Any Indian mamas here, please don’t listen to you in law aunties telling you that baby isn’t getting enough milk and has soft tummy. Don’t feed them formula just for the sake of it(unless there’s actual need and suggested by the doctor). Your motherhood should be based on your decisions, not out of this pressure. Baby knows how to feed and you’d know when she is content and full and satisfied. You go mama. Trust yourself, you can do it
Omg I was in the same situation as you!!! The Chinese community is like that too. My mother in law (she is a kind person and I know she wants the best for her grand child) told me that I don't have enough milk (it was day 2 and 3 so it was colostrum) and I was like I have enough milk!!! But I didn't know that I would have to breastfeed every 1-2hr. I was unsure about myself and felt really down and even cried. We ended up giving baby one bottle of 30ml formula. Now I am at week 1 and my breast is producing even more milk. I am actually pumping so that my hubby can participate in feeding baby at night :) my mother in law finally saw that my body is producing enough milk for baby.
@@divyaduggal5950 We gave baby only 2 bottles of formula and it broke my heart. Now I am exclusively breastfeeding and I pump 1-2 times a day so that my hubby and MIL can feed baby too ☺️ I hope you're doing great mama ☺️☺️☺️
This is so true- if the baby has wet diapers they have enough milk. Trust the history of women everywhere who have breast fed. Feed frequently to increase milk and drink, drink, drink anything liquid. If your urine isnt straw colored but darker, drink more. Don’t let inlaws and friends unfamiliar with nursing influence you. Relax, drink a lot and love your baby.
My wife breast fed our first son until he was 3 1/2,our second son came and she was feeding both of them,she weaned the first son and continued to breast feed our 2nd son til he was 3 1/2,he very naturally weaned off it.7 years of non stop breast feeding!My wife took her being a mother as the number one priority in her life.My priority was keeping her in a stable situation where she had no worries.
Love this! Yes! I’m also planning an unmedicated birth, hoping to utilize the HypnoBirthing method but honestly the closer I get the more I keep hearing women telling me that the method won’t work or that I’m going to experience so much pain, or to be prepared for a hospital birth even if I think I can do it at the birth center. I can’t tell if it’s just people being honest and looking out for me, and maybe that’s really how it is, or if they wish they could’ve done an unmedicated peaceful birth and are trying to knock me down a peg so that doesn’t happen… I hate thinking that way. Then I get met with the same skepticism when I say I want to exclusively breastfeed. So many women saying they couldn’t feed past 6 weeks or they just weren’t producing enough so switched to formula. I feel like the only female encouragement I can find is through videos like these and hunting down success stories in women I don’t even know 😣 of course my husband says he knows I can do it, but sometimes I just want a fellow mother’s story.
@@Melanie-to4uf mine went amazing!! I labored peacefully with meditation and breathing at home from 7am-4pm then went to the birth center (labored for 30mins in the car, that was honestly the hardest part but it still wasn’t painful - I was able to breathe through each contraction). The midwives were all awesome and admitted me to my birthing room at 4:45pm, I got into the tub at 5pm, and my son was born via unmedicated water birth at 6:16pm. I had only had pain in my mid-back but once I was in the tub it all went away. I’d heard people describe it as pressure but thought it couldn’t possibly feel that way, but it did! I didn’t tear either. My son scratched me on the way out so I had to have a stitch on my labia but otherwise no problem. As for breastfeeding, my son wouldn’t latch so I hand expressed colostrum for him for the first few days then when my milk came in 4 days PP I began exclusively pumping. Honestly it’s a great experience because my husband can feed him too and share in the bonding. It’s been almost 3 months and my supply is still going strong, so it’s been successful 😊 You can totally do it! Just breathe and trust your body!
@@alaina6477 thank you so much for your inspiring response I’m so happy for you and I hope mine will go the same way I’ll report back and let you know how it goes
@@Melanie-to4uf yes!! Please do, I’d love to hear how your birth goes 😊 and if it helps I had so much anxiety that I wouldn’t be able to handle the pain or that I’d yell a lot or something (ya know, because of all the doubt I’d received from people), so it was almost comical that once I was in the moment I just knew what to do. Literally it felt so instinctual.
I just gave birth to my baby boy a week ago and your videos have been saving my life! I did your breathing technique in labor and it helped me get through some really tough contractions. Just wanted to show some love!
Ugh finally! Found someone on RUclips who answers all of my questions. You are always honest, calm and real. I am 36 weeks and so glad I came across your channel! You reassure your viewers that we can do this intense and nerve wracking part of life. Even got my man watching. LOL!
Mo hey lovely I hope you’re settling into motherhood well! Our babies would be around a similar age! I’ve got a video up on my channel with more tips if you need any extra motivation to continue breastfeeding xx
Just found your channel and you by far are my favorite person to watch to prepare for my birth! You not only make me feel so reassured and empowered, but I love how I feel you truly care!! Thank you!!!
This video is really reassuring! Totally removed all my worries and self doubt about breastfeeding. Now, I can confidently answer people that ask ''is your baby really getting enough milk with just breastfeeding?'' Women are build to build, nourish and take care of baby guys!
I am close to delivery on baby #2 and I did breastfeed my first for 22 months. With that said, I had SO much anxiety in the first few months of his life, thinking I wasn't producing enough, because he wasn't gaining weight as well as the doctors preferred. I am excited this time to let that anxiety go and really embrace my confidence in that my body knows what it's doing, and really settle into my own intuition as a mama instead of listening to those around me (that maybe weren't the most encouraging). Breastfeeding is incredible and I'm so excited to be beginning this journey again.
Your video is amazing. I have been breastfeeding for 3.5months with a flat and inverted nipple. It is challenging but my mind is setup to feed my baby and i am doing it. So mammas don't give up easily as you and your baby will get the hang of it and you will have the most amazing experience of breastfeeding.
@@simonesimone1101 please don't give up. My baby is 10month in a few days and I'm still breastfeeding 😊🙏 i am sending you lots of energy to fight and reach what you really want!
I’ve watched through your channel since I found out I was pregnant (I’m 39 weeks) and it’s funny because I’ve noticed my baby moves around when I play your videos 😂 guess baby recognizes your voice
Nessa M lol that’s hilarious! I’m due soon (35 weeks) and my fiancé said our babies gonna recognize her voice too 😂😂 I always watch them with my phone near my belly he’s probably so used to hearing her by now lol.
