editor in chief of Cosmo: a woman editor in chief of Vanity Fair: a woman editor in chief of Shape: a woman editor in chief W Magazine: a woman editor in chief Vogue: a woman editor in chief Elle: a woman editor in chief Marie Claire: a woman it's not the patriarchy
Not a feminist or anything, but is it not expected to have female editors for magazines for females? Having a female editor for a magazine would help with relatability, of course its going to be hard for the main editor of a magazine for women, about women, to be a male.
Same goes with your job/income/marriage etc Easier to protest your low wage then go back to school..Easier to get an abortion then be responsible with your actions. etc
Well give them a break. It cost a lot of money to run outside. It cost a lot of money to do pushups in the living room. Plus it is not their fault they choose Coke over water for the same price. It is not their fault they rather have a bag of potato chips for the same cost as a bag of apples. "you can have a bottle of water instead of that pop." "I do not like water" "Well then that is your own fault" "your just being mean. After all my body will keep me slim and diabetic free because I have no control over my taste buds and my body will understand. Just like my friend who loves cheeseburgers. Her body kept her slim because her body understands she likes those over salads. Her body is forgiving" You can be fat all you want. Pay higher insurance, have a crane pick you up, and die of a heart attack in your 40's all you want. Last I checked your body does not care about your excuses for life choices.
I was once told this by a teenage boy. "The only people who care about what a woman wears are women and non-heterosexual males -the rest of us would be happier if women wore nothing." I almost died laughing.
Thank you. Youre a rarity tho we need more people who think the same. Atleast the weight thing is something one can change. Im kinda stuck with my height haha
The worst part is only 1 of these can be changed (I'm 6'3'' BTW, just before any hate starts flying-just seen my shorter mates get pied for literally not having a certain gene)
@@justvocals4652 Thank you. I'm not sure honestly. I have been told to lose weight (mostly by people selling weight loss pills and shakes, trying to make money off of my insecurities) as well as being told to gain it by others. I'm average and I guess that makes people upset.
@@madisonreynolds9421 I don't know you so I can't give you any advice. But I have had similar issues. People constantly pester me with advices to lose weight. I simply choose to ignore. I hear what they have to say, give them a smile, and go about my own business. I don't know how old you are but I'm 30. It took me a long time to learn to ignore.
Madison Reynolds people will hate no matter what. They’re self conscious so they choose to project that onto other people. It’s stupid and yes always seems to come from other women.
As a women with a body image problem I really needed to hear this. After having 3 kids and not having the body I was so used to having, a man (whom I respect) saying the people putting those standards are basically people who don't matter really put things in perspective. So thank you.
You had 3 kids you’ve been through a lot it’s ok to put on a little weight your more then something to look at you are a person that probably went through hell carrying and raising those kids so if people have problems with your weight fuck em
Be small enough that I can interlock both arms while hugging you. If your stomach’s circumference is larger them my wingspan then I can’t date you. I can’t have my girlfriend die after walking down the block.
@@Pellbort Do you realise how hilariously you just turned the idiocy of this comment section back on itself? I hope that was your goal because it was beautiful.
The goal was to point out the lack of accountability by a group of anti-depressant popping conspiracy kooks. I do agree both sides should quit whining about either gender having standards though. No one has to like your body or anything about you. Period.
That statement heard while driving could cause a pile up ... I suffered a logic lock up for 6 minutes..if I had been driving I'm sure I would have wrecked
Just a thought, in school, I was called fat and ugly by girls. The guys told me that I was pretty and never called me fat. The whole body dysphoric world we live in was created by other women.
Very well and intelligently said, Friend!! Fact is, Americans are OBSESSED WITH YOUTH AND BIZARRELY FAKE DOLL LOOKS. It’s horrifying. And a source of huge revenue. Being healthy and happy is no longer attractive..?? Whyyyyy🤪😖 And no I have never been overweight and I cannot relate to killing oneself with absurd caloric intake. That’s just me. 😁🤦🏻♀️
My gf, 3 years into our almost 6 year relationship asked me if she looked like she had gained weight since we started dating. I said yes, but I'm still very much attracted to you, and it's not like you gained like 100 pounds, you got a bit of a muffin top going on, and I've lost weight, I'm a weak little stringbean now compared to when we first started dating, and she agreed The next day we got access to the gym in our building and started working out together We were honest with each other, our feelings weren't hurt, we both made an individual commitment to each other to get back to where we were at the start, even though there was no strain on the relationship at the time, it's not like we were drifting apart or not having intercourse because we weren't attracted to each other anymore I bulked up again, she slimmed down. We are committed to each other, and that means looking out for each other's health. She obviously felt some hit towards her self esteem, but she realized that it was internal. I was honest when she asked if she gained weight and I book-ended it with the fact I'm still attracted It's definitely a minefield, but you should be able to be honest in those regards with your partner
Congratulations, that's what a healthy relationship is. Making effort to improve together while loving eachother. I hate how the media portrays healthy relationships as totally accepting eachother as if everyone's perfect and doesn't need to be altered.
@@sibylle1927 yep, you always gotta check in and see where you're at in your relationship, you assume everything is fine and you never talk about things next thing you know your relationship disintegrates. Communication is key
@@BecketTheHymnist Not gonna lie, I'm glad for those who are taller than me with such standards. At 5'7" short, I don't like women taller than me anyway.
@@BecketTheHymnist You right, I left out a lot of additional criteria 😂 Tall, dressed well, is nice/bit of an asshole, opens doors/treats her like an equal, makes her feel special/has other women interested, cares about her/ignores her.. unrealistic to list them all here
@@rhianwenlewis7889 Am gonna be honest, attractive privilege high-key exists, If you are weird and abnormal but you're attractive you're seen as quirky, but if you aren't attractive then you're a freak if you love yourself and you're seen as very attractive, you're just confident rightfully, but if you aren't attractive and especially if you are a man, you're just conceited, if you talk a lot and you're attractive, you're just really outgoing, but if you aren't attractive you're just annoying and talk too much. idk bout you but this defiantly makes sense to me since am not an attractive guy, it really makes me shy away from talking or joking around except doing so with other guys.
@@karimshawagfeh3630 You're right. 100%. I remember losing a lot of weight at school, and I didn't change personality wise. When I was attractive, people suddenly found me funny and were paying a whole lot more attention to me. Keep in mind, my personality didn't change when I was "unattractive" by most standards. I put on weight, and then people started seeing me as weird and a loser. Didn't get the attention I used too, now I'm here trying to loose weight not to get attention, but to look after my health and mental well-being. So attractive privilege does exist and always will be, it will be even higher for a woman who is deemed attractive by men's standards. And for men? Being unattractive in reality is much harder to gain attention from someone you like. A lot of these feminist put in the notion of "if you're overweight, it's not your fault, it's your man's fault for not loving you for who you are" or "you're beautiful the way you are and you shouldn't change so people like you." To young girls at a young age to the point they grow up with this mentality, and you can see it and it's disgusting. A lot of these overweight woman that I've talked and engaged with when they complain about loosing the weight and how they've tried everything and still can't loose are actually just lying to themselves. They're giving excuses and comforting themselves. The truth is, loosing weight is being committed to 110% effort healthy lifestyle which these girls just do not do - (This goes for men as well, but I've noticed woman do this behaviour a lot more then men personal experience) Even then with these overweight woman, they still get attention much easier than an overweight man and I can confirm this as I was 147kg at 6ft2inches and I had zero attention from girls and even guys. You can still be tall and masculine, but if you don't look after yourself (groom, maintain e.t.c, go to gym) and not care about how you're precived by others physically, it will show. Trust me, it shows. You're like a walking antenna and antenna and sign to girls that you're not boyfriend material. That being said, average guys still can very much get hot girls as the guys themselves, have increased their own value a lottttt. Just physical looks gives you a higher number and value from the start. So physical attraction is very much important, especially if you're having sex.
As an extroverted girl, if you walk up to me first it's weird either way. People just don't approach me all that much because I do most of the work if I want to talk. If someone DOES walk up to me it immediately sets them apart.
Girl: he’s gotta be 6’3, 180lb, make 6 figures, and have to be willing to cut everyone out of their life Guy: it would be nice if her BMI didn’t start with 3 Girl:🤨
Kevin Hedman yes but how old? Because if your 14, you put my ass to shame, 5’10-5’11, I am toned with muscle, not big and but at least some decent stuff, and I am only around 140 lbs
I hear this everywhere at my school. As soon as I started watching your content I’ve been seeing my school pushing narratives I didn’t notice before! This channel opened my eyes to actual problems rather then the things the department of education here in PA try to spoon feed students. Thanks for that, Steven.
Join The_Donald and gain some more of those redpills. Its my hope that the more truth we spread, the better informed people will be at the voting booths and in their lives in general.
I've had a similar problem at school, where it got to the point of a teacher screaming at me about some untrue liberal fantasy. The best advice I can give is learn the truth for yourself and ignore it or disprove them.
Wow....! The visual on this comment. You made me actually lol. Real talk, one of the unfortunate side effects of the standard American diet (SAD) is that the hormones that regulate hunger are screwed up. It takes effort to right the problem. If you have a weight problem and are eating the SAD, look into the effects of the excessive carbs, sugar, and preservatives.
@@arcturus4762 Food choice and diet is no longer defined by where you live this isn't the 1800's, we have access to all types of food now from cultures across the globe if someone chooses to eat unhealthy junk food 7 days a week with a fizzy drink on the side thats on them!
Hahaha I’ve actually had a friend say that me eating well and working out makes them feel bad about themselves. Suggesting I shouldn’t be so healthy around them.
that's a way to change the topic. those people aren't dumb, they're playing you. they don't even believe it's bullying themselves. look at the "trigger warning" meme.
As a senior, it find it funny that people - men and women dont try to keep improving .And use various 'helps' to' lift their looks - a range of well fitting clothes, good grooming, moderate exercise etc. Feminists really did us wrong.Many of them look like hell in their 50's. Most need up upgrade themselves.And help their mates. I really find it unacceptable for women to let their husbands go around with rusty lips and elbows or crusty feet. lol
@USSR Tube That's just because you are not in the right mindset. Just eat 200g chocolate a day and you are half way to gaining. Then eat a big dinner and anything else is pretty much over what you burn. It's really not hard to gain weight.
"If you're a high school guy who is short and has bad skin, then you're out of luck." Is this a personal attack?!?! Why do I feel so hurt after that comment?!?!?
Whaaaat?! Really?! All three of you can’t be in on the gag. My comment only has 22 likes 🤦🏻♂️ I Hope this isn’t true ...I’m legit waring a pretty dapper cranberry jacket and I wear it to make people smile :)
@Elias Leal I like looks and personality more than money but I'm not normal. I had a friend who was super wealthy and always tried to impress me with it. It made me feel uncomfortable because I'm a poor uneducated POS lol no joke! But my friend was like... he has money!? Let me jump on that! Everyone is shit!
"Don’t be too obese" Smh. Those standards are for desperate losers. What about having an average weight otherwise achievable by 80% of people in Asian and European countries, having a job etc.?
