Ngugi, please bring tata wa Murio, Carol, so she can explain to us why a man marries a second wife. Is it because the first wife didn’t bring 100% Murio, or what’s the problem? This is a question I expected you to ask this man. Are women different kwa bedroom? Please have a follow up show. 🚮
Another question you needed to ask: What security does the 2nd wife have? 1st wife has a marriage certificate, and this is her house. 2nd wife does not have a marriage certificate, and does not own a house or any property, because she hands over her paychecks to the man. Would would prevent her from being kicked out one day, especially if mzee dies first? 😏
This guy Muchoki was my teacher in primary school. What a nightmare he was. He used to whip us mercilessly, for even the most trivial of mistakes in class, add the occasional verbal abuse. Imagine as a 13 year old kid and your biggest bully in school is your teacher. Some of us whom he mostly picked on--the ones not in his list of favourites--used to tremble in fear when he came in to class. I was one of those he liked picking on and he absolutely degraded the little self-esteem I had at the time. And that is not all; he used to hit on young women and fellow teachers in school while being married. Ofcourse as the bully and fear-inspiring man he is, he brainwashed his family into accepting a second wife. I'm not going to dive into all the details but let me just say this guy is a massive red flag and full of crap.
This is pure betrayal. No woman would want a second wife to be brought to her home. This is infringing on her privacy. She had worked so hard for her property. Her space has been interfered with. This is beyond sadness. The man is selfish. Will there be trust again? Can they allow him to assist another needy gal? Or they'll feel he's going to marry her? This is unchristian 😢😢
The first wife is hurting.the facial expression tell it all infact it's like she was forced to come onset coz I don't think there is any woman who would like this, especially ukijua umeletewa mke mwenza ..the ma is a real narcissist and a dictator.
The sitting itself can tell the story!!! Men are very selfish and they don’t care who they hurt!!! Njoki you’re a Hippocrate and very selfish too!!! The marriage covenant is till death do us apart!!!! Njoki you’re death period 🙏
@@waridim9249 Imagine when he is in one woman’s bed, the other one sleeps alone, thinking about what is going on in the other bedroom, and yet she is married. ☹
If a man marries a second wife, he does not love the first wife anymore, the way the man is sitting closer to the younger woman says it all. There are soo many single men.
While love may be the biggest reason people marry, it's not the only one. In general, people make the commitment to spend their lives together for more than a single reason. Every couple chooses to commit to marriage because it serves their needs and supports their values and dreams.
Working in several Muslim countries have proved men as young as 30 live well and longer in polygynous family. Most of those complaining r selfish and controlling!
I really dont understand why men are trying to lie to us that they are champions of marrying two wives. My late dad had two wives, but there was no peace in both homes. What is happening, the first wife is forced to accept the plan or she will be sidelined 😢. I will never be anyone's second, always first or never. Period!!
1st wife (Secondary teacher)2nd wife (Clinical Officer Nurse)Husband (Primary teacher)All properties kwa jina ya husband, Salaries under mzee. 2nd wife he came in the name of asaidiwe ,anyway i salute the wife she's a hero for the sake of her children.
This man is using this ladies and mostly the second one!! They have better job than him and again living in the same house , how ?? I can advice the second one to get her own house and her account alone.He is using you and I think the first wife knows what is cooking .be careful not to be the loser please. Thanks.
@@rosemarykirubi3167 I agree with you. And the second one does not have a marriage certificate. If things go south, she has no legal grounds to claim anything.
My observations too..afadhali amuite mama flani* she's struggling even blow-dry ya nywele ni tall order😢😢😢..may we never experience this kind of humiliation and betrayal
Wewe Njoki rudi kwenu. Wacha, wacha kabisa na boma ya huyu mathe. Plus hiki ki-baba ni stress , kubonga mob, Control issues, pesa anatumia zenu, tiga urimu kiura ruga. Haha nigutee 😢 Walai, unajiwaste. Body na doo
Great advice to the young and pretty lady. She doesn’t even have security in this home. First wife has a marriage certificate, and this house is hers, so she can easily throw Njoki out one day, if this kamzee goes to heaven.
Gaka gatheeee nigathenge,the first wife got disappointed and that man has no respect .l respect madam teacher....she is wise and this man should not cerebrate
This "threesome relationship" seems very hypocritical. Nobody here seems happy. Mzee anawacontrol hawa wamama kama gears za ghari. First wife seems sad with a sense of betrayal. 2nd wife seems fearful and anxious. What is happening to their children only God knows. May be the big ones are angry and bitter. This guy could also be a narcissist. Oh God please help our families.
Na ngugi akasema we do not judge. Nikii murata wahinyia ciene ogwo nahauishi nao? You don't know them,id want to ask if you know your husband too well bfor knowing their story too well
@@reinsky9772 Everybody has an opinion and i have given mine. As you you, you have said what others have said and supported the "threesome". That's your opinion too na ni sawa. Hata wale saba wameni-thumbs-up are expressing their opinion na ni sawa. Any problem? Reke twarie na tuge uria turona.
The 1st wify doesn't look happy with the arrangement. The body language speaks it all...and he sits closer to the 2nd wife away from 1st wify. Anyway I wished them all, the best.
I have seen another video similar to this,they also live in the same house and they're young. The first wife was dark and the second was light skin. The first wife wasn't looking happy she was so much like in this case. I'm not judging coz I'm light skin na watu huku nje they assume lazima niko na mtu na niko single. Nikipatana na mtu wa wenyewe ani dickmatize pia ntakosaje kuwa 2nd kama 1st amekubali. I'm not sure if i would be happy though I'll feel like i ruined the 1st wife's happiness.
