I want to think that's EXACTLY how it happened. That he was much smarter, had been co-creating with God and has far more experience with the garden. But the bich kept nagging and it was the only way to shut her trap
Women love to test for limits and look for reactions. The thing is, when they find those limits and we react, then we become assholes and they hate it and play victims.
@@tpilot_error404 the problem is you do your best and still not be attracted to you And the only way to find you attractive are things you can't control like height
@@APorLa16_RMA when you your best to make her n you happy , she will resent you . females are followers by nature , so when you lead , they feel peace , only by leading she can respect you , n love u ! for men there's no love w/out respect .
How did you get the police to "take her away"? In your country do you just call the police and say that this person is being verbally abusive towards me and the police takes the person away? Or did something else happen? Please elaborate this information might come in handy in my future.
@@nitishkumarjurel241 she was driving my rental car and refused to give me the key 🔑 in front of a hotel receptionist. After 5 minutes of asking for the key, I called Denver police. The receptionist confirmed my story, they asked her to give the key and gave her a ride to the airport at 1am 🕐. I think she was planning to steal the car 🚗.
In my situation, most of the men who are close to me have tested me, literally pokin the hell, snot and blood out of me! Naturally, after 44 years with one and too many years with the auxiliary provatateers I want to be left alone!
I am an attest to what he’s saying. Have definitely been with someone that would do exactly what he’s talking about. Poke and poke and poke until she finds what sets you off and use it against you on many different levels while playing the victim.
What a Mysoginist thing ti say,Mr Guy! And you wonder why you don't have a girlfriend,Mr. Incel! Enough with this sh1t of "evil women are oppressing the poor men".
@@katharynemartins565 there is nothing misogynistic about explaining a personal experience 🤣🤣 you should stop using words you clearly don’t understand. Bah bah blind sheep, have you any sense?
@bina nocht You're missing the point, in society because women are the more vulnerable sex they have a sort of license for cruelty, we assume they are poking and prodding men for good reason for their own security, insecurities etc, but really women are just naturally abusive to men they are selecting for mating because they want to see if he can overcome the abuse or if he succumbs to it, if he gives in she discards him almost like a narcissist would, if he passes she makes more intricate psychological tests that test his meddle.
I hate dominating macho man. But what I hate more is manipulative biitsjs abusing the good ones and causing that women who really got victims are not listened to.
The implication is that women annoy men by testing them, and women test women test men because men have ideas. That is to say women test ideas by testing the men that forward the ideas. And this makes perfect sense given the power and balance between men and women. Specifically, men will do what men will do because we have the physical and financial strength to do it. So it makes little sense for women to test ideas when they have neither the physical nor financial strength to overcome the will of the man. So instead they test men and choose the men with them with the best ideas according to what they think are likely to be the best ideas by virtue of them coming from the best men. Granted, I've filled in some gaps that he doesn't go over, but the "is absolutely about about how women get to the best ideas and how they annoy men to accomplish it.
Here is the video in the longer context: ruclips.net/video/BpN7U_RIhoo/видео.htmlsi=ZCW6n9jnpYP6ABQa I think when Jordan said tell the truth or at least don't lie that includes willful deception. This video seems to be intended to make it look like he's justifying getting annoyed with women (because women are hypothetically inherently disrespectful for any testing they do). In reality I think he is just explaining women's proclivity to make sure an established order is actually working right. Oh look I'm talking like Jordan. I'm looking at some of the comments and they're looking redpill or at least trying to justify bad behavior or reactions on the part of men. Jordan has warned against ideology and identity politics, and I don't think redpill is an exception to that. Ideology is a very low resolution way to explain the world, and the world is far more complicated than we can imagine. When somebody repeatedly offends you, whether their intention was honest or not, you still hold responsibility for how you act and react. They can't take that away from you. There is a quote I think from Carl Jung that says 'I am not what happened to me. I am what I choose to become.' That gives me a good deal of hope when I need it.
Men: "But when do the tests stop? Every time I don't get dumped or abandoned, I just get another more intense test? When can I see my results and learn something? Am I even allowed to know or is it only her?" 💀
Settle yourself and do not be easily unsettled, then your woman can trust to place her hope for peace in you when she’s unsettled. A lot of men in this day and age will say well what about her? If you don’t want responsibility then don’t expect reward.
"A constant dripping on a day of steady rain and a contentious woman are alike. He who would restrain her restrains the wind, and grasps oil with the right hand." Solomon's Proverbs
Well I guess I test my husband by asking him to help with a house or yard chore or to fix something simple … and then I see how long it takes him to do it…if he does it all. Even though he has failed this test many times over, I keep hoping he will pass the test and be helpful in a timely manner without complaining. If I remind him days later I requested the help with something, he feels annoyed, bothered and poked… but he could have just mowed his share of the yard when I asked the first or second time! Just because you feel bothered doesn’t always mean you are justified.
Doesn’t sound like Heinlein. If I haven’t read it, it was never published. But I will say that in a situation where women are deciding on whether to live with someone for a lifetime, knowing their weaknesses could prevent a lot of difficulties.
@@chesterdamolester6990 Some were arranged through friends and others were just due to my own bad choice. That was my yester year of dating, but here and now men still have a lot of unnecessary baggage that they carry onto the next one...I stopped dating back in 2006. There is a lot of matters happening that truly interfere with a lot being able to have good and successful loyal relationships.
uuh so what is the end goal when a woman does this to a man?. I read the comments and I dont really find a definite answear. Is it to establish a stable friendship or something from a man who's unstable?
Picky men are wise men.... If she didn't care about you when you're down will they care about you when your up... I think simple men are happy being with heavy women... It's always your not good enough or I care about you being nice meanwhile we just totally ignore their answers... For all the yapping when there's work to do...