My husband has always told me I’m the most beautiful to him and he makes me feel prettier than anyone else in the world. Every woman should have a man who makes her feel like his prize. I hope our daughters find this in life.
Girl: he has to be 6’6”, make 6 figures a year with an 8 inch meat Guy: as long as she’s not overweight Girl: you’re like hitler but at least hitler cared about Germany or something
My husband thinks I'm beautiful. We've known each other for 31 years. I am far from perfect. I am not fat, I'm not the most beautiful woman in the world, but he thinks I'm beautiful. I believe lots of men think lots of different looking women are lovely-- just as long as they are healthy and have a pretty smile.
This reminds me of one of my ex's, whenever we went out for dinner she spent a very long time doing her makeup and NEVER believed me when I said that I found her more attractive with minimal makeup or no makeup at all. She couldn't understand the concept of me preferring her to look the way she normally looked
I've been with my husband for 10 years this month. Hes never seen me in make up and has never been bothered by it. If I started wearing make up he would probably think I'm having an affair lol
@Darkskin Asian Man she's not a bitch, shes just still trying to love herself dude, soon she will accpet that her bf loves her with minimal makeup and start to feel good
Everyone’s heard males say “I’m into thick girls.” Has anyone heard any females say “I’m into thick guys” or even “I’m into short guys or guys shorter than me”? I haven’t and that speaks volumes
Anthony Vilela I know a few. And for me I like the athletic types but no damned six pack. I need someone who is able and wants to keep up to me hiking and doing acrobatics. It’s the body types that suit your lifestyle. As for the ripped dudes... they most likely spend way too much time at the gym and are super self centred. Too busy looking in the mirror and taking gym selfies. Barf.
I once knew a girl who only liked guys who looked "average" as she said. Average being, she just liked nerds or introverted guys who wore pretty basic or anime shirts.
As a female, I’m not surprised that we judge men more for looks. Girls are always judged for looks by other girls, we’re criticized for something we (for the most part) can’t control. Personally, I don’t care about men’s looks _as_ much as other women, of course it’s still a factor, but I’d rather have an average-looking guy with a good personality than a really hot guy who probably doesn’t even like me.
I think this has a lot to do with age as well. I used to not give less attraktive guys a chance, because as a women I was always judged by my apperence, so I started doing to others as well. Now that I'm older and put my mental health and well beeing above my looks, I go for a guy's personality rather than their looks. Now I would put more emphasis on a guy's health than attractiveness. Obviously it will always play a role, but it's way less so than a few years ago.
as a woman i 100% agree with this and honestly i’m annoyed that i can’t find more women out there with the same view point as this, i am naturally very skinny but i’m not curvy, i get called anorexic, i get asked if i have eating disorders and people will regularly think i’m younger than i am or say i look like i’m 12 (i’m not)(also this is actually usually seen as a joke but can knock your confidence a LOT). However women who are unhealthily large are praised and called brave and amazing when they put their health at risk, by the media, by their friends and if i were put in a magazine i would ‘be promoting unrealistic body expectations’, no one can tell me this is how it’s supposed to be when if you go back maybe 50 years I would be an average size for someone my age Thank you for coming to my ted talk
I have a doctor that told me once "I can give you the accepted weight today or what is actually healthy" What he meant was we are so fat today that the avg "healthy" weight was raised compared to years ago. Now we have people morbidly obese talking about health...Just imagine in another 50 years what the "healthy weight" will be. Another 50 pounds more?
Don't forget that you have to be able to entertain them. Make them laugh. And don't you DARE wear glasses. Ever see anyone is a beer commercial, wearing glasses?
I started gyming because my female friends kept mocking me and telling that I was "less" of a man because I was too skinny. They'd always make jokes about how they couldn't depend on me to do any "manly" things. I acted as tho I didn't care about what they were saying, but in truth it hurt, it hurt a lot. One would always point out on how flat my chest was (that one really hurt) Maybe their "body shaming" me was good for me, because now I'm a bit more buff and more confident in myself.
Yes! Use it as a motivation to prove them wrong! I'm the same way. But like the comment above mine said. Dont just do it for other people. Do it for you.
SirParcifal Well I mean she is trying to promote a lifestyle that will ultimately shave a third off your lifespan but I def feel bad for the kids they didn’t do anything
Sign on Volkswagons in the olden days, that had a mattress in the back, curtains on the windows, "NO FAT CHICKS!" The guys that wrote that are your DADS today!
Kedrick W the fat pride movement focuses on how men have unrealistic standards of women even though typically women judge other women a lot more then men
As a woman, I still remember, in the eighties, when we first started dealing seriously with anorexia, everyone put the blame for unrealistic body images where it belonged: Hollywood and Fashion. Now, all of a sudden it's the fault of men? Talk about a false narrative.
Percisely! And yet to this day most males will not admit that the TV brainwashed them into accepting certain artificial standards as being real. Women are always going to be on the hefty side, especially after child birth. Males wanting some 6.0/55 lbs women with a breast ratio of enormous are kidding themselves!
Definitely not a problem started or even perpetuated by men. Never was. Men have been perfectly okay being involved with the continuation of the human race when women didn't shave, had birthing hips, and weren't sanitized head to toe and covered in perfume.
I was average height but terrible skin, nothing I tried worked and the dermatologist eventually just told me I'd grow out of it. The things I heard people say about me during high school when they thought I wasn't around or not listening... it was a rough time to put it lightly. Went through some pretty terrible things but that's all I'll say on the matter. Seriously considered suicide for most of my time there. Fortunately didn't, obviously lol. Only had a few "real" friends (which I still talk to and do things with occasionally, extremely grateful for them). Plus it was extremely hard to even try and make new friends. I always felt like the outcast and I feel like those 4 years did some really harmful stuff to my brain because even though it's been a long time since then it still affects me psychologically and with how I perceive myself. Tldr; people are assholes to you even more so if you're a guy and "ugly".
I agree... but fuck it... I would have a hard time pickin on anyone that wore makeup. I remember a friend that would wear cover up sometimes... I guess it’s s point to you guys since I remember a guy wearing make up. Respect and don’t feel so bad everybody.
I honestly believe this movement comes from super self conscious women with extra weight who are jealous of slim women. Very sad when you think about it. It’s fat women shaming skinny women lol!
Well I'm a teen female and I'm here! 🙋🏻♀️ I agree with everything he's saying and although it's not about feelings, Steven's message honestly does make me feel better as a young person with many flaws 😂
It's not quite self-inflicted. Men are designed to enjoy beauty, and women are designed to want to be that beauty. You men can help us by explaining that we naturally ARE beautiful.
@@charitygracestanford881 I am 51 and I've learned long ago, what Steve is trying to get across. I am glad you hear this early. Be yourself, enjoy yourself, and the perfect guy will be drawn to you and love you just the way you are. You won't ever have to pretend you are something you are not. That is incredibly freeing. Do you know that some women never let their husbands see them without make up? They will even reapply their makeup before bed! If I were a guy, I wouldn't want to kiss makeup, I'd want to kiss my wife! Be proud to be you and let the guys be themselves as well.
@@charitygracestanford881 I'm glad the video was positive for you. There is a lot of truth in what he said. I've been with my wife for 7 years and I find her so extremely attractive. Yet, no matter how many times a day I compliment her, get caught staring at her, hold her so tightly and tell her how much I adore her inside and out she's still so incredibly insecure. Shes what some would call a little curvy and her comparing herself to other women all her life ruined her image of herself. It's so bad that no matter how honest I am about my feelings she still doesn't believe me. She feels like she needs to be thinner, have a bigger chest, have nicer hair, the list goes on. Even without my love for her I'd still find her wildly attractive. And I know other men feel the same. She thinks all men want a model but you'd be surprised how untrue that is. I'm a personal trainer at a high end gym, I'm around extremely fit women every day and even though I do think they are attractive they dont hold a flame to my wife. Make sure you're never too hard on yourself, you'll always be your harshest critic.
I've never had men saw anything negative about the way I looked. I've had a lot of women try to put me down in every way. Women attack other women's self-esteem far more than men ever could.
Back in college I remember a girl once called me fat and so did her friends.....I chose to let it slide for a whole year. I got tired and took all that like a challenge and it took me a few months and a little sacrifice to get in lean and fit (not cut) and the same girl ...who was already holding her breath to look slim broke her high heels because she gained a lot of weight.
girls: He needs to be 6', make 6 figures, and have a 6 pack guys: It would be nice if she wasn't a whale girls: OMG UNREALISTIC EXPECTATIONS HOW DARE YOU
The most popular guy in my school was a ginger with bad acne. He won prom King and everything. I think y'all are pretending to yourselves. And just for context my graduating class was 1000 kids. It's about personality not appearance.
I'm skinny, I was called "Twiggy" when I was a kid. Lol. It is true that we get picked on too. Fact is we have to grow a thick skin and get over it. Be happy in ourselves. I am happier at 51 than ever was before. Chosen to be single for the next few years..this is a narcissistic world now adays imo. I love your channel. I learn a lot about males because of you guys!! Well done and love from Enniskillen 💚♥️
lol. So true. I once had another girl say I had a "fat stomach" when I was a size 2. I didn't have much in the way of body fat at all back then, and my ribs stuck out. It was weird that she called me fat, but was all like "oh, this other girl is so cute" who was arguably a bit more chunky than me at the time. Women will find all kinds of reasons to berate other women just because they've decided to. Men...not so much.
Oh for the love of guacamole One thing that is disgusting though are the people that are 600lb strolling around in a mobile chair in Walmart. I feel embarrassed to be American when I see that because only in America do you see people like that. I’ve been to many countries in Europe multiple times and have never seen a morbidly obese person, not even the bus drivers! I don’t believe that whole “I’m big boned” or “I have a medical condition I can’t lose weight”.
@@xCkillaxC I agree. I mean, I can understand *some* weight gain for medical conditions or taking a medication....but those conditions and medications generally only directly cause a slight increase in weight (10-20 pounds). And I can also understand weight gain from having a baby (natural and healthy), and it taking some time to lose the weight (especially for those who cannot breast-feed, since breast-feeding is directly tied to losing some of the baby weight...) but I detest stupid excuses for just being lazy. And you can limit weight gain in cases of certain medical conditions with careful diet planning. (I mean, really...if you're only eating 1500 to 1700 calories a day, then there's no way that you can pack on a ton of weight.)
Women are designed to meet the needs of men, and vice versa. So a woman wants to make sure her man is attracted to HERSELF and not everyone else. That's why they seem competitive. Just like guys have to flex those protective muscles to show they are bigger and badder than any other guy....because girls are meant to be protected. We all compete with our own sex to some extent; it's not just a woman thing. But not feeling beautiful when guys are attracted to beauty, really stinks.
Absolutely true, men don't set all these crazy beauty standards, women do it to themselves and each other, all you have to be, imo, is a good person who is somewhat attractive, that is all any real men ask for when looking for a compatible woman!
I agree that media’s standards of beauty, especially in an era of photoshop and plastic surgery, can be intimidating for anyone, regardless of gender. My own personal body shame and insecurity have been hard to shake, my whole life. This video was really encouraging. It was honestly rather healing to listen to a bunch of men explain how they see and appreciate beauty in a variety of shapes, sizes and forms. It’s nice to know that even if my body may never be used to sell a weight loss shake, I can still be seen as valuable and desirable.
