Interfaith Marriage: What Does the Quran Teach? | Dr. Shabir Ally

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  • @QuranSpeaks
    @QuranSpeaks  4 года назад +53

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    • @desertfox432
      @desertfox432 4 года назад

      Love your show.
      -Please comment on the issue of family photos on display, photos/prints/art of animals/people from travel souvenirs, and bells/chimes at home. The ruling is unclear and contradictive, and I do not see the merit in striking doubt/fear in the worshippers of Allah when there is no intention of "shirk". This almost appears to be a preoccupation with superstition.
      -The logic of angels and dogs in the house is clear because of hygiene/Wuduh and "Najasa". In contrast, none of the items mentioned previously have any intention of straying from Tawheed. In our lives today, where can you go without a bell or chime or a photo or print around? I'm conscious that I do not worship the depicted in photos. Also, saying that bells/chimes are the instruments of satan is quite a giant statement.
      Thank you and Jazakum Allahu Kairan

    • @thetruthwithproof8802
      @thetruthwithproof8802 4 года назад

      Allah Warns in the Q..uran ➡️“This day, I have perfected your Religion for you, completed My Favour upon you , and have chosen for you Islam 😊 as your religion” Quran 5 : 3 ➡️ Please Note the Perfected & Complete Religion was without any Biddah ❌( Biddah is all newly invented deeds which the Prophet P. B.U.H Did not mention )

    • @Mellinds
      @Mellinds 4 года назад

      Can an omission be interpreted as something that is forbidden? Is it truly an omission or simply the fact that just like in old history books the word Men (with a capital M) when talking about human kind includes both men and women?

    • @R2026I
      @R2026I 4 года назад

      This is the Question to Dr Shabir We Christian we know why did Bible call Jesus the Messiah and we know what Messiah means
      And why ❓❓❓ did the Quran call Jesus the Messiah give the meaning of Messiah according to the Quran
      And why Messiah title can't be apply to mohammad
      Is Messiah can't be applied to mohammad then Mohammed was the false prophets and Allah was a false God because mohammad believe in Allah

  • @AMMA92244
    @AMMA92244 4 года назад +133

    Dr. Shabir Aly, we need more people like you. The Ummah needs you. Sisters in Islam need you. I am so tired of Saudi-style "scholars" and "mullahs" dictating how Muslims must live based on their narrow minded approach to interpreting Islam. Our religion is not complicated but they make it so. They legitimize human rights abuses and opression. Guess when Prophet Muhammad saws prophesied that leaders will not be knowledgeable, he was right. We need people like Dr. Ally who actually know what they are saying and can back it up with facts.

    • @shahaanbabar2297
      @shahaanbabar2297 4 года назад

      @@kanizfatima1377 women can't marry anyone except a muslim. Men shouldn't do it too, even if they are allowed to do it.

    • @curiouscat5229
      @curiouscat5229 Год назад +1

      Absolutely right.

    • @alyzak.8997
      @alyzak.8997 6 месяцев назад +2

      you mean moderate islam. It really is beautiful

  • @maxtyson9035
    @maxtyson9035 4 года назад +98

    In marriage the treatment of each other is important. Not religion or colour. And the belief in the creator in every religion is important.

    • @pakistantrending3532
      @pakistantrending3532 4 года назад +26

      For muslims everything is religion

    • @5ThBoy
      @5ThBoy 4 года назад +16

      Marriage is a bond between you God and your spouse. Marriage is to please the creator

    • @maxtyson9035
      @maxtyson9035 4 года назад +5

      @@5ThBoy yes god must come. But doesn't include religion.

    • @5ThBoy
      @5ThBoy 4 года назад +4

      @@maxtyson9035 Religion is the way God wants us to behave so what do you mean is God wrong what he wants from his creation we have a choice

    • @MacMac1313
      @MacMac1313 4 года назад +1

      The treatment of each other is important according to the faith and it's principles. So " religion " is important. Unless you are an atheist who has zero beliefs then this doesnt apply to you. But it does apply to Muslims.

  • @andrewduffield3230
    @andrewduffield3230 3 года назад +324

    Interesting. As a Christian , this has been very enlightening and interesting - thanks. He seems very learned and is extremely articulate

    • @QuranSpeaks
      @QuranSpeaks  3 года назад +20

      You're most welcome. Thank you for watching!

    • @giova913
      @giova913 3 года назад +11

      You know that mohammad have cursed all christians and jews? Thats interesting cause these people think that mohammad bring the word of god. 🤔🤔🤔

    • @brismuvela3631
      @brismuvela3631 3 года назад +9

      Christian here, just came across your content.
      Interesting to listen.
      As a Christian, the Bible mentions we shouldn’t hate or judge anyone. I try to be this way. I’m glad he speaks about Christianity and Judaism with such respect

    • @mitchpeter5718
      @mitchpeter5718 3 года назад +3

      @@brismuvela3631 well Muhammad judged Christian and jews!! May be instead of listening to what shabir says, you should do what a real prophet says like the apostle Paul say to go research for your self. You will find that Muhammad was a confuse human being who contradicted himself all the time!! He can’t be a real prophet!! After doing your own reading, come back and tell me about judging and not judging

    • @alhamdulillhforislam458
      @alhamdulillhforislam458 3 года назад +10

      @@giova913 people who lied about prophet Muhammad PBUH while they don’t know anything about prophet Muhammad PBUH are interesting. Our prophet Muhammad PBUH never cursed innocent people and was kind to many Jews and Christians except these who was enemies to Muslims and attacking him and Muslims. But do Christians teach others about peace while your bible says this: “Do not suppose that I have come to bring peace to the earth. I did not come to bring peace, but a sword.(Matthew 10:34)
      Quran says “We have not sent you, [O Muhammad], except as a mercy to the mankind(Quran: 21:107)

  • @AmmonRa-wm5kc
    @AmmonRa-wm5kc 8 месяцев назад +20

    I married a Muslim woman and have no regrets.

    • @coolcat2956
      @coolcat2956 7 месяцев назад +3

      how are you guys doing? what religion are you?

    • @AmmonRa-wm5kc
      @AmmonRa-wm5kc 7 месяцев назад +6

      @@coolcat2956 - I am no religion.

    • @kyliekia8917
      @kyliekia8917 15 дней назад

      @@AmmonRa-wm5kcvery rare to hear that but good God bless both of you

  • @omaronnyoutube
    @omaronnyoutube 3 года назад +12

    MALAY SUBTITLES Part 2 of 4
    04:56
    Jadi rasionalnya di sini jelas adalah
    04:59
    jika anda berkahwin dengan orang di luar kepercayaan,
    05:02
    orang itu boleh menghubungi anda
    05:04
    jauh dari iman,
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    dalam apa jua keadaan boleh mempengaruhi anda
    05:07
    walaupun mereka tidak menghubungi anda secara langsung
    05:09
    jauh dari iman anda dan itu boleh
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    dari sudut agama,
    05:13
    bermaksud anda berakhir di tempat yang salah
    05:16
    dalam kehidupan akhirat,
    05:17
    yang akan menjadi bencana.
    05:18
    Musibah terburuk untuk ini,
    05:22
    penganut Islam yang serius.
    05:25
    - Jadi apa yang dilakukan hamba atau hamba yang percaya
    05:28
    atau apa sahaja yang digunakan di sini dalam ayat ini
    05:30
    apa maksudnya, apa maksudnya?
    05:31
    - Di sini nampaknya ada perbezaan
    05:34
    antara masyarakat Islam
    05:36
    yang disebut sebagai masyarakat yang beriman dan,
    05:39
    dan semua yang lain.
    05:40
    - Baik.
    05:42
    - Jadi, itu tidak bermaksud bahawa tidak ada orang yang beriman
    05:43
    di luar masyarakat Islam.
    05:44
    Sudah tentu, ada orang yang percaya kepada Tuhan,
    05:46
    ada orang yang mempercayai dengan ikhlas kepercayaan mereka sendiri
    05:49
    dan sebagainya.
    05:50
    Dan kami akan,
    05:51
    kami akan memanggil mereka orang yang beriman.
    05:52
    Kami akan memanggil mereka orang yang setia,
    05:53
    orang beriman tetapi,
    05:56
    masyarakat berpecah belah
    05:57
    pada masa wahyu al-Quran
    05:59
    dan masyarakat dipanggil dengan pelbagai nama.
    06:02
    Oleh itu, apa yang disebut oleh masyarakat Islam?
    06:05
    Sudah tentu pada masa ini,
    06:06
    kita memanggil diri kita sebagai masyarakat Islam.
    06:08
    Tetapi pada masa-masa awal
    06:10
    mereka hanya dipanggil orang yang beriman.
    06:13
    (Bahasa asing)
    06:14
    Mereka yang beriman.
    06:15
    - Dan mereka dibezakan
    06:16
    dari orang-orang buku?
    06:17
    - Betul.
    06:18
    - Siapa bukan Kristian, bukan?
    06:18
    - Ya.
    06:19
    - Baik.
    06:21
    - Jadi pada dasarnya sebaliknya adalah,
    06:22
    berkahwin dengan seseorang dari dalam komuniti anda yang percaya
    06:25
    dan pastinya jangan berkahwin dengan orang yang paling polos.
    06:27
    Dan saya tidak mengatakannya,
    06:30
    anda tahu, ada yang tidak kena,
    06:31
    dengan paling bersih hari ini.
    06:33
    Saya hanya mengatakan,
    06:34
    ini adalah cara di mana-
    06:35
    - Ayat itu membingkainya.
    06:37
    - Tepat sekali.
    06:38
    Dan konteks sosial dan sejarah
    06:39
    di mana Al-Quran diturunkan.
    06:41
    - Baiklah, jadi ada ayat terakhir ini,
    06:43
    yang merujuk kepada,
    06:45
    mungkin merujuk kepada perkahwinan antara agama.
    06:47
    Dan dari Surah 60 bab 60 ayat 10.
    06:51
    Dan ini membincangkan mengenai wanita yang merupakan pelarian.
    06:55
    - Ya, untuk memahami ayat itu
    06:56
    izinkan saya terlebih dahulu melukis latar belakang.
    06:58
    Oleh itu, seperti yang kita lihat dalam konteks sejarah.
    07:00
    Nabi Muhammad dan selamat sejahtera
    07:02
    dilahirkan di Mekah.
    07:04
    Dan ketika dia mula berkhotbah,
    07:05
    dia diseksa dengan penganiayaan
    07:06
    dan beberapa pengikut yang berani mengambil pesanannya
    07:10
    dan ikut dia
    07:11
    juga dianiaya.
    07:12
    Oleh itu, tidak mungkin mereka tinggal di sana
    07:16
    dan mempunyai kepercayaan yang layak sebagai masyarakat.
    07:18
    Mereka harus merahsiakan iman mereka ketika mereka
    07:22
    memeluk kepercayaan itu untuk mengelakkan penganiayaan.
    07:25
    Jadi orang mula berhijrah atas arahan para nabi,
    07:28
    ada yang berhijrah ke Abyssinia
    07:30
    dan akhirnya seorang Raja Kristian di sana di Abyssinia
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    memberi mereka perlindungan dan perlindungan,
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    tetapi itu tidak mencukupi.
    07:36
    Nabi saw,
    07:37
    dirinya terpaksa berhijrah.
    07:39
    Dan dia berhijrah ke Madinah
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    sebuah bandar 400 kilometer ke Utara
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    tempat kelahirannya Mekah.
    07:48
    Dan ada di komuniti baru
    07:50
    ramai pengikutnya menyertainya
    07:53
    berhijrah jauh dari Mekah
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    dan banyak yang lain datang untuk memanggil panggilannya.
    07:58
    Tetapi pasukan musuh terus bergerak menuju kota barunya
    08:03
    menyerang dan menghancurkan umat Islam.
    08:05
    Oleh itu, terdapat banyak pertempuran
    08:06
    di mana nabi saw
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    dan pengikutnya berdiri dalam pembelaan
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    menentang penjajah.
    08:14
    Jadi dalam keadaan itu sekarang
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    kami mempunyai ayat ini yang anda rujuk
    08:18
    dari bab ke-60,
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    yang disebut sebagai
    08:20
    (Bahasa asing)
    08:22
    yang bermaksud wanita yang imannya harus diuji.
    08:27
    Dan, latar belakang ini menunjukkan bahawa
    08:30
    dan ayat itu sendiri sekarang menunjukkan
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    bahawa jika wanita berhijrah.
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    Oleh itu, kita sudah bercakap mengenai orang yang berhijrah dari Mekah
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    untuk melepaskan diri dari situasi penganiayaan
    08:40
    dan dalam apa jua keadaan
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    untuk bergabung dengan nabi Muhammad saw
    08:43
    dan komuniti barunya yang diasaskan.
    08:46
    Oleh itu,
    08:47
    ketika lelaki itu berhijrah,
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    nampaknya tidak ada,
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    ada masalah kerana lelaki pada masa itu
    08:51
    sangat berdikari dan,
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    anda tahu, mereka harus diperhitungkan
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    tetapi wanita lebih dilindungi dalam masyarakat tradisional itu.
    08:59
    Jadi jika seorang wanita akan berhijrah
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    anda boleh bayangkan orang-orang Mekah bersiap sedia dalam hal ini.
    09:05
    Seperti siapa yang mengambil,
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    anda tahu, wanita kita di sini,
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    anda tahu, dan mereka ingin mengawal,
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    di sana perempuan.
    09:13
    Oleh itu, ketika mereka berhijrah
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    melarikan diri dari keadaan berbahaya,
    09:18
    melarikan diri untuk hidup mereka

