Wow! I couldn't have said it better..the hair loss journey can be so emotional and be so hard on your self esteem..Thank god for wigs and toppers and for your videos. Your changing lives. Thank you
Hi Denise, I had a lot of hair loss after having Covid. I have been researching wigs for 2 years and was so afraid to buy one. After watching almost all of your videos, you encouraged me to take that step. My first wig by Ellen Wille arrived this afternoon and I am so happy! My husband gave me so many compliments and could not believe how natural it looked. We are listening to music and dancing tonight because of you. I can’t thank you enough. This is certainly a ministry for you.
You just touched my heart. I'm literally tearing up. I'm so happy you found a wig that you love. I've been struggling for a year now and I haven't left my house except when it's dark and I could were a hoodie. I am federated. I have no one to talk to. I had beautiful long hair down to my hips. It took me years of house remedies to keep it from falling out and oil treatment to make it strong. It was annoying to do but when it was done it was thick and shiny. Everyone would stop me and give me compliments. My hair was my identity. My everything. I got sick and had to get a couple of surgeries. I stopped my normal hair routine
Continue...and lost all my hair. Anyway I guess I just vented in a comment reply. My point is that i am devastated and I made a wig. That was no good. Wigs do look wiggy. And I'm stuck right now. I'm actually morning the hair that I lost. I have a man buz cut. Down almost bald. But I would love to stop spending hundreds of thousands of dollars on wigs that I can't were because I can't fix them. It's so frustrating. Well if you guys red all this thank u for letting me rant
@@nizasilverio644 *virtual hug*. I am so sorry for you, Niza. I would be your friend & go shopping with you late at night, just to help you not feel so alone. Bless your ❤.
Hi Denise! I'm a pretty seasoned wig-wearer. One of my favorite go-tos are barrettes. Most wigs have open wefts so you can push the barrette through your wig AND your hair and you not only have styled your wig, but you've anchored it more securely to your head.
Hi Denise! I just have to say that you have become one of the best ( IMO) wig channels around. Your subject matters are so helpful, you always seem to know just what to talk about that may be concerning to new wig wearers. I guess it’s because you’ve been up against all the same problems. I think you were meant to do this channel, and you are doing just a wonderful job. I just know that you must surely be helping sooooo many wig wearers, and a big thank you is in order. Thank You Denise!!!! PS…. I’m about a year into wig wearing and still feel like everyone looks better in theirs. Lol it truly is In my head. But the struggle is still real. Xoxoxo
Oh, and HUGS for your journey!! Even though I started making videos within. A few months of starting to wear wigs, it took me about a year to feel really comfortable in them but I still had lots of struggles as well. You'll get there!
Something that helped me a lot was to take a few selfies in different light and areas in my home, I was surprised how "normal" my wig looked. When people say "that's a wig?!", believe them, you look more natural than you think!
Yes! I did the same and it gave me a different perspective. Then, my dear son tells me, “don’t worry mom, I’m sure there isn’t the wig police roaming the streets”. ❤
I'm a retired hair stylist and have been wearing wigs full-time for over 20 years. I own over 100 wigs. Still, every time I put on a brand new wig I think it looks awful! It usually just takes some experimenting with the position, styling, and band adjustment. Keep trying and you will get the hang of it!
Thank you for this video. I’m struggling with transitioning into wigs. I appreciate all the positive energy and confidence in your message. I don’t know why I’m so nervous about wigs - especially since I’m so tortured by my hair loss, but I feel like I’m going to buy a wig soon and reviewers like you are giving me the confidence to rock that wig:) Thank you
I hope you purchased one without being self conscious. Think about it - people get new fake nails, eyelashes, even new titles, tattoos, whatever, without a qualm. Lots of women get extensions, weaves etc. After you do something new, it's not so new anymore. ; )
Thank you sooo much. I'm starting chemo next week. I don't usually cry, I just try to "handle it", but you got me. I'm crying now. I've been on here for 2 weeks trying to find one, trying to figure out what all the videos are talking about. Finally I found you. Some of the stress just lightened up. I feel like I can do this a bit easier. I've subscribed and I just thank you for being the "soft should to lean on".
I agree with you totally. Seeing yourself in a wig for the first time is weird. Especially if you have had thin hair all your life. You are a great inspiration. Thanks!
I went all out with my first wig. Human hair, hand tied full mesh top with open wefts for the rest. The colour the same as my bio hair. Found a great shop that sold the Jon Renau wigs. They spent two hours with me and taught me everything I needed to look after it for up to 7 years of daily wear. I’m at the 6 year mark, and I feel so confident wearing them now, that I just bought a coco envy and a Brittany envy. Just started playing with them tonight. I’ve watched about 10 of your videos while I was playing. Thank you 🙏 😊
I am thrilled to hear that you found a great wig shop! I hear so many horror stories it is so great to hear a good one! I'm thrilled that you are having fun with wigs as well! HUGS!
I know this was shot 2 years ago, but it was exactly what I needed to hear today. I bought two beautiful wigs and I'm afraid to wear them out of the house. I'll start today getting used to myself in them❤ ❤❤❤❤
I can't tell you how much you've helped me in the last 5 months. Oh I made some terrible wig purchase mistakes. I can laugh about them now. I realised very quickly I can't have permatease on the top because I'm a wheelchair user, and people actually spend a lot of time looking at the top of my head. I've been using all your brilliant tips and tricks and my confidence is growing. I just want to say thank you so much, you are a huge inspiration to me and many others I'm sure xx
I just resently lost all my hair . My problem is not the hair loss I’m stressing over wigs . I don’t know where to turn . Its overwhelming. I just resently came across your channel you are awesome so knowledgeable. I’m feeling some relief . I haven’t finish all your videos but so far I’m really learning a lot . Thank you.
Hi Denise! I just started following you about a month ago and I have to tell you, you are the most caring and helpful wig reviewer. You can tell that you genuinely care. I'm so glad you did this video as I'm fairly new at wearing wigs and not all the time but I find myself feeling down and out sometimes. But watching your video tonight lifted my spirits. Thank you and have a blessed night.🥰🥰❤❤
When I started losing my hair I went to the wig shop and started with a topper. I was a game changer! I felt like myself again. No one even noticed! I started before my hair loss was a real issue. I could go out in public right away and when it was time to go to the full wig I was already comfortable with the wig life. Best decision ever was to take the plunge and do it! You Tube videos helped immensely. Thank you Denise!
Yay!! I love this! A lot of us wish we had found helper hair sooner, which is why Ibam do passionate to share my journey even on my own Facebook and Instagram pages (didn't create a separate account just for wigs althoughI did rename my Instagram account). I figure there are lots if women out there suffering privately in the early stages. Hugs!!
It's so true that sometimes it's better to start out with mono top lace front because you know it's going to look very real. Then you become so experienced that you can wear a basic cap and you some of the tricks that you mentioned: put barrettes, bobby pins, hair bands everything strategically placed and you find that you've created something realistic looking. However that said I only need you that for work for instance where I'm not being stared at or moving around that much. But whenever you want something to look super real there's nothing like a monotop and a lace front. Or at least a mono part. All your tips are great. I'm a dark brunette who the wig shop owner at the time insisted that I try a blonde wig. I could not imagine that but I let her put one on me and for me it felt magical. I never thought I could pull off blonde hair, but I certainly can and basically that's all I wear now. Another tip is have a close friend who's very honest over for lunch and try on whatever wigs youve bought and ask her to write what she thinks in a little notebook that you give her. Have some wine come have some fun, and you'll feel really confident when you get someone else's input. Most of all give yourself the best chance of your wigs looking great by putting on makeup, don't forget the lipstick, and a nice shirt. No wig looks good on anybody without some makeup and jewelry on. You want a success!