I see a lot of bitterness in the 1st wife. If this man died today, would these two women live together?? You remember what happened to the Dematthews??? Something is not adding up in this story. ............ ...THERE IS A LOT OF SUGAR COATING IN THIS STORY!!!!
Two women cannot live in the same house. I see a lot of pain in the first wife heart,she didn’t have a choice but to accept the kacungwa,this man is a dictator ati all the properties are in his name why ???? The first wife is the one suffering huyu mbaba ni fisi!!
The body language of the first wife is saying volumes ........alaafu Ngugi go on supporting 107% mali safi is on the way coming for you utajua hujui😂😂😂😂
@@sarahgacheru3867 Even now I don’t think she’s getting enough. Imagine being that young, and you have to be alone many nights, waiting for your “turn.” She will start looking for a Ben-10 soon.
But she made a tepid decision of sticking around. The husband knew she is.old snd would never go anywhere. He diminished her chances of getting a partner by dragging along for years..then bringing a new one...men are heartless....and the young wife.is enjoying all the labor....if we here deaths happenings its out of poor choices people are making
You have opened wounds of betrayal the first wife has been nursing for years. She is unhappy but very accommodative.Thats what has kept her going. Stano si umejitetea? Justifying your selfishiness. God bless you ladies.May that unity prevail.
First wife welcomed the young girl into her home, thinking they are just helping her, but I think the man had other plans, and he wanted her from the time he met her. He probably always wanted a second wife. He is just sugar coating the story.
They look unhappy 😢😢the presence filled with still motion,this women are been used by this man, manipulating them n controling them,I feel sorry for second wife,nikama hii Mzee ili lipa chuo
Lust and unfaithfulness is the key word here however sugar coated it might be. The first wife had no alternative but to agree in order to give her kids an atmosphere to grow. Sharing a husband openly has never been a cup of tea to any woman. Cheating took the day here and it might go down to their kids also because this poligamous alter might take roots.
@@Njitagwo_Shiro who wants shared intimacy if not for convinency? If the first wife has given him all he would want why have an eye, a thought for another woman.The body language from this man towards the younger woman speaks it all. First wife is always convinced through negative thoughts of “ if I don’t accept, he will still go out there or how about the properties acquired together?, how about the kids growing without a father and my parents were also polygamous. Truth be, “ I don’t love him anymore so I don’t care or I don’t feel a certain type of way when they are together.
The man is so selfish he prefers the second wife by his body language. There is nothing great about living together. God is not happy second wives side chicks have destroyed.many home period
The way they met is interesting...she knew what she wanted very well when asking the guy to be a guest of honor. Haki lifeee!! Njoki...dont u think u betrayed the first wife??
It's good to read and understand the Bible well and not replying in one verse. Read the same chapter verse 6 - (6 Lakini nasema hayo, kwa kutoa idhini yangu, si kwa amri)
N which Lord are u referring too??The white Jesus from Nazareth who was brot to us as Africans or our creator Ngaaii witu??We must agree first that before the European bible arrived we the Africans believed in our creator n we had a good way of living n customs.
What a wonderful man?? I like your understanding coz I have seen my two grandmothers being two wives of my grandfather and they lived their whole lives in togetherness in everything. They lived as sisters with loving and caring for one other even when they were dying they didn't accept to be separated coz one died and the other followed after one week following their husband who had died an year before. "Whatever the couples are saying, I know its possible" but, Jelous cannot allow us....... like myself............
Even the first wife vile she is holding herself tells it all. This is a very selfish man, na huyo second wife haki, another woman sacrifices her finances usome then you take her hubby...only God is the judge
the only happy person in this relationship is the man. He has all that he wants, and controls both wives with everything including their salaries. The first wife seems to have condoned the secon wife for the sake of her children especially her daughter! when a man goes for a seond one, there is always a void he feel with the 1st. In this set up, with both women being very independent, am left speechless at how both agree to be controlled by Mr. Muchoki, according to my own observation is every egocentric. Everything about this relationship is just about his satisfaction!
First wife clearly is hurt its all over her face as a woman I can tell...second wife anxious because in her heart of hearts she knows its wrong thats y her mother refused the idea...the husband leaning on the 2nd wife bcs thats where his heart is also he calls her by her name which is great but refers to the wife of his youth as "ùyù" or "this one" polygamy is trauma to the first woman and her children ....maoni tu ..its their business
Jesus,ici ni pepo,I love this 1st wife,anajua Huku ni kwake na utamuacha tu..na utatoka bila kitu...noanga Ishmael....note my words babygirl... anything that comes between two that God has brought together is just but DEATH.
The first wife would not be happy with her son marrying a second wife, yet she is here telling us how happy she is with sharing her husband? Someone make it make sense.
It doesn’t make sense. She does not even look happy, and she seems depressed. It must be humiliating to have your church wedded husband, bring another woman into YOUR house. But as a high school teacher, she could have easily walked away and raised her kids alone. So wote wako na shinda.