  • @nadiamarielle692
    @nadiamarielle692 4 года назад +126

    So the food is only halal for men then?😂 When God speaks in quran, the structure is masculin. this applies to women as well. Woman can marry ahlil kitab as well. God did not say its haram. He did not mention that because its open. Men choose to interpret it this way to control women. Thats it basicly. Women of today has more power for raising her kids than the father has, and God knew it. He left it open. God know best

    • @nadiamarielle692
      @nadiamarielle692 4 года назад +38

      Scholars chose to not promote that women can marry ahlil kitab in purpose. So sad

    • @fidelcatsro6948
      @fidelcatsro6948 4 года назад +19

      paul says women who dont cover their heads needs to be shaven bald i guess paul wanted to control women as well?

    • @QuranSpeaks
      @QuranSpeaks  4 года назад +18

      There's more to come. This is just part 1 of the series 😊

    • @ImranHossain-uj4nb
      @ImranHossain-uj4nb 4 года назад

      @@fidelcatsro6948 Yes ,I agree with you.

    • @clementeen
      @clementeen 4 года назад +32

      Exactly sister! Women are not lesser in faith than men, infact the Quran says explicitly that men and women are equal in faith. So a believing man and a believing women can marry, this means muslims, jews and christians, all believers. If Allah says that men can marry women of the people of the book, does this not mean that Allah feels the faith of these women equal?! So then how can the faith of a christian or jewish man not be equal or good enough for a muslim woman?!

  • @laurenl696
    @laurenl696 Год назад +50

    As a spiritualist woman believing in the One God who is with a Muslim man with the intention to marry, respect must be paid on either side of the relationship for it to work. I respect and encourage him within his faith, as does he with me. Respect and understanding are the bases of all relationships, religious or not.

    • @pandemicneetbux2110
      @pandemicneetbux2110 Год назад

      >encouraging in his faith
      100% wife material statement, it's sad how uncommon this is in Western society

    • @WealthyTower
      @WealthyTower Год назад

      For you as a woman they don't have problem because the Man is the head afterall. But where the hypocrisy is, is we as men cannot marry Muslim women and that's really hypocritical of the Islamic faith as it favors Men more than the women.

    • @diinomaaxi
      @diinomaaxi Год назад +1

      Islam is not religion is the way of life for every human on the planet weather they believed or not weather they practiced on not is more then a religion is the way of life giving by the creator of the world

    • @VeneerDept
      @VeneerDept 10 месяцев назад +1

      You will convert or he will merely have fun with you. And even if you convert doesn’t mean you’ll be married

    • @guidedstars
      @guidedstars 3 месяца назад +8

      @@VeneerDept That's a weird and disrespectful thing to say. If you're a Muslim, you have no right to judge the intentions of other Muslims.

  • @andreashansson5054
    @andreashansson5054 3 года назад +78

    Marriage should not be a problem if a man and woman love each other from different religions God is good. Remember that all Christians, Muslims and Jews have the same ancestor Abraham. The important thing is that a Christian can be a Christian and a Muslim be a Muslim, you can still be married and love each other despite different religions

    • @zaynabdurrani5274
      @zaynabdurrani5274 2 года назад +5

      But remember both of then have corrupted there scripture

    • @mohammedumarfarhan9900
      @mohammedumarfarhan9900 2 года назад +9

      Exactly marriage and religion are different things

    • @regernfaraja4344
      @regernfaraja4344 2 года назад +3

      might we be talking about abraham who attempted to murder his son? because if it were today he would be imprisoned

    • @applecideriscool9455
      @applecideriscool9455 2 года назад

      @@regernfaraja4344 he only did it to please God because you must always fear God, of course God was only testing him an Angel came to Abraham and said there is no need to kill his son for God sees he has fear

    • @curiouscat5229
      @curiouscat5229 Год назад +1

      Christians and Jews don't believe it. So end of discussion.

  • @mzs114
    @mzs114 3 года назад +79

    As a practicing Muslim man - The problem is, where will you find practicing Christian and Jewish women? So in today's time it is also advisable for Muslim men to stick with Muslim women, unless they are sure that they have come across a practicing Christian/Jewish woman.

    • @lisetriskel
      @lisetriskel 3 года назад +36

      Practicing Christians ask the same: Where are the good men and women formed in the fear of GOD, regardless of whether they are Christians, Jews or Muslims? I believe that religion does not make you Saint or a sinner, what counts is your sincere commitment to God, in all religions there are good and bad people; that is why it is important to put aside the myths and give us the opportunity to meet other people equally without matter if they sympathize with our faith or customs. Because at the end of the day even in our own community we can also find bad people who influence us badly in life.

    • @alyzak.8997
      @alyzak.8997 3 года назад +19

      Exactly. It is better to marry the chaste believing muslim women.

    • @freakyfreak3284
      @freakyfreak3284 2 года назад

      No practicing Christian/Jewish women will marry a muslim because it's forbidden in their religion.
      Only ones muslim men can marry are the atheist liberal feminist type who bend their religion to suit their whims and desire.

    • @whatislifebuttheenjoymento3405
      @whatislifebuttheenjoymento3405 Год назад

      Is a practicing christian better than a non practicing christian?

    • @julien.282
      @julien.282 Год назад

      Christian teaches good things too so yeah a practising christian is better than those who dont. Bible teaches women to wear modest clothes too. So yeah. I'm a muslim btw.

  • @bodymind195
    @bodymind195 4 года назад +50

    Always well researched.... May Allah help us all to understand

  • @lucysluckyday
    @lucysluckyday 3 года назад +32

    There is an interesting point there. Muslims will say that the "people of the book" includes Jews, Christians, and Muslims. Therefore they can be married. However, the first argument that Muslims always make is that Christianity is polytheistic, because of their acceptance of the Trinity (three Gods), even though Christians will always tell them that even with the trinity God is still one (monotheistic). That tells me that the concept of the trinity is wholly misunderstood, particularly when raised in an argument/debate. Perhaps everyone should accept that "no one" understands it, but just accept that it was said and therefore exists in some sense that is likely incomprehensible to man. Perhaps not all has been given, not all has been revealed, and likely more is still yet to come. That should never be discounted.

    • @thetruth3082
      @thetruth3082 3 года назад +6

      It doesn't matter the way you see the trinity, we have a verse in the Quran that talks about the trinity (Quran 4:171) O People of the Scripture, do not commit excess in your religion1 or say about Allah except the truth. The Messiah, Jesus the son of Mary, was but a messenger of Allah and His word which He directed to Mary and a soul [created at a command] from Him. So believe in Allah and His messengers. And do not say, "Three"; desist - it is better for you. Indeed, Allah is but one God. Exalted is He above having a son. To Him belongs whatever is in the heavens and whatever is on the earth. And sufficient is Allah as Disposer of affairs.
      - Saheeh International
      So putting the verse 5:5 and 4:171, its safe to conclude if the christian women believes in the trinity, or doesn't believe in the trinity, you can still get married to them. (As a man only of course)

    • @naeemiqbal9359
      @naeemiqbal9359 3 года назад +1

      IL Signore Dio nostro è l’unico Signore. Qui ci si potrebbe chiedere: perché il popolo del Libro, in particolare i cristiani, erano considerati monoteisti quando credevano nella trinità, che apparentemente è una dottrina politeistica?
      La risposta a questa domanda è che i cristiani sono fondamentalmente seguaci del monoteismo. La Bibbia è molto esplicita al riguardo:
      Allora si accostò uno degli scribi che lì aveva uditi discutere, e, visto come aveva come aveva loro ben risposto, gli domandò: “Qual è il primo di tutti i comandamenti?” Gesù rispose: “il primo è: Ascolta, il primo è: Ascolta Israele. IL Signore Dio nostro è l’unico Signore. (Marco 12:28-29-30)
      I cristiani ammettono mai il politeismo?
      I cristiani non ammettono mai il politeismo, sebbene siano coinvolti in alcune pratiche politeistiche. Una persona diventa politeista quando ammette apertamente di esserlo. Una persona che afferma di essere monoteista nonostante sia coinvolta in pratiche politeistiche, non può essere considerata politeista. Il motivo è che fa qualcosa di sbagliato senza rendersi conto di ciò che sta facendo; tutti i cristiani di oggi o del periodo di Gesù (sws) non ammettono mai il politeismo; la trinità per loro è conforme al monoteismo. Naturalmente i musulmani non sono d'accordo con loro, ma a meno che non affermino di essere politeisti, si può solo dire che, nonostante affermino di essere monoteisti, sono coinvolti nel politeismo. È come se un musulmano andasse nella tomba di un santo per chiedergli di esaudire un desiderio: un tale musulmano non potrà essere chiamato politeista, ma gli verrà detto che ciò che sta facendo è contro il monoteismo a cui egli stesso rivendica fortemente l'adesione. Allo stesso modo, i cristiani non possono essere chiamati politeisti, tuttavia verrà detto loro che ciò che stanno facendo non è conforme al monoteismo.
      È proprio per questo motivo che il Corano non ha mai considerato il popolo del Libro politeista sebbene si abbonasse a certe sfacciate forme di politeismo. Il Corano ha chiamato politeisti solo gli ismaeliti perché hanno dichiaratamente aderito e testimoniato il credo del politeismo. Sostenevano fortemente che il politeismo fosse la religione stessa rivelata dall'Onnipotente e rivendicavano di essere seguaci di questa religione. Proprio per questo motivo, furono chiamati dal Corano mushrikūn (seguaci del credo di shirk).