Terrific Denise! Your steps are great ideas -- I remember being there and how hard it was (now it's so normal for me to wear a wig and think nothing of it). I do agree: it's all in the mind, it's all in getting comfortable with the new change (change is SO HARD for us). Great video.
Greetings Denise! My problem used to be permatease. I didn't even know what it was, I just knew it WAS there and I didn't know what to do with it! And this was decades ago when there weren't many sleek options. Things are much better now! And fibers are so much better now! Thanks Denise! Love and blessings ♥️🙏
I've come full circle in my wig journey. At first I was like a kid in a sweetshop and bought a dozen different styles and colours but now I only ever buy the same couple of styles (which are very similar) and the same couple of colours (which are almost identical to my bio hair). For me changing my look from day to day isn't something I feel comfortable doing. The best way I find to keep my wigs from looking wiggy is to replace them regularly.
I read from one wig vlogger that she makes all her wigs last forever by using the silicone spray on them regularly..I am definitely going to try that as well! cheers!
Omg! I just stumbled upon you and your sparkling brilliance. You are beautiful! I feel like I've known you for ever. My heartbreaking hair loss journey has made me feel terribly alone. You are exactly the person i am meant to come across. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for sharing your wisdom with me! 🥰
I started losing my hair 2 months ago, and it's been devastating. I've watched a ton of your videos. I bought some wigs, and they should arrive next week. Thank you so much for all of your help. I really appreciate you. ♥
Great information Denise! It is so true that so much of it is in our heads...once we get past that awkward feeling it is so much fun wearing wigs...it does take time and self confidence. Once you find the right wig that looks good on yourself you start building your self confidence. Thanks again for caring and taking the time to post these videos!
Hi Denise, great tips, I use all of them and they have helped, wigs came a long way but the next step would be great if wig designers realized ( I am sure they know already ) that our hair line at the front is not a straight one, rarely someone has a total straight line, so,, they need to come out with a more natural front lace that is not straight, wigs for the movies have that, they are not straight, I know it might be a bit more work but I am sure it would pay in the end, I would love to be able to have a pony tail or an up do and all the hair be pulled up away from the front with no pieces falling on the side, maybe we could start a petition so designers could go ahead and create the "natural" hair line, lol...thanks for the tips.
YES!! This is so frustrating. It’s exactly the same with men’s hair systems. A majority of men have natural recession..especially as they age. Yet you have to pay a lot of extra money to get anything but a ridiculously straight hairline. Plus, you often have to instruct companies to make the hairline hair graduated & somewhat sporatic--like real hair. No one should have to pluck hairs out of the hairline & temple line to make a wig/piece look more natural. They should be made that way! -It’s really unbelievable that a company hasn’t capitalized on this problem. They would have so many customers. --As it is, I have to cut some recession in to the stock systems I buy. This is not ideal and it shortens the wigs lifespan. But I’m not going to wear a “hair hat” like Tony Curtis did for the last 30 yrs of his life. -Which brings up another problem…wigs are often too dense. William Shatner went from being the punchline of hairpiece jokes in the 1980’s to, now, having one of the most natural looking full cap wigs I’ve ever seen. All it took was getting the appropriate recession, a graduated hairline and a realistic(thin) density. The rub is that he has to pay a small fortune to get this natural look. No one should have to pay extra to get a natural looking wig. It should be standard practice for even the most basic wig to look real without the buyer having to manipulate it.
Love your advice. You have taught me so much. I live in a small town where everyone knows everyone's business. It's been very difficult for me to get use to wearing a wig and finding one that looks good on me. The one thing I hate on a wig is the permatease. I can't afford expensive wigs so I have been purchasing from the company Paula Young. Thanks for all that you do and God Bless you!
Your videos are so helpful. The mental adjustment to wig wearing became evident to me when I noticed that my wigs looked much puffier to me in the mirror than they did in a photograph. 😁
I have been losing my hair for a long time. I used toppix until that wasn’t enough. I then went to toppers. They helped me so much but now I don’t have enough hair to hold them on good. I’ve been looking at wigs over and over and watching wig videos. I started to prepare myself by telling two of my sister-in-laws that I was wearing a topper just to get out from behind the secrecy a little. I told my daughter and my husband that I was going to buy a wig, and got plenty of support. I’ve narrowed the search to a Godiva Secret wig that resembled my hair from years ago, and I’ll keep it brown because I can’t go wigs AND gray at the same time. I’m terrified! I know you said not to go with a basic wig cap first but I’m afraid the wig will look cheap and I can’t afford a 500.00 wig! I want the one I buy to work.
I hope you have found wigs that work for you. FYI, joining FB wig support groups also means you can see many many styles and on real people, plus its an amazing place to buy 2nd hand at a 75% discount, many tried on only!
I felt just like you when I started wearing wigs. It took me about a year to feel comfortable going out of the house wearing a wig. Love your advise for all of us new wig wearers,🥰
Your wig tips are perfection! Unfortunately, my first wig purchases were basic caps that I never wore out of my house. My first success was a Jon Renau hand tied wig with fairly low density. It took a couple of weeks of styling to get it just right. Since beginning my wig journey 15 months ago, I’ve learned that I am not a fan of permatease and must have at least a mono part. Your wig tips have been extremely helpful!
I feel the same way! I love me a mono part! Looks more natural. I just got a new wig by Ellen villa called amaretto. Really nice low density so looks more natural looking.
THIS WAS A FABULOUS “CoNdEnSaTiOn” of the MAIN issues with “Wig Wearing!” I’m going to watch “Rooting a Wig” for one!! Love you my Sis in Christ!! I thank GOD daily for putting you in my path!!🥰👏🎉🥳🙏
@@lotr4000 No I didn’t and if I EvEr use them again with you please KNOW that I am doing so to EMPHASIZE how wonderFUL your video was!! I’m happy you shared your sensitivity and “I have NO IDEA who, whom, he, him, she, her, it, they decided THAT!” 😢
I think this is one of the best videos you’ve done. I should say most important. Amen to the whole video. Sometimes I’m still struggling, to get out of my comfort zone. Your videos help me.
I need to thank you for all the time you put into sharing your knowledge about wigs along with all the tips for saving money. I have joined a Facebook group for used wigs (allows me to try colors I wouldn't buy at full price) and I save a lot of money AND I can sell some as well. Your reviews are soo very helpful, showing the color outside (regardless of the weather) makes all the difference. Your commitment to giving true and honest revews is very much appreciated. I told myself I will give up on my wig search, then I saw your post... and I know that I can do it too !!! I will receive Enchantress by Mane Attraction tomorrow ( in the same color as my bio hair (and will definitely wear her around the house and take time to style her. Thank you soo much, know that you make a difference.🙂
Just wearing that wig pulled back on your forehead works wonders!! Not a soul would ever know. I have an Ellen Wille Dance I just started pulling back on my forehead with a claw clip and I am amazed how good it looks. I need volume up top so have stayed away from full monos. Plus, many mono tops are snug on my 22" head. The way you have this one styled is just spot on!
I adore you !!! Thank you so much . I just watched all your videos on wiggly wigs and love the rooting and the bobbypin idea is genius!!!!! Your the only person that totally gets what we feel and say it the way we feel. Thank you thank you.
Oh my goodness! This video is exactly what I needed. Thank you so much for this video! I’ve been wearing wigs for over a year, but lately, they are just looking so wiggy to me. I used to use headbands, but the front of them looks wiggy now. I will try working with them more with clips. My problem is that I’m not very creative. You are renewing my faith in wigs and what drew me to them in the first place. This is not the first time you were right on point of what I’ve been feeling… Thank you, my dear.
You are amazing.You are a lifesaver.About a year ago,I got Folliculitis and I had to shave all my long thick hair off.You have eased my mind to my new world of wig wearing.I can breathe easier now you have enlightened me.Thank you.Many blessings to you and yours.
