I am a Christian woman and I understood clearly what he said and I support his words. A Muslim man can marry a Christian if that woman really follows her faith. Christians are supposed to be conservative, respect God Laws and base her live by them. If you are a true Christian lady you should not show your body using disrespectul clothes in front of others, you should not have sex if you are not married, you must have a respectful attitude, you must pray, read your Bible, respect your husband and house, etc. A REAL Christian woman is as virtous as a Muslim woman.
+ojosverdesPR its true but also not entirely true... a muslim can marry a believer of the old testament (the real Bible that us muslims believed to be from God which teaches there is One God, who is not the father of anything, not the son of anything). Muslims believed that the Bible is forged/changed by man, after the Jesus was crucified (not dead, but brought up to God in the Heaven until come forth the day of Judgement) and so with that in mind, we believed that Christianity is not the same parallel religion that once was during the years when Prophet Muhammad lived (in his life time, there was a few old people who still believed in the old testament, before Bible was forged/changed) so to clarify the misunderstanding, a muslim cannot marry a christian unless the religion is of the old testament (before Bible is changed)...thus its impossible to find one in this modern days.. NO DISRESPECT to you, fine Christian lady...I'm just giving the facts about what Muslims believed and supposed to believe
+Xant Falklin I'm not a part of any religion, but I do belive in God, still many say I'm a non-believer - howcome, who are you to judge me (no matter of your religion) - if I personally believe it's better for me and my soul to not to have sexual relationship with my partner (even though I want to and I had in past), how can you or they judge me for my past? Aren't Muhhamed and Allah the only ones who can judge me on that? And didn't Allah say muslim women should not dress so they could sexually seduce men (which is modest and NOT jihab, niqab and burqa)? Everyone sins, even muslims (especially men, believe me, I KNOW MANY of them who did/do), so why couldn't the muslim women who were "brought back" to faith and did or did not put on their jihabs be considered a true believers? Allah says that a non-believer should have 3 days to reconsile their faith - WHY DO MUSLIM MEN FAIL TO FOLLOW ALLAH'S WORDS?!? Shame on them - ALL of them who don't!!!
+MsLoverPower i dont understand how your question related to my previous comment...and i don't quite understand what you are trying to convey here...but i try to match my answers to your question. in general, no one can judge other person's appearance or action except God...so it is between you and Him...with that said, in Islam, we have the Quran and the Hadith (a collection of traditions containing sayings of the prophet Muhammad that, with accounts of his daily practice (the Sunna), constitute the major source of guidance for Muslims apart from the Quran) which are guidelines of what God's command... in the Quran, God said women who are the believers must cover their bodies to avoid fitna (temptation, trial; sedition, civil strife") is an Arabic word with extensive connotations of trial, affliction, or distress. A word freighted with important historical implications.) and to men who are the believers, they should lower their gaze to also avoid fitna when uncovered women walks among them. so this applies both side...women must cover their bodies appropriately and men must lower their gaze. the women who were brought back to faith (men as well) are like babies being born...(they are once again free of sins like a white cloth with no stains, or an innocent child who has no bearing of sins...) but what I mentioned in my previous comment is that Christians who follows the New testaments are not muslims. since the new testament isnt the same as Quran or the old old testament. The major content that differs from Quran is Jesus being the son of God and in Quran, the third last Surah (Al-Ikhlas) said that God is One, He has no children nor is he the son of God. And there is none like Him. so with that in mind, in this situation it isnt us who is to judge, since its the word of God. You also mention that the non-believer has 3 days to reconcile their faith...i'm not an Islamic scholar so I have no saying in this... in conclusion, women arent forced to wear hijab but are told to cover their bodies as do men were told to lower their gaze when a revealing women are in their midst. ..
It's also important to mention that no one (and I'm saying this as a Muslim) should convert to any religion, just because they want to please their spouse and that's it. Religion and Islam is about what your heart, if it's not in your heart it's not true.
I thought my wife would become Muslim when we married and, after 20 years, she still has no interest in Islam. This brother is 100% correct. Everything he says is *exactly* what happened to me. Heed his advice.
@@samuelvimes7686 I was reading Quran before this comment, and what I found let me paste here. Allah SWT said: قُلْ يٰٓأَيُّهَا النَّاسُ قَدْ جَآءَكُمُ الْحَقُّ مِنْ رَّبِّكُمْ ۖ فَمَنِ اهْتَدٰى فَإِنَّمَا يَهْتَدِى لِنَفْسِهِۦ ۖ وَمَنْ ضَلَّ فَإِنَّمَا يَضِلُّ عَلَيْهَا ۖ وَمَآ أَنَا۠ عَلَيْكُمْ بِوَكِيلٍ "Say, O mankind, the truth has come to you from your Lord, so whoever is guided is only guided for [the benefit of] his soul, and whoever goes astray only goes astray [in violation] against it. And I am not over you a manager." (QS. Yunus 10: Verse 108)
@@samuelvimes7686 "Your Allah is one Allah. As to those who believe not in the Hereafter, their hearts refuse to know, and they are arrogant." (Surah An-Nahl, 22)
@@georgesomi8542 Astaghfirullah! Please don't say anything bad about Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) because he didn't do it and it's wrong. See below and read from Wikipedia Source: Zaynab bint Jahsh was a first cousin and wife of Muhammad and therefore a Mother of the Believers. Wikipedia Died: 641 AD, Medina, Saudi Arabia Parents: Umama bint Abdulmuttalib, Jahsh ibn Riyab In our country when someone is talking without authentic information (with wrong information) then they just laughe and say that he/she is thinking in his/her stomach instead of brain.
@mr thompson m yeah?? I are you sure?? And who are you?? Are you scholar yourself or do you have any knowledge about any religion? For me you sounds like hipocrat who don't know what he talking about...
@@AF-yq9es why are you here if you don't like islam , go watch something you like , i still don't understand why i always haters of islam coming to muslim videos
@Visto che stop telling us what you know about Islam and start asking us, some of you Christians act like it's forbidden to read Quran and ask questions.
Beautiful lecture and very informative sheikh. He tells the truth and is not afraid of any consequences that he might face from the audiences. Allah protects him, Insha Allah.
A "Muslim" woman. She may have Muslim parents, or come from a Muslim background. But it is her actions that decide whether or not she is a Muslim. If you're a vegetarian who has a steak once a week. Then are you really a vegetarian? or just someone who rarely eats meat? Food for thought. Peace
Islam is not a piece of clothes that one can put on and take off. Islam is a rigorious system of belief, it's a rigorious faith and religion. Now one either adheres to Islam or not. At least one needs to be comitted to the 5 pillars and have firm belied in God, his sent down messages and books, his messengers, angels, the day of Judgement and God's will in everything (Destiny) to be a muslim.
And how do u know a muslim man is Muslim chaste? Most muslim especially men go to foreign countries to f%%k whi girls. They luust over them so tell me are they muslims or mushriks.
Converted to Islam to marry my husband 12 years mashallah 3 kids and I'm so happy mashallah *EDITS* * IM GETTING SO MUCH STRESS OVER MY COMMENT I DIDNT JUST CONVERT FOR MY HUSBAND I SPENT 12 MONTHS READING AND UNDERSTANDING ISLAM IF YOUR REPLY TO MY COMMENT IS NEGATIVE CALLING ME A TERRORIST ID RATHER NOT KNOW THANKS KEEP YOUR NASTY THOUGHTS TO YOUR SELF ITS DAM RIGHT NASTY*
Yusuf estes after hearing ur preaching I cancelled my interest of marrying a Christian lady following ur convinced reasons.I am saved from future calamity. masha Allah. from Nigeria.
I know some non Muslim people better couples then Muslims and I know some boyfriends and girlfriends more soulmates than any religious marriage being married to someone because they're the same religion doesn't make them your soulmate not everybody is fit to be married not even Muslims and not every Muslim who is married to a Muslim is with their soulmate life is way deeper than the religious Dogma
Ershad Syed an inspiration to so many muslims???!!! The muslim world has much better much knowledgeable people elhamdulillah estes accepted islam but i defenetly dislike his ways of always joking n making bad jokes for the audience Elhamdulillah for scholars islam was thaught by knowledge and wisdom A one joke is ok but constant jokes has no place in islam His speech has the reminescence of his past as a christian priest beacause he was a priest before turning muslim i just wish he would detach himself from such ways n be more like islamic scholars Priest and evangelists are good sales man but that is not the way our deen works All is based on delivering knowledge with proofs to whom ever is listening Maybe it is just me but i dislike his ways especialy when he dresses like a scholar with a ghitra on top of his head There is really no need for all the jokes We get it he is from texas he is funny etc but really enough please Our deen is serious its not a circus or a showto make people laugh As for estes saying there is no islamic states or countries Where does he get that info from n based on what ? The prophet sws said where ever the adhan is proclaimed that is the land of islam meaning you walk around and you can hear the adhan from different direction and masjid So saudi arabia yemen irak jordan libya egypt soudan algeria tunisia morrocco maurotznia lebanon syria pakistan afghanistan tadjikistan uzbekhistan Etc etc are all kaffer countries ?????!!!!!! There is no in between But again these convert become muslimsàd try to teach what is a muslim country Go ask scholars n i meanby that those who speak by what allah says his prophet sws says and his companions understood Ask them what is a muslim country what makes a country muslim Anyway its a long topic I also didnt mike him saying virgin in australia ??! With sarcasm there is women who are not muslims n are still virgin around the entire world Andeven if it was true that is not a way to talk about them we are muslim we want to bring people into the deen How would you feel if you were australian hearing estestalk the wayhe does with moquery or joking and make the audience laugh as well asif to sayyeah they all have illicite sex outside of mariage And joke about the beach in australia No brother people of knowledge dont talk this way period there level is above this So do not say he is an inspiration to muslims maybe to you or to the ones who never sat with scholarsand attended a lecture Wassalaamu aleikom have a good month of ramadhan full of blessing n mercy of allah upon you n your family
To be a perfect muslim/muslimah we can follow 12 steps: 1. Ilm.(Islamic knowledge) 2.Strive against nafs.(Self-evil) 3. Giving Islamic dawah. 4.Sabr.(Patience) 5.Good character.(by reading Seerah) 6.Avoiding laziness. 7.Praying Tahajjud. 8.Concentration in Salah.(By Understanding Quran) 9.Secret Charity. 10.Frequent rememberence of Death. 11.Finding good friends. 12.Increasing love for Allah by remembering His blessings,thanking him by Dua,repenting to Him for our sins. Assalamu Alaikum Rasulullah Assalamu Alaikum everyone Always send salawat for prophet Muhammad PBUH 💎 May Allah make us among those who follows all these steps properly(Ameen)🤲 May Allah grant all of us Jannah and companionship of prophet Muhammad PBUH (Ameen)🤲
All the respect to you Mr Yusuf Estes , your way of teaching today society is uniquely suited! I am a non Muslim woman , but what you said is true , and the way you described today's young woman is exactly right ! Unfortunately.. it is sad but I doubt it it be any better in the future ! I thank you and all my respect for you to mention in your teachings that not all woman is like that , but hard to find these days . It is true .. I Concorde my self one of those Woman , but I still have plenty to learn and grow spiritually .. Today's world is ruled by satan , and twisting and ruining millions of young minds every day ! Wish you blessings for your teachings , I will look for more Thank you
@@MastersInPhd bro I am from Nepal whole community and society here is. a Hindu ( superstition religion) but I reverted to Islam 6 months ago but bro they all have bad opinion and perspectives of Islam like terrorism and harmful religion so Its being hard for me to do any Islamic stuffs and Salah in my home bro because everyone here is Hindu and how to do anything Islamic bro they will kick me out of home I can't tell them because they don't value my words because in their mind Islam is just a harmful religion can anyone help me in this situation though I am grateful for Allah opening my heart and choosing me here in this superstition country but in return I can't give even proper prayer and gratitude for him because of my environment
Cast P i was surprised when my christian wife asked me me that she wanna be a muslim, as I told her she doesn’t have to change her religion for me, faith and God is bigger than any relationship. She studied and read a lot about Islam and it was her decision, even my mother called her online from Egypt before we get married and my mom told her, do not change your religion because of my son, it doesn’t work like that, that was sweet from my mom, as she took english course to know how to communicate with my wife. Honestly, the fact that my mother put efforts to deliver this information to my future wife was really amazing and I appreciate my mother for bringing this up, as she knows that she needs to clear this up with the girl who will be her son’s wife
As a Christian woman, I say he's correct. WHY would a Muslim man even think of marrying a non Muslim? ? Even of the old book. Stick to your beliefs, and women. Plus, WHY would a true Christian woman especially, or a woman from another faith/belief system/atheist. ...etc even entertain marrying a Muslim man? ??? Attraction, love? ? Well, don't start entertaining them, therefore you can not go any further . Really. ..people should stick to their own faiths in looking for marriage.
