(02:34) - DaBaby claims to have smashed Meg Thee Stallion (08:30) - Kanye West admits Sway had the answers (14:18) - Ime Udoka is suspended for having consensual sex with a woman in the organization (25:38) - Greg Davis says men are reaping with they’ve sown dealing with women who won’t commit (44:24) - What’s it going to take to influence young men to value relationships (58:32) - Mom won’t let daughters boyfriend live with them now that they’re homeless (01:11:53) - My current man says I have to stop being friends with my ex (01:19:36) - Mess with the one who like YOU, not the one YOU like (01:28:37) - When is it ok for your son to cry? Tips on emotional expression (01:38:22) - My husband isn’t carrying his weight in the relationship (01:58:11) - Are most women capable of having emotionless sex?
It goes even deeper than our fathers and grandfathers, if you’re talking about the Black community we have a dark traumatic past and until we heal as a community from it we will continue to deal with a bevy of issues.
The way Smuv just went in on that family for like 20 minutes straight 😂😂😂😂😂 I'm in fucking tears! "I HOPE YALL AINT DISCIPLINING THEM KIDS! YALL CANT TEACH THEM SHIT!" That's a whole violation! Best podcast on the planet
As young black men we have to have our own goals. Being respectful and honest is cool. Validation isn't needed to be original. Most of us were raised by narcissistic women (Moms,aunts, and grandmas) and they aint married. We have to create our own structure and be consistent to self above all.
Every generation, blames the one before. Every single one. We fail to consider, in totality, the influences in society at the time. Not making excuses, just things to consider.
Well, as an average guy who’s been called lame, short and ugly since 7 yrs old…I’ll say I’ve been taking Ls for the guys who’ve been in the “cool kids club”. They’re tall and good looking, so the women don’t look any further into his character, he smashes, treats her like crap, dips out and she blames everyone, including me who she never wanted in the first place…this is crazy.
The problem is there are two different messages being sent. On one side men are being told you can only reach a certain height alone and that a good woman by your side will help you elevate higher while women are being told today that the sky is the limit whether you have a good man in your life or not. The need for each other is only being told one way in today's time.
Exactly I refuse to believe that until a man finds a woman there is a limit or cap on how successful he can grow and succeed. As men we should actually be insulted that until I find someone I won’t be able to progress as far as I want to go.
I appreciate you guys touching on tge importance of emotional intelligence. Unfortunately, in the black community the dysfunction and toxicity takes presidency in our growth. I would like to make one correct in my opinion pertaining to expressing emotions and execution following, 1. You guys were correct that everything isn't worth crying over , however; even in the small things do not discredit your child's emotions and devalue how they feel. Give them the space to express how they feel whether its over a toy, because they are tired or wanting an extra snack. After you've alloted them a minute or 2, this is where you'll allow them to verbally express their feelings and you can counter with a logical response. 2. Not only are teaching emotional intelligence you're also teaching them how to communicate effectively. Emotional intelligence and effective communication are 2 important factors that our community is missing. Continue changing the narrative 💪🏾💪🏾
She shouldn't have married that man. There had to be signs that she would have these kind of problems with him. This stuff should have been corrected before she married him for sure. I wouldn't have accepted a proposal and be dealing with that mess & ain't no way he just started out of nowhere. And like I always say if you can't afford a habit you shouldn't have it. This man can barely pay the bills spending $600 a month on weed. That man biting the hand that's feeding him smh 🤦♀️ she can't bring no kids into that mess.
Otis n Smooth y'all need to answer the question. Stop beating around the bush. Yes some men turn some women off to marriage. Because a lot of men aren't faithful
Trill stupid for the comment...."He getting worked on Madden" that's why he smokin. But nah, his priorities aren't aligned. Everything she mentioned ole boy doing if she get new man and she hear that Playstation beep, her mind instantly will revert back to trauma if she not healed. Love the POD Blessing to all yall.
