I've been here since a long while, and it's amazing to see you grow and focus on God. That it very inspiring. I think you'd definitely like an interview with Fr. Moses, an orthodox christian bodybuilder.
Unfortunately, not all people are meant to be married. It’s not just about indentity crisis. Marriage is not the end game for everyone. Every man has a role to play in the society. And a man who’s not married doesn’t make him any less of a man. If he does get married, and that’s his calling, it’s his duty to head the family. But being “the head” doesn’t necessarily mean just entering marriage. A man for example who lost his parents at a young age, could still be the head of his bereaved family. Can step up for his siblings, etc. A man in government position, is also a head & still be the father figure of a country. Having said that, a man is not only defined by having or establishing his roots of just having his own family.
It seems strange to say someone is a Christian but speaks out against marriage. That's analogous to being a frog and speaking out against water. Marriage is a covenantal rite created by God - I don't understand why anyone who calls himself a follower of Christ would be against something that God establishes. That's not to say that everyone should marry or must marry. There are exceptions. But to be against marriage as a concept is a little unreasonable.
@@adalynnlanette6193 he's not against marriage itself, it's marriage in the USA and in this time, where feminists have such power and just cheat on men left and right.
@@adalynnlanette6193 I would agree with you but undead chronic makes some fair points too. You should check him out yourself to get a better understanding
I can only speak for myself: I am not afraid of marriage and I would love to get married. I do not have a call to celibacy, yet all I have ever gotten from Christian women is rejection. In my case, I have exhausted all the means at my disposal for trying to find a wife and I have accepted that I will be single for life. I do not know why God has ordained things this way for me because if is dreadful and depressing to my soul.
I grew up around old people when I was young and I seen many of those masculine men sat with a leg crossed. I'm not saying this speaker is masculine though.
I'm 22 and feel like I'm not ready for marriage because I am not the godly man that God wants me to be. I also don't know how to lead or provide. I have a lot to work on since I am way behind in life for my age.
All of that is great, and it could be very true, but none of that matters, because there’s no such thing as marriage, in a society that has invalidated it through family courts. A woman can promise not to take them up on their offer, but at any point she can change her mind.
Or become a monk, some have the monastic calling. But you gotta discern with your priest about such topics. Staying alone is not good. God said this in Genesis.
@@kaisalis7895 That was in response to the Pharisees asking a gotcha question trying to bait Jesus into saying the woman in the example would be having sex with multiple men in heaven. Jesus' reply is pointing out that the earthly purpose of marriage is not needed in heaven. There will be no sex or procreation. But there is one aspect of marriage that is eternal: “Love never ends” (1 Cor. 13:8). St. John Chrysostom reminds us that married Christians are known to be such in the Judgment and in the Kingdom. We will recognize and delight in our spouses and in our children. We will be restored, not to marriage, but to something better, a union of souls, rather than bodies, a union that begins in marriage and reaches a far more sublime condition.
@@taco564 Yes in heaven you will recognize your spouse and children, but you will not be married anymore. You will be as brothers and sisters in Christ. Earthly marriage ends at the moment of death or rapture.
At least some of the apostles were married. Matthew 8:14 talks about Peter's mother-in-law (his wife's mother). 1 Corinthians 9:5 discusses the right to have a believing wife as the other apostles do (implying that other apostles have wives).
An important distinction to make: JESUS is the only one who can "restore society" and it's not going to happen on this side of Heaven. Only when God establishes a new and eternal creation will anything be "restored". The important this to be weary of is that we should not be tempted by pride to think it is our duty or even within our power to "restore society"
@@Scheereddzz Adam wasn't permitted to control freedom of choice. That is why he followed suit. This world is an illusion do not fall prey to its grandeur.
