(02:05) - Man cries about getting stood up on a date (20:47) - Black men fear reaching out and asking for help (45:19) - Women have to speak to the KING in their man at all times (01:02:10) - Bud Crawford vs Errol Spence predictions (01:03:59) - A woman being treated right is BLIND to other men (01:18:28) - How do I make my man feel more like a leader? (01:26:00) - Should I let my crush go? (01:32:26) - I’m finally ready to be faithful and she’s done with me
That first dude look like one of them virgin dudes who listen to FRESH & FIT he gives off future public shooter vibes look like a Lifetime movie stocker/villian LOL
Also, just so you’re aware, all women don’t have a list of fallback guys. Some women, including myself take breaks between dating/relationships and don’t hop from man to man. The problem is so many women and men haven’t mastered solitude.
I love this show. You guys keep me laughing between the messages. Keep doing what you do. Kenny T you so wrong for that! Talking about that man’s eye😂😂😂
Kenny said rip me out the plastic I'm acting brand new😂😂😂😂😂😂😅😅😅not the eyes Kenny... he could have made this up to start getting dates.. . Great show 👏 👍 👌 🙌🏽 ❤️
I looked at the guys profile who got stood he might have disability which is sad that woman who stood him lead him on for 2 weeks knowing she was not going to actually date him Smh He seems really nice and I hope he does find his person I know she’s out there
When you’re pouring into a woman that wants you, values the relationship and values herself, she sees other men if she isn’t blind, but she isn’t moved because she’s good where she is, with You.
54:24 you wrong Smuv 100. A man or woman who cheats on their spouse threw away a happy home for a side piece and puts their kid at every statistical disadvantage. 56:38 alright he recovered
I speak for the loyal women when i say yes we see men when are in a relationship we have eyes but we do not entertain it. I was in my past relationship almost 2 years. Any dude that hit my dms if i responded i let him know i was in a relationship and after that if he said anything else hes blocked 🅿️ i dont keep options so when i leave I start over new and thats okay with me gives me time to heal and etc before I embark on something else.
Depending on his level of crazy for you...any response is a gateway. He knows that so just replying is triggering because it translate to entertaining...so if a bad day happens...you may ask him for advice and D. Lol. Men are crazy like that. No response is the response unless it's related to business...which he should be able to openly see the dialog.
A mistake is unintentional. A poor choice is intentional. Betting on someone is a choice. Not a mistake because the intent is present. Cheating is a choice because of intent
The second clip with Busta Rhymes is so on point especially as black men where if you actually try to open and ask for help and then they use it against you or clown you for showing your humanity
The last situation with the man who broke the woman that loved him, she gone, it’s been 3 years and she got someone else, she not coming back. Dude might as well hang that up, she left and moved on for herself, she not coming back to him
I went out my way to help a man who didn’t want to help himself and he cussed me out for all my efforts in trying to get him help and not me breaking myself to help him financially.
28:00 O said something that made me see how women have adopted our stubborn nature & how we as men have our own “strong independent & don’t need anyone for nuthin’!!!”. It’s unfortunate that we are like that but that’s how many of us are smh.
I super struggle with asking for help. But I do be...well used to ask for support every once n a blue moon. Once right as the pandemic hit..and earlier this year...this Spring. Both times, Everybody dubbed me....included some of the Krew ppl. I didn't even get a fake like from ppl like they usually do. But they don't know me personally, so I can't be mad at them. But my so called "friends", I was very disappointed in. That's why I'm not talking to Anybody anymore. I used to be that guy that Always supports Everybody. Anything somebody needs, I'm there for them. Reaching out to ppl during the pandemic when nigs was going through it. I used to be sooo selfless that I used to post other ppl stuff on my feed...but let's not talk about social media, cause that's a whole other thing. But yeah, I just stay to myself nowadays...build myself up. Anybody comes along that wants to support, I got them forever. Anybody else, it's whatever. Edit: But Shout Out to Smuv, cause he was down to support me in my entertainment career though. I didn't send him any I was promoting though, cause I was rejecting by everybody...so that takes a toll on you personally. But he just genuinely seem interested in the thing I got coming up in the future....so I will send that to him soon when we're ready.
