I could definitely see this coming, while Utah may be the place you and Parker grew up, I could sense from previous vlogs that it may not be the best culture for your girls. While my opinion doesn’t matter at all, I’m proud of you! Walking away from something you’ve financially invested in for the last 3 years takes a lot of guts. You are doing amazing♥️
You were saying you don’t know what to film now, but this “aspyn only” vlog brings me back to when I was in high school/college when you did night routines, get ready videos like this etc. We’d love to see those again! Bring back “old” youtube style💖
It would be so full circle to see you living in California. I remember you living with Claudia and leaving quickly because California wasn’t for you. It’s crazy how much we change and grow over the years ❤
i personally really like this style of content. as a mom, i like seeing how your life has changed and how you’re still finding time for yourself and friends🫶🏾 and not that my opinion matters, but I completely respect your decision to keep your kids off camera, the internet is weird.
honestly what a beautiful thing to be able to change your mind and know you made the right choice. three years can change things. good luck with whatever is next for you guys, I’m sure it’ll be great!
You looked so at home in California. It’s so true that after 3 years your lifestyle and desire to live somewhere could change - so glad you guys were able to pivot and sell the house.
I had a feeling once you stayed in California for a long time the house was going to be let go. It’s no longer your dream house and you lead with your heart. That’s lovely. I’m excited to see where you guys end up and hoping it’s California. You guys would fit right in.
aspyn is one of the very very few influences in my sphere that make me consider having kids... she shows that you can be an amazing mom without your entire life being only about being a mom. you can still go on vacations (that aren't 100% kid-centric), go out with your friends, have an identity outside of motherhood. everyone i know that has kids only talks about their kids and only does stuff if its for their kids and it makes me really question if i could do it lol.
im glad you guys made the difficult decision to sell it! it's nice to see how you recognize your thoughts at 24 are different from where you are now in life! Also I would have loved to see the finished house since you guys put so much time and thought into designing it. I wanted to see how your vision came to be for that house. if you feel comfortable sharing it, i would love to see any photos or clips you have of the house!
I’ve been watching you since I was 10, I’m 23 now and I just am so proud of you!! I think taking a huge jump and selling the house is what’s best for you guys!! I miss the girlies but keep them safe and off the internet!!
Aspyn always said she’d never move unless her mom and sister/fam did too… now that avrey is happy in LA and she and sascha have spent more time there, I’ve seen this change coming!!! Excited to see where u go next!
I am so happy for you and your family Aspyn! It’s felt like you haven’t been 100% sure about this new house, so I am glad you guys were given that extra time to think through what you really want! I love seeing people make decisions that work best for them
I am so glad your following your heart as far as the property goes. Could feel you were enjoying the lifestyle where you were. Have totally missed you guys so much!!
Did you film a house tour or pics tho it would be cool to see how it turned out since we saw the process!! I feel like y’all definitely picked the best decision for your family ❤
This makes so much sense and I could feel this coming. I think it’ll be great for your mental health to change it up and be in a place that aligns with what you love more. I made a move like that 3 years ago and I’m literally in love with where I am.
I grew up watching and I never actually stoped watching you, but now I’m realizing how much you’ve grown all these years, and I’m really happy you’re still doing youtube because you’re definitely one of my favorite and because I think it’s something you genuinely enjoy xoxo
i loved this video! cant wait to see more vids of you doing your own thing and hanging out w your besties! i think this vlog showcased more of what we all would love to see when youre ready to vlog again.
I haven’t really watched your videos in the past months, I’ve been busier with work and also didn’t relate to your content that much anymore.. now I am tuning in again and it feels like you’ve grown a lot in the past year ❤️ can’t wait to see what’s coming for you and your family in the future.
It's a wonderful thing to be able to change your mind on things that don't feel right anymore. So glad you guys could find a buyer for the new home. How do you like your Dyson air wrap? Which Stanley bottle is that? So pretty!
So crazy because we are in the same boat - building in a new location and slightly regretting it. Gives me the courage to step outside our comfort zone and make the best decision for our family.
