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Metal Rockstarizer Some men just want to live in their prime better than others and some men wants to destroy their haters by showing off of their wealth by genuine means of fortune and fame I would and that don’t make me feel bad.... I don’t mean to spread the negative vibes but it’s true....
Guess ill be that guy: 1. Men get a life 2. Men drop "swag" for real qualities 3. Men have clear intentions and communicate them 4. Men don't have time for games 5. Men don't seek validation, they look for partners 6. Personal Grooming and cleanliness 7. Men are looking for equals and know their value 8. Men know they are responsible for their own hapiness 9. Men make the most of all 7 days lf the week 10. Men are prepared and take initiative 11. Delayed gratification is worth the wait to men 12. Men know how to look after themselves 13. Men are secure in their masculinity 14. Men want to please a woman 15. Men want to be of substance in the world. *Bonus* Men take responsibility for their actions, boys make excuses.
being a young punk is cool guys take ur time. u all wanna be a “men” so fast and in 5 years ur gonna realize that it really is boring and u wasted ur youth by wanting to be a man 🥴 now its the time when u can still goof around enjoy it while u can
Few years ago, I never hesitated to buy an expensive phone, that too by some money coming from my parents. Now I have money (it's never enough) but I find it hard to buy an expensive shit which I know I don't need at all. Now I invest in books, tourism.
This reminds us of a quote by Alvin Toffler; The illiterate of the 21st century will not be those who cannot read and write, but those who cannot learn, unlearn, and relearn.
1. You dont need a wife to be a man. That is the misconception. I do agree that you must live alone from your parents and stand on your own two feet, but a woman is not needed. That is a lie. 2. Almost agreed 100%. It best to live alone, to grow happiness within. Find out who you are and what you want. Women does not make you happy. Women do not complete you. These so called swag are done to try and impress females. The people who have swag are not happy. Sex is a momentary feeling of happiness that dissipate few seconds after. Delayed gratification will have a longer lasting effect. 3. Humor is a sign of coping mechanism used in a stressful situation. If you are having a hard time communicating with people, find peace with yourself or used humor (not too much) to help break the ice. Realize that you are not the only one with faults. "It best to be thought of a fool than to open your mouth and removed all doubt" - Abraham Lincoln 4. Get a hobby and find a career. You will see how finite life is. Leave females alone and walk your path in life. 5. Men don't always look for someone to spend their lives with. This is is seeking validation. Stop seeking validation from women and learn to look good as men. This is speaking about relationship and that in today's day and age is not worth it. 6. Grooming is important. Agree 100% with this. 7. About relationship and I have already stated this in number 5. 8. Agree 9. Agree 10. Relationship is more one person give and the other just take. Men are givers and women are takers. The stress of worrying about if the person is cheating or the constant trying to update and make the gift or the date better so the lady don't lose interest will just make you depress as well as your wallet. Valentine day and any other days are scam, "he who buy things he don't need is stealing from himself" - Swedish Proverb. Save your money by not indulging in such scam and invest. "When you invest, you are buying a day you dont have to work" - Aya Laraya 11. Build your empire. Agree 12. Agree 13. Not sure what a man job is. Like I said in the previous statement. Living alone will make you realize that keeping your domain clean and smelling good gives you a sense of satisfaction, being complete. Live alone and fend for yourself, this allows you to appreciate the peace and quiet and not having to worry about things changing and your ways ignored with your stuff being push to the garage and having to throw them out to please someone else. 14. Struck gold. Lol this is a lie just to keep you running after a female. Notice the one side part of the statement, men please women and men happiness are ignored. As stated before in a relationship men just give, give and give, why the appreciation is taken for granted and ignored. Then she will get bored and cheat or leave because the excitement isn't there. Like the vow said at the alter or the reception by everyone; happy wife is happy life. Nothing about men happiness. This is why men suicide rate are extremely high. Find internal happiness.
If you don’t have your own family to look after you better become someone big in your life so you can contribute to the society otherwise there’s no use for you at all and deep down you know that!
00:54 - Men get a life (his life. priorities, jobs and hobbies are different) 01:56 - Men drop “swag” for real qualities (his life again) 02:54 - Men have clear intentions, and the courage to communicate them (I agree, depends on situation tho) 03:44 - Men don’t have time for games (more like no patience for games... women games) 04:14 - Men don’t seek validation(agree); they’re looking for partnership (??) 05:49 - Men are happy to be equals (yes, and always regret it tho, sadly) 06:13 - “The stronger a man is, the gentler he can afford to be” (true in theory, not so much in practice) 08:43 - Men know how to look after themselves. (not true, depends ) 09:03 - Men aren’t stuck on the idea of “men-jobs” to feel masculine (depends on women now, they do men job to feel masculine lol) irrelevant 07:03 - Men make the most of all 7 days of the week (up to him, his life again, his priorities) 07:37 - Men are prepared and take initiative (depends on personality) 08:11 - Delayed gratification is worth the wait to men (depends on the person) 10:19 - Men want to be of substance in the world (lmfao) BAD ONE. very bad one: 09:46 - Men want to please a woman; boys want women to please them (simpy stuff, ref flag, totally avoid)
All of these things are so true. I used to be a little boy myself until I was 24 and said to myself what the hell am I doing with my life? Drinking alcohol partying on the weekends wanting to get people to notice me always being a 5th wheel and disrespected. I finally put my foot down and I stopped drinking stopped chasing girls and stopped wasting my time. I delayed gratification I didn’t have time to play childish games or waste time. Every day 7 days a week. I had a schedule of my own. Get up at 8 AM and face my weaknesses by going out into public and talking to people while getting a beverage come home jam on the guitar for a little bit once it’s 10:30 AM I stopped what I was doing and headed to the gym and worked out for about 45 minutes or so grabbed lunch and then went to my job at 1 to 9 PM came home jammed for a bit wake up repeat. In the long run it really paid off I’m ahead of almost 90% of the guys in my area and there were so many women that wanted to be with me that I could afford to be picky. A real man knows that actions speak louder than words.