@@blessedwachera7133 this man is very selfish ati he married two wives ndio afunze men something. What can you possibly teach any man here? Ati hakuwa na tamaa ya wanawake but yet he basically lured this second wife by promising to pay for her education only for him to follow her behind his wife’s back. The wife got played and she won’t say it on camera but the hurt shows . I’m sure she felt betrayed by both of them, I would never house another woman in my house hell no. They will find a way to turn against you. Mwanaume jiheshimu ujengee bibi wa pili her own house. Women please stop allowing these men to disrespect you all in the name of being married. Wanaume ni wengi kea hii dunia.
It's how ngugi is happy about which bed the man sleeps... All was well untill they had to give the man all the money.. The man should be the provide r as he said.. Otherwise companionship n sex can shared to avoid boredom. Moral of the story never bring a woman in your house even your sister
Maybe the man and 1st wife hatched a plan to take the 2nd wives money. She is a clinical officer, so she makes more money than them (teachers). She doesn’t have a marriage certificate, while 1st wife has one. She has no security and she can be kicked out easily, especially if the man die.s. Mjinga…🤨
I heard with a polygamous man eti men who choose the polygamy way are Soo selfish and self centered. Anataka TU awe akiwatumia for his own gains na ata akioa kumi lazima akuwe na sidehen.
Did they share the Same house?? That’s what most of us are struggling with,,,polygamy is not new in Kenya but to have a second wife move in with the first wife is disrespectful!! I think it would not be a big issue if he had built the second wife her own house otherwise someone needs to convince me that those two women are not lovers but also need a man to sustain what they can’t sustain by themselves.
To me if he requires his two woman to bring in their money means he cannot maintain both of them.. Be the King and rovide everything and let your wives contribute willingly.. Where each woman comes from their problems are not the same..
Ngugi....say it is possible because of your wife meaning huyo unaita "uyu"........Ungekuwa mwenda Kama Mimi......you would have seen hell on earth.......I would rather be alone haki......Mrs Kamau I salute you Mami.......big up!!!!
Wacha haka kaschana kazeeke God is very patient katalia msichana wake ataolewa na guka kuliko huyu bwana yao ama akuwe Lele coz roho ikifika kwa mtoto it multiply
A man making his first woman feel at peace and happy for his compromised behaviour..her face is telling a lot...atleast she has a job..I wish her well in this African culture..where it seems a woman has to agree with everything coming frm his man.
I always say,love is for two,the third is a spectator.The closeness between the man and the second wife is loudly evident.Bibi wa kwanza hukumbali for the sake of peace.
Respect to the man for being able to sustain 2 wives ...n the fact is, they r not house wives but employed wives...kudos bazuu...kudos to the first wife for standing with Bazuu when he introduced the 2nd wife....the 2nd wife is unique for accepting to live under the same roof with the first wife...she is very beautiful both inside n out n I like how she respects bazuu n the first wife
Ngugi has done it well...Ngugi uhinyagia uhoro baranginyo...hii imebamba ..handu hothe hens gitio na mundurume mugima maisha makoragwo me mega muno...congratulations to this family
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Ngugi, please bring tata wa Murio, Carol, so she can explain to us why a man marries a second wife. Is it because the first wife didn’t bring 100% Murio, or what’s the problem? This is a question I expected you to ask this man. Are women different kwa bedroom? Please have a follow up show. 🚮
Another question you needed to ask: What security does the 2nd wife have? 1st wife has a marriage certificate, and this is her house. 2nd wife does not have a marriage certificate, and does not own a house or any property, because she hands over her paychecks to the man. Would would prevent her from being kicked out one day, especially if mzee dies first? 😏
@@blessedwachera7133 I can respond to your question. UMARAYA! Nothing else.
@@joyfrance565 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@joyfrance565😂😂😂 kabisa
The man cares about his happiness alone,he doesn't care how his 1st wife feels neither does he respect the vows he made long ago😏😏
True 😢
True true narcissistic n colonialist
No one can convince me that me that the first wife embraced her with open arms. I can't..
Wacha kamzae kakufe😂😂it will demathew her
This guy Muchoki was my teacher in primary school. What a nightmare he was. He used to whip us mercilessly, for even the most trivial of mistakes in class, add the occasional verbal abuse. Imagine as a 13 year old kid and your biggest bully in school is your teacher. Some of us whom he mostly picked on--the ones not in his list of favourites--used to tremble in fear when he came in to class. I was one of those he liked picking on and he absolutely degraded the little self-esteem I had at the time. And that is not all; he used to hit on young women and fellow teachers in school while being married. Ofcourse as the bully and fear-inspiring man he is, he brainwashed his family into accepting a second wife. I'm not going to dive into all the details but let me just say this guy is a massive red flag and full of crap.
This is pure betrayal. No woman would want a second wife to be brought to her home. This is infringing on her privacy. She had worked so hard for her property. Her space has been interfered with. This is beyond sadness. The man is selfish. Will there be trust again? Can they allow him to assist another needy gal? Or they'll feel he's going to marry her? This is unchristian 😢😢
The first wife is the owner of this house,,second according the Bible,,is there to interfear to first married
Well said. If he really meant well, he could have built the second wife her own empire.
May this confusion never locate me in Jesus name.
😂😂😂😂😂kemea my sista hii ni ujinga wa hali ya juu
Amen✌️
Amen and amen
😂😂😂😂
Amen Amen
When you master the art of hearing what has not been said and reading what has not been written.
I like your comment coz you're very wise
Very true
The body language😢
Tiga wigwikira Ngài Maundu ma Ngoma....Akireta wa tatu na nne mutajua hamujui....Shetani akifunguliwa anakuja na wajukuu...
