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- Опубликовано: 15 сен 2024
- Hey everyone! Here is a life update, to let you know what we've been up to lately. Hope you enjoy the candy challenge with the kids. Thanks for being here!
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I used to watch you 10 years ago when I was a shy highschool freshman. Haven’t kept up recently but never unsubscribed. Just wanted to check in and say I hope all is well. May God bless and protect your family and lead you through all troubles in Jesus name. Sending love. There’s so much to be grateful for in life. Life is beautiful. Stay encouraged.
Love your family and how you are raising your Amazing Loving, Intelligent and Beautiful children! Night shifts are known to be very unhealthy, and worse if it is inconsistent. Being awake and active at night goes against our natural circadian rhythm and sleep/ awake cycle…and that will eventually have a real negative effect on your immune system, mood and general well being. It’s something you should really think about. ❤from Montreal
I literally was just checking Facebook to see if I've missed anything since i haven't seen your video's in a while. I go and eat dinner then see a notification you posted a video. Good to see you with your small updates. I imagine raising two small kids, working random shifts, and having your own business would be very exhausting. I hope Rowan finds his toy. Your kids are always so well behaved.
I miss your vlogs so much. You can tell you work, there just isn't enough time in the day to do many things you once use to do. It melted my heart to see the kids not touching the candy, how well they listen. Being a working mom is tough. It is one of those things adults need to do just to pay the bills. Miss you and Ares and your Dad. Stay healthy and happy!
They are definitely not together. She made her first really tellling comment when showing her journaling/day in the life book saying the last few months have been really hard. She probably wouldn’t be working the job she is either. But she seems happier and lighter. I for one feel as if we’re seeing her for the first time and I am here for it. Idk why they aren’t together and I don’t need to know but I am thrilled she’s doing better. I hope her father is ok since I haven’t seen him or heard about him. I wish her the best and her children are adorable and passed that candy challenge with flying colors. I hope she continues self care.
It’s so sweet to see Rowan play hockey and follow in his daddy’s footsteps. He will definitely make you all so proud🩵 Hang in there, just hope you have family around to help you. How do you manage the childcare costs when you are at work? I was looking into it for my kids and it would literally be all of my salary!
I remember the first time I came across your channel & saw a beautiful lady and her handsome boyfriend they were so in love. I got hook & caught up on their great love story, having so much fun pranking each other, traveling adventures, marriage & having a beautiful family. You both share so much great videos of your life. Thank you for that. As always love it when you post , glad everyone is doing well. The children are growing up so fast. God bless you all & your wonderful dad. 💚
God bless you little Layla. She is growing so much sense, sweet little angel.😊❤
Why are so many of her videos deleted? It was nice to rewatch some of her old ones occasionally. But so many have been deleted
You are the epitome of kindness and compassion 👸🏼👑Miss your videos! I’ve been watching since 2013 ! Miss you two together! I ended my 14 years relationship back in 2020! Everything Has Changed💔
It was such a cute clip of the kids waiting … and waiting … Rowan’s expressions were priceless! They kept each other honest. ❤🇨🇦
Zar, this too shall pass!! I can tell it’s a difficult time, hang in there. Sending hugs to you and your sweet family. 🥰🥰
How precious was the two of them making sure to not eat any of their candy before you came back ,what sweet little ones 💞. God bless and great seeing you and your beautiful family…..🍃💗🍃
Yes take bullying very seriously, keep your ears open. Children will open up at any moment about whats happened, then just change subject. The children doing it are learning it from parents or someone
I am so glad to see you guys back. I miss you so much. Just ask Rowan what he did at school and is he having fun riding the bus. He is a little guy and a little young starting school.🥰
Many are wondering about him why is he appearing to be there he used to be included i miss that about your channel your kids are precious thank you for sharing them 👍🎉
This is self-care, and it is so so important in times of stress. There is no stress any worse than the stress of being an working momma. Remember to take care of you when you can. ❤
Thanks for taking the time to vlog! I always enjoy seeing how you’re doing. Shift work is ROUGH! I completely empathize- I’m an RN from Ohio, US 😊 I love the idea of the grateful journal. Perspective is everything❣️
I love seeing Ares with you all.❤
Yes, that was a nice minute and 3 seconds.