@@ebuqble33 Do you think it could have been easier for her to do that? She reverted to Islam got married and cuz of some reason she got divorced, do u think its easy as a revert ?
my wife converted to Islam on our weeding day during our weeding right before we got married at mosque, & im not the best muslim but im trying and wanna set a better example for my wife we been married for 2 months now, and we just started our fast today this is her first time fasting Insallah its a succesful Ramadan for the both of us and for many more years to come Insallah make dua for me and my recently converted wife.
Watch this ruclips.net/video/ySrze8mRJw8/видео.html I will suggest you to read, listen and watch stories of Auliya/sufis along with your wife and if you can read books written by sufis like Masnavi by Molana Rumi and Ahay Ul Uloom by imam Ghazali
I'm a muslim happily married to a christian woman, she loves and respects my religion and we have long discussions and stories about it. So far I'm trying to let her understand what are the details too. and we have a very nice and understanding life alhamdulillah. Anyway to the brother of singapore, you need to ask about the islamic marriage, we got married in an islamic courthouse! Peace.
@@user-hw6cg9ji5x I completely agree with this. Like there’s nothing really special about these Christian and Jewish women. Also the rule about marrying a Christian or Jewish women, are those who are close to the OLD books (The ones that were not altered by mankind,/the ones that were actually sent down by Allah). so this doesn’t apply to modern times. Which means that technically if you think about it no one can actually marry a Christian or Jewish woman in today’s day and age. They don't follow the actual book. and I completely agree, I would never ever be able to marry someone who doesn't believe in Allah and the last prophet. Let’s be real here, the only reason why they marry this woman is because they’re “pretty” and have “good values.” I’m putting these two under quotation marks because these are very superficial and there are so many Muslim women who also have these traits. Also, so many Muslim women are literally waiting (me included) for our Muslim men so that we can get married, while our Muslim men are just leaving for these women who aren't even Muslim. And it's really for these superficial reasons. It's very sad. May Allah guide us all and help us all.
Im a devout Catholic with a muslim man...I respect his religion very much as he does with mine.. We're engaged and Im learning every day about the muslim way... We do love eachother so much... I only pray that God will strengthen our bond through faith.. 🙏
lucas JJ my wife is asian and Christian when we married but God guided her to Islam after she read and studied it and decided, as i told her I cannot force you to be Muslim, God has plans and opportunities for each one of us
If you thought i was the old guy in the video then you surely have no respect on how to speak to elders...this tells me a lot about you. Seems I am dealing with kids here.
@@taniac4063 well you're the one who is actually wtong thats why muslims need to seek the imam because they hold more knowledge than us. That's why we need to kearn from teacher and not just learn something without the full explanation
@@zetroachi9853 You're uneducated on your own religion 😂😂 in the Quran it clearly identifies Christians as trinitarians, not monotheist. When Allah addresses ahlul kitaab in the Quran he clearly states to stop worshipping partners with him and that the christians took Jesus as the son of God 😭😭
@@zetroachi9853 @ 0:40 listen carefully, then let it play out as he explains the conditions of marrying christians/jews...let go of your anger family, it's keeping you jahil
Hold on guys let me clear up your thoughts a little bit, you may not agree or agree. Christians are monotheists, being triniarians or not, they still are monotheists. Also.. Real Christians believe that Jesus Christ is the son of god. Nothing more, nothing less. Real Christians believe in god, the son of god and the holy spirit. That still talks about 1 god. (Also there are non-trinitarians, such as mormons; still christians). You may agree or not agree. Have a good day.
Muslim women are worth the marriage before anyone else, there is nobody like her I knew a lot of pretty girls from different religions, but I tell you that a muslim woman is a fine dime mentally/spiritually and that is very important in marriage.
I met two religionist woman in my life one from Pakistan and one my own kind I wanted to marry them even tho I knew them very well they married someone else behind my back, there honest someone but not too honest one said she promised someone else to marry him and so she didn’t want to commit a sin,to broke the promise I m a Muslim and now I really really don’t like or love halal pure marriage for me at all rather I m being tested or not my heart doesn’t naturally wanted halal when I seek halal. Marrying non Muslims is the right decision for me rather it’s a problem that comes with it or not I really don’t care it’s too painful for me when I seek halal marriages this is the 3rd proposal that I wanted and now I truly turned away all my friends all have halal marriages and happy and that’s there personal happiness but for me every time I hear halal marriages it’s too painful for me
It sounds like he took Shahadah with the intention of marrying a Muslim women and not to accept Islam....Allah Knows Best. You need to take this matter to your local Imam or Sheikh.
my husband is Muslim, he's very religious, and I'm basically atheist. He's never had an issue with me, and I've never had an issue with him being Muslim. I actually love that he's Muslim, he is a great honest man, and I think being religious has helped be that way. I on the other hand am obviously not religious, but I'm a very modest respectful person. Religion is never an issue between us, it's always cultural clashes we have. It's all about love, even if religion is an important factor, with respect and love, a successful marriage can be obtained
omarmustafa khalil96 it's not a joke. He isn't extremely dedicated but he tries doing all his prayers everyday, he goes to the mosque every Friday, he does what mostly everyone does. He encourages me to be religious, but it's not an issue between us
Marylen Kahlo. do you think islam only about going to mosque and doing a prayers ? all these don't make him a religious islam is a way of life i think your husband doesn't konw any think about his religion he's completely ignorant
omarmustafa khalil96 He's a good person, honest, caring about others, and helpful. Isn't that the message of his religion? It is part of his life, it's always been, he's dedicated and has very strong faith. Maybe you don't agree, but to me that comes off as religious, I don't know how you categorize it
I am Christian and my husband is Muslim. I encourage him to pray, and he encourages me to pray. We always discuss the Bible and the Qur'an. God blessed Ishmael as well as Isaac. I share Jesus and his love to my husband and he listens and never tries to shut me up about Jesus my saviour. We both put God first in our marriage and home.
Hey Marla, nice to hear that, actually I didn't get this in recommendation or something I searched for this, there's a girl who's Christian I like and she also likes me, I'm a muslim, we really love eachother and want to marry, but she isn't ready to convert to muslim to marry me, well I didn't tell her to neither I I'm going to do that cause I believe in Allah only, not asking for advice or anything just felt like sharing:) I hope things get easy for us and we marry someday 🤲
Yes, but not very good for their assimilation and integration... It is a good thing muslims leave their faith in droves when they live in the modern secular and prosperous west, where they get a good education and learn to think critically...
Why are you living in the west when your values and views belong in a caliphate and you don't want to mix with the native population? You are abusing the tolerance of the west to practice your medieval intolerance.
@Bassline Rally Be careful with your thought, try saying that in North Korea, China, India or certain parts of Russia and see what will happen to you. By your logic, Christians, Jews and people of other faiths also have a right to grow and to stay.
I married a Muslim man. I respect his believes and help in anything I can.. I do not believe but also think it is everyone choice and I or you do not have the right to tell them what to believe. My granddaughter that we raise goes to an Islamic school that I chose because I was taught you can not decided what you believe if you do not know it. So she can make her own choice to be Muslim or what ever she choses to believe and I will honor and respect her choice. I have never did anything you just insinuated. We have been married for 13 years and I have always respected my husband religious beliefs and when he was slipping in his duties to Allah it was me who reminded him that he was Muslim and to honor his believes. Now he sees your video and thinks you are right. That he needs to divorce me because by being married to me makes him a bad Muslim. Tells me he loves me and he knows I have never did anything to stop or change his believes. That he lied to himself and his god and should have never married me. He is trying so hard to be a good Muslim we have been through so much in ourb13 years. I lost my daughter 5 years ago and now he says he needs to divorce me for his god.............. And you are the one preaching this..... To rip apart 2 people who love each other for your god....... Nice
Louanne Bass I think he is doing it on his own. If you believe in one God and no one else and believe that Jesus is not the son of God but only a prophet and a human born by a mother then you are a true Christian, the one a Muslim is allowed to marry and have a family with. As God is one and only one. He doesn’t need a family or son to carry on his family or name. He is Almighty. The one and only one. He is the one and is above all the needs of what human beings need to servive. He doesn’t need a son or wife. If you believe in it you are a true Christian. In bible many people are referred as son , just like with love we call a random kid son but that doesn’t make him our son. In the same way, calling a prophet son, doesn’t make him son of God. In bible many people are referred as son other than Jesus too. Hopefully it clears a concept. Thanks and prayers for you and your family.
