a guy. She has already adapted her scams to pull in more money. I assume she will do even better in her 40's and 50's as there are a lot of White Knights thinking Filipinas that age won't be a scammer, will be more desperate and therefore even easier to scam. Suppose a hot looking 18 year-old messages you. Shields up? But a 40-50's year-old, decent looking? Shields not so much up?
I'd even advise Kate to try out pretending to be older. Might be a better scam.
Lots of guys pretend to be Filipina women too to get money from old desperate men.
There's a lady who's sure.... all that glitters is gold,
And she's buying a stairway to Heaven.
When she gets there she knows... if the stores are all closed,
With a word she can get what she came for...🎵🎵🎶
Yeah, you eventually parted ways. Not before befriending, empowering, and even becoming an accomplice by providing your laptop. Even now you hide her. I think this says more about your character than hers.
Good point. But not everyone thinks what she's doing is wrong. The term "scam" is used but that's just White Knight talk. I didn't hear anything in the video that Kate was doing as being illegal in PH. No claims of prostitution was made. It's not illegal to provide sex to "generous" men. All I heard was she would say she needed something and these WKs couldn't wait to give it to her. The WKs only scream "SCAM!!!" when their money runs out.
I'm 100% in favor of the work Kate is doing. These twisted men are looking for some woman to give money to so they can feel better about themselves. Findom is the term.
That's not a realistic assessment or solution. Shut her down, how? And what of the other million girls and guys pretending to be girls? Better, perhaps, to live and let live and learn the ways of the world.
she was on Pauls couch in a bikini with one of her facebook accounts . Dirty paul got scared he was gonna get busted for trafficking , now the operation goes through begging Maes Chanel
Paul is just as bad as Kate.
Never feel sorry for people like that. They have created their own place in hell. Cheers!
I feel sorry for Kate. How can anyone really live with inner peace and contentment while scamming lonely men out of their money?
As a professional cynic, I very much appreciated your narrative. Thanks.
Thanks for sharing this story , some one out there may need the wisdom to protect them from the scam
I agree only God can touch the heart and give help to the soul
Well, she was already damaged goods at age 15... 🙄Nothing any White Knight could fix at a later time, really.
It's a sad story but, tbh, I'm not sure if I feel sorry for her.
Sad story? She's killing it. Kate is the hero in this story. WK got what they wanted, a woman to give money to (Findom).
@@waterbug1135 🤔
I really have no idea about what her future may hold. But I would like to say I wish the very best for this person. I hope to life's journey she learns what she needs to learn. God bless you, Paul, and Baby Mae.
You are correct Paul. We all have a hole in every one of us. The only thing that can fill that hole is God
And what if there is no God....there is a thought
You can understand her need to survive. Unfortunately, she will probably get sick.
"Need to survive"? 99.9% of Filipinos don't do sex work and survive. This "survive" stuff is White Knight talk. When interviewed most sex workers say give the same reason..."the money is fast and easy".
Yup, sex work has danger. I was in the Army. Kind of dangerous. Then in construction. Kind of dangerous.
I have frequent conversations with a scammer also, but with a different circumstance. The Readers Digest version is.. This girl was in a house full of video sex girls who were also ruthless blackmailers. These girls and 2 Ladyboys would keep notebooks about their marks. They all had multiple profiles on Pinalove, and each bit of info that one would get on a guy, would be intertwined into the next profile that was made, like their own little algorithm for gaining info, like email address, Facebook friends, Twitter, Instagram etc. and had files on these guys. The guys will sometimes have many different girls that he's telling they are the only one, but they're all sitting in the same room laughing and collecting info like the CIA. You can be battling 24-1 odds if each girl has 4 profiles. She claims that over 50% of the time, one of the profiles will get the marks into compromising positions on video chat. Then it's payday. Once they get a friends list on any social media app, they'll find your relatives and workmates, then craft an email letting you know that your family is about to see you on your worst day unless you pay, and guess what... the payments don't stop.
Ive met foreigners here thats happened to, and actually me to a degree but no extortion on me because I know the game of the pinays. A neighbor of mine doesnt leave his apartment without a mask and usually some sort of disguise. Its kinda hilarious and sad at the same time. He told me hid in a mall bathroom for about an hour over an altercation and the girls said they calling the police. I met those exact gang of girls 3 years ago while vacationing. While he was telling me his story I showed him the photos of them and me. I thought he was going to have a heart attack right there.