I didn’t have a list. I looked for reasons to try and make it work and stay but soon as I felt unwanted I started putting 5 in rotation. And we get annoyed lol doing that trying to move on
Gotta disagree with Smuv on the cheating and telling your kid "we aint perfect" Because then you teaching them that is the goto excuse. Years later your kid cheat and you repremand them and they say "well i aint perfect" They commit another serious mistake "i aint perfect" It becomes a goto thing.
Wearing glasses is expensive 🅿️ its unfortunate and expensive 😫 its an unfair disadvantage especially if your prescription is high 😔 one other thing he could do is get contacts I used to wear contacts before I got a career and a child 🤣 now I'm just a bit too lazy or atleast the last few years, but I'm going to get my contacts back now that I'm back into my getting ready routine and have both glasses & contacts as options to wear.
Enabling is knowing they have not done right and more than likely going to fumble without supervision which takes more of your time and energy to see your ROI. Helping someone requires a plan and talks of what this help will help yield to the person you’re helping. Help me help you.
People have feeling. I agree with O and Smuv. Take your L in silence . He also need someone to poor into him and build him up instead of making fun of him .
Tell him to focus on himself, focus on loving himself and making himself better. Hit the gym, learn a new skill, hell, start a business- and not just to get girls, but so he can have something else in life besides finding love, like life is about more than being in love. He just needa straighten up.
01:20:00: If/when they get married she can sell her house and buy a house *with* him instead of him moving into *your* house. Or if he pushes it get a pre-nup because if it's a paid off asset (now), you don't want him entitled to it or you see his true colors then he feels like fighting you over the house. Second marriage don't have a high percentage of lasting (65% of it ending in divorce), it's worse. So she needs to be aware of that risk. 01:36:00: He had the world and blew it up. He consistently was cheating and broke her. Now, she's finding her self-respect and wants her space and giving you the same energy you gave her. He didn't even stay faithful enough through the engagement and *marry* her. Ya'll should co-parent because you both cheated now and he should take this as a lesson to treat the one you say you love like💩, you don't.
He did everything right...however, maybe you should have picked her up by calling her in advance and knocking on her door...not, waiting in the car 🚗 blowing the horn or blinking the lights...maybe it would have been better.
Love the podcast and conversations. I don't think roasting a guy that may have some other stuff going is the move. I agree, I wouldn't move that way in terms of posting an L like that online however he dod and displayed some vulnerability in doing so. Y'all had some game for him. Dating is rough can't internalize the rejection and perhaps take a break. As people, we should treat people better regardless. Stay up, god bless.
Of course. I want you to speak to me like the Queen I am at all times. Especially when you may feel like using your your grown man strength on me. Self control works both ways at all times.
Everything learned is from the men in our lives🤓😒 but I cannot pour my energy into more than one person at a time. Especially knowing the levels that are to come require more energy from us both. Women want a constant and secure source to pour and receive love from
Some women will be disrespectful because they don’t respect the men their with they don’t know how to say they want to be done and it’s easier if they push you out the door and make you want to leave
I agree. I never have hit below the belt. And I try my best to respect a man I’m with even with those who yell and curse at me I still maintain my tongue because I can’t take words back and I take pride in saying I never have cursed out a man or name called him even when I had all reason too. Most of those women who get to that point of name calling ect they are tired and at the point of exploding beyond restraint most of those women probably wanna hit you so they yell instead
That nobody's perfect stuff is my least favorite excuse i swear 🤦♀️ any time you put that at the end of what you're saying it negates everything you said before that. Just say sorry and leave it at that
If you live with your brother you go to him and ask wud up tho?! If your friends are close enough to be considered brother then it should receive that type of energy at all times. Loving people in this way is difficult for people because they do not actually understand the actions of love
Also just wanna say something you did on purpose cannot be a mistake. A mistake is a decision you made with a bad or deficit result outside of your control. The investment outcome can be a mistake but cheating can't be
Son...... If i found out on my death bed, that she cheated AND my kid aint mine. Shes coming with me!!! All the cancer or whatever's killing me at that moment is negated. Shes coming with me!!!