My baby would bite down on me so hard I would shake in pain. I ended up with swollen and cracked nipples. This continued into the first few days at home BUT that behaviour quickly disappeared. It can be hard to find courage through the pain and discouragement when initial breastfeeding doesn't go well, but don't give up too soon. It will get better. Sometimes a hungry baby will be too vigorous at the breast, causing pain, but as your milk comes in and they become more assured, this should fade away. Also I ended up pumping for the first 3 weeks of life. Inadvisable, but I wanted to avoid formula and breastfeeding was not working at the time, so that's the choice I made. It was a lot of work, but she got all that antibody & nutrient-rich colostrum. That was rewarding to see in the fridge- liquid gold as they say :). Now we're finally getting away from all the bottles, breastfeeding often, and we are much happier. Not spitting up, no bottles to clean, etc. I see now why they recommend doing this in reverse lol breastfeeding x3 weeks, THEN pumping. In the end, I'm just so glad I didn't give up on breastmilk or breastfeeding. The hard work paid off. So... hang in there, Mommas! It is indeed a beautiful and rewarding experience.
I had my first son when I was 17. Just a baby, and my parents helped me a lot! Now that I'm 30 and in my 2nd trimester with my 2nd son.. it's like doing this all over for the first time. Your videos are so so helpful!! 😊💙
I really appreciate this video!! I absolutely failed nursing my first because I had no idea that the pain at first would be so intense or that it wasn't normal. My daughter ended up having a cow's milk protein allergy and lip tie that I discovered after switching her to formula. I'm due in 2 weeks with my 2nd and have been researching as much as I can to be better prepared this time! I am determined to nurse successfully!!
Corrina I had the same problem with my first as well. I am currently 37+5 and I have researched my entire pregnancy and watched just about every breastfeeding video here on RUclips in hopes to have a better outcome this time around!
@@megannicole1892 you've got this!! I delivered my 2nd almost exactly one month ago and she has been exclusively breastfed 🙌🏻 Definitely take advantage of lactation consultants in the hospital after you deliver and don't be afraid to ask for help after you're discharged too. My daughter ended up having severe jaundice and a shallow latch that was corrected with LC help and she has been growing and gaining ever since and I have no pain. I'm also dairy and egg free! Good luck mama 🧡
Corrina hey congratulations I hope your second attempt at breastfeeding is going as you hoped!! I’ve just uploaded a video with other tips if you need more motivation to continue! Much love xx
This video is THE reminder for me that i provide enough milk for my baby. Every time i over think and doubting myself, i go back here and watch you talk.. so comforting. Thank you bridgete! ❤️
Bridget you have been such an inspiration to me. My baby was born 5 weeks early and he did not latch at all and I was having a hard time with breastfeeding but your videos helped me stay positive and you are such a joy to watch. THANK YOU sooo much for your helpful videos! ❤😊😊 Love Anna.
I'm 18 weeks pregnant and I have always wanted to nurse my older kids but I couldn't get them to latch and I think I just siked my self out of it so this is really helpful.
Thank you for these videos on breastfeeding & pumping!! I’ve been trying to find the best videos to watch lately to get a really good understanding on this whole process before baby #1 comes & yours have by far been the most informative! Makes me feel like a pro already 😂❤️🙏🏼
Such an amazing and informative video! Thank you so much you answered literally all the questions I had about breastfeeding. I love how much you empower us to trust our body!
If you plan on pumping and breastfeeding, how do you schedule both? I won't be working but my husband will want to be able to feed baby once shes a month old. I breastfed my first baby exclusively and she fed every 3 hours so it was easy but do I pump one hour and feed the next or what? Hopefully, I made sense of this question lol.
Spiritually Guided Shadow I’m having my first baby in September so I’m not really qualified but I heard a lot about pumping one breast while feeding the baby from the other. Apparently it’s easier to get the milk out when baby is already drinking from one.
I had low milk supply, but I was able to breastfeed my son for 1.5 years. I am pregnant with my second child. I hope I can do better, my first two weeks I was struggling a lot.
Im 28 weeks with baby #4 and STILL haven’t gotten breastfeeding down, but I’m really determined to finish the whole year this time! I always find it so hard to get past the 2-3 month mark with the sore nipples and always feeling like I’m not making enough milk and give in to formula.
I’m 35 weeks with my second, but first time breastfeeding. I bought a nipple shield from 9 Months Sober. I heard it’s supposed to help with the soreness
I went into the hospital on December 22nd at midnight and I was already 7cm dilated. I got to 9cm and my body just stalled and went into shock. Baby’s water would not break and he would not drop at all. After every contraction I would almost pass out so my husband had me take the epidural at 9cm. After taking the epidural , it took another 12-14 hours for me to be able to start pushing. My son was born on December 22nd, at 2:15pm, weighing 7lbs and 9oz. The worst pain I’ve ever felt in my life getting from 1-9cm. First time mom and it’s very VERY scary, but I have my husbands full support.
Seriously love your channel so much!! I’m pregnant with my second. My first was born at 32 weeks so I really didn’t have long to learn stuff like what you talk about so I’m loving watching all your videos and fulling preparing for labor this time!!
I just came across your channel... I m 32 weeks pregnant and a first time mom. All the videos you make are really really helping me to know everything abt taking all good care of baby before she arrives. I have one question like, how long after baby's birth does milk flow will start?
Your body starts producing during pregnancy... I made a video on this recently ... mature milk starts flowing at around 2-5 days postpartum. I post breastfeeding specific tips on my channel. Congrats!
Thank you for all your videos an classes. They helped during my pregnancy, labour and natural unmedicated delivery. Working on postpartum n breastfeeding 🤞🏾
I’m 33 weeks due on March and I just started watching your videos about birth and motherhood. This is one of my favourites! You were able to cover all the questions in my head. I feel so relieved now. I really hope I could breastfeed my baby boy and will keep those pieces of advice in mind😊
I started pumping out of curiosity a week postpartum and since then it’s been giving me problems with overproduction of milk. 🥺 I experience engorgement very often now. And it’s painful 😭 I should’ve listened to my midwife when she said no pumping yet huhu
I love how happy you are while explaining everything. Its contagious, i really love your videos, thank you very much for sharing, this is precious ❤❤❤❤
I have a question, I don’t know why I can’t send a personal message to you but I was wondering why my baby seems to need to eat so much if I rely just on breastmilk. For example I usually nurse for about five minutes and then give him a bottle, then I decided I would try just now to nurse his entire feeding and what I noticed is that my baby nurse from the left side at 10:40 PM, where he would nurse and then lose the nipple several times or many times during the feeding and then I would switch sides after 15 minutes to the right side and he would still lose the nipple and find it again and nurse. But with this example he seems to have still been hungry and in nursing from 10:40 PM to 12:20 PM. Why is that? Does this mean that he’s not getting the fatty kind and that’s why he’s constantly hungry?