I lpve all your tips and hints and you are do easy to listen to. You should be a motivational speaker. You have motivated me. Can't wait to check out your other videos. Thank you so much for sharing your wig knowledge with us.
Thank you so very much for these tips. I have been an "on and off" wig wearer for years, and I've gotten pretty good at it. None of my friends know I'm wearing one unless I tell them, mostly because I only buy high quality wigs with lace fronts or all hand tied. And you're right.... almost ALL of them will need something done to them.
I got a wig for the first time and have been too scared to actually wear it. These tips were very helpful and your encouragement at the end of the video has encouraged me to definitely put it on this weekend! Thank you ❤
This was just wonderful - you are wonderful. Thank you so very much. I feel a lot better about what I'm facing with my hair loss situation and the reality of having to move into wigs. I even feel a little excited about it now. Thank you. (my only wish is that I wish manufacturers would offer more medium browns in cool/ashier tones. Almost all of them have "caramel, ginger, golden, auburn, you name it" tones to them. I just need something medium brown with some cool undertones. Very hard to find. And it's too hard to do the warm ones because that is just not me - wigs are hard enough to get used to! (love your first tip for that reason-I just want to look like me:) Thanks again!
I have been wearing wigs for 3yrs after loosing an inch of hair cover around the perimeter of my face in my early 60's. Being older may have helped me as I had just a month or so of "Well, who are you?" to the "Let's stay together" phase. By now I thought I'd picked up all the tricks, but recently purchased a puffier than usual pixie wig in 3 colors for this summer, and found I just wasn't getting used to the bouffant. Your "bobby pin under the top layer trick" hit a bullseye for that style for me! I do everything else under the sun and wear dozens of styles in all shades successfully, but here I was stumped! I mostly wanted to reach out to say that your attitude, personality, and benevolent nature is truly a blessing! You are the most well rounded, genuine, focused, professional and relatable wig influencer I have found. You are a gem, Denise. Thank you for following your heart and giving your soul to this calling, you are a true beautiful soul making a difference to so many.
My hair has been very thin and fine for most of my life. As I got older it got worse especially on top.I bought my first wig back in March (I think) because I was getting very self conscious about my hair (or lack of). I didn’t know where to go so I looked up a local store online and went. I ended up with Estetica Finn (I think). I loved it and it looked great. It took some time to get used to it (lots of hair) but my issue was that the owner/sales lady did not give me any info of what to do with it ie: washing, styling, what kind of fiber it was… and I was too naïve to ask. Thank God I found you! You have made my maiden voyage into the wig world easy and smoothe. I feel very blessed to have found you and your videos. Thank you so much!
Thank you, I haven't ordered my first wig yet, truthfully scared to death, but I need one at this point, don't stop doing these videos, we need them :)
Agree with the advice to get a style close to your usual style. That would have saved me a lot of returns! But new wig wearers have to be sure they want to keep the wig before the attempt styling or modifications. I returned many wigs before I found the “one”. I know that I could make many of those returns work for me now but not in the beginning. It can be discouraging to do many returns but when you find the right one, things start to make more sense. There’s no shame or blame in returning many wigs until you find the right one. That victory will give you confidence to do modifications in future purchases. Thanks for the willingness to help new wig wearers.
Hey Wig Sister! I watched all of your beginning videos and they really came in handy when I started to get my first wigs. I styled them, plucked them, used foundation & powder to hide lace and knotting, trimmed bangs, added combs/barrettes, hair bands, the whole shebang. Then took pictures. My brain recognizes the color and curls- it’s kinda weird. I have a widow’s peak so it’s difficult to find wigs that fit my hairline and that look convincing. Unfortunately, I’m still not comfortable wearing them outside but I do try them on and wear them inside the house. Honestly, they still look too wiggy for me to go outside. 😣 Maybe one day I’ll find the right combination.🤞
My Dad used to say I always have to learn the hard way. 1st wig just arrived: much darker than my bio hair, volume to the moon! It's going back for a lower density, lighter color. I am thankful to have found your videos Denise.
Chalk it up to education! The more wigs you try, the more you learn. Thankfully there are return policies on most of these, otherwise oh my gosh! I didn't return ANY early on and I really should have. Hugs!
Hey Denise! Totally agree with everything you've said. I love wearing baseball caps which has helped me transition to the feeling of a wig on my head. It took a LOT of trial and error to find a style/color that makes me feel like me, but I'm there. Mardi was NOT it in the long run. 😏 It's a journey for sure! God bless! P.S. I found it a huge help to take pictures. They can look a lot less wiggy in photos...which helped me "retrain my brain".
I agree! I looked so strange in my first few wigs but,after watching this video I started taking pics of me in each wig. As I looked at the pictures I saw myself in a whole new light. As weird as it sounds, it really works! Thanks for the tips Denise. I’ve watched this one quite a few times. Hahaha
Hi Denise, thank you so much for your videos, they’re brilliant and so helpful. I wish I could hire you to come and help me!!! But you’re giving me confidence ❤
Hello Denise. I just found U this morning. Without a long story, Ive lost more than half of my hair. After watching TEMU reviews I found same wigs on Amazon. I bought 3 wigs, they were delivered 2day. I completely forgot how terrible I look with long hair. The color of the wigs are so pretty, they do look "wiggy" Yikes! Im so thankful for you & your videos. ❤
In general this is good advice. I had thick long "Farrah Fawcett" hair before. I liked basic cap wigs. They gave the density and body I was used too. Unless you have a wig store near you, we all know finding a good color is tough. The cost of mono part/crown or hand tied wigs is much more -even on clearance. I would have been put off much more in the beginning if I had been plunking down 200-300 for each wig (including a bunch I didnt feel worked. ) If you have an average-large to large size the more "advance" cap wigs aren't as stretchy. I am glad I held on to those "failures" as 2 years in I can now "see" myself in many of those.
I 've been looking at wig videos the last 3 years and just found your channel!! so grateful ~i did purchase a topper 2 years ago and wear it some~ I think it looks fake but everyone says it looks very natural? After my most recent butchering/haircut~I felt like crying ~I decided to research and buy a wig~my hair is white with a little darker hair in back but oh so thin and it even looks terrible with a ball hat !! Anyway I will continue watching your videos before I buy a wig!! Thank you so much for sharing your expertise!!!
Thank you Denise… I always sit around the house with no wig on and this was very helpful with wearing a wig around the house. Now I won’t avoid my mirrors anymore 💗
Awesome tips Denise!!! Starting with a color closer to your bio hair color helped me. Low density wigs helped. And at first the lace front was the most important to me but now Perma tease and basic caps are just as good for me.
After all these years I occasionally feel this way. I think part of it is not wearing wigs at home and only leave the house a day or two a week. Plus negative comments also hurt badly in the process. Love you❤️
my wig looked wiggy until i took it to my hairdresser and she did light debulking? and made it more for my face and also changed the style. now i get tons of complements and it looks more natural. now i get complements about how great i look and how lovely the wig is. i changed the color from my normal dark brown to the Paula Young Nora in chestnut and i bought all new makeup, eyeshadow, eyebrow color, overall powder. yes, the first week it was shocking to see me in that much hair and even now a bit whoa but i now think i look younger and better.
My wig journey is that I always had beautiful, long auburn hair halfway down my back & I donated it 1 1/2 years ago. The person who cut my hair gave me a HORRENDOUS haircut that is STILL growing out! I haven't felt comfortable going out in public without a wig for the last year-and-a-half! I am so grateful for wigs! I was talking to friends yesterday who didn't even remember that I had long hair or what I looked like LOL I thought it was my signature and that everyone would always remember how beautiful my long hair was but all they remember is my short, blonde wigs. LOL I started ordering some longer Auburn wigs so that they can get used to seeing me with long hair when I finally take a chance on showing my own hair again in about 6 to 12 months. I really enjoy being a blonde now so I will continue to wear wigs regularly so I don't have to ruin my healthy auburn hair with hair color.