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(02:05) - Man cries about getting stood up on a date
(20:47) - Black men fear reaching out and asking for help
(45:19) - Women have to speak to the KING in their man at all times
(01:02:10) - Bud Crawford vs Errol Spence predictions
(01:03:59) - A woman being treated right is BLIND to other men
(01:18:28) - How do I make my man feel more like a leader?
(01:26:00) - Should I let my crush go?
(01:32:26) - I’m finally ready to be faithful and she’s done with me
That first dude look like one of them virgin dudes who listen to FRESH & FIT he gives off future public shooter vibes look like a Lifetime movie stocker/villian LOL
😇😇😇😇🥰🥰🥰🥰🤗🤗🤗🤗
Also, just so you’re aware, all women don’t have a list of fallback guys. Some women, including myself take breaks between dating/relationships and don’t hop from man to man. The problem is so many women and men haven’t mastered solitude.
5:25 - 6:27
OMG Kenny is pure hell!!! Don’t bring his azz nowhere!!!😂😂😂😂😂
speakin facts tho lol
Kenny came shooting from deep 😂
I feel so sorry for the guy who was stood up!!! But she was probably catfishing him.
I love this show. You guys keep me laughing between the messages. Keep doing what you do. Kenny T you so wrong for that! Talking about that man’s eye😂😂😂
Kenny said rip me out the plastic I'm acting brand new😂😂😂😂😂😂😅😅😅not the eyes Kenny... he could have made this up to start getting dates.. . Great show 👏 👍 👌 🙌🏽 ❤️
I can see him saying this n be dead serious too 😂😂😂
I looked at the guys profile who got stood he might have disability which is sad that woman who stood him lead him on for 2 weeks knowing she was not going to actually date him Smh He seems really nice and I hope he does find his person I know she’s out there
When you’re pouring into a woman that wants you, values the relationship and values herself, she sees other men if she isn’t blind, but she isn’t moved because she’s good where she is, with You.
💯
I LOVE when y'all start singing! ❤
Kenny 😂😂 “ That man is a loser “
#IfWeKnowWhatWeKnow
#WhyWeDoWhatWeDo
This question works for EVERY situation 😂💯
I would much rather big up my support circle than to forcefully stand alone. There’s no me without each one of them.
54:24 you wrong Smuv 100. A man or woman who cheats on their spouse threw away a happy home for a side piece and puts their kid at every statistical disadvantage.
56:38 alright he recovered
Ya’ll boys wild!!!…respectfully 😂😂 this was a good one. I love the comment about the friend that digs, we all need one.
yall boys cuttin up😂😂😂😂😂…. LOVE IT!!
Whoever has a better laugh than Smooth, please do tell, I will wait lol
Fr!😭
His laugh is infectious and I love it
Omg you guys are funny I listen to yall everytime yall release it 😅I'm laughing with yall keep em coming love this
I speak for the loyal women when i say yes we see men when are in a relationship we have eyes but we do not entertain it. I was in my past relationship almost 2 years. Any dude that hit my dms if i responded i let him know i was in a relationship and after that if he said anything else hes blocked 🅿️ i dont keep options so when i leave I start over new and thats okay with me gives me time to heal and etc before I embark on something else.
Depending on his level of crazy for you...any response is a gateway. He knows that so just replying is triggering because it translate to entertaining...so if a bad day happens...you may ask him for advice and D. Lol. Men are crazy like that. No response is the response unless it's related to business...which he should be able to openly see the dialog.
A mistake is unintentional. A poor choice is intentional. Betting on someone is a choice. Not a mistake because the intent is present.
Cheating is a choice because of intent
Her loss , give the flowers to a real Lady
The second clip with Busta Rhymes is so on point especially as black men where if you actually try to open and ask for help and then they use it against you or clown you for showing your humanity
Good show, Fellas. Excellent points on reaching out and checking on other Black men
Nice show fellas. Much lov.
The last situation with the man who broke the woman that loved him, she gone, it’s been 3 years and she got someone else, she not coming back. Dude might as well hang that up, she left and moved on for herself, she not coming back to him
Y’all need to go on your own tour please!!!!!🙏🏽
I went out my way to help a man who didn’t want to help himself and he cussed me out for all my efforts in trying to get him help and not me breaking myself to help him financially.