Passionate about failing 🤣🤣 but yea buddy better sleep in his car, shower at the gym, and visit his family when he not at work lbvs. The fact that that's a recurring issue is a huge problem and I agree 1000% on not letting him stay at the crib
fast food spots got a high ass turnover rate for a reason..After My senior year in HS I was working a grill spot by a Mall half mile away from a Walmart & 2.5 miles way from a night club…Bruh….them ppl had me doing 3 ppl jobs by myself at the night shift plus i was doing some stuff the manager should’ve been doing.. it was a constant barrage of ppl coming in I know for a fact we made more that 2-3 k in an hour…I was super burnt out. I’d leave that place feeling like i just did a bid..it was crazy. My next job i worked at a Warehouse it was Soooo much Easier on me. Bruh I give ppl working them jobs all the respect..it’s so much stress I know for a fact more than half the ppl working them jobs ain’t sober..I peeped an took advantage i became an “urban pharmatical sales rep”…No degree tho.. while i was on the clock cuz your boy was broke. Im telling you if you push anything most ur customers/consumer base will work fastfood warehouses construction & be college kids and in healthcare/medical jobs..
I love men, want men, need men - yet I will not tolerate the nonsense most men bring with their package. I would prefer not participate, I love my life! Why bother and NOT every woman is belligerent about these facts. They are what they are. Many of us have conceded that many men are just not capable of what we prefer AND WE AREN'T LYING TO OURSELVES ABOUT THAT ANYMORE. Fine men, you win. You got over. From what it sounds like, women were right about men's true intentions from day one and we just don't want the same things and never did. Men will beg and swear 100 ways that they consider your "relationship/family" expectations and that they match. Yeah right. It's the wolves watching the hen house pretending they are sweet bunnies. Men don't want to risk going without or losing their shot, so they lie from the jump. That sets the tone of social norms that we have today.
As far as the “homeless” woman. Now if she were to leave him, along with her 3 kids, and need to rely on government assistance, the uncle Ruckus podcasts would be blaming her.
@@theonek5333 Scams don't just call themselves scams out loud. It is up to the buyer to inspect merchandise upon purchasing(time investment). Like I said I think it's 50/50 in this case.
I have a question about at 1:20:30 tho, why must the pretty girl always be the person to treat the regular Joe wrong? why can't good women be pretty(like undeniable beauty) at the same time? It's almost as though being beautiful and being a good person are two mutually exclusive characters in today's dating scene.
"Can't breathe my air." Otis! 🤣 But for real, the man is crazy, but what about the woman and how did she get that way? Grandma (her mother) clearly enabled her that okay, she has one kid, you put your foot down and say get your shit together or you are done. Daughter had 3 kids by this man; everyone sucks here!
I agree. Dude doesn't have any time to sleep. So wild. Why is she defending him and undermining her mom in her mom's house? Now she can go too just leave the kids. So crazy. He's a bum and she chose a bum smh love/attraction is great but gotta add in logic also.
Man I couldn’t wait to hear their take on the coach of the Celtics situation and smuv is loud and wrong again dominating the convo with nonsense. Talking like he was in the room or read the report. If MBarnes corrected what he said why smuv acting like he know the details.
Low key I be rooting for my boys. Like yes mess they life up so when they want a good man I can be like naw be I don’t deal in damage goods. I’ll hit it though.
@@blkyogi999 most of the human population is average and will always be average. If you are average looking, make average money, and live a average lifestyle which most of us live(I know it seems everybody be balling on the internet) then that person is average. And there is nothing wrong with that average people is what make society function smoothly. Everybody can’t and won’t be super successful and living lavish lifestyles
In my opinion on the first topic. Fellas just look at your own positions then tell me men like you and me dropped the ball! No not at all! That same small group of OG Fboys from back in the day is the same group of Fboys doing what they do today. Remember bad news spread 10times than good. The reason you see more dudes married than women is because of technology and how information is manipulated today.
I'm 40 minutes and I understand you guys put a huge amount of accountability on men as far as leadership, I get that. However, you guys are leaving out the number one component and that is, women fought to do and have the opportunity to do everything that they are doing now. In my opinion you had a surplus of men back in the day particularly in the black American community that were okay being a clean up man but that is rapidly changing. And that's not black men fault. You cannot lead a person who refuses to be led.
No Kanye didn’t. There is a Man with a shoe company independent supported by the people and he makes some of the best shoes called S.I.A. Some of the best shoes I’ve bought better than any 400 dollar year or J. Kanye had the name all he needed was smart people around him and he could of did it by himself. He took the quick check. I don’t feel bad for him. All his connections and all the money he had.
