I started praying almost daily about being a better father, husband and man. Ironically, not soon after, I found your channel. Your message resonates with me. Thank you.
I have 3 sons. I have been telling them that to achieve the goals that they want to reach, they have to work hard, do the best they can do, and make a great name for themselves. In this way people want to work with them or have them on their team. 👍🏾
I had to learn the hard way that one of the best ways to "make a great name for myself" was to be willing to humble myself and help others(when and where possible) to achieve their goals. I think could be called "social capital" and comes in handy when I need help doing something I want to get done, but can't do alone.
Hi Ryan , I’m 60 years old this past February and a business owner since 1986, your information is helpful and inspiring, it make you think and act, keep up the good work, thanks Jason
I wish I had grown up without MY father. Prolactin like being a child of divorce is the worst thing possible. No. Growing up in an abusive situation is way worse.
New to channel. Amazing and much needed content for men. For me cultivating, maturing and living with a healthy Mind, Body & Spirit is critical for maintaining my frame/centeredness as a successful man. When one of the three lapse my relationships at work, wife, family and friends become challenging. The voice of my ego takes over in unawareness making decisions that go against my values. Growing follower of Christ and now the Tao Te Ching (“change your thoughts change your life). Remaining centered, balanced and still allows for an uncluttered mind which in turn supports my objectives, goals and life’s plan God has laid before me. I naturally stand taller, speak less and with purpose, serve and lead without seeking reward. Great movement! Joining now
It also depends on the class of people you try to help, some people just don't want it and take advantage of others kindness and will keep taking until you have nothing left to give. Now don't take me wrong I like your advice and the ideas you present. So with that in mind keep up the good work, and thanks for the advice! Have A Great day
Not to long i have subscribe on this Channel. What I can say about this channel is that this man has a great knowledge that is transforming me to be a better man. Thank you Ryan. Apreciate it. Keep gaining wisdom and continue share it with us, men!!.
Ryan I can't tell you how much value your statements and messages mean to me personally. Growing up without a father and hearing your messages provide the support that I am raising my girls and son with the necessary tools needed to combat life! You hit the nail on the head. Keep pushing, thanks D.C.
Totally Agree with coming to your boss with a proposal to solve an issue. I was sent to set up a new warehouse in MO from CA. I had to learn several new things on my own. Talk and set up meetings and interviews with new employees and vendors. Ran the show for 3 months. Came back to CA and noticed I just fell back into line and was asking for permission for everything. Felt like I wasn't adding value.
Iam a man of value. Never been fired or laid off...and I work in the oil drilling industry...extremely volatile, I fix things and make things better for a living ,at work and at my home, always working hard, always helping family, friends and neighbors, I make 150k a year but live like I make 20. Iam handy, sociable, and fun. Iam strong, I compete in powerlifting but in the 183 class so Iam borderline jacked. Woman dont seem to find me valuable though. Your only valuable to women where I live if you have a neck tatoo
if trying to catch a woman's eye you have to stand out. how you dress is important. stand out from everyone else. it doesn't cost a ton of money to look nice. colors matching is important! also a good cologne is very important! go to a Macy's or Dillard's and test out colognes! don't go for cheap! a good cologne is 80 bucks! if your way isn't working.....try this....good luck!
As a Californian. My wife and I are contemplating leaving our state. This is being pushed on families, heavily. We are having to change the subject, fast-forward movies, and explain why they need to focus on school and not gender identification.
Awesome content brother. Really great points for those who lead. May God continue to bless those who lead....from work...to family...to leading oneself.
Proposal of a sol'n also frames the discussion as collaborative and in addition to offering value, shows that you see value in the other parties' view - even saying "I've thought about it and can't really see a solution yet, what do you think?" is enough to establish this frame. Great video! I love how these points emphasize that value is a communal property, not an intrinsic property - seeing the up/downside of interacting with you as a 3rd party and valuing how people experience you is the underlying current I see in these points. If they pass that bill, I hope the aisle is bare in every store.
I have been in workplace environments where I exhibited this trait of problem solving, but because of the toxic Machiavelli and work environment the supervisors became resentful. This is because the problems have always been known, and no one has fixed them for a specific reason but I was not aware of. Or it comes across as the boss looking bad because they didn't fix the problem. This occurred at a very large famous software company in Redmond Washington
Yeah, I feel like I've had short, similar phases in my job life within certain work cultures. All it ever felt like was hitting my head against a brick wall and making everyone mad around me. A sort of watered down "Jim Gordon"-esque situation. It's all about just being smart when you apply a solutions based approach with other people.
The boy scouts were a great organization that is now feminized and lost its way. We need to create new groups based on the original goal but start with many smaller localized groups at first for now until people realize it's important to learn to be a real man in this country again
I have a few older 1900s manuals that would be just as good for men now adays . They give great advise skills and insight on how we should live as spiritual patriotic men for any age.
