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- Insight on one of the main reasons the narcissist comes running back you you. When they actually realize they have lost their power over you - they panic.
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Spot On Telsha! The discard, is when we take our power back from the narcissists. And, they can't stand that part.
You are so right. I took my power back , listen whew…. What day it has been 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽Narc free about 5 months now
SHE MADE ME FEEL BETTER SAYING THAT 🤭
They are true lessons and they have no power
No nun
If y’all can, change your number. That destroys them 4ever!!! Now they are powerless for real 💯
Address. They’ll pop up with no hesitation.
@ Jaslyn
Yeah that part !! I changed addresses too..
He’s got no car or money for transportation now. He’s stuck in his little trash town with a trash supply. Changed my number😊 all he can do is watch me online from fake accounts. 😂
@@Summermoon7. 🤣
I had the phone company block them, so they get a message and none of their calls or text messages can come through and I didn't have to change my number. I also don't ever answer my phone for any of the Google numbers or any numbers that they call from.
You described the characteristics perfectly: very controlling low self esteem, self loathing and zero empathy. A true narcissist will seek to divide, conquer and destroy:
women
friendships
families
towns
corporations and even countries in the pursuit of absolute power. Very dangerous men.
People in general not just men.
Very dangerous women as well!
YOU JUST DESCRIBED THAT N😅ARCISSISTIC donald toddler. THAT IS EXACTLY WHAT HE INTENDS ON DOING.IF HE GETS BACK IN PFFICE.
They sure do know we hold the power. They can act crazy. All day long, they know we're the light.
Factssss
Thank You For The Realness‼️And God’s Word ‼️You’re Looking Beautiful🌺
@Eva Thacker thank you, love, to God be the glory. He is our light and truth. Blessings, sista! ⚘️✨️🤍🙏
Interestingly enough, they want the power to control your mind. spirit and soul AND YET THEY DON’T HAVE THE ABILITY, EMOTIONAL STABILITY AND MENTAL FORTITUDE TO CONTROL THEMSELVES because Narcissist are really cowards! They’d have to have courage to look within to self-disciplined.
Facts Ms.Telsha My first 4 months of no contact, here she comes knocking on my door. I just looked through the blinds and kept moving. My anniversary of no contact is 2 years now ( 2/21/2023). Last month she sent a message to me from one of my family members. Wanted me to know a neighbor that we were friends with died. He was a good neighbor but the plot was she thought I would call and break no contact. I told my family member he was a good neighbor and left it like that. The ill part is my family member got mad because I didn't respond to her. Now of course I backed away from that family member. They tried to come back, but I can't unseen what I already seen. Thanks Ms. Telsha 💯🙏🏿🙏🏿💯.
Your the boss. Good job with boundaries.👍🙌🙏
@@livingforfree2 Thanks FanGirl 🙏🏿💯
Wooow I’ve seen you comment on vids over the past few years and I’m so glad that you’re 2 years free! Always remember the light and not the darkness 🌟
@@Summermoon7. Thank you Summer moon 💯💯💯 Blessings to you.
He told me “you don’t need me- I need you “. How can u abuse someone you need.. they are mentally slow too. Best he ever had now I gone 3 yrs NC . Loving it..❤️
So happy for you! I am so happy too! 4 years out and God is restoring my life in such a beautiful way! Living my best life for the Lord!
Going on 9 years for me no contact, and he still acts the fool...hoovering periodically, sending 🐒🙈🙊🐵flying monkeys around trying to encamp me in different places, even going to, coming from and at church too(do you believe that?!?)and I know each and every time and avoid them! I wish that I had known this 12 years ago when I first met that demon...Telsha just said if you get them in the love bomb stage..it’s up for them. I would have cut that clown 🤡 off the 1st. day we met..no lie!! You live and learn! Better late than never though.
@@patriciawilson7744 I hear you !!
Yes! To the No Contact! 2 years No Contact and 3 Years out!
I didn't know you knew my narc husband lol
Right on, T. Mine said to me, he couldn’t understand why he was leaving me or treating me horribly. He didn’t want to leave and wanted to go to therapy but didn’t know what was happening. Now I pray around him when he hoovers. One time I said he had demons around him and his whole body recoiled.
Trigger alert: I watched my ex contort his face one evening. He tried to emotionally hurt me and I ended it. He showed up at my house to beg my forgiveness. It was pure evil. His voice changed and couldn’t pronounce words, as if he hadn’t yet learned how to talk. His one eye brow actually touched the top of his forehead. He looked around slowly in my living room like he was seeing for the first time. Moving his head back and forth in slow motion. I started praying immediately. I knew I was witnessing demonic possession.