@@alphawolf8031 she had a pulmonary embolism shortly after she gave birth. Her daughter was 7 months old. My husband and I have been raising her since we left the hospital. Teaghans father is in her life when he chooses to be. Mostafa my husband watched this video then had me watch then explained that he needed to divorce me to be closer to his god. I ranted for 2 days about this because it hurt me so much that he thought I could just be thrown away like that. I have never did anything but support him in his life so that was a huge shock that came from no were. I talked to his family and our close friends. We have all decided that he is so stressed out that he has lost his mind. He has now apologized he thought this would make me become Muslim. But know he has made more pain in me then he realises. It will take me a very long time to forgive him for thinking of me this way. I told him before we ever married that it would be for life. Through the good and bad and I ment it. But pain takes time to heal. I am so very hurt at what he did. In this video you assumed alot I am nothing like that. I fasted so I would understand how he would feel during this time. I researched to see what I should make him to enjoy Ramadan and the offer eid. I am not Muslim and I am not even sure I believed in god. But I do respect my husband believe that he has a right to believe and I support him in anyway I can that does not make me uncomfortable. I have always been a kind and giving person. I have always believed to be respectful to others as long as they do not hurt anyone. I am not stupid I know a terrorist is someone with wants to hurt others in what ever name they say. Today they say Islamic before Irish and in the Christian it always changes but they are all the same they just wish to cause pain. And some people are to arrogant to lift there heads and think for themselves. They are like ants just doing what the queen wants without a brain. As you can see I use my brain and I am very open an honest person. My daughter wanted Teaghan to learn all religions like she did and I did and make up her own mind. But this also teaches you how other people think and why. I love that saying walk a mile in there shoes because its so tire you can't understand someone unless you have been there. Anyway thanks for asking and sorry I was so angry. Mubarak Ramadan
@@Tota_Digital_Design Thank you. I am happy you guys didn't divorce in the end. Anyways, a true Muslim man takes care of his wife, tell your husband those words, those things and that God would not forgive a man who is not respectful towards his wife. I also like the fact that you're open minded and do not easily get brainwashed by the media. Indeed, you will need time to heal. Hope you live happily after this painful experience.
Luanne Bass, May Allah give you hidayat! Just remember that if you want to be together in the afterlife, you must revert to Islam before you die because all your help and support will be for nought otherwise!
I'm a Muslimah (woman muslim) from birth, because my family are muslim but after i grew up religion is not because family its our choice and i know the truth by social life & learning in islamic college. Then it makes me more believe in Allah SWT alhamdulillah
I’m a Christian married to a Muslim man and we have 2 children, we talked about it before we married, we will teach our children both religions, We go with them in the Moschee as we go to church and i have to say it’s pretty amazing cause I know what i stand for, also he knows and together we can talk about all the experiences we are making. We love our blessing, I definitely think if you are open to except a other religion and respect it you are able to work through the differences. I’m so thankful that my family is healthy and happy. I know our father is proud of us. 🥰
Alekhya Surjer that’s your opinion, god loves us all. It’s not that we betray our religion it’s more we respect our religion. We just love each other, and I love his religion as he loves mine. Betraying is what you do the we are betraying our religion cause you want to harm our feeling and I know in the Koran and in the bible, you must never want to harm a person never a person who believes. For you to write something like that I know you feel bad about yourself, but I wish you only the best and may allah give you strength throughout your weakness. Bless you
@@user-hw6cg9ji5x thats exactly what the Shaikh told in his video. They will mess up with his faith. He finds it normal to take his children to the church, no it is not. When you believe in Him, you can't accept that for your children.
Why the hell would this comment gets to many negative votes??? this is someone that actually asked for answer, he didn't meant to be rude, and deserves an answer, and he got it, Allahu akhbar...
@Visto che it was just afunny line it made me laugh ustad Yusuf is full of sarcasm i liie he's sense of humor i didn't mean to be rude. Forgive me if my laugh upset you we brothers in islam
Mashallah ever well said! As a Muslim man i will not marry outside my own religion, its much better to marry within the same faith because less problems and more happiness. Sadly many Muslim women in the west have married with Christians or Atheists and have been left hanging at the end becoming single mothers. Its just sad and depressing.
@AfghanLion: You and I must be living on different planets. I was born and raised in the West. In the subway and every street corner, all you see is Muslim men with blonde ladies. And in every Muslim household: single, highly educated and practising daughters who are ageing but struggling to find Muslim husbands. Brother, your writing really hurt my heart as a sister. Really, I’m about to pray and am in full wuzu. We have an overflux of celibate, deeply practising, beautiful sisters who aren’t even considered, as Muslim men are busy chasing women who give things away like a grocery shop. These men are also neglecting their mothers, just coming home to eat or fight. May Allah swt make hurtful, blind brothers like you see the truth before it’s too late. I know NOT A SINGLE Muslim woman married to a non-Muslim. Astaghfarullah, I am beginning to resent my own Muslim brothers 😞. Sometimes, they make me sick. I make duaa that Allah swt will compensate their wonderful, dedicated sisters and mothers one day. Perhaps it would’ve been better to not get such sons, than to give birth to them. They are RUINING their souls, playing with their Deen for the ”pleasures” of this world. Ya Allah, save the Ummah from weak men who can’t even follow Your noble rules! They’ve ruined the reputation of Islam!
I hope you will find yr halal. I am from a Muslim country and most men here prefer to marry non Muslim women for personal reasons let u guess. It's very depressive may Allah guide us
Alhamdulillah brother sheikh Yusuf, Allah give you longer live and grant you the strength all the the way, sound mind and good health to carry on enlightening the Muslim ummat of our religion (Islam). Blessed you are and blessed you live here and the hereafter. Ameen.
As long as one believes that there is no one worthy of worship except ALLAH and the MUHAMMAD is the messenger of ALLAH then they are Muslim. It sounds like she is a Muslim so in that case a Muslim man may marry her inshallah. This area will need more clarification so it's best to visit your local Masjid and speak to an Imam or Sheikh about this issue.
My roommates mother is doing this to a man right now out in Egypt. He’s not a perfect Muslim none of us are but him agreeing to be with this woman is terrible for him and his family. May Allah guide him and free his mind, Alhamdulillah.
I know loads of Muslims in Sydney. But they are not permitted to accept my invitations to share a meal with me. Nor are they permitted to invite me and my wife to share their meal. That's not the way things work in the rest of Australia
I dont know what experiences you had but the prophet pbuh accepted invitations and dined with jews and co existed with them while in medina so we go by what he pbuh did not just anyone.
We Muslim's Have Our Community Muslim's Ummah And You Have You're Community. You Live In You're. We Live In Our Community. In Our Community People Are Believers. Not Idolater's, Atheist, Transgressors.
Amazing, your man is a lucky one!! Mashallah sister :) For me it's the same, I am with a christian girl and she loves Islam and respects my fasting, praying abstaining from Alcohol etc. All the best
Many people that claim to be Christian are without instructions on the way of life unfortunately, that's how come America is so full of confusion and has so many churches , and it's sad because they often times get it from their momma's, who also had no real instructions but claim to be a Christian and then go have a ham and cheese sandwich or pork chops smothered in gravy and some time with the pastor.
I am here to apologize. I finished listening to the video and you clearly said if the woman/man converted it is OK. I let my emotions get to me before finishing the video. It's really hard for us in our society where I live. Our convert wives are being judge for their previous religions and are being treated differently from those born Muslims. I'm so sorry for my harsh words.
I am married to an orthodox Christian woman. She respect my religion. She even part with me. WE have 2 kids .. she told me raise them as Muslims. Those rules work long time ago. Now we are all mixed .. happy husband
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You should follow the rules of religion no matter how ancient they are, because truths are everlasting information. Also, what he said in this video and condition of virginity is not true, such rules never existed. Marriage with non-muslim women was more frequent in the past, then it is now for various reasons.
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@@yusira27 I don't this was true in the past during muslim empires. Because at that time, it was far more frequents for muslims to marry christian women, and their children were muslims, who also contributed to the society. Not sure about modern day though, since European societies are matriarchal.
Why bother to pretend to follow Islam or call yourself a Muslim if you believe that the laws of Allah and Quran are over dated?...because of honorless lust worshippers like you Muslim ummah is in a mess..pathetic
FYI your beliefs are clear disbelief and enough to nullify your faith and claim of Islam. If you don't know let me tell you there are certain things which if uttered by a Muslim can make him an unbeliever instantly these are called "kalima e kuffar" meaning "words of disbelief " even if they were uttered unintentionally by mistake renewal of faith by reciting shahadah is must.. Those words which go against any command of Quran or authentic hadith are classified as kuffar. So you see even uttering words of disbelief can make one non Muslim but you seem to have a conviction and belief which goes against Quran.. Now imagine what you are.. This happens when you have no knowledge of Deen and create your own version of religion..
Muslim in Indonesia should hear this and think/take it seriously. Only in Indonesia the state law is above the syariah law related marry issue. The damages occured from this mixed religous believe married is unbenefitical, no one denied.
Great talk sir..I am strictly against these intercaste marriages myself...and I agree to every word of yours May Allah(swt) bless you always and keep you healthy...Aameen
There's nothing like cast in Islam Islam came to abolish all these castes and races Any muslim no matter which caste/creed/race he belongs to he can marry another muslim
Importantly happy marriage is called feelings & understanding/compatablity after all this comes religions...there are lots of unhappy Muslims couples just compromising in life bcse of children's involvement..
Some Muslim couples are unhappy frequently because of two reasons. Firstly they were forced to get married and sometimes it turns out to have relationships with other man/woman. Secondly it happens because they have chosen a partner whose thoughts aren't matched perfectly in different situations, maybe because of cultural differences or having different perspectives. So, in Islam it is surely permissible and also very important to make a correct decision with family or close relatives before marrying. Hope you get my point brother :)
What the hell are you saying? There are few unhappy Muslim couples and lots and lots of happy Muslim couples.. In Europe there are wannabe Europeans like you who leave their values and culture and follow other cultures and values in the name of "feelings and understanding " and then end up in failed marriages.. I agree even in Muslim society there are unhappy couples but I can guarantee you that islam even tells them how to make their unhappy relationship work and not end up being single parents because of their egos.. This is similar to the case that even if you follow all traffic rules with utmost care the chances of an accident can't still be ruled out and only a fool will say accident happen anyway why follow traffic rules..
The most important thing in a marriage is love, honesty, being understanding and respecting each other. It doesn’t matter if you are from different backgrounds and religions, if you respect each other and each other’s beliefs that’s what matters. There are tons of unhappy Muslim couples, they have the same religion, but they want different things, as well as other couples who aren’t Muslim. All you need, again, is love, compatibility, respect and honesty.
I am a Christian and did marry a Muslim. I told him at the beginning no sex before marriage, end of story. He said well then we must marry. Also I am not perfect at my faith but I do read the the scriptures. The lord prayer or as I call it "the our father prayer, is our father who art in heaven hollowed be thy name the kingdom come thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven, give us this say our daily bread and forgive us our debts as we have forgiven those who have sinned against us and lead us not into temptation but deliver us from evil. However, I have that memorized. But my husband knows that my faith and church participation is important. We respect each others faith.
If Muhammad (saws) said this then it is true...one day the medical world will discover this just like all the other discoveries they are made in the last 50 or so years proven in the Quran and Sunnah.over 1400 years ago.
not everything that's permitted is recommended in islam and rightly so. like divorce or marrying non-muslims(khitabi). marriage suppose to be a place for two people grow toward Allah not simply to fulfill their sexual desire.
My boyfriend is muslim. Even before i had met him i was always interested in the religion of islam, and middle eastern culture and have even put it upon myself to educate myself further since we started dating. I have personally even thought about conversion. And have had multiple conversations with my mom about it to make sure she’d stand behind me 100% ( thankfully she does). And i hope to one day convert and inshaAllah get to marry him one day. ❣️
5 лет назад+1
That's good for you. Some interfaith couple ends up with chidlren becoming non-muslim or just full-on atheist. This is the main reason why scholars of Islam are against interfaith marriage.