Your spirit as a man! You need to be on your grind and he got 3 kids?!! 🤦🏿♂️ this is what we’re talking about when we say women would rather date mookie and peewee than a good (boring) man lmao
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(02:34) - DaBaby claims to have smashed Meg Thee Stallion
(08:30) - Kanye West admits Sway had the answers
(14:18) - Ime Udoka is suspended for having consensual sex with a woman in the organization
(25:38) - Greg Davis says men are reaping with they’ve sown dealing with women who won’t commit
(44:24) - What’s it going to take to influence young men to value relationships
(58:32) - Mom won’t let daughters boyfriend live with them now that they’re homeless
(01:11:53) - My current man says I have to stop being friends with my ex
(01:19:36) - Mess with the one who like YOU, not the one YOU like
(01:28:37) - When is it ok for your son to cry? Tips on emotional expression
(01:38:22) - My husband isn’t carrying his weight in the relationship
(01:58:11) - Are most women capable of having emotionless sex?
Blended families are beautiful.
This podcast is hilarious but y’all be speaking that 🔥🔥
I love y’all podcast ‼️‼️‼️‼️ 🔥🔥🔥🔥 straight gems 💎
Favorite podcast ever never miss a show. Y'all don't realize how many young brothers is better because of this including me salute
Smuv can really sing. 🎤
Smuv is hilarious af!
When he said, " Yawl don't need to be together," I hollered! And lawd, not plethora 😅😅😅
It goes even deeper than our fathers and grandfathers, if you’re talking about the Black community we have a dark traumatic past and until we heal as a community from it we will continue to deal with a bevy of issues.
Thank you Trill for saying men has accountability 😮
Smuv be having me dying... "No I'm praying on your downfall" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣✊🏿✊🏿✊🏿
The way Smuv just went in on that family for like 20 minutes straight 😂😂😂😂😂 I'm in fucking tears! "I HOPE YALL AINT DISCIPLINING THEM KIDS! YALL CANT TEACH THEM SHIT!" That's a whole violation! Best podcast on the planet
😂
Keep up the great work I love how y'all speak for the fellas and relationships in general
Where can you get Beatbox in the West
Smuv gon make y’all some Gordon Cartrells 😂😂
As young black men we have to have our own goals. Being respectful and honest is cool. Validation isn't needed to be original. Most of us were raised by narcissistic women (Moms,aunts, and grandmas) and they aint married. We have to create our own structure and be consistent to self above all.
Good show fellas
Every generation, blames the one before. Every single one. We fail to consider, in totality, the influences in society at the time. Not making excuses, just things to consider.
Exactly
I wish that someone else would have to I go through a lesson cause they think they can do no wrong.
💯💯
And that is so sad that they have done this to the children.
You call it war, I call it immaturity
That new angle at 10:39 hit differently, I love ittttt
Crazy how that BeatBox beverage started on Shark Tank and now everybody is talking about it!
I'm I'm planning on going to school and if a guy wants me he can find me.
Well, as an average guy who’s been called lame, short and ugly since 7 yrs old…I’ll say I’ve been taking Ls for the guys who’ve been in the “cool kids club”. They’re tall and good looking, so the women don’t look any further into his character, he smashes, treats her like crap, dips out and she blames everyone, including me who she never wanted in the first place…this is crazy.
Love the video keep it up gentlemen 😊😊❤❤
🟢How are we going to get these young men into listening to these older men with common sense???
Homeless twice.. save the kids but, they both need to sleep outside.. she chose this struggle and encouraged this bumdom.
@Smuv women been blinded for "love" their whole life too but those days are over.
"There's a pletha situations....." 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 man dat boy country 🤣🤣🤣
1:09:00 too prideful. MESSAGE !!!🙏🏽 on clarity...
2:06:00 never chase a women / upgrade to those who you can settle 4. Equally Yoked. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
The problem is there are two different messages being sent. On one side men are being told you can only reach a certain height alone and that a good woman by your side will help you elevate higher while women are being told today that the sky is the limit whether you have a good man in your life or not. The need for each other is only being told one way in today's time.
