First time having SEX? Here's what to expect I Episode 104
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- Опубликовано: 6 сен 2024
- We know a lot of inbetweeners are yet to experience sex and since we talk about it sooooo much 😄, we wanted to have a real conversation about our first sexual experiences and all the things we learnt! First of boo, if you’re sat there thinking your first time sex is about to be like the ones in the adult videos, you’ll have to think again!!! Girl, don’t expect to go wheelbarrowing and reverse cowgirling. Start slow and you’ll have a good time. Unlike us, do it with someone you care about and use the information we’ve given you and go have the best first experience! It can actually be a very beautiful experience 🥰
Tell us in the comments, what have you envisioned for your first time? And those who’ve already been there, how was your experience and what did you learn ?
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Mine was one of my best till date. We were childhood friends and sweet hearts. We agreed to wait till I was ready and it happened when I was ready. It was also his first time but he didn't tell me. I figured it out twenty years later because he always talked about it with fondness and I asked him , then he confessed. He was so gentle and patient that I couldn't have guessed he was doing it for the first time. I still smile every time I remember it. I even promised myself that ill marry him but we didn't because were too young. We're still friends and love each other even though we are not dating. He still teases me about how scared I was and we laugh at ourselves. Just do it with someone who loves you , when you're ready
How old were the both of you 😂😂😂
When you broke each other's virginity 😂😂😂
This is so amazing
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That is beautiful and I can relate with you because it's kinda the same as mine
My husband and I waited until we got married! Let’s just say church had a being influence in waiting! There was great marriage counseling before marriage including sex and that first time! The room was romantic flowers, snacks! We took our time! And soaking in hot tub after was fantastic! So you can wait too, if you want! Ladies thanks for your always engaging podcasts/videos ❤️❤️
Awww this is so sweet!
Lydia’s guy was armed in more ways than one 😂 😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂 that's one way to put it.
This is so funny 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Lydia's *CRIMINAL* boy story was HILARIOUS 😅😅
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😂😂😂😂 I laughed so hard, my God!
@@kezmaina-doktari we deserve a story time. It's funnier than she thinks🤣🤣
@@roziebaybe1626 we totally do. I'm still laughing, and Murugi's reaction? Priceless 😂😂
@kezmaina-doktari8136 the whole thing was a whole comedy. I hope they cut the part for tiktok😅😅
“Bad boy according to the government = criminal “😂😂😂😂 Thank you for a wonderful episode!
Its all good to provide the information & experiences but also caution the youth on the dangers of casual sex such as pregnancy, STDs, abortion, regret & related traumas. A lot of young people go in with the mentality that its all fun & games bcoz that what they see in movies & hear from peers but the negativity is often downplayed or not spoken about. Also sex is a very individual experience & whilst a lot of people may have good first time stories there are also a lot of others who don't & its good to listen to those too & make an informed decision if hooking up for 5-10 minutes with someone you'll most probably not want in your future is a good idea. Not to sound preachy but there's a reason God forbid sex before marriage i have listed but a few so use a weighing scale to decide for yourself if not waiting is really worth it ✌
My first time was with my boyfriend turned husband and when we first met I was head over heels in love, I didn't know why I was so drawn to this man and it was comforting 😂 he was a gentleman when we were doing it, but you could tell he was panicking because he kept on asking if this was okay or *do you want me to stop" or "are you comfortable"😂 after it he ended up looking frightened and he said he had sex alot of times, but doing it with me scared him, he straight up said " it felt like our souls were intertwined" and we didn't do it again until we got married a year later because he was "terrified" 🤣 when we did it again he said "oh I get it now" whatever that means 😂
Love that for you!
Lydia: I think I was the last one in my group of friends to loose my virginity
Murugi: And you came with a bang with a criminal🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
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I met my first when I was about to join form1, so 14 (he was 16) then we "dated" throughout high school. We waited until I was done with school and 18+. He was patient and made me super comfortable. It was uncomfortable physically but not emotionally. I didn't realize I had it so good until now 🥺😍
I can see the 100k glow, you ladies look stunning
PERIODT!!!
Love Lydia's authenticity..but "good bad boys" are damn addictive 😂
Lydia you are glowinggg ! Omg give us the tea 🍵 you look beautiful 😻 great job ladies !
When I joined campus my cousin gave me the best advise: there's no right person, there's only the right time for you. I ended up waiting waiting till I felt it was the right time for me
I am here to camp here for this, let me hear all of your experiences as I am about to start this journey. Preach to me my pastors.
Pen and notebook, don't miss a tip!!
@@tmipodcastke *PUN* intended #tip🤣🤣
My first time was with a loving boyfriend in a very healthy relationship and it was both our first time. It was so cute trying to figure out everything together and how things got so good after that.
Highly recommend.
But as the girls said I think the bare minimum is to have it with someone who respects you and care about you. Wishing a good first experience to everyone on here 💗
Lydia will kill us with laughter one day😂😂😂
My first time was with a guy i really liked. It turned out he liked me too. Can you believe we are still together to date😊. There is nothing i would change.