Hi Denise 👋 Just watching this again - as I do with a lot of your videos! So... I was listening but I was getting distracted by your beautiful eye make up - again, as I do with a lot of your videos!! So...! I was wondering if you'd consider doing a make up tutorial ? 🙃😊😍
You’re looking so great! I’m struggling lately with intense pain and it’s very depressing. Your joy and smile and honest help gives me hope. Thanks Denise. Praise the Lord! For you.
Oh no!! I Will say some extra prayers for you. My daily pain fluctuates but is usually at least a 5 on a scale of 0-10.... mornings it is more like an 8 or a 9.... so I completely understand. I love making these videos and so I fight through and take advantage of the good days. As I write this it is 7am on a bad pain morning. Times like this it seems I will never get better so I definitely understand. Praying you will find some relief.
Great video... My only issue is "styling" ... I've always had fine thin hair... For the most part I've worn the same hairstyle for DECADES, so I have no idea how to style hair... bio or wig lol but I am determined to practice and learn.
The beauty of a synthetic wig is that no styling is needed, in general! Sometimes you have to do some initial things to make it your own, like pluck a part line, trim in some layers, or use heat to get some lift in the front, but the style is baked in so day to day styling is not needed!
Everything you said is so very helpful Denise. I will have to watch the ones again for rooting I have not mastered that yet. Thank you for all you do for us Denise it's greatly appreciated. Have a Blessed weekend. Please say a extra prayer for me I had a biopsy today. I am positive that all will be ok. Thank you 💕
I learned so much from watching Rick reviews and reading all the comments from other wig sisters. I have even made decisions on wigs based on some comments. We learn so much from one another.
I'm 65 and I bought two wigs that turned out looking too dark. I bought them in the same color I was coloring my hair for like 20 years. But, seeing this full dark brown on me made me think I needed to get a lighter brown than I did. And I got one shoulder length one that is sort of too curly for everyday. And I got caught up in the fun of wig review videos and bought another one at the time that was longer than I should have. I've been playing around with styles to try to get comfortable wearing them. I think they look cute on me at home. Then I think people are seeing me wearing a wig. Especially those people I see often. OK. I know now they were used to seeing me in my thinning hair. I was just wearing a little flat hair piece I got from Amazon just to cover the bare spots on top and back. Maybe I should have got a topper to start out with that would have covered the top and the back. Now I ordered a little lighter brown in a couple styles that will be good for everyday. I also sewed 3 wig clips in my first two wigs. I like those , because I have enough hair yet that I can clip them on and they stay good. Sorry I didn't see your video before I got my first wigs.
I’m newly subscribed. Had first chemo infusion yesterday but they’ll add the drug that causes hair loss in April so I’m getting things prepared. I appreciate all your knowledge and encouragement!
From a new wig little sister, thank you! I have 4 new wigs in Pecan Delight that are unrooted and too shiny. Beth mentioned rinsing in a light baking soda solution-which I’m going to combine with three things you said, all of which I have on hand! Styling skills and a sense of humor about it from Beth, cornstarch, and two dozen Copic markers. (I’m an artist!) Never in a million year did I imagine I could root the wigs myself, which is game changing. I can’t wait to watch your rooting videos! Thank you, Wig Sister. Thank you! ❤️🙏🏼💕🌷 xoxox
I just bought my new wig, I was so excited to get home from the store and show my son and his wife and it totally looks so different and it seems to be the wrong wig. I am so upset and I can't return it! $565 wasted! I hopefully can learn some tips to make it look good on me and not fake! It looks like a wig but I the store it was alive and looked natural I am going to just keep my shaved head. This is too expensive to keep up with. Thank you for your videos, I will keep following and maybe I will get lucky and make it look good via style. It's a short wig, so can only do so much. This alopecia journey stinks!
Thanks for your kind words, I feel exactly as you said. I bought a wig a year ago and never wear it. I tried and felt so bad, it was just to much for me. I was trying to tin it a bit. I will see if I can wear it at home and get used to it. Losing my gorgeous hair has been so hard on me.
Hey! Hands down, this might be the best video I've ever watched on wigs. I started with Tatum by Amore which is low density with no permatease. I'm now going to try Kenzie by Noriko and use some of the tips you suggested. I'll let you know how I get on!
sweetie im 59 menopausal and my hair is thinning and i was scared of buying a wig i bought a blonde wig and dyed it grey made it into a topper sewn it to a headband with a velvet handband underneath i made myself and it turned out great plus my skin is terrible i got deep frown lines an my topper covers it i went shopping other day lady works in there said did u get your hair done i whispered to her its a wig she said i would not of known that til u told me i went out feelling 10 ft high an my confidence had soared so ladies dont be embarrassed in buying a wig try it you,l love it God bless us ladies who are aging lol xox
This was great! You are so enthusiastic, so sweet, and emotional. I am not a big stylist type, so this will be good. I really look forward to watching all your videos. Thank you.
Thank you. As someone mentioned already, a natural hairline would help immensely. Why can't they do this?? I hate plucking the fibers out in a lace front.
I wish i had seen this video when i first start wesring toppers and wigs. Thinning hair made my yry at the start of COVID but everyone looks way too much hair . I have persevered and although still feel i have too much hair sometimes its easier. Keep up your great work.❤
Thank you. I haven't bought a full wig yet, but I have a feeling I will experience the wiggy feel. I just bought my first topper/same colour (or I thought) as my bio hair. I had to return it and order white. I hope that works. Helpful info on rooting to add at dimension if necessary. Just found your channel about a week ago.
Very helpful. You are inspirational. I started last Aug 2021. I have a few with permatease (which I love because it gives body).. I am trying to figure out how to fake a part or something. I dont mind some of the fibers looking “teased” or “nested” I am just wondering if I can make it more realistic.
Thank you for addressing the psychological/emotional side of wearing wigs
Wow! I couldn't have said it better..the hair loss journey can be so emotional and be so hard on your self esteem..Thank god for wigs and toppers and for your videos. Your changing lives. Thank you
Hi Denise, I had a lot of hair loss after having Covid. I have been researching wigs for 2 years and was so afraid to buy one. After watching almost all of your videos, you encouraged me to take that step. My first wig by Ellen Wille arrived this afternoon and I am so happy! My husband gave me so many compliments and could not believe how natural it looked. We are listening to music and dancing tonight because of you. I can’t thank you enough. This is certainly a ministry for you.
You just touched my heart. I'm literally tearing up. I'm so happy you found a wig that you love. I've been struggling for a year now and I haven't left my house except when it's dark and I could were a hoodie. I am federated. I have no one to talk to. I had beautiful long hair down to my hips. It took me years of house remedies to keep it from falling out and oil treatment to make it strong. It was annoying to do but when it was done it was thick and shiny. Everyone would stop me and give me compliments. My hair was my identity. My everything. I got sick and had to get a couple of surgeries. I stopped my normal hair routine
Continue...and lost all my hair. Anyway I guess I just vented in a comment reply. My point is that i am devastated and I made a wig. That was no good. Wigs do look wiggy. And I'm stuck right now. I'm actually morning the hair that I lost. I have a man buz cut. Down almost bald. But I would love to stop spending hundreds of thousands of dollars on wigs that I can't were because I can't fix them. It's so frustrating. Well if you guys red all this thank u for letting me rant
🎉 brilliant thank u. U are inspiring me to get my 1st wig on my head and start working it. Many thanks.
Thank you so much for sharing - so sweet!😍 So happy for you - do you mind sharing what Ellen Willie style you purchased as a first timer?
@@nizasilverio644 *virtual hug*. I am so sorry for you, Niza. I would be your friend & go shopping with you late at night, just to help you not feel so alone. Bless your ❤.