I think it would be cool if you guys did a video about your financial management if you felt comfortable. Congrats on paying off your house, that’s amazing! A lot of people who make a lot of money don’t make good use of it and it’s inspiring to see.
I’m sad we never got to see the finished product of the new house but I’m happy for you, Parker and the girls ! You guys are doing what you guys think is best for you and your girls. Aspyn saying she would never move unless her sister/family moved but now she changed her mind. Happy for you guys
I love just watching u do things that’s always the reason I watched u cus it’s so satisfying watching ur day in a life videos and watch u do ur daily stuff
I felt this coming after your first trip to california! You guys just seemed so much lighter and happier in CA. Also with how the Mormon culture in utah didn’t align with how you wanted to raise the girls. So exciting for the future! ❤
I was just catching up with the other videos when i saw this one posted lol! I think ots suh a gret idea to limit the girls online, and I'm happy youre doing what you need. I started wathing you around the time you found out you were pregnant with Cove, and I had just found out I was after something really awful. I was alone, sick and just having an awful time. Your videos around that time helped me a lot, and it's nice seeing what y'all are deciding. It seems like y'all are in life for a lot of big changes. I definitely miss the vlogs and seeing everyone because it's helped me a lot, but seeing life changing for y'all also helps me realize change is good too. Excited to see what else comes up!
Personally not shocked , honestly the longer it took to build the less excited you seemed about it . Miss parker on the vlogs hope he can post some On his own page soon !
I understand that you don't want to share the girls. I only share my kids on my private instagram with only approved friends and family. And for the house, i think its great that you guys followed your gut feeling and did what was gonna be the best for your family!
honestly, i think this is a great investment decision. sold a beautiful home for, im sure, a gorgeous amount of money. 😂 the current home they live in is paid off, no mortgage. therefore they can take that money and buy a house else where if they want. 🤷🏾♀️ then they can rent out their current home while they’re away, and the house itself will bring in so much more money. 🤑 a great investment to me. 🤩
so happy ur happy with your decision, but we would love to see if possible how the house turned out! Any photos or videos! I personally was looking forward to it so much🥺 kisses from argentina
Luv you Aspyn and your family! I’ve watched you consistently for years. Wanna add that it is totally ok to plan some time to get a nanny so that you and Parker can film a video! Viewers would love it and I know plenty of content creators that do the same thing. I mean it’s your job and people hire nanny’s while they’re working so it makes perfect sense :) ok that’s all I had
Proud of you for making that decision! I could tell from this video that you are happy with the choice and that's what matters. Now you have freedom for so many opportunities. Happy for you guys
My parents bought my childhood house the year before I was born in the same town my dad grew up in and my mum spent time in as a child. When I was eleven, they made the decision to sell the house and move across the country because they decided the town wasn’t where they wanted to raise my sister and I simply for the atmosphere and the values around us. When they made that decision, it was big and scary and something they thought about a lot, but we’ve been in the new state ten years this year and it’s probably the best thing they ever did! The decisions they made in their early twenties (my dad was 22, my mum 25) were perfect for the time, but when my sister and I got older they made the decision to move for us. It was the best thing they could have ever done
As someone who doesn’t show their kids on social media. I LOVE when people do the same, it’s not that serious and it’s not safe at all so why continue to look past and do it? Love this
Do you not share even with family or friends? I'm curious as to why you made that decision? I've been thinking of doing the same but I only have close people in my platforms.
I am so happy you are taking the kids offline. I have seen a bunch of creators do this in different ways. Some take 100% off some don't show their faces but still show little clips of them in the background so I support you guys for doing this too! Lets protect these children!
Good for you! Even though you won’t be living there, if you have any footage, I would love to see what some of your design choices looked like when they came to life. 👀
I grew up in Utah, husband grew up in Southern California and we both lived in Northern California for school and moved back to Utah after graduation. That was a mistake! 😅 As soon we have the chance we're moving back to Nor Cal for sure!
aspyn! can you please do a hair care routine? It seems like you were able to grow your hair so quickly & it looks so so healthy!! im currently struggling with my hair & would love some help 💛
I really liked this content! I have kids myself, but I like being able to sit down at the end of the day and see another momma do solo things! Don’t care for when moms have a camera in their kids face, I like watching for you, not for the kiddos! So great decision! ☺️
Do you still have any videos of what it would be? Following along with some of your design choices, it would be nice to see the almost final product even if your not living there!?