All the locals share info on foreigners here, they even have chat groups to share the info, photos, video of foreigners.
@@tman46544 I don't know how prevalent it is where you are, or in other parts but these girls are in CDO and it's a hotbed for this sort of activity. Any guy that uses his real name online is crazy.
Lots of scammers with fake pictures and profiles all over these dating sites. If there's one piece of advice to weed them out is a video call. Scammers will find 100 reasons not to do a video call as they want to remain hidden and use fake pictures. Typical excuses is their camera doesn't work, no good internet for a video call, no data for video and can only exchanges messages but if you can just sent them money for a data plan, etc. etc.
@@franciscoaguilar123 Make them pan the room on that video call also. Even make them show ID.
There's no way I'm reading that book
Wow actually very sad…😢What a toll on her soul that must take…I hope and pray she does a 180 and settles down. I wonder if she will ever want to be with one man for true love? God can fill that hole in her heart ❤️…
I hope she sees the light🙏
@@AidaJof Hi Aida…I haven’t seen you in the comments lately as we both follow many of the same channels…I’m flying out of Michigan on Labor Day heading back to Dumaguete for a month. I’m going to retire in March and moving to Dumaguete.
True love is how 12 year-old girls think. "Whole in her heart" is how White Knights think. She has a great career and is doing well. God's speed to Kate.
@@marcrichard7251 I wish you all the best🙏
"She was doing what she had to do." This is White Knight language. IMO there's nothing wrong with being a sex worker, but let's be real. Women do sex work because the money is fast and easy. 99.9% of Filipinos do not do sex work. It isn't "needed to do". IMO sex workers are excellent business people. It takes brains and looks. Nothing wrong with getting White Knights to hand over all their money because it's something White Knights want to do to feel better about themselves. Win-win. The White Knights only complain when they run out of money.
21:50 More WK talk, "filling the massive hole created by her hard life"...nonsense. These WK are endless pits of delusion. Many people continue to amass money way beyond what is needed. Bill Gates, Warren Buffett, Elon Musk, etc... Very long list, all with normal childhoods. Getting money from people can be a lot of fun. It's like going to a casino without risking your own money.
wow, what a story, thanks for sharing some of the scammer inner workings, I appreciate it!
Kate is a Street hustler Survivor who is above average intelligence that could succeed at practically anything but because of her rough early childhood will never be able to actually bond Sincerely with a Man as she can't as her Oxytocin levels is so low from being abused and used. So the Victim becomes the victimizer and there is NO man that can change her chemical levels in her brain. Her future is bleak as she will eventually end up alone and have nothing but bitterness missing out on what truly matters
Could be worse things than being rich in the Philippines. But yea, only God can fill that void she's been swallowed by.
A lonely old fool and his money will soon part ways
That could be you one day
@@sentinel80 you know to each their own,I'm not here to judge,but I would rather my life play out a bit more" naturally"
@@sentinel80exactly
A lonely young fool never has any money
Any age get hit
Well said my friend. Great insight i wish life had a sifter to filter the stones from the gems. Unfortunately mine has only given me stones. Congratulations on 💯K it's been a fun journey, and im proud to call you my friend and brother! Peace out Brother!
The trouble here in the US is the FBI won't do anything even if you file the IC3.
Great information I hope many expatriates learn from this
So, she's pretty much like every other women.
Thanks Paul, some good advice here
This story reminds me of a buddy who works in a casino. At the morning meeting, the floor manager always says...it's your incentive to get every dollar you can from the customer.
As the hourglass of time gets less and less, it might be wise to vette the ladies even more....when I did so, she remained a friend but nothing more. All's fair in love and war, they say.
I worked in 14 tech startups. We had the same goal.
SO SAD THAT SHE HAS NOT FOUND SOMETHING TO BRING HER HAPPINESS AND LOVE
Theirs nothing more dangerous than a beautiful woman with a sharp mine she will end up with nothing in the long run Paul you are a great story teller thks for sharing that with all of us Ron from the states take care my friend
I thought I was the only one that knew about the hole in ourselves. Glad to know someone else knows it too.
Paul, it's not shallow for men to be attracted to nubile women. It's how God made us. To help keep the human race populated.
Maybe making this video wasn’t such a great idea 🤔.
Fascinating woman ! I would have loved to have known her through her journey.
Jail time when her charms no longer work. Criminal activity.