Since that day, my ex went down a very twisted road that I can’t share all here but it’s been sad to watch and to see him losing the fight. Nor can I fight that fight for or with him.
You’re spot on, T. This is not always a mental disorder but something much more sinister.
Praise be to God you got out stay strong. Mines is doing some evil stuff and changing his voice it's crazy. He breeds deep and mumbles in his sleep. Then wakes up saying evil things. And wakes me and the kids up every morning because that demon won't let us sleep right. It's been getting worse this year. Don't know what to do but pray the Narc away! My Anxiety is on another level, can't eat stomach hurts, no sleep, my body aches etc... while the house is so quiet you can hear the pin drop. Bad headaches no one is happy I barely smile anymore. He tries to take the little light I have left! Trying to focus on God is hard but I will stay prayed up in Jesus name Amen!
@@dorib.3367 I had to pray my way out. I’m still being attacked and somehow I have to contact him about the most ridiculous things. When they have a hold of you (demonic forces) they don’t want to let go. Stay strong, ask god to get you out and do whatever you have to, to be strong. I’ll be praying for you. 🙏🏼
@Stella thank you im Sending prayers your way as well. Stay strong in Jesus name.
I'd move if I could. Y'all please pray for me. Thank You Telsha for all you do on this channel.
May god bless and keep us 🙏
@cindykrista Me too. Narc ghosted me 18 months ago. He had done it before but came back within a few months. He must be with his new supply. Blessings and good luck to you, cindykrista.
Amen
Prayer Works 4r4r
@@dyoung2739 Thanks!!
Yes indeed. This fool told me we need to work on improving our relationship, by going out on dates; go to movies, go out to eat, etc., meanwhile we’re currently getting a divorce, which he says we should continue with but also date each other at the same time. He also threw in that he doesn’t think I should be worried about getting a lawyer that we can work out an agreement ourselves without a lawyer. Yeah okay, like I’m supposed to be that stupid. He’s already filed things for the divorce trying to control where I can live after the divorce and refused to even give me the paperwork he filed. I ended up getting it through a lawyer I contacted and he thinks I want to date him while simultaneously getting a divorce. It’s laughable.
Ugh more control
Straight delulu
Mine told me today that I'm basically stuck with him until I die. He is not going for Divorce, and expects me to take all the pain that he dished out to me and expects me to forgive and forget. He told me that he is higher than God, Omnipresent, and knows all. The scariest thing he has told me in 15 years
Get rid of that dusty demon !!!
This sounds more like a psychopath. They’re all narcissists. Be safe. If you leave, make sure you protect yourself. I’ll keep you in my prayers. 🙏🏼
Get out
Leave But safely secretly pack things you will need in a bag. Put money away Your life is more important. If the Narc shows you their true colors believe it.
Hope you don't believe that!!
You are spot on!!! This explains the hoover on his bday 3 mos after he married. Last month I received a call from his accountability friends wife. I blocked EERRBODY after the discard. I didnt care who they were, nice or not, no connection is the greatest connection! Love bomb that! Ms. T, your makeup is 🔥🔥!
No connection the greatest connection 🥂
Thanks for another great video 👏🏾. The discard is often impulsive and after meditating on it then the hoover returns. Just keep it moving ❤️
This!…the discard IS impulsive!
Bottom line. NARCISSISTS. Want thier cake and eat it too. The Power is letting someone go that hurts you over and over again. It's literally Just Cut Then OFF. They will never change. 5 years a victim. No more . Cut them off. I HAVE NEVER BEEN HAPPIER.
NOW U R A SURVIVOR
Big facts 💯💯, it’s up after you literally see them try to rush and panic into that love bombing realm. EVERYTHING about them is literally a circus show
100% he once told me that he needs to have control😩these people are very dangerous and will try to destroy everything🙏🏽
Mine never came back.thank God!👍👏
She said she wanted my heart, body and soul 😮😂
Mine said the same thing. Well he will be ok he can now get with all the women he says are waiting in line to take my place
Ohhh nooo!
@🤍CaliGirl yes right where they at now! smh there pathetic!
Yes. It is about your SOUL. The dark side likes to collect souls.