Omg yeah :") i love her so much and we both cried at the last day because her parents wont allow for us to be together...but i think there must be something better for me in the future and till today i still wish her the best of life and we become friends :")
+Zaynab Farhan Quran clearly prohibits marrying non muslim for women if you think you can be a muslim while going against Quran then you are a fool satan has decieved you. But still there is hope for you. you can still repent and leave that mushrik and do Tauba and recite Sahadah again then you will be muslim again but living with an unbeliever knowing Allah prohibited it in Quran then you aren't a muslim also think that your children will never be good because firstly they will have blood of a mushrik secondly they will mostly probably follow their father religion even if a miracle happens and you bring them up as muslims and not letting them pray to idols even then they will get influenced by hindu pagan rituals.. even if you bring them up as 100% pure muslims even then you yourself will not be counted as a muslim because you know Allah forbid you to be in relationship with non muslim but you still continue to be with him. this clearly means Allah and Quran are less important to you than that non muslim... most important point is that a marriage between a muslim woman and a non muslim man isn't recognised by islam.. thus it isn't a marriage according to islam and islam declares it to be adultery/fornication thus the children you have with him will be illegitimate according to shariah.. that is why you see the so called muslim women who married non muslims all their children were bad character and corrupted because they were illegitimate in the first place ..
Restating a previous statement: if you call praying for someone's guidance of "lower value," then your statement makes sense. If you call helping others and staying in good character regardless of religion as "lower value", then your statement makes sense. But as defined in our world, such attributes are considered of high value, as we Muslims consider others to be equal to us, thus we want them to indulge in the same blessings that we have achieved and received.
In England and the United States, feminist agitation in the late nineteenth century called attention to the young age of consent and called for changes in the law. By the 1920s the age of consent, a state issue in the United States, was raised in every state and ranged from fourteen to sixteen.
I watched this video and I am so heartbroken......I am deeply in love with a muslim and I am a Christian by birth,I have muslim friends I have no issue with them,and I am willing to convert to being a Muslim,I am learning and I am ready to change to being one does it mean even if I convert I xant still marry him cos I am fasting now for the Ramadan @islam
Esther Bella There is no problem a Muslim woman marrying a Muslim man. It doesn’t matter if you have converted from another religion or not. But if you are converting from another religion I hope you are converting because you have faith in Allah SWT and his Messennger Muhammad (Sallallahu Alaihiwasalam) and not just because you want to marry a Muslim.
at first it was because of love but when I started getting to know the religion I fell in love with it and I like the teaching though I'm still trying to learn so many things......any idea on how to learn faster and better
@@estherbella9535 sister you can marry if you convert and accept Islam by heart and learn its practices. But the Islam marriage nikah between a couple is automatically broken and there is an automatic divorce if anyone of them leaves Islam. So if after marriage you no longer believe in Islam then your marriage will be gone.. Islam is best religion because it has given greatest spiritual legacy of Sufism to the world and produced hundreds of thousands of great Sufi saints from Africa to China and Russia to India. I suggest you to read life stories, teachings and books of sufis to know real Islam.. For a start just listen to this short audio book of great 12th century Islamic scholar and Sufi imam Ghazali RA .PLEASE WATCH THIS TO KNOW REAL ISLAM ruclips.net/video/ySrze8mRJw8/видео.html
Wow! This video did answer some of my questions and knowledge. Since Yusuf Estes didn't have time to answer the question properly in such a short period of time, I guess his answer was prudent enough. :)
Very true , a believer is only allowed to marry a beliiever , husband and wife are supposed to be helping one another , in this life, to abide by the lord,s rules , lord have permitted men only to marry a woman who is a follower of the one of the other prophets ( ahl al ktab ) why men and not women?? Because the woman is the main pillar of any home , she is the one whichraises the children , spends more time with them and implants moral and heritage in children , she is the one who really runs the home , so if this woman folowing any path the whole home will be affected and will follow the same path , the same ideas , children especially will be affected deeply in whatever they are taught in their childhood ,having said that then how come men are allowed to marry other than a follower of prophet Muhammad ( p.b.u all massengrs and prophets ) , there are conditions , there should be an understanding that the wife can keep her beliefs as long as it does not oppose any teching of Quran , any problems come up between husband and wife Quran teachings is the judge , with these conditions prophet Mohammed ( pub) pointed out the importance of a man marrying the woman with the strongest faith he could find .
@@teabagking1521 its choice to marry maximum 4 wives but but its not pressuries its your free will if you r interested to marry, 2 wives or more but you have to fair them all, so its allowed
I have seen it a few times where some of these non-muslim women would dis-honestly revert to Al-Islam for the sake of their husbands and then when there is a divorce or the Muslim husband passed, the wife will go back to her old life and ways. Of course, not all of them are like that but some of them are.
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I am a Christian woman and I understood clearly what he said and I support his words. A Muslim man can marry a Christian if that woman really follows her faith. Christians are supposed to be conservative, respect God Laws and base her live by them. If you are a true Christian lady you should not show your body using disrespectul clothes in front of others, you should not have sex if you are not married, you must have a respectful attitude, you must pray, read your Bible, respect your husband and house, etc. A REAL Christian woman is as virtous as a Muslim woman.
ojosverdesPR hmmm.. that,s really gud..
+ojosverdesPR its true but also not entirely true...
a muslim can marry a believer of the old testament (the real Bible that us muslims believed to be from God which teaches there is One God, who is not the father of anything, not the son of anything).
Muslims believed that the Bible is forged/changed by man, after the Jesus was crucified (not dead, but brought up to God in the Heaven until come forth the day of Judgement) and so with that in mind, we believed that Christianity is not the same parallel religion that once was during the years when Prophet Muhammad lived (in his life time, there was a few old people who still believed in the old testament, before Bible was forged/changed)
so to clarify the misunderstanding, a muslim cannot marry a christian unless the religion is of the old testament (before Bible is changed)...thus its impossible to find one in this modern days..
NO DISRESPECT to you, fine Christian lady...I'm just giving the facts about what Muslims believed and supposed to believe
+Xant Falklin can he marry a goat?
+Xant Falklin I'm not a part of any religion, but I do belive in God, still many say I'm a non-believer - howcome, who are you to judge me (no matter of your religion) - if I personally believe it's better for me and my soul to not to have sexual relationship with my partner (even though I want to and I had in past), how can you or they judge me for my past? Aren't Muhhamed and Allah the only ones who can judge me on that? And didn't Allah say muslim women should not dress so they could sexually seduce men (which is modest and NOT jihab, niqab and burqa)? Everyone sins, even muslims (especially men, believe me, I KNOW MANY of them who did/do), so why couldn't the muslim women who were "brought back" to faith and did or did not put on their jihabs be considered a true believers? Allah says that a non-believer should have 3 days to reconsile their faith - WHY DO MUSLIM MEN FAIL TO FOLLOW ALLAH'S WORDS?!? Shame on them - ALL of them who don't!!!
+MsLoverPower i dont understand how your question related to my previous comment...and i don't quite understand what you are trying to convey here...but i try to match my answers to your question.
in general, no one can judge other person's appearance or action except God...so it is between you and Him...with that said, in Islam, we have the Quran and the Hadith (a collection of traditions containing sayings of the prophet Muhammad that, with accounts of his daily practice (the Sunna), constitute the major source of guidance for Muslims apart from the Quran) which are guidelines of what God's command...
in the Quran, God said women who are the believers must cover their bodies to avoid fitna (temptation, trial; sedition, civil strife") is an Arabic word with extensive connotations of trial, affliction, or distress. A word freighted with important historical implications.) and to men who are the believers, they should lower their gaze to also avoid fitna when uncovered women walks among them. so this applies both side...women must cover their bodies appropriately and men must lower their gaze.
the women who were brought back to faith (men as well) are like babies being born...(they are once again free of sins like a white cloth with no stains, or an innocent child who has no bearing of sins...)
but what I mentioned in my previous comment is that Christians who follows the New testaments are not muslims. since the new testament isnt the same as Quran or the old old testament. The major content that differs from Quran is Jesus being the son of God and in Quran, the third last Surah (Al-Ikhlas) said that God is One, He has no children nor is he the son of God. And there is none like Him.
so with that in mind, in this situation it isnt us who is to judge, since its the word of God.
You also mention that the non-believer has 3 days to reconcile their faith...i'm not an Islamic scholar so I have no saying in this...
in conclusion, women arent forced to wear hijab but are told to cover their bodies as do men were told to lower their gaze when a revealing women are in their midst. ..
It's also important to mention that no one (and I'm saying this as a Muslim) should convert to any religion, just because they want to please their spouse and that's it. Religion and Islam is about what your heart, if it's not in your heart it's not true.
Exactly friend.... As a TRUE Christian I agree!!
But Muslim Cannot Marry Non-Muslim.
@@mohamedmorales05
I Want To Write Cannot But I Forget To Write Not.
I thought my wife would become Muslim when we married and, after 20 years, she still has no interest in Islam. This brother is 100% correct. Everything he says is *exactly* what happened to me. Heed his advice.
Got it bro. Thanks
@@samuelvimes7686 I was reading Quran before this comment, and what I found let me paste here.
Allah SWT said:
قُلْ يٰٓأَيُّهَا النَّاسُ قَدْ جَآءَكُمُ الْحَقُّ مِنْ رَّبِّكُمْ ۖ فَمَنِ اهْتَدٰى فَإِنَّمَا يَهْتَدِى لِنَفْسِهِۦ ۖ وَمَنْ ضَلَّ فَإِنَّمَا يَضِلُّ عَلَيْهَا ۖ وَمَآ أَنَا۠ عَلَيْكُمْ بِوَكِيلٍ
"Say, O mankind, the truth has come to you from your Lord, so whoever is guided is only guided for [the benefit of] his soul, and whoever goes astray only goes astray [in violation] against it. And I am not over you a manager."
(QS. Yunus 10: Verse 108)
@@samuelvimes7686 "Your Allah is one Allah. As to those who believe not in the Hereafter, their hearts refuse to know, and they are arrogant." (Surah An-Nahl, 22)
@@samuelvimes7686 Best of luck to you. I can only assume you were watching this video for some reason. May Allah give you guidance.
She's a smart lady.
I like Sheikh Yusuf Estes’s humor , He is one of those sheikhs who is really close to you as a friend when they talking to you. My respects.
i like his accent...
Yes, mohammed married his adopted son wife Zaynab bint jahsh
@@georgesomi8542 Astaghfirullah! Please don't say anything bad about Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) because he didn't do it and it's wrong. See below and read from Wikipedia Source: Zaynab bint Jahsh was a first cousin and wife of Muhammad and therefore a Mother of the Believers. Wikipedia
Died: 641 AD, Medina, Saudi Arabia
Parents: Umama bint Abdulmuttalib, Jahsh ibn Riyab
In our country when someone is talking without authentic information (with wrong information) then they just laughe and say that he/she is thinking in his/her stomach instead of brain.
@@SparklingInformation ride with the mob
Alhamdullah
Check with the braws
@mr thompson m yeah?? I are you sure?? And who are you?? Are you scholar yourself or do you have any knowledge about any religion? For me you sounds like hipocrat who don't know what he talking about...