Hi Denise! I'm a pretty seasoned wig-wearer. One of my favorite go-tos are barrettes. Most wigs have open wefts so you can push the barrette through your wig AND your hair and you not only have styled your wig, but you've anchored it more securely to your head.
Thanks for sharing!!
I will try that!
Hi Denise!
I just have to say that you have become one of the best ( IMO) wig channels around.
Your subject matters are so helpful, you always seem to know just what to talk about that may be concerning to new wig wearers. I guess it’s because you’ve been up against all the same problems.
I think you were meant to do this channel, and you are doing just a wonderful job.
I just know that you must surely be helping sooooo many wig wearers, and a big thank you is in order.
Thank You Denise!!!!
PS…. I’m about a year into wig wearing and still feel like everyone looks better in theirs. Lol it truly is In my head.
But the struggle is still real. Xoxoxo
This is such a nice comment!! You made my day 💕!
Oh, and HUGS for your journey!! Even though I started making videos within. A few months of starting to wear wigs, it took me about a year to feel really comfortable in them but I still had lots of struggles as well. You'll get there!
So tired of NEVER feeling like my wigs look like my own hair, I am soooo glad I found this on uTube. Helllllp me
Something that helped me a lot was to take a few selfies in different light and areas in my home, I was surprised how "normal" my wig looked. When people say "that's a wig?!", believe them, you look more natural than you think!
Love this!!! 100% correct!
Yes! I did the same and it gave me a different perspective. Then, my dear son tells me, “don’t worry mom, I’m sure there isn’t the wig police roaming the streets”. ❤
@@onthehill3381 Oh my gosh, I LOVE that!!! Kudos to your son!!!
I'm a retired hair stylist and have been wearing wigs full-time for over 20 years. I own over 100 wigs. Still, every time I put on a brand new wig I think it looks awful! It usually just takes some experimenting with the position, styling, and band adjustment. Keep trying and you will get the hang of it!
Thank you for the encouragement!
Thank you for this video. I’m struggling with transitioning into wigs. I appreciate all the positive energy and confidence in your message. I don’t know why I’m so nervous about wigs - especially since I’m so tortured by my hair loss, but I feel like I’m going to buy a wig soon and reviewers like you are giving me the confidence to rock that wig:) Thank you
I hope you purchased one without being self conscious. Think about it - people get new fake nails, eyelashes, even new titles, tattoos, whatever, without a qualm. Lots of women get extensions, weaves etc. After you do something new, it's not so new anymore. ; )
@@piggylover4808 I hav come so very far! Loving my wigs and the new me I’ve discovered since starting my wig journey. Thanks so much:)
Thank you sooo much. I'm starting chemo next week. I don't usually cry, I just try to "handle it", but you got me. I'm crying now. I've been on here for 2 weeks trying to find one, trying to figure out what all the videos are talking about. Finally I found you. Some of the stress just lightened up. I feel like I can do this a bit easier. I've subscribed and I just thank you for being the "soft should to lean on".
I agree with you totally. Seeing yourself in a wig for the first time is weird. Especially if you have had thin hair all your life. You are a great inspiration. Thanks!
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I went all out with my first wig. Human hair, hand tied full mesh top with open wefts for the rest. The colour the same as my bio hair. Found a great shop that sold the Jon Renau wigs. They spent two hours with me and taught me everything I needed to look after it for up to 7 years of daily wear. I’m at the 6 year mark, and I feel so confident wearing them now, that I just bought a coco envy and a Brittany envy. Just started playing with them tonight. I’ve watched about 10 of your videos while I was playing. Thank you 🙏 😊
I am thrilled to hear that you found a great wig shop! I hear so many horror stories it is so great to hear a good one! I'm thrilled that you are having fun with wigs as well! HUGS!
I know this was shot 2 years ago, but it was exactly what I needed to hear today. I bought two beautiful wigs and I'm afraid to wear them out of the house. I'll start today getting used to myself in them❤ ❤❤❤❤
I can't tell you how much you've helped me in the last 5 months. Oh I made some terrible wig purchase mistakes. I can laugh about them now.
I realised very quickly I can't have permatease on the top because I'm a wheelchair user, and people actually spend a lot of time looking at the top of my head.
I've been using all your brilliant tips and tricks and my confidence is growing. I just want to say thank you so much, you are a huge inspiration to me and many others I'm sure xx
I'm so thrilled to hear this!! Even more thrilled that you have learned what works for you which is such a confidence builder. HUGS!
I just resently lost all my hair . My problem is not the hair loss I’m stressing over wigs . I don’t know where to turn . Its overwhelming. I just resently came across your channel you are awesome so knowledgeable. I’m feeling some relief . I haven’t finish all your videos but so far I’m really learning a lot . Thank you.
Hi Denise! I just started following you about a month ago and I have to tell you, you are the most caring and helpful wig reviewer. You can tell that you genuinely care. I'm so glad you did this video as I'm fairly new at wearing wigs and not all the time but I find myself feeling down and out sometimes. But watching your video tonight lifted my spirits. Thank you and have a blessed night.🥰🥰❤❤
When I started losing my hair I went to the wig shop and started with a topper. I was a game changer! I felt like myself again. No one even noticed! I started before my hair loss was a real issue. I could go out in public right away and when it was time to go to the full wig I was already comfortable with the wig life. Best decision ever was to take the plunge and do it! You Tube videos helped immensely.
Thank you Denise!
Yay!! I love this! A lot of us wish we had found helper hair sooner, which is why Ibam do passionate to share my journey even on my own Facebook and Instagram pages (didn't create a separate account just for wigs althoughI did rename my Instagram account). I figure there are lots if women out there suffering privately in the early stages. Hugs!!
It's so true that sometimes it's better to start out with mono top lace front because you know it's going to look very real. Then you become so experienced that you can wear a basic cap and you some of the tricks that you mentioned: put barrettes, bobby pins, hair bands everything strategically placed and you find that you've created something realistic looking. However that said I only need you that for work for instance where I'm not being stared at or moving around that much. But whenever you want something to look super real there's nothing like a monotop and a lace front. Or at least a mono part. All your tips are great. I'm a dark brunette who the wig shop owner at the time insisted that I try a blonde wig. I could not imagine that but I let her put one on me and for me it felt magical. I never thought I could pull off blonde hair, but I certainly can and basically that's all I wear now. Another tip is have a close friend who's very honest over for lunch and try on whatever wigs youve bought and ask her to write what she thinks in a little notebook that you give her. Have some wine come have some fun, and you'll feel really confident when you get someone else's input. Most of all give yourself the best chance of your wigs looking great by putting on makeup, don't forget the lipstick, and a nice shirt. No wig looks good on anybody without some makeup and jewelry on. You want a success!
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Terrific Denise! Your steps are great ideas -- I remember being there and how hard it was (now it's so normal for me to wear a wig and think nothing of it). I do agree: it's all in the mind, it's all in getting comfortable with the new change (change is SO HARD for us). Great video.
Thank you!!
Greetings Denise! My problem used to be permatease. I didn't even know what it was, I just knew it WAS there and I didn't know what to do with it! And this was decades ago when there weren't many sleek options. Things are much better now! And fibers are so much better now! Thanks Denise! Love and blessings ♥️🙏
I've come full circle in my wig journey. At first I was like a kid in a sweetshop and bought a dozen different styles and colours but now I only ever buy the same couple of styles (which are very similar) and the same couple of colours (which are almost identical to my bio hair). For me changing my look from day to day isn't something I feel comfortable doing. The best way I find to keep my wigs from looking wiggy is to replace them regularly.
Great tip!! Thank you!
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I read from one wig vlogger that she makes all her wigs last forever by using the silicone spray on them regularly..I am definitely going to try that as well! cheers!
I love how excited you get when you’re talking to us. So much passion in your voice, you are so loving and caring. God bless you!