@@Dakarai_Knight no it's not, you partner with someone who contributes as much as you do, not with some whiny human being who eats your food and takes everything you give them for granted.
@@Tee9156 yea I think that's the point of the video.... If you expect a hand maiden then ur just a boy. My partner and I are equally responsible for things but I get that not everyone can divide it so evenly but every couple should try to be a partnership.
not gonna lie, Nikola Tesla,Leonardo Da vinci, Socrates, Plato, Aristotle, James Sidis, Nietzsche, and Einstein all agreed that child like thinking was the path to greatness.
Childlike thinking is different from childish thinking. Childlike thinking entails being open to new ideas, a willingness to explore and try new things and letting go of what’s not working and moving on to something that’s productive.
Jesus Christ did too. Unless you become like a child you can not enter into the kingdom of heaven. This does not mean literally but in attitide a willingness to learn.
1.Men get a life, not getting bailed out by patents always 2.men dumb swag for real quality. Keeping themselves informed on things that matter, finance, politics etc 3. Men know what they want and know how to communicate. 4. Men have no time to play games 5. They are not seeking for validation.
@@1mikhaelone I don't know her personally but I do know that I have been a man for 20 years now and I've never met a woman who knows how to be a man better than me. I would never try to tell a woman how to be a woman, and unless it is a so-called woman that was born a man I would not expect her to know. A European cannot tell a Chinese man how to be Chinese, a Nigerian cannot tell a German how to be German, it's the same principle here. She doesn't know what it's like being a man or how to be a man.
@@masterone2752 This has to shown me that I'm a man and you're obviously not one. If you were a man you would know that a woman does not know what it's like to be a man, nor can she teach a male how to be a man because she doesn't know how to be one herself. Let's let the women teach the women how to be women and the men teach the men how to be men. I've been a man for 20 years now and I've never met a woman who knows more about being a man than me.
This was a much needed video as I need to start doing some of these things. Not cuz I don’t feel manly enough, but that if I start implementing some of these actions, my life will move forward better than me living in the past and being hostile towards others. Thank you for all that you do.
There are plenty of good men out there, it's just that they can't afford a women ever growing need for useless crap so they opted out to live life like god wanted us to and that for for yourself
A man provides for his family. And he does it even when he's not respected or appreciated, or even loved. He simply bears up and he does it. Because he's a man. ~Gustavo Fring
I learnt it the hard way but I grew from a boy to men eventually, the only bad thing in my left is I am very competitive but I have learnt to accept a loss , but I still disagree in defeat , it's not over until I say it is
Don't all wifes start off as girlfriends?! If a woman starts off as a wife (skipping the girlfriend part) she might end up with half your stuff in a few months.. Great relationships take time.
@@acmelbourne I mean if you are going to pursue anyone try to go for the successful party. Whether it's a business partner, friends , or a relationship. There is always something to learn from their intelligence, their experiences, successes, and failures
@@Dakarai_Knight Correct correct, that's where MGTOW comes in. Wimon don't want to build together anymore. If I have money beforehand, why would I do business with only one wimon all the time !! when I can have 645663e697845 numbers of them !!
Championship Boxing • I’ve always said this. Let a man try to define womanhood or a woman’s role though and he gets attacked, maybe seen as “controlling”, maybe called sexist, etc.
Ehtisham Amin Wtf? Did 5 people who liked her comment including her just miss the point of his comment and ask “What right does a man have telling women what they should and should not do?” Whilst not addressing the hypocrisy?
@@twizzum5 Men who cook are successful. Look at Marco Pierre White or Gordon Ramsay. But if you start off with the basics on a daily basis you'll want to go further.
It is not your age,it is the mindset.I have seen 12 year old men and I have seen 72 year old boys.If you act in a manner that causes you and people around you to improve and grow and move towards the goal that keeps you going to become the best of yourself,you are a man.
One big one in my eyes is that men give their word, then do everything in their power to keep it true, boys give it and make excuses when it doesn't pan out
Actually, that's not always the case. Plenty of men make excuses for their actions too just like boys. Why do you think a lot of men cheat and beat women? Boys can also take responsibility as well. Don't bullshit yourself
I’m seeing a lot of boys complaining about women instead of listening to this video and hearing the knowledge. You will stay boys, I promise you. The men in these comments understand that they already are the points said in the video, there’s no pathetic hateful comments, they just agree and move on to making money 🙌🏽🙌🏽
I love this. I actually have my book coming out tomorrow titled "Trials and Triumph", that covers my life from a into a Man. I would love for you guys to review it.