Well, I think she will continue on until she is forced to retire and find a permanent sugar daddy It sounds like she is nearing that stage already. If not, I suspect, she will eventually get suicidal or have a mental breakdown when she realizes she is all used up with no options left to her. Sad but that is how I see it.
Thanks for sharing Paul, much appreciated! No judgement here. Greetings from NYC.
God helps those who help themselves. 😇
Interesting story, this will surely help upcoming scammers learn the correct scam method.
Kate's a bright star that was on a bath of burning out a long time ago. She'll survive the best she can like she's always done. That's what we all do.
No we don’t, many of us survive without deceiving others.
"...her hole goes much bigger than the majority and it was a voracious Beast that constantly needed to be fed."
Figuratively as well as literally!
An old American guy who looking for a twice younger Filipina ultimately is an opportunist, a hunter, even we can say a predator who seek for an easy prey. That would be on the flip side of a story of the Filipina scammers. To not offend any of you guys l am going to tell that, l am sure vast majority of you are actually good honest men. We all tend to paint our portaits in a bright colours. The portaits for external and internal usage. It includes me myself of course. Guys no matter what enjoy yourselfs and stay gwapo !
Hi uncle Paul.
What a deep explanatory video. I watched this one more than two times.
When diamond was digged to know its back history and origin, 😮😮😮😮 found that its coal. Thats why we always plan for the future.
Well said
Thats why my wife is 50 (looking like 40) to avoid this shit😀
I wish her continued success with a happy ending. There are no victims here.
Hi Paul,
enjoy your videos, thank you.
Tough question!
“A body in motion tends to stay in motion.”
Sounds like Kate’s over compensating with her success acquiring wealth for the lack of love she received as a child. No I’m not a shrink! I suspect Kate’s future will look much like her past until she awakens to the needs of her void or she’s no longer able to compete with her younger, more attractive competitors. She’s mastered level 1; she needs to evolve to level 2 or consider her “end game” options!
Yeah.....it's the P.I. and not in the USA.
But then.....for Americans, who want to follow that sort of "business model".......
When you think about it.......those who participate in that sort of income-making, pay NO taxes. And to add to the insult.....some in the US Govt are moving to make "TIPS".....not counted as income.
Climbing Up The in this situation is very Smart to survive
I honestly don't know how to think about this very cool story. I didn't seem to pick up on her doing anything ugly to the men who paid her so I don't see anything evil or very bad about giving some men the attention they wanted. I love that you befriended her at least and made her "success" possible but I don't see a victim unless someone was seriously robbed.
You're right Paul, our Lord Jesus Christ can fill that void in our hearts. But how will they know unless we give our testimony, and God will handle the rest. Thank you for sharing and God bless you and wife.
She has property to rent. She should be fine.
Primarily Ask her if she’s looking for change
If yes then suggest her to research Derek prince (curses)
Please keep me posted
This lady simply uses tactics that a narcissist uses naturally. Love ❤️ bombs, mirroring, gets the feel good chemicals working in the victim. Has to create an emotional bond with the victim. Once that happens she'll play off of his empathy to get rewards. Just whatever the victims weakness are will be exploited i.e. sex, empathy(feels sorry for her, hero(hes trying to save her)...
Growing up Catholic and middle class in the US, I had instilled in me a very strong sense of what I would call decency. It set the rules for me for the game of life. I don't know if there was an earlier incident, but I feel like that trike driver set the rules of the game for her future. If he had just been kind, things may have turned out differently, but he exposed a young girl to an unvarnished, naked, no-bounds transactional experience. I don't like it, but after that I can understand why anything goes.
I find myself having the thought of showing her that it doesn't have to be like that, but I've fallen into that trap before without any positive results. She would have to have an experience from an act of kindness that borders on religious to change her understanding of the human condition.
VOID : I pray for "Kate" that someone will tell her about God's love and how she can find what she is looking for in Him. The caveat is that she must give Him everything in her heart-even her worldly possessions-before she will be accepted. She must come empty handed, not holding back anything. This is not about "poverty," but renouncing the "gods" of this world in which she has trusted to this point. She must give herself completely to Him. Maybe she will hear the Gospel preached. Maybe she will read the Bible. In some form, and in some fashion, I pray she will hear the truth about this world and the One who made us. Who will tell her? Who will be that friend? Who will love her enough to fill the void in her life with the Gospel?