The implication is that women annoy men by testing them, and women test men because men have ideas. That is to say women test ideas by testing the men that forward the ideas. And this makes perfect sense given the power inbalance between men and women. Specifically, men will do what men will do because we have the physical and financial strength to do it. So it makes little sense for women to test ideas when they have neither the physical nor financial strength to overcome the will of a man. So instead they test men and choose the men with the best ideas according to what they think are likely to be the best ideas by virtue of them coming from the best men. The quote is absolutely about about how women get to the best ideas by way of annoying the hell out of us.
@@paperprincess1050 It is absolutely the case that some men have some incredibly stupid ideas and all men have at least mildly stupid ideas from time to time. You should know though, stupid or otherwise, most ideas are just wrong.
@@moogiibat5845 This has nothing to do with nature, the very idea is absurd the whole thing is a load of bollocks. If this is where men are coming for advice then we are all truly f8cked. If you are looking to have good relationships with anyone stop listening to this rubbish.
I was married for 20 years to a narcissist. I gave it all however after I was discarded I remained strong and independent for life. Women can have the men I’m too wise and too independent for any man, I nurture me and love me. I have my passion 🏊🏻♀️ and my grandkids that adore me. Men shouldn’t be in a relation with women they have nothing in common with them.
@@godleveleldritchblast5257 because they where designed for big hands or individuals of 1.75 meter hight . I am a truckdriver and can't see my display or half my mirrors because my eyehight is not the same. Yeah I can adjust the seat. I put it higher so my feet no longer reach the pedals , great ! Nah. When there is war the strong sehs keeps normal life running and best spies are women.
@@tpilot_error404 yeah of course women are the best spies, they can blend in better then men, they are generally not seen as a threat so they can catch the enemy off guard, they can use their feminine charms to seduce leaders of empires, just do a history search of ancient spies. The shinobi of Japan were female ninja's who were specifically trained in deception and disguise and were the spies.
I don't think this is man and women's roles this can and is certainly the reverse as well. It's not gender it's just the personality type that insists on being irritating.
He has daughter and son...so he would expect his son to test his future wife and his daughter to test her future husband....Because people are not millionares to do wedding every year with different person.
Everytime Jordan Peterson starts venting his anger at women, and he's a very angry man, there are very toxic comments from men about women. It's as though he gives them permission to say what they like. This is shameful behaviour from a psychologist. If any man has a problem with women, then he should stay away from them. There are plenty of decent men and women who actually like each other.
@@trisha9745 anger?he is always calm and composed He talks about very practical things and lot of Men agree with What he says And instead of choosing to stay away from women he chooses to expose the truth about them like a true psychologist Its time men learn about these things early so they dont regret it in future
Jordan is a calm and composed man he is never aggressive And instead of behaving like women are innocent ,he chooses to expose the truth about them like a true psychologist Instead of staying away from women ,he chooses to talk truth A both them He is simply speaking facts and a lot of men agree With What he says A lot of people especially women hate him as he is Speaking too much truth which they cannot accept
They do but not to the extent of women. "Good men don't typically test their women, but even good women will test their good men" - The Great Uncle Fester
Let's ignore what u have also ignored, the "generalization" bit, first off, nobody said anything about using men wtf 😂😂 2nd, *are you telling me guys randomly come home and give their women random sh!t tests to prove their quality!?* Is it men who were doing those dumb Orange Peel tests? I don't think so. YOU give ME a break.
I HATE being ‘tested’ because of it’s covert nature. I’ve told all the gals I’ve ever dated Do Not Test Me! But they just can’t seem to help themselves. Conniving seems to part of deceitful female nature...
Im married 10 years. I have 4 sisters and no brothers. Raised by single mom. I was definitely a "simp" teenager. I work in an office full of women. Im 38 now. We would be a lot farther in society without them. The older I get the less I respect them as a whole. They overcomplicate everything, waste time, are needy, and largely incapable. Feminism has ruined women.
The fact you believe all that, but still feel the need to attach yourself to women through marriage, work, and family, says a lot. Mainly that you’re a coward who only feels comfy voicing those opinions anonymously through the internet. Go ahead, tell the women in your life how your really feel about them. Based on your logic, your life will only improve without their presence. Being honest will expedite their exit from your life. Imagine being married to someone for ten years and never knowing that they really think you’re an incapable waste of space, and the world would be better off without you and your gender. Wow, you’re a real fucking winner.
Kia ora Brother, from New Zealand. I can see myself in the description you wrote of women. I definitely complicate things. In many ways I am largely incapable. I am probably needy in one or two areas. And whatever other things you wrote. I am definitely not what I would call a feminist. I think that angry, resentful, demasculating feminists have given me that extreme dislike of feminists. I have a real genuine awe of men. They are so focused, so uncomplicated, have such stamina, and don't assassinate characters the way I have done. What has REALLY changed my life regarding men is my obsession with History. I have seen now, millions of men at war on a TV screen. Russians in their fight against 3 million Germans, ANZACs and others at Gallipoli and in the Somme. Americans and Canadians and others around Normandy, in France, Brits and especially Poles flying over the channel, and Americans, especially in the Pacific and heading towards Berlin...and landing at Omaha. Oh my God. And these are only some. Seamen in freezing temperatures on the Atlantic, men starved by the Japanese... Men are our protectors... I have seen a fuckwit called Cathy Newman trying to trap Jordan Petersen. Oh my God what nasty, unhinged women behave like that?! Now I will share another side of life. When I met my partner, he was quite different. My exclusive commitment to him was immediate and unbreakable. Commitment and honesty sure helps people stay close. I know he wasn't used to my kind of integrity. I remember me and my girlfriend ( we are both nurses) laughing about our new boyfriends because they couldn't listen. I remember my new man saying " I know what you're going to say" after me only saying 3 words. That was typical back then. I taught him the beautiful skill of listening. When his Mum got dementia, he followed my example and listened patiently to his beautiful Mum. I sensed she had dementia while others were still treating her impatiently and calling her "dithery". My partner has been deeply affected by the self-sacrifice and kindness I (and my girlfriends) have brought into his life. He has been seriously influenced by spirituality and solid self-improvement practises I bring. He has been 100% staggered by my strength. My life has been full of rather incomprehensible cruelty and he is amazed by it all and by how I got through it all, get through it all. He runs rings around me in Science, computers, mechanics, electronics and more. I warn him about low level and dangerous people, and I am always right. I can give feedback about his intense racism, his appalling impatience behind the wheel and among human beings. He can be a helluva rude impatient guy. He certainly has issues on a par with mine. I also have a massive positivity and habit of laughing. I know cold, serious miserable sounding women/people so I prefer to be happy. I have to go, but I had another thing to say, if anyone is interested I can write it. I understand where you are coming from, mate. But integrity is important if you can ever find it.
