(02:05) - Andrew Wiggins’ best friend got his girlfriend pregnant (12:35) - Is it right for a kid to call another man his dad, if the biological father is active? (33:09) - Should a man be compensated for paying for dates? (59:40) - Is gender equality a real thing? (01:20:30) - I can’t date a woman who posts too much (01:27:35) - How do I weed out the men who aren’t ready for a relationship in MY age group? (01:36:36) - Women outraged at the passport bros are hypocrites (02:00:57) - I have two failed relationships on my resume, how should I move forward?
Based off an African centered perspective, every man is considered a "Baba" (equivalent to the word "father") whether he is a father or not as well as every woman is considered a "Mama" whether or not she has bear a child. Therefore the word "Baba" is spoken in front of the name of every man who is responsible for the care and education of the children and the same goes for "Mama" as it relates to nuturing them (i.e. Baba Krewe and Mama Eve). It takes a village to raise the children and these titles fosters responsibility as it relates to guidance and looking out for the best interest of our youth so hearing and being refer to as "Baba" or "Mama" solidifies a healthy village/community.
100 agree with Trill on the “daddy” topic. If the father is doing his role, him and the mother breaking up hasn’t got anything to do with the relationship he has with his child. For the child to take the honourable title that the father did his role for and that he holds as his and call another man “daddy” just because mum got a new boyfriend is crazy. That’s crazy and so disrespectful to the father.
If the relationship between parents are no longer, a child referring the other person as parental figure may happen at some point. You can't get mad at the child. With broken families that comes with the territory sometimes. And if your an active parent they won't think any less of you!!
I agree with Kenny and otis, i want someone to be in my child’s life that loves and respects my child as their own. My little cousin calls her dad and step dad “daddy” and she loves them both
I normally agree with Trill but he put a lot of ego in his answer about the dad response. I'm divorced and if my ex marries a woman who treats my kids as her own and they want to call her mom as well then I really won't care. All that matters is our kids and how they feel.
I understand how a man may feel about their kid calling another man dad. I can see how that can hit a sore spot. But a lot of times kids call that man dad on their own. They swear the mother is encouraging it but that’s not always the case. If that man is really being a real father figure and doing all the daddy things, often times that child will view them as a dad and call them that. Especially if he come into that child life while they are young. It really depends on the situation.
On the Dad topic. Why just settle for paying child support? Have your son live with you if it’s that big of a deal that way you are there 100% of the time. Speaking from experience.
My son stated he rather be with his step mom than birth mom if i was gone…. Some step parents really have a great impact on step kids….he even calls her mom. Started a lot of issues with his mom but he did it naturally
Wow, these are some real conversations but I respect how you all handle the dynamics of it as well as your own emotions n thoughts throughout. Mad respect for this level of honesty.
The dad title: Trillian your ego is leading your response. Hypothetically, if that man is in a long term relationship (married, never divorcing or separating) with your kids mom and he is a great male role model as well thats stepping in on your behalf, if at whatever point the kid desire to call him pops, bonus dad etc. That doesn't take away from who you are and the value you hold in his heart. Accepting the role as a step parent is agreeing to love, nurture, support and being a positive role model. Gender equality- Unfortunately men are paid at a higher rate than women. Corporations often pay lesser salaries to women and white women is paid more than black women. Remove the glass ceiling and equate the salary for the job titles.
That’s essentially what he’s doing @34:00. I think the men that do this 1) don’t really want a relationship, but 2) doesn’t want to cop to paying a prostitute. Instead, he’s willing to pay for 3 meals in exchange for sex. It’s one in the same though.
Child support means nothing when there is NO emotional support for the child. A new shirt does not replace the presence of a FATHER. If that man has stepped up as a father then that is what he is. Put ego aside .
Cutting a check isn't being active, if the man is consoling, teaching, nurturing, you can't tell a child how to feel. I'd have some way about it but what could I do? Maybe you have a talk, but kids are going to do what they feel. 🤷🏾♀️ But the reality is this isn't often the case, usually once the dad leaves they aren't around as much as they should be to have this conversation.
I 100% agree with Trill. As long as a dad is active in a kids life the title of father belongs to the biological parent. If me and my wife don’t work out and another man comes in the picture he don’t deserve the title because he’s step dad and if my wife leaves that man step dad is now “Steve” the guy my wife used to date. He won’t have any responsibilities or obligations I have as the biological father.