What a lovely lady. So kind and thoughtful. ❤
Great positive advice Denise , you were born to do this, God Bless you xx
Omg! I just stumbled upon you and your sparkling brilliance. You are beautiful! I feel like I've known you for ever. My heartbreaking hair loss journey has made me feel terribly alone. You are exactly the person i am meant to come across. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for sharing your wisdom with me! 🥰
I started losing my hair 2 months ago, and it's been devastating. I've watched a ton of your videos. I bought some wigs, and they should arrive next week. Thank you so much for all of your help. I really appreciate you. ♥
I’m also new to hair loss, I’m really struggling mentally.😢 so I can relate to how devastating it is.
Great information Denise! It is so true that so much of it is in our heads...once we get past that awkward feeling it is so much fun wearing wigs...it does take time and self confidence. Once you find the right wig that looks good on yourself you start building your self confidence. Thanks again for caring and taking the time to post these videos!
Hi Denise, great tips, I use all of them and they have helped, wigs came a long way but the next step would be great if wig designers realized ( I am sure they know already ) that our hair line at the front is not a straight one, rarely someone has a total straight line, so,, they need to come out with a more natural front lace that is not straight, wigs for the movies have that, they are not straight, I know it might be a bit more work but I am sure it would pay in the end, I would love to be able to have a pony tail or an up do and all the hair be pulled up away from the front with no pieces falling on the side, maybe we could start a petition so designers could go ahead and create the "natural" hair line, lol...thanks for the tips.
YES!! This is so frustrating. It’s exactly the same with men’s hair systems. A majority of men have natural recession..especially as they age. Yet you have to pay a lot of extra money to get anything but a ridiculously straight hairline. Plus, you often have to instruct companies to make the hairline hair graduated & somewhat sporatic--like real hair. No one should have to pluck hairs out of the hairline & temple line to make a wig/piece look more natural. They should be made that way! -It’s really unbelievable that a company hasn’t capitalized on this problem. They would have so many customers. --As it is, I have to cut some recession in to the stock systems I buy. This is not ideal and it shortens the wigs lifespan. But I’m not going to wear a “hair hat” like Tony Curtis did for the last 30 yrs of his life. -Which brings up another problem…wigs are often too dense. William Shatner went from being the punchline of hairpiece jokes in the 1980’s to, now, having one of the most natural looking full cap wigs I’ve ever seen. All it took was getting the appropriate recession, a graduated hairline and a realistic(thin) density. The rub is that he has to pay a small fortune to get this natural look. No one should have to pay extra to get a natural looking wig. It should be standard practice for even the most basic wig to look real without the buyer having to manipulate it.
Love your advice. You have taught me so much. I live in a small town where everyone knows everyone's business. It's been very difficult for me to get use to wearing a wig and finding one that looks good on me. The one thing I hate on a wig is the permatease. I can't afford expensive wigs so I have been purchasing from the company Paula Young. Thanks for all that you do and God Bless you!
Your videos are so helpful. The mental adjustment to wig wearing became evident to me when I noticed that my wigs looked much puffier to me in the mirror than they did in a photograph. 😁
You are just the most supportive and sincere person, Denise! The world needs more people like you. Be the light!💜✝️💜
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Hi! You are so kind and it is so great to hear from you!! HUGS!
I have been losing my hair for a long time. I used toppix until that wasn’t enough. I then went to toppers. They helped me so much but now I don’t have enough hair to hold them on good. I’ve been looking at wigs over and over and watching wig videos. I started to prepare myself by telling two of my sister-in-laws that I was wearing a topper just to get out from behind the secrecy a little. I told my daughter and my husband that I was going to buy a wig, and got plenty of support. I’ve narrowed the search to a Godiva Secret wig that resembled my hair from years ago, and I’ll keep it brown because I can’t go wigs AND gray at the same time. I’m terrified! I know you said not to go with a basic wig cap first but I’m afraid the wig will look cheap and I can’t afford a 500.00 wig! I want the one I buy to work.
I hope you have found wigs that work for you. FYI, joining FB wig support groups also means you can see many many styles and on real people, plus its an amazing place to buy 2nd hand at a 75% discount, many tried on only!
I felt just like you when I started wearing wigs. It took me about a year to feel comfortable going out of the house wearing a wig. Love your advise for all of us new wig wearers,🥰
Your wig tips are perfection! Unfortunately, my first wig purchases were basic caps that I never wore out of my house. My first success was a Jon Renau hand tied wig with fairly low density. It took a couple of weeks of styling to get it just right. Since beginning my wig journey 15 months ago, I’ve learned that I am not a fan of permatease and must have at least a mono part. Your wig tips have been extremely helpful!
I feel the same way! I love me a mono part! Looks more natural.
I just got a new wig by Ellen villa called amaretto. Really nice low density so looks more natural looking.
THIS WAS A FABULOUS “CoNdEnSaTiOn” of the MAIN issues with “Wig Wearing!” I’m going to watch “Rooting a Wig” for one!! Love you my Sis in Christ!! I thank GOD daily for putting you in my path!!🥰👏🎉🥳🙏
Just a note: Sticky caps are used to express mockery or derision.
Like "She said was VeGaN!" Like that. Maybe you didn't know. ❤
@@lotr4000 No I didn’t and if I EvEr use them again with you please KNOW that I am doing so to EMPHASIZE how wonderFUL your video was!! I’m happy you shared your sensitivity and “I have NO IDEA who, whom, he, him, she, her, it, they decided THAT!” 😢
I think this is one of the best videos you’ve done. I should say most important. Amen to the whole video. Sometimes I’m still struggling, to get out of my comfort zone. Your videos help me.
I need to thank you for all the time you put into sharing your knowledge about wigs along with all the tips for saving money. I have joined a Facebook group for used wigs (allows me to try colors I wouldn't buy at full price) and I save a lot of money AND I can sell some as well. Your reviews are soo very helpful, showing the color outside (regardless of the weather) makes all the difference. Your commitment to giving true and honest revews is very much appreciated. I told myself I will give up on my wig search, then I saw your post... and I know that I can do it too !!! I will receive Enchantress by Mane Attraction tomorrow ( in the same color as my bio hair (and will definitely wear her around the house and take time to style her. Thank you soo much, know that you make a difference.🙂
Hi, Olga! Thank you so much for this kind comment!! Sending you huge hugs!!
Just wearing that wig pulled back on your forehead works wonders!! Not a soul would ever know. I have an Ellen Wille Dance I just started pulling back on my forehead with a claw clip and I am amazed how good it looks. I need volume up top so have stayed away from full monos. Plus, many mono tops are snug on my 22" head. The way you have this one styled is just spot on!
What a great video for beginner wig wearers. I went through all the things you discussed and it’s true it will get better and you will love wigs.
Thank you for chiming in!! HUGS!
I needed to hear this. Thank you so much for sharing. ❤️
I adore you !!! Thank you so much . I just watched all your videos on wiggly wigs and love the rooting and the bobbypin idea is genius!!!!!
Your the only person that totally gets what we feel and say it the way we feel. Thank you thank you.
Oh my goodness! This video is exactly what I needed. Thank you so much for this video! I’ve been wearing wigs for over a year, but lately, they are just looking so wiggy to me. I used to use headbands, but the front of them looks wiggy now. I will try working with them more with clips. My problem is that I’m not very creative. You are renewing my faith in wigs and what drew me to them in the first place. This is not the first time you were right on point of what I’ve been feeling… Thank you, my dear.
You are amazing.You are a lifesaver.About a year ago,I got Folliculitis and I had to shave all my long thick hair off.You have eased my mind to my new world of wig wearing.I can breathe easier now you have enlightened me.Thank you.Many blessings to you and yours.
I lpve all your tips and hints and you are do easy to listen to. You should be a motivational speaker. You have motivated me. Can't wait to check out your other videos. Thank you so much for sharing your wig knowledge with us.