I recently married a Muslim and i was converted before the wedding and i am still learning about Islam its a little challenging but I am enjoying it
Once you get in there is no getting out. I hope you know that.
@@AF-yq9es why are you here if you don't like islam , go watch something you like , i still don't understand why i always haters of islam coming to muslim videos
@@AF-yq9es may Allah swt guide u
You reverted not converted
Blossom Robin. You "WAS"converted ....hmmm so you didn't do revert/ convert from yourself
I married a Muslim and converted to Islam. That was some 37 years ago. I don't remember which came first. Al hamdu lillah.
Good to know, May Allah bless you.
Ramadan Mubarak
God bless you and your family always !
@Visto che Stop spreading falsehood, you feel threatened by Islam lol, the one true faith, fastest growing religion
@Visto che stop telling us what you know about Islam and start asking us, some of you Christians act like it's forbidden to read Quran and ask questions.
Beautiful lecture and very informative sheikh. He tells the truth and is not afraid of any consequences that he might face from the audiences. Allah protects him, Insha Allah.
Ameen
@@Adam-vd7op no
Ameen Summa Ameen
A "Muslim" woman. She may have Muslim parents, or come from a Muslim background. But it is her actions that decide whether or not she is a Muslim. If you're a vegetarian who has a steak once a week. Then are you really a vegetarian? or just someone who rarely eats meat? Food for thought. Peace
mabdewn but what if her actions are those of a Muslim however she does not like to label herself as a Muslim?
Islam is not a piece of clothes that one can put on and take off. Islam is a rigorious system of belief, it's a rigorious faith and religion. Now one either adheres to Islam or not. At least one needs to be comitted to the 5 pillars and have firm belied in God, his sent down messages and books, his messengers, angels, the day of Judgement and God's will in everything (Destiny) to be a muslim.
Dumb response
I was married to a covered woman that Saratoga our marriage like the sheik said but my kids are strong in the din alhamdulillah!
And how do u know a muslim man is Muslim chaste? Most muslim especially men go to foreign countries to f%%k whi girls. They luust over them so tell me are they muslims or mushriks.
Converted to Islam to marry my husband 12 years mashallah 3 kids and I'm so happy mashallah
*EDITS* * IM GETTING SO MUCH STRESS OVER MY COMMENT I DIDNT JUST CONVERT FOR MY HUSBAND I SPENT 12 MONTHS READING AND UNDERSTANDING ISLAM IF YOUR REPLY TO MY COMMENT IS NEGATIVE CALLING ME A TERRORIST ID RATHER NOT KNOW THANKS KEEP YOUR NASTY THOUGHTS TO YOUR SELF ITS DAM RIGHT NASTY*
Because your Husband is not an Orthodox person
@hotkulboi77 👎🏽👎🏽👎🏽
I would not change my faith for a man.
@@antonia98732 : nobody expect you to do that it's all choice & understanding..dear
Looser
Yusuf estes after hearing ur preaching I cancelled my interest of marrying a Christian lady following ur convinced reasons.I am saved from future calamity. masha Allah. from Nigeria.
I know some non Muslim people better couples then Muslims and I know some boyfriends and girlfriends more soulmates than any religious marriage being married to someone because they're the same religion doesn't make them your soulmate not everybody is fit to be married not even Muslims and not every Muslim who is married to a Muslim is with their soulmate life is way deeper than the religious Dogma
@@seanfitzpatrick4730 you are not muslim so you will not understand this
Yusuf Estes was born to be a Muslim! Marshallah
It is Mashallah ;) Brother
I have met him
Ershad Syed an inspiration to so many muslims???!!! The muslim world has much better much knowledgeable people elhamdulillah estes accepted islam but i defenetly dislike his ways of always joking n making bad jokes for the audience
Elhamdulillah for scholars islam was thaught by knowledge and wisdom
A one joke is ok but constant jokes has no place in islam
His speech has the reminescence of his past as a christian priest beacause he was a priest before turning muslim i just wish he would detach himself from such ways n be more like islamic scholars
Priest and evangelists are good sales man but that is not the way our deen works
All is based on delivering knowledge with proofs to whom ever is listening
Maybe it is just me but i dislike his ways especialy when he dresses like a scholar with a ghitra on top of his head
There is really no need for all the jokes
We get it he is from texas he is funny etc but really enough please
Our deen is serious its not a circus or a showto make people laugh
As for estes saying there is no islamic states or countries
Where does he get that info from n based on what ?
The prophet sws said where ever the adhan is proclaimed that is the land of islam meaning you walk around and you can hear the adhan from different direction and masjid
So saudi arabia yemen irak jordan libya egypt soudan algeria tunisia morrocco maurotznia lebanon syria pakistan afghanistan tadjikistan uzbekhistan
Etc etc are all kaffer countries ?????!!!!!!
There is no in between
But again these convert become muslimsàd try to teach what is a muslim country
Go ask scholars n i meanby that those who speak by what allah says his prophet sws says and his companions understood
Ask them what is a muslim country what makes a country muslim
Anyway its a long topic
I also didnt mike him saying virgin in australia ??! With sarcasm there is women who are not muslims n are still virgin around the entire world
Andeven if it was true that is not a way to talk about them we are muslim we want to bring people into the deen
How would you feel if you were australian hearing estestalk the wayhe does with moquery or joking and make the audience laugh as well asif to sayyeah they all have illicite sex outside of mariage
And joke about the beach in australia
No brother people of knowledge dont talk this way period there level is above this
So do not say he is an inspiration to muslims maybe to you or to the ones who never sat with scholarsand attended a lecture
Wassalaamu aleikom have a good month of ramadhan full of blessing n mercy of allah upon you n your family
Did he used to be christian already
Brother, Everyone Born as a Muslim 😊
May Allah keep Sheikh Yusaf Estes strong and healthy
To be a perfect muslim/muslimah we can follow 12 steps:
1. Ilm.(Islamic knowledge)
2.Strive against nafs.(Self-evil)
3. Giving Islamic dawah.
4.Sabr.(Patience)
5.Good character.(by reading Seerah)
6.Avoiding laziness.
7.Praying Tahajjud.
8.Concentration in Salah.(By Understanding Quran)
9.Secret Charity.
10.Frequent rememberence of Death.
11.Finding good friends.
12.Increasing love for Allah by remembering His blessings,thanking him by Dua,repenting to Him for our sins.
Assalamu Alaikum Rasulullah
Assalamu Alaikum everyone
Always send salawat for prophet Muhammad PBUH 💎
May Allah make us among those who follows all these steps properly(Ameen)🤲 May Allah grant all of us Jannah and companionship of prophet Muhammad PBUH (Ameen)🤲
All the respect to you Mr Yusuf Estes , your way of teaching today society is uniquely suited! I am a non Muslim woman , but what you said is true , and the way you described today's young woman is exactly right ! Unfortunately.. it is sad but I doubt it it be any better in the future ! I thank you and all my respect for you to mention in your teachings that not all woman is like that , but hard to find these days . It is true .. I Concorde my self one of those Woman , but I still have plenty to learn and grow spiritually .. Today's world is ruled by satan , and twisting and ruining millions of young minds every day !
Wish you blessings for your teachings , I will look for more Thank you
Assalam alaikom
I am a Muslim man and I hope to marry a Muslim woman 🌼💖💖🌼🌼
yes what you said,
How are you
May ALLAH lead you sister
Eva Tanko I’m married to a Muslim man and I’m Christian , love conquers all especially of you both love God.
We have our beautiful Muslim Women, I'm going to marry a Muslim queen Insha Allah.
You Muslim
Your name sounds like Spanish name
You are not Arabic right
nella nella he is spanish
@@shaidhosain4161 how you know
You sound like a young man....you have a lot to learn my friend.
Sheikh Yusuf Estes is almost touching 100.
@@MastersInPhd bro I am from Nepal whole community and society here is. a Hindu ( superstition religion) but I reverted to Islam 6 months ago but bro they all have bad opinion and perspectives of Islam like terrorism and harmful religion so Its being hard for me to do any Islamic stuffs and Salah in my home bro because everyone here is Hindu and how to do anything Islamic bro they will kick me out of home
I can't tell them because they don't value my words because in their mind Islam is just a harmful religion
can anyone help me in this situation
though I am grateful for Allah opening my heart and choosing me here in this superstition country but in return I can't give even proper prayer and gratitude for him because of my environment
@@MastersInPhd what does that mean bro how can I meet up with them when I am in Nepal and I don't have my own money
@@MastersInPhdyou replied 9 years later haha. Back in the day u couldn’t comment under posts u just had to leave comments to reply
... and here in Australia *eheheh *takes a sip of his water/tea* 😂
😂😂😂😂😭😭😭
That was a sip from the beach 🏖 ocean 🌊.
😂😂
Then LEAVE THE COUNTRY !!
Fr😂😂😂🙏🏾
ok.thanx alot. well my bf already told me but wanted to know from sum1 else. wel i will be turning muslim in a few years from now
I saw this comment today after 4 years I hope God guided you to truth way
Cast P i was surprised when my christian wife asked me me that she wanna be a muslim, as I told her she doesn’t have to change her religion for me, faith and God is bigger than any relationship. She studied and read a lot about Islam and it was her decision, even my mother called her online from Egypt before we get married and my mom told her, do not change your religion because of my son, it doesn’t work like that, that was sweet from my mom, as she took english course to know how to communicate with my wife. Honestly, the fact that my mother put efforts to deliver this information to my future wife was really amazing and I appreciate my mother for bringing this up, as she knows that she needs to clear this up with the girl who will be her son’s wife
Cast P did you revert ?
Alhamdullila
Nem bo God bless your family.
As a Christian woman, I say he's correct. WHY would a Muslim man even think of marrying a non Muslim? ? Even of the old book. Stick to your beliefs, and women. Plus, WHY would a true Christian woman especially, or a woman from another faith/belief system/atheist. ...etc even entertain marrying a Muslim man? ??? Attraction, love? ? Well, don't start entertaining them, therefore you can not go any further . Really. ..people should stick to their own faiths in looking for marriage.
I reverted, divorced and stayed Muslimah Alhamdulillah.
May Allah bless you sister. It's very rare to see muslim woman like you these days, you are an inspiration to all of us muslim women
@@roxanne2749 What inspiration?
@@ebuqble33 Do you think it could have been easier for her to do that? She reverted to Islam got married and cuz of some reason she got divorced, do u think its easy as a revert ?
You give islam a good name and image, all the best
a Danish Christian
this is beautiful man I hope u stay this open-minded May Allah have mercy on you :)
KuriousKoopa Troopa thank you my friend, stay safe
The way I see it, if islam is the true religion, u gonna get some serious sin count son. At least show a bit of respect :(
Wow.... That's heavy man :( u know, not all muslims r as bad as u think. Anyway no hate I still respect u cuz God bless :)
Cheers man, we need more ppl like u that think critically I think. :D
This may happen whoever this is a traditional thing and nothing to do with ISLAM...Islam is perfect my friend and you will never find faults in it.
my wife converted to Islam on our weeding day during our weeding right before we got married at mosque, & im not the best muslim but im trying and wanna set a better example for my wife we been married for 2 months now, and we just started our fast today this is her first time fasting Insallah its a succesful Ramadan for the both of us and for many more years to come Insallah make dua for me and my recently converted wife.
