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Flylady Refresher Course! (Part Five: self care)
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- Опубликовано: 6 сен 2018
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Watching any of your videos gives me the feeling that there is someone who cares about what I am doing. You do not know me but you are the one who is able to motivate me to do whatever needs to be done. And if there are only ten minutes I declutter my horrible basement I hear your voice ‚it doesn‘t need to be perfect.‘ And so I do what I can do and then leave this place until the next day. I have never been this successful in my life doing the housekeeping. Great thanks for your videos. Hugs from Germany!!!
You hit the nail on the head! I feel the same as you.
you are NOT the only one hearing her voice cheering us up! hahahahaha
Amen to that. Diane has helped me so much. I love to hear her accent and when she talks, it is from the heart. Plus, she speaks words of encouragement, common sense, empathy, and wisdom. :D
I feel the same way!!!
Big hugs back to you, Nicole!!!!
Diane, you always lift my spirits. I'm struggling with personal/family issues.😣
Going for a long walk and listening to you has helped defuse my anger and disappointment. A new perspective......thank you.🥰
I love how the Flylady system makes breaks essential, so I don't get burnt out! Yesterday I gathered up my bag of nail tools and polish and painted my toes while I watched my favorite show Star Trek Voyager.
Sounds like a great pamper! LLAP!
Diane, I adore you and your geeky ways! You are a woman after my own heart regarding the gaming. I'm not so much one for co-op stuff, but yeah... Give me some Fallout or Skyrim and I'm a happy lady. I also love to sit in our summerhouse in the afternoon and do a bit of reading or just sit and watch the birds. Your analogy about the pressure cooker is so spot on and this was very starkly brought to my attention when my high-functioning autistic 16 year old son had a melt down. He bluntly told me how incredibly stressful it was for him being around me because the smallest things would set me off. I felt so guilty and sad that I made him and the rest of my family feel that way! This is where the FlyLady system has made such a huge change in my home. I was so overwhelmed by my perfectionism that I would bury my head in the sand and not do anything at all and would justify it to myself as saying that I was doing 'self care' (ha!) and then punish my family because of my frustration at the state of our home. I'm still in the baby step stage, but the routines and using my timer and getting things done has already made such a huge impact on me! When I do my routines, a daily mission and 15 minutes of decluttering I then feel entitled to take a break and to have some fun! I am so much more relaxed and the guilt is gone! The atmosphere in my home is so much happier and I feel so proud of what I can accomplish in a day in just a few minutes at a time! Thank you so much for sharing your time and your life with us and encouraging us!
Gosh, your DS16 is very insightful, Mandy - how great is it that you have turned things around for not just you, but the whole family. Hugs and a pom pom salute for you! 🎉🎉🎉
You've got such great style Diane! You are such a blessing to us all!
Thanks for the weeks refresher course. Everyone is back at school or work so the house has settled down after the summer break. If I need a little quiet moment I put my timer on for 10 minutes lie very still and try to empty my head of any thoughts, take lovely deep breaths every now and again. As soon as the timer goes off I go about stuff again feeling a little refreshed. I am retired so the house is usually quiet and I am able to do this.
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That sounds like bliss Laura! I've a busy house with young kids and really appreciate any moments of silence I get. I know I will miss these busy days when they're gone, but my goodness, it's a whirlwind!
Thanks for your comment. I am 68 and a retired teacher. I have a few minor health issues which make me tire easily. Make the most of your busy house and young kids. x
+Laura Davison Thanks Laura, a good reminder. Have a lovely week 😄
5 years on watching this while you are ice swimming. It is sunday morning mothers day raining cats and dogs... I made my self a self care lucky dip jar. And wrote one of my friends abroad a real letter. It is a habit i lost bit restarted on January. Connect to true friends ❤❤❤
Thank you, this series has been great .As a single person I spend a lot of time watching tv shows but I love the tips for other pamper ideas
what I need to do is set a timer so u don't spend all day pampering myself .
Great to hear, Heather - hope all is well your end!
You may not be looking at comments from this video anymore, but I just wanted to let you know that I think you are a great cheerleader! Your videos are marvelous and very caring and loving, which is what procrastinators/perfectionists really need. Thanks for all you do, keep it up. you are really helping us! From Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, USA
Thank you very much!!!