Yes the body language
Nimekubaliana na kila kitu lkn apo kwa pesa na same roof zii.this man is so controling
The first wife is hurting.the facial expression tell it all infact it's like she was forced to come onset coz I don't think there is any woman who would like this, especially ukijua umeletewa mke mwenza ..the ma is a real narcissist and a dictator.
This is calling what is evil good. From deep inside the 1st wife is not happy
True aky ata Mungu alikua na sababu ya kuumbia Adam one wife anajua mioyo yetu
The first wife does not look happy as much as she is talking about their family and the second wife has alot of fear. This man.... no words.
Depression.
Good
Mûndû ûrîa ûikaraga na gîkeno haha no ûcio ûikaraga ta mûthamaki. 😏
The sitting itself can tell the story!!! Men are very selfish and they don’t care who they hurt!!! Njoki you’re a Hippocrate and very selfish too!!! The marriage covenant is till death do us apart!!!! Njoki you’re death period 🙏
@@waridim9249 Imagine when he is in one woman’s bed, the other one sleeps alone, thinking about what is going on in the other bedroom, and yet she is married. ☹
If a man marries a second wife, he does not love the first wife anymore, the way the man is sitting closer to the younger woman says it all. There are soo many single men.
While love may be the biggest reason people marry, it's not the only one. In general, people make the commitment to spend their lives together for more than a single reason. Every couple chooses to commit to marriage because it serves their needs and supports their values and dreams.
Njoki products ya mpango wa kando
Working in several Muslim countries have proved men as young as 30 live well and longer in polygynous family. Most of those complaining r selfish and controlling!
I noticed the same
He doesn't want at all to be closer to the first wife
May this demonic spirit of home wrecking never locate me and my entire generation in Jesus name
Amen 🙏🏽
Amen 🙌
Lol...wearing a polygamy coat!!!
Amen Amen
Amen! Amen
First wife Mrs muchoki my homscience and cre teacher in gaturi gals .... Ngugi pass my greetings mwambie ni Anne Ng'ang'a .
I love her so much ❤
Yes we love you Mrs muchoki...she was a good teacher..
Lesson learned kuwa mzuri c opinion
Mrs muchoki was my teacher too
I really dont understand why men are trying to lie to us that they are champions of marrying two wives. My late dad had two wives, but there was no peace in both homes.
What is happening, the first wife is forced to accept the plan or she will be sidelined 😢.
I will never be anyone's second, always first or never. Period!!
My homescience teacher humble as always
Wacha nishidwe
1st wife (Secondary teacher)2nd wife (Clinical Officer Nurse)Husband (Primary teacher)All properties kwa jina ya husband, Salaries under mzee. 2nd wife he came in the name of asaidiwe ,anyway i salute the wife she's a hero for the sake of her children.
Hapo Kuna shinda huyu mwanaume ni dictator
This man is using this ladies and mostly the second one!! They have better job than him and again living in the same house , how ?? I can advice the second one to get her own house and her account alone.He is using you and I think the first wife knows what is cooking .be careful not to be the loser please. Thanks.
@@rosemarykirubi3167 I agree with you. And the second one does not have a marriage certificate. If things go south, she has no legal grounds to claim anything.
He is talking too much, something is wrong 😢😢😢
@@Dee_the_blessed1 Maybe his head is not right. 👹
the happy person here is a man and second wife first wife nothing have gained only pain
Second wife.. how
. giving salary to her husband...niokotwe gekomba
No matter how you look at this, the first wife is not happy.
She doesn’t look happy at all. This is some madness
Very true, she's in deep thoughts
True
This man is very authoritative,the 1st wife anaitwa uyu kama mtu hana jina,2nd ndiye njoki.....
My observations too..afadhali amuite mama flani* she's struggling even blow-dry ya nywele ni tall order😢😢😢..may we never experience this kind of humiliation and betrayal
@@edithwachirah5273 true,how on earth can a man control my hard earned money,in the name of marriage.....
Was keen hapo pia weuh
Hii ni ujinga kwanza aniite *uyu* naweza muua in the worst manner possible
The man is a commanding officer, both women fear this man, how do I ask permission for my hard earned money
As long as this family is united and happy,our opinion doesn't matter,i love them
Wewe Njoki rudi kwenu. Wacha, wacha kabisa na boma ya huyu mathe. Plus hiki ki-baba ni stress , kubonga mob, Control issues, pesa anatumia zenu, tiga urimu kiura ruga. Haha nigutee 😢 Walai, unajiwaste. Body na doo
Great advice to the young and pretty lady. She doesn’t even have security in this home. First wife has a marriage certificate, and this house is hers, so she can easily throw Njoki out one day, if this kamzee goes to heaven.
He depends on the women's salary.
Educated women being brainwashed and used
Waambie tuliona wa kina demathew
@teresiamaina umebonga👌
Heri huyu anajulikana,labda bwanako Ako na watatu😅
Sijapenda huyo mzee first wife hakuwa na choice sometimes heri kuwa bibi wazimu juu bwana huogopa kuwa mpole hisaidii
Huyu Mzee ni mkora
True..she looks very unhappy! Polygamy is a demon!
@@rosemaryjoseph9414Give us a Bible verse?
Huyu Mzee ana kiherehere Sana na majivuno alafu mbona anakaribia gacungua saaana.God forbide
mimi ndio nilimuchukia kitambo....maringo nyiiiingi for what...juu ya kumarry daughter agemate wife...
Kwa ground vitu huwa tofaouti women can never love each other..