28:00 O said something that made me see how women have adopted our stubborn nature & how we as men have our own “strong independent & don’t need anyone for nuthin’!!!”. It’s unfortunate that we are like that but that’s how many of us are smh.
shoutout to Kenny for picking Crawford.
YO KENNY CHILL!!!!
HE ALREADY DEFEATED!!!
I needed to hear that last advice column 💯🍁
Kenny, how you going do the man like that.🤣🥺
43:59: The fish metaphor Kenny was breaking down was deep AF.
Why did it take losing her before you knew how much you loved her?
I super struggle with asking for help. But I do be...well used to ask for support every once n a blue moon. Once right as the pandemic hit..and earlier this year...this Spring. Both times, Everybody dubbed me....included some of the Krew ppl. I didn't even get a fake like from ppl like they usually do.
But they don't know me personally, so I can't be mad at them. But my so called "friends", I was very disappointed in. That's why I'm not talking to Anybody anymore.
I used to be that guy that Always supports Everybody. Anything somebody needs, I'm there for them. Reaching out to ppl during the pandemic when nigs was going through it. I used to be sooo selfless that I used to post other ppl stuff on my feed...but let's not talk about social media, cause that's a whole other thing.
But yeah, I just stay to myself nowadays...build myself up. Anybody comes along that wants to support, I got them forever. Anybody else, it's whatever.
Edit: But Shout Out to Smuv, cause he was down to support me in my entertainment career though. I didn't send him any I was promoting though, cause I was rejecting by everybody...so that takes a toll on you personally. But he just genuinely seem interested in the thing I got coming up in the future....so I will send that to him soon when we're ready.
44:35 Kenny, you’re a G.
Smuv, they set the trap for you man!! You were not gonna win that argument 😂😂😂
I didn’t have a list. I looked for reasons to try and make it work and stay but soon as I felt unwanted I started putting 5 in rotation. And we get annoyed lol doing that trying to move on
I love that y’all just get life and how it suppose to go!!!
Gotta disagree with Smuv on the cheating and telling your kid "we aint perfect"
Because then you teaching them that is the goto excuse.
Years later your kid cheat and you repremand them and they say "well i aint perfect"
They commit another serious mistake "i aint perfect"
It becomes a goto thing.
Y’all wrong for that!!👀👀👀
He just picked the wrong woman!
Kenny the only one who guessed Crawford right in boxing
Wearing glasses is expensive 🅿️ its unfortunate and expensive 😫 its an unfair disadvantage especially if your prescription is high 😔 one other thing he could do is get contacts I used to wear contacts before I got a career and a child 🤣 now I'm just a bit too lazy or atleast the last few years, but I'm going to get my contacts back now that I'm back into my getting ready routine and have both glasses & contacts as options to wear.
I agree with Kenny. We women do see all the men we just don’t entertain them. It’s like reading the menu but not ordering
Enabling is knowing they have not done right and more than likely going to fumble without supervision which takes more of your time and energy to see your ROI. Helping someone requires a plan and talks of what this help will help yield to the person you’re helping. Help me help you.
Baby you will find someone. Take your time in finding the one
People have feeling. I agree with O and Smuv. Take your L in silence . He also need someone to poor into him and build him up instead of making fun of him .
I took that Busta clip as more of a mental help thing. But I can see how it applies other ways too.
Tell him to focus on himself, focus on loving himself and making himself better. Hit the gym, learn a new skill, hell, start a business- and not just to get girls, but so he can have something else in life besides finding love, like life is about more than being in love. He just needa straighten up.
If someone is asking for help they’re already in a vulnerable state to part their lips to ask.
It’s true. It takes energy also to pour into someone and have her believe it against every other possibility that can trigger her ADHD
01:20:00: If/when they get married she can sell her house and buy a house *with* him instead of him moving into *your* house. Or if he pushes it get a pre-nup because if it's a paid off asset (now), you don't want him entitled to it or you see his true colors then he feels like fighting you over the house.
Second marriage don't have a high percentage of lasting (65% of it ending in divorce), it's worse. So she needs to be aware of that risk.