My kids not calling u dad...I don't expect my stepchild to call me dad...matter fact that would make me uncomfortable...u can tell Kenny n OT don't have kids...
Trill talking from a place of a man who don’t have kids out of wedlock. It’s not realistic if that child don’t live with you for you to be around as much as the other parent. Unless you a man with full custody, it’s very RARE for a child to be with the father more than the moms. These are just the facts. Majority of the time, most kids are in their moms crib more than their pops. So even if you an active father, it’s times that the child was sick and the other man was there and the father wasn’t. Let’s be real. If the child don’t live with you full time, as a father, if the child is sick, that child goin back to their momma house. This is just one example. These are just the facts of life. It’s just his ego that has a problem with it. And I have 3 sons, 2 with my son and one without my wife. You can be the most exceptional dad in the world, but if you ain’t with the moms and it’s a man that’s active and trustworthy in their child life, they might get called dad as a term of endearment. And I’m a day1 dad with all my sons and my son don’t call another man dad. I just know it’s possible and I’m not trippin off of a name because I’m comfortable in abilities as a father
I am sorry, I am still learning names. To answer the light skin guy on the end, to travel out of the country for sex. It makes him a predator. Intentionally playing on women whom you deem as easy or easily manipulated is exploitative. Also, to try and shame your cohost to change his answer or feel guilty. I am glad he stood on his views.
I had a friend that was in dark color she was my best friend she was alot of my inspiration to be the person i am today ,thats why im looking into dating a race of different color cause im a white irish woman that supported her abusive ex husband now thats why ive changed my tune ,i want a person who knows wht they want in themselves,i have been abused and im not dealing with that aspect anymore.
Not sure if getting married would have made Wiggins gf more committed, but again be careful who you shack up with. He was okay being a dad before a husband. Sad also you have to worry about your friends doing you like that. Allegedly! 😆
For all the “mothers” in this comment section I just have 1 question… What would you do if your child called their father girlfriend or Wife MOTHER, would you keep that same energy?
On the gender equality conversation; So you men will stand by a male nurse getting paid lower because he’s not as emotionally aligned with the patients or some other example that work in a woman’s favor? Each gender should stick to their own jobs? It’s a lot to unpack there because two men are not physically equal also so dose that mean each individual should be paid based on their own skill and dedication?
You can be highly attracted to someone, and I agree with you guys ,but I'm gonna make sure that they are clean and no dusease,cause I'm clean I left my x cause he was very active with other partners.
I completely respect what Trill is saying from a women’s point of view my son hears me and my sisters call my Mama , Mama and calls her that and I don’t like it at all she did not get cut open to get you here . I’m paying and taking care of you I get that daycare bill I’m Your Mama do NOT take my title away from me I’m not sharing that it is disrespectful.
He can’t really focus on the team right now. Even if he were present he wouldn’t be on his game like before. I think he should be able to get himself together, sometimes you have to be selfish. I understand the team counting on him, but that’s a lot to process.
This would be sad a argument to have in a home.The child should not call him dad or her mom. ESPECIALLY if the biological parents doesn't agree and is actively in that child's life. The child is not the Step parent's seed What a stupid way to interrupt or destroy co-parenting
I agree with that when a child is young they need to run a DNA test my youngest son had different color of eyes and my x accused me of cheating ,so wr did the test and it was his.
Hold it down Trill... that step-dad topic had my blood boiling just listening to yall! Kenny T and OT yall should be ashamed of yall self lol. Ain't none of my kids calling bruh daddy if I'm present and active! Violence will occur!!!!!
If I'm going out with a guy I will do Dutch with someone cause that's the way I wad taught ,but then if it goes further then there.will be other things done ,cause it's my choice .
Unless you are married or signed the birth certificate it is required. I can’t just have a baby & go say Dwight is the dad & they’re like “cool, we’ll send him a bill”
@@09tashay Not sure where you're located, but it can and does happen, everyday. Process wise, this shouldn't be a thing. However, there is a whole machine behind the child support system. I have personally seen such atrocities, and professionally I work around some of those that do these things.