Anwai murio family watching
Very true ,,,,,😊😅
The first wife is wise.
She sacrificed her pride for the sake of her children's stability.Nonie reke nemwo.
I don’t see wisdom, I see low self esteem.
The man is a dictator she had no objection but to go with the husband's decision, according to her statement
@@blessedwachera7133 Ûguo nîguo kûrî, without doubt!
Gaka gatheeee nigathenge,the first wife got disappointed and that man has no respect .l respect madam teacher....she is wise and this man should not cerebrate
onanie kwanza hawezi kaa kwangu wanaume ni mafisi na hawaokokangi never
These are indeed the last days.We are calling evil good.The devil is attacking families first...no wonder the society is getting worse and worse.
I salute the first lady aki.... she has a good heart❤.... first lady nindakurutira ngufia
Her good heart was taken advantage of by her philandering husband.
Is that what you call good heart? 😭😭😭 She's bleeding inside
@@njambiann7870 even her face,voice tells it very well of her hidden unhappiness
@njambiann,kwani wewe ni wetu,ata Mimi naitwa Anne njambi wanjohi
She is not happy you can tel frm her face
It's not normal lazima first wife Huwa anakwazika she only agree not to loose her home and husband
True, no woman wants to share the man , no matter how they paint it, Period!
Why share. Men are many.
The man seems uneasy as if he's hiding or fearing reveal of something else 😮😮😮
You're right
If you think they are happy ask yourself what happened to the famous 'De mathew Queens ' 🤣🤣. Ùyù ùkoragwo ùrì ùhinga mùtheri
Say that again
Mr Muchoki taught me in my primary school back in vidhu ramji❤️ congratulations Mr Muchoki
This man though.... Ako na kiherehere sana and anakaa kuwaweka baridi 😏
Walae sahiyo bibi wako na job kubwa kumshinda... N kama n wao hujilisha... Ju huyu hawawezi wote wawili😢
Ni kikuyu dictators
If a woman helped me like that, to the point of giving a place to stay, i would never mess with her hubby let alone get married.
Aki sure.....I feel for the 1st wife
Ako hio nayo sio poa
Ikr... I wouldn't even look at him twice
True
I agree 💯. Not a person who helped you. No no no no.
This "threesome relationship" seems very hypocritical. Nobody here seems happy. Mzee anawacontrol hawa wamama kama gears za ghari. First wife seems sad with a sense of betrayal. 2nd wife seems fearful and anxious. What is happening to their children only God knows. May be the big ones are angry and bitter. This guy could also be a narcissist. Oh God please help our families.
Na ngugi akasema we do not judge. Nikii murata wahinyia ciene ogwo nahauishi nao? You don't know them,id want to ask if you know your husband too well bfor knowing their story too well
@@reinsky9772 Everybody has an opinion and i have given mine. As you you, you have said what others have said and supported the "threesome". That's your opinion too na ni sawa. Hata wale saba wameni-thumbs-up are expressing their opinion na ni sawa. Any problem? Reke twarie na tuge uria turona.
@@intyrystyn do you live in that house?
Agnes Wanjau, yours is the brainiest analysis I have encountered in all social media over the last ten years...
U can hear he talks much making sure he controls the talk
The 1st wify doesn't look happy with the arrangement. The body language speaks it all...and he sits closer to the 2nd wife away from 1st wify. Anyway I wished them all, the best.
I feared to say this,had not seen your comment.according to the work explained the 1st wife does alot of house chaos...salute to the 1st wife
I have seen another video similar to this,they also live in the same house and they're young. The first wife was dark and the second was light skin. The first wife wasn't looking happy she was so much like in this case.
I'm not judging coz I'm light skin na watu huku nje they assume lazima niko na mtu na niko single. Nikipatana na mtu wa wenyewe ani dickmatize pia ntakosaje kuwa 2nd kama 1st amekubali. I'm not sure if i would be happy though I'll feel like i ruined the 1st wife's happiness.
The bragging about educating those women wasn't necessary 😳
Single men ebu kujeni mnimarry before nifike hapa. This kind of lifestyle ain't for everyone.
The fact that he calls 2nd wife "njoki" and 1st wife "uyu" speaks volumes 😢
Mimi hii nayo siwezi...the man's heart iko kwa second wife its evident...heri shakahola😂😂😂😂
walai tena ona vile amekaribia second wife mpaka na sema kimoyomoyo si ukalibie first wife kidogo aki😂😂😂
First wife n mawazo tu
Weee!!first wife anaitwa 'uyu' second wife ni 'njoki'...tells it All...distance ya kuketi pia near second wife.....
The man is a dictator it tell all
Kumbe tunaona wengi
Have noted that too
Nakuambia.......It can never be haki!!
@@estherwangui4274very true,1st wives hu pretend they are happy but they aren't ni vile hawana choice😢
The pride in the man😢😢😢😢😢.
First wife doesn't look happy
Goat wives work hard and sacrifice alot for the family to succeed....how things turn around for them will forever remain a mystery...
I see a lot of bitterness in the 1st wife. If this man died today, would these two women live together?? You remember what happened to the Dematthews??? Something is not adding up in this story. ............ ...THERE IS A LOT OF SUGAR COATING IN THIS STORY!!!!