That's really sweet😊
Learnt soo much....
Was always waiting for this topic
.... unfortunately the society never gave us such a platform to learn...
Go gals🙌🥂🍾🍾
Definitely TMIIIIIIII 🎶. Premiere gang sisi hao😄💃🏿
I just love listening to this gals......I don't know how but by listening to them brought this confidence in me and I felt really proud to be a lady ❤🎉
Criminal offensive side-eye now has a new meaning 😂😂😂
I can remember I bled , it was so painful .he kept saying Babe wacha nicum . I didn't even know what that was but I didn't allow him to continue
I agree, i would say - do it for YOU and not for the man. That way, even if he ghosts you after that or the relationship ends- you won't feel like you gave him what you consider a major prize I.e. your virginity
Exactly 👏👏👏
Jo your first time doesn’t sound consensual…it doesn’t sound like you had the capacity to give consent. Hope you felt ok retelling it.
My first time was with my first love. We were both virgins. I was 18 he was 20 it happened at our house. He proposed afterwards. Lol😂 but we broke up, coz I went abroad. Definitely do it with someone you love!
Hey beautiful ladies....I've really learnt alot before I start this journey 😂am still looking for the right guy ....thanks for this episode❤
My First time wasnt bad. I personally arranged for it. It was my 21st birthday and i had my sisters house to ourselves since she was away. I didnt bleed but had the watery thingy and it was definitely not enjoyable but the deed was done😊
WOW this talk was really necessary, I'm glad I watched it thanks ladies ❤
You guys look stunninggggg. Love the hair Lydia😍😍
We need to also discuss me who don't go down on someone 😂😂😂😂😂😂
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The first time can leave you scarred..to the younger ones please hold out as long as you can..
Learn from us please 🤫
Pavement was a good Club
My first time i was 20 and my Italian boyfriend was 24,It was amazing 🤩we ended up being together for 17yrs then kikaturamba and we divorced in 2022😅
Oops
@@joycemwendo8960 such is life😂
Atleast you enjoyed your first time
OMG! She just said he was an armed robber and she was scared🤣
Lol..but Murugi's first time yo! 😅😅 Hizo ndio stolen moments 💯
I am so thankful my first time was with my first love and it was so good, I was scared but he was patient and I went home smiling 😊
I'm screaming at minute 7 already. LMFAO!!! Actual criminals. I can't 😂😂😂😂
I just regret mine😢😢😢 I wish I had given this to my current boyfriend.... I would be so proud of myself
Same here sis
I experienced the same as lydia ,a gush of water come out,i thought i peed,i was 19 ooh the guy was not a very good person…To be honest i had no business being with the guy hated the experience
Twinzzz!!
Can't really remember my first time but i remember the first time it started feeling nice
😂😂😂Ati "it was giving handicapped" Murugi lol 😂😂😂
Watoto ndi ndi mkoje keep creating this fabulous😍💗💞
Omg your live experience is on my birthday, I just wish I could be there, I can already feel it's gonna be bomb
Happy birthday in advance!
Aww🤭thank you
😂😂 this girls are comedians
Lydia, '' You think when I say I liked bad boys I mean the energy.... No I mean actual criminals'' 😅
😂😂😂
😂there is a way you imagined it happening and boom there goes a randoms person who just does it like makanga ... Unromantic sex ... Ghaai karibu nikuwe nun😂
Lydia..... really....armed robber😂😂😂. ...it was funny
I did it first when i was 21 out of curiosity..just a random guy...just wanted to know if what i knew is it what happens turned out its not i got disappointed..i had to do it sooner to test if its the same everywhere turns out so great coz it was with someone who liked me and wished to date married me..
My favorite podcast once again 🎉❤
My first time was definitely one of the best experiences, was in 3rd year uni, we were in love and it was so magical. Wouldn't change a thing. So perfect 🔥 the body definitely remembers
I use the flashbacks...you know what for😉
Oh wow!
This was good and very funny... thank you Beautiful Ladies ❤
Thank you too!
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We all need a bad boy at some point before meeting the one
Why though
@@ichooseviolence2532 So that you appreciate the good one
LYDIA.......bad boy criminal........😃😃😃 lol you made my day.
I would really want to know how it is for the men when they are also having sex for the first time in their lives.Lobely podcast 🎉
MURUGI : It was giving handicapped.
Me : 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 laughs in a way that pleases God
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣how she demonstrated that part got me on the floor fr
Lydia dress code is super 😎
Can never afford to miss out on every episode💥
Thaaaank you ❤🔥❤🔥❤🔥
Finally!🎉.
I am so looking forward to this episode....I am older that both of you and never had relations.....😊
This episode is for you!!
Not a guy going to jail on his way to you Lydia 😂😂😂😂like what 😅😅😅
Girl!!! No comment 🤣
My first experience was bad ...i did it to prove someone that i loved him and he kept pressuring me since he was going to abroad ...i wasn't ready for it and i was naive... i gave in ....an year later he cheated on me 😢
Aaaii what did you expect. He definitely will cheat on you if unanyimana
You are doing great job..I love you guys ..and lydia authentic its wow
The funniest episode so far
First time was at my parents house on their bed 😂😂. It was uncomfortable and painful. No foreplay. I had with a boyfriend we were the same age, I don't think it was his first time but he also wasn't as experienced.