@@the_dwight_way where does that happen? Cause I’ve NEVER heard of that & I can provide sources that say otherwise. The only situation I know that can happen is if you are ordered to come to court as the possible father & if you don’t show up they can rule you’re the legal father.
@@09tashay Aka father by default. It's a thing. The most famous case is out of Michigan where a mother put someone's name down that she knew wasn't the father.
I don’t believe in calling nobody mama, daddy, grandma, papa none of that. My mom and stepdad got together when I was 2 years old and I’m 30. I call him Chris and Chris ONLY. My grandpa has been my dads stepdad since he was a baby. His name is Clydell
If it’s true, Wiggins is good to take that time off. Brady got divorced and had the worst season of his life. Let him take a breather. Something like that is sure to F with you.
Depends. Like trills said, usually there’s been consistent communication for a lil while, expressed interest, and likely link up with them a few times in addition to the dates. There’s a difference in saying you’re waiting for exclusivity which should be made clear but if not they go with the flow and if one is investing, they’re gonna expect to get something on their return
@@matthewfunchess9444Why not initiate the conversation as a man, though? If he was really interested in her, he wouldn't stop all communication just because sex wasn't had yet. Let's be honest, 3 dates can be had in less than a month. If the man has not communicated that he is ready to lock in with her, she may not feel comfortable having sex with him. Men claim that women give it up too fast but then when we don't have sex without commitment, they get mad and dip. That's what makes it seem like dudes don't really be about nothing but sex. I think it's clear from the guy in the video that he wasn't really into that lady enough to inquire, he just wanted skins.
There are women who force their kids to call another man, Daddy. I have a stepfather, I call him uncle. And let me tell you if he and my father are on a cliff, I will help him before I help my biological father. But I won't call him daddy
Honestly kids have an innate sense of who needs to be called what. Kids shouldn’t be told by the step parent what to call them. It’s the parents responsibility to set the tone in any situation when the biological parents are not together. Present or absent.
It is literally INSANE to not give men the right to do that as soon as the baby is born imo. We as women know it’s ours but if roles were reversed we would feel the same…. if you’re not cheating there should be nothing to feel a ways about! Simple!!!!!
How it made him feel??? Fam they're not YOUR kids...There is no way in hell I'm ever agreeing with my child calling anyone else but me dad, father, or any other rendition of it. If they do, that largely has to do with the way the mother framed said person. I'd never allow my daughter to call another woman her mother regardless of how I feel about her. It's flat out disrespectful.
Y'all stop playin with these men. If u know u aint gone give em none stop startin. Smh dudes having to deal with hard ons that they have to FREQUENTLY deflate is not cool. Thats just mean.
I been married 22 years I been move out 16 months during the 16 months I've cook for him wash his cloths he play on Facebook with girls every time I bring up something about us he blocks it out what should I do all the trust he broke with lies
The mindset of OT and Kenny is what's wrong with the black community and keeping families together. Stripping a man of his title to his kids just because of marital transgressions is NUTS!!!! Just because we're not together some other dude gets my title? FUCK OUTTA HERE! And for 2 men to be consigning that shit is nuts!!! I called my stepdad by his name for 20 years because I had respect for my father.
The biological father that is good to their child never gets stripped of the title, in this case. The child can call the stepfather "pops" or another endearing name. It's up to the child to call the stepparent what they feel comfortable calling them, respectfully. Addressing your stepparent by the role they play isn't "what's wrong with the black community and keeping families apart". Men complain that women don't respect the man that steps in to help raise her children (whether or not the biological father is an active dad), but then turn around and ALSO won't give the stepfather due respect by allowing the child to address him by the title that gives him the honor he deserves. Different strokes for different folks.
That's actually a great trade off...You can have a paternity test and we can access your whereabouts....on the cell phone. Sounds fair to me. Now what?HAHAHA It's all about trust. That works.
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(02:05) - Andrew Wiggins’ best friend got his girlfriend pregnant
(12:35) - Is it right for a kid to call another man his dad, if the biological father is active?
(33:09) - Should a man be compensated for paying for dates?
(59:40) - Is gender equality a real thing?
(01:20:30) - I can’t date a woman who posts too much
(01:27:35) - How do I weed out the men who aren’t ready for a relationship in MY age group?