Nagging the family 😂 you always know our problems Diane! Watching this 5 years on. My pressure cooker exploded on Friday. Thank you for this video ❤
I have started practicing watercolor painting for my self care. It has brought much joy! And sometimes layers of color need to dry, so it’s so easy to do a little and walk away until the next chance to pop in again! Perfect for brief refreshing moments. Thanks Diane for cheering us on!
Its a bit bonkers but sometimes I crave the music of my youth so to combat a low energy afternoon I will find the party mix on the tv and I can dance and reminisce (80’s hairstyles) and get moving long enough to shake out the blahs! If my kids are around sometimes they join in and it’s smiles all round.. Silly free calorie burning and fun.
Yeeeeeeeees, to the music!
That’s how I get through my WHBH put on 80’s cardio dance, sing and get a great workout and when I’m done I have a nice presentable home win-win
So excited had to share, well in fact just wanted to. Okay, so been telling my gals all about Diane in Denmark and how you skinny dip year round, how you cheer me on with routines, how I love your outfits, well you get the picture I talk about your channel. Our AZ friends are visiting Iowa for our sons wedding
They are staying with us a couple of nights and what does she walk in the door with? Two beautiful tea towels. My gals are hearing me!! What joy. If only I knew how to post a picture on Instagram. No matter thanks for the great idea, who would have thought anyone could be so excited about doing dishes & a tidy clean sink
Rah rah rah . Thank you Diane & C & R.😉
Yay, what a great gift, Lisa!!!
Diane, you are so joyful to watch. I haven't done flylady (as matter of fact I naturally do a lot of what you talk about) but I enjoy listening to your videos as I take some "self care" time in the evenings.
Happy Weekend to you and all of who follow you! Love your videos and I love all the comments - the ladies here make sweet comments which I really find uplifting- thanks to you for creating the atmosphere. Thanks for sharing your fav authors; just finished an A D Scott mystery. ❤️ Love Jeeves! Some of my favs: Debbie Macomber, Jan Karon, and Joanne Fluke.
Thanks for the recommendations!
I love your energy
Thank you once again for this refresher course!
Reading and knitting is always my first choise for pampertime! I also have two colouringbooks for adults - and I love them!!!!
Thank you so much for your videos. I had start as a fly baby 2007 and been flying on and off since then. More off then on. I have been struggling the last several months again trying to get focus again. Thanks to your motivation I have started to get things done. I listen to your videos and then I get up and do something. I also have your videos playing when I am up doing what I need to do. Hot spots are disappearing. Sink has been clean every night before going to bed.
I love to put on Mary Poppins or Sound of Music and sing along - even as I clean. I love the old musicals. A newer one, the Greatest Showman, also had great music to get me going.
Thanks Diane. Sunning my laundry while listening to you. Cleaning my kitchen too. In Singapore we have lots of sun.
Digging in the dirt in my flower beds take me away to that ZEN place!
Also a meditation for me is listening to the song by the Avett Brothers: "No Hard Feelings". Very life affirming lyrics. These brothers are so positive - and from a small town in my state of N.C. about 70 miles from me. ❤
Avett Brothers No Hard Feelings. ruclips.net/video/aaU2HvRhCPw/видео.html
KD Hovis
You have a way of encouraging me to do what I was planning to postpone. Off to do my Friday mission. Thanks Diane.
Planning to postpone?! Lol! Don't give me ideas!! 🙂
I can't help but feel lazy if I rest and relax while I'm surrounded by chaotic clutter. It is hard to relax anyway with that mess. But now I have tackled a lot of messes and am starting to "fly" a little so I think I can take it easy more.
Still new, and I have to admit, I feel a little guilty about breaks of fun. This is ridiculous, as I'm accomplishing SO much more now. I think I felt I didn't "deserve" it, as I have a lot to catch up on. Your talk makes so much sense though, so going to try to put in some little relaxing breaks!
I love the videos.Next week jjust 5 minutes?I can not have enough of your wisdom and encouragement.I feel better in my home and skin since I have applied some of your suggestions.thank you!