As a young man myself, I can tell you that I actually find it slightly gross when a woman is so skinny that I can see her ribs imprinting against her skin. Wouldn't be a deal breaker for me by any means, but I'd prefer not. Some might call me a chubby-chaser, I guess, but eh? Many men are more aroused by having more flesh to hold in their hands. Not to mention I'd never want to be shackled up to a woman that is constantly enforcing dietary standards anyways. I will say that even the men I've known who think skinny women are the most attractive end up dating women who are not even remotely that skinny or "groomed." Most men are capable of looking at a woman as a whole package of traits and not just base their eligibility on appearance. It's just easier to get us aroused. I think a real problem that most people overlook is that they are going about looking for love in the wrong fashion, or are poor at judging people in the first few dates, then get fed up when the relationship doesn't turn out how they thought and blame an entire gender one way or the other. When really, the reason they keep seeing recurring problems with their dates is their own judgment at choosing a date.
Wow you sound like a real catch and you have a mind that works that's all men want a nice woman with intelligence and isnt struggling to breathe or walk my girlfriend got very overweight and she hated her body but we worked hard together training and eating right and she lost 70 lbs and has a new lease on life men love women we want them to succeed and be healthy and happy nothing else we all had mothers or sisters or other female relatives
@@danielleia It's relevant because you cry about how these beauty standarts affected you in a negativ way yet you put the same standarts on men by wanting a men who is taller than average.
Heard a guy say last night that most women who judge men for their looks need to remember that about 95% of their beauty can be removed with a wet wipe.
@@A_Black_Sheep94 Your government will steal most of it and just hand it to the women anyway. Unless you live in a Muslim-majority country, or Poland and Russia.
Whenever I’m around a group of just guys I feel so much more comfortable with my body than I do if I’m around a group of just girls. Cause I know we all look at each other and compare ourselves. I also hear more comments about appearances from woman to woman, than I do from men to women.
To be honest, the group of guys deep back in their minds are... wondering if she thinks I am cool enough to (#*&@( me in the car and let me )@#(*@ l @)#(@ in the *&#@(* and #(*&@$. All night... You know the "normal" stuff.
Women: "I only like tall men" Male"I only like skinny women" Why is one of these just a preference and the other one body shaming? Is this more of that male privilege thing I keep hearing about.
person of interest, both are acceptable preferences. We are all free to have our own preferences. Not everyone is everyone’s cup of tea and that’s OK. Onto the next one...
Steven, I was a professional international model for 7 years. I can assure you that egocentric gay men and women run the fashion industry. In fact, I quit because I was tired of getting hit on by men then losing jobs over no pay to play action. Where's the male model "me too" movement. Also, to prove another one of your points. I married a playboy model, not a runway model. I don't need to explain why...
Sub if you hate Socialist and stand with Trump 2020 What department and/or agency did you work for if you don’t mind me asking? I just want to know what to avoid
A lot of gay men are the worst they think they can get with any man regardless of their sexuality and they think they can tell everyone what their sexuality is.
Ex-feminist here, this video was healing for me tbh. Men and women need to COMMUNICATE. And conservatives can lead the way in communication between the sexes. God bless you guys, Steven & co.
As a millennial that bridges the gap between you two generations my phone is constantly in my face and I know how to communicate. So let me communicate what the problem is FEMINISM AND LACK OF RELIGION.
@Keith Meehan That's because all women do is socialize, men have to you know actually worry about and do things and don't have everything handed to them. There's a reason socialism is being jammed down our throats..
Also, every guy has tried being with a girl and then hearing her complimenting a guy for looking like fckn Bradd Pitt or some shit. But I have never ever in my life heard a guy complimenting another girl whilst walking with one.
The “standard” comes from other women. It’s like a couple of students I had who were complaining about how much money they “had to spend” on getting their hair done. I asked them who ever said they needed to wear their hair like that..they had no answer.
Shawn Horstman that’s not entirely true though, good men can just choose to be with good women if they want as well, you just have to meet a standard to be allowed in at that level, same with women for the most part.
Personally, I could care less about this whole subject.. Let the fatties think however they want. Let them think they are pretty, and healthy. They'll be dead soon enough.
@@HighlyVolkish hang on. Not all females are like that. It makes more sense that the most qualified individual get the job political or not. If it is a women we would still all be better of because regardless of gender the best person for the job should get it
As a fellow male, who's 6'1 and (growing mind you) and is cute approximately 330lbs, I can tell you that I don't follow this movement, but I'm proud to be built like a barrel, it's a hearty mix of muscle and fat, I'm thankful that it's more muscle than fat frankly, but I know I gotta work on it, it's just tough navigating a life that's put of wack all the time. I wished that other people like me, could find the motivation to kick themselves into an initiative to make their bodies somewhat healthy. This is a problem and by product of society. So we need to kill this stupid "fat shaming" movement. It honestly disgusts me. So thank you for your comment, as I totally agree
@@tenjou0 Great point. They all work hard and sacrifice a lot of the foods they most of us shovel down. But people dont want to feel bad about their crap diets and lack of exercise.
I mean Kate Upton looks like her. She is a real person, not some weird robot... Also, I have seen lots of women, just in my local grocery store I find more attractive than Kate Upton.
My standards for women: 1. Don't be a land whale; 2. Don't look like a man; 3. Have a tolerable personality; 4. Have some form of ethical standard; 5. Don't be a socialist.
The correct healthy standards a man should have for a woman: 1) Do not be overweight because being overweight means you're unhealthy... ask any doctor. 2) Don't be a man... which is a more healthy response as compared to don't look like a man where you still might end up with a man! 3) Be emotionally stable... if she has bi-polar, depression or other mental issues these will not only be problems in the relationship, but also you cause any children you might have together to inherit these medical problems!! 4) Be healthy... which means a healthy weight, no diseases, no addictions! 5) Don't be a socialist... definitely agree with this as well, but should also include don't be a feminist.
@@xLuis89x have you even seen me? I am like in the 200ibs 16,3 st spotty face and I have a mild disablity. But I guess my personality is what attracts man lol.
Honestly why do you care about the weight? There's a picture of the girl right there, and unless they're catfishing, you know if they're attractive. You don't need a scale to tell if a girl's too fat.
@@lukasg4807 Have you seen all the photo filters and effort to get the "slimming" camera angle thats going on? I bet half of them are taking photoshop courses.
inside the mind of overweight women: “im too lazy to do cardio or any kind of exercise so i feel oppressed by people who actually put effort into their figure and i also deserve a man with a perfect body and well paying job” hope that sums it up for everyone. also stop it with fat pride maybe you’ll live longer
You know overweight can also be caused by many mental disorders right? I'm not speaking for everyone, but most of the people overeat because of stress, sadness, hormonal causes (medicine) and even eating disorders like Binge Eating Disorders can cause this. Even some people with depression are affected by this.
@@sarahennike3386 I've had my share of mental disorders in life but you can still slim down after this. People don't want to change, like if someone has an Eating Disorder when they eat too much when stressed ok understandable but some don't want to change their habits at all and when men reject them they get mad, see the problem?
@@sarahennike3386 mental disorders, my ass. Its just excuses to not go to the gym, not having a good diet ,just trying to eat junk food , etc. No wonder fat people are dumb.
No... No it's not. It's one of those topics that doesn't matter to much of anyone except the fatties. Let them think that they are pretty, and healthy, they'll be dead soon enough from Diabetes, so WHO GIVES A SHIT? . What good does it do to tell a horse that he is a horse? Same thing goes for fatties. They like to eat a lot. They aren't gonna stop. Pointless endeavor.
This reminds me of when a girl I know thought a guy was flirting with her and she laughed because he is a short guy. She is morbidly obese. It was one of those moments.
My husband's bosses wife says that about me all the time. She also calls me a fat whale who needs to lose weight and have shitty hair (tho she begs me to cut my hair off to give to her to make a wig for herself 🙄) I'm actually not over weight according to my doctor. But I am Curvy as hell (hourglass. Meaning I have a big butt and a small waist. But I don't wear clothes that flatter me so I just look heavier than I am instead). And I have hip length wavey hair that I always try to take good care of. Though it doesn't always look so neat. My hair gets messy easily. And often And she's the one who's actually overweight. With greasy hair. I never once insulted her tho On my wedding day she actually made me cry with all her rude comments.because of her I have no pics of me smiling in my wedding pics. She made me feel ugly and disgusting instead. She made my wedding a complete nightmare. I hated my wedding cause of her. Women can be such cruel bitches
But because women cannot take responsibility for anything, it's always somehow a man's fault. They invent bullshit terms like "internalized misoginy" to keep up the charade that women are perfect angels and never do anything wrong.
Matt Fleming I’m not obese or overweight by any standards. I have no issues attracting men, although it’s not something I understand. But I don’t consider myself worthy of certain men. It’s not always like that. I think women are as much to blame for body images as much as men. Just my two cents.
I honestly think it's unattractive when a man looks like that. For one, a man shouldn't care more about his appearance than I care about mine. For two, it's extremely narcissistic to work so hard on physical appearance. Yeah, take care of yourself, groom, put in effort. But spending 2+ hours a day on your looks is vain af. Besides, what woman wants to be with a man who's prettier than her?
Women: "I want a man who is over 6ft tall, makes six figures, and has a six pack." Men: "I want a woman who is under 200 pounds, not a single mother, and not a heroin junkie". Women: "Men in our society are imposing such unrealistic standards on women! Such entitlement!"
@Anonymously yours, Nothing wrong with being a single mother, but in my experience it's ONLY overweight single mothers who show any interest in me for those online dating sites. At this point it's a well established pattern. Overweight single mothers are like pit mixes in the dog adoption shelters. The're grossly over represented.
@@Papaya16 yes, he is a good looking dude. The thing is, he always used to just be the "funny guy" on parks and rec. Then he got ripped for guardians of the galaxy and became "hot."
@@96Logan Funny, the first time I saw him on p&r I had a hunch he could be really good-looking guy if he only lost some weight. Some of those stereotypical good-looking guy features were still partially visible at the time, I guess because he wasn't fat enough to conceal them completely lol
It's not natural for a man to view a woman as competition. Now in the corporate sphere it will be a bit different, but I would still assume a man is less likely to view a woman as competition. Women on the other hand of course view you as the primary competition.
Thank you for this video! I have ALWAYS struggled with how I see myself in the mirror. My husband says I'm beautiful all the time(even after the birth of our fourth child) and I regret that I've often discounted his compliments instead of saying thank you. I will say thank you from now on and continue to try my best to take care of myself.
He is not wrong. The majority of men really are happy with a woman they can work with on a mental level. I could not stand the nagging bitches at all. If a 10 were to nag at me, she already bumped down to a 3 at her high. Just don't have an extra 300 lbs on top of the normal bmi, and yall be alright.
Dont discount his compliments, trust me, it gets old, if he says you're atractive why would you think otherwise? in his eyes you're the most beautifull woman.