Those children adore each other it's so sweet to watch
thanks so much for watching!
Sometimes I stop and think about how far you guys have come. I started watching during the long distance dating phase. You’re doing amazing Zar. My husband has a flip flop schedule like yours and I empathize with you especially having 2 young ones. You’re a strong woman and have a wonderful husband. You’ve got this!
thanks for sticking around for so long!! The flipflop schedule is no joke, hope your husband gets his rest! thanks for being here xo
Love the Irish whispers. Lyla is so sweet. Rowan taught her well. I am grateful for the smiling faces of Zar, Ares, Rowan, and Lyla! Take care. Hope you had a happy Valentine’s Day. ❤
p.s. We live in a world of upside-down Ws! 😉
Are you two still married??
A little hockey player in the making ! Rowan is at the best age to start his ice skills.
wow!! I remember watching your videos after school when you and Ares were still flying back and forth between countries.. so happy to see your videos again. beautiful family 🩷 always wishing you the best
Same here! Miss you two together! I ended my 14 years relationship back in 2020! Everything Has Changed💔
I keep a gratitude journal, it keeps me focused on the good things in life no matter how small. Your children are precious.
Being spoiled by Ares and her father has not helped her step up to the plate.She is a passive aggressive and I am sure it got very old for Ares. My goodness he needed to move across the globe and leave behind lucrative job potential to satisfy her needs. She never tried to live life and always was so desperate to feel sad and lonely at all times. All focus on her needs. This was bound to happen.
I love you guy’s. The kids were so funny on that candy challenge. I burst out laughing when he started tapping his hand on the table. Lyla is so funny. I am CD a retired nurse and I don’t care what your age is switching shifts every few weeks is very hard. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers as always. Hello Beba you are missed too
Zar it’s good to see you and your family. We are praying for happiness and peace in your life. I think you may be struggling a little bit, but know we all struggle in life. It’s not always easy but you have those 2 beautiful children. ❤️
Hi. I always look forward to your vlogs. I hope Rowan finds his upside down W 😂. Such sweet kids. I knew they wouldn’t touch that candy. Shift work is hard, especially with kids. 💜
I feel like I’m a P.I. or sleuth watching your videos. Rewinding them, watching in the corners or distances. Hang in there Zar. God bless you and your family. 🙏🙂
You could actually cry it out if you have to you know as you shared your life with us all.....
The loveliest children on the internet. You both are good parents.
Rowan licking his lips so cute LOL,
I recently started a "Junk journal", a memory journal creating a pretty page and writing a random memory on it, usually about parents and childhood, I also started a scrapbook in hopes of keeping some of my memories and not having photos die on old iPhones...
Lots of journalling over here lol 😊
What is your job at the hospital?
I love that I got to watch this video today! It makes me so happy to see you and your family!!!❤
I work in a hospital. Usually after 6 months you can look at other positions. Maybe you can find something that has a consistent shift?? Hope so!!
She has only high school diploma
@@anna_m59 she can work in admitting, medical records and other supportive roles.
I totally understand how hard the hours you work are. Does everyone have to do that? I would really try and get those hours changed. That’s not unreasonable. I worked in hospitals for many years.
Somebody's got to do the undesirable shifts.
So nice to see you guys! Your children are sooooo good. they didn't touch that candy. They are so sweet!
Thanks for watching!! They make me so proud :)
What an amazing polite son Rowan is and Lila are You are an amazing Mum and I truly mean that I can see all the work you’ve put in to make them happy. We are definitely not spoilt. You can tell you they are really grounded!