Ha ha! If you need more than 5 minutes I have very extensive back catalogue of videos 😉😆
Self care has been a struggle for me too, but I am slowly seeing that it is necessary. If we can't love ourselves enough to have some pamper time, even if for 5-15 minutes, we cannot fully love our families as they deserve :) On that note, I am trading in some nail varnish for a DYT2 shade today and telling myself it is okay to think of me sometimes
Thank you! Loved this series 😊 Other ideas could be a simple sewing project like English paper piecing that you can keep in a wee bag, sketching for 10 minutes... I remember once you challenged us (think it was the 31 babysteps) to sit for 5 minutes and do nothing, just enjoy the moment. Looking forward to next week 😃 x x x
Oooo, yes, paper piercing...that was such a fun thing, must go and take another look! Thanks, Kathelle!
@@DianeinDenmark You're welcome 😊 x x x
Kathelle MacLeod I love anything sewing and quilting and I have an English Paper Piecing project that I’ve had going for a year now. I love it and I’ve not set a specific time to have it done I just work on it when I feel like it and it’s sooooo relaxing to me
I just started retreading PG Woodhouse yesterday. It lifts me up.😀👍
Thank you Diane for the refresher courses , you help me so much. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. Two things I am taking away from these videos is the using the timer and implementing the Daily Focus and I will let you know how that works out for me. I struggle with the menu planning and paying the bills on time. I would love it if you could do a refresher course on the GTD system. Meanwhile I will revamp my WHB to fit into 70 minutes and I think I added too much stuff to my Routines. Pampering...I do that very well. LOL. I just need a timer to put a STOP to it! LOL. My accomplishments so far has been to SOS and LOL. That feels really good. I use to keep medicines and napkins and silverware caddy and seasonings on my kitchen table; where we eat our meals. I moved everything to the counters and along with SOS numerous times per day I also wipe down that table and whenever I pass the clear clean sink and table I feel terrific. Thanks to the Flylady system and the girl who took my hand and showed me how to use it. Thank you Diane. I couldn't of done it without your help.
Yay, I love hearing how you have made this fit your family and are seeing the benefits! Pom pom salute for you, Sam! 🎉🎉🎉
Diane another wonderful visit with you I love when you sit down and talk to us. I love your choice of books but it makes me laugh that you love murder mysteries and when you said the Italian authors books have lots of dead bodies I really LOL and not load of laundry. You are so bright and sunny it is so opposite of you to like the genre and that I think is so awesome about you. I hope you will do the getting ready for Christmas countdown that you said you did last year It sounds so fun Christmas is my favorite time of year. Happy weekend to you
Been struggling with the Dressing your truth last week, cannot determine what my type is! Hope that it will be clear to me soon! 😊 love your hair at the moment!
I like all of those films! I also love watching comedy on RUclips. As for books, i am currently reading all off David Mark 'a DS Aector McAvoy books, crime thrillers set in my city. I can also recommend the Logan McBride novels, but I can't remember the author! And for laughs, you can't beat Bill Bryson; notes from a small island still makes me laugh till i have headache!! Lots of love.xx
I have loved your Refresher Course! Thank you so much. you are an inspiration and your tips are really helpful. Well done. Much appreciated!
I love watching your videos at work, although the most annoying thing is I can get really inspired, but not be able to do anything about it! I tried Flylady a good 10 years ago as a SAHM, but it never worked (I'm not a routines person: timetables leave me cold) However, ever since this January I have been determined to get my house in a fit and tidy state. I do my Weekly Homeblessing Hour on a Saturday, because that's when my parents come for a meal, and have done for a while. Last week, I realised that the Living room and Dining room was done much quicker because I've actually decluttered and clean little and often, so I had time to do something else. I really think I can use the basics of Flylady and change them to suit my needs and this time my house will stay clean and tidy.
Every Sunday eve I get chinese food & watch Father Brown 😀 my routine ❤
Now that is a brilliant routine, Linda!!!