Simply put the narcissist only comes back because of circumstances! Their not coming back to correct their wrongs! They don't work on themselves because they don't look within it's always someone else's fault! Think about it. 🤔 They only try and come back to you for their own selfish lust. Leave these kind of people alone you better than that! I know you are because you looking at this video getting the knowledge.
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THE GREAT PRETENDERS
Couldn't have said it no better Chris, exactly
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Your makeup is on point Telsha. Looking so beautiful
OMG……. my ex narc said it to me atleast 3 times when i asked what he wanted from me he said my “soul”……. when you said that CHILLS RAN DOWN MY SPINE. i am creeped out!!!
THE NARC TOLD ME HE WAS A REAL ONE HUNNY I STARTED HOLLRING.. I SAID BYE DUCK CAUSE YOU NEEDED ME I NEVER NEEDED YOU LETS MAKE IT CLEAR.💯💯 OMG YES HE TOLD HE WANTED ME FOREVER NO SIR.. I AM THE REAL FLEX NO CONTACT FAMILY ❤❤ I ROCKS WITH YOU TELSHA ALWAYS 🥰🥰
Mine kept trying to come back by calling and texting in which I ignored. I went ahead and helped him out by blocking him. Access denied!
When I wouldn't give her the emotions she wanted during the discard it was very scary. I was thinking after 24 years, "Who is this person?". Thought it was Satan itself. I held my ground till she left and for me to pick up the pieces.
After 20 years she divorced and discarded me. I too was looking at her like who is this person? Then I saw the black eyes and the demonic smirk and no more was needed for me I was done!
He said while he was drunk “ if I can’t control you then I don’t want “ they’re so sick and evil 🤮🤮
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The narcissist are my Auntie and her daughter who have never liked me and anytime I say something about it to my sister she says I’m too sensitive. For a long time I tried to please them but they still didn’t like me. There were times I felt empty and restless because I didn’t stand up for myself. They both enjoyed pushing me around and disrespecting me which made others do the same. They didn’t stop until I started going no contact. Now because the job opportunities in my country is very limited and their son and brother is abroad they claim they want him to come for me which is definitely another reason for them to mistreat me. Lord I’m praying with all you give me a helper. Please if anyone can help me I’d be really grateful.
You are soo gorgeous !!! I love the look ! Love you and thank you 🙏 forever !!!! For all the help you have given me and us all here in the communities!!!!
We were married 18 years, I've been asking him for divorce since 2014 and for the last 9 years he was in and out bc I didn't know about narcissists,he used to tell me 'I want you',the last 3 years he wanted his 'family' and his new supply. He postponed the divorce court 3 times but finally I'm waiting for the court decision, I only care about my boys.Thank you T!
I also learned that they will fight over great A supply great message
Wow Queen What a Beauty you are! Thank you so much for the work that you do it is becoming one of my life lines🙏🏾❤
FACTS!! My ex told me that he needs my mental SMH
The Devil is a Lier!, All Day!, EveryDay!, But T!, You Are An Extremely Beautiful Black Queen!, & You Are Definitely The TRUTH!, DAT PART!, I wished I knew You personally!, Keep doing GOD'S WORK! Peace & Blessings!
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When I asked The Narcissist What He Wanted With Me He Said What Do I Want With Him I Was Done SMH
You are radiant!
Thank you for always sharing your wisdom and encouraging words! Happy Sunday 😊
Wow, you are beautiful! Glowing skin.🌹🌹🌹
My goodness someone looks pretty today, and it sure ain't me lol😁 I 💖 your content, you keep me going strong, tysm!
Gorgeous and anointed....a whole gift..that's our sis 💕🙏
Thank you. Such wisdom! Many aha moments!!😁🙏
Omg yes he literally said he wanted my soul
U CAN'T HAVE MY SOUL
literally same here… i’m
creeped out!!!
Thanks for the information and the encouragement .
She told me one time that she was the Devil and was laughing hysterically.
And I was a fool when I married her brother 🤣🤣🤣
Thank you T for giving us game shout out to ex narc
Uprooting power grids! Boom 💥
He said he wanted to always know me. He just told me he has someone so I am hoping he just moves on
I feel you "momma " !
Hey sista T
This Cali snow has you glowing with that Holy-exfoliation😊😊.
Your on point the LoonytuneNarc I just ranaway from said,” the devil in him” “ he wanted all there souls “”he was the Amit-Christ” “the hell in him”
These were things he said in separate conversations when he was mad at someone for something they didn’t do for him
Right on!!!
Absolutely!!!