(01:36:36) - Women outraged at the passport bros are hypocrites
(02:00:57) - I have two failed relationships on my resume, how should I move forward?
State your intentions from the beginning. Communicating is important to understand what’s expected.
Based off an African centered perspective, every man is considered a "Baba" (equivalent to the word "father") whether he is a father or not as well as every woman is considered a "Mama" whether or not she has bear a child. Therefore the word "Baba" is spoken in front of the name of every man who is responsible for the care and education of the children and the same goes for "Mama" as it relates to nuturing them (i.e. Baba Krewe and Mama Eve). It takes a village to raise the children and these titles fosters responsibility as it relates to guidance and looking out for the best interest of our youth so hearing and being refer to as "Baba" or "Mama" solidifies a healthy village/community.
100 agree with Trill on the “daddy” topic. If the father is doing his role, him and the mother breaking up hasn’t got anything to do with the relationship he has with his child. For the child to take the honourable title that the father did his role for and that he holds as his and call another man “daddy” just because mum got a new boyfriend is crazy. That’s crazy and so disrespectful to the father.
Agreed 💯
If the relationship between parents are no longer, a child referring the other person as parental figure may happen at some point. You can't get mad at the child. With broken families that comes with the territory sometimes. And if your an active parent they won't think any less of you!!
I agree with Kenny and otis, i want someone to be in my child’s life that loves and respects my child as their own. My little cousin calls her dad and step dad “daddy” and she loves them both
They are cutting up this pod 😂. If smuv was here I'd be on the floor at work. Honest and still entertaining
Damn so 3 dates is the new expectation? Whew chile ill pay for my own im gucci
Yeah that definitely threw me off. Would you tell your daughter that? The new standard is hell for casual dating 🙄
Trill's opinion on the Dad topic is all kinds of F@CKED up!!!!
I normally agree with Trill but he put a lot of ego in his answer about the dad response. I'm divorced and if my ex marries a woman who treats my kids as her own and they want to call her mom as well then I really won't care. All that matters is our kids and how they feel.
I understand how a man may feel about their kid calling another man dad. I can see how that can hit a sore spot. But a lot of times kids call that man dad on their own. They swear the mother is encouraging it but that’s not always the case. If that man is really being a real father figure and doing all the daddy things, often times that child will view them as a dad and call them that. Especially if he come into that child life while they are young. It really depends on the situation.
On the Dad topic. Why just settle for paying child support? Have your son live with you if it’s that big of a deal that way you are there 100% of the time. Speaking from experience.
My son stated he rather be with his step mom than birth mom if i was gone…. Some step parents really have a great impact on step kids….he even calls her mom. Started a lot of issues with his mom but he did it naturally
Whew i hadnt seen trill get spicy like this😂🎉🎉
Because it's personal lol
Trill got a little heated about the “DADDY” title.
Yeah he did and the guys kept eggin him on 😂. It made it funny to me
Looking forward to tonight's conversation. It's always therapeutic and 100% authentic.
It's relationship driven and dependentupon timing and communication.
*You’re ABSOLUTELY right Trill! No ACTIVE parent should share titles with stepparents.*
Wow, these are some real conversations but I respect how you all handle the dynamics of it as well as your own emotions n thoughts throughout. Mad respect for this level of honesty.
The dad title: Trillian your ego is leading your response. Hypothetically, if that man is in a long term relationship (married, never divorcing or separating) with your kids mom and he is a great male role model as well thats stepping in on your behalf, if at whatever point the kid desire to call him pops, bonus dad etc. That doesn't take away from who you are and the value you hold in his heart. Accepting the role as a step parent is agreeing to love, nurture, support and being a positive role model.
Gender equality-
Unfortunately men are paid at a higher rate than women. Corporations often pay lesser salaries to women and white women is paid more than black women. Remove the glass ceiling and equate the salary for the job titles.
So he’s just GUESSING!!! Just talk, that’s what “dating” is for! If you just want sex…call someone and pay for it and be DONE!
That’s essentially what he’s doing @34:00. I think the men that do this 1) don’t really want a relationship, but 2) doesn’t want to cop to paying a prostitute. Instead, he’s willing to pay for 3 meals in exchange for sex. It’s one in the same though.
That’s right Trill. Not the same title when the father/mother is active in that child’s life.