Also, I hope you’re okay so as I’ve been watching you from the beginning I hope you are well and enjoying your work at the hospital. I to presume it is a volunteer I wasn’t sure at first but as you said earlier anyway Take ❤ Care much Hugs to you all From Edinburgh Scotland 🏴
Xx😊
are you still together ??????????
What do you think? Do you see him anywhere?
We haven’t seen any of the family or her Dad.
@@judefrazier4727 Yes, he’s at the end of the video
Zar you have the best kids ever they did so well not touching the candy it made me cry how obedient they are, you are doing an amazing job my dad just passed away 2 weeks ago so I'm having a hard time! Thank you for sharing this video touched me deeply special with those beautiful children i remember my kids being that small it was the best time ever! Take care and always remember you are strong and I'm praying for you to help you cope with your job and life in general i do that for my 3 kids every night! God bless you all 🙏❤️🌹
I am so sorry to hear about your Dad! Sending you all my love and lots of strength during this difficult time! I just know your Dad is smiling down on you and I am sure my Mom gave him a warm welcome to Heaven. I will be thinking of you xo
Prayers for you. I lost my dad in September. 🕊
@@vloggingblonde thank you I really appreciate this ❤
Why have you gone quiet? We know life is hard..but we are praying for your prosperity for all of your family. Both the Good and tough times build us up to be wiser...stay faithful.
Hope yaw work out your marriage ❤️ I miss seeing you both together ❤️
The snow is so gorgeous. Hang in there. It gets better. Love you guys.
I agree, it’s obvious because he’s not around.
They could literally be on separate schedules. Maybe his new job doesn’t allow for him to be such an identifiable person! There’s many more options but everyone just likes to gossip. It’s disgusting!
Are you and Ares still together?
She clearly has a picture of both of them on her profile here. She doesn't have to answer that. Not all husbands want to be on videos🤷♀️
They are not together anymore.
They co parenting and putting their kids first. Just pray for them.
How do you know?@@DREECE54
If they aren’t that is so sad, after so many years of long distance and making it work. To move to Canada and have it end. I figured since he hasn’t been on the clog hardly at all. I really thought they had a relationship to last a life time. Wish them all well!
The children are so so cute.... and big already!❤❤❤❤
Do you really need to go to work at the hospital. If you are so exhausted . You are doing well with your business. Hope you and Ares are ok.
Been following for years. I can’t imagine being in the youtube spot light and sharing so much with the world and then going kinda stopping. Sometimes it upsetting we dont know the deal with you and Ares anymore but I thought about it and it’s none of our business. As long as the kids aren’t effected by this possible change we shouldn’t be one to judge. I just hope you are happy. You seem down a lot but make sure you take time for yourself. Whatever is happening your true followers will be there to support you.
Hi Zar...so happy to see you and your beautiful family....been watching you for years. Really enjoy seeing how Rowan and Lyla are doing, they are so precious....how is Bubba? Miss seeing him as well. Hi to Ares. Wishing you all the best in the new year. Sending hugs and love from Las Vegas.❤
aww so lovely to see you all . I was a nurse for many years I hated doing nights xxxx
Hey girl, every marriage has its ups and downs. Marriages aren’t a walk in the park, BUT the Lord and a personal relationship with Christ Jesus is whom you hold onto. Spending time speaking to the Lord in prayer, reading Gods Word…Meditating upon His Word will make you STRONG in the Lord, sweet, strong lady. It holds marriages together too and mends them. I am a living testimony with my marriage! I almost lost mine! But I surrendered my life to the Lord and I live for Him now. The Lord created marriages so you better believe He holds them together, mends them and restores them! Gives them His LIFE! The fruits of the Spirit - the Holy Spirit functions through them from what comes out of us and makes them flourish from a sacrificial Love shown to each other. Seek the Lord and pray unto Him, sweet girl. Through His Son Jesus, He’s there and He hears you Zar. Make the Lord the center of your life. 🙏🏻❤️ this isn’t religion as the world says…..this is a personal relationship with your Heavenly Father and Creator. LOVE YOU (whew I’m getting emotional texting this 🥺🥹) God Bless in Jesus Name.(hugs) 💓
Me holy beep I used to watch your blogs everyday for so long I stopped once I got to busy with life…now you have kids that talk 😮❤
I've changed my youtube channel name, but I have followed your beautiful family for years now. thank you for sharing so much. The kids are so sweet, and that's because they have a mommy and daddy who model that same sweetness with so much love. 💕
I've been waiting for this, soo glad to get an update on my favorite family. This 'flip-flap' work schedule must be hard. Hope you get some needed time foryoursell to rest and enjoy. That cute patience challenge you did to your beautiful kids show how they respect and love you as their mom, really nice and obedient kids. You and Ares are dutiful caring parents. I pray that the Lord will always bless you and your family. ❤🙏
Your children are precious.
