How To Tandem Breastfeed Twins

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  • Опубликовано: 8 фев 2025
  • The logistics of nursing two babies at the same time can be hard. Here's how I did it. We pretty much followed this system up until about eight months, at which point the babies had gotten so quick it was just as easy to do each of them separately. We successfully breastfed up to 13 months.

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  • @ShannonMichelle7937
    @ShannonMichelle7937 4 года назад +8

    I have 3 week old twin daughters 🥰 your strategy is great! Edit: Wow it just occurred to me that your babies are 4th graders by now. Thanks to all 3 of you for some super helpful content, it’s aged well!

  • @brandisac
    @brandisac 5 лет назад +5

    I used this video 7 years ago to learn how to tandem nurse my twins. My couch was nursing central for months. And I ended up tandem nursing them until 16 months. I still recommend your video to expectant twin moms. So even all these years later your video is helping other moms!

  • @leahtimmermann2708
    @leahtimmermann2708 8 лет назад +12

    I'm a Midwifery student who is about to help support a new mom with twins and I'm watching your video to help me learn. Well done!! :)

  • @357lhill
    @357lhill 3 года назад +2

    I just wanted to let you know (and to thank you) that I have shared your video with so many of my clients thru the years as I loved how you went over the set up and getting everything you needed ready first! I am a lactation consultant and was sharing this yet again today! So fun that your babies are almost 11 years old now! Thank you for sharing!

  • @kelmurandco
    @kelmurandco 13 лет назад

    I nursed my triplets with the same pillow (obviously one had to wait their turn though) and am now president for our local moms of multiples group. This video will be shared with every new expectant mom! Thank you for making this available!!!

  • @sheffys1
    @sheffys1 9 лет назад +1

    MY twins are now 2.2, and I had breastfed them till they were 1. From time to time I come back to your video when I see questions about tandem breastfeeding, and I share it, and move on. I just wanted to say that your video helped me a lot while I breastfed - I basically adopted your whole idea and setup. So thank you, and I hope all of you are healthy and happy!

  • @4vailbros
    @4vailbros 11 лет назад +16

    This was so helpful, thank you for posting! I am due in 3 months with twin boys and would love to try tandem nursing, but the logistics kind of scared me until I watched your video.

  • @Siahboy92
    @Siahboy92 13 лет назад

    I did the same thing with my twins and I nursed them for 13 months. My daughter did nurse a couple months longer than my son did. They are now about to turn 19 years old! Good job!

  • @NrsJessiekins
    @NrsJessiekins 9 лет назад +6

    I just want you to know how much this video helped us. I share it with all of my twin mom friends that need help. We are still nursing at 19mo and this video is one reason why. Thank you!

  • @monayashar
    @monayashar 11 лет назад

    I am really thankful for this video. When I was pregnant with my twins , I found this video. I couldn't find twins breastfeeding pillow in my country, so I decided to make the pillow myself. Now my twins are 1 year old, and I just started weaning them. This pillow was my best friend for almost 4 months of exclusive breastfeeding. After that, most of the times I breastfed them seperately. They are healthy boys and nobody could believe that I never used formula in one whole year.

  • @KOSchultz
    @KOSchultz 12 лет назад

    I think I watched this at least 5 times in the hospital, before I brought my girls home. Thank you so much; your system has made tandem feeding very simple, and I've been exclusively nursing them ever since. (They're 6.5 months now.) very straightforward, practical advice! Awesome job

  • @maureenflaherty
    @maureenflaherty 10 лет назад

    I've shared this video with dozens of twin mamas and parents to be, but never told you how I great I think it is. Thanks- when I was exhausted from pumping for first 10 weeks, this helped me figure out tandem. Even with a very rocky start, your very straightforward video helped me have what wound up being a long, extremely positive breast feeding experience with my twins. I really appreciate it, even two years after they weaned.

    • @tw1nm0mmy
      @tw1nm0mmy  10 лет назад

      Thank you so much for letting me know, Maureen! And yes, even years after they've weaned, the breastfeeding relationship is still so rewarding!