1.Get a life. 2. Men drop the "swag" for real qualities. 3.Men have clear intentions. 4. Men don't have time for games. 5. Men don't seek validation. 6. There's a lot more hair and know what to do with it. 7. Men are happy to be equals. 8. The stronger the men is the more gentle they are. 9. Men make the most of their week. 10. Men are prepared and take initiative. 11. Delayed gratification is worth the wait for men. 12. Men know how to look after themselves. 13. Men aren't stuck on manly jobs. 14. Men want to please a woman, boys want women to please them. 15. Men want to be on substance of the world.
Doctor : You have 5 minutes to live Me : I wanna watch a video of Alux Doctor : But those videos are longer than 10 minutes...... God : IT'S OK DOCTOR...permission granted !!!
Definitely should do a girls vs women next.. too maybe young woman want to hold on to that high school gossip girl mentality through their 20’s n 30’s, while wanting equality but not accountability.
Adults generally should probably aim for these qualities. I don't see any here that are men specific. I feel like women should plan as well, try to have a positive impact etc.
MOTIVATION!! MOTIVATION !! ALUX.COM you inspire me a lot everyday that i started a new channel to change lives. Thanks Bro!! Certainly, Motivation keeps people going even amidst difficulties.
Gaining independence from your family and fending for yourself is pivotal in becoming a billionaire. You’ll be forced to take risks and dedicate your life to making your business work for a better life!
How many times have you heard of self-made Billionaires that have had comfortable backgrounds. Most of them have struggled which gives them the hunger to succeed!
I'm a woman and even I feel like I'm listening to a woman's perspective of what defines manhood vs boyhood, not a man's perspective. There's an authenticity missing from the tone of the video.
If she doesn’t measure up, I find someone who does. No negative emotion, etc being a ‘hater’-I LOVE women!! but after 30-35 y/o most COMPLETELY hit the wall & can no longer be a choosy selector, now they’re the ones being selected. Circle of life!
I am a 30 year old autistic male adult and I got to say I'm quite the man I'm married and loyal to the same woman for the past 3 years I dress nicely I can wash dry and iron my own clothes I have my own apartment I do my own laundry cook my own meals I'll even cook for my wife to and I spoil her on occasion plus I can sew in it in fact I have a sewing kit in my man bag just in case
Because of covid 19 I live with my parents, have no job, car needs maintainance, single and my clothes are Goodwill loss focus on goals. It takes courage to admit my life took a toll to the ground but more courage get my life back in order. Before the covid I was pretty much the same.
@@giftkunene3055 HA! Its actually the opposite. Plus, She says "Men aren't afraid to be equals and don't need Man's job to feel masculin". Bruh, Women are always the ones who use the word "Man's job" when it comes to *paying the bills* and *fixing stuff around the house*
@@ehtishamamin5601 Ehtis, the phenomenon that you are describing is called sollipsism, a characteristic possessed by all feminist indoctrinated females
It's quite interesting to hear about others' perspective (both in videos and comments). It helps us see things from different viewpoints and learn from others. I think it's unfortunate that jobs are classified as being "a man's job" or a "female job". I see people doing this consciously or unconsciously all the time and I believe it is narrow minded. Instead we should do what's best suited for our talents, interests, and personality.
@@benjamind3448 "feminist indoctrinated females" Thats more than half the female population. Meaning it will never go away which is why its better to stay the hell away.
Huge fan of the channel but this video doesn't pass the smell test. Smells like it's written, narrated, and crafted by a woman with a lackluster attempt at "training" and brainwashing men. No thanks. Kinda expected this channel to maintain a non basis view of the world.
This first point of men find their own place , depends on which culture that men is from , in my culture men must stay in their homes till atleast they get married, to some cultures they stay for ever in their homes if they are first born, only second and third born must move out .
@@everetteborr You must be very red pilled like myself to have realised this. I have heard that a lot of young men who are around 30 are being asked to `man up´ and get married to single mom. A lot of these women became single moms from running around with the so-called ´boys´ yet these women are not being called out on their bad decisions.
Benjamin D my biggest concern with the video was that it did not address divorce risk when 50% of marriages end in divorce. How can a video on being a man not address this risk? Real men understand the “state” marriage “contract” and seek competent legal counsel to mitigate divorce risk and/or avoid marriage and cohabitation altogether. On the other hand, boys don’t want to understand the “state” marriage “contract” and treat marriage like a Hallmark romantic comedy. There are rational reasons that marriage rates are at a historic low rate. In the red pill community, we encourage “men” to think with their big head while “boys” think with their little head. This video has some good points, but it clearly misses much bigger issues regarding becoming a man.
@@everetteborr Well, I think that we all know that the goal of a lot of women in getting married to a man is to simply divorce him and get a share of his assets. It is part of the financial plan of many women.
Benjamin D yes. I dislike the game, but not the players. I just encourage men to know the new rules of the game and to appropriately adapt to the new environment. Never be mad at a tornado, always respect a tornado and be safe around it.
I am a boy but i want to be a man.I see that mans are more happy than boys.My country has a old mentality.I hope that one day i will go in a better country with a new mentality and to change my mind for so many things!!
I have a problem with a few items in your list. I don't think men should be chasing women and try to seek their approval. He should find a mate that will compliment his life, and will better his life. Men don't be with a woman that only takes but hardly give in return.
@@CS-sv8fg I mean you assumed completely how this person would react. I wouldn't mind if my partner shared this with me personally. But it depends person to person.
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Now do 15 Differences Between WOMEN And Girls and then ask the Gentlemen if they prefer girls or women
I'm a man
50%
Of all marriages end in divorce and
75% of those divorces are implemented by a women.