I’m not sure if you reviewed somewhere else but is that the oura ring? Can you review it? I want to invest in it but I’ve seen such mixed reviews. Happy you’re doing what is best for you all!
Waow. I haven’t watch your channel since you made Lola. My god how time has changed. I use to watch your content religiously years back, but I’ll be honest, since you became a mom of 2 I just couldn’t relate anymore. 😞😞 I’ve missed y’all a lot. Hearing your laugh just brings back a lot of memories too. Hope u guys are good! ❤
You dont need to explain, If someone wants to know more about buying a house they can look somewhere else. I personally have never seen a video where things didn’t work out with a buyer/builder/seller so I would definitely gain a lot of knowledge from a couple who has a family and changes their mind due to whatever circumstances. Please share. Even if you ended up in middle of nowhere Oklahoma on a farm, I’d be like dang I didn’t take aspyn as a farmer but I’m finna watch this.
I’m glad y’all are happy and that you’re doing what’s best for your family but dang it’s so hard to relate to any influencers nowadays. RUclips seems like such a bunch of “celebrities” now, I hope one day influencers and content becomes relatable again.
If you bought a house in California, do you think you'd keep your other 2 houses? I feel like that would be best. I lived in Southern California for 5.5 years and it's amazing in many ways but not so great in others. It can be very hectic and stressful at times.
I agree. I live in Southern California (Inland Empire - Menifee) and we have been so back and fourth if we want to stay in California. We have both lived here our whole lives
For tax reasons alone, it would be worth it for them to keep at least one of the UT properties as their primary residence. CA property taxes aren’t that high (percentage wise) BUT the property values are high which leads to high property tax payments. Like .7% ain’t too shabby until it’s .7% of $1.5 million lol
The title alone has me shook
I could definitely see this coming, while Utah may be the place you and Parker grew up, I could sense from previous vlogs that it may not be the best culture for your girls. While my opinion doesn’t matter at all, I’m proud of you! Walking away from something you’ve financially invested in for the last 3 years takes a lot of guts. You are doing amazing♥️
This reminds me of when you left LA and said, “life is too short to be anything but happy.” Way to follow your heart!!!
I was JUST going to say that!! I love how aspyn has always always followed her heart
You were saying you don’t know what to film now, but this “aspyn only” vlog brings me back to when I was in high school/college when you did night routines, get ready videos like this etc. We’d love to see those again! Bring back “old” youtube style💖
The hair is so flattering on your skin!!! It’s natural but with a pop of lightness! Love it
It would be so full circle to see you living in California. I remember you living with Claudia and leaving quickly because California wasn’t for you. It’s crazy how much we change and grow over the years ❤
i personally really like this style of content. as a mom, i like seeing how your life has changed and how you’re still finding time for yourself and friends🫶🏾 and not that my opinion matters, but I completely respect your decision to keep your kids off camera, the internet is weird.
honestly what a beautiful thing to be able to change your mind and know you made the right choice. three years can change things. good luck with whatever is next for you guys, I’m sure it’ll be great!
You looked so at home in California. It’s so true that after 3 years your lifestyle and desire to live somewhere could change - so glad you guys were able to pivot and sell the house.
I'm sad to not see the finished new house, but I'm super excited to see what the future hold for you guys!!
I had a feeling once you stayed in California for a long time the house was going to be let go. It’s no longer your dream house and you lead with your heart. That’s lovely. I’m excited to see where you guys end up and hoping it’s California. You guys would fit right in.
I love 27 year old Aspyn! Move to a beautiful city- it’s worth it!
