When you find yourself scrolling through RUclips videos in the hopes of finding nuggets of wisdom so that you don't keep falling into the same trap... I'm a victim and I can't afford therapy. This helps.
I’m Cuban-American and I can tell you that most Cuban men, although gorgeous like Ismael, do not have this kind of insight into women and relationships. They are super protective though, which is a good start. Gracias por tu tierno y sabio consejo, hermano. Pa ‘lante.
Thanks for being so respectful to women while still holding us accountable. I can tell you genuinely love women. It doesn't hurt hearing it in your accent either lol and you speak Spanish too! lol you know women love that! 😂😍
Thank you Ismael. I needed to hear this today. I was feeling bad about the attitudes of an immature man. ... Wow. I deserve better... We all do. A lot better!!
So insightful, useful tips, thank you Ismael 🙏🏻🌺 I experienced these for 8 months, he is not a bad person but like you said immature, I loved him but felt depleted 😔
I love this video...IVE BEEN IN THIS RELATIONSHIP FOR 19 YEARS...THANK YOU LORD🙏🙏🙏 ...Ive made the right decession and no Regrets and no turning back...😡😡😡
Hi Ismael, thank you for all the videos you have well put together. You are an amazing! I appreciate the work you do guiding and educating women to succeed in a relationship.I get more confident every time I watch any of your videos. Your videos have helped me a lot! 🏆
Thanks for this advice, now I realized I'm not in this position to stay with him after I heard all what you said. God Bless You and Your Beautiful Family 🙏
OMG! Ismael tu que hombre tan guapo y tan inteligente. Gracias por hablar en español. Ismael heres muy lindo dándonos concejos. Te deseo lo mejor y muchas Bendiciones!
I really need to hear this right now especially coming from you. This is one of your best videos ever. 🔥🔥🔥💘 Thank you very much for all of your help with understanding men and relationships. Even as it hurts, I must let go.💔
hello !! i'm a 15 year old girl trying to build myself up from now and be mature about these stuff because in the future i want to find the right person , thank you so much for sharing these videos with us and also i'm taking notes to protect myself . I never dated anyone because ive been always afraid and i didn't know what guys to avoid and what guys i should trust till now , anyway . I still have a long way through life and maybe once that person appears in my life i'd be educated with all your relationship advice
I find very amusing the little sounds ( click ) at the end of each video 😂 the main purpose which is achieved almost 100% is the most important part of course!! Thank you for your very clarifying advice as usual. 👍👍🇦🇺🇦🇺
I have watched thousands of videos about romantic relationships on RUclips but yours are the best beca I feel like you actually went though all you are talking about is
Justo he roto con un evitativo o evasivo. Realmente hacen daño. Pero tienes razón, yo no puedo ayudarlo a ser mejor, a hacer frente a las situaciones y a dejar de huir del conflicto si él mismo no tiene en sí la idea de trabajar y mejorar. Es muy triste pero es verdad. Muchas gracias!
Thank you so much Ismael, you're helping me a lot with your videos since I've started dating a guy you could call "immature" in some areas for sure... I notice in him some of the behaviors that you talk about, but since I'm very fond of him already, it's very hard to consider walking away. I'm very patient and always try to see the good in people and I agree that these are signs of immaturity (we're in our 20s) and so I don't lose the hope of him improving, do you know what i mean? How can I know whether i should wait and see or if i'm wasting my time with him? I'm also very afraid of not finding someone better for me, sometimes it feels like all good men are already taken...
Thank you for sharing, and I totally get where you’re coming from. I was also a bit immature in my 20s, so I understand how it can be hard to judge someone harshly for not having everything figured out yet. The key difference to look for is whether you see slow, gradual improvement and, most importantly, if he’s treating you with respect and consideration along the way.
I constantly pretend to be these same types of men to hide from bad women. Along with my very high self esteem, it is like being a chameleon to bad feminists in the fight against the current MeToo environment. Advice like this is rediculous to devote your life to for a good reason.
Hi kind of a weird question but are men avoidant if they find you attractive? I know that sounds strange but they stare and then wave and run away. Or maybe just not interested? Asking for a friend, 😂
I heard men are scared of rejection - that’s why they may appear avoidant. But if a woman comes across as warm and approachable, a man may make a move.
@ so true, I was wondering because he keeps staring and smiling at me for weeks and I smile back but never comes over. He eventually said hi and sort nervously walks away. It kind of making me feel awkward and rejected. Truthfully
Most certainly. I've had a few clients who found their partners on dating apps, but you have to sort through a lot of time wasters. Which apps have you used?