@@Inisglas Fair advice, mate. But it's all really easy to solve. He just needs to now cut contact with his mother and 4 sisters...And he needs to leave his job, and work only where men work. That's likely to be hard physical labour- but hey, that's better than having everything complicated by women! There are probably hundreds of other women he would need to turn his back on. He doesn't mention daughters or nieces, but he would definitely, definitely need to cut contact with daughters. Or he could just say, "that's too complicated for me, I can't listen to that kind of thing". At that point his daughters would cut HIM off. Probably when they are about 10 or 11, when they continue to need him the most. At that point he might find Jordan Petersen's 'How to defeat your Darkest Thoughts" or some other expert opinion or, possibly by then, spiritual understanding. When the student is ready, the teacher arrives. I am very very fortunate, and am incredibly grateful to hundreds of people who teach others...how to have humility and to understand ourselves and other human beings. I have added new insights to a glorious age- experience-curiosity- related repertoire that I already had. But challenges keep coming, and they are never easy but it is how I grow. I listened to the interview I mentioned because my daughter has a shockingly complicated life and I want to do anything at all to be useful and supportive. She had a father who was selfish and neglectful to the extreme. Her partner of 16 years is very similar but worse. He controlled her abused her and diminished her to the extreme. She is one hell of a sick lady now. If I thought like her, it would be exactly the same as standing in a war zone with no weapons, surrounded by an army of 7 billion people, all out to get me. Better parenting, no childhood sexual abuse, less neglect, selfrespect and a later understanding of narcissistic abuse would have prevented this ongoing problem she has with paranoid delusions. The situation has complicated my life really terribly. It is infinitely worse than my cancer, my cancer treatments and all other significant pressures in my life. But I won't turn my back on these 2 females: a precious daughter and an angelic 5 year old granddaughter.
I don't entirely appreciate the way he seems to be trying to reframe female obnoxiousness as something useful, because I sure as fuck don't have any use for it. 😕
There are few, also very sure ways of finding out who you really have, what kind of man he is. Watch his reactions in circumstances where most men feel it boosts their "manhood". What sort of friends he associates with, how do THEY treat their women, not just on outings, but in every day life What is his measure of integrity? How he treats his parents and immediate family? Does he have the fear of God in his life, respect for things that are just and true, does he believe in moral absolutes, and in Absolute Truth? Observe your man while he is most at ease. Watch him around other women. Does he approve of some promiscuous behavior in others? Do you and him discuss the deep meaningful things of life, do you experience the bond of your souls as you converse? It can not be stressed enough how important is this perticular point... The reason these are very crucial points to watch for is because those are the building blocks for lasting marriage. And if you're only planing to date and co- inhabit together, none of these apply, because it will be fruit-less. Finally Lady, Remember, .you will NOT change your man. Remember also, if you commit yourself, if it turns out bad, YOU are the one who will suffer the most loss
@@Nick-ij5nt agree... to most of them they don't matter...lucky for you ...dime a dozen is under-steatement, so you have plenty-a-pick. But to the 10% .....you probably wouldn't measure up to their standards, not because they are vain, but because they value who they are and they are not cheap .🙂
Jeez haven't we had enough of this jibberish? Please go away. Will these lefties and righties please just go away. We get it, we get it. Both sides can't have their way so they constantly cry
I generally like JP, but as a woman, I love testing ideas. It’s my favorite kind of conversation. I feel like people get tired of that and it annoys them. I’ve also experienced plenty of men poking around to find your weak spots (no other meaning intended here). In fact my parents tell me that my very intelligent Grandfather did it as a sort of game all the time to assess if you knew what the heck you are talking about. I’m not sure JP is right here. This sort of thing seems more in line with men’s banter than women’s politeness. At least that has been my experience.
I agree with you, Kari. Because I like geeky stuff, most of my friends are guys. Some are easy; some are difficult--the toxic ones I push away. The people who "poke" my nerves the most are my best guy friend, who intentionally irritates me and when I react, says I'm mean (no, stop pranking me, dude), and my brother, who is well-intentioned but controlling at times, which I have called him out on. As for ideas...I also have several friends who are authors, including best-selling. A few are men; most are women. I also work in health care with several doctors, and the women do research and write for medical journals the same as the men. I agree with JP on many things, but sometimes he throws one out and thinks it sounds sophisticated because it's a quote, when it's clearly outdated male/female rhetoric. In the past, women would have to "poke," men because we had no power--we had little academic standing past school teacher and nurse, and when we did achieve a brilliant idea in fields such as science, it was many times credited to a man, because no one believed a woman invented or discovered said thing. But nowadays?....not so much. It happens, sure, but probably on both sides today.
I appreciate your honesty, but would like to note that this does NOT work both ways. M have the ability to identify problems and create solutions, hence passing her tests. However, M are largely annoyed because MANY W create problems and develop pseudo-solutions that create MORE problems for HIM. If he attempts to truly investigate her mind and discuss ideas, she will find a way to be upset, so she can avoid the conversation; placing the responsibility upon him to once AGAIN develop a solution for HER problems. It's a never-ending cycle in which she is constantly trying to test and manipulate him to "find his weak spots," but once he realizes the game, she finds a way to BLAME HIM, instead of developing ANY level of self-awareness. She is rarely ever "testing ideas" because she rarely offers an alternative. She is REALLY just testing how much patience he will have with her emotionally-disastrous state of mind.