One day my boyfriend of 3 years told me I was fat at first I was really really pissed 😤 but then after I thought about it and had a really long hard look in the mirror I decided he was right. I have lost 40lbs and I am working out daily. I’m so thankful to have a boyfriend with enough balls to tell me to my face I’m getting fat and unhealthy!
@@xxromanovaxx6682 having a small dick is an insecurity guys can’t fix. The amount of pressure for being able to please a woman sexually is immense, and it’s very hard dealing with something we literally have 0 control over
What’s your take on male and female body image? Do you feel women are held to higher standards across the board?
for me a women’s weight does matter yes but different strokes for different folks
Number 2.
I love you steven!
It’s not my fault that I’m fat it’s “society”
Total double standards against men
editor in chief of Cosmo: a woman
editor in chief of Vanity Fair: a woman
editor in chief of Shape: a woman
editor in chief W Magazine: a woman
editor in chief Vogue: a woman
editor in chief Elle: a woman
editor in chief Marie Claire: a woman
it's not the patriarchy
Should have 1000 likes this
It's always the patriarchy
Not a feminist or anything, but is it not expected to have female editors for magazines for females? Having a female editor for a magazine would help with relatability, of course its going to be hard for the main editor of a magazine for women, about women, to be a male.
@@givernymiedema6036 That's the point. Women are putting women's standards in their magazines, not men's.
@@connors5187 Why would you put mens standards in a magazine for women?
It’s much easier to complain about the society than exercise.
Same goes with your job/income/marriage etc
Easier to protest your low wage then go back to school..Easier to get an abortion then be responsible with your actions. etc
Well give them a break. It cost a lot of money to run outside. It cost a lot of money to do pushups in the living room. Plus it is not their fault they choose Coke over water for the same price. It is not their fault they rather have a bag of potato chips for the same cost as a bag of apples. "you can have a bottle of water instead of that pop." "I do not like water" "Well then that is your own fault" "your just being mean. After all my body will keep me slim and diabetic free because I have no control over my taste buds and my body will understand. Just like my friend who loves cheeseburgers. Her body kept her slim because her body understands she likes those over salads. Her body is forgiving" You can be fat all you want. Pay higher insurance, have a crane pick you up, and die of a heart attack in your 40's all you want. Last I checked your body does not care about your excuses for life choices.
M P “Have a crane pick you up “ 😂
That's not even true, I've lost more weight eating right then I could probably ever do exclusively working out.
Avinoam Ruach 🤭 tru
I was once told this by a teenage boy. "The only people who care about what a woman wears are women and non-heterosexual males -the rest of us would be happier if women wore nothing." I almost died laughing.
LOL that took a turn.
That boy was a prophet
Wise for his age.
True! I died laughing because this is almost every male I know!
......
Smart Kid.
Women: You should be taller.
Men: You should lose weight.
Women: How dare you?!
The height thing is dumb. I'm a woman and there are things that matter in men far more than height.
Thank you. Youre a rarity tho we need more people who think the same. Atleast the weight thing is something one can change. Im kinda stuck with my height haha
The worst part is only 1 of these can be changed (I'm 6'3'' BTW, just before any hate starts flying-just seen my shorter mates get pied for literally not having a certain gene)
@Apple Is Forever not all girls, though. Watch the hypocrisy.
Oompaville
200kg+ woman : "Ugh, I feel oppressed!"
You mean compressed?
Lmao
Probably that too
They will start saying gravity was invented by the patriarchy to opress women all around the globe....... literally.
Fuck i just laughed at 4am
Maybe it was her feet talking
her heart would agree
“Being an ugly woman is like being a man, you’re gonna have to work” Daniel Tosh
I believe ugly women still have it easier than ugly men I should know.
"Being a beautiful man is like being a beautiful woman, you can be kept by a rich man” - I.
Tony M LOL
"Ran" might not be the correct term...
Even a 2 or 3 can be a 6 with makeup and a pushup bra. Men have it waaaaaay harder
I've never been body shamed by a man. I've been body shamed by many women. I think that right there proves your point.
You look great! Why would anyone body shame you?
@@justvocals4652 Thank you. I'm not sure honestly. I have been told to lose weight (mostly by people selling weight loss pills and shakes, trying to make money off of my insecurities) as well as being told to gain it by others. I'm average and I guess that makes people upset.
@@madisonreynolds9421 I don't know you so I can't give you any advice. But I have had similar issues. People constantly pester me with advices to lose weight. I simply choose to ignore. I hear what they have to say, give them a smile, and go about my own business. I don't know how old you are but I'm 30. It took me a long time to learn to ignore.
Madison Reynolds people will hate no matter what. They’re self conscious so they choose to project that onto other people. It’s stupid and yes always seems to come from other women.
Thats your personal opinión in my case more mens body shame me... But im not gonna asume every en is like that
As a women with a body image problem I really needed to hear this. After having 3 kids and not having the body I was so used to having, a man (whom I respect) saying the people putting those standards are basically people who don't matter really put things in perspective. So thank you.
❤
go girl! 🤍
You had 3 kids you’ve been through a lot it’s ok to put on a little weight your more then something to look at you are a person that probably went through hell carrying and raising those kids so if people have problems with your weight fuck em
Top 3 of things that men look for in a woman:
1. Be a female
Be small enough that I can interlock both arms while hugging you. If your stomach’s circumference is larger them my wingspan then I can’t date you. I can’t have my girlfriend die after walking down the block.
@@seressor 😂 sounds reasonable
Even that part can be.. negotiated
2. Likes me back
Oh so you want to force a person to identify as a female?
You're baaaaaad
"Another woman judged me. Must be a mans fault"
Don't you know that she was oppressed and forced into doing that. Lol
men: Sheeitt
"I didn't get what I want. Must be a conspiracy that specifically targets me or a group I'm a part of, mounted my a group I'm not a part of."
@@Pellbort Do you realise how hilariously you just turned the idiocy of this comment section back on itself? I hope that was your goal because it was beautiful.
The goal was to point out the lack of accountability by a group of anti-depressant popping conspiracy kooks.
I do agree both sides should quit whining about either gender having standards though.
No one has to like your body or anything about you. Period.
women be like: "you men don't understand what men expect of us!"
That statement heard while driving could cause a pile up ...
I suffered a logic lock up for 6 minutes..if I had been driving I'm sure I would have wrecked
Lol underrated comment
🤣🤣 best one I have heard yet
Lets go buffalo!
And yet you women expect us to help sort out your problems when we don't understand our own thoughts, I guess
Just a thought, in school, I was called fat and ugly by girls. The guys told me that I was pretty and never called me fat. The whole body dysphoric world we live in was created by other women.
Your face is super cute but you might be curvy, so girls who were jealous most likely pounced on that
Very well and intelligently said, Friend!! Fact is, Americans are OBSESSED WITH YOUTH AND BIZARRELY FAKE DOLL LOOKS. It’s horrifying. And a source of huge revenue.
Being healthy and happy is no longer attractive..?? Whyyyyy🤪😖 And no I have never been overweight and I cannot relate to killing oneself with absurd caloric intake. That’s just me. 😁🤦🏻♀️
Same experience.
B.s. I got made fun of for my body by both men and women.
My gf, 3 years into our almost 6 year relationship asked me if she looked like she had gained weight since we started dating.
I said yes, but I'm still very much attracted to you, and it's not like you gained like 100 pounds, you got a bit of a muffin top going on, and I've lost weight, I'm a weak little stringbean now compared to when we first started dating, and she agreed
The next day we got access to the gym in our building and started working out together
We were honest with each other, our feelings weren't hurt, we both made an individual commitment to each other to get back to where we were at the start, even though there was no strain on the relationship at the time, it's not like we were drifting apart or not having intercourse because we weren't attracted to each other anymore
I bulked up again, she slimmed down.
We are committed to each other, and that means looking out for each other's health.
She obviously felt some hit towards her self esteem, but she realized that it was internal. I was honest when she asked if she gained weight and I book-ended it with the fact I'm still attracted
It's definitely a minefield, but you should be able to be honest in those regards with your partner
Congratulations, that's what a healthy relationship is. Making effort to improve together while loving eachother. I hate how the media portrays healthy relationships as totally accepting eachother as if everyone's perfect and doesn't need to be altered.
@@sibylle1927 yep, you always gotta check in and see where you're at in your relationship, you assume everything is fine and you never talk about things next thing you know your relationship disintegrates.
Communication is key
Nathan Brisebois I’m jealous of you having a normal girlfriend
@@RustInsider Don't worry man you'll find a good one, they are out there
Fully agree. Allowing each other to communicate honestly is the key to long-term healthy relationships. Congrats to the two of you for nailing it! :)
Her before date: "I hope he's charming and handsome, and funny, and has a great job."
Him: "I hope she likes me."
Don't forget TALL. Most women won't even consider dating a man shorter than them.
@@BecketTheHymnist Not gonna lie, I'm glad for those who are taller than me with such standards. At 5'7" short, I don't like women taller than me anyway.
100% true
Yeah men have it harder
@@BecketTheHymnist You right, I left out a lot of additional criteria 😂 Tall, dressed well, is nice/bit of an asshole, opens doors/treats her like an equal, makes her feel special/has other women interested, cares about her/ignores her.. unrealistic to list them all here
As a female, I couldn’t agree more with this video
God bless women like yourself, we need more of you
Marry me?
As a leftist, I couldn't agree more with this.
@@2times347 simp
Azure Voltic ☹️
What really sucks is that If you are an attractive guy then it’s flirting but if you are ugly then it’s harassment
That’s not true. It harassment if it’s harassment.
You can’t just generalise women based on one persons opinion or dumb statement
@@rhianwenlewis7889 Am gonna be honest, attractive privilege high-key exists, If you are weird and abnormal but you're attractive you're seen as quirky, but if you aren't attractive then you're a freak if you love yourself and you're seen as very attractive, you're just confident rightfully, but if you aren't attractive and especially if you are a man, you're just conceited, if you talk a lot and you're attractive, you're just really outgoing, but if you aren't attractive you're just annoying and talk too much. idk bout you but this defiantly makes sense to me since am not an attractive guy, it really makes me shy away from talking or joking around except doing so with other guys.
@@karimshawagfeh3630 You're right. 100%. I remember losing a lot of weight at school, and I didn't change personality wise. When I was attractive, people suddenly found me funny and were paying a whole lot more attention to me. Keep in mind, my personality didn't change when I was "unattractive" by most standards. I put on weight, and then people started seeing me as weird and a loser. Didn't get the attention I used too, now I'm here trying to loose weight not to get attention, but to look after my health and mental well-being.
So attractive privilege does exist and always will be, it will be even higher for a woman who is deemed attractive by men's standards.
And for men? Being unattractive in reality is much harder to gain attention from someone you like.
A lot of these feminist put in the notion of "if you're overweight, it's not your fault, it's your man's fault for not loving you for who you are" or "you're beautiful the way you are and you shouldn't change so people like you."
To young girls at a young age to the point they grow up with this mentality, and you can see it and it's disgusting.