Now do a video about women and girls
Meso Anto braahhhh!! Thank God, another red pill MAN in this sea of soy!!
I showed this to my son, he's my dad now
Underrated ahaha
Lool
Hahaaa. Manning up 😁
Wut
😂
What separates a man from a boy is not age, but maturity.
Mind..... blown.....
so true, i know some men in their early 50's that still plays PS4 and don't care of progressing.
true
MisterHot 😂😂 the sarcasm
@@healthypromax8502 sounds like they have it figured out.
“Men takes responsibility of their actions, boys make excuses “- Alux 2020
but men sometimes act like whiny boys
Metal Rockstarizer Some men just want to live in their prime better than others and some men wants to destroy their haters by showing off of their wealth by genuine means of fortune and fame I would and that don’t make me feel bad....
I don’t mean to spread the negative vibes but it’s true....
100% agree on that front
I feel like I heard young jeezy say that quote.
it is 100% true
Next: women vs girls.
Yees please
You killed it bro
Watch the lies when or if that video comes
Yes please!!!
Fireworks
Guess ill be that guy:
1. Men get a life
2. Men drop "swag" for real qualities
3. Men have clear intentions and communicate them
4. Men don't have time for games
5. Men don't seek validation, they look for partners
6. Personal Grooming and cleanliness
7. Men are looking for equals and know their value
8. Men know they are responsible for their own hapiness
9. Men make the most of all 7 days lf the week
10. Men are prepared and take initiative
11. Delayed gratification is worth the wait to men
12. Men know how to look after themselves
13. Men are secure in their masculinity
14. Men want to please a woman
15. Men want to be of substance in the world.
*Bonus* Men take responsibility for their actions, boys make excuses.
Thank you.
thanks bud
Check the videos description
All of this except number 14
Thank you
I'm a boy but after this, am definitely going to be a man.
Me too. But first thing to be a man is leaving my house and parents that treat me like a child.
You know admitting that shows you are a Man!
being a young punk is cool guys take ur time. u all wanna be a “men” so fast and in 5 years ur gonna realize that it really is boring and u wasted ur youth by wanting to be a man 🥴 now its the time when u can still goof around enjoy it while u can
@@znshajbs who says men don't enjoy their life? Enjoying life doesn't mean wasting it over youth.
Just wait until ur 16 lmao
"Maturity is not measured by age. It's an attitude build by experience." Thats why age does not matter in 99% of the time
As a man, you know when your time is being wasted. Men know when to walk away when something isn't working. Whether it's personal or professional.
Very Good Point
"Manhood is the defeat of childhood narcissim".
I love it how they showed Tom ford's picture as a man and Bieber's picture as Boy.
Yeah but Bieber now is a man
all anybody really needs to do is watch one Tom Ford interview.
I just turned 22 I feel most grateful that the men in my life taught me all most all of these
#17, or should I say, #5a: Men stand up for themselves and live life on their own terms, whereas boys seek validation from women/mates, society, etc.
Few years ago, I never hesitated to buy an expensive phone, that too by some money coming from my parents.
Now I have money (it's never enough) but I find it hard to buy an expensive shit which I know I don't need at all. Now I invest in books, tourism.
The process of becoming a man Is the process unlearning the habits of a whiny little dependent baby.
This reminds us of a quote by Alvin Toffler; The illiterate of the 21st century will not be those who cannot read and write, but those who cannot learn, unlearn, and relearn.
@@prav077 Why?😕
@@prav077 it seems like you are too.
@@Snowboarding2020 he is chasing him😆
not true at all. we don't ever unlearn anything. we learn how to incorporate, discipline, refine and enhance being human...
1. You dont need a wife to be a man. That is the misconception. I do agree that you must live alone from your parents and stand on your own two feet, but a woman is not needed. That is a lie.
2. Almost agreed 100%. It best to live alone, to grow happiness within. Find out who you are and what you want. Women does not make you happy. Women do not complete you. These so called swag are done to try and impress females. The people who have swag are not happy. Sex is a momentary feeling of happiness that dissipate few seconds after. Delayed gratification will have a longer lasting effect.
3. Humor is a sign of coping mechanism used in a stressful situation. If you are having a hard time communicating with people, find peace with yourself or used humor (not too much) to help break the ice. Realize that you are not the only one with faults.
"It best to be thought of a fool than to open your mouth and removed all doubt" - Abraham Lincoln
4. Get a hobby and find a career. You will see how finite life is. Leave females alone and walk your path in life.
5. Men don't always look for someone to spend their lives with. This is is seeking validation. Stop seeking validation from women and learn to look good as men. This is speaking about relationship and that in today's day and age is not worth it.
6. Grooming is important. Agree 100% with this.
7. About relationship and I have already stated this in number 5.
8. Agree
9. Agree
10. Relationship is more one person give and the other just take. Men are givers and women are takers. The stress of worrying about if the person is cheating or the constant trying to update and make the gift or the date better so the lady don't lose interest will just make you depress as well as your wallet. Valentine day and any other days are scam, "he who buy things he don't need is stealing from himself" - Swedish Proverb. Save your money by not indulging in such scam and invest.
"When you invest, you are buying a day you dont have to work" - Aya Laraya
11. Build your empire. Agree
12. Agree
13. Not sure what a man job is. Like I said in the previous statement. Living alone will make you realize that keeping your domain clean and smelling good gives you a sense of satisfaction, being complete. Live alone and fend for yourself, this allows you to appreciate the peace and quiet and not having to worry about things changing and your ways ignored with your stuff being push to the garage and having to throw them out to please someone else.