You should think about trying to go on the Joe Rogan podcast. That would be a great networking power move, seeing as he's also a podcaster who has had many great and interesting men on his show.
I love this channel, but I think that the ridiculousness of the week is kind of problem oriented. It might be powerful because it is the kind of enraging degeneracy or idiocy, but I'd rather listen empowering news, more aligned with your channel.
A comment on "Don't ask, but Do..." People may have a plan for an activity and they might have the jobs divided up. If you come forward with "How can I help?" they can assign you a job they think you might be good at and tell you their plan. If you start acting and performing a job you think they require without informing them, you might discombobulate their plans or mess up a certain way they want a particular job to be performed. Something like preparing for a picnic, they need to prepare jello and meat. You start preparing jello and set it in the fridge to set, you take up a slot required for the meat to be preserved cold, but you might not have known this. But if the meat is prepared first, once its cooked it can be left out of the fridge for a bit while the jello sets, but the meat might have to be prepared in a special manner. There might be some cases where you know the business well enough and you CAN act without asking. In which case its also always good to keep your friend informed as to what you've done so they can keep track of and coordinate jobs.
Off topic, The hat. If i saw someone arriving wearing that while camping at a state park, I would make sure a shovel and a pail of water near the campfire. The fees paid.trash picked up. Lol.
IF YOU DON'T KNOW HOW TU HELP SOME TIMES YOU JUSTA CAN ASK FOR STICK ARROUND FOR A WHILE TO SEE WHAT YOU CAN DO. THIS IS HOW I GET MY ACTUAL JOB. I JUST ASK FOR AN OPORTUNITY I OFERT MY TALENTS AND I MAKE MYSELF A PLACE.
I'm 35 year old white boy in Hungary, so I don't understand this is this over forced or something else... When I was at kindergarden I had payed ironing and some home chore games like that so I can help Mom when I'm older. I'm consider also tree (my 9 year old niece is doing it all the time like I had done) climbing gender neutral game. Am I an idiot perhaps, but my understanding was there that if it beneficial for the family there is no gender.
You have some sound advice but when you start knocking the gender neutral stuff makes me question you. Who cares about gender neutral. There are masculine men and masculine women. Include everyone. There's alot of women who also listen to this. Let's get a united audience mind frame instead of a secluded one. Do appreciate it videos. Just would like to see less gender neutral bashing. Thanks ryan
Values befriend you with God because He created humanity to serve the needy and be grateful to God only then law of compensation of Nature brings peace and happiness all over the world
Actually I'm not gonna agree with your statement that children automatically choose as for boys the boy stuff and as for girls girl stuff. It's neither confirmed by studies, it just showing a spectrum of cognitive behaviours. How am I right? My doughter likes dolls, but fakk in love with lego, like also cooking stuff but show her hot wheels and she is gone for hours. For the rest of your video, I agree. Have a good day!
How does requiring gender-neutral isles in children sections of a store in a supposedly free country in any way represent freedom? Isn't that more like the opposite of freedom?
haha those gender neutral aisles are definitely not the most critical issue now at a time of crisis, are they?... those aisles probably don't even exist.
I started praying almost daily about being a better father, husband and man. Ironically, not soon after, I found your channel. Your message resonates with me. Thank you.
There's no irony; the Lord works through his people
I recently saw a quote from Albert that said something like “try not to become a man of success but rather try to become a man of value.”
I have 3 sons. I have been telling them that to achieve the goals that they want to reach, they have to work hard, do the best they can do, and make a great name for themselves. In this way people want to work with them or have them on their team. 👍🏾
Mike Jones that’s awesome ! One thing I wish my family encouraged was that it’s okay to fail , failing is part of the process to success .
I had to learn the hard way that one of the best ways to "make a great name for myself" was to be willing to humble myself and help others(when and where possible) to achieve their goals.
I think could be called "social capital" and comes in handy when I need help doing something I want to get done, but can't do alone.
Hi Ryan , I’m 60 years old this past February and a business owner since 1986, your information is helpful and inspiring, it make you think and act, keep up the good work, thanks Jason
❤ I'm afro Latina 48yr mother. I enjoy your segments & totally more aware about the world we're inn
I grew up without a father and I'm glad I found this 😆
Same!
I wish I had grown up without MY father. Prolactin like being a child of divorce is the worst thing possible.
No. Growing up in an abusive situation is way worse.
Charlie from Gilbert AZ here. Thank you Ryan, you are an inspiration. You are doing God's work.