He told me he wanted my soul to hurt.
Wow that's the same thing my man tells me
Great message! Thank you.
Yea, you betta know it...Yes indeed
CONTROL! What "seemed" like protective at first in fact was all about 24/7 control. I have been no contact now for 4 months and feel so much better. We all know there is a spectrum or degree if you will. I would really like it if you did a video of what I consider to be the most subtle, intelligent and malignant type - the "shy" convert, very quiet and CRUEL. Yes, there were "cracks" that I now understand why this type can NOT keep it all a front at all times. The gut knowing something was off. The very few times the dark came through the cracks. Who immediately thinks what it is? Now I do not need to know what it is, if something is OFF, it is OFF. Additionally, I gave allowance as he only speaks one language. The "love bomb" period was 8 months and overnight that changed. And, no, he was NEVER physically abusive. I did not know that this character even had a name (Narc/psycopath). Now I know. Call it what you will. He was in my country 8 months and home 4 months each year. Total time was three seasons here with me and two Winters (4 months) in his country. Perfect for a double/triple/ . . . life.
HEY HEY MS.TELSHA you looking beautiful queen awesome message as usually
Very Good Telisha, I just called old him, over the phone u r mad and unhappy!
Now I know why I discarded him, however I speak to him regarding medical appointments or if he needs to Mk repairs on my home
Did not see this as the narc was already cheating and had new supply lines up she is the total pkg he said and ONLY wants to be friends THATS A BIG NO
Thank you Sis! You look beautiful today! Pink suits you well! Love ya!🙏🏽💖💖👑🕊️
You look so beautiful!
Lol...Amen Again 🙏 keep shining BRIGHT ✨️ QUEEN***JESUS IS LORD*** ✝️
Praise God Sis...have a blessed day...stay no contact ..peace❤️🕯🙏🏼🕊
Thank God for the strength to get rid of this demon in my life before it was too late. Good riddance to bad blood/energy. I have peace now, no more walking on eggshells
Thank you 😁
Looking fabulous as usual… praise God for this message. 🙏🏼😊
I feel you mama's
Factz every word
All facts!
I’m saving to move. I got 2 grand to go. Mind you I help with half the rent. Don’t even have a key. So saving is tough. On disability income. I’m almost there. He is physically abusive as well I’m tired of fighting. I hate it here
Praying
Amazing video as always Telsha + your Make Up is wow!! 😍👌👌👌
Well said yeah bless u.
You look stunning beautiful
You look very lovely
So true I brought the life source to my ex clown. He will never learn or get help. 9 months Narc Free. Heard he distabluzed months ago. Don't care the divorce has started after he has evaded since November 2022. Ready to be free from this bird! HE LOST GREAT A SUPPLY !!!
You’re right ❤
You look so pretty!!! 💖
Another spot on message...thx Ms. Tea
Always thanks Sister. I went no contact with all their family and friends.
Your info is priceless and u are spot on with all your say.Blessings to u!!!
You are so beautiful - thank you for the message
I asked, what do you want from me, and he said NOTHING!!
Yes ma'am this double breasted sloth with combat boots, told me he wanted all three, my mind body and soul. Smh
One more helpful video
Ur make up is on Fleek Sisss. All Glory and Honor to JEHOVAH GOD ABBA 4 U in thee Mighty name of KING JESUS 💘💕😘 lead and guide us Most High thru the Holy Spirit 🙏 Amen Amen Amen
You look gorgeous! Great content as usual...blessings
Telsa . . . that face (in this case, pronounced "fatch) is BEAT 💋💄👸🏽 😘 to the 7th Heaven 🌌🌠!!
YES QUEEN! So much truth as always! 👏👏👏
Praying 🙏 for mercy peace hope forgiveness mercy healing love safety prosper joyful in the name of Jesus great timing praying 🙏
Idk wtf I did tbh. Clueless. After all that BS tho? What is it...
He blacked and so did his family it's crazy
Wow!!!!! A powerful message
YESSSSSS! 🤍
I love your Chanel .. and your gorgeous 🤩
Yeah, I was onto him after all the narcissistic nonsense that was obvious. I finally had enough and asked him… “what do you want?” He literally said “I want your SOUL” omg I looked at him like the dog he was in that moment. Nah bruh, all the “love 💣 bombs” in the world couldn’t turn me around. He had the audacity to actually say it 🤔💭 Well… 😇🔥🙌🏾🔥 don’t have to tell me twice! I’m OUT! 😏✌🏾 That was a waste of 2 years online. Good thing it wasn’t physical but it was definitely felt.