I am so proud of you guys for making that difficult decision. This has to make you feel so free for new opportunities
aspyn is one of the very very few influences in my sphere that make me consider having kids... she shows that you can be an amazing mom without your entire life being only about being a mom. you can still go on vacations (that aren't 100% kid-centric), go out with your friends, have an identity outside of motherhood. everyone i know that has kids only talks about their kids and only does stuff if its for their kids and it makes me really question if i could do it lol.
I actually really like this style of blogs. Feels like you’re hanging out with a friend. Thank you for finding the time to film and post!
im glad you guys made the difficult decision to sell it! it's nice to see how you recognize your thoughts at 24 are different from where you are now in life! Also I would have loved to see the finished house since you guys put so much time and thought into designing it. I wanted to see how your vision came to be for that house. if you feel comfortable sharing it, i would love to see any photos or clips you have of the house!
aspyn, i swear you're getting more and more beautiful as time goes by. your hair compliments your facial features so well! you look stunning!
Loved this! Loved the chatty update, and am here to support you as you figure out what kind of content to create!
I’ve been watching you since I was 10, I’m 23 now and I just am so proud of you!! I think taking a huge jump and selling the house is what’s best for you guys!! I miss the girlies but keep them safe and off the internet!!
The fact that a house she built less than 10 years ago is paid off and definitely was not on the budget end is insane. Great. But insane
Aspyn always said she’d never move unless her mom and sister/fam did too… now that avrey is happy in LA and she and sascha have spent more time there, I’ve seen this change coming!!! Excited to see where u go next!
I’m sad we never got to see the finished product but I’m so happy for you and Parker to have the chance for new opportunities 🙌🏻
I am so happy for you and your family Aspyn! It’s felt like you haven’t been 100% sure about this new house, so I am glad you guys were given that extra time to think through what you really want! I love seeing people make decisions that work best for them
I am so glad your following your heart as far as the property goes. Could feel you were enjoying the lifestyle where you were. Have totally missed you guys so much!!
You could tell in your other videos long ago that your gut was telling you no on the house. Following your gut is always the best answer! ❤
Did you film a house tour or pics tho it would be cool to see how it turned out since we saw the process!! I feel like y’all definitely picked the best decision for your family ❤
Everything happens for a reason!! Congrats on the sale and best of luck for your future house plans!!! ❤
This makes so much sense and I could feel this coming. I think it’ll be great for your mental health to change it up and be in a place that aligns with what you love more. I made a move like that 3 years ago and I’m literally in love with where I am.
I grew up watching and I never actually stoped watching you, but now I’m realizing how much you’ve grown all these years, and I’m really happy you’re still doing youtube because you’re definitely one of my favorite and because I think it’s something you genuinely enjoy xoxo
i loved this video! cant wait to see more vids of you doing your own thing and hanging out w your besties! i think this vlog showcased more of what we all would love to see when youre ready to vlog again.
I haven’t really watched your videos in the past months, I’ve been busier with work and also didn’t relate to your content that much anymore.. now I am tuning in again and it feels like you’ve grown a lot in the past year ❤️ can’t wait to see what’s coming for you and your family in the future.
It's a wonderful thing to be able to change your mind on things that don't feel right anymore. So glad you guys could find a buyer for the new home.
How do you like your Dyson air wrap? Which Stanley bottle is that? So pretty!
Loving your outfit so much right now. I'm so happy watching your vlogs. I've been watching since the build of your first house.
So crazy because we are in the same boat - building in a new location and slightly regretting it. Gives me the courage to step outside our comfort zone and make the best decision for our family.
I think it would be cool if you guys did a video about your financial management if you felt comfortable. Congrats on paying off your house, that’s amazing! A lot of people who make a lot of money don’t make good use of it and it’s inspiring to see.
I’m sad we never got to see the finished product of the new house but I’m happy for you, Parker and the girls ! You guys are doing what you guys think is best for you and your girls. Aspyn saying she would never move unless her sister/family moved but now she changed her mind. Happy for you guys
Loving your new content Aspyn!!❤
I love just watching u do things that’s always the reason I watched u cus it’s so satisfying watching ur day in a life videos and watch u do ur daily stuff
I felt this coming after your first trip to california! You guys just seemed so much lighter and happier in CA. Also with how the Mormon culture in utah didn’t align with how you wanted to raise the girls.