Hey so I am still breastfeeding at 18 months. I am still having night sweats and hot flashes all the time. Could you make a video about hormones a year out or something related?
Do you have a video about formula feeding and incorporating that as a supplement? My baby eats so much that he empties me out and is still hungry.. often eating for well over an hour both sides, usually only taking a break to burp, diaper, or take the occasional nap. He's getting enough, but he is eating so often I'm raw.
Hannah Powell how old is he? It’s normal to cluster feed around growth spurts which can happen around 3 weeks, 6 weeks, 12 weeks and 6 months and maybe a few more times in between. Also he’ll be cluster feeding to help you get more supply. Supplementing with formula might hinder your supply. Don’t doubt your supply if his nappy output is good, he’s gaining weight and he’s generally content 😊 you got this!! Xx
hi Bridget, my baby is now 3 weeks old but Im afraid that he will not be able to continue to be breastfeed because he is getting used to the formula milk..does pumping thru the use of a haakaa helps to increase my milk supply even if my baby does not latch for a long time? I appreciate your response and help..thank you so much
Just found your channel and I'm on my 3rd pregnancy and wanting to breastfeed with this baby. My question is how do you know which pumped milk to give first, and how should I prepare it. I'm going to be pumping in between feedings for when I go back to work
You can label the bag with a sharpie the date of pumping. Usually if you keep it in the freezer you can pull it out of the freezer and warm up a cup of water (warm not boiling) then place the frozen bag in the water to defrost it. Kellymom is a great resource for breasfeeding!
Hi. Currently 30 weeks pregnant. So sorry if this sounds like an air headed question ... but baby will feed between both breast in one feeding? For example, I’d start baby on my left breast and will need to do the right side as well after or is one breast at a time enough? I purchased a hakaa for let down but will I need it if baby will be nursing on both breast in one feeding?
Lamanda Mabry A lot of women feed on both sides. Especially if they feel engorged. It just keeps it even. Not all women do. If you don’t you can put a clothes pin on your bra or bracelet on your wrist to know what side you fed on last. That helps when you are exhausted and not thinking at full capacity. I’m not in any way an expert. I’d use the Hakka on both breast when you change sides because of want to mix the hind milk in with the fore milk. The hind milk has more fat. The suction may not be good enough with the Hakka to do that if that is the case I’d pump the hind milk out to make sure you got it all. However, if you pump for a few minutes after feeding it tells your body to produce more milk so idk if you want that. I’m not near an expert! That is my barely educated two cents.
Do you have any suggestions regarding which pump to get for breast feeding? I’m currently trying to find a good one for my fiancé without breaking the bank! Thanks in advance.
This is the Spectra amzn.to/2Nd8sxU it's rechargeable and is great if your fiancé is returning to work and doesn't want to be tied down by an outlet. A little more pricey though. And this is the Medela Pump in Style Advanced amzn.to/2X6GdFI This one is cheaper and works great (it's the one I personally use) and you get bottles and milk storage that comes along with it. But I would definitely check in with your care provider if your fiancé is planning on delivering a hospital! They often will provide a hospital grade pump at no charge to you. Keep in mind, the hospital grade ones are usually a bit bigger than the personal pumps! Hope this helps!
I’m seriously loving your channel! I am about a month and a half away from my due date, and I will be returning back to work a little before 12 weeks. So this pumping information is so useful 😍
How soon is it ok to use Lecitin? I'm only 33 weeks pregnant now but my sister had trouble nursing initially. So I wonder if taking Lecitin prior or during labor may help.
I'm having trouble latching my baby due to his frustration levels. He screams and cries when trying to latch him on. Any tips or advice to overcome my baby's frustration?
hey i am a new mom i just had my baby 2 weeks ago & i think i definitely started pumping sooo early i make wayyy too much milk for my newborn so i end up wasting so much of my milk what do you recommend i do & how do i sort of slow down my milk supply
When did you start to pump. I’m currently 29 weeks and don’t know when to prepare to start pumping. It’s my 4th baby but first time breastfeeding mummy x
@n a y e l i if you have a lot or too much milk supply you can always donate it to other mothers who may not have enough or are not able to breastfeeding. There are a lot of organisations out there. Or have you tried freezing your milk?
I made a mistake by feeding mostly formulas for the first 6 weeks and pumping twice a day only. Is there anyway to fix it? My milk supply is wayy less than it was before. Any solution? I really regret giving formula
I have a problem where my baby breastfeeds and then screams while breastfeading and continue to scream after feeding, i don't know what to do... she jas 2 weeks
my baby is 2 days old. she started feeding on both breasts but then gradually started favouring the left one. she doesn't even latch on the right one anymore. as if she's unable. what can I do to change this? my milk hasn't come yet, so it's just colostrum
I just love your videos! Me and my fiancé have been watching all of your videos and it makes me feel so prepared for labor and delivery! I’m so excited for the breastfeeding videos to follow!! I’m 39 weeks pregnant and it sounds like your gonna be releasing even more great breastfeeding videos while I’m getting the hang of it ❤️ my fiancé even said let’s hire her as a doula but we’re in Colorado 😝❤️
Awe Yay!! Wish I could be there for your birth, but you're going to have a beautiful experience, mama! And yes! More breastfeeding videos coming your way!! Let me know if you have any questions I can help answer.
I absolutely will!!! Where else can I follow you?! I’m having contractions now, probably going to the hospital soon and rewatching your videos on the stages of labor now ❤️
I love you! You helped me through natural labor and now with all my breastfeeding doubts. You have made me feel confident! The timing topic always makes me feel uncomfortable because my baby usually looks like he wants to continue on the same boob but pediatrician was having me feed only 15 mins on each. First time mom probs!