Watch this
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I will suggest you to read, listen and watch stories of Auliya/sufis along with your wife and if you can read books written by sufis like Masnavi by Molana Rumi and Ahay Ul Uloom by imam Ghazali
how did it go ?
I'm a muslim happily married to a christian woman, she loves and respects my religion and we have long discussions and stories about it. So far I'm trying to let her understand what are the details too. and we have a very nice and understanding life alhamdulillah. Anyway to the brother of singapore, you need to ask about the islamic marriage, we got married in an islamic courthouse! Peace.
Yeah no problem you marry a christian as long he dont take out you from islam
@@user-hw6cg9ji5x so true.
Honestly you are living in adultery. If you were a faithful muslim you wouldn't have married a christian women.
shame. this is why so many muslim women marrying non muslim men and this is how religion morality die
@@user-hw6cg9ji5x I completely agree with this. Like there’s nothing really special about these Christian and Jewish women. Also the rule about marrying a Christian or Jewish women, are those who are close to the OLD books (The ones that were not altered by mankind,/the ones that were actually sent down by Allah). so this doesn’t apply to modern times. Which means that technically if you think about it no one can actually marry a Christian or Jewish woman in today’s day and age. They don't follow the actual book. and I completely agree, I would never ever be able to marry someone who doesn't believe in Allah and the last prophet. Let’s be real here, the only reason why they marry this woman is because they’re “pretty” and have “good values.” I’m putting these two under quotation marks because these are very superficial and there are so many Muslim women who also have these traits. Also, so many Muslim women are literally waiting (me included) for our Muslim men so that we can get married, while our Muslim men are just leaving for these women who aren't even Muslim. And it's really for these superficial reasons. It's very sad. May Allah guide us all and help us all.
Allah bless you dear sheikh Yusuf Estes
Im a devout Catholic with a muslim man...I respect his religion very much as he does with mine.. We're engaged and Im learning every day about the muslim way... We do love eachother so much... I only pray that God will strengthen our bond through faith.. 🙏
are you still together ?
Its not marraige but adultery. He
@@davidmalin9049 oh shut up
I clearly understand what he said. Im muslim, im asian and muslim is beautiful
I'm not a Muslim, but I think it makes perfect sense not to marry someone outside of your beliefs.
lucas JJ my wife is asian and Christian when we married but God guided her to Islam after she read and studied it and decided, as i told her I cannot force you to be Muslim, God has plans and opportunities for each one of us
Salam alaykom I want to marry a Muslim woman, 00212602917255
Yes im a new islam muslim is beautiful
If you thought i was the old guy in the video then you surely have no respect on how to speak to elders...this tells me a lot about you. Seems I am dealing with kids here.
The old man who says you can’t marry non Muslims is wrong. It says you can marry women of the book ( injeel)
@@taniac4063 well you're the one who is actually wtong thats why muslims need to seek the imam because they hold more knowledge than us. That's why we need to kearn from teacher and not just learn something without the full explanation
@@taniac4063 yeah but they have to be religious and virgins
@@taniac4063 which injeel?
@@andone3968 it doesn’t say that in Quran. Many Muslims don’t seem to know anything about their religion.
Oh Green! May Allah bless you and have mercy on you. You are really a good man and a good preacher as well.
Masha'Allah Yousuf Estes is full of wisdom!
Yusuf Estes is a man of humour interesting personality. I like him very much.
the sheikh is 110% correct i bear witness
Sami Malik he is wrong actually. Check your Quran. Surah 5, ayat 5.
@@Kittypaws90 Yeah, he is wrong...I just checked and the Quran says Muslims can marry people of the book.
@@zetroachi9853 You're uneducated on your own religion 😂😂 in the Quran it clearly identifies Christians as trinitarians, not monotheist. When Allah addresses ahlul kitaab in the Quran he clearly states to stop worshipping partners with him and that the christians took Jesus as the son of God 😭😭
@@zetroachi9853 @ 0:40 listen carefully, then let it play out as he explains the conditions of marrying christians/jews...let go of your anger family, it's keeping you jahil
Hold on guys let me clear up your thoughts a little bit, you may not agree or agree.
Christians are monotheists, being triniarians or not, they still are monotheists.
Also.. Real Christians believe that Jesus Christ is the son of god. Nothing more, nothing less.
Real Christians believe in god, the son of god and the holy spirit. That still talks about 1 god. (Also there are non-trinitarians, such as mormons; still christians).
You may agree or not agree. Have a good day.
Muslim women are worth the marriage before anyone else, there is nobody like her I knew a lot of pretty girls from different religions, but I tell you that a muslim woman is a fine dime mentally/spiritually and that is very important in marriage.
moexus Agreed.
I met two religionist woman in my life one from Pakistan and one my own kind I wanted to marry them even tho I knew them very well they married someone else behind my back, there honest someone but not too honest one said she promised someone else to marry him and so she didn’t want to commit a sin,to broke the promise I m a Muslim and now I really really don’t like or love halal pure marriage for me at all rather I m being tested or not my heart doesn’t naturally wanted halal when I seek halal. Marrying non Muslims is the right decision for me rather it’s a problem that comes with it or not I really don’t care it’s too painful for me when I seek halal marriages this is the 3rd proposal that I wanted and now I truly turned away all my friends all have halal marriages and happy and that’s there personal happiness but for me every time I hear halal marriages it’s too painful for me
It sounds like he took Shahadah with the intention of marrying a Muslim women and not to accept Islam....Allah Knows Best. You need to take this matter to your local Imam or Sheikh.
Words which worth more than diamond & gold. So so true. Allah bless you brother 🙏
my husband is Muslim, he's very religious, and I'm basically atheist. He's never had an issue with me, and I've never had an issue with him being Muslim. I actually love that he's Muslim, he is a great honest man, and I think being religious has helped be that way. I on the other hand am obviously not religious, but I'm a very modest respectful person. Religion is never an issue between us, it's always cultural clashes we have. It's all about love, even if religion is an important factor, with respect and love, a successful marriage can be obtained
Marylen Kahlo he's religious and married with atheist is this a joke ?
omarmustafa khalil96 it's not a joke. He isn't extremely dedicated but he tries doing all his prayers everyday, he goes to the mosque every Friday, he does what mostly everyone does. He encourages me to be religious, but it's not an issue between us
Marylen Kahlo. do you think islam only about going to mosque and doing a prayers ? all these don't make him a religious islam is a way of life i think your husband doesn't konw any think about his religion he's completely ignorant
omarmustafa khalil96 He's a good person, honest, caring about others, and helpful. Isn't that the message of his religion? It is part of his life, it's always been, he's dedicated and has very strong faith. Maybe you don't agree, but to me that comes off as religious, I don't know how you categorize it
Marylen Kahlo can i ask you question ? were you atheist before he married you or you became atheist after you married him ?
I am Christian and my husband is Muslim. I encourage him to pray, and he encourages me to pray. We always discuss the Bible and the Qur'an. God blessed Ishmael as well as Isaac. I share Jesus and his love to my husband and he listens and never tries to shut me up about Jesus my saviour. We both put God first in our marriage and home.
Marla Wright Can I talk to you via whatsapp?
Jesus PBUH is a Prophet you commit balsmphemy against Jesus PBUH and God
@@auliyasufisrealheroesofisl4730
omg shut up, I'm muslim but shut up
@@auliyasufisrealheroesofisl4730
that was really rude, I hope you knew that
Hey Marla, nice to hear that, actually I didn't get this in recommendation or something I searched for this, there's a girl who's Christian I like and she also likes me, I'm a muslim, we really love eachother and want to marry, but she isn't ready to convert to muslim to marry me, well I didn't tell her to neither I I'm going to do that cause I believe in Allah only, not asking for advice or anything just felt like sharing:)
I hope things get easy for us and we marry someday 🤲
This is very important especially for us muslim brothers and sisters living in the west.
The West would love you all to go to Saudi Arabia please. You don't want to be here and we ...........................
Yes, but not very good for their assimilation and integration...
It is a good thing muslims leave their faith in droves when they live in the modern secular and prosperous west, where they get a good education and learn to think critically...
Bassline Rally horrible thinking you have. You are arrogant. Not a true muslim
Why are you living in the west when your values and views belong in a caliphate and you don't want to mix with the native population? You are abusing the tolerance of the west to practice your medieval intolerance.
@Bassline Rally Be careful with your thought, try saying that in North Korea, China, India or certain parts of Russia and see what will happen to you. By your logic, Christians, Jews and people of other faiths also have a right to grow and to stay.
I married a Muslim man. I respect his believes and help in anything I can.. I do not believe but also think it is everyone choice and I or you do not have the right to tell them what to believe. My granddaughter that we raise goes to an Islamic school that I chose because I was taught you can not decided what you believe if you do not know it. So she can make her own choice to be Muslim or what ever she choses to believe and I will honor and respect her choice. I have never did anything you just insinuated. We have been married for 13 years and I have always respected my husband religious beliefs and when he was slipping in his duties to Allah it was me who reminded him that he was Muslim and to honor his believes. Now he sees your video and thinks you are right. That he needs to divorce me because by being married to me makes him a bad Muslim. Tells me he loves me and he knows I have never did anything to stop or change his believes. That he lied to himself and his god and should have never married me. He is trying so hard to be a good Muslim we have been through so much in ourb13 years. I lost my daughter 5 years ago and now he says he needs to divorce me for his god.............. And you are the one preaching this..... To rip apart 2 people who love each other for your god....... Nice
Louanne Bass
I think he is doing it on his own. If you believe in one God and no one else and believe that Jesus is not the son of God but only a prophet and a human born by a mother then you are a true Christian, the one a Muslim is allowed to marry and have a family with.
As God is one and only one. He doesn’t need a family or son to carry on his family or name. He is Almighty. The one and only one. He is the one and is above all the needs of what human beings need to servive. He doesn’t need a son or wife.
If you believe in it you are a true Christian. In bible many people are referred as son , just like with love we call a random kid son but that doesn’t make him our son. In the same way, calling a prophet son, doesn’t make him son of God.
In bible many people are referred as son other than Jesus too. Hopefully it clears a concept. Thanks and prayers for you and your family.
Louanne Bass I am so sorry to hear this, did you divorce in the end? How did you lose your daughter?
@@alphawolf8031 she had a pulmonary embolism shortly after she gave birth. Her daughter was 7 months old. My husband and I have been raising her since we left the hospital. Teaghans father is in her life when he chooses to be. Mostafa my husband watched this video then had me watch then explained that he needed to divorce me to be closer to his god. I ranted for 2 days about this because it hurt me so much that he thought I could just be thrown away like that. I have never did anything but support him in his life so that was a huge shock that came from no were. I talked to his family and our close friends. We have all decided that he is so stressed out that he has lost his mind. He has now apologized he thought this would make me become Muslim. But know he has made more pain in me then he realises. It will take me a very long time to forgive him for thinking of me this way. I told him before we ever married that it would be for life. Through the good and bad and I ment it. But pain takes time to heal. I am so very hurt at what he did. In this video you assumed alot I am nothing like that. I fasted so I would understand how he would feel during this time. I researched to see what I should make him to enjoy Ramadan and the offer eid. I am not Muslim and I am not even sure I believed in god. But I do respect my husband believe that he has a right to believe and I support him in anyway I can that does not make me uncomfortable. I have always been a kind and giving person. I have always believed to be respectful to others as long as they do not hurt anyone. I am not stupid I know a terrorist is someone with wants to hurt others in what ever name they say. Today they say Islamic before Irish and in the Christian it always changes but they are all the same they just wish to cause pain. And some people are to arrogant to lift there heads and think for themselves. They are like ants just doing what the queen wants without a brain. As you can see I use my brain and I am very open an honest person. My daughter wanted Teaghan to learn all religions like she did and I did and make up her own mind. But this also teaches you how other people think and why. I love that saying walk a mile in there shoes because its so tire you can't understand someone unless you have been there.