So exciting for the future! ❤
I was just catching up with the other videos when i saw this one posted lol! I think ots suh a gret idea to limit the girls online, and I'm happy youre doing what you need. I started wathing you around the time you found out you were pregnant with Cove, and I had just found out I was after something really awful. I was alone, sick and just having an awful time. Your videos around that time helped me a lot, and it's nice seeing what y'all are deciding. It seems like y'all are in life for a lot of big changes. I definitely miss the vlogs and seeing everyone because it's helped me a lot, but seeing life changing for y'all also helps me realize change is good too. Excited to see what else comes up!
Personally not shocked , honestly the longer it took to build the less excited you seemed about it . Miss parker on the vlogs hope he can post some
On his own page soon !
I know you said you don’t know what to film, but these vlogs are so enjoyable! It makes me feel so connected to you, it feels real and authentic!
I'm super happy for you. Ever since going to CA for lengths of time, I always thought you wouldn't be happy in that house.
Really had a feeling! Good for you for going with your gut, exactly not that deep just a house!
im excited for this new journey of yours; exploring different possible areas to live in. it'll be fun to watch
I understand that you don't want to share the girls. I only share my kids on my private instagram with only approved friends and family. And for the house, i think its great that you guys followed your gut feeling and did what was gonna be the best for your family!
honestly, i think this is a great investment decision.
sold a beautiful home for, im sure, a gorgeous amount of money. 😂
the current home they live in is paid off, no mortgage. therefore they can take that money and buy a house else where if they want. 🤷🏾♀️
then they can rent out their current home while they’re away, and the house itself will bring in so much more money. 🤑
a great investment to me. 🤩
so happy ur happy with your decision, but we would love to see if possible how the house turned out! Any photos or videos! I personally was looking forward to it so much🥺 kisses from argentina
Luv you Aspyn and your family! I’ve watched you consistently for years. Wanna add that it is totally ok to plan some time to get a nanny so that you and Parker can film a video! Viewers would love it and I know plenty of content creators that do the same thing. I mean it’s your job and people hire nanny’s while they’re working so it makes perfect sense :) ok that’s all I had
Proud of you for making that decision! I could tell from this video that you are happy with the choice and that's what matters. Now you have freedom for so many opportunities. Happy for you guys
Miss your vlogs so much, loved this one!! :)
My parents bought my childhood house the year before I was born in the same town my dad grew up in and my mum spent time in as a child. When I was eleven, they made the decision to sell the house and move across the country because they decided the town wasn’t where they wanted to raise my sister and I simply for the atmosphere and the values around us. When they made that decision, it was big and scary and something they thought about a lot, but we’ve been in the new state ten years this year and it’s probably the best thing they ever did! The decisions they made in their early twenties (my dad was 22, my mum 25) were perfect for the time, but when my sister and I got older they made the decision to move for us. It was the best thing they could have ever done
Aspyn that HAIR!!!!
Definitely see you guys in Cali!
I am totally nosy, but i loved your tile choices and would have loved to see it installed!
Sending you all so much good vibes! I thought you were going to CA
As someone who doesn’t show their kids on social media. I LOVE when people do the same, it’s not that serious and it’s not safe at all so why continue to look past and do it? Love this
Do you not share even with family or friends? I'm curious as to why you made that decision? I've been thinking of doing the same but I only have close people in my platforms.
Excited to see what is next for you and your family! ❤
I am so happy you are taking the kids offline. I have seen a bunch of creators do this in different ways. Some take 100% off some don't show their faces but still show little clips of them in the background so I support you guys for doing this too! Lets protect these children!
Good for you! Even though you won’t be living there, if you have any footage, I would love to see what some of your design choices looked like when they came to life. 👀
i miss your vlogs sm omgg
loved this video!!!!! missed you! 🥰
I grew up in Utah, husband grew up in Southern California and we both lived in Northern California for school and moved back to Utah after graduation. That was a mistake! 😅 As soon we have the chance we're moving back to Nor Cal for sure!