Exactly I refuse to believe that until a man finds a woman there is a limit or cap on how successful he can grow and succeed. As men we should actually be insulted that until I find someone I won’t be able to progress as far as I want to go.
I appreciate you guys touching on tge importance of emotional intelligence. Unfortunately, in the black community the dysfunction and toxicity takes presidency in our growth. I would like to make one correct in my opinion pertaining to expressing emotions and execution following, 1. You guys were correct that everything isn't worth crying over , however; even in the small things do not discredit your child's emotions and devalue how they feel. Give them the space to express how they feel whether its over a toy, because they are tired or wanting an extra snack. After you've alloted them a minute or 2, this is where you'll allow them to verbally express their feelings and you can counter with a logical response.
2. Not only are teaching emotional intelligence you're also teaching them how to communicate effectively.
Emotional intelligence and effective communication are 2 important factors that our community is missing.
Continue changing the narrative 💪🏾💪🏾
Bro said "he ain’t even got enough money to play the lottery " 😂😂
OVA NIGHT 🤣🤣🤣🤣#SUVAVC
She shouldn't have married that man. There had to be signs that she would have these kind of problems with him. This stuff should have been corrected before she married him for sure. I wouldn't have accepted a proposal and be dealing with that mess & ain't no way he just started out of nowhere. And like I always say if you can't afford a habit you shouldn't have it. This man can barely pay the bills spending $600 a month on weed. That man biting the hand that's feeding him smh 🤦♀️ she can't bring no kids into that mess.
Maybe he's annoyed to.
OT got a son? Wow
I ❤ u guys, yall def spk facts🎯, Smuv I sn dat video 2🤣po tink
Otis n Smooth y'all need to answer the question. Stop beating around the bush.
Yes some men turn some women off to marriage. Because a lot of men aren't faithful
I’ll live paycheck to paycheck before I be homeless
Trill stupid for the comment...."He getting worked on Madden" that's why he smokin. But nah, his priorities aren't aligned. Everything she mentioned ole boy doing if she get new man and she hear that Playstation beep, her mind instantly will revert back to trauma if she not healed. Love the POD Blessing to all yall.
Otis, didn't know you had a son?
1:38:22 I think her husband might be depressed.
Trill🙌🏾🙌🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👍🏾👍🏾#accountability
Passionate about failing 🤣🤣 but yea buddy better sleep in his car, shower at the gym, and visit his family when he not at work lbvs. The fact that that's a recurring issue is a huge problem and I agree 1000% on not letting him stay at the crib
We mention all them fast food spots but you can hit a temp service and be working in a warehouse the next day 15-18 a hr
Because its temp. Duh!
@@jayc5756 a lot of em are temp to hire as well. Even getting seasonal positions can lead to extended/permanent opportunities
@@matthewfunchess9444 Yeah, but not guaranteed. Thats what I'm saying
fast food spots got a high ass turnover rate for a reason..After My senior year in HS I was working a grill spot by a Mall half mile away from a Walmart & 2.5 miles way from a night club…Bruh….them ppl had me doing 3 ppl jobs by myself at the night shift plus i was doing some stuff the manager should’ve been doing.. it was a constant barrage of ppl coming in I know for a fact we made more that 2-3 k in an hour…I was super burnt out. I’d leave that place feeling like i just did a bid..it was crazy.
My next job i worked at a Warehouse it was Soooo much Easier on me. Bruh I give ppl working them jobs all the respect..it’s so much stress I know for a fact more than half the ppl working them jobs ain’t sober..I peeped an took advantage i became an “urban pharmatical sales rep”…No degree tho..
while i was on the clock cuz your boy was broke.
Im telling you if you push anything
most ur customers/consumer base will work fastfood warehouses construction & be college kids and in healthcare/medical jobs..
@@matthewfunchess9444 thing is most them temp agency’s take a percentage so you Not really making that 15-18 an hr tho
I love men, want men, need men - yet I will not tolerate the nonsense most men bring with their package. I would prefer not participate, I love my life! Why bother and NOT every woman is belligerent about these facts. They are what they are. Many of us have conceded that many men are just not capable of what we prefer AND WE AREN'T LYING TO OURSELVES ABOUT THAT ANYMORE.
Fine men, you win. You got over.