  • @alexandreacrowder
    @alexandreacrowder 13 лет назад

    Thank you SO MUCH for this video! I am 34 weeks pregnant with twins and although I have had my mind set on tandem nursing and have the nursing pillow, the actual logistics were so beyond me, I couldn't even think of how I was going to pick them both up at the same time without dropping one. Your video is so informative and has made me a lot more comfortable!!

  • @EmmaDay
    @EmmaDay 12 лет назад

    I'd like to thank you massively for this video. I bought the EZ 2 Nurse and the two boppy pillows and copied exactly what you did. I tandem nursed by myself from day one - even in hospital. I could never have figured out how to do it without this video. I exclusively breastfed them for 3 months and mix fed until 5 months. I only stopped because they lost interest once the consistency of my milk changed. I am so so pleased I managed to tandem for so long though and it's all thanks to this video.

  • @LoriBanosco
    @LoriBanosco 8 лет назад +1

    Thank you so much! I was kind of lost with my twins and almost gave up (when they were 3 weeks old) - we have to top them off with bottles after feeds - so a turn of breast, bottle and then pumping (because they don't drink effectively enough) takes a long time. Tandem nursing saves so much of my time and sanity, that I was able to keep going, thanks to your video. Now they're 3 months old and we happily keep going.

  • @candicejune55
    @candicejune55 11 лет назад

    I've sent this video to dozens of twin moms and shared in many twin mom groups. THANK YOU!

  • @Jul548
    @Jul548 13 лет назад

    I'm 24 weeks pregnant with my twins (boy and girl). The logistics of feeding them, especially at night, is the thing I am MOST uncertain/worried/scared about! (Admittedly, this is partly because I had tremendous difficulty nursing my daughter and we ended up mostly bottle-feeding her. I'm not against bottle-feeding...she is a strong and healthy and happy little girl... but if I CAN nurse, that would be ideal.) This video was extremely helpful and gives me encouragement. Thank you so much!

  • @tw1nm0mmy
    @tw1nm0mmy  12 лет назад +4

    I did them one at a time often in the first 6 weeks while we were still working on their latches and I was getting more confident with tandem nursing. From 6 weeks to about 8 months, I always tandem nursed during the day because it saved so much time (after 8 months, it was just as quick to do them separately). If a baby would wake up at night, I would nurse him/her individually, laying down in bed. From two weeks old, we always used a schedule (I liked Baby Whisperer) -- it saved my sanity!

  • @DebtFreeDana
    @DebtFreeDana 13 лет назад

    Thank you for doing this video. Watched you over & over after my twins were born. 6 months and still nursing. You really helped me!!!

  • @bramberdon
    @bramberdon 13 лет назад

    I LOVE this video! I actually tandem nursed my older two children (not twins) but we found out we are having twins in the Spring of next year! This video has been so helpful I'm bookmarking it as we speak! Thanks so much! : )

  • @kelef666
    @kelef666 12 лет назад

    You make it look so easy :) My twins are 1 month old and I tandem feed them whenever they wake up at the same time but it's nowhere as easy as this is in your video! :) Thanks for encouraging all of us :)))

  • @MamaResearchBlog
    @MamaResearchBlog 11 лет назад

    Great video. I tandemnurse my 1 1\2 year old and 2 1\2 year old. Ans i'm due with twins in jan 2014. So i'll be nursing 4 kids. It's such a gift from above. Very hard sometimes. But so worth it.

  • @tw1nm0mmy
    @tw1nm0mmy  14 лет назад +5

    Thanks so much for your comments! I assigned each baby one side per day, so I would nurse Alice on the right and Andrew on the left one day, and then the next day, swap them. This seemed to be the best way to keep my supply consistent on both sides, and to be fair to the babies -- they both preferred the left!

  • @divertthedirt
    @divertthedirt 13 лет назад

    Thanks so much for the demonstration, because breastfeeding was a mysterious concern for me. I am having twins March 2012, so this was great for mental and material preparation! Thanks again!

  • @mleclerc27
    @mleclerc27 13 лет назад

    OMG! I am pregnant w/ twins and i really want to breast feed, but kind of freaked out about how to do tandem feedings! Thank u for doing this, very helpful!