You and Lauren are such cute besties!
so happy for you guys ❤
aspyn! can you please do a hair care routine? It seems like you were able to grow your hair so quickly & it looks so so healthy!! im currently struggling with my hair & would love some help 💛
I was really looking forward to the house tour 😂 it looked like it was going to have everything
I just read the title and I felt that coming!
I really liked this content! I have kids myself, but I like being able to sit down at the end of the day and see another momma do solo things! Don’t care for when moms have a camera in their kids face, I like watching for you, not for the kiddos! So great decision! ☺️
Love this video ! You see your getting your groove ❤
I’m loving the vibe of this vlog
try mixing the seasoning with breadcrumbs on tofu and air fry!!!! so good ❤
This hair color on you is perfect!!
Do you still have any videos of what it would be? Following along with some of your design choices, it would be nice to see the almost final product even if your not living there!?
just a heads up since you have mentioned you're not big on caffeine- the refreshers have caffeine!
love the vlog tho!
I knew it! Had a feeling you were changing your thoughts on what you wanted
California Aspyn era ✨
Did she ever show the house? I'm really curious and want to see it and "the view" she's talking about!
Look at you! So proud. Keep those babies safe.
*i love the “less perfect” editing style in the beginning where you keep the background noise in and the bag of frozen fruit falls over lol* 🫶🏾
I’m not sure if you reviewed somewhere else but is that the oura ring? Can you review it? I want to invest in it but I’ve seen such mixed reviews. Happy you’re doing what is best for you all!
I love the hair it’s definitely different in a good way!
Waow. I haven’t watch your channel since you made Lola. My god how time has changed. I use to watch your content religiously years back, but I’ll be honest, since you became a mom of 2 I just couldn’t relate anymore. 😞😞 I’ve missed y’all a lot. Hearing your laugh just brings back a lot of memories too. Hope u guys are good! ❤
Lauren is very sweet. I hope I have a bestie girl like her. Anyway, happy to see you Aspyn, oh I miss thr girls 💓💕 Love love
When maturity hits you, silence is better than arguing.
Did you record a walkthrough of it before selling it? If so, can we see it???
Definitely travel some Cali is nice but maybe you will find some place cheaper that you love just as much
So nice to get a notification from you guys 🤍
You dont need to explain, If someone wants to know more about buying a house they can look somewhere else. I personally have never seen a video where things didn’t work out with a buyer/builder/seller so I would definitely gain a lot of knowledge from a couple who has a family and changes their mind due to whatever circumstances. Please share. Even if you ended up in middle of nowhere Oklahoma on a farm, I’d be like dang I didn’t take aspyn as a farmer but I’m finna watch this.
Can you do a hair tutorial of the hair you are wearing at 13:55? It is sooo pretty!!
I’m glad y’all are happy and that you’re doing what’s best for your family but dang it’s so hard to relate to any influencers nowadays. RUclips seems like such a bunch of “celebrities” now, I hope one day influencers and content becomes relatable again.
The darker hair looks so much better with your skin tone!! Glowing
We need more taste tests 😂 I want to try some of those now!
i think its such a good idea you guys are choosing not to share your kids! much respect!
What was the place you went to eat at? Looks super good.
You can always blur the girls faces out to help vlog like “normal”. Happy for you guys for finding what makes you happiest!
Obviously I understand why you couldn't film the house but I'm so sad we didn't get to see the finished product 😭
If you bought a house in California, do you think you'd keep your other 2 houses? I feel like that would be best. I lived in Southern California for 5.5 years and it's amazing in many ways but not so great in others. It can be very hectic and stressful at times.
I agree. I live in Southern California (Inland Empire - Menifee) and we have been so back and fourth if we want to stay in California. We have both lived here our whole lives
For tax reasons alone, it would be worth it for them to keep at least one of the UT properties as their primary residence. CA property taxes aren’t that high (percentage wise) BUT the property values are high which leads to high property tax payments. Like .7% ain’t too shabby until it’s .7% of $1.5 million lol
WE WILL LOVE YOU NO MATTER WHAT!