Fam the real Dad becoming the Bonus Dad is crazy 😂😂😂
I know Krew must laugh
sometimes.
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Bonus dad is crazy 😭😭😭
I love Kenny. I vibe with his mindset!
56:04 The vanilla sweet cream cold brew Trenta with cinnamon dolce on top is fye
I always learn something new. So thank you ❤
"you can get a nickname bro" 🤣
Thank you... no you not getting the title. Get that title from yours. Pop pops, uncle
Some people aren’t territorial some of us are 🤷🏾♀️ people need to respect that.
Paternity tests are a Man’s choice however if there is no reason to get one I’m pissed and it’s over
Equal in value not equal in function.
Beautifully said!
The guy is married to the mom so the kids should be able to call him Pops
Not in this lifetime
Naw
Not at all and it's the same vice versa
Child support means nothing when there is NO emotional support for the child. A new shirt does not replace the presence of a FATHER. If that man has stepped up as a father then that is what he is.
Put ego aside .
I agree with Trill you can’t get it if your not a dad. I have two boys and I wouldn’t dare have them call another man Dad.
Gender equality in fact does have somethin to do with gender roles because if you're equal there are no roles
The Andrew Wiggins rumor been proven false already. Draymond even talked about it on his podcast.
Coming from a stepdad, some "Real Dads" don't know what "active father" means...
Cutting a check isn't being active, if the man is consoling, teaching, nurturing, you can't tell a child how to feel. I'd have some way about it but what could I do? Maybe you have a talk, but kids are going to do what they feel. 🤷🏾♀️ But the reality is this isn't often the case, usually once the dad leaves they aren't around as much as they should be to have this conversation.
I 100% agree with Trill. As long as a dad is active in a kids life the title of father belongs to the biological parent. If me and my wife don’t work out and another man comes in the picture he don’t deserve the title because he’s step dad and if my wife leaves that man step dad is now “Steve” the guy my wife used to date. He won’t have any responsibilities or obligations I have as the biological father.
My kids not calling u dad...I don't expect my stepchild to call me dad...matter fact that would make me uncomfortable...u can tell Kenny n OT don't have kids...
100% I could NEVER accept my child calling another man, "dad"
Trill talking from a place of a man who don’t have kids out of wedlock. It’s not realistic if that child don’t live with you for you to be around as much as the other parent. Unless you a man with full custody, it’s very RARE for a child to be with the father more than the moms. These are just the facts. Majority of the time, most kids are in their moms crib more than their pops. So even if you an active father, it’s times that the child was sick and the other man was there and the father wasn’t. Let’s be real. If the child don’t live with you full time, as a father, if the child is sick, that child goin back to their momma house. This is just one example. These are just the facts of life. It’s just his ego that has a problem with it. And I have 3 sons, 2 with my son and one without my wife. You can be the most exceptional dad in the world, but if you ain’t with the moms and it’s a man that’s active and trustworthy in their child life, they might get called dad as a term of endearment. And I’m a day1 dad with all my sons and my son don’t call another man dad. I just know it’s possible and I’m not trippin off of a name because I’m comfortable in abilities as a father
1:44:46 I think it says something about what you attract. You have the whole US 🤷🏽♀️
I am sorry, I am still learning names. To answer the light skin guy on the end, to travel out of the country for sex. It makes him a predator. Intentionally playing on women whom you deem as easy or easily manipulated is exploitative. Also, to try and shame your cohost to change his answer or feel guilty. I am glad he stood on his views.
Who are these dudes nex to Trill? "You are not the father!"
what 50 cent say whoever ask to go on the date pays n I ain’t askin lol💯
Trill doesn't want to share his Daddy title point blank period.
I had a friend that was in dark color she was my best friend she was alot of my inspiration to be the person i am today ,thats why im looking into dating a race of different color cause im a white irish woman that supported her abusive ex husband now thats why ive changed my tune ,i want a person who knows wht they want in themselves,i have been abused and im not dealing with that aspect anymore.
I do not ask someone to pay my bills for me cause it's not up to them to do it ,it's my resonsiabiltiiy.