God Bless You Brother!!!! Just what I needed to hear 🙏🏽
New to channel. Amazing and much needed content for men. For me cultivating, maturing and living with a healthy Mind, Body & Spirit is critical for maintaining my frame/centeredness as a successful man. When one of the three lapse my relationships at work, wife, family and friends become challenging. The voice of my ego takes over in unawareness making decisions that go against my values. Growing follower of Christ and now the Tao Te Ching (“change your thoughts change your life). Remaining centered, balanced and still allows for an uncluttered mind which in turn supports my objectives, goals and life’s plan God has laid before me. I naturally stand taller, speak less and with purpose, serve and lead without seeking reward. Great movement! Joining now
My triad is 1) Uncompromising Ethics 2) altruistic altitude and wish to serve family and community 3) emotional, intellectual, and professional skill.
It also depends on the class of people you try to help, some people just don't want it and take advantage of others kindness and will keep taking until you have nothing left to give. Now don't take me wrong I like your advice and the ideas you present. So with that in mind keep up the good work, and thanks for the advice! Have A Great day
Solutions oriented .... nailed it!!! Can't wait for the other four items.
I LOVE YOUR CONTENT, i suggest you go straight to the points often times
Great video always like learning these new skills that I can apply to my life and share with others we definetly need more men like you.
Not to long i have subscribe on this Channel. What I can say about this channel is that this man has a great knowledge that is transforming me to be a better man. Thank you Ryan. Apreciate it. Keep gaining wisdom and continue share it with us, men!!.
Ryan
I can't tell you how much value your statements and messages mean to me personally. Growing up without a father and hearing your messages provide the support that I am raising my girls and son with the necessary tools needed to combat life! You hit the nail on the head.
Keep pushing, thanks D.C.
Totally Agree with coming to your boss with a proposal to solve an issue. I was sent to set up a new warehouse in MO from CA. I had to learn several new things on my own. Talk and set up meetings and interviews with new employees and vendors. Ran the show for 3 months.
Came back to CA and noticed I just fell back into line and was asking for permission for everything. Felt like I wasn't adding value.
Great information Ryan. A home run!
Iam a man of value. Never been fired or laid off...and I work in the oil drilling industry...extremely volatile, I fix things and make things better for a living ,at work and at my home, always working hard, always helping family, friends and neighbors, I make 150k a year but live like I make 20. Iam handy, sociable, and fun. Iam strong, I compete in powerlifting but in the 183 class so Iam borderline jacked. Woman dont seem to find me valuable though. Your only valuable to women where I live if you have a neck tatoo
if trying to catch a woman's eye you have to stand out. how you dress is important. stand out from everyone else. it doesn't cost a ton of money to look nice. colors matching is important! also a good cologne is very important! go to a Macy's or Dillard's and test out colognes! don't go for cheap! a good cologne is 80 bucks! if your way isn't working.....try this....good luck!
As a Californian. My wife and I are contemplating leaving our state.
This is being pushed on families, heavily. We are having to change the subject, fast-forward movies, and explain why they need to focus on school and not gender identification.
Awesome content brother. Really great points for those who lead. May God continue to bless those who lead....from work...to family...to leading oneself.
Yus got a new favourite podcast lets go!!!
You should put your podcasts on Spotify
Thanks! Very insightful.
Thank you Ryan. Really appreciate what you're doing.
Proposal of a sol'n also frames the discussion as collaborative and in addition to offering value, shows that you see value in the other parties' view - even saying "I've thought about it and can't really see a solution yet, what do you think?" is enough to establish this frame. Great video! I love how these points emphasize that value is a communal property, not an intrinsic property - seeing the up/downside of interacting with you as a 3rd party and valuing how people experience you is the underlying current I see in these points. If they pass that bill, I hope the aisle is bare in every store.
I have been in workplace environments where I exhibited this trait of problem solving, but because of the toxic Machiavelli and work environment the supervisors became resentful. This is because the problems have always been known, and no one has fixed them for a specific reason but I was not aware of.
Or it comes across as the boss looking bad because they didn't fix the problem.
This occurred at a very large famous software company in Redmond Washington
Yeah, I feel like I've had short, similar phases in my job life within certain work cultures. All it ever felt like was hitting my head against a brick wall and making everyone mad around me. A sort of watered down "Jim Gordon"-esque situation.
It's all about just being smart when you apply a solutions based approach with other people.
@El Chingy
Yes
It’s hard to play dumb all day every day
Thoroughly enjoyed this video my bearded brother.
Thaank you
I hope this gets around to you, Thank you for this pod cast this has helped me in my working life and family life.
Ryan your talks are really powerful in todays world. Have you every thought about talking to boyscouts? The young boys need this kind of message
The boy scouts were a great organization that is now feminized and lost its way. We need to create new groups based on the original goal but start with many smaller localized groups at first for now until people realize it's important to learn to be a real man in this country again
I have a few older 1900s manuals that would be just as good for men now adays . They give great advise skills and insight on how we should live as spiritual patriotic men for any age.