@@rienjen Yeah this is some neurotic female brain garbage. Women had power in the past. Women "poke" men now more than they ever used to in the past. Women could major in whatever they wanted in university. Noone ever forced women to become schoolteachers or nurses. You're just being neurotic. Female inventions were never credited to a man. Females just didn't invent things. When females did invent things, people were perfectly willing to admit it. See Marie Curie and Hildegard von Bingen
@@carolinebjerkelund767 Some of them literally do lol. Had a woman continuously sleep with her ex... Yet she flipped out when I broke up with her. "I know I made a mistake but-" yeah right. Fxck off with that BS lmao.
Women are looking for a man of integrity. One whose actions align with their words. A safe,and solid place so they can lay down their swords,and step into their true feminine. The true feminine is what the man wants,the woman isn’t going to let down her guard for just anybody. She WILL test you,she wants to know that where she lays her head will be a place of safety and security.
Getting past the niche phraseology like "true feminine," I think this comment does make a good point about vulnerability. I think women tend more toward neuroticism (sensibility to emotional pain), which is a necessary trait considering what they have on the line. So if a woman doesn't know if they have a certain level of security or can trust someone, it may be practical to be on guard. "Testing" may not necessarily need ill-intentioned.
I never used twitter or facebook, don't even use social networks in my country. I worked in several places with mainly female staff. I studied in similar environments as well. From my experiences - what he says is true. Some women legit feel the need to shit test you constantly and look for trouble. Had this happen to me several times. I enjoyed going against expectations and "failing" provocations in all kinds of ways. Made things fun, but it was still annoying.
“Alright! if I take a bite will you just shut up about it?!” -Adam, before the Fall
Honestly way too accurate 😂
I want to think that's EXACTLY how it happened. That he was much smarter, had been co-creating with God and has far more experience with the garden. But the bich kept nagging and it was the only way to shut her trap
Or "ok honey"
Gold!
@@JakobIlar basically
Number 1 rule: don’t be quick to react.
Which is also why whenever we open up in a relationship. They sometimes know what hurts you. And they do it.
Bingo. So it's no wonder why it doesn't work out.
Well that's the point of looking for weak spots. To use them. Because you are at war.
Reply if you like men
Amen
Yay someone with a brain
It would be nice if we would *respect* everyone but not something more
@@purplezone6693 you a feminist or something
In the west that's getting harder to differentiate
Testing violates trust, and trust if fundation upon which relationships are built.
Women love to test for limits and look for reactions. The thing is, when they find those limits and we react, then we become assholes and they hate it and play victims.
Woman have high standards for themselves. If you don't give a effort what else is gonna attract her into staying with you?
@@tpilot_error404 the problem is you do your best and still not be attracted to you
And the only way to find you attractive are things you can't control like height
@@APorLa16_RMA
when you your best to make her n you happy , she will resent you .
females are followers by nature ,
so when you lead , they feel peace ,
only by leading she can respect you , n love u !
for men there's no love w/out respect .
@@tpilot_error404Implying that you can’t test men without being immoral or rude/annoying to them
@@tpilot_error404 Most women are delusional.
Last two women who tested me were taken away by the police and left stranded in the middle of the 600 mile trip, respectively 😂
So you're a bad person congratulations
@@Kamila-eb9pz no, I don’t accept manipulation
How did you get the police to "take her away"? In your country do you just call the police and say that this person is being verbally abusive towards me and the police takes the person away? Or did something else happen? Please elaborate this information might come in handy in my future.
@@nitishkumarjurel241 she was driving my rental car and refused to give me the key 🔑 in front of a hotel receptionist. After 5 minutes of asking for the key, I called Denver police. The receptionist confirmed my story, they asked her to give the key and gave her a ride to the airport at 1am 🕐. I think she was planning to steal the car 🚗.
LOL Yeah sure, that definitely actually happened. 😂🤣😅👍
°"For crying out loud"😂
Egalitarianism results in frustration & manipulation because the rules have become a survival game.
In my situation, most of the men who are close to me have tested me, literally pokin the hell, snot and blood out of me! Naturally, after 44 years with one and too many years with the auxiliary provatateers I want to be left alone!
I always find men who don't want to work. They test me.. I wish I knew years ago that I was supposed to test men
In your situation I bet you don't have to worry about not being left alone anymore. Enjoy the solitude.
@@baranjan4172Thanks. I shall. Solitude is peace.
@@baranjan4172 Solitude is indeed peace ✌️ for me. 🙏 Prayers and best wishes to you.
Women always choose the shittiest men they can find but then get mad at THEM, maybe give up bedroom authority then you can blame men.
I am an attest to what he’s saying. Have definitely been with someone that would do exactly what he’s talking about. Poke and poke and poke until she finds what sets you off and use it against you on many different levels while playing the victim.
@bina nocht was supposed to say “can attest” auto correct but thank you for clarification
What a Mysoginist thing ti say,Mr Guy! And you wonder why you don't have a girlfriend,Mr. Incel! Enough with this sh1t of "evil women are oppressing the poor men".
@@katharynemartins565 there is nothing misogynistic about explaining a personal experience 🤣🤣 you should stop using words you clearly don’t understand. Bah bah blind sheep, have you any sense?
@bina nocht You're missing the point, in society because women are the more vulnerable sex they have a sort of license for cruelty, we assume they are poking and prodding men for good reason for their own security, insecurities etc, but really women are just naturally abusive to men they are selecting for mating because they want to see if he can overcome the abuse or if he succumbs to it, if he gives in she discards him almost like a narcissist would, if he passes she makes more intricate psychological tests that test his meddle.