Any other first time moms feel grossed out by the entire process? I’m due to give birth soon and still feel uncomfortable with the idea and commitment of nursing. I feel like I should try it but am also so turned off with the pressure to do so. I’m educated and understand the benefits but can’t shake these feelings I’ve been having. Anyone else experience this and how did you handle it?
The reality of our bodies is that they are leaky, messy and weird. We are so programmed that this is wrong or unattractive when in fact it is just how it is. Maybe just trying to feel neutral about it in the very least. When it really comes down to it you don't owe anyone anything. If you try body feeding and stop or don't want to it's totally fine. The best thing is for the baby to be fed in whichever way is best for you. If mama is stressed and burnt out that's not good for baby. Anyone who tries to give you crap about your choices needs to be told they are not helpful and to stop. Whatever you choose will be great! You got this!
I understand that feeling! I'm really gonna try this time but I think I'll end up exclusively pumping after the hospital because I'm so scared of the pressure to feed from the breast. So concerned we'll have issues with lip ties and etc.
My friend had a reduction and she’s currently going through this. Her baby is about 2 weeks old and she hasn’t had any real milk production. She’s tried pumping often as well and nothing.
Bridget I have a question does breast pumping to increase your milk supply only work until baby is 6 weeks? Or does it continue working for a while after?
Help please 😢 my baby only latches on one side only, and gets really angry if I switched him and tried the other side. I did watch your other video, I thought maybe he has an ear infection or his neck maybe bothering him on that particular angle, so I did switch him with a football hold, you know maintaining the same angle he prefers, but nothing works, please help 😢
Any tips for a new mum and her nicu baby? Everyone keeps telling me I'm doing really well but I don't feel like I am, I'm having to supplement with formula and I'm lucky I'm hell latch these days (he's 3 and a half weeks). He goes from 0-100 like THE SECOND he is awake and he doesn't seem to have an in between sleepy and awake. He also sometimes will latch but then won't suck, and then gets angry and screams and kicks and is completely inconsolable. I actually think his screaming is damaging my hearing because my ears are ringing having had to just deal with another screaming session. I've asked for help from my midwives, my health care assistant, and everyone just says you're doing great... I'm so close to being so done now
I feel ya mama- I’m 2 months in with my newborn and I’m still struggling with breastfeeding, I even hired a lactation consultant to come to my house twice 🤦🏼♀️
I cannot find a video of where they tell you when your breast milk is fully emptied. Does it just stop coming out? How do I know baby emptied and u need to switch it??
Pumped before because my baby was underweight and losing weight so doctor had me supplement with formula. She is 8 weeks today and my supply dropped drastically two weeks ago. Trying to get it back 😭😓 had too much before and now I'm having to go back to some formula because I don't have enough for my baby 😭😓
My 3 weeks old baby had to be kept in nursery for ist 24 hours and had to be given bottle feed. We have been working on breast feeding ever since along with supplementation from formula. But he keeps on falling asleep during BF sessions within 5 to 10 min and wake up later hungry. I have to nurse him every 20 to 30 min. Just wanted to ask if thats normal. Also when i pump after a feeding session i can only get about half to 1.5 oz of milk.
I started pumping at 7weeks and now I am not sure if I have enough milk stored because my 8 weeks maternity leave ends in a couple of days. How can I increase my supply?
I believe that they have very tiny stomach and small amount of colostrum wii be enough for them but when newborn have formula how do they have 2oz milk at one feeding
Perfectly fine! There are many alternative feeding options to avoid bottle feeding in the first month. Spoon feeding is one of them. Keep up the great work!
Any Indian mamas here, please don’t listen to you in law aunties telling you that baby isn’t getting enough milk and has soft tummy. Don’t feed them formula just for the sake of it(unless there’s actual need and suggested by the doctor). Your motherhood should be based on your decisions, not out of this pressure.
Baby knows how to feed and you’d know when she is content and full and satisfied.
You go mama. Trust yourself, you can do it
Omg I was in the same situation as you!!! The Chinese community is like that too. My mother in law (she is a kind person and I know she wants the best for her grand child) told me that I don't have enough milk (it was day 2 and 3 so it was colostrum) and I was like I have enough milk!!! But I didn't know that I would have to breastfeed every 1-2hr. I was unsure about myself and felt really down and even cried. We ended up giving baby one bottle of 30ml formula. Now I am at week 1 and my breast is producing even more milk. I am actually pumping so that my hubby can participate in feeding baby at night :) my mother in law finally saw that my body is producing enough milk for baby.
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Omg same here Tracy! Exactly same story except I refused to formula feed☺️
@@divyaduggal5950 We gave baby only 2 bottles of formula and it broke my heart. Now I am exclusively breastfeeding and I pump 1-2 times a day so that my hubby and MIL can feed baby too ☺️ I hope you're doing great mama ☺️☺️☺️
This is so true- if the baby has wet diapers they have enough milk. Trust the history of women everywhere who have breast fed. Feed frequently to increase milk and drink, drink, drink anything liquid. If your urine isnt straw colored but darker, drink more. Don’t let inlaws and friends unfamiliar with nursing influence you. Relax, drink a lot and love your baby.
My wife breast fed our first son until he was 3 1/2,our second son came and she was feeding both of them,she weaned the first son and continued to breast feed our 2nd son til he was 3 1/2,he very naturally weaned off it.7 years of non stop breast feeding!My wife took her being a mother as the number one priority in her life.My priority was keeping her in a stable situation where she had no worries.
Thank you for sharing! She sounds like an amazing mom and you're so awesome for providing that for your family.
That is so beautiful! Hats off to you for supporting her to be able to do this for so long 👏
God bless you both! Thanks for sharing your experience ❤
Had a natural unmedicated birth I didn’t think I could ever do it and had doubters ✨❤️ so now I’m going to continue to push forward
Love this! Yes! I’m also planning an unmedicated birth, hoping to utilize the HypnoBirthing method but honestly the closer I get the more I keep hearing women telling me that the method won’t work or that I’m going to experience so much pain, or to be prepared for a hospital birth even if I think I can do it at the birth center. I can’t tell if it’s just people being honest and looking out for me, and maybe that’s really how it is, or if they wish they could’ve done an unmedicated peaceful birth and are trying to knock me down a peg so that doesn’t happen… I hate thinking that way. Then I get met with the same skepticism when I say I want to exclusively breastfeed. So many women saying they couldn’t feed past 6 weeks or they just weren’t producing enough so switched to formula. I feel like the only female encouragement I can find is through videos like these and hunting down success stories in women I don’t even know 😣 of course my husband says he knows I can do it, but sometimes I just want a fellow mother’s story.