    • @naeemiqbal9359
      @naeemiqbal9359 3 года назад

      you can translate by google or deepl

    • @NRFP
      @NRFP 3 года назад +4

      @@thetruth3082 You can not married them if they do not bealive their own kitab(religious book)quran5:72 say who bealive trinity they are kufur..its not clear

    • @raqeelphotography9502
      @raqeelphotography9502 2 года назад +4

      @@thetruth3082 you cannot marry them it says in the quran [2:221] "Do not marry idolatresses unless they believe; a believing woman is better than an idolatress, even if you like her. Nor shall you give your daughters in marriage to idolatrous men, unless they believe. A believing man is better than an idolater, even if you like him. These invite to Hell, while GOD invites to Paradise and forgiveness, as He wills. He clarifies His revelations for the people, that they may take heed."
      These days christians have idols of jesus and mary, If they didnt, it wouldve been allowed to marry them but unfortunately they are falling under this category

  • @omaronnyoutube
    @omaronnyoutube 3 года назад +11

    MALAY SUBTITLES Part 4 of 4
    13:53
    yang mengatakan bahawa tidak lelaki dan wanita
    13:56
    dari masyarakat Islam yang beriman
    13:57
    boleh mengahwini orang politeistik.
    14:01
    Oleh itu, kita berada pada kesimpulan yang sama di sini.
    14:05
    Dan kemudian apa yang keluar dari perbincangan umum ini
    14:10
    tentang berkahwin dengan orang-orang musyrik
    14:11
    adalah ayat yang pertama kali kita bincangkan,
    14:14
    satu dari surah lima
    14:16
    dan yang menjadi ayat nombor lima juga,
    14:19
    yang mengatakan bahawa lelaki,
    14:20
    lelaki muslim yang beriman
    14:22
    boleh berkahwin dengan wanita dari kalangan orang-orang buku ini.
    14:26
    - Jadi ada perbezaan di sini
    14:28
    dalam peraturan mengenai lelaki dan wanita.
    14:30
    Oleh itu mari kita kembali kepada perkara itu
    14:31
    Saya rasa di segmen seterusnya,
    14:33
    di mana kita akan melakukan bahagian kedua.
    14:35
    - Baik.
    14:37
    - Kita akan bercakap sedikit lebih banyak mengenai konteksnya
    14:37
    ayat-ayat
    14:38
    dan juga bagaimana kita dapat menerapkannya
    14:40
    dan memahaminya hari ini.
    14:42
    Terima kasih atas pemikiran anda Dr. Shabir.
    14:44
    - Sama-sama.

  • @maserati925
    @maserati925 3 года назад +83

    I’m a mixed race American Christian woman and my fiancé is an Arab Muslim man, I never get to see couples like me and my man maybe this will change as I was raised to not be prejudiced and discriminatory towards ethnicity or faith when accepting a partner. Love has no borders..

    • @hamzarashid4306
      @hamzarashid4306 3 года назад +6

      Hello, i am in a situation where I am muslim and the women i want to marry is christian. I was interested in how his family took it as I am currently having issues getting my parents on our side? Any response would be much appreciated!

    • @maserati925
      @maserati925 3 года назад +6

      Well my fiancé’s family is a little more open minded so it was more easy for me. I think that once they see you and your lady together and happy and that she treats you well and has good morals/values in time hopefully they will accept it. My mom was actually the one who was the most skeptical, but how happy she sees I am, that made her okay with our union. Hope this helps!

    • @sinanprof7264
      @sinanprof7264 2 года назад +4

      I envy u Tiffany. It was easy for u cos of your society and your families. In my society it is very hard to have interfaith marriage .

    • @abdulwadood.8
      @abdulwadood.8 2 года назад

      @@maserati925 hi I’m in a similar situation what age where you when you got married to him? Because iam pretty young

    • @susanneal6063
      @susanneal6063 2 года назад +1

      I can Imagine this very difficult when you wil have Kids.

  • @clauaome25
    @clauaome25 2 года назад +38

    Isn't God pure Love? Has not God bound people through pure Love? Are we not all equal in front of God's eyes? Then why not being able to marry the person of your choice? If it has been God Himself the one that has put that Love in them? Praise Him!!!

    • @samikassab4444
      @samikassab4444 2 года назад

      This love you're quoting is due to pass at some point and afterwards the responsibility to the family and society takes over. So the question is what kind of society are we building when selecting spouses. When the initial irrational lustful emotional explosions come to pass. How do you raise the children? Do you give them names from the mother or the father religion. Do you circumcise the boys, and later on what place of worship do they attend, and men throughout time and cultures have been the leaders of the families so you better believe it will go their way. What kind of families are we building??!!!

    • @clauaome25
      @clauaome25 2 года назад +6

      @@samikassab4444 real love is more than lust. Also there have been inter culture, Inter reacial and inter religion couples all over the world without an issue. Times are changing and men are not leaders of family all the time.

    • @samikassab4444
      @samikassab4444 2 года назад +1

      @@clauaome25 I said lust among other things.
      And yes we can think that but you're taking your chances. You can't control people or bend them towards applying what you believe is correct even if it's your spouse. And these family decisions are very important.
      What you say is politically correct, and feels good now. God's law is what is better for your life and society for the long run.
      And God knows best....

    • @whatislifebuttheenjoymento3405
      @whatislifebuttheenjoymento3405 Год назад

      The problem is muslim believe the true God whilest christian believe in a fake God is that too hard to understand? The first greatest sin in islam is disbeliving in God and sharing a bed with someone that has disbelieved does not sound right don't you think? Think about it deeply,
      Its not all white and black it is not hard to see. I suggest you keep you distance away from us, don't try to change us and our religion with the guise of love. Keep that love to yourself. I do not want to love someone thats ungrateful to Allah(subhannahu waata'ala).

    • @julien.282
      @julien.282 Год назад

      You dont sound like a true muslim. You sound like an apostate of islam or probably an atheist who hates islam. I dont know. Just guessing. Your comments dont represent the teachings of Islam. I think you are trying to make Muslim looks bad. Try again fella.

  • @rosea2350
    @rosea2350 Год назад +18

    If you’re a Christian you cannot marry a non-Christian (2 Corinthians 6:14). The love for Jesus and the union of two believers is more important than romantic love. I became a Christian after marriage and my husband is Muslim. I cannot teach my daughter anything. It’s heartbreaking and difficult.

    • @elmermatthew6796
      @elmermatthew6796 Год назад +8

      The verse about "light and dark can't be united" is misleading. As long as you believe in God and declare Jesus as your savior (Muslims also call Jesus as al-Masih, a savior), you are on the same page. I see no difference between Islam and Christianity, both have the same concept and belief. The only difference that can bother both sides is the story of crucifixition. Yet again, if Protestants can tolerate Catholics, why not with Muslims?
      P.s. the light represents the believers, the dark represents the atheists and the people who don't believe in our God.

    • @perporiap9364
      @perporiap9364 Год назад +5

      You shouldn't teach your kids. it is very important for kids I guess to be brought up intellectual to be able to choose religion themselves if they want later in life maybe after 18. They can choose remain atheist agnostic or whatever. Whoever learns religion from parents are always shaky in their faith but whome who search for it not

    • @coletteharubella2434
      @coletteharubella2434 Год назад

      They want to spread darkness and that’s why it’s why to marry Muslims in ‘their book’

    • @eyoung8215
      @eyoung8215 Год назад

      Become a Catholic and find a Latin Mass and teach your child in secret. There is no salvation in Islam.

    • @diinomaaxi
      @diinomaaxi Год назад +4

      ⁠@@eyoung8215 lmao Islam is the safety of humanity and the mercy of God Jesus was Muslim Ibrahim was Muslim and Moses was Muslim Jesus was the massiah of the Israelites he was send to them and only them but Islam is for everyone any color in any region to be honest only if u was Israelite u should follow Jesus

  • @wondersofgod1269
    @wondersofgod1269 4 года назад +93

    I just like this man ....❤️

    • @vsauceobadiah2293
      @vsauceobadiah2293 3 года назад

      Lol

    • @saniatamanna7763
      @saniatamanna7763 3 года назад +2

      Yes I too. He is very simple and humble in nature. He shows how true islam is (kindness in Islam)

    • @SaahilSethy
      @SaahilSethy Год назад

      @@saniatamanna7763 does he have youtube channel?

  • @1turkish1indian43
    @1turkish1indian43 3 года назад +105

    I am a Turkish Muslim married to an Indian Hindu. The amount of love and support we received from our family and friends is bar none. I hope people understand that two people getting married is their own business and just support and love them however they can and they get the support we did. Love from Turkey ❤❤

    • @hareembukhari1358
      @hareembukhari1358 2 года назад

      How is it going for you guys?☺️

    • @Journo5810
      @Journo5810 2 года назад +10

      @@hareembukhari1358 you want to marry non muslim? If you also believe love has no religion then rememeber lust has no religion.

    • @bemyfriend4067
      @bemyfriend4067 2 года назад +1

      Who cares.. you have free choice you can do what ever you want

    • @amindada9947
      @amindada9947 2 года назад +35

      Brother that marriage is haram May Allah guide you

    • @franky2347
      @franky2347 2 года назад +6

      @@amindada9947 it’s none of your business mate

  • @mekhimkl2702
    @mekhimkl2702 3 года назад +29

    With the second verse, regarding the "free woman polytheist" vs "believing servants" i think it also speaks to the motivation for marriage. Men might be attracted to the wealth of a free woman, particularly if her religion doesn't provide the kind of protection that the quran enforces as regards women and their wealth. I think the motivations that might lead a man to seek such a marriage, above a marriage to a believing servant, are quite possibly impure and those intentions are what can lead him into hellfire, as he could enter this marriage with bad intentions and exploit the woman.

    • @mekhimkl2702
      @mekhimkl2702 Год назад

      @@agustz7xa341 not all Christians believe in the Trinity or in the divinity of Jesus. It tells us right in the Quran that some among them are believers so what other authority do you need?

    • @silverstarlight9395
      @silverstarlight9395 Год назад +4

      Or maybe he just falls in love with the woman, enjoys her company, loves watching Netflix and having coffee with her and wants to spend his life doing fun things together.

    • @mekhimkl2702
      @mekhimkl2702 Год назад

      @@silverstarlight9395 I'm confused. What does this have to do with the video or my comment?

  • @falconali5210
    @falconali5210 4 года назад +49

    Very interesting and knowledgeable discussion. Thank You Dr Ally.

  • @Snartfoodler
    @Snartfoodler 10 месяцев назад +2

    Jew here here who was simply curious and I enjoy hearing an informative talk that I can intrepret despite not having much understanding of Muslim communities admittedly, I appreciate it ^^;

  • @bodycatcher9022
    @bodycatcher9022 3 года назад +31

    Hello,
    I am known as Kirk
    I am not a religious man and I'm not here to question out of disrespect, I legitimately am curious, Muslims seem to be the most organised and well presented people. Much respect for that and to have faith is no easy feat, to believe in the unseen takes courage, I understand that and I'm not questioning anyones faith i just would just like to know the creation or evolution process that the Muslim faith presents? If its not to much trouble? if not can some tag a video that helps? I'm not Muslim so I would not know where to start.

    • @syedzaidi8902
      @syedzaidi8902 3 года назад +7

      God is talking to us in the holy Quran. According to holy Quran God is closer to us than our jugular vein. That means god knows what we are thinking, that applies to every human. All we have to do is ask God for guidance again and again, and remain patient. Guidance will come from unexpected direction.

    • @gondala
      @gondala 3 года назад +4

      my suggestion is just to try learning Quran with your heart with good intention. Try to understand God through Quran. Be patience, then, you'll find your way some day.

    • @godzeus9075
      @godzeus9075 3 года назад +2

      Check videos of Subboor Ahmed. I think the channel name is Darwinian delusions.

    • @StabDab
      @StabDab 3 года назад

      PLEASE READ I TRIED TO FIND U SOMETHING.
      The Big Bang theory came so so late compared to Quran. Quran is about 1400 years old.
      In Surah Anbiya verse no. 30 ,
      It says “HAVE THOSE WHO NOT BELIEVE CONSIDERED THAT THE HEAVENS AND EARTH WERE A COMBINED ENTITY, AND WE SEPERATED THEM”
      The Big Bang theory suggests that all the planets and every mass there is, was once a single mass and then a Big Bang happened and everything seperated from one single mass.
      Quran mentions about the existence of that single mass in this verse. Hope that gives some evidence

    • @AceAcademics508
      @AceAcademics508 2 года назад +1

      RUclips channel - towards eternity.

  • @debabratasikder9448
    @debabratasikder9448 2 года назад +9

    If God was only one there would not have been so many religions. Religion does not allow all people to love equally, does not allow to have kinship with all. If it had allowed it, it would not have prevented interfaith marriage. That is, religion has behaved like racists here. According to me, God is the cause of creation. The reason that created me did not separate people by religion. We have separated ourselves by religion. Believing in God and believing in traditional religion are completely different things.