Anyway thanks for asking and sorry I was so angry. Mubarak Ramadan
@@Tota_Digital_Design Thank you. I am happy you guys didn't divorce in the end. Anyways, a true Muslim man takes care of his wife, tell your husband those words, those things and that God would not forgive a man who is not respectful towards his wife.
I also like the fact that you're open minded and do not easily get brainwashed by the media.
Indeed, you will need time to heal.
Hope you live happily after this painful experience.
Luanne Bass, May Allah give you hidayat! Just remember that if you want to be together in the afterlife, you must revert to Islam before you die because all your help and support will be for nought otherwise!
I'm a Muslimah (woman muslim) from birth, because my family are muslim but after i grew up religion is not because family its our choice and i know the truth by social life & learning in islamic college. Then it makes me more believe in Allah SWT alhamdulillah
Watch ex muslim Spartacus and zafar heretic.... I am ex muslim
My advice for you is to look deep into Islam and the life of the Prophet Muhammad and hopefully you will fall in love with this great religion.
I’m a Christian married to a Muslim man and we have 2 children, we talked about it before we married, we will teach our children both religions, We go with them in the Moschee as we go to church and i have to say it’s pretty amazing cause I know what i stand for, also he knows and together we can talk about all the experiences we are making. We love our blessing, I definitely think if you are open to except a other religion and respect it you are able to work through the differences.
I’m so thankful that my family is healthy and happy. I know our father is proud of us. 🥰
Lisa Lorian interesting 🤔 Allah is God and Jesus is a messenger of Allah
Alekhya Surjer what is evil?
Alekhya Surjer that’s your opinion, god loves us all. It’s not that we betray our religion it’s more we respect our religion. We just love each other, and I love his religion as he loves mine. Betraying is what you do the we are betraying our religion cause you want to harm our feeling and I know in the Koran and in the bible, you must never want to harm a person never a person who believes. For you to write something like that I know you feel bad about yourself, but I wish you only the best and may allah give you strength throughout your weakness.
Bless you
@@user-hw6cg9ji5x thats exactly what the Shaikh told in his video. They will mess up with his faith. He finds it normal to take his children to the church, no it is not. When you believe in Him, you can't accept that for your children.
Why the hell would this comment gets to many negative votes??? this is someone that actually asked for answer, he didn't meant to be rude, and deserves an answer, and he got it, Allahu akhbar...
In Malaysia there's no interfaith marriage... Alhamdulillah...
Alhamdolillah.
Ukhti, do you know any portal through which I can apply for job in Malaysia? I'm from India.
And here in Australia 🇦🇺😂😂😂. May Allah almighty have merci 🙏🏻 on us and forgives us amen 🙏🏻
😂😂😂😂😂 What i understood he literally meant no virgins in Australia hahahaha
Aameen
@Visto che it was just afunny line it made me laugh ustad Yusuf is full of sarcasm i liie he's sense of humor i didn't mean to be rude. Forgive me if my laugh upset you we brothers in islam
@Visto che thanks for understanding salaams ✌️
Quran tuqfu
Mashallah ever well said! As a Muslim man i will not marry outside my own religion, its much better to marry within the same faith because less problems and more happiness.
Sadly many Muslim women in the west have married with Christians or Atheists and have been left hanging at the end becoming single mothers. Its just sad and depressing.
Then gtfo out of India and West
@AfghanLion: You and I must be living on different planets. I was born and raised in the West. In the subway and every street corner, all you see is Muslim men with blonde ladies. And in every Muslim household: single, highly educated and practising daughters who are ageing but struggling to find Muslim husbands. Brother, your writing really hurt my heart as a sister. Really, I’m about to pray and am in full wuzu. We have an overflux of celibate, deeply practising, beautiful sisters who aren’t even considered, as Muslim men are busy chasing women who give things away like a grocery shop. These men are also neglecting their mothers, just coming home to eat or fight. May Allah swt make hurtful, blind brothers like you see the truth before it’s too late. I know NOT A SINGLE Muslim woman married to a non-Muslim. Astaghfarullah, I am beginning to resent my own Muslim brothers 😞. Sometimes, they make me sick. I make duaa that Allah swt will compensate their wonderful, dedicated sisters and mothers one day. Perhaps it would’ve been better to not get such sons, than to give birth to them. They are RUINING their souls, playing with their Deen for the ”pleasures” of this world. Ya Allah, save the Ummah from weak men who can’t even follow Your noble rules! They’ve ruined the reputation of Islam!
I hope you will find yr halal. I am from a Muslim country and most men here prefer to marry non Muslim women for personal reasons let u guess. It's very depressive may Allah guide us
@@Khwaab Lol you are totally lying I am in west to go and google 45 percent Muslim woman in USA married Christian man😁😁😂😂
@@dynamicgamersv2085 Where you dummy ????
MashaAllah tabarakallah... May Allah keep you safe sheikh estes. I started watching your videos when you were younger MashaAllah. JazakAllahukhayran
Alhamdulillah brother sheikh Yusuf, Allah give you longer live and grant you the strength all the the way, sound mind and good health to carry on enlightening the Muslim ummat of our religion (Islam). Blessed you are and blessed you live here and the hereafter. Ameen.
God bless you sheikh Yusuf Estes 👍🏻
Excellent in one word. Mashallah!!! 😍
Alhaumdurillah!thanks to brother yusuf he is telling the truth.May ALLAH THE ALMIGHTY bless this brother..Ameen....
As long as one believes that there is no one worthy of worship except ALLAH and the MUHAMMAD is the messenger of ALLAH then they are Muslim. It sounds like she is a Muslim so in that case a Muslim man may marry her inshallah. This area will need more clarification so it's best to visit your local Masjid and speak to an Imam or Sheikh about this issue.
Masha Allah❤
Salma Abozied how are you friend
Uzair Joiya akhi shes probably already married lol
Muneeb Rafiq loool 🤣
My roommates mother is doing this to a man right now out in Egypt. He’s not a perfect Muslim none of us are but him agreeing to be with this woman is terrible for him and his family. May Allah guide him and free his mind, Alhamdulillah.
I know loads of Muslims in Sydney. But they are not permitted to accept my invitations to share a meal with me. Nor are they permitted to invite me and my wife to share their meal. That's not the way things work in the rest of Australia
I dont know what experiences you had but the prophet pbuh accepted invitations and dined with jews and co existed with them while in medina so we go by what he pbuh did not just anyone.
Hasan Bahadur Until he brought his message to them. And then what happened? Yes, he is your example.
That's not true bro i live here in states i would love to have people of other religions to have meal with. as i usually do
Doug Owen That is sad??? They should invite you and we are all brothers and sisters in humanity. I wish you were in USA I would of invited you!
We Muslim's Have Our Community Muslim's Ummah And You Have You're Community. You Live In You're. We Live In Our Community. In Our Community People Are Believers. Not Idolater's, Atheist, Transgressors.
Damn he have the most beautiful smile i ever see in the world
You're crazy
May Allah guide the Muslim men and their women of our Dunya, آمين يارب العالمين
Also if there is a country that has some things they do according to their culture then it has nothing to do with ISLAM.
جزاكم الله خيرا
Amazing, your man is a lucky one!! Mashallah sister :) For me it's the same, I am with a christian girl and she loves Islam and respects my fasting, praying abstaining from Alcohol etc. All the best
Many people that claim to be Christian are without instructions on the way of life unfortunately, that's how come America is so full of confusion and has so many churches , and it's sad because they often times get it from their momma's, who also had no real instructions but claim to be a Christian and then go have a ham and cheese sandwich or pork chops smothered in gravy and some time with the pastor.
I am here to apologize. I finished listening to the video and you clearly said if the woman/man converted it is OK. I let my emotions get to me before finishing the video. It's really hard for us in our society where I live. Our convert wives are being judge for their previous religions and are being treated differently from those born Muslims. I'm so sorry for my harsh words.
2020 MAY BE THE YEAR THE WORLD UNITES! A LOT OF VIDEOS LIKE THIS COMING OUT AND IT'S AWESOME =)
It's 2022 and the world is much Messier than before
great answer =) masha Allah!
This was great! Really enjoy him
Thank you Sheikh Estes for such great talks and lectures. We love you :D
I am a woman, going to revert to Islam. I hope I can find a good Muslim husband and we can raise a family together
Good for you! Now don't delay even if you can't find a good husband, because your own safety from the hellfire is more important.
Where from You dear?
Many blessing on you beautiful Sir Sheik
Ameem. ..
Allah Hu Akbar
❤❤❤❤
Ameen🙏 Hi Sam! Are you a Muslim?
I am married to an orthodox Christian woman. She respect my religion. She even part with me. WE have 2 kids .. she told me raise them as Muslims. Those rules work long time ago. Now we are all mixed .. happy husband
You should follow the rules of religion no matter how ancient they are, because truths are everlasting information.
Also, what he said in this video and condition of virginity is not true, such rules never existed. Marriage with non-muslim women was more frequent in the past, then it is now for various reasons.
@@yusira27 I don't this was true in the past during muslim empires. Because at that time, it was far more frequents for muslims to marry christian women, and their children were muslims, who also contributed to the society.
Not sure about modern day though, since European societies are matriarchal.
Why bother to pretend to follow Islam or call yourself a Muslim if you believe that the laws of Allah and Quran are over dated?...because of honorless lust worshippers like you Muslim ummah is in a mess..pathetic
FYI your beliefs are clear disbelief and enough to nullify your faith and claim of Islam. If you don't know let me tell you there are certain things which if uttered by a Muslim can make him an unbeliever instantly these are called "kalima e kuffar" meaning "words of disbelief " even if they were uttered unintentionally by mistake renewal of faith by reciting shahadah is must.. Those words which go against any command of Quran or authentic hadith are classified as kuffar. So you see even uttering words of disbelief can make one non Muslim but you seem to have a conviction and belief which goes against Quran.. Now imagine what you are.. This happens when you have no knowledge of Deen and create your own version of religion..
i love this man brilliant lecture
simple. A believer must marry a believer also.
Muslim in Indonesia should hear this and think/take it seriously. Only in Indonesia the state law is above the syariah law related marry issue. The damages occured from this mixed religous believe married is unbenefitical, no one denied.