@@alaina6477 my hypnobirth is in 2 weeks how did yours go I also have people doubting this situation as well as breastfeeding how did it go?
@@Melanie-to4uf mine went amazing!! I labored peacefully with meditation and breathing at home from 7am-4pm then went to the birth center (labored for 30mins in the car, that was honestly the hardest part but it still wasn’t painful - I was able to breathe through each contraction). The midwives were all awesome and admitted me to my birthing room at 4:45pm, I got into the tub at 5pm, and my son was born via unmedicated water birth at 6:16pm. I had only had pain in my mid-back but once I was in the tub it all went away. I’d heard people describe it as pressure but thought it couldn’t possibly feel that way, but it did! I didn’t tear either. My son scratched me on the way out so I had to have a stitch on my labia but otherwise no problem.
As for breastfeeding, my son wouldn’t latch so I hand expressed colostrum for him for the first few days then when my milk came in 4 days PP I began exclusively pumping. Honestly it’s a great experience because my husband can feed him too and share in the bonding. It’s been almost 3 months and my supply is still going strong, so it’s been successful 😊
You can totally do it! Just breathe and trust your body!
@@alaina6477 thank you so much for your inspiring response I’m so happy for you and I hope mine will go the same way I’ll report back and let you know how it goes
@@Melanie-to4uf yes!! Please do, I’d love to hear how your birth goes 😊 and if it helps I had so much anxiety that I wouldn’t be able to handle the pain or that I’d yell a lot or something (ya know, because of all the doubt I’d received from people), so it was almost comical that once I was in the moment I just knew what to do. Literally it felt so instinctual.
I just gave birth to my baby boy a week ago and your videos have been saving my life! I did your breathing technique in labor and it helped me get through some really tough contractions. Just wanted to show some love!
Ugh finally! Found someone on RUclips who answers all of my questions. You are always honest, calm and real. I am 36 weeks and so glad I came across your channel! You reassure your viewers that we can do this intense and nerve wracking part of life. Even got my man watching. LOL!
Mo hey lovely I hope you’re settling into motherhood well! Our babies would be around a similar age! I’ve got a video up on my channel with more tips if you need any extra motivation to continue breastfeeding xx
Just found your channel and you by far are my favorite person to watch to prepare for my birth!
You not only make me feel so reassured and empowered, but I love how I feel you truly care!! Thank you!!!
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This video is really reassuring! Totally removed all my worries and self doubt about breastfeeding. Now, I can confidently answer people that ask ''is your baby really getting enough milk with just breastfeeding?''
Women are build to build, nourish and take care of baby guys!
I've really been loving your videos! I'm 32 weeks pregnant with my first right now and they have been so informative and reassuring!
I'm so glad you've been enjoying the videos! Your birth is going to be so special!
N'NJ
I am close to delivery on baby #2 and I did breastfeed my first for 22 months. With that said, I had SO much anxiety in the first few months of his life, thinking I wasn't producing enough, because he wasn't gaining weight as well as the doctors preferred. I am excited this time to let that anxiety go and really embrace my confidence in that my body knows what it's doing, and really settle into my own intuition as a mama instead of listening to those around me (that maybe weren't the most encouraging). Breastfeeding is incredible and I'm so excited to be beginning this journey again.
ALHAMDULILAH
@@SairaSabir1443AH I breastfed her for close to two years! The first few weeks were worse but I knew what to expect so that helped!!
Your video is amazing. I have been breastfeeding for 3.5months with a flat and inverted nipple. It is challenging but my mind is setup to feed my baby and i am doing it. So mammas don't give up easily as you and your baby will get the hang of it and you will have the most amazing experience of breastfeeding.
I have a inverted nipple too this, this gives me great hope
@@simonesimone1101 please don't give up. My baby is 10month in a few days and I'm still breastfeeding 😊🙏 i am sending you lots of energy to fight and reach what you really want!
same here
I’ve watched through your channel since I found out I was pregnant (I’m 39 weeks) and it’s funny because I’ve noticed my baby moves around when I play your videos 😂 guess baby recognizes your voice
Nessa M lol that’s hilarious! I’m due soon (35 weeks) and my fiancé said our babies gonna recognize her voice too 😂😂 I always watch them with my phone near my belly he’s probably so used to hearing her by now lol.
It happened to me todaaaay . Baby first kick while I was watching the perfect latch video 😂
I’m almost 32 weeks with my first child, and I’ve just started watching your channel, really loving the videos! Thank you so much!
My baby would bite down on me so hard I would shake in pain. I ended up with swollen and cracked nipples. This continued into the first few days at home BUT that behaviour quickly disappeared. It can be hard to find courage through the pain and discouragement when initial breastfeeding doesn't go well, but don't give up too soon. It will get better. Sometimes a hungry baby will be too vigorous at the breast, causing pain, but as your milk comes in and they become more assured, this should fade away. Also I ended up pumping for the first 3 weeks of life. Inadvisable, but I wanted to avoid formula and breastfeeding was not working at the time, so that's the choice I made. It was a lot of work, but she got all that antibody & nutrient-rich colostrum. That was rewarding to see in the fridge- liquid gold as they say :). Now we're finally getting away from all the bottles, breastfeeding often, and we are much happier. Not spitting up, no bottles to clean, etc. I see now why they recommend doing this in reverse lol breastfeeding x3 weeks, THEN pumping. In the end, I'm just so glad I didn't give up on breastmilk or breastfeeding. The hard work paid off. So... hang in there, Mommas! It is indeed a beautiful and rewarding experience.
that's amazing, props to you for continuing to pump!
I had my first son when I was 17. Just a baby, and my parents helped me a lot! Now that I'm 30 and in my 2nd trimester with my 2nd son.. it's like doing this all over for the first time. Your videos are so so helpful!! 😊💙
Hey, I’m pregnant and 17. Can I ask you a few questions by any chance?
I really appreciate this video!! I absolutely failed nursing my first because I had no idea that the pain at first would be so intense or that it wasn't normal. My daughter ended up having a cow's milk protein allergy and lip tie that I discovered after switching her to formula.
I'm due in 2 weeks with my 2nd and have been researching as much as I can to be better prepared this time! I am determined to nurse successfully!!