@ I use Hinge and recently tried Bumble again…on both apps I find a lot of wishy washy men, saying they want something serious and longterm, hook you in, but when it gets serious they dash. I wish I didn’t have to, but this is why I circular date 🙄
How to find a right man? It's so hard to find right man in this generation they are good at beginning then leave you broken into pieces no matter how independent you are. 😊
one thing that is interesting is that this name esmael we have in iran 🇮🇷 and most of the religion is Muslim over here, so you're not Muslim and have this name
1. I love the quick tips in between
2. I love that your videos are so structured and straight to the point
When you find yourself scrolling through RUclips videos in the hopes of finding nuggets of wisdom so that you don't keep falling into the same trap... I'm a victim and I can't afford therapy. This helps.
That awkward moment when your last boyfriend was a combination of all of these men. SMDH. 😒😒
Same, friend. Same 🤦🏻♀️🥴
Exactly... I was just thinking the same. And I'm here suffering for this guy?!!
Are you describing me?!! LOL😅
I feel you 🥲
Oh my! Now it all makes sense 😅
This is one of your best videos, EVERRR! Gracias!!!
Thank you, Jeanette. I appreciate you for saying that.
I’m Cuban-American and I can tell you that most Cuban men, although gorgeous like Ismael, do not have this kind of insight into women and relationships. They are super protective though, which is a good start. Gracias por tu tierno y sabio consejo, hermano. Pa ‘lante.
Thanks for being so respectful to women while still holding us accountable. I can tell you genuinely love women. It doesn't hurt hearing it in your accent either lol and you speak Spanish too! lol you know women love that! 😂😍
Ismael Gomez, I love your videos. You are so wise and so beautiful!
I appreciate your kind words. It's all about fostering respect and understanding in our conversations.
Thank you Ismael. I needed to hear this today. I was feeling bad about the attitudes of an immature man. ... Wow. I deserve better... We all do. A lot better!!
Clever tactic using Spanish! I immediately forgot all the key points of the video and had to rewatch 😅 excellent insights as always! thank you
Taking notes appreciate for the advice Ismael 👍🏾•babysitting no adult or being their mother•
So insightful, useful tips, thank you Ismael 🙏🏻🌺 I experienced these for 8 months, he is not a bad person but like you said immature, I loved him but felt depleted 😔
I love this video...IVE BEEN IN THIS RELATIONSHIP FOR 19 YEARS...THANK YOU LORD🙏🙏🙏 ...Ive made the right decession and no Regrets and no turning back...😡😡😡
It is so darn true‼️ Muchas gracias for speaking my mind in this post‼️ And you do that in a really calm way.
Love the concept of looking at these behaviours as immaturity…
I have been the therapist in relationships…but not anymore…
Thank you…
Hi Ismael, thank you for all the videos you have well put together. You are an amazing! I appreciate the work you do guiding and educating women to succeed in a relationship.I get more confident every time I watch any of your videos. Your videos have helped me a lot! 🏆
I'm thankful for being single!! Everything is just so complicated now😠
It always have been but now we are aware
Taking notes appreciate for the advice Ismael 🙂
¡Siempre tienes razón Ismael!
No. 1 - The confused man ( reminds me of him instantly) 😮💨
Btw.. Very useful video! Thanks ismael
I love that your videos are brief and practical ❤
Oh gosh...just stumbled on these videos and subscribed... I need/needed to hear all of this so badly 😭 Thank you.
Mucho gracia, Ismael. Que pase buen día.
Yes, que pase buen dia indeed, Coach Ismael. :)
Thanks for this advice, now I realized I'm not in this position to stay with him after I heard all what you said. God Bless You and Your Beautiful Family 🙏
Priceless gems 💎 of healthy and mature insight. ¡Muchas Gracias mí amigo Ismael!
You’re so spot on 🎉
OMG! Ismael tu que hombre tan guapo y tan inteligente. Gracias por hablar en español. Ismael heres muy lindo dándonos concejos. Te deseo lo mejor y muchas Bendiciones!
Always excellent advice, Ismael. TY...😊
Basically all men
😂
😂😂 nailed it
I really need to hear this right now especially coming from you. This is one of your best videos ever. 🔥🔥🔥💘 Thank you very much for all of your help with understanding men and relationships. Even as it hurts, I must let go.💔
hello !! i'm a 15 year old girl trying to build myself up from now and be mature about these stuff because in the future i want to find the right person , thank you so much for sharing these videos with us and also i'm taking notes to protect myself . I never dated anyone because ive been always afraid and i didn't know what guys to avoid and what guys i should trust till now , anyway . I still have a long way through life and maybe once that person appears in my life i'd be educated with all your relationship advice
I find very amusing the little sounds ( click ) at the end of each video 😂 the main purpose which is achieved almost 100% is the most important part of course!!
Thank you for your very clarifying advice as usual.
👍👍🇦🇺🇦🇺
I have watched thousands of videos about romantic relationships on RUclips but yours are the best beca I feel like you actually went though all you are talking about is
Justo he roto con un evitativo o evasivo. Realmente hacen daño. Pero tienes razón, yo no puedo ayudarlo a ser mejor, a hacer frente a las situaciones y a dejar de huir del conflicto si él mismo no tiene en sí la idea de trabajar y mejorar. Es muy triste pero es verdad.