I agree with you she seems not happy at all
The big problem here is that sharing of house. Angejengea bibi mdogo kwake
True ata wa demathew saa hii ni 🔥
@@gracekaranu9110true
When the man's die, second wife atakipata like carol demathew,how she stated on regretting bn a second wife
Two women cannot live in the same house. I see a lot of pain in the first wife heart,she didn’t have a choice but to accept the kacungwa,this man is a dictator ati all the properties are in his name why ???? The first wife is the one suffering huyu mbaba ni fisi!!
Imagine the embarrassment she went through
100% 👏👏👏
its a sad story for me, na Ngugi kindly allow us to judge as we are also being judged 😂😂😂
Never judge but I like the openess in this man's heart he's not a hypocrite
Authoritative husband
I myself can't live in such a dictator ship environment 😭
He looks like a narcissist, and a very self-centered man. The first wife looks like amekaliwa sana, nikaa ameekwa na baridi.
Kumbe hii second wife ghasia ndio ulitangulia kuingilia familia ya waithira
The environment is toxic😢😢 1st wife she isn't glowing😢anateseka. She can't stand her son to get a 2nd wife because she has 1st end experience
Even me,
The body language of the first wife is saying volumes ........alaafu Ngugi go on supporting 107% mali safi is on the way coming for you utajua hujui😂😂😂😂
Njoki missed it all because this man cannot nyotora her some years to come atakuwa Anakula kwa macho
@@sarahgacheru3867 Even now I don’t think she’s getting enough. Imagine being that young, and you have to be alone many nights, waiting for your “turn.” She will start looking for a Ben-10 soon.
@@blessedwachera7133the man is 55! Absurd for this young lady! This is against nature
Mrs Muchoki taught me 22 years ago at Gaturi girls.She is the same beautiful, smart and wise lady she has always been.
My CRE teacher too
But she made a tepid decision of sticking around. The husband knew she is.old snd would never go anywhere. He diminished her chances of getting a partner by dragging along for years..then bringing a new one...men are heartless....and the young wife.is enjoying all the labor....if we here deaths happenings its out of poor choices people are making
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dagitari mugima , young and beautiful what did you see in this mbaba😮. So manipulative
😂😂😂, the way I laugh at this confusion after looking at the Demathews, and Mugai wa njoros family 😅😅😅
You have opened wounds of betrayal the first wife has been nursing for years. She is unhappy but very accommodative.Thats what has kept her going.
Stano si umejitetea? Justifying your selfishiness.
God bless you ladies.May that unity prevail.
I can't judge but the word of God will still remain, blessings iko kwa first wife, even Abraham aliambiwa na mungu amuache hagai for salar
First wife welcomed the young girl into her home, thinking they are just helping her, but I think the man had other plans, and he wanted her from the time he met her. He probably always wanted a second wife. He is just sugar coating the story.
Very true. Alimfichia white.
@@salomekinuthia2742 Agree. He was having an affair with her, and like her, then pretended he just met her about the harambee. Giki ni githaria. 🐕
I also think so.
@@blessedwachera7133 very true.
They look unhappy 😢😢the presence filled with still motion,this women are been used by this man, manipulating them n controling them,I feel sorry for second wife,nikama hii Mzee ili lipa chuo
Lust and unfaithfulness is the key word here however sugar coated it might be. The first wife had no alternative but to agree in order to give her kids an atmosphere to grow. Sharing a husband openly has never been a cup of tea to any woman. Cheating took the day here and it might go down to their kids also because this poligamous alter might take roots.
I always assume for the first wife to accept the a cowife it’s only because she also doesn’t love the husband anymore but stays for her convenience.
@@FloKWellnessHubanyway who can stay loving such a man, waste of time
I hate this story with a passion as the guy is sugar coating this nonsense
@@Njitagwo_Shiro who wants shared intimacy if not for convinency? If the first wife has given him all he would want why have an eye, a thought for another woman.The body language from this man towards the younger woman speaks it all. First wife is always convinced through negative thoughts of “ if I don’t accept, he will still go out there or how about the properties acquired together?, how about the kids growing without a father and my parents were also polygamous. Truth be, “ I don’t love him anymore so I don’t care or I don’t feel a certain type of way when they are together.
The man is so selfish he prefers the second wife by his body language. There is nothing great about living together. God is not happy second wives side chicks have destroyed.many home period
Betrayal, harafu when addressing the lst lady "Tùgìthiì na Njoki na ùyù."Aaiiii .
The way they met is interesting...she knew what she wanted very well when asking the guy to be a guest of honor. Haki lifeee!! Njoki...dont u think u betrayed the first wife??
The word of the lord is never changed by anything, one wife one husband....ata u decorate aje
Drop that verse here
1 Corinthians 7 one man one wife , polygamy is unlawful
It's good to read and understand the Bible well and not replying in one verse. Read the same chapter verse 6 - (6 Lakini nasema hayo, kwa kutoa idhini yangu, si kwa amri)
@@josephgikonyo1554 I want to see it too
N which Lord are u referring too??The white Jesus from Nazareth who was brot to us as Africans or our creator Ngaaii witu??We must agree first that before the European bible arrived we the Africans believed in our creator n we had a good way of living n customs.
What did these two beautiful humble ladies find in this man surely???
I also wonder
Nashangaa na venye ako mouthy
And they both have a career to pursue? Aaaai!