A lot of these overweight woman that I've talked and engaged with when they complain about loosing the weight and how they've tried everything and still can't loose are actually just lying to themselves. They're giving excuses and comforting themselves. The truth is, loosing weight is being committed to 110% effort healthy lifestyle which these girls just do not do - (This goes for men as well, but I've noticed woman do this behaviour a lot more then men personal experience)
Even then with these overweight woman, they still get attention much easier than an overweight man and I can confirm this as I was 147kg at 6ft2inches and I had zero attention from girls and even guys. You can still be tall and masculine, but if you don't look after yourself (groom, maintain e.t.c, go to gym) and not care about how you're precived by others physically, it will show. Trust me, it shows. You're like a walking antenna and antenna and sign to girls that you're not boyfriend material.
That being said, average guys still can very much get hot girls as the guys themselves, have increased their own value a lottttt. Just physical looks gives you a higher number and value from the start.
So physical attraction is very much important, especially if you're having sex.
As an extroverted girl, if you walk up to me first it's weird either way. People just don't approach me all that much because I do most of the work if I want to talk.
If someone DOES walk up to me it immediately sets them apart.
Girl: he’s gotta be 6’3, 180lb, make 6 figures, and have to be willing to cut everyone out of their life
Guy: it would be nice if her BMI didn’t start with 3
Girl:🤨
Lol that’s one skinny tall dude
@@kevinhedman2314 You must be fat.
I’m 6’3 and my muscle mass alone is 175. My lean body mass is 185
Sounds like my step-mother haha!
Kevin Hedman yes but how old? Because if your 14, you put my ass to shame, 5’10-5’11, I am toned with muscle, not big and but at least some decent stuff, and I am only around 140 lbs
This needs to be a topic of a Change My Mind.
True
This really should be
There gonna have to buy a stronger chair for that one.
SOCIETAS CONLOCO Underrated comment lol
Yes please
I hear this everywhere at my school. As soon as I started watching your content I’ve been seeing my school pushing narratives I didn’t notice before! This channel opened my eyes to actual problems rather then the things the department of education here in PA try to spoon feed students. Thanks for that, Steven.
Same I'm in Canada, the liberal brainwashing is the norm in this shithole called a country
Join The_Donald and gain some more of those redpills. Its my hope that the more truth we spread, the better informed people will be at the voting booths and in their lives in general.
I've had a similar problem at school, where it got to the point of a teacher screaming at me about some untrue liberal fantasy. The best advice I can give is learn the truth for yourself and ignore it or disprove them.
@@rickygill661 Election this month, vote Conservative.
@@LrulestheworldM8 fuck reddit go to pol if you want redpills
Even a toilet knows when it's full.
Wow....! The visual on this comment. You made me actually lol.
Real talk, one of the unfortunate side effects of the standard American diet (SAD) is that the hormones that regulate hunger are screwed up. It takes effort to right the problem. If you have a weight problem and are eating the SAD, look into the effects of the excessive carbs, sugar, and preservatives.
And yet a boy doesn’t know when to shutup
@@evasieben7914 damn you salty under all these comments aren’t you.
@@tasiablock5928 That's a good one. Latin America might be a hellhole, but at least we eat good food compared to Europe and North America.
@@arcturus4762 Food choice and diet is no longer defined by where you live this isn't the 1800's, we have access to all types of food now from cultures across the globe if someone chooses to eat unhealthy junk food 7 days a week with a fizzy drink on the side thats on them!
Nowadays, suggesting someone eat healthy and exercise, is now a form of bullying
Hahaha I’ve actually had a friend say that me eating well and working out makes them feel bad about themselves. Suggesting I shouldn’t be so healthy around them.
@@connormccleary7207 I have people tell me that all the time and I don't get it.
@@connormccleary7207 I'd tell those bitches to fu*k off and die, like for real.
that's a way to change the topic. those people aren't dumb, they're playing you. they don't even believe it's bullying themselves. look at the "trigger warning" meme.
That person saying those things care about that person.
Women compete with women with appearance, then blame men.
I asked for a woman not a sea mammal
damn that’s true af, I’ll admit that right now.
As a senior, it find it funny that people - men and women dont try to keep improving
.And use various 'helps' to' lift their looks - a range of well fitting clothes, good grooming, moderate exercise etc.
Feminists really did us wrong.Many of them look like hell in their 50's.
Most need up upgrade themselves.And help their mates.
I really find it unacceptable for women to let their husbands go around with rusty lips and elbows or crusty feet.
lol
ask yourself why women feel they need to compete with other women. A women over 30 its treated differently then a women at 20
Adolfo Misiara Lincheta In what way?
Of course a normal body seems “unattainable” when you weigh 500lbs.
If it can't be done in one afternoon. It's unattainable.
You don't get to 200+KG by working hard.
mrshmuga9 LOL right????
@USSR Tube That's just because you are not in the right mindset. Just eat 200g chocolate a day and you are half way to gaining. Then eat a big dinner and anything else is pretty much over what you burn. It's really not hard to gain weight.
I think you mean una - TONNE - able
i died when i read this haha! so true tho...
"If you're a high school guy who is short and has bad skin, then you're out of luck."
Is this a personal attack?!?! Why do I feel so hurt after that comment?!?!?
Same here mate .
I feel that haha
@@zacharygray3923 yeah and it actually sucks . Experienced..
Same here
Jokes on you my skin is only half bad
As my father told me a long time ago, "women don't dress up to impress other men, they dress up to impress/intimidate other women."
My mom would agree.
Whaaaat?! Really?! All three of you can’t be in on the gag. My comment only has 22 likes 🤦🏻♂️ I Hope this isn’t true ...I’m legit waring a pretty dapper cranberry jacket and I wear it to make people smile :)
True!
@Elias Leal I like looks and personality more than money but I'm not normal. I had a friend who was super wealthy and always tried to impress me with it. It made me feel uncomfortable because I'm a poor uneducated POS lol no joke! But my friend was like... he has money!? Let me jump on that! Everyone is shit!
When women call makeup War-Paint, they're not kidding.
If someone doesn’t take care of their body, then why should I go and love their body for “how they are”?
BKbIRD wise
_BECAUSE VAGINA!_
@Homo Quantum Sapiens u dont even know what he looks like
Bob John 😂😂 for real
BKbIRD that’s 100% correct ! Usually people that dont take care of themselves are toxic.
To the women out there:
Don’t be too obese
Have a ok personality
Be nice once in a while
This is what most guy’s dating standards look like
AS BLACK WOMEN SAY, OH REALLY, THAT'S ALL..?
Rukia BlackBlazer, dating anyone could be a hit or miss. You can clearly see the misses but the hits takes time to see
Nope 👎
Chris_P_nuts, WDYM?
"Don’t be too obese" Smh. Those standards are for desperate losers. What about having an average weight otherwise achievable by 80% of people in Asian and European countries, having a job etc.?
My husband has always told me I’m the most beautiful to him and he makes me feel prettier than anyone else in the world. Every woman should have a man who makes her feel like his prize. I hope our daughters find this in life.
Girl: he has to be 6’6”, make 6 figures a year with an 8 inch meat
Guy: as long as she’s not overweight
Girl: you’re like hitler but at least hitler cared about Germany or something
Ehhhh. The blatant comment stealing and shite attempt to tweak it didn’t come off as funny. Cool that you watched the same video though 👌
@aSickSpartan who hurt you?
Bro your profile pic is amazing! 🤣🤣
John Pressley. That’s why I picked it
Jack Potokar. I’m wearing a Rick and Morty shirt as of writing this reply
“A land whale whose blood type is pudding” I’m dying
Alex that’s a callback to his video on Tess Holiday and the spat between the two
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Alex lol
My husband thinks I'm beautiful.
We've known each other for 31 years.
I am far from perfect.
I am not fat, I'm not the most beautiful woman in the world, but he thinks I'm beautiful.
I believe lots of men think lots of different looking women are lovely-- just as long as they are healthy and have a pretty smile.
That’s what’s up...☺️
monkeynumber nine personality goes along way too.
So you better have a pretty smile.. no imperfect smiles allowed..
This comment is lowkey praising yourself...
Your husband is a very lucky guy to have such a beautiful lady.
"If a man is saying we're not that interested in a land whale whos blood type is pudding".
A reason I love this channel
This reminds me of one of my ex's, whenever we went out for dinner she spent a very long time doing her makeup and NEVER believed me when I said that I found her more attractive with minimal makeup or no makeup at all. She couldn't understand the concept of me preferring her to look the way she normally looked
I've been with my husband for 10 years this month. Hes never seen me in make up and has never been bothered by it. If I started wearing make up he would probably think I'm having an affair lol
@@lolasmom5816 That is awesome! Sounds like your husband is a good man, I'm genuinely happy for both of you :)
@Darkskin Asian Man she's not a bitch, shes just still trying to love herself dude, soon she will accpet that her bf loves her with minimal makeup and start to feel good
Ask Drill Sarge sad
Beauty needs no make up, but the ego does.
Harrison Ford: "You know how a woman gets a man excited? She shows up."
@@SirParcifal hahahahaha I died.
@@SirParcifal making bred
@@SirParcifal she rolls in rolls
@@SirParcifal hahaha ⚰ m dead bruh
@@SirParcifal oh my lord 😂🙈
Everyone’s heard males say “I’m into thick girls.” Has anyone heard any females say “I’m into thick guys” or even “I’m into short guys or guys shorter than me”? I haven’t and that speaks volumes
Anthony Vilela I know a few. And for me I like the athletic types but no damned six pack. I need someone who is able and wants to keep up to me hiking and doing acrobatics. It’s the body types that suit your lifestyle. As for the ripped dudes... they most likely spend way too much time at the gym and are super self centred. Too busy looking in the mirror and taking gym selfies. Barf.
Preach!
I once knew a girl who only liked guys who looked "average" as she said. Average being, she just liked nerds or introverted guys who wore pretty basic or anime shirts.
Anthony Vilela
I know a few that enjoy specifically bald men, or chubby men, or short men. But it's definitely not common at all.
I prefer bigger guys!
As a female, I’m not surprised that we judge men more for looks. Girls are always judged for looks by other girls, we’re criticized for something we (for the most part) can’t control. Personally, I don’t care about men’s looks _as_ much as other women, of course it’s still a factor, but I’d rather have an average-looking guy with a good personality than a really hot guy who probably doesn’t even like me.
Unfortunately, most women accept that ''the hot guy'' will treat them like shit and rather stay with him despite that fact.
@@adamoutulny2345 yes being hot as a guy = ur a horrible person niceee
@@graysonallen8723 what? can you read?
I think this has a lot to do with age as well. I used to not give less attraktive guys a chance, because as a women I was always judged by my apperence, so I started doing to others as well. Now that I'm older and put my mental health and well beeing above my looks, I go for a guy's personality rather than their looks. Now I would put more emphasis on a guy's health than attractiveness. Obviously it will always play a role, but it's way less so than a few years ago.
@@charlottesouthgate4536 women like you deserve all they desire
If Disney ever decides to make another live action Aladdin, they should cast Trudeau as Jafar.
Might be an improvement
It would get my ass in that theater seat so damn fast.
He already is already playing Michael Jackson in a bio pic
That was relevant...