Corrina I had the same problem with my first as well. I am currently 37+5 and I have researched my entire pregnancy and watched just about every breastfeeding video here on RUclips in hopes to have a better outcome this time around!
@@megannicole1892 you've got this!! I delivered my 2nd almost exactly one month ago and she has been exclusively breastfed 🙌🏻
Definitely take advantage of lactation consultants in the hospital after you deliver and don't be afraid to ask for help after you're discharged too. My daughter ended up having severe jaundice and a shallow latch that was corrected with LC help and she has been growing and gaining ever since and I have no pain. I'm also dairy and egg free! Good luck mama 🧡
Corrina hey congratulations I hope your second attempt at breastfeeding is going as you hoped!! I’ve just uploaded a video with other tips if you need more motivation to continue! Much love xx
@@NikkiLaska thank you so much! I'll definitely check it out😊✊ 4 months now and going strong!!
Corrina yay!!!! I’m so glad it’s going well! Our babies must be similar age!! Mine was born 7th. April! When did you have yours?
I m 34 weeks pregnant...and have been watching all the videos...... really helpful💕💞.
I love your channel. I’m only 13 weeks, and trying to do all my research about everything! First time momma here
This video is THE reminder for me that i provide enough milk for my baby. Every time i over think and doubting myself, i go back here and watch you talk.. so comforting. Thank you bridgete! ❤️
I’m only halfway done watching this video and i already love it so much!!!! So much fantastic info!!!
Bridget you have been such an inspiration to me. My baby was born 5 weeks early and he did not latch at all and I was having a hard time with breastfeeding but your videos helped me stay positive and you are such a joy to watch. THANK YOU sooo much for your helpful videos! ❤😊😊 Love Anna.
I'm 18 weeks pregnant and I have always wanted to nurse my older kids but I couldn't get them to latch and I think I just siked my self out of it so this is really helpful.
Hearing this makes me feel soooooo excited to nurse my upcoming baby boy 👶, all of my questions in mind is being answered.
Thanks, very informative
loved this!!! thank you for making these video...first time mom here, I'm due in a few months and this gave me so much peace of mind.
I am having my 3rd and just wanted a reminder of everything! You made this so fun. Thank you!
Thank you for these videos on breastfeeding & pumping!! I’ve been trying to find the best videos to watch lately to get a really good understanding on this whole process before baby #1 comes & yours have by far been the most informative! Makes me feel like a pro already 😂❤️🙏🏼
Such an amazing and informative video! Thank you so much you answered literally all the questions I had about breastfeeding. I love how much you empower us to trust our body!
If you plan on pumping and breastfeeding, how do you schedule both? I won't be working but my husband will want to be able to feed baby once shes a month old. I breastfed my first baby exclusively and she fed every 3 hours so it was easy but do I pump one hour and feed the next or what? Hopefully, I made sense of this question lol.
Spiritually Guided Shadow I’m having my first baby in September so I’m not really qualified but I heard a lot about pumping one breast while feeding the baby from the other. Apparently it’s easier to get the milk out when baby is already drinking from one.
I had low milk supply, but I was able to breastfeed my son for 1.5 years. I am pregnant with my second child. I hope I can do better, my first two weeks I was struggling a lot.
Im 28 weeks with baby #4 and STILL haven’t gotten breastfeeding down, but I’m really determined to finish the whole year this time! I always find it so hard to get past the 2-3 month mark with the sore nipples and always feeling like I’m not making enough milk and give in to formula.
I’m 35 weeks with my second, but first time breastfeeding. I bought a nipple shield from 9 Months Sober. I heard it’s supposed to help with the soreness
That’s a good idea, I’ve heard of them but never used one, I think I’ll give it a try this time, thanks!
Hey hun! Really glad I found your channel. Can you do a video on prenatal exercises?
Yes! I will definitely add that to the list and do my best to get that video to you soon!
Thanks so much for this. Eased so many nerves and made me feel super confident for my baby’s arrival this winter ♥️
I went into the hospital on December 22nd at midnight and I was already 7cm dilated. I got to 9cm and my body just stalled and went into shock. Baby’s water would not break and he would not drop at all. After every contraction I would almost pass out so my husband had me take the epidural at 9cm. After taking the epidural , it took another 12-14 hours for me to be able to start pushing. My son was born on December 22nd, at 2:15pm, weighing 7lbs and 9oz. The worst pain I’ve ever felt in my life getting from 1-9cm. First time mom and it’s very VERY scary, but I have my husbands full support.
Seriously love your channel so much!! I’m pregnant with my second. My first was born at 32 weeks so I really didn’t have long to learn stuff like what you talk about so I’m loving watching all your videos and fulling preparing for labor this time!!
I just came across your channel...
I m 32 weeks pregnant and a first time mom.
All the videos you make are really really helping me to know everything abt taking all good care of baby before she arrives.
I have one question like, how long after baby's birth does milk flow will start?
Your body starts producing during pregnancy... I made a video on this recently ... mature milk starts flowing at around 2-5 days postpartum. I post breastfeeding specific tips on my channel. Congrats!
Thank you for all your videos an classes. They helped during my pregnancy, labour and natural unmedicated delivery. Working on postpartum n breastfeeding 🤞🏾
I’m 33 weeks due on March and I just started watching your videos about birth and motherhood. This is one of my favourites! You were able to cover all the questions in my head. I feel so relieved now. I really hope I could breastfeed my baby boy and will keep those pieces of advice in mind😊
I love all of your videos that I have watched!!! Very educational.
Thank you for another great, educational video! You make me feel so prepared (or as prepared as one can hope to be, lol) to be a mama!
I started pumping out of curiosity a week postpartum and since then it’s been giving me problems with overproduction of milk. 🥺 I experience engorgement very often now. And it’s painful 😭 I should’ve listened to my midwife when she said no pumping yet huhu
I love how happy you are while explaining everything. Its contagious, i really love your videos, thank you very much for sharing, this is precious ❤❤❤❤
I’m a first time mom I can’t wait to breast feed❤
I'm almost 17 weeks. I'm unsure when I should take a breast feeding class or a birthing class
I have a question, I don’t know why I can’t send a personal message to you but I was wondering why my baby seems to need to eat so much if I rely just on breastmilk. For example I usually nurse for about five minutes and then give him a bottle, then I decided I would try just now to nurse his entire feeding and what I noticed is that my baby nurse from the left side at 10:40 PM, where he would nurse and then lose the nipple several times or many times during the feeding and then I would switch sides after 15 minutes to the right side and he would still lose the nipple and find it again and nurse. But with this example he seems to have still been hungry and in nursing from 10:40 PM to 12:20 PM. Why is that? Does this mean that he’s not getting the fatty kind and that’s why he’s constantly hungry?