If it was me and I had invited a woman,or man,gender doesnt matter,and saw that they commited fraud in my appartment with my computer,no matter what type of fraud, love fraud,car fraud,mail fraud,whatever, I would immidiately ask them to leave my appartment and not come back..thats not something I would never like to be a part of,allow in my appartment,by any way,facilitate by letting them use my computer to do it even..no chance..thats the first thing and main thing I think of this...
QUESTION...what happens to an American guy who goes to the Philippines...and dies there...do they bury him there or fly him back to the States...how does it work there?
I'm 75 and thinking about coming over...but I know my time left is limited and what happens if the inevitable happens...
Thanks
Robert
wow, just wow!
When her beauty wilts, she will need someone to help her hopefully a good person but as we know birds of the same feather flock together, that person is going to take everything away from her until she will have nothing.
That's some story you created. Feel good? She sounds pretty smart to me. See no reason she will "need someone to help her". Many Filipinas do very well for themselves when older.
@@waterbug1135 Hahah someone got triggered. I am basing my story on a girl I grew up with, she was younger than I am but now she's dead.
@@waterbug1135 My background:
I grew up in Cebu lots of bad things happening during late 70s and early 80s, I immigrated to the US when I was 19, now I'm 60 waiting for my pension here in Cebu. The things I've seen growing up in Cebu you can only read it in comic books, but they happened IRL so based on experience, observation what usually happens to bad activities in the Philippines I am very familiar with them.
Don’t worry about Kate those guys are a worry
I'm here for the thumbnail
When someone has never been loved, this causes that hole you are speaking about. It can never be filled, EVEN when someone really does love her, because she will NOT believe that they really love her. AND this is the only solution. For her to recognize that she wasn't loved, and that was NOT her fault, and that others do deserve what she didn't get. When and IF she starts showing others the love that she missed, THEN she will become able to feel the love that's being given to her. Things can never replace what's missing. It also helps tremendously to believe in God, and that God is the source of ALL love. "We are the flowers of one garden, the leaves of one tree" Baha'i. All the best, Hope to meet you one day in Dumaguette
I know someone there nearly exactly as you have described. You nailed it at the end, she will never understand or accept love. Even when she has tried she always starts looking for her out or exit. In a way both a success story of survival and but yet a tragedy in the end.
Old dog you are as guilty as she is! 🎉😢😅
Awesome story, Kuya Paul!!👍
I believe, from my experiences, these women are more 'opportunists' than scammers? They, like "Kate" had a meager life, and learned how to take advantage of people who were unaware of their vulnerabilities.
Sure, it's scamming, and I feel it's wrong. But I also believe that I know why they do it. I've run into many people who have been in that situation, both in the States, and around the world. They're out there, everywhere!
It's almost like they all read from the same script, and once you realize what their tactics, words and actions are, you can spot them almost immediately! 😲
Hi, Paul very interesting. I met somebody about 4 years ago in dumageti, where you're at on the internet. Sounds like her. Her name to me was juny le
As always Paul you produce very interesting and informative videos - keep up the good work
I also know the “Kate” that you talk about and I too will keep her name anonymous. I feel sad for her and think she is a lost soul and probably the only thing that can save her is our Lord and Savior.
Kate is no doubt aware that things don't come as easy as they once did and maybe she sees futility in her path. It may occur to her that the one treasure she has never found is true love and she will hunger for it. That might bring her to understand that she needs to be her genuine self in order to find love. Of course the farther she goes down that road the more she'll realize that a lot of men are just assholes looking to nail Filipinas. And she will find it hard to realize that for anyone to find true love , you just have to be just plain lucky.
She will get it in the end, when she least expects it.
Your friend Kate will be a “madame” who will create a black book.
(21:35) Truer words were never spoke, figuratively and literally.
As an intelligent lady, she will end up with her own hotel offering high-quality rooms with happy ending massages included. At same time owning a scamming agency where other smart girls will teach the not so smart Joes how to behave.
And it aint ending anytime soon, there's a male loneliness epidemic in the west, they will continue to take advantage of what's endemic in society. It's economics 🙃
Very good story. I would imagine she will have to invest some of her ill gotten gains into a small business or an education to learn a skill where she can earn. When her looks are gone so will here ability to easily scam some poor lovesick fool so easily.
No sympathy with people like that. Predators becoming the prey is so ironic. And if you think I'm talking crazy just look at the video that is getting recommended 'how young is tooo young'. If you have to ask this question outside the country you are from, you are a predator.
Beware.
The same thing happens here in the United States! Same old same old! FYI