    • @squidman3426
      @squidman3426 Год назад +2

      [Quran 2:221] Do not marry non believers in allah unless they believe; a believing woman is better than an non believer, even if you like her. Nor shall you give your daughters in marriage to non believing men, unless they believe. A believing man is better than an non believer, even if you like him. These invite to Hell, while GOD invites to Paradise and forgiveness, as He wills. He clarifies His revelations for the people, that they may take heed.

    • @debabratasikder9448
      @debabratasikder9448 Год назад

      @@squidman3426 There is no reason to differentiate people

    • @squidman3426
      @squidman3426 Год назад +2

      @@debabratasikder9448 Islam concept is choosing allah over worldly things,all these worldy things in this earth which will anyhow gonna one day gets destroyed...Hence If u choose wordly life on this earth u will get everything on this earth but nothing from allah..When u meet allah he will not check how much money u have in the bank,how much good u look or how much famous u are since u will be left with nothing when u die..He will only ask about prayers,good deed he did for rewarding him,bad deeds for punishing or forgiving him hence u need to select ur partner which will bring u and ur kids closer to allah not someone who brings u and ur kids away from allah...

    • @Fall7timestandup8
      @Fall7timestandup8 Год назад +1

      That's why deistic concept of God is more sensible. These holy books with their translations done by different people hundreds of years apart when the message first appeared can't be trusted fully as humans have compiled 'em down and as said, "to err is to human."

    • @sarmaskks1911
      @sarmaskks1911 Год назад +1

      ​@@squidman3426God won't accept prayers from other religious ppl??? every religion says same bro as Islam says ,but what the difference between Muslims and other religious ppl is other religious ppl welcome and r tolerant to other religious ppl but Muslims r only tolerant to Muslims.many other religions also says God is one ,do good be good and follow rituals ok not only Islam ,so stoping saying only Islam teaches good things,bro it's common sense bro when ur born as human u have to be good and respectful to each other communities ,if interfaith married ppl r following there both religions then what's the problem..maybe praying way is different but prayers r given heartfully right .I think God is broad minded then humans he accepts every individual of good deeds irrespective of religion and prayed him heartfully but just in a different way that's it...

  • @sprachenwelt
    @sprachenwelt 4 года назад +12

    Dear Dr. Shabir,
    Love your method. But here I have an argument. If the general rule is, that the Muminat may not marry a Mushrik and the Muminin may not marry a Mushrika, then by definition the marriage of a woman of the book, means that they do not fall under the "Mushrikin" regulation. If this is true, then the women from the "Muminin" may marry a man from the people of the book, because they are not Muhrikin.

    • @professorshrimp5187
      @professorshrimp5187 4 года назад +2

      Assalamwalaikum brother, that would be a very fair argument of there wasn't an explicit verse saying that MEN can marry women of the book. But there does exist such a verse in the Qur'an. And all the greatest scholars of Islam classical and most modern do agree that women can't marry anyone outside of Islam.

    • @hossamali9016
      @hossamali9016 4 года назад +7

      @@professorshrimp5187 but why ? the default state in Islam is that things are halal unless Allah tells us clearly in the Quran.

    • @professorshrimp5187
      @professorshrimp5187 4 года назад +3

      @@hossamali9016 because In marriage, the husband has authority over the wife. He has the right to veto her. So to have a disbelieving person hold authority over you is a major risk to the faith.

    • @symparanekromenoi
      @symparanekromenoi 4 года назад +3

      @@professorshrimp5187 yeah but we have non muslim rulers as well who have authority over us, that doesn't pose a threat to our faith does it?

    • @One-rr8um
      @One-rr8um 4 года назад

      @@symparanekromenoi rulers don't interfere with the religious actions of individuals. But spouses can and especially husbands influence their wives badly. So do can wives but women are privileged in Islam and considered foundation of the family and they are not obliged to work for the family. These situations can rule out if the husband is non Muslims and demands otherwise. That's how I understand it. I have noticed it that men have greater influence on their wives than women on men irrespective of religious background and cultures. God knows best.

  • @vivekanand7623
    @vivekanand7623 3 года назад +24

    What a hypocrisy that a muslim man can marry non muslim women but a muslim women can't marry non muslim man 😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Journo5810
      @Journo5810 2 года назад +1

      muslim man were allowed not now

    • @baneofbanes
      @baneofbanes 2 года назад

      @@Journo5810 still hypocritical, but it’s to he expected for s religion that came out of the very patriarchal Middle Ages Arabia.

    • @whydontyoustfu
      @whydontyoustfu 2 года назад +2

      @@Journo5810 why not now

    • @muneebahmad7729
      @muneebahmad7729 Год назад

      @@whydontyoustfu because parth still exists

    • @SuryanshParida
      @SuryanshParida 11 месяцев назад +7

      ​@@Journo5810but still many are doing that .... marrying non Muslim women in larger numbers

  • @laylaali5977
    @laylaali5977 2 года назад +9

    I think the problem is if you marry someone with a different religion which religion are the children be raised in my opinion as a Muslim if someone believes ones of god it wouldn’t be a problem because we believe the same god and they share the universal aspects of Islam

    • @whatislifebuttheenjoymento3405
      @whatislifebuttheenjoymento3405 Год назад

      Are you going to go against the religion and the teachings paving your way for islam? You just mentioned the problem why do it sister? SubhanAllah. The ones of God is required but there is one true God and thats Allah(swt) what if someone believes in one God and its not Allah(swt) would you marry that person? And what about our beloved prophet (pbuh)

    • @elmermatthew6796
      @elmermatthew6796 Год назад

      ​@@whatislifebuttheenjoymento3405 As long as you marry the People of the Book (al-Kitab) you're fine. Don't read Haditz, read what Prophet Muhammad said. We are one people, we were divided because of the politics back then.
      Salam from a Christian brother.

    • @silverstarlight9395
      @silverstarlight9395 Год назад +3

      The children will decide their own religion, because they are people who have brains of their own.

    • @natanaellizama6559
      @natanaellizama6559 2 месяца назад

      Doesn't the Quran says that every believer is responsible for their belief and belief in GOD is free? That means the children are free to choose whichever and don't "assume" through heritage or anything like that religion.

  • @samiralim95
    @samiralim95 2 года назад +4

    Think about the kids, how would they turn out? In the middle of both religions?
    When you marry someone, you also marry their family.

    • @Tokio_Tsu
      @Tokio_Tsu 2 года назад +3

      You teach your children of both religions and give them experience with both, and then when they are old enough to make their own decisions you let them choose which one they would like to follow more

    • @silverstarlight9395
      @silverstarlight9395 Год назад

      You do realise that some couples are childfree right?

    • @halnot4u2no75
      @halnot4u2no75 7 месяцев назад

      This is what they want to water down the muslims

  • @rkparmar7502
    @rkparmar7502 3 года назад +189

    I'm an atheist and i feel people should be free to marry anyone regardless of religion.❤️

    • @samsunkandroit8797
      @samsunkandroit8797 3 года назад +38

      We are free to choose in what we believe in, or what we take as a messurement of right and wrong. Everyone does. It is alright to believe for yourself what you want to believe, unless you are not forcing somebody else to believe in the same.

    • @bishalscreation
      @bishalscreation 3 года назад +4

      Exactly

    • @atifabdul961
      @atifabdul961 3 года назад +1

      @@samsunkandroit8797 Yes thats right ❤❤

    • @85amitray
      @85amitray 2 года назад +5

      @@samsunkandroit8797 they force indirectly.

    • @ismu_ch_rt8223
      @ismu_ch_rt8223 2 года назад +18

      We r not atheist...so we have to do wht our religion said to us.....good by dude

  • @sadiyaahmad6680
    @sadiyaahmad6680 Год назад +4

    It's not explicitly said in Quran that muslim women should marry Muslim men .

    • @Joker-sp1ci
      @Joker-sp1ci 4 месяца назад

      Its clearly stated to not marry mushriks like christians even the Jews r not innocent of shirk so...

  • @cattlecorner305
    @cattlecorner305 2 года назад +16

    My personal opinion is " interfaith marriage is a absolutely wrong idea"..it will work at the beginning but it will fail ....But those who can make it work I congrats them..

    • @halnot4u2no75
      @halnot4u2no75 7 месяцев назад

      It wont work poor children they are watering down our faith as Muslims think about it is it worth it? Are u not scared of akhirat over dunia

  • @TheWalkMinistry
    @TheWalkMinistry 6 месяцев назад +3

    I’m a monotheistic Christian I would love to marry a Muslim woman because I eat halal and eat vegan food and am a loyal man women outside the monotheistic view are very polytheistic 6:48 and I wish I was musilim sometimes because I don’t wanna marry someone that is polytheistic 7:27

  • @beyzadonmez2765
    @beyzadonmez2765 3 года назад +16

    Hi I have a question, what about nikah? I’ve heard that there are Imams that have a hard time allowing a nikah to happen if the women is Muslim marrying a Christian man. If there is any that do allow who would you recommend?

    • @mavishshabir3475
      @mavishshabir3475 3 года назад +8

      I am also in this position have you found anyone

    • @moawal6738
      @moawal6738 3 года назад

      Hey am here 🤲🏾

    • @moawal6738
      @moawal6738 3 года назад

      @@mavishshabir3475 am here 🤲🏾

    • @haroon420
      @haroon420 2 года назад

      You don’t need an imam to verify to your nikkah. Anybody can. As long as it is done in public and not in secret.
      Imams don’t own the religion. It’s not their dads religion. Just follow the Quran and leave those idiots to themselves.

    • @hareembukhari1358
      @hareembukhari1358 2 года назад +2

      Imad the London nikah. Contact him online on his website. He does that.❤️

  • @Mellinds
    @Mellinds 4 года назад +13

    Can an omission be interpreted as something that is forbidden? Is it truly an omission or simply the fact that just like in old history books the word Men (with a capital M) when talking about human kind includes both men and women?

    • @sanjidaalam1897
      @sanjidaalam1897 3 года назад +12

      Exactly! As a muslimah who searched the Quran for verses saying it is haram for Muslim women to marry outside their religion and I didn't find any. Obviously hundreds of years ago women were not treated equally to men it would be unadvisable because she would have less agency and perhaps be driven away from her religion and into her husband's but in the modern day an interfaith marriage is one of mutual respect and since there's no restriction it seems to just be a relic of sexism

    • @ibrahimhany1999
      @ibrahimhany1999 Год назад

      @@sanjidaalam1897 are you ignorant “i searched all around the Quran and I couldn’t find a verse that prohibits a Muslim women marrying a non Muslim man” what joke is this you could atleast sound convincing when you lie it’s literally in the second chapter of the Quran.
      Al-Baqarah - Verse 221
      وَلَا تَنكِحُوا۟ ٱلْمُشْرِكَـٰتِ حَتَّىٰ يُؤْمِنَّ ۚ وَلَأَمَةٌ مُّؤْمِنَةٌ خَيْرٌ مِّن مُّشْرِكَةٍ وَلَوْ أَعْجَبَتْكُمْ ۗ وَلَا تُنكِحُوا۟ ٱلْمُشْرِكِينَ حَتَّىٰ يُؤْمِنُوا۟ ۚ وَلَعَبْدٌ مُّؤْمِنٌ خَيْرٌ مِّن مُّشْرِكٍ وَلَوْ أَعْجَبَكُمْ ۗ أُو۟لَـٰٓئِكَ يَدْعُونَ إِلَى ٱلنَّارِ ۖ وَٱللَّهُ يَدْعُوٓا۟ إِلَى ٱلْجَنَّةِ وَٱلْمَغْفِرَةِ بِإِذْنِهِۦ ۖ وَيُبَيِّنُ ءَايَـٰتِهِۦ لِلنَّاسِ لَعَلَّهُمْ يَتَذَكَّرُونَ
      Dr. Mustafa Khattab, The Clear Quran:
      Do not marry polytheistic women until they believe; for a believing slave-woman is better than a free polytheist, even though she may look pleasant to you. And do not marry your women to polytheistic men until they believe, for a believing slave-man is better than a free polytheist, even though he may look pleasant to you. They invite ˹you˺ to the Fire while Allah invites ˹you˺ to Paradise and forgiveness by His grace. He makes His revelations clear to the people so perhaps they will be mindful.
      The word used in this verse is mushrick which is a term that refers to all non Muslims. The only exception was made in surah Al Maidah which allowed Muslim men to marry chaste women from the people of the book ie (the Jews and Christians).