I hate dominating macho man. But what I hate more is manipulative biitsjs abusing the good ones and causing that women who really got victims are not listened to.
Need to work on your caption timing.
The captions has literally nothing to do with what he has to say. Just straight up
Its just delayed
The implication is that women annoy men by testing them, and women test women test men because men have ideas. That is to say women test ideas by testing the men that forward the ideas. And this makes perfect sense given the power and balance between men and women. Specifically, men will do what men will do because we have the physical and financial strength to do it. So it makes little sense for women to test ideas when they have neither the physical nor financial strength to overcome the will of the man. So instead they test men and choose the men with them with the best ideas according to what they think are likely to be the best ideas by virtue of them coming from the best men. Granted, I've filled in some gaps that he doesn't go over, but the "is absolutely about about how women get to the best ideas and how they annoy men to accomplish it.
@@josephdestaubin7426 k
@@josephdestaubin7426 Are you saying that women can't work and have their own money? Ok,Mr. Incel.
@@keenanpetit8864dumbass
Fun fact: You are still responsible for your actions when you're drunk
Yes let the women know that
@@theokay1 women don't listen to men, comon. You know that!
Here is the video in the longer context: ruclips.net/video/BpN7U_RIhoo/видео.htmlsi=ZCW6n9jnpYP6ABQa
I think when Jordan said tell the truth or at least don't lie that includes willful deception. This video seems to be intended to make it look like he's justifying getting annoyed with women (because women are hypothetically inherently disrespectful for any testing they do). In reality I think he is just explaining women's proclivity to make sure an established order is actually working right. Oh look I'm talking like Jordan.
I'm looking at some of the comments and they're looking redpill or at least trying to justify bad behavior or reactions on the part of men. Jordan has warned against ideology and identity politics, and I don't think redpill is an exception to that. Ideology is a very low resolution way to explain the world, and the world is far more complicated than we can imagine. When somebody repeatedly offends you, whether their intention was honest or not, you still hold responsibility for how you act and react. They can't take that away from you. There is a quote I think from Carl Jung that says 'I am not what happened to me. I am what I choose to become.' That gives me a good deal of hope when I need it.
Men: "But when do the tests stop? Every time I don't get dumped or abandoned, I just get another more intense test? When can I see my results and learn something? Am I even allowed to know or is it only her?" 💀
Which is why the only way to deal with them romantically, is not to.
No the title is perfect this describes my gf
😂
The camera focusing of the hands as if they were seperate characters
Settle yourself and do not be easily unsettled, then your woman can trust to place her hope for peace in you when she’s unsettled. A lot of men in this day and age will say well what about her? If you don’t want responsibility then don’t expect reward.
"A constant dripping on a day of steady rain and a contentious woman are alike. He who would restrain her restrains the wind, and grasps oil with the right hand." Solomon's Proverbs
Well I guess I test my husband by asking him to help with a house or yard chore or to fix something simple … and then I see how long it takes him to do it…if he does it all. Even though he has failed this test many times over, I keep hoping he will pass the test and be helpful in a timely manner without complaining. If I remind him days later I requested the help with something, he feels annoyed, bothered and poked… but he could have just mowed his share of the yard when I asked the first or second time! Just because you feel bothered doesn’t always mean you are justified.
OMG! Why do that if you like them? We should strive to be encouraging with those around us, as women.
Very misleading title for the video.
I don't always agree with him yet I really appreciate that he's quite a thinker. I'll always listen to his ideas.
What don’t you agree with him on? I’m curious
@@cosgroveme2489 cause she's a woman 😏
@@Ahmed69381 lmao this is true 😂
You mean a pseudo intellectual that delivers a lot of word salad on every subject?
He's a thinker in the same way that Gandhi was a caterer.
Only someone you see as enemy is someone you need to seek out weak spots of.
David Deida writes on this topic in _The Way of the Superior Man._
Doesn’t sound like Heinlein. If I haven’t read it, it was never published. But I will say that in a situation where women are deciding on whether to live with someone for a lifetime, knowing their weaknesses could prevent a lot of difficulties.
I work with a woman that this video fits.
As a woman, I agree with this, and after I find the parameters, I am happy to work within them.
Heinlein was BRILLIANT!
The subtitles are wild
I left all the men I dated: Unfaithful, drugs, and psychological abuse.
Why are you attracted to that type of man? What is it about you that attracts them to you?
@@chesterdamolester6990 Some were arranged through friends and others were just due to my own bad choice. That was my yester year of dating, but here and now men still have a lot of unnecessary baggage that they carry onto the next one...I stopped dating back in 2006. There is a lot of matters happening that truly interfere with a lot being able to have good and successful loyal relationships.
uuh so what is the end goal when a woman does this to a man?. I read the comments and I dont really find a definite answear. Is it to establish a stable friendship or something from a man who's unstable?
Try this on for size: The ideas are only as good as the man testing them.
Picky men are wise men.... If she didn't care about you when you're down will they care about you when your up... I think simple men are happy being with heavy women... It's always your not good enough or I care about you being nice meanwhile we just totally ignore their answers... For all the yapping when there's work to do...
Man that’s so true
Who are they to test men? We have to help them with damn near everything. I guess they're testing us to find the best helper.
We test to know how secure we are with a man. That’s not to say we get all our security from men.
No not all the time
The implication is that women annoy men by testing them, and women test men because men have ideas. That is to say women test ideas by testing the men that forward the ideas. And this makes perfect sense given the power inbalance between men and women. Specifically, men will do what men will do because we have the physical and financial strength to do it. So it makes little sense for women to test ideas when they have neither the physical nor financial strength to overcome the will of a man. So instead they test men and choose the men with the best ideas according to what they think are likely to be the best ideas by virtue of them coming from the best men. The quote is absolutely about about how women get to the best ideas by way of annoying the hell out of us.
It would be better if men had less stupid ideas
@@paperprincess1050 It is absolutely the case that some men have some incredibly stupid ideas and all men have at least mildly stupid ideas from time to time. You should know though, stupid or otherwise, most ideas are just wrong.