Guys donate Socks so Steven can warm his cold feet
as a woman i 100% agree with this and honestly i’m annoyed that i can’t find more women out there with the same view point as this, i am naturally very skinny but i’m not curvy, i get called anorexic, i get asked if i have eating disorders and people will regularly think i’m younger than i am or say i look like i’m 12 (i’m not)(also this is actually usually seen as a joke but can knock your confidence a LOT). However women who are unhealthily large are praised and called brave and amazing when they put their health at risk, by the media, by their friends and if i were put in a magazine i would ‘be promoting unrealistic body expectations’, no one can tell me this is how it’s supposed to be when if you go back maybe 50 years I would be an average size for someone my age
Thank you for coming to my ted talk
@@themachine9366 but women are fucking annoying at making it look like it's a thing to be proud of
@@fawziespinosa4651 I doubt they're "proud" of it but they just accepted not everybody can be skinny,
I have a doctor that told me once "I can give you the accepted weight today or what is actually healthy"
What he meant was we are so fat today that the avg "healthy" weight was raised compared to years ago.
Now we have people morbidly obese talking about health...Just imagine in another 50 years what the "healthy weight" will be. Another 50 pounds more?
@@beyondkujo Not everyone can be skinny? Don't eat for a week and drink mineral water. See what happens. Idiot.
@@donaldtaylor1037 losing weight isn't that easy dumbass, starving yourself is doing more harm then good so you the fucking idiot
Women: I'm attraced to tall, tan, handsome, muscular guys who are also a bit smart and have decent wealth
Men: i just want a women
James Budd a women😂 nice
Women: How dare you have standards!
Borat: "I just want a womens"
And that's a women's fault that men dont have standards?
Don't forget that you have to be able to entertain them. Make them laugh. And don't you DARE wear glasses. Ever see anyone is a beer commercial, wearing glasses?
I started gyming because my female friends kept mocking me and telling that I was "less" of a man because I was too skinny. They'd always make jokes about how they couldn't depend on me to do any "manly" things.
I acted as tho I didn't care about what they were saying, but in truth it hurt, it hurt a lot.
One would always point out on how flat my chest was (that one really hurt)
Maybe their "body shaming" me was good for me, because now I'm a bit more buff and more confident in myself.
You're beautiful 👏
always work out and better yourself for yourself and your health only, not for other people
Yes! Use it as a motivation to prove them wrong! I'm the same way. But like the comment above mine said. Dont just do it for other people. Do it for you.
Thanks guys
Exactly
"A Land Whale whose blood type is pudding."
My chest.
Simon Mitchell *exhales sharply*
she's suicidal! and the sad part is she has kids
SirParcifal Well I mean she is trying to promote a lifestyle that will ultimately shave a third off your lifespan but I def feel bad for the kids they didn’t do anything
I would eat all that blood 😋😋😋😋😋😋
@@jacobhafar538 the kid will also get fat.
i love how it’s an extremely attractive woman who is talking about being oppressed by the patriarchy because of her looks, give me a break 🙄
She is the one who oppressed fat people, not actually men
You can bet she's used that to her advantage her whole life. And will probably do so for another 20 years...
She has gone insane 2 weeks after registering to ig/twitter, but the crowd there is just as dumb as she is so it's alright.
Her part is The Good Place is fitting.
Irony
Tess Holliday actually blocked me on Instagram because I tried to tell them that being 350+ isn’t healthy.
😂😂
lmao
That’s what she does.
try twitter
They hated Jesus for telling the truth
Girl: "he must be 6ft, make 6 figures and have a six pack"
Me: So u mean like less than 8% percent of the entire men's population
I'm 6ft tall and muscular but i never had girlfriend lmao. Tf u talking about.
@@mahdis9316 Do you make 6 figures?
You're being way too optimistic actually
@@starguy7651 Plus he might be one of the people that considers themselves "6 ft" and we don't know his definition of muscular lol.
Nah its gotta be way under 8%
i would argue less than 1% but idk the demographics
Women shame each other way more than guys ever did.
I’m hungry
Sign on Volkswagons in the olden days, that had a mattress in the back, curtains on the windows, "NO FAT CHICKS!" The guys that wrote that are your DADS today!
Kate yep it’s women doing it to women not men
what does this add to anything
Kedrick W the fat pride movement focuses on how men have unrealistic standards of women even though typically women judge other women a lot more then men
As a woman, I still remember, in the eighties, when we first started dealing seriously with anorexia, everyone put the blame for unrealistic body images where it belonged: Hollywood and Fashion. Now, all of a sudden it's the fault of men? Talk about a false narrative.
Pepperidge farm remembers
Percisely! And yet to this day most males will not admit that the TV brainwashed them into accepting certain artificial standards as being real. Women are always going to be on the hefty side, especially after child birth. Males wanting some 6.0/55 lbs women with a breast ratio of enormous are kidding themselves!
@@christianfreedom-seeker934 It's based on Hentai/Anime girls.
True!
Definitely not a problem started or even perpetuated by men. Never was. Men have been perfectly okay being involved with the continuation of the human race when women didn't shave, had birthing hips, and weren't sanitized head to toe and covered in perfume.
“When you’re a guy in high school, if you’re short with bad skin then you’re just out of luck.” - Steven Crowder
Amen.
I was average height but terrible skin, nothing I tried worked and the dermatologist eventually just told me I'd grow out of it. The things I heard people say about me during high school when they thought I wasn't around or not listening... it was a rough time to put it lightly. Went through some pretty terrible things but that's all I'll say on the matter. Seriously considered suicide for most of my time there. Fortunately didn't, obviously lol.
Only had a few "real" friends (which I still talk to and do things with occasionally, extremely grateful for them). Plus it was extremely hard to even try and make new friends. I always felt like the outcast and I feel like those 4 years did some really harmful stuff to my brain because even though it's been a long time since then it still affects me psychologically and with how I perceive myself.
Tldr; people are assholes to you even more so if you're a guy and "ugly".
I agree... but fuck it... I would have a hard time pickin on anyone that wore makeup. I remember a friend that would wear cover up sometimes... I guess it’s s point to you guys since I remember a guy wearing make up. Respect and don’t feel so bad everybody.
i felt this
Yeah. Women are just cruel and they don't realize it themselves.
Not just in high school, everyone else too.
I honestly believe this movement comes from super self conscious women with extra weight who are jealous of slim women. Very sad when you think about it. It’s fat women shaming skinny women lol!
They drag everybody else down to their level because they don’t think they can do it themselves.
If only every woman on earth could hear this. I'm tired of all the self inflicted insecurities.
Well I'm a teen female and I'm here! 🙋🏻♀️ I agree with everything he's saying and although it's not about feelings, Steven's message honestly does make me feel better as a young person with many flaws 😂
So true, Cerberus!
It's not quite self-inflicted. Men are designed to enjoy beauty, and women are designed to want to be that beauty. You men can help us by explaining that we naturally ARE beautiful.
@@charitygracestanford881 I am 51 and I've learned long ago, what Steve is trying to get across. I am glad you hear this early. Be yourself, enjoy yourself, and the perfect guy will be drawn to you and love you just the way you are. You won't ever have to pretend you are something you are not. That is incredibly freeing. Do you know that some women never let their husbands see them without make up? They will even reapply their makeup before bed! If I were a guy, I wouldn't want to kiss makeup, I'd want to kiss my wife! Be proud to be you and let the guys be themselves as well.
@@charitygracestanford881 I'm glad the video was positive for you. There is a lot of truth in what he said. I've been with my wife for 7 years and I find her so extremely attractive. Yet, no matter how many times a day I compliment her, get caught staring at her, hold her so tightly and tell her how much I adore her inside and out she's still so incredibly insecure. Shes what some would call a little curvy and her comparing herself to other women all her life ruined her image of herself. It's so bad that no matter how honest I am about my feelings she still doesn't believe me. She feels like she needs to be thinner, have a bigger chest, have nicer hair, the list goes on. Even without my love for her I'd still find her wildly attractive. And I know other men feel the same. She thinks all men want a model but you'd be surprised how untrue that is. I'm a personal trainer at a high end gym, I'm around extremely fit women every day and even though I do think they are attractive they dont hold a flame to my wife. Make sure you're never too hard on yourself, you'll always be your harshest critic.
I've never had men saw anything negative about the way I looked. I've had a lot of women try to put me down in every way.
Women attack other women's self-esteem far more than men ever could.
Some guys just don't want a woman who sweats Krisco oil
Gabriella Mills lol
just made me spit my fucking drink. Thank you 😂
Oof😂😂😂
Hahahaha!
Gabriella Mills or who is a risk of a heart attack
As a woman, watching this actually makes me feel better about my body 😂😂
You should always be striving to improve yourself tho.
Back in college I remember a girl once called me fat and so did her friends.....I chose to let it slide for a whole year. I got tired and took all that like a challenge and it took me a few months and a little sacrifice to get in lean and fit (not cut) and the same girl ...who was already holding her breath to look slim broke her high heels because she gained a lot of weight.
Karma at its finest
I almost chocked laughing at the last part
Call her fat
Sahi hai Bhai
Call her fat now
girls: He needs to be 6', make 6 figures, and have a 6 pack
guys: It would be nice if she wasn't a whale
girls: OMG UNREALISTIC EXPECTATIONS HOW DARE YOU
Andrew B bruh that’s 666
@@Stratilex whaaaat no way
Guys: must have tits.
2 out of three?
@@checkmate1996 3 out of 3 or we can't talk
"If you're short in high school and have bad acne you're SOL"
Wasnt THAT the damn truth 😂
I didn't even have bad acne...
G Morgan Jr said , "You're screwed", but no...you're not getting screwed in high school if you're short with acne...
That’s high school.
@@danielcraig9666 think you're good now though, 007. How's the Queen?
The most popular guy in my school was a ginger with bad acne. He won prom King and everything. I think y'all are pretending to yourselves. And just for context my graduating class was 1000 kids. It's about personality not appearance.
I'm skinny, I was called "Twiggy" when I was a kid. Lol. It is true that we get picked on too. Fact is we have to grow a thick skin and get over it. Be happy in ourselves. I am happier at 51 than ever was before. Chosen to be single for the next few years..this is a narcissistic world now adays imo. I love your channel. I learn a lot about males because of you guys!! Well done and love from Enniskillen 💚♥️
"When his height starts with 5' 🤢"
"When her weight starts with 200 🤢"
But you dont control height, while youer lazy ass decided to become fat.
I don't care if his height starts with 5 or not
People who are 5"11 99/100: to am I a joke to you
I get this a lot. I'm 5'7 single
I think its completely ridiculous that height is critiqued as much as weight. When youre fat, its your own damn fault
I’ve seen way more women body shaming each other. Even little things like “her eyeliner isn’t straight enough”
lol. So true. I once had another girl say I had a "fat stomach" when I was a size 2. I didn't have much in the way of body fat at all back then, and my ribs stuck out. It was weird that she called me fat, but was all like "oh, this other girl is so cute" who was arguably a bit more chunky than me at the time. Women will find all kinds of reasons to berate other women just because they've decided to. Men...not so much.