14. Struck gold. Lol this is a lie just to keep you running after a female. Notice the one side part of the statement, men please women and men happiness are ignored. As stated before in a relationship men just give, give and give, why the appreciation is taken for granted and ignored. Then she will get bored and cheat or leave because the excitement isn't there. Like the vow said at the alter or the reception by everyone; happy wife is happy life. Nothing about men happiness. This is why men suicide rate are extremely high. Find internal happiness.
I agree with 14 if we are going to be equal in terms of gender roles than we should be equal in happiness that’s a good point
A lot more people need MGTOW in there life to understand all this
Well said❤️💯💯
Disagree with you totally. I don't need a woman. I need a daddy bear
If you don’t have your own family to look after you better become someone big in your life so you can contribute to the society otherwise there’s no use for you at all and deep down you know that!
Men take responsibility. They understand that their actions precipitate everything that happens to them.
So they are accountable for their actions
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
So are boys. Also not all men are like that.
00:54 - Men get a life
(his life. priorities, jobs and hobbies are different)
01:56 - Men drop “swag” for real qualities
(his life again)
02:54 - Men have clear intentions, and the courage to communicate them
(I agree, depends on situation tho)
03:44 - Men don’t have time for games
(more like no patience for games... women games)
04:14 - Men don’t seek validation(agree); they’re looking for partnership
(??)
05:49 - Men are happy to be equals
(yes, and always regret it tho, sadly)
06:13 - “The stronger a man is, the gentler he can afford to be” (true in theory, not so much in practice)
08:43 - Men know how to look after themselves.
(not true, depends )
09:03 - Men aren’t stuck on the idea of “men-jobs” to feel masculine (depends on women now, they do men job to feel masculine lol)
irrelevant
07:03 - Men make the most of all 7 days of the week
(up to him, his life again, his priorities)
07:37 - Men are prepared and take initiative
(depends on personality)
08:11 - Delayed gratification is worth the wait to men
(depends on the person)
10:19 - Men want to be of substance in the world (lmfao)
BAD ONE. very bad one:
09:46 - Men want to please a woman; boys want women to please them
(simpy stuff, ref flag, totally avoid)
A sign I keep on my door: "Be the man that can seek solutions rather dwell on the problem."
All of these things are so true. I used to be a little boy myself until I was 24 and said to myself what the hell am I doing with my life? Drinking alcohol partying on the weekends wanting to get people to notice me always being a 5th wheel and disrespected. I finally put my foot down and I stopped drinking stopped chasing girls and stopped wasting my time. I delayed gratification I didn’t have time to play childish games or waste time. Every day 7 days a week. I had a schedule of my own. Get up at 8 AM and face my weaknesses by going out into public and talking to people while getting a beverage come home jam on the guitar for a little bit once it’s 10:30 AM I stopped what I was doing and headed to the gym and worked out for about 45 minutes or so grabbed lunch and then went to my job at 1 to 9 PM came home jammed for a bit wake up repeat. In the long run it really paid off I’m ahead of almost 90% of the guys in my area and there were so many women that wanted to be with me that I could afford to be picky. A real man knows that actions speak louder than words.
Next up; difference between girl and woman....
Real woman pays for all real men needs.
Run Over that’s feminism to ya, a dread to men but a burden to women
Run Over don’t forget wants
Maybe..
Agree
“Men are looking for partnership”, “Men are happy to be equals?” This video is something else.
Is this not true
@@Dakarai_Knight no it's not, you partner with someone who contributes as much as you do, not with some whiny human being who eats your food and takes everything you give them for granted.
@@Tee9156 yea I think that's the point of the video.... If you expect a hand maiden then ur just a boy. My partner and I are equally responsible for things but I get that not everyone can divide it so evenly but every couple should try to be a partnership.
This video on the difference between men and boys seems to be more about women than anything....lol
Lol .... True ... After all it's written 😂 by opposite gender .
Exactly what I thought. Very compromising points. Like "men aren't looking for someone to split bills with" and men "aren't afraid to be equal"
I am a 12 year old who watched Alux to be wealthy and successful when I grow up😊. Thanks.
kamo dlamini good luck !
You don't have to wait till you grow up start now
hope you can grow up with real goals that don't include being wealthy.
not gonna lie, Nikola Tesla,Leonardo Da vinci, Socrates, Plato, Aristotle, James Sidis, Nietzsche, and Einstein all agreed that child like thinking was the path to greatness.
''We all stay children, only our toys grow bigger'' - Ayrton Senna
Childlike thinking is different from childish thinking. Childlike thinking entails being open to new ideas, a willingness to explore and try new things and letting go of what’s not working and moving on to something that’s productive.
Jesus Christ did too. Unless you become like a child you can not enter into the kingdom of heaven. This does not mean literally but in attitide a willingness to learn.
Men : keep his promise
Boy : never promise. They just fun
Lol not true.
Men understand that being a bachelor is just as manly as being married.
"men" are nowadays rare
Yes we must dig deep
1.Men get a life, not getting bailed out by patents always
2.men dumb swag for real quality. Keeping themselves informed on things that matter, finance, politics etc
3. Men know what they want and know how to communicate.
4. Men have no time to play games
5. They are not seeking for validation.
I like how they have a woman telling people the difference between men and boys on this video.