  • @supremeabuzar
    @supremeabuzar 2 года назад +15

    I also told my non Muslim gf about Islam but my mistake was that I told her bluntly that whether you convert or we couldn't be together
    Instead of taking things slow.
    and I really want to make things normal for her.
    Because she has 0 support from her parents...and her parents are very rude to her and she's already had a very depressive past...
    She cried a lot when I told her all this
    Leaving her is a very big sin for me
    Allah have mercy on me...
    What should I do please help me

    • @hakuna_2510
      @hakuna_2510 2 года назад +5

      I'm having this problem with my Muslim bf :(
      Hope u guys will overcome

    • @waqaskhalid8715
      @waqaskhalid8715 2 года назад +3

      I faced the same problem and did the same thing. Which I should not have done in first place. I said bluntly as well. I can’t live without her but she left me. I should not have dealt this issue like the way I dealt. I still sometime regret.

    • @supremeabuzar
      @supremeabuzar 2 года назад +3

      @@waqaskhalid8715 May Allah grant u will with even better brother.
      I hope ur doing good in ur life...
      She wasn't privileged enough to be with u
      Only the deserving gets the love of deen the shining light nd the blessings of deen my brother✨
      She ws not truthful to u Or else maybe she could at least give it a try...
      Fortunately we r bffs now nd she said that she'll definitely give it a try
      I'm ever grateful to Allah for such a blessing and I really hope she gets the gift of imaan. ❤
      Ameen

    • @whatislifebuttheenjoymento3405
      @whatislifebuttheenjoymento3405 Год назад

      Brother what is Gf no matter how many times i perused through the Islamic books of knowledge or hadiths. How come i don't see anything called Girlfriend? Are you perhaps paving your own version of Islam or are you following the footsteps of those that enraged Allah(swt) and whose on the Day of judgement will be brought out as blind?.

    • @kabirkashyap6290
      @kabirkashyap6290 Год назад +1

      @@waqaskhalid8715 so this is not live just a conversion

  • @mohsinghauri9658
    @mohsinghauri9658 4 месяца назад +1

    Seeing comments coming from Non-muslims that love has no boundaries,no religion no language.Yeah sure but it’s for you people who don’t even know their own religion.First learn your religion and then have the audacity to try to teach us.Because for us Muslims Quran is the Most Superior Book and it’s providing us the path for living Life.

  • @khandkersalahuddin5344
    @khandkersalahuddin5344 4 года назад +13

    Salam. I like this video. Awesome! Thanks to both of you and God bless you!

  • @unnikrishnankarthika8011
    @unnikrishnankarthika8011 4 месяца назад +1

    Marry people you love. Not based on religion. I love my wife & she isn’t from my religion. Yet we are very happy together. Men like this are just divisive factor in society. Follow your heart ❤.

  • @emansphoto_6428
    @emansphoto_6428 2 года назад +3

    Why doesn’t Saudi Arabia have any churches or allow other faiths? I wish they could answer this question. The Quran does not tell its believers to prohibit this but instead says “there’s no compulsion in religion”.

    • @squidman3426
      @squidman3426 2 года назад +3

      Why vatican dont have mosque?

    • @squidman3426
      @squidman3426 Год назад

      @hœweèff see u urself proved muslim saudi is better than christian vatican..

    • @squidman3426
      @squidman3426 Год назад

      @hœweèff See 90 percent of saudi arabia even with expats are muslim,most of the non muslim expats if they would have cared about their religion should not have gone to ultra orthodox saudi arabia at first and expect them to provide churches temples for them..All those expats are not native,and if those expats leave, saudi will easily fill it with muslims of india pakistan and bangladesh expats..U cannot expect a country to provide for u where u are not native,u should live like and accept how their laws....In italy there r no mosques,in slovakia islam is not recognised as religion,hijab is banned in many european countries..

    • @SaahilSethy
      @SaahilSethy Год назад

      @Hœweèff🔱🌺 So why blame only saudi where other han side Vatican doesnt give citiczenship to muslims !! You are promoting hypocrisy !!

    • @thefalcon7021
      @thefalcon7021 Год назад

      Saudi Arabia does have people from other religions living there lots of Arab Christians and hindu Indians but building temples and churches is not easy in Saudi Arabia that's like saying the Vatican should have mosques although there are many churches in the middle east and in the Arabian peninsula like in UAE

  • @seenechetty3669
    @seenechetty3669 4 года назад +12

    Religion is regarded by the common people as true, by the wise as false, and by rulers as useful.
    "Seneca"

    • @sanjidaalam1897
      @sanjidaalam1897 3 года назад +7

      This is actually a myth. I don't have the study but most scientists and intellectuals believe in God.

    • @ericvonmanstein2112
      @ericvonmanstein2112 2 года назад

      Quotations can be fake
      Also it is the people who make the quotations,and people make mistakes

    • @ericvonmanstein2112
      @ericvonmanstein2112 2 года назад

      Not every quotation is right or good

    • @seenechetty3669
      @seenechetty3669 2 года назад

      @@uniqueviewsnews What I'm trying to say most wars over history was caused by religion. We should treat others as we would like to be treated.

    • @whydontyoustfu
      @whydontyoustfu 2 года назад

      @@sanjidaalam1897 not true. also religion and god isnt the same thing one can believe in some form of higher consciousness and still recognise christianity islam or hinduism as false belief

  • @larianyoyola1311
    @larianyoyola1311 6 месяцев назад +1

    This is what the Bible says about interfaith marriage.
    ”To the rest I say that if any brother has a wife who is an unbeliever, and she consents to live with him, he should not divorce her. If any woman has a husband who is an unbeliever, and he consents to live with her, she should not divorce him. For the unbelieving husband is made holy because of his wife, and the unbelieving wife is made holy because of her husband. Otherwise your children would be unclean, but as it is, they are holy. But if the unbelieving partner separates, let it be so. In such cases the brother or sister is not enslaved. God has called you to peace. For how do you know, wife, whether you will save your husband? Or how do you know, husband, whether you will save your wife?“
    ‭‭1 Corinthians‬ ‭7‬:‭12‬-‭16‬ ‭ESV‬‬

  • @tasneems5013
    @tasneems5013 3 года назад +11

    In 2021 why is it still wrong for a muslim woman to marry a non muslim man, when said man is not a polytheist? Should it not count for something that he is also "people of the book?"

    • @Nemesis_T-Type
      @Nemesis_T-Type 3 года назад +3

      Because if the head of the family (the man) isn't a muslim, it makes it harder to brainwash your kids

    • @amindada9947
      @amindada9947 2 года назад +3

      Because she will be unprotected and vulnerable. Their religions don’t have legislation that protects the rights of women the way Islam does. It’s for their own sake

    • @SaahilSethy
      @SaahilSethy Год назад +1

      mostly alcoholic and pork eaters and have less moral principles because is afraid of nothing than a muslim upbringing where he fears Gods repercussion !

    • @Loveydoveyl
      @Loveydoveyl Год назад +1

      @@amindada9947 they’re not protected even with some Muslim men, I think that’s a fallible statement.

  • @Fearles575
    @Fearles575 3 года назад +12

    Thanks so much I am in love with orthodox Christian women in extreme believe in her believe I will definitely married her as long as my religion except

    • @Mo-hc9lc
      @Mo-hc9lc 3 года назад +1

      Can i ask can you marry a sihk

    • @laking09_57
      @laking09_57 2 года назад

      @@Mo-hc9lc as far as I know no. Muslim men can only marry Muslims and people of the book (Jews and Christians)

  • @marcelliousgall2410
    @marcelliousgall2410 5 месяцев назад

    I was talking to a woman of the Muslim faith.
    I was more than willing to respect the Muslim religion. I just wanted to get to know her better.
    I believe we are all in this together so, I really don't understand why her family is so against it...
    If both parties are willing to understand and support each other and are truly in love, why would certain religious supporters frown upon this?
    Seems to be unethical and a form of discrimination...
    This is 2024, we are all in this together and at the end of the day all share a common goal. To make this world a better place.

  • @VloglikeLiki
    @VloglikeLiki Год назад +3

    I don't think the so called polytheistic religions are teaching to believe in different gods. I as a Hindu believe only in one God, yes there are many forms in which God is worshipped and it's because early Sanatana Dharma kept on accepting different cultures and methods into itself which is now known as Hinduism. But end of the day we are also taught that there is a single God i.e. Brahman. And look at the coincidence, abraham and brahman sounds similar. Religions need to evolve with time, better to focus on similarities and peace rather than differences and wars.

    • @varshinisathyavelu7497
      @varshinisathyavelu7497 11 месяцев назад +1

      Heyy!! As a Hindu I also agree and believe on the exact same thing you believe. It's nice to know there are other Hindus who sees faith the same way❤️

  • @brucesims3228
    @brucesims3228 4 года назад +9

    Excellent coverage of the topic! Just to enhance the subject it would be interesting to learn how injunctions against polytheism might apply to modern societal views and opinions. For instance might a preoccupation with say, pursuing money, physical appearance and socioeconomic status be taken for polytheism? Is there some line that must be rossed? Thoughts?

    • @QuranSpeaks
      @QuranSpeaks  4 года назад +2

      Interesting take on the notion of polytheism! Thank you for sharing!

    • @RSainman
      @RSainman 4 года назад +2

      @Asim Ayyubi *cough * "Have you seen he who has taken as his god his [own] desire, and Allah has sent him astray due to knowledge and has set a seal upon his hearing and his heart and put over his vision a veil? So who will guide him after Allah ? Then will you not be reminded? "45:23....

  • @aryanjan2736
    @aryanjan2736 3 года назад +4

    Question:
    Is it OK, for a Muslim man to marry Christian woman, and their children practice Islam?

    • @silverstarlight9395
      @silverstarlight9395 Год назад

      Their children can practice whichever religion they believe in. No one else should influence their religious beliefs.

    • @user73nsnskAjd
      @user73nsnskAjd 2 месяца назад

      ​@@silverstarlight9395Splish splash your opinion is trash

  • @versateum12
    @versateum12 4 года назад +26

    a book is just meant to guide you not restrict you. if something is not explicitly said, doesnt mean that one cannot use their commonsense

    • @fauzi4586
      @fauzi4586 4 года назад +3

      Bhai islam sachi me virus hai 🤢

    • @zohebansari947
      @zohebansari947 4 года назад +11

      First of all let me clear u that according to all abrahmic religion (chritian, Jews and Muslims) , human are send to earth for test and to see loyalty towards the God, that's y restrictions are there......

    • @dear6125
      @dear6125 3 года назад +1

      Polythism is totally Fack and folse not religion Allah bless whole world

    • @zaid_khan12345
      @zaid_khan12345 3 года назад

      @@fauzi4586 Sab se bada virus Gau mata ka pishaab peenay wala Hinduism hai

    • @zaid_khan12345
      @zaid_khan12345 3 года назад +2

      It is a MAJOR SIN in all Abrahamic Religions

  • @farazahmad2881
    @farazahmad2881 4 года назад +5

    I have one question regarding "People of the book".
    Who are the people of the book?
    Are they only Jews or Christians?
    Allah had mentioned in the Quran that " Messengers have been sent to all people not just Jews and Christians".
    In your earlier videos you have said that Vedas(specially upanishad part) says that "God is One". So according to this people who follow this verse strictly are not polytheists. So can they be called the people of the book?
    And if not can a Muslim person marry these people who believe in one God but they are neither Jews nor Christians?
    Please elaborate. Thank you 😊

    • @RSainman
      @RSainman 4 года назад +4

      there are prophets and messengers.
      the difference between these two is that prophets were given revelation for the people they were sent to and messengers were given revelation (wahi) in a "scripture" form like the gospel of Jesus, shrines of Abraham, the wahi of David and the Torah (the stone tablets) for Moses.
      so these people who a "scripture" was sent to are called Ahlul Kitab (people of the book).
      I really hope I didn't say anything wrong that's only my opinion.
      please furthermore inform yourself if you want more clarity.
      but what I can definelety say is that Christians, Jews, Muslims, and I think Sabians or whatever they're called are people of the book and we as men can only marry those who are chaste of them (virgins and good in faith).
      Cheers.