Hey so I am still breastfeeding at 18 months. I am still having night sweats and hot flashes all the time. Could you make a video about hormones a year out or something related?
Do you have a video about formula feeding and incorporating that as a supplement? My baby eats so much that he empties me out and is still hungry.. often eating for well over an hour both sides, usually only taking a break to burp, diaper, or take the occasional nap. He's getting enough, but he is eating so often I'm raw.
Hannah Powell how old is he? It’s normal to cluster feed around growth spurts which can happen around 3 weeks, 6 weeks, 12 weeks and 6 months and maybe a few more times in between. Also he’ll be cluster feeding to help you get more supply. Supplementing with formula might hinder your supply. Don’t doubt your supply if his nappy output is good, he’s gaining weight and he’s generally content 😊 you got this!! Xx
Thank you! Appreciate all your knowledge you share!
Just discovered your channel and this is SO informative! Thank you!!
hi Bridget, my baby is now 3 weeks old but Im afraid that he will not be able to continue to be breastfeed because he is getting used to the formula milk..does pumping thru the use of a haakaa helps to increase my milk supply even if my baby does not latch for a long time? I appreciate your response and help..thank you so much
Ahh, literally having the same issue. I hope she replies eventually.
If I’m almost exclusively breastfeeding. How many times should I pump?
Just found your channel and I'm on my 3rd pregnancy and wanting to breastfeed with this baby. My question is how do you know which pumped milk to give first, and how should I prepare it. I'm going to be pumping in between feedings for when I go back to work
You can label the bag with a sharpie the date of pumping. Usually if you keep it in the freezer you can pull it out of the freezer and warm up a cup of water (warm not boiling) then place the frozen bag in the water to defrost it. Kellymom is a great resource for breasfeeding!
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Hi. Currently 30 weeks pregnant. So sorry if this sounds like an air headed question ... but baby will feed between both breast in one feeding? For example, I’d start baby on my left breast and will need to do the right side as well after or is one breast at a time enough? I purchased a hakaa for let down but will I need it if baby will be nursing on both breast in one feeding?
Lamanda Mabry
A lot of women feed on both sides. Especially if they feel engorged. It just keeps it even. Not all women do. If you don’t you can put a clothes pin on your bra or bracelet on your wrist to know what side you fed on last. That helps when you are exhausted and not thinking at full capacity.
I’m not in any way an expert. I’d use the Hakka on both breast when you change sides because of want to mix the hind milk in with the fore milk. The hind milk has more fat. The suction may not be good enough with the Hakka to do that if that is the case I’d pump the hind milk out to make sure you got it all. However, if you pump for a few minutes after feeding it tells your body to produce more milk so idk if you want that. I’m not near an expert! That is my barely educated two cents.
Do you have any suggestions regarding which pump to get for breast feeding? I’m currently trying to find a good one for my fiancé without breaking the bank! Thanks in advance.
This is the Spectra amzn.to/2Nd8sxU it's rechargeable and is great if your fiancé is returning to work and doesn't want to be tied down by an outlet. A little more pricey though.
And this is the Medela Pump in Style Advanced amzn.to/2X6GdFI This one is cheaper and works great (it's the one I personally use) and you get bottles and milk storage that comes along with it. But I would definitely check in with your care provider if your fiancé is planning on delivering a hospital! They often will provide a hospital grade pump at no charge to you. Keep in mind, the hospital grade ones are usually a bit bigger than the personal pumps! Hope this helps!
my baby achieves a latch and then lets go multiple times but then searches for it again. so confusing. he falls asleep and sucks while he's asleep.
I’m seriously loving your channel! I am about a month and a half away from my due date, and I will be returning back to work a little before 12 weeks. So this pumping information is so useful 😍
I just had my baby in April and the latch wasn’t great because I have flat nipples so I use nipple shields to help.
Nipple shield can safe your breastfeeding experience. Congrats. I post breastfeeding specific tips on my channel.
Me too
How soon is it ok to use Lecitin?
I'm only 33 weeks pregnant now but my sister had trouble nursing initially. So I wonder if taking Lecitin prior or during labor may help.
I'm having trouble latching my baby due to his frustration levels. He screams and cries when trying to latch him on. Any tips or advice to overcome my baby's frustration?
As an IBCLC I commend you for doing this video, the information provided is accurate. 🙏🏼 Thanks!
hey i am a new mom i just had my baby 2 weeks ago & i think i definitely started pumping sooo early i make wayyy too much milk for my newborn so i end up wasting so much of my milk what do you recommend i do & how do i sort of slow down my milk supply
When did you start to pump. I’m currently 29 weeks and don’t know when to prepare to start pumping. It’s my 4th baby but first time breastfeeding mummy x
@@beewalking5884 i started pumping the first week my baby was born
@n a y e l i if you have a lot or too much milk supply you can always donate it to other mothers who may not have enough or are not able to breastfeeding. There are a lot of organisations out there. Or have you tried freezing your milk?
I made a mistake by feeding mostly formulas for the first 6 weeks and pumping twice a day only. Is there anyway to fix it? My milk supply is wayy less than it was before. Any solution? I really regret giving formula
I have a problem where my baby breastfeeds and then screams while breastfeading and continue to scream after feeding, i don't know what to do... she jas 2 weeks
my baby is 2 days old. she started feeding on both breasts but then gradually started favouring the left one. she doesn't even latch on the right one anymore. as if she's unable. what can I do to change this? my milk hasn't come yet, so it's just colostrum
Excellent Experience Mam Thanks Take Care And Always Best Wishes
I just love your videos! Me and my fiancé have been watching all of your videos and it makes me feel so prepared for labor and delivery! I’m so excited for the breastfeeding videos to follow!! I’m 39 weeks pregnant and it sounds like your gonna be releasing even more great breastfeeding videos while I’m getting the hang of it ❤️ my fiancé even said let’s hire her as a doula but we’re in Colorado 😝❤️
Awe Yay!! Wish I could be there for your birth, but you're going to have a beautiful experience, mama! And yes! More breastfeeding videos coming your way!! Let me know if you have any questions I can help answer.