😂😂😂not your parents bed
@@hildaalividza3461 iriz wot iriz 😂
always here for some good laughter and learning
Your makeups today is 🔥🔥
Loved Loved the show
Though i request that the few words spoken in Swahili are translated to English for some who may not understand it
Im Ugandan❤
Will definitely work on it!
I like the Bad Boy CRIMINAL statement. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
My first experience was with a my boyfriend. He was a really lovely guy. It was uncomfortable but because he was watching out for me I didn't feel exploited, we needed to have a few turns for me to start enjoying it.But I waited till I was 21 so I think that helped,I was very aware of what was happening and we used protection. Could not have asked for a better 1st time experience.I enjoy sex and I think it's because I have fond memories
Have been waiting from 12pm finally☺
Wow wish had this earlier am your age Lydia and had mine at 19. Wasn't so bad but wish i could have waited longer though
I don't know y am coming back today to comment but I just contemplating on this topic n am. Like now I realize that y I am not so much into penetration intimacy it's cause of what my first time did😢 like it's just a trigger n yes as Joo said be careful coz now am like if I allow such to happen with someone who doesn't care then I end up feeling used n I opt not...... But yeah definitely don't do it with someone who isn't mindful of your feeling ..... mapenzi ww... Story za jaba
Murugi: That was great for a criminal 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I had a good experience,the guy was obsessed with me and had waited for two years,he bought me chocolate and a gift card,took me to dinner then he just didn't take it fast
Best podcasters ❤❤❤
I am 24 and still a virgin🤗
Nimelate bt am here y'all ❤hw r u king n queen betweeners...let me enjoy
Armed robbery is also a universal wrong decision🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Wheres the link to the tickets😭😭
On our instagram bio @tmipodcastke
Seriously though..many people's first time experiences are the ghetto..
Right? And imagine ni sawa tu
That's true....you sit and wonder,what on earth was that?
@@tmipodcastke Yea..we move..
TMI dayyyyy🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Aaki you girls you are just something else😂😂
I had my first time when I was twenty and the waiting and knowing about sex did not make it any better. I was mentally prepared but the pain was unbearable he had to stop. Not enough lubrication it was the ghetto 🙄 and scarred me but the next time was way better and changed my perspective on sex.
I think I'm experiencing this we've tried several times but nothing happens
@@androncechaonow I'm the same
28 with bf.. we are allways trying but I can't put him inside me and also i dont ket him do it on his own...I don't know what is wrong with me!
@@rachel12127 I guess you need to be extra wet and you need to feel each other
Good laughter and learning
Murugi I'm perplexed!!😭💀
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😭😭😭😭not Murugi saying it's giving handicap
I did a research study on people in the USA who grew up in purity culture and had horrible experiences with sex psychologically and physically once they got married.
Some women said that it has been impossible for them to now believe that sex is not bad. So when they have sex and experience pleasure, there is this sexual shame that still comes!!
Other women disclosed that they developed vaginismus (unable to receive penetration) because they were taught so long that sex bad, sex will be painful, they’ve developed this fear over not being pure anymore.
But there are people who grew up with sexual purity and get married and are fine but then there are those who aren’t ok! They are in sexless marriages because of purity culture and the psychological effects of it
Dont do it with a criminal 😂😂
Feel relaxed
Lyd looks so pretty 😍
Lydia's Criminal boy story is just hilarious, and it that's not even enough...Boom 💥💥💥 Murungi Munyi story of being like handicapped when she is super high 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Heeeeey Wooos...i understood nothing....❤❤❤Love from kenya
Thank you I am affirmed 😊❤
Loves😍.
Affirmations with Murugi❤.....you remain your exact same persoyou are worth marrying 😂n you were before sex..
Weh to the 40 year old .. I got follow up questions. 😅 raha umejipa mwenyewe? I often wonder how it is for people that have held long without having sex. How do they navigate horniness? Do they masturbate? Anyway tmi questions.. great show as always
To answer you, my life just got used to not been active in that area.😅
So i don't suffer horniness that bothers to the point of looking for a mate.
How I keep me sane😅
I made peace with myself that am single n casual dating and hook ups just don't sound like the lifestyle I want for myself.😊
Sometimes I think 😻 stopped working 😂😂😂 like even the thoughts of my crushie don't excited her🥴
I had it when I was 20yrs old the moment iwas not prepared for but 😢
Mine was allover the place 😂😂 we were young 18 but he was my best friend and had started dating. We knew nothing about sex and the moment our clothes came off we were nervous my anxiety was through the roof but he was so gentle . We still laugh about it 😂😂
Lydia so pretty
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Lydia's outfit😍🥵
Omg it was soooooo painfull and uncomfortable gee wtf was that?????