1. Be solution oriented
2. Network
3. Help people win
4. Gain life experience
5. Do not ask for permission
Some great insights man.
Thank you for all that you do.
This is awesome! Thanks for sharing your wisdom Ryan.
Bravo 👏🏻, offer solutions not just point out the problems. Offer the Soltuiton!
Great show
You should think about trying to go on the Joe Rogan podcast. That would be a great networking power move, seeing as he's also a podcaster who has had many great and interesting men on his show.
Great advice and will put the Gems you gave into action...thanks Bro!
IF THIS WORLD PRODUCE 50% PERCENT OF SUCH PEOPLE WE WILL BE GOOD
I'd love to hear you have a conversation with Dan Bongino. You two should get along really well.
His teachings for men are also Biblical, keep up the great teachings!
Awesome content. Keep on keeping on...
Powerful points.
Great topic. Great advice.
Good shit man
Great message
The list starts @7:41
On point!!!
my man!
real good thank you
I think of you as a wise scoutmaster.
I love this channel, but I think that the ridiculousness of the week is kind of problem oriented. It might be powerful because it is the kind of enraging degeneracy or idiocy, but I'd rather listen empowering news, more aligned with your channel.
A comment on "Don't ask, but Do..."
People may have a plan for an activity and they might have the jobs divided up. If you come forward with "How can I help?" they can assign you a job they think you might be good at and tell you their plan. If you start acting and performing a job you think they require without informing them, you might discombobulate their plans or mess up a certain way they want a particular job to be performed.
Something like preparing for a picnic, they need to prepare jello and meat. You start preparing jello and set it in the fridge to set, you take up a slot required for the meat to be preserved cold, but you might not have known this. But if the meat is prepared first, once its cooked it can be left out of the fridge for a bit while the jello sets, but the meat might have to be prepared in a special manner.
There might be some cases where you know the business well enough and you CAN act without asking. In which case its also always good to keep your friend informed as to what you've done so they can keep track of and coordinate jobs.
You guys should sell Tshirts!
store.orderofman.com
@@Orderofman Gnarly! Thanks!
Off topic, The hat. If i saw someone arriving wearing that while camping at a state park, I would make sure a shovel and a pail of water near the campfire. The fees paid.trash picked up. Lol.
$130 jeans😮..... guess i gotta stay with my $30 jeans😂
i need that hat
Maybe a " misuse of public funds" lawsuit brought by retailers would be a good line of attack, in regards to the gender isles?
IF YOU DON'T KNOW HOW TU HELP SOME TIMES YOU JUSTA CAN ASK FOR STICK ARROUND FOR A WHILE TO SEE WHAT YOU CAN DO. THIS IS HOW I GET MY ACTUAL JOB. I JUST ASK FOR AN OPORTUNITY I OFERT MY TALENTS AND I MAKE MYSELF A PLACE.
👍👍👍
I'm 35 year old white boy in Hungary, so I don't understand this is this over forced or something else... When I was at kindergarden I had payed ironing and some home chore games like that so I can help Mom when I'm older. I'm consider also tree (my 9 year old niece is doing it all the time like I had done) climbing gender neutral game. Am I an idiot perhaps, but my understanding was there that if it beneficial for the family there is no gender.
You have some sound advice but when you start knocking the gender neutral stuff makes me question you. Who cares about gender neutral. There are masculine men and masculine women. Include everyone. There's alot of women who also listen to this. Let's get a united audience mind frame instead of a secluded one. Do appreciate it videos. Just would like to see less gender neutral bashing. Thanks ryan
Values befriend you with God because He created humanity to serve the needy and be grateful to God only then law of compensation of Nature brings peace and happiness all over the world
Lazy hands make a poor man!
Actually I'm not gonna agree with your statement that children automatically choose as for boys the boy stuff and as for girls girl stuff. It's neither confirmed by studies, it just showing a spectrum of cognitive behaviours. How am I right? My doughter likes dolls, but fakk in love with lego, like also cooking stuff but show her hot wheels and she is gone for hours. For the rest of your video, I agree. Have a good day!
How does requiring gender-neutral isles in children sections of a store in a supposedly free country in any way represent freedom? Isn't that more like the opposite of freedom?
Get Wes Watson on the podcast👍🏻
Coming soon.
This whole video is full of mistakes. So much wrong that I cant begin to say. Just kidding 8:00
human beings have not been discussing this for millions of years certainly, but definitely thousands
The toys are non binary we'll let them decide... boom fix all the problems 😂
haha those gender neutral aisles are definitely not the most critical issue now at a time of crisis, are they?... those aisles probably don't even exist.
what a ridiculous topic.