@@josephdestaubin7426 You should know though that some ideas are absolutely amazing which come from designers not men.
@@paperprincess1050Some one has to test them out, that is how nature works
@@moogiibat5845 This has nothing to do with nature, the very idea is absurd the whole thing is a load of bollocks. If this is where men are coming for advice then we are all truly f8cked. If you are looking to have good relationships with anyone stop listening to this rubbish.
I worked with someone who was constantly criticizing me for about six months. I was at least halfheartedly suicidal for 5 1/2 of those months.
this guy been liking the top comments and still does'nt change the title
When you registered your marriage, you said that Hi, girl, I love this annoy everyday.😂
I concur they kinda keep testing man
lol people in the comments obviously don’t know what the word Provocation means.
fax
Holy crap!
This could be in a horror movie😮
Sweet Jesus...this is messed up.
Based.
There is truth to this but i still wont allow myself to be cheated on and abused.
Bing AI attributes the quote to JP.
sounds exactly like the behavior that children have towards their parents.
My husbands pokes at me, I do not poke the bear
I was married for 20 years to a narcissist. I gave it all however after I was discarded I remained strong and independent for life. Women can have the men I’m too wise and too independent for any man, I nurture me and love me. I have my passion 🏊🏻♀️ and my grandkids that adore me. Men shouldn’t be in a relation with women they have nothing in common with them.
…like 🇺🇸 & 🇷🇺 ❓….lack of imagination ❓…nothing better to do❗️
20 years and he’s the problem? damn
He saying that their annoying but that poke at us or provoke us
Men use tools. Women use Men.
FACTS
Sums it up. Because we are the ones using the tools they can't use.
@@godleveleldritchblast5257 because they where designed for big hands or individuals of 1.75 meter hight .
I am a truckdriver and can't see my display or half my mirrors because my eyehight is not the same. Yeah I can adjust the seat. I put it higher so my feet no longer reach the pedals , great !
Nah. When there is war the strong sehs keeps normal life running and best spies are women.
@@tpilot_error404 yeah of course women are the best spies, they can blend in better then men, they are generally not seen as a threat so they can catch the enemy off guard, they can use their feminine charms to seduce leaders of empires, just do a history search of ancient spies. The shinobi of Japan were female ninja's who were specifically trained in deception and disguise and were the spies.
@@tpilot_error404 also most men are between are between 5'6 to 5'9. Also a truck is a vehicle, not a tool.
Women love seeking attention. It is with everyone, not just men
That's toxic behavior
autocaption at its best 💀
They test but not his loyalty with tempting of hot women, let him have GUY'S NIGHT OUT.
You are referring to wives, right?
Sounds like something Jubal Hershaw would say lol
Well there is nothing Robert loves more than an over generalisation!
I don’t need provocation I’m done
And when she choses you. You then realise she's not that special & you've wasted your time
Twice? You might want to think about what you're attracted to and why.
I don't think this is man and women's roles this can and is certainly the reverse as well. It's not gender it's just the personality type that insists on being irritating.
He has daughter and son...so he would expect his son to test his future wife and his daughter to test her future husband....Because people are not millionares to do wedding every year with different person.
What do the gender-studies-professors say about that?
Yeah!It really is an over generalistion
This man has a serious hangup with women. It looks like he had a bad relationship with his.mother and/or was humiliated by women.
Or probably knows the truth and facts and doesn't hesistate to speak about ot
Everytime Jordan Peterson starts venting his anger at women, and he's a very angry man, there are very toxic comments from men about women. It's as though he gives them permission to say what they like. This is shameful behaviour from a psychologist. If any man has a problem with women, then he should stay away from them. There are plenty of decent men and women who actually like each other.
@@trisha9745 anger?he is always calm and composed
He talks about very practical things and lot of Men agree with What he says
And instead of choosing to stay away from women he chooses to expose the truth about them like a true psychologist
Its time men learn about these things early so they dont regret it in future
Jordan is a calm and composed man he is never aggressive
And instead of behaving like women are innocent ,he chooses to expose the truth about them like a true psychologist
Instead of staying away from women ,he chooses to talk truth A both them
He is simply speaking facts and a lot of men agree With What he says
A lot of people especially women hate him as he is Speaking too much truth which they cannot accept
Better call saul!
Men test women also. Lets be fair to botb sexes.
shut up
Remember gents. Gaslighting is where woman rephrases inside ger head what was actually said based on how it made her feel.
Record everything 😊
Too bad they’ve abandoned this function in society
AS IF men never test or use women. GIVE ME A FREAKING BREAK 😂😂😂
Men doesn't shit around like femcels
They do but not to the extent of women. "Good men don't typically test their women, but even good women will test their good men"
- The Great Uncle Fester
He said it was an over generalisation…
Let's ignore what u have also ignored, the "generalization" bit, first off, nobody said anything about using men wtf 😂😂 2nd, *are you telling me guys randomly come home and give their women random sh!t tests to prove their quality!?*
Is it men who were doing those dumb Orange Peel tests? I don't think so.
YOU give ME a break.
Exactly. Women who don't test men, and men who can't take it... both, are neither worth it... Caveat: As long as it's Real.
Because men are the buffer between women and the harshness of nature.
If Jordan would read Rollo Tomassi he would know what “shit test” is.
Women ☕
>"so like I was poking my hubby with a stick for like all day and he yelled at me to stop"
>Uploads selfie
>Gets millions of reactions
Nagatoro
So why? 🤦♂️
I HATE being ‘tested’ because of it’s covert nature. I’ve told all the gals I’ve ever dated Do Not Test Me! But they just can’t seem to help themselves. Conniving seems to part of deceitful female nature...
Hmmm, interesting
Im married 10 years. I have 4 sisters and no brothers. Raised by single mom. I was definitely a "simp" teenager. I work in an office full of women. Im 38 now.