    • @ZYNinaGazi
      @ZYNinaGazi 3 года назад +1

      People of the book means the people to whom messengers were sent with divine books from GOD, which are the Ten Comandments (Torah) sent to Moses and Bible to Jesus. So the Jews and Christians are people of the book.

    • @sanjidaalam1897
      @sanjidaalam1897 3 года назад +3

      I think you can marry anyone who believe in one God because they are monotheistic and this is the main core of Islam regardless of what book they are people of because who knows if Buddhist texts or hindu texts were from prophets many years ago? They both have common ideas with Islam and it is impossible to know in modern times. I think Allah judges us for our intentions. If someone believes in one God, this is a sign of their faith and I think you can marry them if the kids can be brought up muslim (just like it's done if someone is Christian or Jewish) Allah knows best. I hope you get the clarity you're looking for soon.

    • @Journo5810
      @Journo5810 2 года назад

      @@sanjidaalam1897 lust is the biggest traitor in human.. always remember Allah sent So many books and Allah wants to testify who is loyal to his bookand following his commandments rightly...so madam apni taraf se kuch bhi naya add karne ki koshish na kare these are our scholars unhone sadiyo se bahut study/research kiya hai..please hamare scholars ke bare me kabhi aisa mat sochna ki vo ghalat preach kar rahe hai

  • @U_y_g_h_u_r_L_i_v_e_s_Matter
    @U_y_g_h_u_r_L_i_v_e_s_Matter Год назад +6

    Hard to believe that God would create us all and then put stipulations on who we marry. All of man is sinful. Man wrote all of these passages. God did not. Therefore, it's absurd to believe that 100% of the book is accurate. Man has interjected his beliefs in there as well.
    If two people are soulmates and they both have good hearts and are truly good people, God would not shame that marriage but encourage it.
    I'm Christian and have stumbled uponnthe love of my life. She is Muslim. The way that our paths met could only have happened by fate. I truly believe that God meant for us to find each other. We both overwhelming feel it in our hearts.

    • @shomshomni2314
      @shomshomni2314 6 месяцев назад

      You can't trust your heart brother. The heart is your flesh and it is deceitful. Satan throws temptations at people all the time.
      Jeremiah 17:9-10 “The human heart is the most deceitful of all things, and desperately wicked. Who really knows how bad it is? But I, the LORD, search all hearts and examine secret motives. I give all people their due rewards, according to what their actions deserve.”

    • @U_y_g_h_u_r_L_i_v_e_s_Matter
      @U_y_g_h_u_r_L_i_v_e_s_Matter 6 месяцев назад

      @@shomshomni2314 That's not true when God is in your heart, brother. I hope you truly find him one day! 🙏😊

    • @shomshomni2314
      @shomshomni2314 6 месяцев назад

      @@U_y_g_h_u_r_L_i_v_e_s_Matter I literally just quoted the Holy Bible and you're telling me, "that's not true" 😭 Are you sure you know Jesus? You might have a counterfeit.

    • @U_y_g_h_u_r_L_i_v_e_s_Matter
      @U_y_g_h_u_r_L_i_v_e_s_Matter 6 месяцев назад

      @shomshomni2314 I can quote the Bible too, my friend.
      Romans 5:5
      "God's love has been poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit who has been given to us"
      Ephesians 3:17
      "Christ may make His home in your hearts through faith, that you, being rooted and grounded in love"
      God lives in me and tells me what is right and what is wrong in everything that I do every day. I hope that you find this too!

    • @shomshomni2314
      @shomshomni2314 6 месяцев назад

      @@U_y_g_h_u_r_L_i_v_e_s_Matter You can only trust your heart if it is in alignment with his Word. God is not going to tell you to be unequally yoaked with an unbeliever. It is explicitly stated for you not to do that. Satan would be the one who would encourage you. He knows the flesh of man is weak and your heart is still flesh and wants wordly desires. This is why will receive new bodies in the new world.

  • @joyofride469
    @joyofride469 4 года назад +21

    dr shabir ally is a fantastic scholar

    • @fidelcatsro6948
      @fidelcatsro6948 4 года назад

      of cos

    • @Scorpionking_2024
      @Scorpionking_2024 4 года назад

      😂😂😂

    • @Scorpionking_2024
      @Scorpionking_2024 4 года назад

      @Job David
      He can only debate with people who can not deny the biblical verses on which shabir allay and Muslims stand to defend Islam
      In other words Islam uses Jews and Christians present day scriptures as crutches to survive

  • @muslim5067
    @muslim5067 3 года назад +8

    I'm so happy that Dr Shabir corrected his view about Muslim women marrying people of the Book..He now acknowledges that the permission is given to the male. Previously he said the Quraan is silent about it and therefore Muslim women may marry Jewish or Christian men. Thank you Dr Shabir.

    • @SpongebobNewsFish
      @SpongebobNewsFish 3 года назад +8

      No it isn’t present that means Muslims women can’t marry Jewish or Christian men. Also Muslim women or men certainly can’t marry polytheists or Hindus. I don’t understand how u can make such a bold claim it’s pretty clear that Muslim women are only allowed to marry other then Muslim men not anyone else. Many scholars agree on this and I believe there is even a Hadith about it.

    • @franky2347
      @franky2347 2 года назад +1

      @@SpongebobNewsFish what’s the rationale for it being okay for a Muslim man marrying Jewish or Christian woman as permissible and for Muslim woman to not be granted the same?

    • @Fa-bb8mn
      @Fa-bb8mn Год назад

      @@SpongebobNewsFishno it’s not halal if it’s halal we will see women in the time of prophet marrying them like man in the time of prophet they marry a non muslim women SO muslim WOMEN CAN’T

    • @ahabarhossain773
      @ahabarhossain773 Год назад

      ​@franky2347 because in Islam, a man is the leader of the family, and a woman is supposed to obey her husband, and the children generally are raised in the religion of their fathers. Considering that Christians and Jews are "People of the Book" in the Qur'an, Muslim men can marry their women because he will be the leader of the family and the Jewish or Christian woman will be led by a Muslim man. On the other hand, if a Muslim woman marries a Christian or Jewish man, she will have to be led by a disbeliever, so it doesn't make sense for Islam to permit such a marriage.

    • @rubyzaidi7961
      @rubyzaidi7961 Год назад +1

      SEXIST!!! Muslim women SHOULD be able to marry non-Muslim men!!!!

  • @grapeshott
    @grapeshott 3 года назад +11

    Does it matter what's written in a scripture? I believe the scripture is there to serve a human, not the other way around. Human's free will and rational interpretation of the world around him is more important than anything written in any scripture

    • @zaynabdurrani5274
      @zaynabdurrani5274 2 года назад +2

      Yes, for us muslims it matters

    • @SoleilMagica
      @SoleilMagica 2 года назад

      so a Godly scripture is there to serve us? So a creature like God must serve us? Do you even understand what you just wrote? That makes no sense.

    • @whatislifebuttheenjoymento3405
      @whatislifebuttheenjoymento3405 Год назад +1

      A scripture is meant to serve human? Hahaha i still don't understand what you meant by that. A scripture is a map to navigate through this world. You have to follow that map to get to the end of the road. And if you have the wrong map you are lost.

  • @freechessforall
    @freechessforall 14 дней назад

    From my readings i understood A muslim Man cannot marry Christian or Jews who embraced their faith after the coming of Islam ( abrogation of particular religion)

  • @trueseeker826
    @trueseeker826 2 года назад +4

    God had allowed interfaith marriages now for both sexes . The issue is not answered clearly here . Why the scholars will take so much liberty to interpret two similar injunctions soo radically differently?

  • @karwanqaradagi6497
    @karwanqaradagi6497 3 года назад +2

    Soooo, what was the answer?

  • @SabaChaudhary-e8h
    @SabaChaudhary-e8h 19 дней назад

    Best explained sir 😊

  • @clementmckenzie7041
    @clementmckenzie7041 7 месяцев назад +1

    Allah made humans, all humans and so all humans, who live within the word and grace of Allah are worthy. Do not make yourself unworthy by ignoring the diversity he has blessed the world with for us to enjoy.

  • @bilalsheikh3174
    @bilalsheikh3174 2 года назад

    What happens if a married Christian woman converts to Islam? What's if her husband is not religious, will she be accepted in Islam?

  • @sweeyong7756
    @sweeyong7756 4 года назад +6

    hey doc. can you shed light on a statement by zakir naik caling rhose islamians that live, thrive and supoorting non islamic country a munafik calling this HARAM. can you address his statement. it borderline creating hatred.

  • @firyalazeera5396
    @firyalazeera5396 3 года назад +7

    I am a Muslim woman and I want to marry a tribal guy because I want to give hope and improve those communities and also to oppose untouchability. I will be a Muslim even after marriage and teach kids about Islam. Can I marry an atheist?

    • @zaynabdurrani5274
      @zaynabdurrani5274 2 года назад +3

      Salam sister, the reality is yes, muslim women cannot marry anyone other then a muslim men. If u will do then u r out of Islam, the same rule is for muslim men.

    • @zaynabdurrani5274
      @zaynabdurrani5274 2 года назад +1

      If u want I can tell u reasons why there is such a rule

    • @Journo5810
      @Journo5810 2 года назад

      @@zaynabdurrani5274 seems you are well educated about Islam otherwise there are lots of so called educated women who are denying the verses and blaming scholars for wrong interpretrations.

    • @Journo5810
      @Journo5810 2 года назад

      where you from Azeera?

    • @zaynabdurrani5274
      @zaynabdurrani5274 2 года назад +1

      @@Journo5810 I just like reading tafseers of Quran

  • @naushadcochin3648
    @naushadcochin3648 3 года назад +6

    Every segment is very very useful
    الحمد الله

  • @truecolor313
    @truecolor313 Год назад

    It is fear of decrease in no of Muslims for what chapter 5 verse introduced by Muhammad

  • @kbhatia1967
    @kbhatia1967 2 года назад

    Persecution? What persecution?? I can't believe a scholar distorting the facts to put across his point!

  • @icrcwathab9108
    @icrcwathab9108 3 года назад +4

    I have a question , What is the meaning of this verse , Allah says whoever seeks a religion other than Islam, it will not be accepted from him.

    • @samia6888
      @samia6888 Год назад +1

      Only Islam is accepted by Allah. No exceptions.

  • @simplifiedbotany_global
    @simplifiedbotany_global Год назад

    Basic question here is that can a woman from the Ahle-kitaab (Jew,christian) hold her religion after marriage.?

  • @abdulkarim-hf3xg
    @abdulkarim-hf3xg 2 года назад +2

    Informative, knowledgeable

  • @ramshajaved4344
    @ramshajaved4344 4 года назад +10

    Is there any email address where we can send our questions and get answers

    • @Iur416
      @Iur416 3 года назад

      Assalamu Alaikum.
      You can go in the 'Quora' and search 'How to ask a Islamic Scholar.'.There are many links to submit questions.
      Thanks you.

    • @rehbar2600
      @rehbar2600 3 года назад +1

      You need to visit let the quran speak website

  • @sarakerboua1319
    @sarakerboua1319 Год назад +3

    I've been with a christian Catholic man for 3 years and a half , family is pulling us apart , im muslim .according to what he told me , in his religion god is love , amd hes allowed to marry me , I've always been told that i cant , so does god prevent us from loving if not religiously ? Im so desperate im head over heals for this man and so is he

    • @ye23.
      @ye23. 11 месяцев назад

      What happened? Did you get married

    • @shomshomni2314
      @shomshomni2314 6 месяцев назад

      In his religion, he's not allowed to marry you either. He probably isn't practicing his faith.