Peter Leithart, in _Theopolitan Reading_, points out that Adam was told to guard the Garden, and that the presence of the evil serpent was a sign of Adam's failure to guard the Garden. 🤯 @@Scheereddzz
Indeed, remember God actually expects all men to lead women away from temptation / self destruction ... this was shown in the first story about Adam / Eve turning to dust at the end of life due to Sin & among other Stories in the Bible like with Noah protecting his (Tribe) his family, the people he's connected to the most from the Flood (Divine Judgement) that will inevitably come, instead of getting lost in the sea of the herd of people mindlessly going the wrong way into loving Sin above God then falling into divine judgement, you can be the one family like Noah to not glamorize & run deep into chasing Sin, although we all still have a sinful nature until the full law is written into our hearts, Noah was a very righteous man favored by God & if he did fall into Sin he would've repented. God expects men to be the spiritually stronger sex and to allow their women to tap into their strength, it is said that when men & women are joined together in the correct way "he becomes her strength, and she becomes his weakness" ... he doesn't will anything bad to happen to her or their offspring so can tap fully into all his divine power in his selfless agape love for her, the power of love is the power of God. Since women are more easily deceived / likely to fall into temptations & Sin then the natural order for every civilization should be for all Men to submit to God / Jesus Christ first, when no man desires promiscuous or unchaste & impure women we've seen time & time again how quickly women all respond to male desire & the male gaze so we see the return of more feminine women. Women respond to what men are attracted to, the surveys have gone from the vast vast majority of 18 - 22 yo young men expecting virgin brides on their wedding day in the early 1900s to mid 1950s, to less than 5% by the late 1990s and less than 1% to this day... I hope there's a great revival in Gen Z & Gen Alpha, for now most media & content is ruled/dominated by secular views and all the TV shows / films involve pre-marital sex, endless men leading women to lust & Sin, nowadays some women even become a lot more perverted than the men as the Christian apologist in the late 1800s and early 1900s Chesterton feared would happen with Chesterton's fence "Don't take down a fence unless you know why it was put up" men were supposed to save 10s of millions of young women from the pits of hades not guiding themselves & their "girlfriends" which there's no such word in the Bible, and the term girl friend is an oxymoron since men & women can't be "Friends" in the way they think.
Most people do not have that option to get married or have kids, not even relationships. Only very little will have. Thats just how it is and people need to wake up to that fact that nearly all will have a miserable, sad and lonely life.
This is all stuff I’d love to see culture find its way back too-but you’re out of touch in your own violently mistaken way if you don’t see the need to do more to address the current foundation most people are already ensconced in. This ivory tower style of naively zealous idealism makes not even the slightest practical attempt to bridge what is with what should be-leaving those who try to blindly transition without a good plan unwittingly doomed much of the time. We must be wise as serpents in this world of wolves. Like, I’m happy for you guys, and what you’ve got going on in your province-but the rest of society’s gonna need some radical revival before it can implement the guidance you’re laying down on paper. Get what I mean? Are you in touch with how degenerate things are out here? I don’t think you are. And so such advice, though well-intentioned, could unwittingly lead most young men into a meat grinder out in this beast system.
I think you're just coping. "Know the truth and the truth shall set you free" so there's nothing wrong with telling the truth even if someone isn't quite ready to receive it immediately
I totally agree. These talks are all with good intentions, but is blinded to the reality of the world we live in now.. Marriage is not for everyone and we can’t force that. Marriage is not the only end-game of man. He has other responsibilities & roles to play in the society. And even without marriage, it doesn’t make him less of a man.
There is someting that i dissagree highly in concer of women having to be obidient no metter what. It is a total missrepresentation of Biblical law and shows it in an unjust light. 1st Eve was a gift from God to Adam, so a wife is also considered a gift from God. But a wife must be obidient to the Husband only if He is obidient to God. Womens job is to correct the men and to guide him is he is going against Gods will. She cannot listen to their husbands if they are going against God. The only reason we have authority is when God is the leader of the house. There is no blind obidience in CHristianity everything is build on Love, Trust. If a man is a sinner no wife should listen to her husbands
A women's job is to be obedient to her husband period. Just like her husband's job is to love her like Christ loved the church period. How much I love my wife doesn't depend on her love to me, and how much she respects me doesn't depend on my respect to her. We love and respect each other based on Christ's example, even when the other doesn't reciprocate. Jesus was tortured and died a criminal's death for me, so how could I (or my wife) be justified in a lack of love "because he/she doesn't deserve it." The whole point of the Gospel is that we don't deserve it. Ps I'm not talking about abuse or other extreme situations like that. That's a terrible thing I wouldn't wish on anyone
@@milankurienov6768 Did you read my comment? I said that a wife mut listen to her Husband if He is listening to Christ. And Her job is to make sure He is in fact following Christ. And if He doesnt Not she should either correct him or in fact stop listening to him. Coz Church is Listening to Jesus coz they Now Jesus is Faithful to them. We have a relationship with God, not a slave contract. We are only Human if we are connected in Holy Matrimony. But if the Man is not listeing to God he has no right is requireing obidience from His Wife
@MilesDei95 that's why man never requires obedience from his wife, God requires that. Not blind obedience, of course, but obedience nevertheless. She isn't going to help him commit a murder but she can't refuse to follow his lead in a financial decision for example. And this isn't because of how good the man is, but because of how good the wife is. God calls wives to submit, not to evaluate their husbands' success in their role and basing your submission off of that. The same applies for men. I am to love her no matter how much my wife refuses to submit to me or even doesn't love me in return. Both of us do it out of obedience to God, not to each other. Even if one fails, the other doesn't falter.