I absolutely will!!! Where else can I follow you?! I’m having contractions now, probably going to the hospital soon and rewatching your videos on the stages of labor now ❤️
@@laurenroot6841 SO INCREDIBLE!!! Can't wait to hear about your story! Find me on Instagram @bridgetteyler ! Sending you love!
This video was so helpful to me! Thank you! ❤️
I love you! You helped me through natural labor and now with all my breastfeeding doubts. You have made me feel confident! The timing topic always makes me feel uncomfortable because my baby usually looks like he wants to continue on the same boob but pediatrician was having me feed only 15 mins on each. First time mom probs!
Ready to have my baby in a week😁
So i NEVER produced colostrum- it was straight milk with all three of my kids, why is that? I asked my doctor and she mever gave me an answer.
Any other first time moms feel grossed out by the entire process? I’m due to give birth soon and still feel uncomfortable with the idea and commitment of nursing. I feel like I should try it but am also so turned off with the pressure to do so. I’m educated and understand the benefits but can’t shake these feelings I’ve been having. Anyone else experience this and how did you handle it?
The reality of our bodies is that they are leaky, messy and weird. We are so programmed that this is wrong or unattractive when in fact it is just how it is. Maybe just trying to feel neutral about it in the very least. When it really comes down to it you don't owe anyone anything. If you try body feeding and stop or don't want to it's totally fine. The best thing is for the baby to be fed in whichever way is best for you. If mama is stressed and burnt out that's not good for baby. Anyone who tries to give you crap about your choices needs to be told they are not helpful and to stop. Whatever you choose will be great! You got this!
This is literally the reason our breasts were made. It's the most natural thing in the world first one being giving birth.
I understand that feeling! I'm really gonna try this time but I think I'll end up exclusively pumping after the hospital because I'm so scared of the pressure to feed from the breast. So concerned we'll have issues with lip ties and etc.
How long does pumped breast milk last and how do we store it?
You explained really well 😊
I just had my baby it’s a girl last year and how many times have to do a breast feeding
What if I don’t want to switch breasts in the middle of a feed I just want to use 1 breast per feed????
I have had 2 breast reduction surgery's will this stop me from breast feeding
My friend had a reduction and she’s currently going through this. Her baby is about 2 weeks old and she hasn’t had any real milk production. She’s tried pumping often as well and nothing.
You’re a blessing to me 😅❤
Hi Bridget, my baby is 12 weeks now and is it too late to produce more milk by pumping?
Bridget I have a question does breast pumping to increase your milk supply only work until baby is 6 weeks? Or does it continue working for a while after?
Hi! Breast pumping to increase milk production works even after baby is 6 weeks. Don't give up. You got this!
I faced this flat nipple issue during my first pregnancy I hope so now during my second one I should be able to overcome it
Help please 😢 my baby only latches on one side only, and gets really angry if I switched him and tried the other side.
I did watch your other video, I thought maybe he has an ear infection or his neck maybe bothering him on that particular angle, so I did switch him with a football hold, you know maintaining the same angle he prefers, but nothing works, please help 😢
Any tips for a new mum and her nicu baby?
Everyone keeps telling me I'm doing really well but I don't feel like I am, I'm having to supplement with formula and I'm lucky I'm hell latch these days (he's 3 and a half weeks).
He goes from 0-100 like THE SECOND he is awake and he doesn't seem to have an in between sleepy and awake. He also sometimes will latch but then won't suck, and then gets angry and screams and kicks and is completely inconsolable.
I actually think his screaming is damaging my hearing because my ears are ringing having had to just deal with another screaming session.
I've asked for help from my midwives, my health care assistant, and everyone just says you're doing great... I'm so close to being so done now
I feel ya mama- I’m 2 months in with my newborn and I’m still struggling with breastfeeding, I even hired a lactation consultant to come to my house twice 🤦🏼♀️
If my baby only feeds on one breast, do I need to pump the other so my breast can empty? This video is so helpful!
I cannot find a video of where they tell you when your breast milk is fully emptied. Does it just stop coming out? How do I know baby emptied and u need to switch it??
You are so helpful!!!
Pumped before because my baby was underweight and losing weight so doctor had me supplement with formula. She is 8 weeks today and my supply dropped drastically two weeks ago. Trying to get it back 😭😓 had too much before and now I'm having to go back to some formula because I don't have enough for my baby 😭😓
Plzz help me my child 4 week but he refused to breastfeed and use to milk through bottle
How can i feed him?
Same with me my baby is 3weeks old..he cried a lot when i tried to breastfeed him..any update please share with me😔
How do I know when I’ve emptied out my milk from one breast? Before I need to switch (if I need to) ?
Thx for your great videos i have a question Should i breast feed from both breasts every time??
My 3 weeks old baby had to be kept in nursery for ist 24 hours and had to be given bottle feed. We have been working on breast feeding ever since along with supplementation from formula. But he keeps on falling asleep during BF sessions within 5 to 10 min and wake up later hungry. I have to nurse him every 20 to 30 min. Just wanted to ask if thats normal. Also when i pump after a feeding session i can only get about half to 1.5 oz of milk.
Great information! This eases my mind. 35 weeks along 😊
Thank you!
When baby is low birth weight baby and doesn't have energy to feed from the breasts, should we start pumping immediately after baby is born ?
Thank you so much 🥰🤍
Thank you for everything , your info helped me very much
I started pumping at 7weeks and now I am not sure if I have enough milk stored because my 8 weeks maternity leave ends in a couple of days. How can I increase my supply?
I haven't had a missed period yet, and I felt my milk let down and got engorged. I stopped breastfeeding 2 months ago
I believe that they have very tiny stomach and small amount of colostrum wii be enough for them but when newborn have formula how do they have 2oz milk at one feeding
Just had a natural unmedicated water birth 3 days ago! So excited for breast feeding!
How to give the colestrum to baby?
I gave mine in a spoon is it right!!
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Perfectly fine! There are many alternative feeding options to avoid bottle feeding in the first month. Spoon feeding is one of them. Keep up the great work!
my baby has to take special milk for the first month, can I still train him to breastfeed now?
Is there any science behind breastfeeding and calorie burn? Xx