Diane I would not be able to function without my pamper time- it's what motivates me to get my routines done!🤓 You're so right- it's not going to spa or salon.... Just thirty minutes of quiet without hearing "Mom! Mom! Hey Moooom!!" is blissful and recharges my batteries. I have a question about your laundry- how long does it take your sheets and towels to air dry?? Also, do you celebrate Oktoberfest in Denmark? Or Halloween? Cheers to as I sip my last drop of coffee... Break time's over, thank you for the recharge!👌 (I love the Miss Read series- she is a hygge practicer too)
My sheets and towels dry overnight. Oktoberfest is a huge German thing but some Danes celebrate, of course. Any chance to have a beer! LOL! And Halloween is popular here too.
Love that necklace... and your videos!
And we always watch Wayne’s world as a family! Xx
Journaling, drawing, or combining those into an art journal. :) writing poetry. making a card or writing a card to a friend. a phone call to a friend. :D
I love watching you. You inspire me to do more by doing it more efficiently. By the way have you ever read any books by Janet Evanovich. Her Stephanie Plum Bounty Hunter series particularly the earlier books are really funny.
Hi Aimee, I like the Stephanie Plum series too
Love books that can make me laugh out loud. Stephanie and Lulus antics will do it.
@@sherrygraham8650 don't forget Sally Sweet and Grandma
I read the first one! Wasn't too keen on the movie version though...
The movie was disappointing. But the books are hystericsl
Four to Score is my favorite.
Loved this series thanks Diane! Looking forward to next week too. I loved the idea of taking a regular break like your mother taught you. This has NEVER occured to me would you believe!! I will decide on a couple of times during the day and really make sure to take these breaks. Thank you. My business and my life is home-based (homeschooling my kids and running a business) and it is so easy to just keep going all day long. I've managed to catch up on the huge laundry mountain in the last couple of days and I'm finished my work for the week, so am enjoying an hour off, watching some RUclips and about to read more of Mapp and Lucia. (I bet you watched the brilliant series on tv in the 80s? Geraldine McEwan??!) I read and reread the Lucia books by E.F. Benson (never got into Wodehouse) and love them all! Just one chapter is like balm to the soul. Thanks for the lovely suggestions. Have a lovely weekend. Niamh in Dublin
Loved Mapp and Lucia! Time for me to go and play Moonlight Sonata on the piano and look wistful?! 😄
+Diane in Denmark 😂 The only piece she ever plays!!
@Gradpush hi! I've written lots about the juggle of work/mothering /homeschooling on my blog www.themamashipblog.com, you can always email me if you have any more questions 😄
Looking forward to next week's "five minutes magic,"
I LOVE Mickey Blue Eyes!
"The La Trattoria" makes me cry with laughter!
Hi Diane, I've really enjoyed your refresher course. I share your taste in murder mysteries. Have you read Rhys Bowen - Her Royal Spyness series, set in the 1930s - they are so funny.
Yes, I have read those!
Diane, I'm new to your videos. I can't find your video of your beginnings. Is it titled something specific? I love all that I've watched. Thank you Sweet Lady. 🌹
Hi Connie! Here you hare... ruclips.net/video/WniXToVSo64/видео.html
Oooops I added my comment before you finished- that’ll teach me!!! 😂😂😂😂
Lol I do the same thing too.
Hello Diane. I am teaching myself to crochet. I am a private nanny and work in early learning centre for under 5 year olds and also have my own Candlemaking business. I see you love candles, I wish I lived near you to supply you with candles. Love your videos.
You look gorgeous in this color yellow
New to all this, but enjoying this refresher course which is actually an introduction course for me. What is a control journal?
It's basically a file folder where you can keep a note of your daily/weekly routines and other info about your home. ruclips.net/video/E0uSRJLkjIs/видео.html
Have you read Agatha Raisin by MC Beaton? They are lighthearted too! Xx
Lucie Gallagher ❤️Agatha Raisin is a hoot. Haven’t read any for awhile but will pick one up at the library on next visit.
I've read Agatha Raisin and Hamish McBeth but actually prefer the TV series! 😀
I LOVE Agatha! She is hilarious! I also like Alexander Mccall-Smith, especially his series the Number 1 Ladies Detective Agency.
Off the topic, but have you been to clothing swaps since you found your Type?
I'm going to our next Clothes Swap this week...can't wait! (I have a lot of decluttered things which are not my type...I mention it in my last DYT update video ruclips.net/video/Xr5cHyKgyZY/видео.html )