01:36:00: He had the world and blew it up. He consistently was cheating and broke her. Now, she's finding her self-respect and wants her space and giving you the same energy you gave her. He didn't even stay faithful enough through the engagement and *marry* her. Ya'll should co-parent because you both cheated now and he should take this as a lesson to treat the one you say you love like💩, you don't.
He did everything right...however, maybe you should have picked her up by calling her in advance and knocking on her door...not, waiting in the car 🚗 blowing the horn or blinking the lights...maybe it would have been better.
She doesn’t want you she wants you for what you are not who you are.
Love the podcast and conversations. I don't think roasting a guy that may have some other stuff going is the move. I agree, I wouldn't move that way in terms of posting an L like that online however he dod and displayed some vulnerability in doing so.
Y'all had some game for him. Dating is rough can't internalize the rejection and perhaps take a break. As people, we should treat people better regardless. Stay up, god bless.
Thats true
I love you guys!
I’m so glad y’all fired him up on that lie! Cheating situation 🤦🏾♀️
They should sell her house and buy one together. He has money. You need to start over with a new and clean foundation
Congrats KS!
dude needs to shop for 3's and 4's
Are we gonna see another LIVE panel with everybody?
He should have never put that on Camera
Aww I feel bad for the guy who was stood up
Kenny has no chill, For real!!
True
Of course. I want you to speak to me like the Queen I am at all times. Especially when you may feel like using your your grown man strength on me. Self control works both ways at all times.
Everything learned is from the men in our lives🤓😒 but I cannot pour my energy into more than one person at a time. Especially knowing the levels that are to come require more energy from us both. Women want a constant and secure source to pour and receive love from
Love you content!
Some women will be disrespectful because they don’t respect the men their with they don’t know how to say they want to be done and it’s easier if they push you out the door and make you want to leave
be a good man ..not a push over..and fund a 4 or 5
Kenny was on one 😂
Premiere ganggggg 🍁🍁🍁🍁🍁
I agree. I never have hit below the belt. And I try my best to respect a man I’m with even with those who yell and curse at me I still maintain my tongue because I can’t take words back and I take pride in saying I never have cursed out a man or name called him even when I had all reason too.
Most of those women who get to that point of name calling ect they are tired and at the point of exploding beyond restraint most of those women probably wanna hit you so they yell instead
1:03:01 Crawford caught him a big fish.
Can y’all please just drop the EP already 😩🤣
needs them black out shades for those eyes
46:02 Hard Facts.... Even when I'm upset, there's a way to bring that across to him. Real men don't take no lots of yelling.
That nobody's perfect stuff is my least favorite excuse i swear 🤦♀️ any time you put that at the end of what you're saying it negates everything you said before that. Just say sorry and leave it at that
If you live with your brother you go to him and ask wud up tho?! If your friends are close enough to be considered brother then it should receive that type of energy at all times. Loving people in this way is difficult for people because they do not actually understand the actions of love
Any comments on the Da’Naia Jaxson interview on Dear Future Wifey?
Trill my Brova 💜💪
That’s what she said
Sounds like that lady dude was messing with...sounds like she got commitment issues...fear of commitment. But idk...just my guess.
dude needs to be in Nebraska not L.A
As a women I absolutely agree with the young lady
damn bro..keep it pushing but don't be a simp
It will never be the same
200+ watching… Only 53 Likes🍁💜🍁💜🍁💜🍁💜💜✌🏽
Also just wanna say something you did on purpose cannot be a mistake.
A mistake is a decision you made with a bad or deficit result outside of your control.
The investment outcome can be a mistake but cheating can't be
Facts…PayItForward
That part!! She saw him.
I. AGREE
Son...... If i found out on my death bed, that she cheated AND my kid aint mine.
Shes coming with me!!! All the cancer or whatever's killing me at that moment is negated. Shes coming with me!!!
The whole state of Texas lost money on that fight 😂😂😂 casuals
Facts
I'm glad I didn't raise my boys up like that
I’m crying 😂
😢 the internet is not your therapy
He's definitely not an Alpha man. But it shouldn't be this hard. Hopefully, she reached out to him. But his emotions got the best of him.