Love the way he talks 😁 Ma shaa Allah
Wi Yam how are you girl
Alhamdulillah 😊
Wi Yam where are you
Wi Yam What kind of friend are you from and what country you belong to
Im muslim Philippines Alhamdulillah living in mindanao
Love your sense of humour amidst the serious topic.
I love you Yusuf Estes for your Imaan.May Allah bless you
Great talk sir..I am strictly against these intercaste marriages myself...and I agree to every word of yours
May Allah(swt) bless you always and keep you healthy...Aameen
Intercaste Marriages Is Allowed In Islam. He Is Talking About Interfaith Marriages.
There's nothing like cast in Islam
Islam came to abolish all these castes and races
Any muslim no matter which caste/creed/race he belongs to he can marry another muslim
Interfaith Marriage Is Forbidden.
Inshaallah one day I shall find a Muslim wife!
Musa Alkhadim I am looking for a woman who will be my friend and I will marry her and live with her forever
@@صقرالصحراء-ب1ب Inshaallah one day you will...
I love sheik estes may allah protect him from the evil eye.
thank you yousaf brother for posting
Importantly happy marriage is called feelings & understanding/compatablity after all this comes religions...there are lots of unhappy Muslims couples just compromising in life bcse of children's involvement..
Some Muslim couples are unhappy frequently because of two reasons. Firstly they were forced to get married and sometimes it turns out to have relationships with other man/woman. Secondly it happens because they have chosen a partner whose thoughts aren't matched perfectly in different situations, maybe because of cultural differences or having different perspectives. So, in Islam it is surely permissible and also very important to make a correct decision with family or close relatives before marrying. Hope you get my point brother :)
What the hell are you saying? There are few unhappy Muslim couples and lots and lots of happy Muslim couples.. In Europe there are wannabe Europeans like you who leave their values and culture and follow other cultures and values in the name of "feelings and understanding " and then end up in failed marriages.. I agree even in Muslim society there are unhappy couples but I can guarantee you that islam even tells them how to make their unhappy relationship work and not end up being single parents because of their egos..
This is similar to the case that even if you follow all traffic rules with utmost care the chances of an accident can't still be ruled out and only a fool will say accident happen anyway why follow traffic rules..
@@AfghanHearts, are they? How do you know they are happy? Just because they are together?
The most important thing in a marriage is love, honesty, being understanding and respecting each other. It doesn’t matter if you are from different backgrounds and religions, if you respect each other and each other’s beliefs that’s what matters. There are tons of unhappy Muslim couples, they have the same religion, but they want different things, as well as other couples who aren’t Muslim. All you need, again, is love, compatibility, respect and honesty.
Zabihullah Zargar lolzzz nice data...what is happy marriage got to do with region? happiness got nothing to do with religion
I am a Christian and did marry a Muslim. I told him at the beginning no sex before marriage, end of story. He said well then we must marry. Also I am not perfect at my faith but I do read the the scriptures. The lord prayer or as I call it "the our father prayer, is our father who art in heaven hollowed be thy name the kingdom come thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven, give us this say our daily bread and forgive us our debts as we have forgiven those who have sinned against us and lead us not into temptation but deliver us from evil. However, I have that memorized. But my husband knows that my faith and church participation is important. We respect each others faith.
Day not say
Exactly what I was told.
Was he also Egyptian by any chance?
Wow
If Muhammad (saws) said this then it is true...one day the medical world will discover this just like all the other discoveries they are made in the last 50 or so years proven in the Quran and Sunnah.over 1400 years ago.
One Islam Productions love has no religion. Stop washing brains . Only God has the right to judge,and u r not God
I happily married to a Muslim girl. A Muslim girl is a Muslim girl there's no match out there! Lol Always prefer a believing woman ;)
Uzeyr Hassan me too, i am a Hindu married a Muslim girl and converted her to Hinduism and its the same with my brother
R u a Muslim?
nvn dnt if she left Islam to worship multiple gods such as elephants we don't care.
Uzeyr Hassan => Doe she take it up the ass tho ?
Greater Somali => Is that why your mom loves it ?
may allah bless all of us
not everything that's permitted is recommended in islam and rightly so. like divorce or marrying non-muslims(khitabi). marriage suppose to be a place for two people grow toward Allah not simply to fulfill their sexual desire.
That correct
@Ismail KhanOfficial I know right. I just can't keep it in my pants at times :(
@@user-hw6cg9ji5x Don't tell me what to do :( I'll see you in hellfire brother.
@@user-hw6cg9ji5x I won't see you because you'll be eating the fresh fruit of Zaqoom :)
My boyfriend is muslim. Even before i had met him i was always interested in the religion of islam, and middle eastern culture and have even put it upon myself to educate myself further since we started dating. I have personally even thought about conversion. And have had multiple conversations with my mom about it to make sure she’d stand behind me 100% ( thankfully she does). And i hope to one day convert and inshaAllah get to marry him one day. ❣️
That's good for you. Some interfaith couple ends up with chidlren becoming non-muslim or just full-on atheist. This is the main reason why scholars of Islam are against interfaith marriage.
If you are thinking to revert, do not delay!! Just remember 'For Ever' is a Very very long time to spend in jahanum
Did you became Muslim?
yea my relationship with my girlfriend is dead now
@Jibber's Delight well just seeing someone u love really much go like that hurts alot :(
Still single?
@@DeejahMAY never said it ended to be singel
Omg yeah :") i love her so much and we both cried at the last day because her parents wont allow for us to be together...but i think there must be something better for me in the future and till today i still wish her the best of life and we become friends :")
First of all why do you have a gf. 🤦♂️
This sheikh is awesome
He can convey Allah's message in a way you can understand
May Allah SWT always keep them happy xxx
I am not a Muslim and married a Muslim woman. We live in the west and are very happy together. Freedom is great.
That means she is not Muslim
good for you
Beautiful you are lucky Allah bless you with good Muslim women .
It's a simple, She is not muslim anymore,It's only restricted for muslim
I am a Sikh and my wife is a Muslim we have been married over 9 years.
Bobby Samra She is Not a Muslim
Bobby Samra Bhai u r from India
nice
@@basharatali927 you don't know what's in her heart. Maybe she is a way better Muslim than you can ever be. Smh
+Zaynab Farhan Quran clearly prohibits marrying non muslim for women if you think you can be a muslim while going against Quran then you are a fool satan has decieved you. But still there is hope for you. you can still repent and leave that mushrik and do Tauba and recite Sahadah again then you will be muslim again but living with an unbeliever knowing Allah prohibited it in Quran then you aren't a muslim also think that your children will never be good because firstly they will have blood of a mushrik secondly they will mostly probably follow their father religion even if a miracle happens and you bring them up as muslims and not letting them pray to idols even then they will get influenced by hindu pagan rituals.. even if you bring them up as 100% pure muslims even then you yourself will not be counted as a muslim because you know Allah forbid you to be in relationship with non muslim but you still continue to be with him. this clearly means Allah and Quran are less important to you than that non muslim... most important point is that a marriage between a muslim woman and a non muslim man isn't recognised by islam.. thus it isn't a marriage according to islam and islam declares it to be adultery/fornication thus the children you have with him will be illegitimate according to shariah.. that is why you see the so called muslim women who married non muslims all their children were bad character and corrupted because they were illegitimate in the first place ..
Restating a previous statement: if you call praying for someone's guidance of "lower value," then your statement makes sense. If you call helping others and staying in good character regardless of religion as "lower value", then your statement makes sense. But as defined in our world, such attributes are considered of high value, as we Muslims consider others to be equal to us, thus we want them to indulge in the same blessings that we have achieved and received.
In England and the United States, feminist agitation in the late nineteenth century called attention to the young age of consent and called for changes in the law. By the 1920s the age of consent, a state issue in the United States, was raised in every state and ranged from fourteen to sixteen.
A Muslim woman can not marry a non-Muslim man. This I know for sure. Best to speak to a Muslim scholar
I watched this video and I am so heartbroken......I am deeply in love with a muslim and I am a Christian by birth,I have muslim friends I have no issue with them,and I am willing to convert to being a Muslim,I am learning and I am ready to change to being one does it mean even if I convert I xant still marry him cos I am fasting now for the Ramadan @islam
Esther Bella There is no problem a Muslim woman marrying a Muslim man. It doesn’t matter if you have converted from another religion or not. But if you are converting from another religion I hope you are converting because you have faith in Allah SWT and his Messennger Muhammad (Sallallahu Alaihiwasalam) and not just because you want to marry a Muslim.
at first it was because of love but when I started getting to know the religion I fell in love with it and I like the teaching though I'm still trying to learn so many things......any idea on how to learn faster and better
@No God But Allah thanks alot
@@estherbella9535 sister you can marry if you convert and accept Islam by heart and learn its practices. But the Islam marriage nikah between a couple is automatically broken and there is an automatic divorce if anyone of them leaves Islam. So if after marriage you no longer believe in Islam then your marriage will be gone..
Islam is best religion because it has given greatest spiritual legacy of Sufism to the world and produced hundreds of thousands of great Sufi saints from Africa to China and Russia to India. I suggest you to read life stories, teachings and books of sufis to know real Islam.. For a start just listen to this short audio book of great 12th century Islamic scholar and Sufi imam Ghazali RA .PLEASE WATCH THIS TO KNOW REAL ISLAM
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@@zabihullahzargar3692 thanks you
جزاك الله خير يا شيخ يوسف
Wow! This video did answer some of my questions and knowledge. Since Yusuf Estes didn't have time to answer the question properly in such a short period of time, I guess his answer was prudent enough. :)
Very true , a believer is only allowed to marry a beliiever , husband and wife are supposed to be helping one another , in this life, to abide by the lord,s rules , lord have permitted men only to marry a woman who is a follower of the one of the other prophets ( ahl al ktab ) why men and not women?? Because the woman is the main pillar of any home , she is the one whichraises the children , spends more time with them and implants moral and heritage in children , she is the one who really runs the home , so if this woman folowing any path the whole home will be affected and will follow the same path , the same ideas , children especially will be affected deeply in whatever they are taught in their childhood ,having said that then how come men are allowed to marry other than a follower of prophet Muhammad ( p.b.u all massengrs and prophets ) , there are conditions , there should be an understanding that the wife can keep her beliefs as long as it does not oppose any teching of Quran , any problems come up between husband and wife Quran teachings is the judge , with these conditions prophet Mohammed ( pub) pointed out the importance of a man marrying the woman with the strongest faith he could find .
+ syifa zulkifeli , do you know who's is zulkefel , and why he was called that ,
Ina how are you friend
Ina....enaku sollunga sis pls
....enaku puriyala sollunga pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
i want to married a Muslim men يا رب أمين
ساجدة لل الله Salam Alaikum
I am available..
You mean a Muslim man and 3 wifes
Because you are muslima
@@teabagking1521 its choice to marry maximum 4 wives but but its not pressuries its your free will if you r interested to marry, 2 wives or more but you have to fair them all, so its allowed
Right on point. May Allah keep your heart and feet on the right path dear brother Yusuf Estes 🤲
I have seen it a few times where some of these non-muslim women would dis-honestly revert to Al-Islam for the sake of their husbands and then when there is a divorce or the Muslim husband passed, the wife will go back to her old life and ways. Of course, not all of them are like that but some of them are.