  • @claudeyaz
    @claudeyaz 2 года назад +2

    We would be better off had there been marriage alliances between crusader kings and the ottomans etc...We would have seen SO MUCH LESS EXTREMISM!! less fights over holy lands..and instead of the religious organizations intentionally changing how they believe and operate, to intentionally increase the rifts between the two..Would have pushed the similarities.
    God the power would be immense

  • @R2026I
    @R2026I 4 года назад +5

    All Muslims explain to me what is the meaning of Messiah and why did Quran call Jesus the Messiah,
    And why did the Quran didn't called mohammad the Messiah

    • @seankillar123
      @seankillar123 4 года назад

      He is the messiah in the end times

    • @Spear-to7cv
      @Spear-to7cv 4 года назад +1

      R2026....Let me answer you.....The missionaries again will say to the Muslims is Jesus the messiah, Muslim will say yes, was Mohamed a messiah, Muslim will say no, so Muslims will think ok Jesus is a messiah and Mohamed not, so Jesus is better and more divine than Mohamed.
      Please asked the missionary what the meaning of the messiah is? Jesus was the messiah, but there were many other messiahs in the bible besides Jesus. Now you will find out if he knows his bible. David, Solomon was called messiahs even Sirius the Persians king was called the Messiah, trying to find this in the bible, is almost impossible, as the bible translators cover the word up. Messiah means the anointed, somebody appointed to do something. Even the king of ancient Israel was called the messiah. Suddenly the word does not look so special anymore. It’s a title, but it does not elevate someone to a divine status.
      Hope you get the message.....goodday

    • @Spear-to7cv
      @Spear-to7cv 4 года назад +1

      @diploma propo maybe u must go into the background as to why Jesus was raised alive on that fatal day when the Romans and Jews were gunning for his neck and blood...the only reason why his coming back again..is very simple!!!! ..to come and rectify the blasphemy the socalled Paulians are practising today...good day

    • @Spear-to7cv
      @Spear-to7cv 4 года назад

      @diploma propo ..Jesus was not the cause of the then blasphemy and the current blashemy which continues unabated..the reason why Muhammad came was to take the arabs out of the darkness they were in and to correct the distortion of God's words in the OT...btw Muhammed prophecy was to convey the final message, and his message corrected the distortion in the OT....good day

    • @Spear-to7cv
      @Spear-to7cv 4 года назад

      @diploma propo ...you must remember prophets was send by God,to different peoples and tribes,they each came with a specific message.for their people at that time..but Muhammed message was to transformed the Arabs out of paganism,and because he was the FINAL MESSENGER and the MESSAGE or REVELATION he came with ...was the final revelation....his message is a universal message for all off mankind....the breaking of the cross and slaying of the pig..,that is left for Jesus on 2nd coming....good day

  • @ehmadmuazin152
    @ehmadmuazin152 4 года назад +2

    Specifically relevant in era where TATA Tanishq add had become controversial

  • @DavidBrowne-wx7cm
    @DavidBrowne-wx7cm 4 года назад +1

    I note you stated, Shabir, that there is nothing in the Quran which says Muslim women can marry outside their faith. BUT, Shabir, is there anything in the Quran or hadith which says Muslim women cannot marry outside their faith? In other words, a Muslim woman can only marry a Muslim man? Be honest here please Shabir. I notice you worded that previous comment well.

  • @user-vm1hh2lp1b
    @user-vm1hh2lp1b 4 года назад +8

    So there isn’t anything in the Koran to allow OR to disallow Muslim women from marrying whoever they want

    • @MacMac1313
      @MacMac1313 4 года назад

      A believing woman is not allowed to marry a non believing man nor is a believing man allowed to marry a non believing woman. It goes both ways. However, it was allowed for Muslim Men to marry believing women of the Christian and Jewish faith given that in those days it was Men who were protectors and providers of women. Men throughout history in all cultures have been the providers and it was and even still till this day women who marry Men from other cultures and into their families.
      What most people I find are trying to do here is discredit Islam for not allowing women to marry outside the faith. That's why Dr Shabir mentioned clearly that women who married and became Muslims and then divorced after having had received their dowry was given back to the former husbands as a way of testing the faith of these newly Muslim women.

    • @AFGsultanZ
      @AFGsultanZ 4 года назад +1

      A Muslim man is allowed to marry a Christian or a Jewish. Whereas a woman can only marry a Muslim. If one wants to marry an individual outside of the Abrahamic faiths. Then the individual must first convert to Islam.

  • @maxq4958
    @maxq4958 4 года назад +4

    hello Doctor. i was wondering what your views are of the early biographers and Surah 53:19-22.
    thanks in advance

  • @mtailor5529
    @mtailor5529 9 месяцев назад +1

    Muslim is a dictorship, they don't respect women. Men can marry multiple wife's but the lady can't. I've chatted to a few Musilm women when I was on a dating site, all of them said I would have to convert if I want to be with them. God has given everyone free will, we are all the same. My best friend is Muslim and my family treat him as a son and brother, his family hate me only for not being a Muslim. His family also fight so much, there is no genuine love within. I think it's sad because God has given us all a brain, it's down to us to distinguish what is right or wrong. Look at the facts and try to be a better person and love everyone, no matter who they are.

    • @AmmonRa-wm5kc
      @AmmonRa-wm5kc 8 месяцев назад +1

      As a non-Muslim man, I married a Muslim woman. There are some challenges with this but I respect her faith and we are doing very well. Most Muslim women however are told they cannot do this. Thankfully, we live in a western and free society.

  • @muzakkeeninfasahamed9301
    @muzakkeeninfasahamed9301 3 года назад +6

    I have a question about ""This ahlul kitab""
    Today ,Do we have the same ""Ahlul kitab"" that Quran mentioned ?
    Or
    Today,Do we have the same ""Ahlul kitab''' who lived the period of prophet Muhammad nabi sallalahu alahi vasallam ?
    I think not
    There are many differences between now a days Christian and jews and ''''Ahlul kitab"" that lived in prophet time and mentioned in Quran.
    For example :
    Varakat bin nawfal, who was relative of khadeeja (r.a)and master of injeal and tora oppose the idolatry system but today's some christian sects are doing idolatry
    Another thing is that Christian have trinity beliefs and consider jesus as God but the people mentioned by Quran as ""Ahlul kitab"" was the people who believe one God and not believe trinity and not believe jesus as God but as prophet because trinity is the beliefs of like Paganic and polytheistic which says God has son and many stuffs like roman Paganic beliefs .
    Then when we consider the Jews Who don't believe jesus nor believe the mother mary as Virgin then how can Jews of today be a ''ahlul kitab"" of Quran while they are opposing the Jesus and muhammad predicted by their book tora?
    I think those ''Ahlul kitab" which was mentioned in Quran like the true followers of pre Islamic books of injeal and tora accepted the Islam totally and became the Muslims
    For example:
    King Najjasi, Salman Al farsi(R.A),varakat bin nawfal and so on
    So today we have no Ahlul kitab according to the history of prophet, They existed before prophet but they all became Muslim After the arrival of Last prophecy of God which was predicted on injeal and tora.
    So now a days Christian and jews can't be considered as ''Ahlul kitab'' of Quran
    Could you please answer those questions and deliver a good explanation about my questions ⁉️❓❓

    • @theconqueror9601
      @theconqueror9601 3 года назад +2

      Thanks for asking this question bro. I was thinking about this too. Hope he answer it!

    • @lisetriskel
      @lisetriskel 3 года назад

      Good morning and God bless you, I really like your question and I hope to know soon what those first "Christians" or "Peope of the Books" were like. I would also like to know with all due respect if you could answer me these questions:
      1. Have you also wondered if Muhammad and his followers in the 6th century thought the same as the first scribes of the Qur'an who embodied their oral tradition 200 years after the death of their prophet and even more if today's Muslims approach what were they from the sixth or eighth century?
      2. Could you tell me exactly in which pre-Islamic books the coming of Muhammad is predicted? Many assure it but no one answers them with solid arguments.

    • @muzakkeeninfasahamed9301
      @muzakkeeninfasahamed9301 3 года назад

      @@lisetriskel
      Ahlul kitab - al yahud(people of Moses), nazareth(people of jesus) and sabians(now a days mandanean religion in Iraq, people of prophet yahya bin zakaria known as john in bible)
      Mandanean religion in Iraq(Quranic sabians) don't believe Trinity.
      Al yahud (people of Moses) modern day judahism don't believe trinity
      You can see them today as well , they don't believe trinity or don't believe son , father or holly sprit because they believe one God who didn't have the son or father
      But just see the nazareth people (people of jesus modern day catholic and christians derived from catholic church of rome) they believe trinity and believe God has son and father
      So every beliefs of Christians now a days contradicted with judahism beliefs and sabians beliefs who were mentioned in Quran as Ahlul kitab and Who were before jesus too
      So modern day Christianity is contradict with the another two Ahlul kitab that mentioned in Quran
      Just go and see the bible of barnabas which is not used by Christians now a days but contradict with modern bible of Paul.
      Barnabas bible is the only one physical evidence today that shows ancient Christianity had been different from modern day catholic and christian beliefs.

  • @lionIndiagr8
    @lionIndiagr8 3 года назад +7

    Marrying a partner who has not converted and still does not believe in Islam will lead to lot of regrets.
    If you think after marriage she/he will follow Islam then this is a misconception. Try the reasoning before marriage and if she/he follows Islam for at least a year then marry.
    Otherwise your kids will not get Islamic teachings and you will regret very badly on dieing bed.
    May Allah SWT Allah guide us all!!

    • @Magic818100
      @Magic818100 3 года назад +2

      My professor a Muslim who passed away may his soul be in peace what's a very dedicated Muslim he was trying to teach me as much out of it as he can. He was married to a Christian woman and he said they had one of the greatest understanding she never interfere with his religious belief. Of course she passed away before he did but he was said that it was the best 25 a marriage that he ever had. And I understand where you coming from. But yet it is to believe that Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him also had a wife from another faith.

    • @lionIndiagr8
      @lionIndiagr8 3 года назад +2

      @@Magic818100 Brother the examples at your end are very few. I know at least a dozen cases where kids are non Muslim or a namesake Muslim after marriages with Non Muslims.
      I had concluded on the basis of Numbers and in above 90% cases people regret their decision.
      May Allah SWT guide us all.

    • @Magic818100
      @Magic818100 3 года назад +1

      @@lionIndiagr8 with all respect brother but you want me to tell you something deal more separations and divorce within the own religion look how many Christians divorce with a partner who's a Christian look how many Muslims Divorced with the Muslims who are Muslims when you talk with a lot of brothers and sisters most of them have been divorced. So either you can see even if you marry someone of your faith it doesn't guarantee anything. Llévame people who are separating in their religion than those who are in Interfaith religion and yet nobody talks about that. This is the problem that I've always seen religion separate people

    • @lionIndiagr8
      @lionIndiagr8 3 года назад +1

      @@Magic818100 Brother you have shifted the discussion to divorce and the statistics is that Christians and other communities specifically in US and Europe have 4 times divorce ration than who follow Islam.
      So your argument itself is in wrong direction.
      One who knows Islam knows that divorce is allowed but it is highly disliked by Allah.
      Also if a person who follows Islam knows that caring and loving his wife/husband is regarded highly and has lot of rewards in this Life and hereafter.
      A person would not enter Janah until he is good and caring to his immediate family.
      Tragedy is that we Muslims don't follow Islam nowadays.

    • @Journo5810
      @Journo5810 2 года назад

      @@lionIndiagr8 issa fact

  • @munirislamratul7731
    @munirislamratul7731 Год назад +1

    You non-muslim man and woman marry a jew, christian, Buddhist, jain, hindu, sikh, atheist, agnostic but not Muslim.

  • @wasay456
    @wasay456 Год назад

    What is a "believing Servant/slave" as opposed to Free man? My understanding is that Muslims are not to be taken as slaves and slaves who became Muslim were freed. How can someone be both a slave and a Muslim?