Exactly. She don't know
@@peewee3030 What makes you say that? Do you know her personally? Besides, she doesn't have to know. She is the voice, not necessarily the source.
This got to show you are still a boy. Men realised the truth and accept it and take responsibility for their own actions.
@@1mikhaelone I don't know her personally but I do know that I have been a man for 20 years now and I've never met a woman who knows how to be a man better than me. I would never try to tell a woman how to be a woman, and unless it is a so-called woman that was born a man I would not expect her to know. A European cannot tell a Chinese man how to be Chinese, a Nigerian cannot tell a German how to be German, it's the same principle here. She doesn't know what it's like being a man or how to be a man.
@@masterone2752 This has to shown me that I'm a man and you're obviously not one. If you were a man you would know that a woman does not know what it's like to be a man, nor can she teach a male how to be a man because she doesn't know how to be one herself. Let's let the women teach the women how to be women and the men teach the men how to be men. I've been a man for 20 years now and I've never met a woman who knows more about being a man than me.
This was a much needed video as I need to start doing some of these things. Not cuz I don’t feel manly enough, but that if I start implementing some of these actions, my life will move forward better than me living in the past and being hostile towards others. Thank you for all that you do.
The world is starving of good men!
The world isn't starving for good men, the world just focuses on the horrible ones.
@@negusman375 Well said Negus.
The rise of feminism has allowed the rise of the thirsty simp
There are plenty of good men out there, it's just that they can't afford a women ever growing need for useless crap so they opted out to live life like god wanted us to and that for for yourself
A man provides for his family. And he does it even when he's not respected or appreciated, or even loved. He simply bears up and he does it. Because he's a man.
~Gustavo Fring
To add to that, I would say: "Men ain't got time for playing games, while boys do."
Are you also from Nigeria
eseimuede destiny 😂😂😂 hahah
haha...
I learnt it the hard way but I grew from a boy to men eventually, the only bad thing in my left is I am very competitive but I have learnt to accept a loss , but I still disagree in defeat , it's not over until I say it is
Boy looks for a girlfriend, man looks for a wife. 👍🏼
Both are liabilities
If that's the case then alot of men are getting it wrong. The divource cases are sky high and 70% of divources are filed by women.
@@lifeisabadjoke5750 LMFAO
Don't all wifes start off as girlfriends?! If a woman starts off as a wife (skipping the girlfriend part) she might end up with half your stuff in a few months.. Great relationships take time.
Alux deleted my comment smh I thought we had freedom of speech, thought this was America
I don’t care what you say, I love it when a women pleases me
Hello there...your Sunday video was freaking Amazing....that was one of the best videos from Alux 🇮🇳..Thanks for that Amazing video
Well we're very happy you liked it so much Anuj! It was a little special one for the 3M milestone, on top of the QnA we'll be doing soon :)
Regarding the #14 point, in my opinion, man's life shouldn't be geared around pleasing women. His first focus should be his mission(goals).
A mans life should be geared to around bettering himself and his life, women are attracted to success like moths to a light.
@@acmelbourne very well said. I agree.
@@acmelbourne I mean if you are going to pursue anyone try to go for the successful party. Whether it's a business partner, friends , or a relationship. There is always something to learn from their intelligence, their experiences, successes, and failures
@@Dakarai_Knight Correct correct, that's where MGTOW comes in. Wimon don't want to build together anymore. If I have money beforehand, why would I do business with only one wimon all the time !! when I can have 645663e697845 numbers of them !!
Real men don’t let women define masculinity and manhood or attach their worth to a woman’s opinion.
Championship Boxing • I’ve always said this. Let a man try to define womanhood or a woman’s role though and he gets attacked, maybe seen as “controlling”, maybe called sexist, etc.
@123fort andbree What right does a woman have telling men what they should and should not do?
Ehtisham Amin
Wtf? Did 5 people who liked her comment including her just miss the point of his comment and ask “What right does a man have telling women what they should and should not do?” Whilst not addressing the hypocrisy?
@@BOOTY_BALLS I know what she wrote......GENIUS!
Nothing like a woman teaching us how to be men...
Also real men cook for themselves even if it's something basic like mushrooms on toast
Who tf just cooks mushrooms? Lol
@@twizzum5 Men who cook are successful. Look at Marco Pierre White or Gordon Ramsay. But if you start off with the basics on a daily basis you'll want to go further.
@@shanjanusman9974 so successful men eat mushrooms as an entire meal...ok gotcha 🙄
@Poppy Harlow metaphor for what?
Mushrooms are delicious!
It is not your age,it is the mindset.I have seen 12 year old men and I have seen 72 year old boys.If you act in a manner that causes you and people around you to improve and grow and move towards the goal that keeps you going to become the best of yourself,you are a man.
Everything you're saying is the honest truth 👊🏾💯
You're either a man or seriously on your way to becoming one. Keep it up!
Not really actually
One big one in my eyes is that men give their word, then do everything in their power to keep it true, boys give it and make excuses when it doesn't pan out
Agreed!! I measure a man by his Word. And if he’s wearing a watch he cares what time it is and usually keeps his word because he does.
Actually, that's not always the case. Plenty of men make excuses for their actions too just like boys. Why do you think a lot of men cheat and beat women? Boys can also take responsibility as well. Don't bullshit yourself
@@livefromtheground7274 Lol that's flawed logic
A man can forgive.