Not sure if getting married would have made Wiggins gf more committed, but again be careful who you shack up with. He was okay being a dad before a husband. Sad also you have to worry about your friends doing you like that. Allegedly! 😆
I know a few women who got pregnant and didn’t know who the father was… all ima say is the did the right thing. 😬
Aunty Angela period
Paternity Confirmation should be done immediately in all births. We don’t need a reason
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Put it in a fund for the kid
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For all the “mothers” in this comment section I just have 1 question… What would you do if your child called their father girlfriend or Wife MOTHER, would you keep that same energy?
On the gender equality conversation; So you men will stand by a male nurse getting paid lower because he’s not as emotionally aligned with the patients or some other example that work in a woman’s favor?
Each gender should stick to their own jobs? It’s a lot to unpack there because two men are not physically equal also so dose that mean each individual should be paid based on their own skill and dedication?
You can be highly attracted to someone, and I agree with you guys ,but I'm gonna make sure that they are clean and no dusease,cause I'm clean I left my x cause he was very active with other partners.
And if me and my sister goes out we split the bill.
Trill made no sense when it came to that "dad" conversation. I hope he play it back and grow from that mindset.
People always say you should have choose better?
I completely respect what Trill is saying from a women’s point of view my son hears me and my sisters call my Mama , Mama and calls her that and I don’t like it at all she did not get cut open to get you here . I’m paying and taking care of you I get that daycare bill I’m Your Mama do NOT take my title away from me I’m not sharing that it is disrespectful.
Does he spend more time with your mom?
Children are not property. I am hearing more ego than wisdom. Live a little.
He can’t really focus on the team right now. Even if he were present he wouldn’t be on his game like before. I think he should be able to get himself together, sometimes you have to be selfish. I understand the team counting on him, but that’s a lot to process.
Appreciate the new 🌊
This would be sad a argument to have in a home.The child should not call him dad or her mom. ESPECIALLY if the biological parents doesn't agree and is actively in that child's life. The child is not the Step parent's seed
What a stupid way to interrupt or destroy co-parenting
I agree with that when a child is young they need to run a DNA test my youngest son had different color of eyes and my x accused me of cheating ,so wr did the test and it was his.
Hold it down Trill... that step-dad topic had my blood boiling just listening to yall! Kenny T and OT yall should be ashamed of yall self lol. Ain't none of my kids calling bruh daddy if I'm present and active! Violence will occur!!!!!
Is there another endearing name the child can call the stepfather?
@@tatianadaniel3569 “hey y’all, this mr steve aka my stepdad he’s like a second father to me”
@@bnice3012 No, I'm asking what does the child call his father when they are together (pops, papa, etc.,)
@@tatianadaniel3569 pops, dad, papa etc
@@bnice3012 Yeah, that's what I said.
Tha only guy that will see my body is my guy no one else
DNA tests should not only be mandatory but there are pre-birth tests. Do it ASAP. Too much time invested for a man to wait
Mandatory paternity test Kenny??
3 dates?? People smashing on the first or second date now. We live in a hook up culture now
Trill keep going
If I'm going out with a guy I will do Dutch with someone cause that's the way I wad taught ,but then if it goes further then there.will be other things done ,cause it's my choice .
And no a DNA test is not necessarily required for child support. It can be requested, but it's not mandatory to have one.
Unless you are married or signed the birth certificate it is required. I can’t just have a baby & go say Dwight is the dad & they’re like “cool, we’ll send him a bill”
@@09tashay Not sure where you're located, but it can and does happen, everyday. Process wise, this shouldn't be a thing. However, there is a whole machine behind the child support system. I have personally seen such atrocities, and professionally I work around some of those that do these things.
@@the_dwight_way where does that happen? Cause I’ve NEVER heard of that & I can provide sources that say otherwise. The only situation I know that can happen is if you are ordered to come to court as the possible father & if you don’t show up they can rule you’re the legal father.
@@09tashay Aka father by default. It's a thing. The most famous case is out of Michigan where a mother put someone's name down that she knew wasn't the father.
@@the_dwight_way that’s what I was trying to say, father by default. Didn’t know that BS was a thing until watching paternity court lol.
I don’t believe in calling nobody mama, daddy, grandma, papa none of that. My mom and stepdad got together when I was 2 years old and I’m 30. I call him Chris and Chris ONLY. My grandpa has been my dads stepdad since he was a baby. His name is Clydell
I like this podcast and I don't even know why?