Oh for the love of guacamole One thing that is disgusting though are the people that are 600lb strolling around in a mobile chair in Walmart. I feel embarrassed to be American when I see that because only in America do you see people like that. I’ve been to many countries in Europe multiple times and have never seen a morbidly obese person, not even the bus drivers! I don’t believe that whole “I’m big boned” or “I have a medical condition I can’t lose weight”.
xCkillaxC my ex told me the only reason she makes herself look pretty is to flex on other women.
@@xCkillaxC I agree. I mean, I can understand *some* weight gain for medical conditions or taking a medication....but those conditions and medications generally only directly cause a slight increase in weight (10-20 pounds). And I can also understand weight gain from having a baby (natural and healthy), and it taking some time to lose the weight (especially for those who cannot breast-feed, since breast-feeding is directly tied to losing some of the baby weight...) but I detest stupid excuses for just being lazy. And you can limit weight gain in cases of certain medical conditions with careful diet planning. (I mean, really...if you're only eating 1500 to 1700 calories a day, then there's no way that you can pack on a ton of weight.)
xCkillaxC women are the worst!
Women are harder on each other than men will ever be on them. This is just their reaction to the voices in their heads.
I always say it, but the one thing im sure of in my 25 years of life, is that a woman's biggest enemy, is and will always be, other women.
Women are designed to meet the needs of men, and vice versa. So a woman wants to make sure her man is attracted to HERSELF and not everyone else. That's why they seem competitive.
Just like guys have to flex those protective muscles to show they are bigger and badder than any other guy....because girls are meant to be protected. We all compete with our own sex to some extent; it's not just a woman thing. But not feeling beautiful when guys are attracted to beauty, really stinks.
Absolutely true, men don't set all these crazy beauty standards, women do it to themselves and each other, all you have to be, imo, is a good person who is somewhat attractive, that is all any real men ask for when looking for a compatible woman!
@What Not To Do At a Stoplight Exactly!
'If you want to attract a prince, then you must be a princess; and vice versa.'
"Do they charge more for tattoos if your body is bigger?" Absolutely killed me 😂😂😂😂😂
They also burned Brian Stelter 😂
And here is one for you, why do really fat women think they look better with tattoos all over their huge bodies?
@@Hoggdoc1946 Lipstick on a pig. In this case, literally a pig.
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Yes they do
I agree that media’s standards of beauty, especially in an era of photoshop and plastic surgery, can be intimidating for anyone, regardless of gender.
My own personal body shame and insecurity have been hard to shake, my whole life. This video was really encouraging. It was honestly rather healing to listen to a bunch of men explain how they see and appreciate beauty in a variety of shapes, sizes and forms.
It’s nice to know that even if my body may never be used to sell a weight loss shake, I can still be seen as valuable and desirable.
As a young man myself, I can tell you that I actually find it slightly gross when a woman is so skinny that I can see her ribs imprinting against her skin. Wouldn't be a deal breaker for me by any means, but I'd prefer not. Some might call me a chubby-chaser, I guess, but eh? Many men are more aroused by having more flesh to hold in their hands. Not to mention I'd never want to be shackled up to a woman that is constantly enforcing dietary standards anyways. I will say that even the men I've known who think skinny women are the most attractive end up dating women who are not even remotely that skinny or "groomed." Most men are capable of looking at a woman as a whole package of traits and not just base their eligibility on appearance. It's just easier to get us aroused.
I think a real problem that most people overlook is that they are going about looking for love in the wrong fashion, or are poor at judging people in the first few dates, then get fed up when the relationship doesn't turn out how they thought and blame an entire gender one way or the other. When really, the reason they keep seeing recurring problems with their dates is their own judgment at choosing a date.
oh boohoo your next man is going to be 6 ft 2 and you're going to be happily married
thosebastards He’s 6 ft. on the button (not sure how that’s relevant), and we are happily married, thanks.
Wow you sound like a real catch and you have a mind that works that's all men want a nice woman with intelligence and isnt struggling to breathe or walk my girlfriend got very overweight and she hated her body but we worked hard together training and eating right and she lost 70 lbs and has a new lease on life men love women we want them to succeed and be healthy and happy nothing else we all had mothers or sisters or other female relatives
@@danielleia It's relevant because you cry about how these beauty standarts affected you in a negativ way yet you put the same standarts on men by wanting a men who is taller than average.
Heard a guy say last night that most women who judge men for their looks need to remember that about 95% of their beauty can be removed with a wet wipe.
Thats exactly why i dont wear makeup! Feels like false advertisement.
Women having standards: Empowering
Men having standards: Sexist
Go figure
I'm tired of being judged by unrealistic monetary standards.
Back in my dating days women had trouble making eye contact because they were too busy trying to judge my wallet bulge.
That's why I'm going to get really rich and give *none* of it to women.
Nice one!
@@A_Black_Sheep94 Your government will steal most of it and just hand it to the women anyway. Unless you live in a Muslim-majority country, or Poland and Russia.
@@hugehappygrin Nah. With Trumps tax reforms I don't pay income tax. My tax bracket is too low.
Whenever I’m around a group of just guys I feel so much more comfortable with my body than I do if I’m around a group of just girls. Cause I know we all look at each other and compare ourselves.
I also hear more comments about appearances from woman to woman, than I do from men to women.
Rey Rey women can get whatever they want by taking their clothes off. Truly a gift.
Chefgusto Ok what made you think to bring that up
I agree. I've never understood that. Men get blamed for making beauty standards when it appears to me that women just compete against each other.
@@michaeloconnell3532 You are absolutely correct.
To be honest, the group of guys deep back in their minds are... wondering if she thinks I am cool enough to (#*&@( me in the car and let me )@#(*@ l @)#(@ in the *&#@(* and #(*&@$. All night... You know the "normal" stuff.
Women: "I only like tall men"
Male"I only like skinny women"
Why is one of these just a preference and the other one body shaming? Is this more of that male privilege thing I keep hearing about.
person of interest And the best part is: you cannot do anything about your height, but you can do something about your weight. Lazy pieces of shit.
person of interest In fact the woman’s is even worse since height is majority determined by genetics vs size is majority determined through lifestyle
not to mention one is a choice and the other isnt
The answer is something along the lines of: "because vagina". Though that would probably be "transphobic" nowadays.
person of interest, both are acceptable preferences. We are all free to have our own preferences. Not everyone is everyone’s cup of tea and that’s OK. Onto the next one...
as a female this video gave me more confidence than any body positive video
Why?
“Women put unrealistic standards on other women” ... WORD.🙌🏻
Steven, I was a professional international model for 7 years. I can assure you that egocentric gay men and women run the fashion industry. In fact, I quit because I was tired of getting hit on by men then losing jobs over no pay to play action. Where's the male model "me too" movement. Also, to prove another one of your points. I married a playboy model, not a runway model. I don't need to explain why...
Sub if you hate Socialist and stand with Trump 2020 Your position didn’t automatically move to GS7/9 etc?
Sub if you hate Socialist and stand with Trump 2020 What department and/or agency did you work for if you don’t mind me asking? I just want to know what to avoid
A lot of gay men are the worst they think they can get with any man regardless of their sexuality and they think they can tell everyone what their sexuality is.
Sub if you hate Socialist and stand with Trump 2020 Ahh the DMV of the federal government
@Sub if you hate Socialist and stand with Trump 2020 wow that's sad, i thought that thing only affects women
Ex-feminist here, this video was healing for me tbh. Men and women need to COMMUNICATE. And conservatives can lead the way in communication between the sexes. God bless you guys, Steven & co.
@estoban kupah yet you don't seem to understand how to converse effectively...
As a millennial that bridges the gap between you two generations my phone is constantly in my face and I know how to communicate. So let me communicate what the problem is FEMINISM AND LACK OF RELIGION.
@Keith Meehan That's because all women do is socialize, men have to you know actually worry about and do things and don't have everything handed to them. There's a reason socialism is being jammed down our throats..
The extreme irony of a woman proudly calling herself an ex-feminist and being told to shut the fuck up and listen...
Also, every guy has tried being with a girl and then hearing her complimenting a guy for looking like fckn Bradd Pitt or some shit.
But I have never ever in my life heard a guy complimenting another girl whilst walking with one.
The “standard” comes from other women. It’s like a couple of students I had who were complaining about how much money they “had to spend” on getting their hair done. I asked them who ever said they needed to wear their hair like that..they had no answer.
Women sleep with who they want men sleep with who they can.
"The patriarchy".
@Christopher Ross - Yes. They are also the ones who set the standards for one another. Women do this to themselves and other women.
Shawn Horstman that’s not entirely true though, good men can just choose to be with good women if they want as well, you just have to meet a standard to be allowed in at that level, same with women for the most part.
Great comment
Them - I'm big and beautiful
Gavin Mcinnes - YOU'RE DYING
I literally can hear him saying it. 😂😂😂
I do too 😂
Lmfao
Let’s not even get into the healthcare
Gavin mcinnes is a legend. His videos get my attnetion faster than tits.
Notice how many of their arguments are “it doesn’t make us feel good”.
Its all about feelings for women
That fourth slice of cake doesn’t make them feel good, maybe they should start there
Personally, I could care less about this whole subject.. Let the fatties think however they want. Let them think they are pretty, and healthy. They'll be dead soon enough.
Bewildering Truth Seeker dam tru
@@HighlyVolkish hang on. Not all females are like that. It makes more sense that the most qualified individual get the job political or not. If it is a women we would still all be better of because regardless of gender the best person for the job should get it
2020: you know losing weight gives you a better chance of not dying from Covid 19 than a mask does, right?
Fat people: stop fat shaming me!
As a fellow male, who's 6'1 and (growing mind you) and is cute approximately 330lbs, I can tell you that I don't follow this movement, but I'm proud to be built like a barrel, it's a hearty mix of muscle and fat, I'm thankful that it's more muscle than fat frankly, but I know I gotta work on it, it's just tough navigating a life that's put of wack all the time.
I wished that other people like me, could find the motivation to kick themselves into an initiative to make their bodies somewhat healthy. This is a problem and by product of society.
So we need to kill this stupid "fat shaming" movement. It honestly disgusts me. So thank you for your comment, as I totally agree
Stop putting effort into it. You won't convince them with logic.
@@elliotpoco7539 😂😂🤣🤣 I suppose you're right.
Women: "Omg, no one actually looks like Kate Upton!"
Also women: "Jason Mamoa🤤"
The same women who drool over the result of Momoa's hard work loathe the result of the hard work of any victoria's secret model.
@@tenjou0 Great point. They all work hard and sacrifice a lot of the foods they most of us shovel down. But people dont want to feel bad about their crap diets and lack of exercise.
Kate upton looks like Kate upton
I mean Kate Upton looks like her. She is a real person, not some weird robot... Also, I have seen lots of women, just in my local grocery store I find more attractive than Kate Upton.
Except the online outrage over the summer when he was photographed with a “belly” and everyone attacked him. Honestly, it was an amazing read lol
My standards for women:
1. Don't be a land whale;
2. Don't look like a man;
3. Have a tolerable personality;
4. Have some form of ethical standard;
5. Don't be a socialist.
You could fail all those standards and still get a man.