Yes, and can ask for forgiveness and try to make it right.
You put a gay guy as a symbol for "Man" and a guy that is a literal eye candy for the girls as "boy"
This woman sounds like she is having a personal gripe lol
Next video should be 10 things that separate girls from women
Sounds like you are lmao
Lool, not really!
@@mesoanto1031 right there
🎯🎯🎯
I’m seeing a lot of boys complaining about women instead of listening to this video and hearing the knowledge. You will stay boys, I promise you. The men in these comments understand that they already are the points said in the video, there’s no pathetic hateful comments, they just agree and move on to making money 🙌🏽🙌🏽
making money, but not to give that to you for free lol
totally loved the final part. Men truly take responsibility for their actions, boys make excuses ! very well said
Real men don't need to be told by media how or what it is to be a man, he knows the cross he has to bear in life and defines his own worth as a man.
Real men don't need this video. I stopped watching 2 minutes in.
I love this. I actually have my book coming out tomorrow titled "Trials and Triumph", that covers my life from a into a Man. I would love for you guys to review it.
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Ladies, make sure you choose a man not a boy.
This video was extremely informative and eye-opening for me. Thank you very much Alux :)
Don't take this too seriously 'boys'. You are your own man. You don't have to prove it to anybody else.
Sounds like your feelings hurt lol
1.Get a life.
2. Men drop the "swag" for real qualities.
3.Men have clear intentions.
4. Men don't have time for games.
5. Men don't seek validation.
6. There's a lot more hair and know what to do with it.
7. Men are happy to be equals.
8. The stronger the men is the more gentle they are.
9. Men make the most of their week.
10. Men are prepared and take initiative.
11. Delayed gratification is worth the wait for men.
12. Men know how to look after themselves.
13. Men aren't stuck on manly jobs.
14. Men want to please a woman, boys want women to please them.
15. Men want to be on substance of the world.
Not that this video doesn't bring up a lot of legitimate points, but does this video seem a little anti-male to anyone else?
I learned to laugh at myself when I was very young from that episode of spongebob making squirrel jokes
Doctor : You have 5 minutes to live
Me : I wanna watch a video of Alux
Doctor : But those videos are longer than 10 minutes......
God : IT'S OK DOCTOR...permission granted !!!
HOW ALUX VIDEO WILL HELP YOU AFTER DEATH???
@@shashankkumar1736 amen
@@shashankkumar1736 they'll come up with a video for that as well like..... "15 expensive things you can do in the afterlife" 😂
Haha 💙
even God know value of wisdom
Definitely should do a girls vs women next.. too maybe young woman want to hold on to that high school gossip girl mentality through their 20’s n 30’s, while wanting equality but not accountability.
I'm feeling happy abt myself.and I'm going to be a great Man,Husband,Dad
*If you don't have time, Here's a short summary*
A Male becomes Man by wearing a Suit and a Boy by wearing Casual.
16.Boys watch alux videos, men don't.
😂
If you're a man you've been through a phase of feeling a broken boy in a mans body
i love alux and what they do on daily basis, hit like if u are watching this from Cameroon
We're happy you enjoy our content 💙 We do our best for our Aluxers.
I'm a 30 year old man who still lives with his parents. If people are against that, I have no problem with them.
Great video
Real men are financially free, plan for the future, Date and marry who they want and Positively impact their community
Well said, this is what I always thought that a real man is. We are in a position where we can say f u to the world.
Adults generally should probably aim for these qualities. I don't see any here that are men specific. I feel like women should plan as well, try to have a positive impact etc.
MOTIVATION!! MOTIVATION !! ALUX.COM you inspire me a lot everyday that i started a new channel to change lives. Thanks Bro!! Certainly, Motivation keeps people going even amidst difficulties.
Thanks Alux for let us knowing what we are missing. Half the journey has been travelled half more to go😎
Gaining independence from your family and fending for yourself is pivotal in becoming a billionaire. You’ll be forced to take risks and dedicate your life to making your business work for a better life!
How many times have you heard of self-made Billionaires that have had comfortable backgrounds. Most of them have struggled which gives them the hunger to succeed!
This same goes with females as well
Thank you
@@mesoanto1031 thanks for what ?😅
@@kiran_kaur for being honest
If a woman plays childish shes happy, if a boy plays childish he s imature...
But it's not trait of females
I'm a woman and even I feel like I'm listening to a woman's perspective of what defines manhood vs boyhood, not a man's perspective. There's an authenticity missing from the tone of the video.
This was amusing...especially about how she wants a man to be a simps when it comes to being with women...Lol...this just gets funnier.
She lost me at "MEN PLEASE WOMEN AND BOYS DON'T"
If she doesn’t measure up, I find someone who does. No negative emotion, etc being a ‘hater’-I LOVE women!! but after 30-35 y/o most COMPLETELY hit the wall & can no longer be a choosy selector, now they’re the ones being selected. Circle of life!
Are we going to get "15 Differences Between Women and Girls"?
that's how men talk... 👆😂💪💪💪💪
I am a man. But have about 3 or 4 qualities of being a boy. So I got a lot of work to do. Good luck out there.✌🏼💯
I love it , exactly what I needed to hear. Confirmation!!