@@milankurienov6768 In general she can refuse even in finacial stuff if it has evil nature. But i see you got my point that in the vid the guy said Wife must listen no metter what even if the man is doing wrong and i was in oppositioon to that and i see we understand each other in this and agree. Have a wonderfull day Sir and My God be with you always
all self improvement content has become sectarian narcissists looking for followers without criteria to manipulate now combine it with religion and indoctrination, it is dangerous we are creating a generation of egocentrics without self thought
all self improvement content has become sectarian narcissists looking for followers without criteria to manipulate now combine it with religion and indoctrination, it is dangerous we are creating a generation of egocentrics without self thought
Bro I love how your platform has grown and progressed , to God be the glory
You are not making videos, you are saving lives. May God bless you forever.
Well said💙🙏
Amazing vision and great content from a man that lives by example and has the ability to create greatness🙏
May GOD Protect him always💙🙏
“Every man knows this intrinsically” so true.
Once I saw this truth of God’s order of creation I realized I always knew it.
God is good.
Although it’s a good message, our only identity is in Christ. A marriage won’t fix our identity issues
Dang I love this production quality! And looking spiffy. I will watch the growth of this channel with great interest :)
"We Need To Speak Up About What Is Normal"
Word...
I've been here since a long while, and it's amazing to see you grow and focus on God. That it very inspiring. I think you'd definitely like an interview with Fr. Moses, an orthodox christian bodybuilder.
Don't stop these videos. it's a huge blessing
Unfortunately, not all people are meant to be married. It’s not just about indentity crisis. Marriage is not the end game for everyone. Every man has a role to play in the society. And a man who’s not married doesn’t make him any less of a man. If he does get married, and that’s his calling, it’s his duty to head the family. But being “the head” doesn’t necessarily mean just entering marriage. A man for example who lost his parents at a young age, could still be the head of his bereaved family. Can step up for his siblings, etc. A man in government position, is also a head & still be the father figure of a country. Having said that, a man is not only defined by having or establishing his roots of just having his own family.
All Glory to The Father, The Son, And Holy Spirit. Amen!
Im loving this series, thank you!
This guy needs to get on a call with Undead Chronic , he's also christian but speaking out against marriage - i would love to see the two debating
It seems strange to say someone is a Christian but speaks out against marriage. That's analogous to being a frog and speaking out against water. Marriage is a covenantal rite created by God - I don't understand why anyone who calls himself a follower of Christ would be against something that God establishes. That's not to say that everyone should marry or must marry. There are exceptions. But to be against marriage as a concept is a little unreasonable.
@@adalynnlanette6193 he's not against marriage itself, it's marriage in the USA and in this time, where feminists have such power and just cheat on men left and right.
@@adalynnlanette6193 I would agree with you but undead chronic makes some fair points too. You should check him out yourself to get a better understanding
I can only speak for myself: I am not afraid of marriage and I would love to get married. I do not have a call to celibacy, yet all I have ever gotten from Christian women is rejection. In my case, I have exhausted all the means at my disposal for trying to find a wife and I have accepted that I will be single for life. I do not know why God has ordained things this way for me because if is dreadful and depressing to my soul.
Scheereddzz looking extra sharp in that suit i gotta say
I love the intro
A man sitting cross legged looks so wrong nowdays for me. My wife pointed it out to me, how feminin this looks.
😂
I grew up around old people when I was young and I seen many of those masculine men sat with a leg crossed. I'm not saying this speaker is masculine though.
Too feminine bro, chokes out & crushes these big o' nuts and weiner
Your wife is abnormal
Yo this was so informative. Thank you guys!
I'm 22 and feel like I'm not ready for marriage because I am not the godly man that God wants me to be. I also don't know how to lead or provide. I have a lot to work on since I am way behind in life for my age.
Trust me if you’re 22, you’re still good for a decade 😂👍
You’re not behind that’s the point of your young 20s. Establishing yourself.
I love these videos bro!!!!!!!
All of that is great, and it could be very true, but none of that matters, because there’s no such thing as marriage, in a society that has invalidated it through family courts. A woman can promise not to take them up on their offer, but at any point she can change her mind.
Would love to see you become Orthodox bro.
This is so good! Makes me think.
Excellent video! Keep it going! We definitely need strong Godly man!
Or become a monk, some have the monastic calling. But you gotta discern with your priest about such topics. Staying alone is not good. God said this in Genesis.
8:53, us Orthodox do believe marriage is eternal. We do not do vows and we do not say till death due us part.