  • @julierocket
    @julierocket 13 лет назад

    Thanks so much for posting this-- I'm expecting twins in the fall and I'm really nervous about figuring out breastfeeding, so I've been DYING for videos like this! I'll probably watch this about fifty more times to try and memorize it :)

  • @akilasoorianarayanan334
    @akilasoorianarayanan334 3 года назад

    This is such a nice set up and your video definitely gives me encouragement to tandem feed my soon to be born twins! Thank you for sharing this

  • @NrsJessiekins
    @NrsJessiekins 11 лет назад +1

    Wow! You made this look so easy. I have had so much anxiety about how I would nurse both babies when they get here. I will definitely be trying your method.

  • @Thinknappythoughts
    @Thinknappythoughts 14 лет назад +1

    Your babies are adorable and so wonderful for mommy and the camera. This video is fantastically helpful...you make it look so easy. Thank you for sharing!!!

  • @tiffaninorton6095
    @tiffaninorton6095 11 лет назад

    Wow! You're a stud. Thank you so so much for the advice. Babies should be here any day I super appreciate this!

  • @a.j.patten4389
    @a.j.patten4389 4 года назад

    Thank you for posting this. I can now nurse or comfort my twins at the same time!

  • @infiniteblissco
    @infiniteblissco 5 месяцев назад

    Thanks forr this video! Expecting twins next month, will be a first time Mama! This video was super helpful and useful ❤

  • @Catherinemorais
    @Catherinemorais 4 года назад

    Amazing!!!!! Thank you so much for posting this. Will definitely be returning here when my twins arrive. X

  • @duckduckgosling
    @duckduckgosling 13 лет назад

    what an awesome video - I started tearing up when you said 'or just enjoy the bonding time with my babies' you are a terrific mama :)

  • @tw1nm0mmy
    @tw1nm0mmy  12 лет назад

    It is the EZ-2-Nurse pillow, which is available from several different online sources (and often available secondhand on Craigslist or via local twins clubs).

  • @erinsheridan4593
    @erinsheridan4593 12 лет назад

    Wow! I watched this just out of curiosity, and because I'm breastfeeding my own 7 month old. I just wanted to say that I am incredibly impressed! You are obviously a pro, and should be very proud of yourself = )

  • @EPhillips1083
    @EPhillips1083 11 лет назад

    Thankyou for making this. I'm expecting twins and I was nervous about feeding them. I feel more confident now.

  • @tw1nm0mmy
    @tw1nm0mmy  12 лет назад

    I never nursed tandem in public -- it would have been too difficult to manage without all of the pillows, etc. When we were out and about, I would nurse one at a time and do my best to keep the other baby occupied while he/she waited. I also used a nursing cover when out in public (or when guests visited the house) to maintain a little modesty. :) Good luck!

  • @tw1nm0mmy
    @tw1nm0mmy  12 лет назад

    Congratulations on breastfeeding your twins! We did it like this up until about eight months, when the babies had become so quick it was just as easy to do them separately (I'd usually put the other baby in the exersaucer or on the floor with a pile of toys). We went through phases where it would be harder and they would bug each other or demand attention at the same time, but I'd just cope as best I could and usually we'd settle into a more comfortable rhythm again after a few days.

  • @langfamily5
    @langfamily5 7 лет назад

    Thanks for all the information I am going to save your video to walk me through the process in February. I have successfully nursed 6 of my single babies. But I think twins is going to be another ball game.

  • @ladysnafu0519
    @ladysnafu0519 13 лет назад

    thanks so much for posting its really helpful im 31 weeks pregnant with twins and i was really wondering how the heck to breastfeed them this really gives hope!

  • @Pal_of_Cyruss
    @Pal_of_Cyruss 13 лет назад

    Great video! I wish your video existed six years ago, when I had my twins. I only made it to 6 weeks breastfeeding : ( Congratulations on the great job you are doing mamma!

  • @braidsbymy
    @braidsbymy 10 лет назад +1

    Your babies are adorable! And thank you so much for this video! MUCH appreciated. You definitely make it look easy. I hope I can do the same when my twins arrive.