Thank you so very much for these tips. I have been an "on and off" wig wearer for years, and I've gotten pretty good at it. None of my friends know I'm wearing one unless I tell them, mostly because I only buy high quality wigs with lace fronts or all hand tied. And you're right.... almost ALL of them will need something done to them.
do you have thick hair or thin hair?
I got a wig for the first time and have been too scared to actually wear it. These tips were very helpful and your encouragement at the end of the video has encouraged me to definitely put it on this weekend! Thank you ❤
This was just wonderful - you are wonderful. Thank you so very much. I feel a lot better about what I'm facing with my hair loss situation and the reality of having to move into wigs. I even feel a little excited about it now. Thank you. (my only wish is that I wish manufacturers would offer more medium browns in cool/ashier tones. Almost all of them have "caramel, ginger, golden, auburn, you name it" tones to them. I just need something medium brown with some cool undertones. Very hard to find. And it's too hard to do the warm ones because that is just not me - wigs are hard enough to get used to! (love your first tip for that reason-I just want to look like me:) Thanks again!
You’re a breath of fresh h-air! Love your energy and vibe. You’re like listening to friend over lunch. great information so please keep it up!
Thank you so much!!!
I have been wearing wigs for 3yrs after loosing an inch of hair cover around the perimeter of my face in my early 60's. Being older may have helped me as I had just a month or so of "Well, who are you?" to the "Let's stay together" phase. By now I thought I'd picked up all the tricks, but recently purchased a puffier than usual pixie wig in 3 colors for this summer, and found I just wasn't getting used to the bouffant. Your "bobby pin under the top layer trick" hit a bullseye for that style for me! I do everything else under the sun and wear dozens of styles in all shades successfully, but here I was stumped!
I mostly wanted to reach out to say that your attitude, personality, and benevolent nature is truly a blessing! You are the most well rounded, genuine, focused, professional and relatable wig influencer I have found. You are a gem, Denise. Thank you for following your heart and giving your soul to this calling, you are a true beautiful soul making a difference to so many.
Excellent advice - so encouraging!!! Even for those who just want to have fun with them!
Oooo you're fantastic , such kind and positive thinking...enjoy your weekend...I wish I lived near you! ❤
My hair has been very thin and fine for most of my life. As I got older it got worse especially on top.I bought my first wig back in March (I think) because I was getting very self conscious about my hair (or lack of). I didn’t know where to go so I looked up a local store online and went. I ended up with Estetica Finn (I think). I loved it and it looked great. It took some time to get used to it (lots of hair) but my issue was that the owner/sales lady did not give me any info of what to do with it ie: washing, styling, what kind of fiber it was… and I was too naïve to ask. Thank God I found you! You have made my maiden voyage into the wig world easy and smoothe. I feel very blessed to have found you and your videos. Thank you so much!
You are so inspirational Denise. Thank you for the tips and advice 😊
Thank you, I haven't ordered my first wig yet, truthfully scared to death, but I need one at this point, don't stop doing these videos, we need them :)
Agree with the advice to get a style close to your usual style. That would have saved me a lot of returns! But new wig wearers have to be sure they want to keep the wig before the attempt styling or modifications. I returned many wigs before I found the “one”. I know that I could make many of those returns work for me now but not in the beginning. It can be discouraging to do many returns but when you find the right one, things start to make more sense. There’s no shame or blame in returning many wigs until you find the right one. That victory will give you confidence to do modifications in future purchases. Thanks for the willingness to help new wig wearers.
Hey Wig Sister! I watched all of your beginning videos and they really came in handy when I started to get my first wigs. I styled them, plucked them, used foundation & powder to hide lace and knotting, trimmed bangs, added combs/barrettes, hair bands, the whole shebang. Then took pictures. My brain recognizes the color and curls- it’s kinda weird. I have a widow’s peak so it’s difficult to find wigs that fit my hairline and that look convincing. Unfortunately, I’m still not comfortable wearing them outside but I do try them on and wear them inside the house. Honestly, they still look too wiggy for me to go outside. 😣
Maybe one day I’ll find the right combination.🤞
You can get there but it sure can be challenging. Sending you hugs ❤️
Thank you so much Denise❣️ You are truly an angel - spending your time to help us feel confident, comfortable & like ourselves again🌈🦋
You are so welcome- HUGS!!
I just discovered you today and want to cry. You pinpointed exactly my feelings of fear. What a comfort you are!!!!
My Dad used to say I always have to learn the hard way. 1st wig just arrived: much darker than my bio hair, volume to the moon! It's going back for a lower density, lighter color. I am thankful to have found your videos Denise.
Chalk it up to education! The more wigs you try, the more you learn. Thankfully there are return policies on most of these, otherwise oh my gosh! I didn't return ANY early on and I really should have. Hugs!
Hey Denise! Totally agree with everything you've said. I love wearing baseball caps which has helped me transition to the feeling of a wig on my head. It took a LOT of trial and error to find a style/color that makes me feel like me, but I'm there. Mardi was NOT it in the long run. 😏 It's a journey for sure! God bless!
P.S. I found it a huge help to take pictures. They can look a lot less wiggy in photos...which helped me "retrain my brain".
Hi Denise! Such great information here! You are a wealth of information, and I thank you for sharing all you do. You look fabulous!
I agree! I looked so strange in my first few wigs but,after watching this video I started taking pics of me in each wig. As I looked at the pictures I saw myself in a whole new light. As weird as it sounds, it really works! Thanks for the tips Denise. I’ve watched this one quite a few times. Hahaha
YAY! I'm so so glad it helped! Thank you so much for taking time to share!
Hi Denise, thank you so much for your videos, they’re brilliant and so helpful. I wish I could hire you to come and help me!!! But you’re giving me confidence ❤
Hello Denise. I just found U this morning. Without a long story, Ive lost more than half of my hair. After watching TEMU reviews I found same wigs on Amazon. I bought 3 wigs, they were delivered 2day. I completely forgot how terrible I look with long hair. The color of the wigs are so pretty, they do look "wiggy" Yikes! Im so thankful for you & your videos. ❤
In general this is good advice. I had thick long "Farrah Fawcett" hair before. I liked basic cap wigs. They gave the density and body I was used too. Unless you have a wig store near you, we all know finding a good color is tough. The cost of mono part/crown or hand tied wigs is much more -even on clearance. I would have been put off much more in the beginning if I had been plunking down 200-300 for each wig (including a bunch I didnt feel worked. ) If you have an average-large to large size the more "advance" cap wigs aren't as stretchy. I am glad I held on to those "failures" as 2 years in I can now "see" myself in many of those.
Thank you so much for the tips! You are such an inspiration to not give up! Wigs are a blessing and life changing!
I 've been looking at wig videos the last 3 years and just found your channel!! so grateful ~i did purchase a topper 2 years ago and wear it some~ I think it looks fake but everyone says it looks very natural? After my most recent butchering/haircut~I felt like crying ~I decided to research and buy a wig~my hair is white with a little darker hair in back but oh so thin and it even looks terrible with a ball hat !! Anyway I will continue watching your videos before I buy a wig!! Thank you so much for sharing your expertise!!!
Thank you Denise… I always sit around the house with no wig on and this was very helpful with wearing a wig around the house. Now I won’t avoid my mirrors anymore 💗
Awesome tips Denise!!! Starting with a color closer to your bio hair color helped me. Low density wigs helped. And at first the lace front was the most important to me but now Perma tease and basic caps are just as good for me.
After all these years I occasionally feel this way. I think part of it is not wearing wigs at home and only leave the house a day or two a week. Plus negative comments also hurt badly in the process.
Love you❤️
my wig looked wiggy until i took it to my hairdresser and she did light debulking? and made it more for my face and also changed the style. now i get tons of complements and it looks more natural. now i get complements about how great i look and how lovely the wig is. i changed the color from my normal dark brown to the Paula Young Nora in chestnut and i bought all new makeup, eyeshadow, eyebrow color, overall powder. yes, the first week it was shocking to see me in that much hair and even now a bit whoa but i now think i look younger and better.