Jesus said in heaven you are not married nor are given in marriage.
@@kaisalis7895 That was in response to the Pharisees asking a gotcha question trying to bait Jesus into saying the woman in the example would be having sex with multiple men in heaven.
Jesus' reply is pointing out that the earthly purpose of marriage is not needed in heaven. There will be no sex or procreation.
But there is one aspect of marriage that is eternal: “Love never ends” (1 Cor. 13:8). St. John Chrysostom reminds us that married Christians are known to be such in the Judgment and in the Kingdom. We will recognize and delight in our spouses and in our children. We will be restored, not to marriage, but to something better, a union of souls, rather than bodies, a union that begins in marriage and reaches a far more sublime condition.
@@taco564 Yes in heaven you will recognize your spouse and children, but you will not be married anymore. You will be as brothers and sisters in Christ. Earthly marriage ends at the moment of death or rapture.
Marriage isn't needed to be in a successful relationship. Marriage can put added strain on most people.
One of the most based human beings i've ever heard💪🏻✝️
Not very smart
@@donaldodonaldomata9966 based af
@@Julisthetics For a mononeuronal who bases his beliefs on fairy tales I guess
@@donaldodonaldomata9966 even if made up still based
Jesus and the apsotles weren't married though
At least some of the apostles were married. Matthew 8:14 talks about Peter's mother-in-law (his wife's mother). 1 Corinthians 9:5 discusses the right to have a believing wife as the other apostles do (implying that other apostles have wives).
An important distinction to make: JESUS is the only one who can "restore society" and it's not going to happen on this side of Heaven. Only when God establishes a new and eternal creation will anything be "restored". The important this to be weary of is that we should not be tempted by pride to think it is our duty or even within our power to "restore society"
I’ve been waiting for part 2, let’s fucking gooo 🔥💪
bro, don't make a habit of using harsh words
He’s evolving
Having your legs crossed like a woman is an oxymoron
Simple answer to your menial question. Eve chose the apple, that is why.
Adam didn’t stop her.
@@Scheereddzz Adam wasn't permitted to control freedom of choice. That is why he followed suit. This world is an illusion do not fall prey to its grandeur.
Peter Leithart, in _Theopolitan Reading_, points out that Adam was told to guard the Garden, and that the presence of the evil serpent was a sign of Adam's failure to guard the Garden. 🤯 @@Scheereddzz
Indeed, remember God actually expects all men to lead women away from temptation / self destruction ... this was shown in the first story about Adam / Eve turning to dust at the end of life due to Sin & among other Stories in the Bible like with Noah protecting his (Tribe) his family, the people he's connected to the most from the Flood (Divine Judgement) that will inevitably come, instead of getting lost in the sea of the herd of people mindlessly going the wrong way into loving Sin above God then falling into divine judgement, you can be the one family like Noah to not glamorize & run deep into chasing Sin, although we all still have a sinful nature until the full law is written into our hearts, Noah was a very righteous man favored by God & if he did fall into Sin he would've repented.
God expects men to be the spiritually stronger sex and to allow their women to tap into their strength, it is said that when men & women are joined together in the correct way "he becomes her strength, and she becomes his weakness" ... he doesn't will anything bad to happen to her or their offspring so can tap fully into all his divine power in his selfless agape love for her, the power of love is the power of God.
Since women are more easily deceived / likely to fall into temptations & Sin then the natural order for every civilization should be for all Men to submit to God / Jesus Christ first, when no man desires promiscuous or unchaste & impure women we've seen time & time again how quickly women all respond to male desire & the male gaze so we see the return of more feminine women.
Women respond to what men are attracted to, the surveys have gone from the vast vast majority of 18 - 22 yo young men expecting virgin brides on their wedding day in the early 1900s to mid 1950s, to less than 5% by the late 1990s and less than 1% to this day... I hope there's a great revival in Gen Z & Gen Alpha, for now most media & content is ruled/dominated by secular views and all the TV shows / films involve pre-marital sex, endless men leading women to lust & Sin, nowadays some women even become a lot more perverted than the men as the Christian apologist in the late 1800s and early 1900s Chesterton feared would happen with Chesterton's fence "Don't take down a fence unless you know why it was put up" men were supposed to save 10s of millions of young women from the pits of hades not guiding themselves & their "girlfriends" which there's no such word in the Bible, and the term girl friend is an oxymoron since men & women can't be "Friends" in the way they think.
this guy has a history of lying about his background
Dale?
@@milankurienov6768 Yeah
you're jealous
@@paceprinceI’m sorry. I just don’t appreciate hypocrisy.