We would be a lot farther in society without them. The older I get the less I respect them as a whole. They overcomplicate everything, waste time, are needy, and largely incapable. Feminism has ruined women.
The fact you believe all that, but still feel the need to attach yourself to women through marriage, work, and family, says a lot.
Mainly that you’re a coward who only feels comfy voicing those opinions anonymously through the internet.
Go ahead, tell the women in your life how your really feel about them. Based on your logic, your life will only improve without their presence. Being honest will expedite their exit from your life.
Imagine being married to someone for ten years and never knowing that they really think you’re an incapable waste of space, and the world would be better off without you and your gender. Wow, you’re a real fucking winner.
I avoid females below 25 yrs. Only the ones I like I prefer to talk to.
Kia ora Brother, from New Zealand.
I can see myself in the description you wrote of women.
I definitely complicate things. In many ways I am largely incapable. I am probably needy in one or two areas. And whatever other things you wrote.
I am definitely not what I would call a feminist.
I think that angry, resentful, demasculating feminists have given me that extreme dislike of feminists.
I have a real genuine awe of men. They are so focused, so uncomplicated, have such stamina, and don't assassinate characters the way I have done.
What has REALLY changed my life regarding men is my obsession with History.
I have seen now, millions of men at war on a TV screen.
Russians in their fight against 3 million Germans, ANZACs and others at Gallipoli and in the Somme. Americans and Canadians and others around Normandy, in France, Brits and especially Poles flying over the channel, and Americans, especially in the Pacific and heading towards Berlin...and landing at Omaha. Oh my God. And these are only some.
Seamen in freezing temperatures on the Atlantic, men starved by the Japanese...
Men are our protectors... I have seen a fuckwit called Cathy Newman trying to trap Jordan Petersen. Oh my God what nasty, unhinged women behave like that?!
Now I will share another
side of life.
When I met my partner, he was quite different.
My exclusive commitment to him was immediate and unbreakable. Commitment and honesty sure helps people stay close. I know he wasn't used to my kind of integrity.
I remember me and my girlfriend ( we are both nurses) laughing about our new boyfriends because they couldn't listen. I remember my new man saying " I know what you're going to say" after me only saying 3 words. That was typical back then.
I taught him the beautiful skill of listening. When his Mum got dementia, he followed my example and listened patiently to his beautiful Mum. I sensed she had dementia while others were still treating her impatiently and calling her "dithery".
My partner has been deeply affected by the self-sacrifice and kindness I (and my girlfriends) have brought into his life.
He has been seriously influenced by spirituality and solid self-improvement practises I bring.
He has been 100% staggered by my strength. My life has been full of rather incomprehensible cruelty and he is amazed by it all and by how I got through it all, get through it all.
He runs rings around me in Science, computers, mechanics, electronics and more.
I warn him about low level and dangerous people, and I am always right. I can give feedback about his intense racism, his appalling impatience behind the wheel and among human beings. He can be a helluva rude impatient guy. He certainly has issues on a par with mine.
I also have a massive positivity and habit of laughing. I know cold, serious miserable sounding women/people so I prefer to be happy.
I have to go, but I had another thing to say, if anyone is interested I can write it.
I understand where you are coming from, mate. But integrity is important if you can ever find it.
So get divorced, if that is how you feel.
@@Inisglas
Fair advice, mate.
But it's all really easy to solve. He just needs to now cut contact with his mother and 4 sisters...And he needs to leave his job, and work only where men work. That's likely to be hard physical labour- but hey, that's better than having everything complicated by women!
There are probably hundreds of other women he would need to turn his back on.
He doesn't mention daughters or nieces, but he would definitely, definitely need to cut contact with daughters.
Or he could just say, "that's too complicated for me, I can't listen to that kind of thing". At that point his daughters would cut HIM off. Probably when they are about 10 or 11, when they continue to need him the most.
At that point he might find Jordan Petersen's 'How to defeat your Darkest Thoughts" or some other expert opinion or, possibly by then, spiritual understanding.
When the student is ready, the teacher arrives.
I am very very fortunate, and am incredibly grateful to hundreds of people who teach others...how to have humility and to understand ourselves and other human beings.
I have added new insights to a glorious age- experience-curiosity- related repertoire that I already had. But challenges keep coming, and they are never easy but it is how I grow. I
listened to the interview I mentioned because my daughter has a shockingly complicated life and I want to do anything at all to be useful and supportive.
She had a father who was selfish and neglectful to the extreme. Her partner of 16 years is very similar but worse. He controlled her abused her and diminished her to the extreme.
She is one hell of a sick lady now.
If I thought like her, it would be exactly the same as standing in a war zone with no weapons, surrounded by an army of 7 billion people, all out to get me.
Better parenting, no childhood sexual abuse, less neglect, selfrespect and a later understanding of narcissistic abuse would have prevented this ongoing problem she has with paranoid delusions.
The situation has complicated my life really terribly. It is infinitely worse than my cancer, my cancer treatments and all other significant pressures in my life.
But I won't turn my back on these 2 females: a precious daughter and an angelic
5 year old granddaughter.
I don't entirely appreciate the way he seems to be trying to reframe female obnoxiousness as something useful, because I sure as fuck don't have any use for it. 😕
God forbid we made aware of our weak points.
Put over generalization in that! I don't see big ideas in football and porn !
There are few, also very sure ways of finding out who you really have, what kind of man he is.
Watch his reactions in circumstances where most men feel it boosts their "manhood".
What sort of friends he associates with, how do THEY treat their women, not just on outings, but in every day life
What is his measure of integrity?
How he treats his parents and immediate family?
Does he have the fear of God in his life, respect for things that are just and true, does he believe in moral absolutes, and in Absolute Truth?
Observe your man while he is most at ease. Watch him around other women.
Does he approve of some promiscuous behavior in others?