If it’s true, Wiggins is good to take that time off. Brady got divorced and had the worst season of his life. Let him take a breather. Something like that is sure to F with you.
Kenny be having some 🧁 takes...smh
Where do we submit questions? 🤔
I heard Patreon
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I don’t even believe in calling somebody your second mama. That’s not your mama AT ALL
Have they ever done 3 podcasts in a row with all 4 guys there??? smh
The third date is kinda fast...😢
Depends. Like trills said, usually there’s been consistent communication for a lil while, expressed interest, and likely link up with them a few times in addition to the dates. There’s a difference in saying you’re waiting for exclusivity which should be made clear but if not they go with the flow and if one is investing, they’re gonna expect to get something on their return
@@matthewfunchess9444Why not initiate the conversation as a man, though? If he was really interested in her, he wouldn't stop all communication just because sex wasn't had yet. Let's be honest, 3 dates can be had in less than a month.
If the man has not communicated that he is ready to lock in with her, she may not feel comfortable having sex with him.
Men claim that women give it up too fast but then when we don't have sex without commitment, they get mad and dip. That's what makes it seem like dudes don't really be about nothing but sex.
I think it's clear from the guy in the video that he wasn't really into that lady enough to inquire, he just wanted skins.
There are women who force their kids to call another man, Daddy. I have a stepfather, I call him uncle. And let me tell you if he and my father are on a cliff, I will help him before I help my biological father. But I won't call him daddy
Honestly kids have an innate sense of who needs to be called what. Kids shouldn’t be told by the step parent what to call them. It’s the parents responsibility to set the tone in any situation when the biological parents are not together. Present or absent.
It is literally INSANE to not give men the right to do that as soon as the baby is born imo. We as women know it’s ours but if roles were reversed we would feel the same…. if you’re not cheating there should be nothing to feel a ways about! Simple!!!!!
How it made him feel??? Fam they're not YOUR kids...There is no way in hell I'm ever agreeing with my child calling anyone else but me dad, father, or any other rendition of it. If they do, that largely has to do with the way the mother framed said person. I'd never allow my daughter to call another woman her mother regardless of how I feel about her. It's flat out disrespectful.
Man yes
that “daddy” topic shouldn’t even be a debate lol, wha happen to unc or sum
They don’t have kids trill
Keep talking
Y'all stop playin with these men. If u know u aint gone give em none stop startin. Smh dudes having to deal with hard ons that they have to FREQUENTLY deflate is not cool. Thats just mean.
They don’t have kids
I been married 22 years I been move out 16 months during the 16 months I've cook for him wash his cloths he play on Facebook with girls every time I bring up something about us he blocks it out what should I do all the trust he broke with lies
Stop doing that!
all men should get a paternity test... 2023 we aint trusting noooooobody, i feel bad for Andrew if it is true
Unfortunately I know women that will have their kids call their new boyfriend daddy. Even if you are handling your business
The mindset of OT and Kenny is what's wrong with the black community and keeping families together. Stripping a man of his title to his kids just because of marital transgressions is NUTS!!!! Just because we're not together some other dude gets my title? FUCK OUTTA HERE! And for 2 men to be consigning that shit is nuts!!! I called my stepdad by his name for 20 years because I had respect for my father.
Fact! My dad put that in me early.. not to EVER call another man besides him dad. I'm the same way with mine.
The biological father that is good to their child never gets stripped of the title, in this case. The child can call the stepfather "pops" or another endearing name. It's up to the child to call the stepparent what they feel comfortable calling them, respectfully.
Addressing your stepparent by the role they play isn't "what's wrong with the black community and keeping families apart".
Men complain that women don't respect the man that steps in to help raise her children (whether or not the biological father is an active dad), but then turn around and ALSO won't give the stepfather due respect by allowing the child to address him by the title that gives him the honor he deserves.
Different strokes for different folks.
That's actually a great trade off...You can have a paternity test and we can access your whereabouts....on the cell phone. Sounds fair to me. Now what?HAHAHA It's all about trust. That works.
And women yall don't want you children calling any other woman, mommy, so stop it.
Passport Bros, we stay winning!!!! Don't give a sh!t what all these American BW are saying!!!