  • @nadra2409
    @nadra2409 3 года назад +5

    there was a story
    a man and a muslim woman were in love..
    but the woman was hesitant because marrying a non-muslim man is prohibites in Islam..
    but the man told the woman that he will visit their place to ask for her family's permission to marry her...
    they went and they were received..
    the man explained about their love and the woman's family seemed amuse and warm to the young man but later he was murdered in their house.
    reason: he is not muslim.
    now you tell me about inter marriage is permissible in Quran!

    • @josephpa05
      @josephpa05 2 года назад

      What a horrible story. This is in the Quran?

  • @avanarichierich8281
    @avanarichierich8281 4 года назад +13

    Sis Safia look like a doll . So cute ! I love this show ! Short and precise ! Great 👍 !

  • @kyledevine3869
    @kyledevine3869 3 года назад +3

    Thankyou for this ❤️

    • @Journo5810
      @Journo5810 2 года назад

      are you single? or your bf/gf is muslim/christian

  • @gibi323
    @gibi323 2 года назад +2

    yes but how should we raise our children ?

  • @jeromepoindexter2479
    @jeromepoindexter2479 4 года назад +6

    I'm confused, why does Dr. Shabir refer to the opposite or other of servant as "free"?

    • @rayandaas1695
      @rayandaas1695 4 года назад +2

      Servant of Allah. Like “Abdullah”

    • @nazmul_khan_
      @nazmul_khan_ 4 года назад +4

      Servant means slave here, anyone who’s not a slave is by definition free

    • @zebakhawaja3464
      @zebakhawaja3464 4 года назад +1

      You should follow Mufti Abu Layth on RUclips. He has a lot of educational videos.

    • @rayandaas1695
      @rayandaas1695 4 года назад +1

      @@zebakhawaja3464, Definitely no, he is on bid3aa.

    • @-humsafar
      @-humsafar 3 года назад

      @@rayandaas1695 ?

  • @musasani8589
    @musasani8589 2 года назад +6

    Assalam may Allah almighty bless you all for good work you have been doing Masha Allah

  • @glowbelle1662
    @glowbelle1662 Год назад

    The Holy Quran has addressed Men & Women in a mono- tone that 1st need to be recognised. There's no GENDER bias in revelations except for few verses due to context. So if the Prophets & holy books r from ALLAH SWT, then logically all Ahl- E- Qitab as long as BELIEVERS, should be valid. Because Quran is the most logical. Thus a man can only marry Ahl- E- Qitab & women can't, doesn't make logical reflections.
    May ALLAH SWT help us understand the contexts of Quran & holistically let us apply it rather than isolated focus on a verse.

  • @Rantitoutloud
    @Rantitoutloud 3 года назад +4

    Finally a female speaker

  • @ImplosiveCatt
    @ImplosiveCatt 3 года назад +2

    I remember this guy having debate with fundamental Christian. Smar guy. He basically destroyed him with biblical arguments.
    I don't believe in gods and similar children stuff, but I belive in wisdom. To be fair, Shabir is a smart person and I would like to talk with him. No mattter what I belive. I just wanna talk with this guy with all due respect he's abandon silly story with god and stuff.

  • @djiboutidjibouti2602
    @djiboutidjibouti2602 4 года назад +2

    Question
    .. Dear Shabir Ally
    1=was it the word what becomes the son or was it the son what becomes the word ??
    2= can we claimed that we have been existed before the world was according to Surat 7 172

  • @suekennedy8917
    @suekennedy8917 4 года назад +1

    'Quran is not copied from Bible. But it is written based on Bible.
    Bible has two parts, the Old Testament and the New Testament. Bible is the history of Salvation, nothing more, nothing less. Old Testament is the preperation for Christ event. New Testament is the Covenant of Love and every person is supposed to obey the New Testament and the guidence of Jesus Christ.
    The Arabic world was dominated by a group of war lords. People were very crude and social security and justice was far away. The power was the justice. When written Quran it has taken laws from Old Testament and mixed with the covenant of love from the New Testament. The objective was to change the people into a group of cultured and peaceful ones.
    Quran itself is asking people to read Bible for further clarification.'

    • @suekennedy8917
      @suekennedy8917 3 года назад

      @Moonie Moon You are too low IQ to figure it out...This channel doesn't have any content.
      Moonie Moon
      Highlighted reply
      Moonie Moon
      7 hours ago
      What do you mean please I don’t understand 😊

  • @mertmitm
    @mertmitm 4 года назад

    I have a question regarding this topic that I don't really quite understand. The Qur'an does allow men to marry a Christian woman for instance as Dr. Shabir Ally has stated, but wouldn't that be a little problematic in a marriage? I mean if the wife is a believing and practicing Christian woman, she's gonna reject Mohammed (s.a.v.) and drink alcohol, eat and cook none halal food, etc. Could these Ayat probably refer to people of the book who don't see Christ (pbuh) as Allah (s.w.t.) and are overall generally open for Islam?

    • @violettepetals9931
      @violettepetals9931 3 года назад

      @Moonie Moon i was raised Christian and i can tell you that a good number of Christians do drink alcohol , eat pork, and "halal food" refers to the way the animal was slaughtered - that's the difference between halal food and "normal food". Christians are not checking for halal food .

    • @silverstarlight9395
      @silverstarlight9395 Год назад

      If the wife drinks alcohol and doesn't eat halal, how would that affect her husband in any way? I sometimes go out and drink with friends. That doesn't affect my partner in any way. As for the food, they both can cook their own food in separate pots and pans, and have separate utensils. Problem solved!

  • @babulkumersaharoy3968
    @babulkumersaharoy3968 Год назад

    Dr. Shabir Ali is an Islamic cleric. He knows very well what the Chapter 9 and verse 29 and chapter 5 and verse 51 command. They are as follows:
    "Quran 9;29, "Fight that who do not believe in Allah, nor in the latter day, nor do they prohibited what Allah and His Apostle have prohibited, nor follow the religion of truth, out of those who have been given the Book, until they pay the tax in acknowledgement of superiority and they are in a state of subjection."
    "Quran 5.51: O believers, take not Jews and Christians as friends; they are friends of each other. Whoever makes them his friend he is one of them."
    In view of the above, if anyone talks about interfaith dialogue on any issue, just kick out those liars and hypocrites.

  • @robertcolbourne386
    @robertcolbourne386 2 года назад

    But isn't there a verse that admonished Muslims from being friends with Christians and Jews ? I mean that will effect any marriage between man and wife .

  • @alhamdulillhforislam458
    @alhamdulillhforislam458 3 года назад +1

    These days it hard to find the people of the book submitting to one God especially Christians believe trinity and which is a sin in our religion to associate someone or something with God. So it is better that a believer should marry other believer who believe in one God and not associate anything with God Allah almighty.

    • @hamzarashid4306
      @hamzarashid4306 3 года назад +6

      this is not entirely true. Although christians do believe in the trinity, this does not necessarily mean that they believe in more than one god. If you asked a christian how many gods there are, they would say one. Christianity is not a polytheistic religion and the concept of trinity is often misunderstood by muslims, I should also add that I am a muslim so this is not coming from a bias perspective but a factual perspective.

    • @zaynabdurrani5274
      @zaynabdurrani5274 2 года назад +2

      @@hamzarashid4306 Ya and what does Islam teaches? Strict monotheism trinity is indeed polytheistic and you might get shocked after learning about this but hindus too belive in theology like trinity, so now, are they monotheist?
      Hindus belive there is one ultimate supreme reality and other 300 Million Gods are part of that one ultimate reality and the three main Gods of hinduism Shiva, Vishnu, Brahma are one God , does this makes any sense?

    • @zaynabdurrani5274
      @zaynabdurrani5274 2 года назад +1

      @@hamzarashid4306 Trinity is misunderstood by only those muslims who have gave the answer of 1+1+1=1 in there maths exams and they are now methamaticians I know out there, their are christian theologins and apologist try to convince muslims that trinity is indeed monotheist (lol, as hinduism is) but I have studied theology in a reasonable amount, I have read about trinity (they give analogist like infinity+infinity+infinity=infinity lool)

    • @Journo5810
      @Journo5810 2 года назад

      @@zaynabdurrani5274 jews are better monothiest than Christians.. btw Allah says in quran ki jews par lanat kar di gayi then why muslim man are allowed to marry jews? ya ye verse baad me ayi? fir yahudi gharqad k ped k peeche chupenge aur ped gawahi dega...i think in present time muslim males k liye bhi allow nhi hai jews/christians k sath untill they embrace Islam.

    • @zaynabdurrani5274
      @zaynabdurrani5274 2 года назад

      @@Journo5810 What? I don't understand that.

  • @lifestyletv8238
    @lifestyletv8238 2 года назад

    It is normal for Allah to say in the Quran that, Muslim men can marry women of the scripture (Christians & Jews) because, it is the man who marries the woman and not the other way. Therefore, there is no need for Allah to specifically mention that, Muslim women can marry people of the scripture. The men refers to all of us, whether a man or a woman. If Allah didn't want us to associate with them, why will he permit us to eat their foods? Moreover, in the religious books, women are not talked about much like it is with men. If our way of worship is different but we all believe in the one true living God (Allah), why then can't you marry a Christian or a Jew. The important thing is, you marry a righteous believer with whom you will teach your kids who God is and guide them on the righteous path.

  • @vannakr25
    @vannakr25 3 года назад +5

    First time, I see an articulated Muslim speaking like he’s a non Muslim speaker

    • @monzerfaisal3673
      @monzerfaisal3673 3 года назад +1

      Yeah as a Muslim in the west, this Dr makes it easier for us to explain out great religion and its nuances to the world!

    • @zaynabdurrani5274
      @zaynabdurrani5274 2 года назад +1

      @@monzerfaisal3673 what do you mean by nauncens?

    • @monzerfaisal3673
      @monzerfaisal3673 2 года назад

      @@zaynabdurrani5274 meaning the depth of a subject and everything behind it

    • @zaynabdurrani5274
      @zaynabdurrani5274 2 года назад +1

      @@monzerfaisal3673 k

    • @Journo5810
      @Journo5810 2 года назад

      @@zaynabdurrani5274 hello Zainab☺

  • @visael7774
    @visael7774 7 месяцев назад

    I was born a Muslim and I married outside my faith to a Christian Woman.

  • @symparanekromenoi
    @symparanekromenoi 4 года назад +7

    It does seem absurd that men would be allowed interfaith marriages but not women in the contemporary world.

    • @Getchomeme
      @Getchomeme 4 года назад +3

      Because you do not know how their beliefs influences the way they treat a woman. For example, an orthodox Jewish man will not please their wife in bed. Only do it to make babies. Also the woman has to shave her head the night of her marriage because her husband is Orthodox Jewish. How unjust is that? Why would Islam allow situations like these for their treasured muslim women?

    • @almulakimaalimalriadiat9068
      @almulakimaalimalriadiat9068 4 года назад +8

      I am married to a non muslim woman.. I can assure you this law is to protect muslim women and their off spring...
      If I could go back in time I would marry a God fearing woman...

    • @symparanekromenoi
      @symparanekromenoi 4 года назад

      @@Getchomeme I get what you are saying, but how many jews of today live like that. I'm sure a minority of them, who practice orthodoxy may be like that but why would a sane Muslim woman marry such a person anyway.

    • @Getchomeme
      @Getchomeme 4 года назад

      @@symparanekromenoi love makes us blind. You need to realize there's plenty of people outside of your country, living in different ways. You don't see them much on social media but it doesn't mean they don't exist. A perfect religion has to apply to a world full of villages, cities, and tribes, not just the typical westernized citizen.

    • @Getchomeme
      @Getchomeme 4 года назад

      In a similar way, you can't ignore that many countries are in war right now, where mothers end up widowed and there's not enough men to bring food to the table. Hence why they can marry a second wife if they have enough money to give her her own house and they both agree. It sounds crazy to you, I know, but there's people being bombed right now somewhere else too. Many of these people don't usually have phones so you probably never hear about it.

  • @Unknwn776
    @Unknwn776 7 месяцев назад

    I like a Christian girl is she required to change to muslim and pray namaz and do all Farz stuff like Roza & all?

  • @adfohukafoju5759
    @adfohukafoju5759 Год назад

    very wise thinking and words