Do you and him discuss the deep meaningful things of life, do you experience the bond of your souls as you converse? It can not be stressed enough how important is this perticular point...
The reason these are very crucial points to watch for is because those are the building blocks for lasting marriage.
And if you're only planing to date and co- inhabit together, none of these apply, because it will be fruit-less.
Finally Lady, Remember, .you will NOT change your man.
Remember also, if you commit yourself, if it turns out bad, YOU are the one who will suffer the most loss
As a man I can confidently tell you that 90% of women don't care about any of these things.😂
@@Nick-ij5nt agree... to most of them they don't matter...lucky for you ...dime a dozen is under-steatement, so you have plenty-a-pick.
But to the 10% .....you probably wouldn't measure up to their standards, not because they are vain, but because they value who they are and they are not cheap .🙂
@@nadiahope1175 That's pretty rude and presumptuous.
@@Nick-ij5nt oh, is it really? How so?
But you think what you said is not?
@@nadiahope1175 Ya, I'm not even gonna engage with this. I hope you have a wonderful rest of your day.
For those who are complaining that the caption is wrong.
Go get a girl, and then you will find it perfectly fit
He lost me when he started using all those big words he's to wise for me
Huh
Jeez haven't we had enough of this jibberish? Please go away. Will these lefties and righties please just go away. We get it, we get it. Both sides can't have their way so they constantly cry
I generally like JP, but as a woman, I love testing ideas. It’s my favorite kind of conversation. I feel like people get tired of that and it annoys them. I’ve also experienced plenty of men poking around to find your weak spots (no other meaning intended here). In fact my parents tell me that my very intelligent Grandfather did it as a sort of game all the time to assess if you knew what the heck you are talking about. I’m not sure JP is right here. This sort of thing seems more in line with men’s banter than women’s politeness. At least that has been my experience.
No such thing as a strong woman only weak men
I agree with you, Kari. Because I like geeky stuff, most of my friends are guys. Some are easy; some are difficult--the toxic ones I push away. The people who "poke" my nerves the most are my best guy friend, who intentionally irritates me and when I react, says I'm mean (no, stop pranking me, dude), and my brother, who is well-intentioned but controlling at times, which I have called him out on.
As for ideas...I also have several friends who are authors, including best-selling. A few are men; most are women. I also work in health care with several doctors, and the women do research and write for medical journals the same as the men.
I agree with JP on many things, but sometimes he throws one out and thinks it sounds sophisticated because it's a quote, when it's clearly outdated male/female rhetoric.
In the past, women would have to "poke," men because we had no power--we had little academic standing past school teacher and nurse, and when we did achieve a brilliant idea in fields such as science, it was many times credited to a man, because no one believed a woman invented or discovered said thing. But nowadays?....not so much. It happens, sure, but probably on both sides today.
I appreciate your honesty, but would like to note that this does NOT work both ways.
M have the ability to identify problems and create solutions, hence passing her tests.
However, M are largely annoyed because MANY W create problems and develop pseudo-solutions that create MORE problems for HIM.
If he attempts to truly investigate her mind and discuss ideas, she will find a way to be upset, so she can avoid the conversation; placing the responsibility upon him to once AGAIN develop a solution for HER problems.
It's a never-ending cycle in which she is constantly trying to test and manipulate him to "find his weak spots," but once he realizes the game, she finds a way to BLAME HIM, instead of developing ANY level of self-awareness.
She is rarely ever "testing ideas" because she rarely offers an alternative.
She is REALLY just testing how much patience he will have with her emotionally-disastrous state of mind.
@@rienjen Yeah this is some neurotic female brain garbage.
Women had power in the past.
Women "poke" men now more than they ever used to in the past.
Women could major in whatever they wanted in university. Noone ever forced women to become schoolteachers or nurses. You're just being neurotic.
Female inventions were never credited to a man. Females just didn't invent things.
When females did invent things, people were perfectly willing to admit it. See Marie Curie and Hildegard von Bingen
Why do men annoy women?
Cry some more
@@jigen8336 I bet the women are banging down your door
They don't women annoy themselves
@@dieseltu1035 Well, hello Mr. Bitter
@@carolinebjerkelund767 Some of them literally do lol. Had a woman continuously sleep with her ex... Yet she flipped out when I broke up with her. "I know I made a mistake but-" yeah right. Fxck off with that BS lmao.
Women are looking for a man of integrity.
One whose actions align with their words.
A safe,and solid place so they can lay down their swords,and step into their true feminine.
The true feminine is what the man wants,the woman isn’t going to let down her guard for just anybody.
She WILL test you,she wants to know that where she lays her head will be a place of safety and security.
Getting past the niche phraseology like "true feminine," I think this comment does make a good point about vulnerability. I think women tend more toward neuroticism (sensibility to emotional pain), which is a necessary trait considering what they have on the line. So if a woman doesn't know if they have a certain level of security or can trust someone, it may be practical to be on guard. "Testing" may not necessarily need ill-intentioned.
....indicates colonial mind cnt change anymore
Men test ideas and women test men. Lol
Shit someone would say if they only read twitter and never actually spoke to a woman
Hes a clinical psychologist who talks to women all the time...
@@mrloski2915 I wonder why he can't do that anymore 🤔🤔🤔
I never used twitter or facebook, don't even use social networks in my country. I worked in several places with mainly female staff. I studied in similar environments as well. From my experiences - what he says is true.
Some women legit feel the need to shit test you constantly and look for trouble. Had this happen to me several times. I enjoyed going against expectations and "failing" provocations in all kinds of ways. Made things fun, but it was still annoying.
@@Bentothethird what are you talking about women LOVE interviewing him
So how did the term shit test come about
I'm a woman and I can think on my own. I don't just refute men for the sake of it. Because I have a brain.
Yeah no shit 😂
@@DangoWangochu Your pfp looks like Crocodile cosplaying as Shane from Stardew Valley
Men test women in the same way that he talked about here
fix your subs