Nashangaa pia. Too much talking
He tricked them
Hapa kuna siri dani ya dumu 😂😂fast wife eyes 👀
Ur right
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂sure Siri ndani ya nduma Iko hapa
Very true I don't think if a man is too happy with his family can decide to bring a 2nd wife. Hiyo ni uongo mtupu
What a wonderful man?? I like your understanding coz I have seen my two grandmothers being two wives of my grandfather and they lived their whole lives in togetherness in everything. They lived as sisters with loving and caring for one other even when they were dying they didn't accept to be separated coz one died and the other followed after one week following their husband who had died an year before.
"Whatever the couples are saying, I know its possible" but, Jelous cannot allow us....... like myself............
These three r portraying a happy polygamous relationship which is not the case! It can never b this perfect!
I agree with you
Even the first wife vile she is holding herself tells it all. This is a very selfish man, na huyo second wife haki, another woman sacrifices her finances usome then you take her hubby...only God is the judge
The distance between them in that seat screams out
the only happy person in this relationship is the man. He has all that he wants, and controls both wives with everything including their salaries. The first wife seems to have condoned the secon wife for the sake of her children especially her daughter! when a man goes for a seond one, there is always a void he feel with the 1st. In this set up, with both women being very independent, am left speechless at how both agree to be controlled by Mr. Muchoki, according to my own observation is every egocentric. Everything about this relationship is just about his satisfaction!
First wife clearly is hurt its all over her face as a woman I can tell...second wife anxious because in her heart of hearts she knows its wrong thats y her mother refused the idea...the husband leaning on the 2nd wife bcs thats where his heart is also he calls her by her name which is great but refers to the wife of his youth as "ùyù" or "this one" polygamy is trauma to the first woman and her children ....maoni tu ..its their business
I completely agree with you.
@@esthermusembi2632 true there are questions he prefers to answer though not directly asked to him maoni
The man loves second wife the posture has it all
Jina Muchoki ni hatari kwa wamama wale wako na pesa 😂😂
@@edithmugure3080 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Muchoki ni hatari.
Exactly,,, saw it before in another interview
Correct
Very evident.distance between first wife n husband n husband n kachungwa.....u can c n relate
Hiyo jicho ya huyo mzee😂😂😂😂😂dictatorship detected
Anakaaa Ruto cjui kama ni mimi naona vibaya
Jesus,ici ni pepo,I love this 1st wife,anajua Huku ni kwake na utamuacha tu..na utatoka bila kitu...noanga Ishmael....note my words babygirl... anything that comes between two that God has brought together is just but DEATH.
The first wife would not be happy with her son marrying a second wife, yet she is here telling us how happy she is with sharing her husband? Someone make it make sense.
It doesn’t make sense. She does not even look happy, and she seems depressed. It must be humiliating to have your church wedded husband, bring another woman into YOUR house. But as a high school teacher, she could have easily walked away and raised her kids alone. So wote wako na shinda.
@@blessedwachera7133 this man is very selfish ati he married two wives ndio afunze men something. What can you possibly teach any man here? Ati hakuwa na tamaa ya wanawake but yet he basically lured this second wife by promising to pay for her education only for him to follow her behind his wife’s back. The wife got played and she won’t say it on camera but the hurt shows . I’m sure she felt betrayed by both of them, I would never house another woman in my house hell no. They will find a way to turn against you. Mwanaume jiheshimu ujengee bibi wa pili her own house. Women please stop allowing these men to disrespect you all in the name of being married. Wanaume ni wengi kea hii dunia.
The sense is not sensing😅
@@Charityshii05that true, I can't even dare to think of hosting any body in my house .
@@bossb8989 😂😂😂
Huyu bibi tu ni mambo fire ataonyesha huyu 1st maneno huyu ...
I feel for the first wife, her body language she appears distanced from the husband
Kabisa
Very unhappy..
So true she's there physically but emotionally she's not there 😢
Hongera stano family sio rahisi I salute the first lady so much
mwalimu stano....you are blessed man two pillars are better than one, a very genuine inspiration
They are like cera and moreen but walipotea Kwa mtandao tena nikama kiliwaramba😅
Yes the Abraham empire
Kana Wanjohi's queens
Nimeulizia saana kuwahusu The Abraham s. Kiliwarambaa nini?😅
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I think Maureen alipata mtoto wakapotea online
It's how ngugi is happy about which bed the man sleeps...
All was well untill they had to give the man all the money.. The man should be the provide r as he said.. Otherwise companionship n sex can shared to avoid boredom.
Moral of the story never bring a woman in your house even your sister
Maybe the man and 1st wife hatched a plan to take the 2nd wives money. She is a clinical officer, so she makes more money than them (teachers). She doesn’t have a marriage certificate, while 1st wife has one. She has no security and she can be kicked out easily, especially if the man die.s. Mjinga…🤨
@@blessedwachera7133 atalilia choo
Its like he loves the 2nd wife more............ nowe arogokera na kumuhutia muno
Waow nice family that man is a hero,first wife very composed and intelligent.second wife very humble
No problem with marrying more wife's.. But the pride in this man it's on another level...
the pride of an old man.
Haku Njoki ni spoiler
I have noted that ....kujigamba ndiyo mingi
Ndingienda ngoma!
Wow..kumbe translator do lie.
Waa a good lesson nmesoma gwakwa ndikarehe muhiki
Ngai remember our families, turirikane tu ngai. One man one wife
I was brought up in a polygamous family, so when I see this family. I relate them with ours. Keep it up Mr Stano's family
Ngugi needs to interview those of us who grew up in polygamous families. If i had to do it again, I’d rather die.
I heard with a polygamous man eti men who choose the polygamy way are Soo selfish and self centered. Anataka TU awe akiwatumia for his own gains na ata akioa kumi lazima akuwe na sidehen.