  • @hananeschannel3143
    @hananeschannel3143 3 года назад +1

    Thank you i guess they are 10 years old god bless them

  • @yanjiaqi
    @yanjiaqi 11 лет назад

    Thank you for your video, I've been breastfeeding my twins for more than 6 months now :)

  • @tw1nm0mmy
    @tw1nm0mmy  12 лет назад +1

    Thanks for the feedback. Hang in there, it gets easier!

  • @StacySchulzWentDigital
    @StacySchulzWentDigital 11 лет назад

    I have 12 week old twins that I am nursing. I have a tandem pillow but have found it very difficult to get both babies on it to nurse. I will try your way. It looks like a great way to do it!

  • @priyalazar7020
    @priyalazar7020 5 лет назад

    This video saved my life. Thanks a lot

  • @agrebisk
    @agrebisk 12 лет назад

    Thanks for the video. I have been stressing on how to manage tandem feeds. This made it seem much easier. Thanks so much. Hopefully I'll make it look just as easy.

  • @laceygreer1
    @laceygreer1 4 года назад

    This was great, I especially love how you hold one baby with your elbow while burping the other. I’m def gonna use that idea when my twins get here!

  • @barbieresoles897
    @barbieresoles897 5 лет назад

    This is very helpful. I was thinking about how am I going to breastfeed my twins after I give birth and this one is by far, the best technique. I like it! Though, amma look for stuff like that you have coz here in the Philippines, they don't have that. I might order online, but it's fine, this is for my twins and I am excited. I'm due on November but I am preparing myself since I am a single mom.😀😘

  • @tw1nm0mmy
    @tw1nm0mmy  13 лет назад

    @BubblesnVeggies Congratulations on your pregnancy! Twins are wonderful! The couch is just a big sectional with an ottoman. I found that I really liked having my feet up while I nursed. I only used this one for a couple of months, and then we moved, and I used a normal sofa with a footstool. For the first eight months or so, my "nursing station" was set up on the couch all the time!

  • @Tagtwinmama
    @Tagtwinmama 12 лет назад

    Just wanted to let you know, that this video was a complete lifesaver for me. I had twin baby girls 4 months ago and have been able to tandem breastfeed them successfully. Thanks so much for posting this it was extremely helpful. Just wondered where you got the little stuffed animal like pillow you put on top of your twin nursing pillow? I can't seem to find anything like that.

  • @shaunnagreen3179
    @shaunnagreen3179 8 лет назад +1

    This is a great video im due twins and I will definitely take this all on board you make it look so easy and great tips thanks for sharing

  • @tw1nm0mmy
    @tw1nm0mmy  13 лет назад

    @MsDiaperD Thank you so much for this feedback! It means so much to me to know that I helped even one other twin mom. Congratulations on your twins, and on nursing them!!

  • @marama5294
    @marama5294 10 лет назад

    Awesome video, it looks so easy haha. Just getting some tips before mine are born! Also I have been reading baby whisperer and I see you used that book so I'm glad about that

  • @nashiradernesch9190
    @nashiradernesch9190 4 года назад

    This was so helpful! I'm pregnant with twins due in October and trying to figure out a potential system before it's showtime. Thank you!

    • @nylanirvana2258
      @nylanirvana2258 4 года назад

      How are you and your babies!? I just delivered via c section twin boys this past Saturday. 🙂

    • @nashiradernesch9190
      @nashiradernesch9190 4 года назад

      @@nylanirvana2258 Congratulations! We're surviving but it has been SO HARD! The hormones were crazy for me. I cried for three weeks. LOL. I also have a two year old daughter at home. Total mayhem! How are you doing so far? I hope you have a lot of help and support available and are being very gentle with yourself.

    • @nylanirvana2258
      @nylanirvana2258 4 года назад

      @@nashiradernesch9190 Ah I see lol I also have a 19 month at home as well lol. I have plenty of support thankfully. I've had high bp since delivery and hoping with medication it will be resolved by the time I heal. It's been a wonderful sleepless week with my babies lol

    • @nashiradernesch9190
      @nashiradernesch9190 4 года назад +1

      @@nylanirvana2258 Oh lady, that's tough! Hang in there. It's starting to get a little easier for me now. Hope you hit your stride, and lower blood pressure, soon!