Hello Ms. Telsha. 🤗 Good to see you today via video! 💯 I'm glad you stepped in to give us some of your sunshine.🔥 It's radiant and invigorating. Also always a pleasure. I was just about to check to see if you were ok. I think this message rings true. Things fell apart in the love bomb stage with the narcissist I dealt with years ago as she was putting me through her crap test/ abuse tolerance test. I reacted and never the less it caused her narc injury. She discarded me after that and I never heard from her again in years, she turned on me completely. When they turn it's a wrap. Smh new creature smh So that's true about them. I just get suspicious messages every now and then that are mean and insulting, or sexually explicit messages thats letting me know what I'll never get again 😂 and I think it's her 😂. Smh
Hello!! Can you make a video what’s happens when you catch them cheating and expose them… how do they feel and do they still Hoover? Even if his with his new supply thank you!! I’m stuck on this 😢
I can answer that one - the answer is Yes they will Hoover , but here’s the thing . Go silence , stop talking you really don’t need any explanation or closure- He knows what he did. When you go silent, don’t give a damn. That destroys them - they’ll come back just to see what’s going on with YOU- but listen, when they come back do not allow it- ! Cheating is a form of disrespect… let your ACTIONS speak through your SILENCE.
It’s powerful and you win, let him stay with her it won’t last long .
Fall back and stay busy .. you’ll see..
@@browneyes9507 thank you I really needed this because I’m so depressed overthinking everything and feel jealous he threw 7 years for someone that was married to his friend and cuz a divorce and she took my partner away feeling all sorts of things no one understands
@@elenacampos9610 trust n believe he will regret that- don’t look at it like “ she took my partner away “. What you will see is KARMA will destroy them both. Try doing a hobby to stay busy. Do volunteering work with ppl who are in need, you will get grateful..
@@browneyes9507 yes I will, thanks for the kind words it’s nice to hear this from the outside ….. I’ve been to church everyday for the last 40 days and it helps but I’ve been really down looking into therapy
@@elenacampos9610 these videos helped me so much- look for other narcissistic videos … I could tell you my best sellers but it’ll be inappropriate to do so here lol. This how I found out just scrolling through my phone and found exactly what I was dealing with. That was GOD leading me there cuz I see know there are hundreds men& women dealing with this. In therapy, you’ll get one on one but after that then what? A support group is key to healing ask any coach.
Please look for narcissism abuse /toxic relationships RUclips.. you’ll find ur story. Love ya❤️
They tried it but they have been deleted to lolololo goo away
Narc moved in with the NS he was cheating on me with. So he doesn't need me anymore. Nothing lost in his eye's
Until she finds out what he is about...he'll be back. They always do when he gets bored with her. Up to you if you will go their again.
@@esthero1994 thank you for responding, I appreciate you. She young, so I think she'll be easy to manipulate?
Any how, I'm not ever going back to that demon is disguise, I lived in hell for 9 years.
I've gotten so much closer to God, for that, I am so grateful 🙏 🙂
@@Healinglove 9 years Thank the Lord that's all it was,I did 10 🤦♀️. Either way we are free and learned the lesson. I think that's what matters. Easy to manipulate and probably has a low self worth. If they stay together for a while it means she has a high tolerance for abuse. Her problem now. The ns think she got the prize....I let her think that while I plot my escape. I feel sorry for her she knew he was married, but they eventually reap what they sow.
@@esthero1994, 10 year's? I felt that! I'm so happy you're out. Yes, a very hard lesson learned indeed! 🤯
Yeah, she knew he was married, I can't imagine all the lies he told her to make it seem "ok" for her to be with a "married" manchild. She look's like she has low self esteem. Initially I DID feel sorry for her, I don't anymore. The ex narc looks so terrible, face like a piece of leather, so strange. Yep, she got the "prize." Many blessings 🙌 🙏 ✨️ to you!
No,you have been shelfed, Narcs rarely truly discard.I bet she in not as half as special as you⚘️ are! A Narc's qualifications for new supply is some one they can use with vagina and pulse!
Facts SIs 🎉 🥂
You said it
You're so gorgeous 💕 Peace and blessings 🙏✝️
I've blocked him and gone no contact for the final time. I don't know his family. We're mainly friends. I've had everything but sex thank God!
I love this channel. 😭❤️
Looking so pretty ❤