Thank you for sharing your beautiful family with us! ❤
Hello ♥️ so good to hear from you guys you have a beautiful family and the last times you have posted you look SAD 😔 I’m praying for you and your family! God bless you ♥️
I think Are is bored of her. It’s evident they’re not together anymore. I don’t think he is just uncomfortable being included in the videos, she’s always filming with him for years.
Do u have a video about why u r not with ares? Are u a nurse
My mother raised 6 children and just an old fashioned wash ringer machine in the basement, no cloths dryer...hung all the cloths on a cloths line in our bk yard, cooked every meal and never complained once. A different generation.
That’s great that your mum could find the time to do all that and work full time too.
Snarky. Raising kids was a full time job. Gasp. And those kids were much healthier and self sufficient…my mom was a full time mom.,and never complained . She never skipped meals. She hung sheets outside and ironed them. And I was lucky to have her home. My dad made sure he could pay for our lives by hard work. They were a team. Divorce was not an option as it would have impacted the family unit and caused financial failure. So they had proper expectations. And mom did not insist my dad move to make her happy. She sacrificed for the family. @@emsavia4445
Sending love as always ❤ watch whenever you feel like uploading ❤ no pressure ❤
Where can I buy a Little Red upside down W ?
Your marketing skills are Next Level.
SOUTH AFRICA🇿🇦 still loves you to this day, since little rowan was first introduced to the world, we also watched Layla grow up, stay strong
Missing your vlogs. Rowan and Lyla are so cute❤
Rowan and Lyla are adorable and growing up so quickly Sending you a big hug Zar xx🥰
The month of July in your journal is empty? Interesting…
I miss you and Ares being in the videos together
I know that you love caring to people and feel like you are helping people in the same scenario as your mom.
But this does not seem like what you are meant to be doing... this is going to be what drags you away from time... time with the babies ... time with hubby. Your mom would want you to enjoy life you HAVE.
Maybe she needs the income
Thanks for the great vlog, it seems like life is going along great! The kids look good!
How are you all is everything ok 😍😍
I missed you all so much. ❤
Your kids are so unbelievably precious. I pray that you are okay and keep fighting one day at a time after everything you've been through honey
your such an amazing mama hope you are ok I was bullied wasn’t fun but I learned to find my voice,spoke up when things where bad or not right the snow is so pretty thanks for another great update rowan is the best big brother mommy your taking a long time 😂
Be well, Sarah
Please tell us about Ares
Folks, I get that we all care about things between Zar & Ares, *BUT the best way to help her during such a hard time is to give both of them private space and let them sort things out in their own time rather than insisting her to bring up the topic. Whether or not Zar wants to talk about that it's HER choice alone, and we must respect whatever choice she makes.* There can be a wide variety of reasons why she hasn't mentioned him, BUT making rash assumptions & conjectures ain't gonna help her or Ares. If she feels like it she'll tell us what's going on, but meanwhile standing by her and letting her know that we're here to support her no matter what happens is the least we can do, and the very thing she needs and deserves!