Agreed
Most people do not have that option to get married or have kids, not even relationships. Only very little will have. Thats just how it is and people need to wake up to that fact that nearly all will have a miserable, sad and lonely life.
This is all stuff I’d love to see culture find its way back too-but you’re out of touch in your own violently mistaken way if you don’t see the need to do more to address the current foundation most people are already ensconced in. This ivory tower style of naively zealous idealism makes not even the slightest practical attempt to bridge what is with what should be-leaving those who try to blindly transition without a good plan unwittingly doomed much of the time. We must be wise as serpents in this world of wolves.
Like, I’m happy for you guys, and what you’ve got going on in your province-but the rest of society’s gonna need some radical revival before it can implement the guidance you’re laying down on paper. Get what I mean? Are you in touch with how degenerate things are out here? I don’t think you are. And so such advice, though well-intentioned, could unwittingly lead most young men into a meat grinder out in this beast system.
I think you're just coping. "Know the truth and the truth shall set you free" so there's nothing wrong with telling the truth even if someone isn't quite ready to receive it immediately
I totally agree. These talks are all with good intentions, but is blinded to the reality of the world we live in now.. Marriage is not for everyone and we can’t force that. Marriage is not the only end-game of man. He has other responsibilities & roles to play in the society. And even without marriage, it doesn’t make him less of a man.
There is someting that i dissagree highly in concer of women having to be obidient no metter what. It is a total missrepresentation of Biblical law and shows it in an unjust light. 1st Eve was a gift from God to Adam, so a wife is also considered a gift from God. But a wife must be obidient to the Husband only if He is obidient to God. Womens job is to correct the men and to guide him is he is going against Gods will. She cannot listen to their husbands if they are going against God. The only reason we have authority is when God is the leader of the house. There is no blind obidience in CHristianity everything is build on Love, Trust. If a man is a sinner no wife should listen to her husbands
A women's job is to be obedient to her husband period. Just like her husband's job is to love her like Christ loved the church period. How much I love my wife doesn't depend on her love to me, and how much she respects me doesn't depend on my respect to her. We love and respect each other based on Christ's example, even when the other doesn't reciprocate. Jesus was tortured and died a criminal's death for me, so how could I (or my wife) be justified in a lack of love "because he/she doesn't deserve it." The whole point of the Gospel is that we don't deserve it.
Ps I'm not talking about abuse or other extreme situations like that. That's a terrible thing I wouldn't wish on anyone
@@milankurienov6768 Did you read my comment? I said that a wife mut listen to her Husband if He is listening to Christ. And Her job is to make sure He is in fact following Christ. And if He doesnt Not she should either correct him or in fact stop listening to him. Coz Church is Listening to Jesus coz they Now Jesus is Faithful to them. We have a relationship with God, not a slave contract. We are only Human if we are connected in Holy Matrimony. But if the Man is not listeing to God he has no right is requireing obidience from His Wife
@MilesDei95 that's why man never requires obedience from his wife, God requires that. Not blind obedience, of course, but obedience nevertheless. She isn't going to help him commit a murder but she can't refuse to follow his lead in a financial decision for example. And this isn't because of how good the man is, but because of how good the wife is. God calls wives to submit, not to evaluate their husbands' success in their role and basing your submission off of that. The same applies for men. I am to love her no matter how much my wife refuses to submit to me or even doesn't love me in return. Both of us do it out of obedience to God, not to each other. Even if one fails, the other doesn't falter.
@@milankurienov6768 In general she can refuse even in finacial stuff if it has evil nature. But i see you got my point that in the vid the guy said Wife must listen no metter what even if the man is doing wrong and i was in oppositioon to that and i see we understand each other in this and agree. Have a wonderfull day Sir and My God be with you always
@@MilesDei95he didn't say that, but I understand where you're coming from. Have a blessed day
🤣 🤷♀️
What a bunch of baloney.
It’s alright bro she’s not going to see this
@@cabbage9412God will though
Just like what you did your whole life, Get a Life ! GBU
This guy sounds like a cult leader from the 1970's.
Or just a normal Christian 1890.
He's not a cult, just a cope. It's over. the only way this ends is a big, blazing dumpster..
all self improvement content has become sectarian narcissists looking for followers without criteria to manipulate now combine it with religion and indoctrination, it is dangerous we are creating a generation of egocentrics without self thought
So based then ?
all self improvement content has become sectarian narcissists looking for followers without criteria to manipulate now combine it with religion and indoctrination, it is dangerous we are creating a generation of egocentrics without self thought
cringe
I've listened to this twice today and I think Ill get an engagment ring when I save some money ✝️💪 Bring back The STRING CHRISTIAN MAN