From what it sounds like, women were right about men's true intentions from day one and we just don't want the same things and never did. Men will beg and swear 100 ways that they consider your "relationship/family" expectations and that they match. Yeah right.
It's the wolves watching the hen house pretending they are sweet bunnies.
Men don't want to risk going without or losing their shot, so they lie from the jump. That sets the tone of social norms that we have today.
As far as the “homeless” woman. Now if she were to leave him, along with her 3 kids, and need to rely on government assistance, the uncle Ruckus podcasts would be blaming her.
She choose dude, she is as responsible for her situation as he is.
@@gravesg Not if she "bought into his plan" and he failed to deliver. It's called a scam.
@@theonek5333 Scams don't just call themselves scams out loud. It is up to the buyer to inspect merchandise upon purchasing(time investment). Like I said I think it's 50/50 in this case.
@@gravesg it’s 50/50 in every case.
1:05:52 😂😂😂😂😂 fr
I have a question about at 1:20:30 tho, why must the pretty girl always be the person to treat the regular Joe wrong? why can't good women be pretty(like undeniable beauty) at the same time? It's almost as though being beautiful and being a good person are two mutually exclusive characters in today's dating scene.
"Can't breathe my air." Otis! 🤣 But for real, the man is crazy, but what about the woman and how did she get that way? Grandma (her mother) clearly enabled her that okay, she has one kid, you put your foot down and say get your shit together or you are done. Daughter had 3 kids by this man; everyone sucks here!
Sounds like Hink from the Lepeef show trying to stay at his girl's mama house.. lol
Where is Grampa at?
Sadly, most are deceased
same shit ..just being televised
Men speaking on the state of a woman and her freedom and liberation is laughable 😂😂
I agree. Dude doesn't have any time to sleep. So wild. Why is she defending him and undermining her mom in her mom's house? Now she can go too just leave the kids. So crazy. He's a bum and she chose a bum smh love/attraction is great but gotta add in logic also.
Man I couldn’t wait to hear their take on the coach of the Celtics situation and smuv is loud and wrong again dominating the convo with nonsense. Talking like he was in the room or read the report. If MBarnes corrected what he said why smuv acting like he know the details.
there has been a over correction..80% of these men have nothing to do with all these baby mommas out here..
with tinder and IG average women are dealing dealing with upper tear dudes and there completely ignoring the average guy
Low key I be rooting for my boys. Like yes mess they life up so when they want a good man I can be like naw be I don’t deal in damage goods. I’ll hit it though.
Average guys gotta step it up as much as they can. Survival of the fittest is here to stay
But what’s average? And when are the average men ready to be more and level the F’ up … at 80😂😂
@@blkyogi999 most of the human population is average and will always be average. If you are average looking, make average money, and live a average lifestyle which most of us live(I know it seems everybody be balling on the internet) then that person is average. And there is nothing wrong with that average people is what make society function smoothly. Everybody can’t and won’t be super successful and living lavish lifestyles
In my opinion on the first topic. Fellas just look at your own positions then tell me men like you and me dropped the ball! No not at all! That same small group of OG Fboys from back in the day is the same group of Fboys doing what they do today. Remember bad news spread 10times than good. The reason you see more dudes married than women is because of technology and how information is manipulated today.
I'm 40 minutes and I understand you guys put a huge amount of accountability on men as far as leadership, I get that. However, you guys are leaving out the number one component and that is, women fought to do and have the opportunity to do everything that they are doing now. In my opinion you had a surplus of men back in the day particularly in the black American community that were okay being a clean up man but that is rapidly changing. And that's not black men fault. You cannot lead a person who refuses to be led.
Dads in the house but women still weren’t parented properly neither were boys
no
No Kanye didn’t. There is a Man with a shoe company independent supported by the people and he makes some of the best shoes called S.I.A. Some of the best shoes I’ve bought better than any 400 dollar year or J. Kanye had the name all he needed was smart people around him and he could of did it by himself. He took the quick check. I don’t feel bad for him. All his connections and all the money he had.
Proud of blk man speaking really
Your spirit as a man! You need to be on your grind and he got 3 kids?!! 🤦🏿♂️ this is what we’re talking about when we say women would rather date mookie and peewee than a good (boring) man lmao