I TOTALLY agree!!! And if and when they want to talk about it they will!!
Miss your old vlogs!
So nice to see you vlog again! Sending love!
Waiting for your next vlogs.....❤️🙏 Happy Easter
do we know if she’s a nurse now?
Everytime I watch I remember her mama♥️
So Nice to see you again ☺️🫶🏻
Shocked to have just found out their names aren’t actually Zar and Ares. Totally get they don’t want to share but why tell people those are real names?
because we chose our nicknames to use online....shaytards did the same.
I think the family just wants/needs some down time. Let's wish them all the best.
No rings
And? lol, seems like you’re lacking something as well. Take a guess…
You seem a bit sad in this video.
They did soooo good 🎉🎉yay ❤
You seem sooooo sad😢prayers
Life is life, isn't it Zar? Everyday can get into a routine that feels joyless and monotonous. However, you can shake it up. Surprise things for the kids, yourself or your husband. New foods, dinners etc. And of course gratitude jars...or notebooks. The kids are adorable and obedient. And that's great. You can trust them. That deserves rewarding don't you think? Do you get one on one time with Rowan? Lila will always steal the show. She precious and she knows it. Girl knows how to work a room. Rowan seemed somewhat frustrated. Maybe some mommy and Rowan time is in order? Being bullied can cause anxiety. Just saying.
Lyla was actually was more patient than Rowen 😂
❤Hi Zar So Happy to see you and see this Vlog! Havent been on lately so I have some catching up to do! Hope You had a Lovely Valentines with your Loved Ones ❤❤❤And just Skip all "trying to know your life speculators"-comments.. You Know Yours And That is what is important ❤❤❤❤❤Love you Guys and all the best to Aares, Rowan and Laila❤❤❤
Is Rowan being bullied?
Haha, "Donut worry".
how are you all missed you lots where is herky. 🐧🐧😍
Not only are you beautiful, but you're also an Angel
♥️🙏🏼🌹Sending love hugs prayers and kindness with positive thoughts ♥️🙏🏼🌹
Some comments here..
Why you think she's obligated to tell you everything? It's her personal life, not a reality show. She shares what she's comfortable with and when she's comfortable.
It amazes me to see how many people left similar comments like it's her duty to keep everyone updated and share everything with her followers.
You can tell she's going through a lot now, she even saying in the video that she's exhausted. Why not to show some delicacy and understanding??
You're great Zar! ❤️
Well she shared a lot before.
@@catlady4799 Yes she did, but that was her own generous choice alone, and one we cannot take for granted. If she wants more private space she has every right to go that direction as she doesn't owe us anything in doing so. You don't probe a personal friend that way if they feel uncomfortable, let alone a vlogger that you're not that close to personally!
Sometimes things change and for some things people may not want to share at that time, if at all. If they want to share it at a later time, they will if they want!@@catlady4799
You are volunteering in hospital? Thatmeans you are not paid? so why would you do this if it makes you so exhausted?
I am not vounteering....if you look back in the videos I talk about getting a job there... I would definitely not work the nightshift if I wasn't getting paid
You are separated...i just wonder..its ok if so..noone tjinks less of either of you if thats so. ❤
What work do you do at hospital? Volunteer?
She wouldn't take a night shift and have someone else watch her kids overnight just to volunteer.
@@donnabaardsen5372 Yes, she mentioned being a volunteer, but if YOU LISTEN CAREFULLY, she then immediately says, "oh my gosh, things have changed". So you can read what you will into that. I take that to mean that she is now working there, not simply volunteering.
She says she is not a volunteer.
She started out volunteering but in a previous video she explained that she got offered a job interview and is now working.
@@emsavia4445 That's what I thought. I mean, it seems perfectly obvious, but thank you for clarifying.
So cute their patience is soooooo .....lovable ...pogi Rowan ang magandang Lyla....