The correct healthy standards a man should have for a woman:
1) Do not be overweight because being overweight means you're unhealthy... ask any doctor.
2) Don't be a man... which is a more healthy response as compared to don't look like a man where you still might end up with a man!
3) Be emotionally stable... if she has bi-polar, depression or other mental issues these will not only be problems in the relationship, but also you cause any children you might have together to inherit these medical problems!!
4) Be healthy... which means a healthy weight, no diseases, no addictions!
5) Don't be a socialist... definitely agree with this as well, but should also include don't be a feminist.
Welp I guess I am out of your standards
@@skootergirl22 Yet you will still have a lot of men around who will be attracted to you no problem
@@xLuis89x have you even seen me? I am like in the 200ibs 16,3 st spotty face and I have a mild disablity. But I guess my personality is what attracts man lol.
Every Woman’s dating profile: Don’t DM if you’re not 6’0” or more
Men asking the woman her weight: “How Dare you!?”
“You must be no heavier then 150”
Sucks that I'm 5 11...
Champagnepapi not if you write 6’0 on your Tinder profile! *Temple Tap*
Honestly why do you care about the weight? There's a picture of the girl right there, and unless they're catfishing, you know if they're attractive. You don't need a scale to tell if a girl's too fat.
@@lukasg4807
Have you seen all the photo filters and effort to get the "slimming" camera angle thats going on?
I bet half of them are taking photoshop courses.
inside the mind of overweight women: “im too lazy to do cardio or any kind of exercise so i feel oppressed by people who actually put effort into their figure and i also deserve a man with a perfect body and well paying job” hope that sums it up for everyone. also stop it with fat pride maybe you’ll live longer
You know overweight can also be caused by many mental disorders right? I'm not speaking for everyone, but most of the people overeat because of stress, sadness, hormonal causes (medicine) and even eating disorders like Binge Eating Disorders can cause this. Even some people with depression are affected by this.
@@sarahennike3386 difference is, these women still want an athletic bf even tho they are not athletic themselves
@@sarahennike3386 I've had my share of mental disorders in life but you can still slim down after this. People don't want to change, like if someone has an Eating Disorder when they eat too much when stressed ok understandable but some don't want to change their habits at all and when men reject them they get mad, see the problem?
@@sarahennike3386 mental disorders, my ass. Its just excuses to not go to the gym, not having a good diet ,just trying to eat junk food , etc. No wonder fat people are dumb.
@@sarahennike3386 and they maybe used that as an excuse
Women: If you're not a woman, you have no place to talk about how women feel
Also women: We're going to tell you how men feel
Well men and women should treat each other as an individual everyone is different there is not just one way of thinking.
@@Hstout blasphemy! ;)
@@Hstout greatly said.....but it doesn't happen. , ever
Every trans person: "i know what the opposite sex feels and thinks"
@@Hstout quiet. Know your place
Steven!
This actually Is an excellent topic for
*Change my mind*
Second
Such a good idea!
Agreed.
😂 😂 😂 No campus will let him on
No... No it's not. It's one of those topics that doesn't matter to much of anyone except the fatties. Let them think that they are pretty, and healthy, they'll be dead soon enough from Diabetes, so WHO GIVES A SHIT?
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What good does it do to tell a horse that he is a horse? Same thing goes for fatties. They like to eat a lot. They aren't gonna stop. Pointless endeavor.
Fact: most men are looking for a woman who is attractive enough and has matching baggage... Not an Aphrodite
That is a very true statement whether men want to admit it or not
Men don't look for nor typically want an Aphrodite, but women look for and typically want a Zeus.
That's the real double standard.
@@thehavoccompany-a3 that is also a true statement and let's add one more thing a fat bank account changes their eyesight also
DeadlyBacon. So a megalomaniac who cheats and sires multiple demigods? Sounds like a catch!
@mommymode1985 He's right. Its true
This reminds me of when a girl I know thought a guy was flirting with her and she laughed because he is a short guy. She is morbidly obese. It was one of those moments.
How many times have I heard other women say "what does he see in her?". Women judge other women way harsher than men do.
My husband's bosses wife says that about me all the time. She also calls me a fat whale who needs to lose weight and have shitty hair (tho she begs me to cut my hair off to give to her to make a wig for herself 🙄)
I'm actually not over weight according to my doctor. But I am Curvy as hell (hourglass. Meaning I have a big butt and a small waist. But I don't wear clothes that flatter me so I just look heavier than I am instead). And I have hip length wavey hair that I always try to take good care of. Though it doesn't always look so neat. My hair gets messy easily. And often
And she's the one who's actually overweight. With greasy hair. I never once insulted her tho
On my wedding day she actually made me cry with all her rude comments.because of her I have no pics of me smiling in my wedding pics. She made me feel ugly and disgusting instead. She made my wedding a complete nightmare. I hated my wedding cause of her.
Women can be such cruel bitches
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Why do you still willingly associate with that witch?
@@SuicideRedemption You need to slap that bitch, forget her opinion.
But because women cannot take responsibility for anything, it's always somehow a man's fault. They invent bullshit terms like "internalized misoginy" to keep up the charade that women are perfect angels and never do anything wrong.
@@SuicideRedemption you need to send that bitch to the shadow realm lol
I've never been verbally insulted by a man, but I've lost count when it comes to women.
Love how even those huge women want a man that is 6 feet and goes to the gym every day and has 0% body fat.
Wile they literally spend 6 hr of the day eating!
I know 3 of those 😔
I had a friend who was exactly like that...and she’s almost 50 yrs old now and...very, very single. Not really shocking.
Matt Fleming I’m not obese or overweight by any standards. I have no issues attracting men, although it’s not something I understand. But I don’t consider myself worthy of certain men. It’s not always like that. I think women are as much to blame for body images as much as men. Just my two cents.
I honestly think it's unattractive when a man looks like that. For one, a man shouldn't care more about his appearance than I care about mine. For two, it's extremely narcissistic to work so hard on physical appearance. Yeah, take care of yourself, groom, put in effort. But spending 2+ hours a day on your looks is vain af. Besides, what woman wants to be with a man who's prettier than her?
We push our insecurities onto other people. We are all our worse critics. We focus on our flaws while everyone else just sees us.
Every thot’s profile ever:
At least 6’1” or gtfo
And they either weigh 200+, hatchet face, or 4 half black kids.
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Bentendo94 they want to wear heels lol who can blame them
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The average woman is 5’4”. Average man is 5’9”. Plenty difference for heels.
Im 6 3 in high heels lol
Here is a lesson everyone needs to learn: there is no such thing as “perfect.”
Matthew Mabry Steven crowder is perfect ... you LIAR!
Only Ben Shapiro and Steven Crowder are perfect
Pretty sure I am.
Also eating like a crazy person and having no discipline at all wont lead you to any good path either
@@luckymomx4 lol. You made a funny, thank you very cool.
Women: "I want a man who is over 6ft tall, makes six figures, and has a six pack."
Men: "I want a woman who is under 200 pounds, not a single mother, and not a heroin junkie".
Women: "Men in our society are imposing such unrealistic standards on women! Such entitlement!"
crubs no meth addicts either.
not a single mother depends what age group are talking about I would say.
This is so true it’s hurts 😂😂
@@Humstuck haha, true. A single guy in his late 30s may have to make an exception with the "no kids" thing
@Anonymously yours, Nothing wrong with being a single mother, but in my experience it's ONLY overweight single mothers who show any interest in me for those online dating sites. At this point it's a well established pattern. Overweight single mothers are like pit mixes in the dog adoption shelters. The're grossly over represented.
Average girl: *has high standard*
Average boy: *A HOLE IS A HOLE*
*Glares at the dog*
That's not a good thing lol sounds gay if you ask me
@@fantomphoenix6170 Bruh you just r/cursedcomment this.🤣🤣🤣
@@fantomphoenix6170 no.
Generic Egg you bet I did, I could have said bee hive
Chris Pratt was one time a bit "fat" and this was the reason why he lost a role soooooo....
Bogatyr Chris Pratt is really attractive though, that’s sad
@@Papaya16 yes, he is a good looking dude. The thing is, he always used to just be the "funny guy" on parks and rec. Then he got ripped for guardians of the galaxy and became "hot."
wow, are you saying he couldnt fit the image of a pre determined role and as such didnt get the role? no way, heresy!!!!
@@96Logan Funny, the first time I saw him on p&r I had a hunch he could be really good-looking guy if he only lost some weight. Some of those stereotypical good-looking guy features were still partially visible at the time, I guess because he wasn't fat enough to conceal them completely lol
Ngl I preferred his dad bod
Like I have always said...it's never the men who have tried to hold me back. It's always been the women...in my personal and professional life.
It's a cat eat cat world out there 😂
It's not natural for a man to view a woman as competition. Now in the corporate sphere it will be a bit different, but I would still assume a man is less likely to view a woman as competition. Women on the other hand of course view you as the primary competition.
@@rodney2865 Very true and so sad. But what the women don't realize is that I am running my own race and they aren't invited.
I concur!
The "sisterhood" is bull$hit, I don't need a group of women to validate me.
That's true jess
Facts. Peggy wouldn’t go out with me until I had muscles
This did more for my self esteem than the entire body positivity movement.
AMEN SISTER!
Amen! I am actually listening to this for the third time for that reason.
Check out Reddit. Lots of guys praising women for being female. Wholesome and sexy times abound.
Facts!!!!
When Crowder was like “you may look like an average woman, but men see this” that melted my heart ❤️🥺 men like this deserve the world
Here’s the painful truth ladies.
*WOMEN CREATED THE BELIEF THAT THEY HAVE TO BE PERFECT*
whittee women did lol
Full Dem true
I'll go along with that
Thank you for this video! I have ALWAYS struggled with how I see myself in the mirror. My husband says I'm beautiful all the time(even after the birth of our fourth child) and I regret that I've often discounted his compliments instead of saying thank you. I will say thank you from now on and continue to try my best to take care of myself.
He is not wrong. The majority of men really are happy with a woman they can work with on a mental level. I could not stand the nagging bitches at all. If a 10 were to nag at me, she already bumped down to a 3 at her high. Just don't have an extra 300 lbs on top of the normal bmi, and yall be alright.
Yes please do that! Us men just want our wives to be happy, a smile is a beautiful thing
Dont discount his compliments, trust me, it gets old, if he says you're atractive why would you think otherwise? in his eyes you're the most beautifull woman.
One day my boyfriend of 3 years told me I was fat at first I was really really pissed 😤 but then after I thought about it and had a really long hard look in the mirror I decided he was right. I have lost 40lbs and I am working out daily. I’m so thankful to have a boyfriend with enough balls to tell me to my face I’m getting fat and unhealthy!
You are a blessing to society
But telling a dude he has a small dick is wrong? Dudes get really emotional about that, why
@@xxromanovaxx6682 having a small dick is an insecurity guys can’t fix. The amount of pressure for being able to please a woman sexually is immense, and it’s very hard dealing with something we literally have 0 control over
@@donnytello1544 use fingers 👌
@@PositiveMe100 I never said I had a small dick 😏, but yeah that works to I guess