Muchas gracias!
I really appreciate your work thanks for helping us ❤
Thank you so much. I'm glad to hear that my work resonates with you.
Many thanks🙏🏽 really clever suggestions I have ever listened
Muchas gracias siempre Isamael
As a speaker of Mexican Spanish, my first time hearing the Cuban accent, love it!
Me encantan tus videos..y sobre todo cuando hablas en castellano! ❤
Selfish is better defining
GRACIAS ISMAEL.😃😊
❤ You've got this head-on. I live with this type of man!
Thank you. It can be challenging, but recognizing the pattern is a great first step.
You give me words that what actually think about immature man's trades women should avoid,all are true 100% agreed.so thank you😊
Thank you so much Ismael, you're helping me a lot with your videos since I've started dating a guy you could call "immature" in some areas for sure...
I notice in him some of the behaviors that you talk about, but since I'm very fond of him already, it's very hard to consider walking away. I'm very patient and always try to see the good in people and I agree that these are signs of immaturity (we're in our 20s) and so I don't lose the hope of him improving, do you know what i mean? How can I know whether i should wait and see or if i'm wasting my time with him?
I'm also very afraid of not finding someone better for me, sometimes it feels like all good men are already taken...
Thank you for sharing, and I totally get where you’re coming from. I was also a bit immature in my 20s, so I understand how it can be hard to judge someone harshly for not having everything figured out yet. The key difference to look for is whether you see slow, gradual improvement and, most importantly, if he’s treating you with respect and consideration along the way.
Thank you for this one. No one needs guys like that:).
Yes he was a combination of all of these type of men. No wonder I felt so miserable. I left him after 15 years and two kids. I feel good to have left.
Five years it took me🤪
Ismael thank you for sharing❤
Thank you for the tips
I love spanish language and enjoy this port 😮and also the whole video was perfect thank you.😊
😮thanks 😊
How cute Spanish ^^ Thanks for another great video!
Sir what's about controlling and dominant man and how to see them at first meeting and how to deal with them plz give guidance
The term* immature * correct😊
good video yet again, thank you love ❤️
It's one reason I broke up with someone I was engaged to he made jokes all the time about me I hated it.
I can’t believe my ex had all of this, fuck.
Very very true words
Great one ismali
Important video, thanks alot
How strange, confused, inconsistent, condescending, superior, avoidant - he have them all. Why did i marry such man, he have these all.
You don't need to walk away
You need to *RUN*
@@SamanthaBlueberries-x8i😂😂😂😂😂
Thank you
I love that you speak Español ❤
You are great 👍 thanksss
That list describes my dad's immature behavior and that lead the divorce.
Que buen toque la parte en español 💯 😊
Me lo pidieron y yo cumplo. Gracias.
@@SaveTheMessenger a ti 🙏
I constantly pretend to be these same types of men to hide from bad women. Along with my very high self esteem, it is like being a chameleon to bad feminists in the fight against the current MeToo environment. Advice like this is rediculous to devote your life to for a good reason.
Hi kind of a weird question but are men avoidant if they find you attractive? I know that sounds strange but they stare and then wave and run away. Or maybe just not interested? Asking for a friend, 😂
I heard men are scared of rejection - that’s why they may appear avoidant. But if a woman comes across as warm and approachable, a man may make a move.
@ so true, I was wondering because he keeps staring and smiling at me for weeks and I smile back but never comes over. He eventually said hi and sort nervously walks away. It kind of making me feel awkward and rejected. Truthfully
What about the stingy man?
Leave him
Yes, the confused man!
Mucho Garcias 👍
The aha moment when you realise that someone was a mix of those ... Still you wanted them wow 😂
nice to hear that Spanish! : )
One thing’s for sure, dating apps offer you a cornucopious buffet of these types of men 😂
Most certainly. I've had a few clients who found their partners on dating apps, but you have to sort through a lot of time wasters. Which apps have you used?
@ I use Hinge and recently tried Bumble again…on both apps I find a lot of wishy washy men, saying they want something serious and longterm, hook you in, but when it gets serious they dash. I wish I didn’t have to, but this is why I circular date 🙄
Can you add german subtitles please, thanks 🌷
Talk about narcissistic men for sure. Warn us ladies about this kind of devil
Please tell us Why men find it hard to fall in love with nice women and choose mean women instead
TAMBIEN USTED🎉
How to find a right man? It's so hard to find right man in this generation they are good at beginning then leave you broken into pieces no matter how independent you are. 😊
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#6 avoid broke/ stingy men
The man like you is a treasure🫶🏻❤
one thing that is interesting is that this name esmael we have in iran 🇮🇷 and most of the religion is Muslim over here, so you're not Muslim and have this name
Immature = Selfish
Women are very notorious. They reward players with love and attention. Nice guys will get a kick.
the end of the video was cute 🥹 thanks
Love to hear your Spanish ❤