I agree! This was both relieving and liberating to hear
@@ameliaperdomo6449 Cause these are made for you suckers
I am a 30 year old autistic male adult and I got to say I'm quite the man I'm married and loyal to the same woman for the past 3 years I dress nicely I can wash dry and iron my own clothes I have my own apartment I do my own laundry cook my own meals I'll even cook for my wife to and I spoil her on occasion plus I can sew in it in fact I have a sewing kit in my man bag just in case
Alux, please do a top 100 books that can change my lifes.
Although im 14, i show some traits of being a man, so i think my destiny is pretty decent
I wish everyone to achieve their goals, fulfill who they are meant to be, and succeed in life! 🔥 Greetings from Los Cabos, Mexico 🇲🇽👋🏼
And the same to you, too.
Great video. My girlfriend got a kick out of it too. When is the 15 differences between WOMEN and girls video coming out?
No one:
Literally No one:
Alux: No.14
Me: Ha!! SIMP!
Because of covid 19 I live with my parents, have no job, car needs maintainance, single and my clothes are Goodwill loss focus on goals. It takes courage to admit my life took a toll to the ground but more courage get my life back in order. Before the covid I was pretty much the same.
"15 ways to become a Man"
By a woman
Bruh😐
She lost me at "MEN PLEASE WOMEN AND BOYS DON'T"
@@giftkunene3055 HA! Its actually the opposite.
Plus, She says "Men aren't afraid to be equals and don't need Man's job to feel masculin".
Bruh, Women are always the ones who use the word "Man's job" when it comes to *paying the bills* and *fixing stuff around the house*
@@ehtishamamin5601 Ehtis, the phenomenon that you are describing is called sollipsism, a characteristic possessed by all feminist indoctrinated females
It's quite interesting to hear about others' perspective (both in videos and comments). It helps us see things from different viewpoints and learn from others. I think it's unfortunate that jobs are classified as being "a man's job" or a "female job". I see people doing this consciously or unconsciously all the time and I believe it is narrow minded. Instead we should do what's best suited for our talents, interests, and personality.
@@benjamind3448 "feminist indoctrinated females"
Thats more than half the female population.
Meaning it will never go away which is why its better to stay the hell away.
I am a a man since I was 15 can believe that life is the best teacher.
Sounds like a woman’s view, I must say...
Point 1- a person can be independent but still stay with the family.
Man don't watch porn, boys do 🙈🙈✌️
fnatic dark siders what if we watch it with a women, are you a manly boy?
Then explain why you still watch it
I agree with what she is saying. As a man I think a real woman is a female who is submissive in a relationship by letting her man run it.
Huge fan of the channel but this video doesn't pass the smell test. Smells like it's written, narrated, and crafted by a woman with a lackluster attempt at "training" and brainwashing men. No thanks. Kinda expected this channel to maintain a non basis view of the world.
I thought I was the only one thinking this
Hello boy, time to man up
This first point of men find their own place , depends on which culture that men is from , in my culture men must stay in their homes till atleast they get married, to some cultures they stay for ever in their homes if they are first born, only second and third born must move out .
A lot of these points come from the Blue Pill Matrix,
Yes, very blue pill.
@@everetteborr You must be very red pilled like myself to have realised this. I have heard that a lot of young men who are around 30 are being asked to `man up´ and get married to single mom. A lot of these women became single moms from running around with the so-called ´boys´ yet these women are not being called out on their bad decisions.
Benjamin D my biggest concern with the video was that it did not address divorce risk when 50% of marriages end in divorce.
How can a video on being a man not address this risk?
Real men understand the “state” marriage “contract” and seek competent legal counsel to mitigate divorce risk and/or avoid marriage and cohabitation altogether.
On the other hand, boys don’t want to understand the “state” marriage “contract” and treat marriage like a Hallmark romantic comedy.
There are rational reasons that marriage rates are at a historic low rate.
In the red pill community, we encourage “men” to think with their big head while “boys” think with their little head.
This video has some good points, but it clearly misses much bigger issues regarding becoming a man.
@@everetteborr Well, I think that we all know that the goal of a lot of women in getting married to a man is to simply divorce him and get a share of his assets. It is part of the financial plan of many women.
Benjamin D yes.
I dislike the game, but not the players.
I just encourage men to know the new rules of the game and to appropriately adapt to the new environment.
Never be mad at a tornado, always respect a tornado and be safe around it.
I am a boy but i want to be a man.I see that mans are more happy than boys.My country has a old mentality.I hope that one day i will go in a better country with a new mentality and to change my mind for so many things!!
Why did Y'all did Bieber like that🤣🤣🤣🤣
Old Justin Bieber be like that, hence the old photo.
I have a problem with a few items in your list. I don't think men should be chasing women and try to seek their approval. He should find a mate that will compliment his life, and will better his life. Men don't be with a woman that only takes but hardly give in return.
Please stay with financial advice. Stay away from relationship/ men's roles.
Is there any Nigerian Aluxer here 🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬 dis country get as e be but we are damn proud of it because we have real men here 🤗🤗🤗🤗
I heard when you are this early, u get a like from alux☺
You even get a comment and a 💙 Hope things are well with you Bonnke! What do you think of today's video.
@@alux truly inspiring... I feel am a 30% man 🥺🙄
Im sharing this one with my boyfriend. He needs to hear this and try to improve.
This would be a good one to share with him because it does not cover the risks to him in marriage.
@@CS-sv8fg I mean you assumed completely how this person would react. I wouldn't mind if my partner shared this with me personally. But it depends person to person.
I just wanna share that Blackpink Lisa says: I don't want a boy I need a man.
Now I know what she mean❤️