My wig journey is that I always had beautiful, long auburn hair halfway down my back & I donated it 1 1/2 years ago. The person who cut my hair gave me a HORRENDOUS haircut that is STILL growing out! I haven't felt comfortable going out in public without a wig for the last year-and-a-half! I am so grateful for wigs! I was talking to friends yesterday who didn't even remember that I had long hair or what I looked like LOL I thought it was my signature and that everyone would always remember how beautiful my long hair was but all they remember is my short, blonde wigs. LOL I started ordering some longer Auburn wigs so that they can get used to seeing me with long hair when I finally take a chance on showing my own hair again in about 6 to 12 months. I really enjoy being a blonde now so I will continue to wear wigs regularly so I don't have to ruin my healthy auburn hair with hair color.
Advice I wish I would have had. Fantastic, So informative , Hugs My Dear 🤗😙❤
Hi Denise 👋 Just watching this again - as I do with a lot of your videos! So... I was listening but I was getting distracted by your beautiful eye make up - again, as I do with a lot of your videos!!
So...!
I was wondering if you'd consider doing a make up tutorial ? 🙃😊😍
You’re looking so great! I’m struggling lately with intense pain and it’s very depressing. Your joy and smile and honest help gives me hope. Thanks Denise. Praise the Lord! For you.
Oh no!! I Will say some extra prayers for you. My daily pain fluctuates but is usually at least a 5 on a scale of 0-10.... mornings it is more like an 8 or a 9.... so I completely understand. I love making these videos and so I fight through and take advantage of the good days. As I write this it is 7am on a bad pain morning. Times like this it seems I will never get better so I definitely understand. Praying you will find some relief.
Great video... My only issue is "styling" ... I've always had fine thin hair... For the most part I've worn the same hairstyle for DECADES, so I have no idea how to style hair... bio or wig lol but I am determined to practice and learn.
The beauty of a synthetic wig is that no styling is needed, in general! Sometimes you have to do some initial things to make it your own, like pluck a part line, trim in some layers, or use heat to get some lift in the front, but the style is baked in so day to day styling is not needed!
Everything you said is so very helpful Denise. I will have to watch the ones again for rooting I have not mastered that yet. Thank you for all you do for us Denise it's greatly appreciated. Have a Blessed weekend. Please say a extra prayer for me I had a biopsy today. I am positive that all will be ok. Thank you 💕
Thanks for the tips
I've fallen love with my units but i also like my freshly buzz cut. It's the in between cut that I struggle with.
I learned so much from watching Rick reviews and reading all the comments from other wig sisters. I have even made decisions on wigs based on some comments. We learn so much from one another.
I'm 65 and I bought two wigs that turned out looking too dark. I bought them in the same color I was coloring my hair for like 20 years. But, seeing this full dark brown on me made me think I needed to get a lighter brown than I did. And I got one shoulder length one that is sort of too curly for everyday. And I got caught up in the fun of wig review videos and bought another one at the time that was longer than I should have. I've been playing around with styles to try to get comfortable wearing them. I think they look cute on me at home. Then I think people are seeing me wearing a wig. Especially those people I see often. OK. I know now they were used to seeing me in my thinning hair. I was just wearing a little flat hair piece I got from Amazon just to cover the bare spots on top and back. Maybe I should have got a topper to start out with that would have covered the top and the back. Now I ordered a little lighter brown in a couple styles that will be good for everyday. I also sewed 3 wig clips in my first two wigs. I like those , because I have enough hair yet that I can clip them on and they stay good. Sorry I didn't see your video before I got my first wigs.
Great video! It hit the nail on the head/wig! 🥰
I’m newly subscribed. Had first chemo infusion yesterday but they’ll add the drug that causes hair loss in April so I’m getting things prepared. I appreciate all your knowledge and encouragement!
From a new wig little sister, thank you! I have 4 new wigs in Pecan Delight that are unrooted and too shiny.
Beth mentioned rinsing in a light baking soda solution-which I’m going to combine with three things you said, all of which I have on hand! Styling skills and a sense of humor about it from Beth, cornstarch, and two dozen Copic markers. (I’m an artist!) Never in a million year did I imagine I could root the wigs myself, which is game changing.
I can’t wait to watch your rooting videos! Thank you, Wig Sister. Thank you! ❤️🙏🏼💕🌷 xoxox
This video is therapeutic. ❤❤❤
I just bought my new wig, I was so excited to get home from the store and show my son and his wife and it totally looks so different and it seems to be the wrong wig.
I am so upset and I can't return it! $565 wasted!
I hopefully can learn some tips to make it look good on me and not fake!
It looks like a wig but I the store it was alive and looked natural
I am going to just keep my shaved head. This is too expensive to keep up with.
Thank you for your videos, I will keep following and maybe I will get lucky and make it look good via style. It's a short wig, so can only do so much. This alopecia journey stinks!
Thanks for your kind words, I feel exactly as you said. I bought a wig a year ago and never wear it. I tried and felt so bad, it was just to much for me. I was trying to tin it a bit. I will see if I can wear it at home and get used to it. Losing my gorgeous hair has been so hard on me.
Hey! Hands down, this might be the best video I've ever watched on wigs. I started with Tatum by Amore which is low density with no permatease. I'm now going to try Kenzie by Noriko and use some of the tips you suggested. I'll let you know how I get on!
You're very pretty ... your whole look is perfect for your face.
Thank you so much!
Nice to see your Video Denise, great to hear your voice again ❤ big hug from over here 😊
Hi, Gaby! So great to see you! HUGS!
sweetie im 59 menopausal and my hair is thinning and i was scared of buying a wig i bought a blonde wig and dyed it grey made it into a topper sewn it to a headband with a velvet handband underneath i made myself and it turned out great plus my skin is terrible i got deep frown lines an my topper covers it i went shopping other day lady works in there said did u get your hair done i whispered to her its a wig she said i would not of known that til u told me i went out feelling 10 ft high an my confidence had soared so ladies dont be embarrassed in buying a wig try it you,l love it God bless us ladies who are aging lol xox
Thank you Denise for sharing your journey with us!!!
This was great! You are so enthusiastic, so sweet, and emotional. I am not a big stylist type, so this will be good. I really look forward to watching all your videos. Thank you.
Thank you so much, Denise!!
Fanciful makes fantastic foam color. Since Vivid the copper is hard to find but man it works great!!!
Finding you is a GOD send I can tell you that, blessings back to you!
Great advice Denise I'm loving all the helpful comments too I'll be checking back to read further comments 💖
I just can’t seem to find one I like it’s either the color or the wig . Enjoyed your tutorial . Thanks
Thank you. As someone mentioned already, a natural hairline would help immensely. Why can't they do this?? I hate plucking the fibers out in a lace front.
Ellen Wille has started doing a more natural looking hairline on her lace fronts. She is doing some very beautiful work on hair colors, as well.
I wish i had seen this video when i first start wesring toppers and wigs. Thinning hair made my yry at the start of COVID but everyone looks way too much hair . I have persevered and although still feel i have too much hair sometimes its easier. Keep up your great work.❤
Thank you. I haven't bought a full wig yet, but I have a feeling I will experience the wiggy feel. I just bought my first topper/same colour (or I thought) as my bio hair. I had to return it and order white. I hope that works. Helpful info on rooting to add at dimension if necessary. Just found your channel about a week ago.
Very helpful. You are inspirational. I started last Aug 2021. I have a few with permatease (which I love because it gives body).. I am trying to figure out how to fake a part or something. I dont mind some of the fibers looking “teased” or “nested” I am just wondering if I can make it more realistic.
Great advice, especially not going so drastic the first time!