@blessedwachera7133 That's your experience. My grandfather had 2 wives, and it was normal for me. I love my half cousins, and I saw no negativity.
Did they share the Same house?? That’s what most of us are struggling with,,,polygamy is not new in Kenya but to have a second wife move in with the first wife is disrespectful!! I think it would not be a big issue if he had built the second wife her own house otherwise someone needs to convince me that those two women are not lovers but also need a man to sustain what they can’t sustain by themselves.
My grandmother were two wives... she warned us vividly .... yao ilikuwa machozi
Mutumia murogi....God bless the first wife.un
To me if he requires his two woman to bring in their money means he cannot maintain both of them.. Be the King and rovide everything and let your wives contribute willingly.. Where each woman comes from their problems are not the same..
The second one should step out n go get hr life..this two ppl luks like the dad n mum to hr
The best video i have watched ❤may God protect your marriage 🎉🎉
The reaction of Stano when first wife is speaking vs the second is quite different.😢
Exactly
@@teresiamaina9573absolutely even the distance of seating speak volume
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Even the distance btwn is different weeee l cant fathom.....
Nimeona
l feel for these educated ladies, giving their salaries to these man ,sharing a house and at times the bed....nooo no
Imagine when you can get your own husband. Male chauvinism and viewing women like property to bring in resources.
Imagine anawatumia vibaya anaishi maisha yake he doesn't care about their feelings he is a shelfish man
I hope he does not take their
Salary to manipulate them.
@@lydiageorge6832 what else do u expect
Mzee muceneeee
Ngugi....say it is possible because of your wife meaning huyo unaita "uyu"........Ungekuwa mwenda Kama Mimi......you would have seen hell on earth.......I would rather be alone haki......Mrs Kamau I salute you Mami.......big up!!!!
Av loved this man,they are amazing. Waooo God bless them
I envy dis family. Ngugi de secret behind de two wives dey are humble n seems to respect each other. Waishi hivo n dea kids will follow de same lane.
Whatever a man soweth, that is what he reapeth. Sow lust will reap lust . I feel for your children.
Wacha haka kaschana kazeeke God is very patient katalia msichana wake ataolewa na guka kuliko huyu bwana yao ama akuwe Lele coz roho ikifika kwa mtoto it multiply
@@WanjiruShii-jq1vl Nî tûhoere ciana ciothe maûndû mega tondû they (were born) found themselves in that set up.
It's evident from the first wife's talk she sacrificed this for her kids, she didn't want to raise kids away from both parents
Njoki wee nduri muugi ona hanini...ungepata wako binafzi you are beautiful
A man making his first woman feel at peace and happy for his compromised behaviour..her face is telling a lot...atleast she has a job..I wish her well in this African culture..where it seems a woman has to agree with everything coming frm his man.
God locate my Tr mrs Waithera... Always give her peace and happiness.
I always say,love is for two,the third is a spectator.The closeness between the man and the second wife is loudly evident.Bibi wa kwanza hukumbali for the sake of peace.
He is so close to the second wife instead of being at the center
Hii upole ya first wife for me apana it's good women to be dramatic sometimes
True drama helps sometimes
Very true...Being Voiceless can bring alot of problems in your fmly.even your children needs your commands
That man is best mentor ever, he once came to githagara primary to mentor parents about our pupils.I love the spirit keep it up mr muchoki👏👏👏👏👍
Motivational speakers do practice what they preach h😂
Aki Ngugi you are very hilarious, I just love ur show❤
Respect to the man for being able to sustain 2 wives ...n the fact is, they r not house wives but employed wives...kudos bazuu...kudos to the first wife for standing with Bazuu when he introduced the 2nd wife....the 2nd wife is unique for accepting to live under the same roof with the first wife...she is very beautiful both inside n out n I like how she respects bazuu n the first wife
Distance between hubby and 1st wife wololo
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Aya mahúragwo nginya ya mwirí wamejaa baridi na uoga ... dictator nake nokúrúgia kanua
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1st wife was betrayed aki ati unahost mtu roho safi,kamzae na kujisifu na kanakaa dictator pia😂😂😂
Kwani huyu second wife hangetamani kuolewa na bwana mwingine young? I feel for the first wife,it seems this man calculated his moves kitambo.
This is kidnapping njoki😂😂😂😂
Ngugi has done it well...Ngugi uhinyagia uhoro baranginyo...hii imebamba ..handu hothe hens gitio na mundurume mugima maisha makoragwo me mega muno...congratulations to this family
I married my highschool boyfriend n my first love ...but wacha nikwambie Mainaaa😂 ..iam not 100% happy..21yrs later..afadhali ningengonjea kidogo🤔
😂😂😂weh pole
Woi if huyuko happy jitoe
Allow yourself to be happy
I prefer this arrangement than mpango wa kando which brings alot of pain..I hope and pray that the first wife is happy and her children..
Who said mzee akiwa na 2 wives hatakuwa na mpango ya kando? Kímaramarí no kimaramarí
Who said mzee akiwa na 2 wives hatakuwa na mpango ya kando? Kímaramarí no kimaramarí
Wah..umestoop low..2nd wife was also a mapango. He now has another one
A second wife began as a mpango wa kando. Hii yote ni usherati.
No wrong is better than the other
WaKanaus u r a good example, a happy dam & morecver one n a million. God bls you. 🙏🙏🙏