    • @nylanirvana2258
      @nylanirvana2258 4 года назад

      @@nashiradernesch9190 lol thanks!! Bp is normal again. Babies are still lovely and stilk driving me insane 😂❤️

  • @kimmy4646
    @kimmy4646 13 лет назад

    what an amazing mom you are! your babies are beautiful and I commend you for doing such a good job with them breastfeeding! Thanks for posting this stellar video to encourage us moms!!!

  • @LuciRebecca
    @LuciRebecca 6 лет назад +1

    This was really useful, thank you for sharing! Going to try and tandem feed my two solo today 😊

  • @MzzDanzer
    @MzzDanzer 13 лет назад

    thats sooo great that you do this with your twins!!!!! YOU MAKE IT LOOK EASY!

  • @BubblesnVeggies
    @BubblesnVeggies 13 лет назад

    I'm pregnant with twins..I'm 12 weeks along. I was wondering what kind of couch or bed you are using in the video..as it looks deep and perfect for what you are doing. Thanks for any help!

  • @tw1nm0mmy
    @tw1nm0mmy  11 лет назад

    Thanks for your comment! Football hold definitely gets harder as they get older. One tip another twin mom gave me that worked for a while was to actually wrap their feet around behind me, so it was like their were in a sideways sitting position with their bums against the couch. Good luck!

  • @ncp3077
    @ncp3077 4 года назад

    This is amazing, you are a super woman!!!!Did you pump, and what accessories did you use?

  • @naturesknockout
    @naturesknockout 13 лет назад

    this video made me giggle, the babies ar sooo cute! how special!

  • @blackstarr5
    @blackstarr5 13 лет назад

    Hehe! Awesome, Adorable, and Inspiring!! Sent it to a friend who plans to nurse her twins. :) That pillow is HUGE!

  • @MariamMohammed
    @MariamMohammed 10 лет назад +2

    This was amazingly helpful. Thank you so much! I hope that I can be a pro like you when the babies come.

  • @aHS182
    @aHS182 11 лет назад

    That was brilliant, thanks for sharing my twins are 3wks and I am struggling to tandem feed but I'm hoping as they get bigger it will get easier, great tips on the extra pillow, definitely going to try your tips next feed. Thanks again : )

  • @Drawzzrand0m
    @Drawzzrand0m 12 лет назад

    great video. Where did you get the pillow that you put in the middle?

  • @tw1nm0mmy
    @tw1nm0mmy  12 лет назад

    We did a three hour schedule from birth and then switched to a four hour schedule around four months. Each feeding during those early months was approximately 40 minutes. I assigned one baby per breast each day, and then swapped them the next day.

  • @tw1nm0mmy
    @tw1nm0mmy  13 лет назад

    @ChayaLeahV Thank you! They were pretty chilled-out babies for the most part (at least that's what I remember now -- this video is two years old!), and we did scheduled feeds, so they were rarely screaming to be fed.

  • @mzstephaniebayba
    @mzstephaniebayba 13 лет назад

    omg...thanks for such an informative vids..please come back with updates!

  • @Yellntell
    @Yellntell 12 лет назад

    Greate video!! I was almost giving up untill now!
    What kind of pillow are you using?
    I started tandem feeding my twins but my back hurt so much after a while because I can not get them close enough to me when I was feeding. I have been trying to experiment but can´t find anything comfortable. My life would be so much easier if I had a pillow like that! My breast are just not long enough to be using a regular breastfeeding pillow so it would be great if you could tell me the brand or kind...?

  • @mrsmonticarlo
    @mrsmonticarlo 11 лет назад

    Ohhh my gosh!!!! I love you for making this video!!!!!! I was wondering if it was even possible to breastfeed them both at once! Im extremely excited to do this now!!!!! Thank you soooo much! You are awesome!

  • @Thinknappythoughts
    @Thinknappythoughts 14 лет назад

    @tw1nm0mmy Oh that method sounds like less of a hassle. Really awesome vid. I'm worried about tandem feeding in the beginning but you make persistance look super rewarding down the road. Make more...you babies are beautiful for the camera!

  • @jle20chapin
    @jle20chapin 12 лет назад

    Thank you!!! My wife and I are expecting twins, is 6weeks now

  • @Juxxize
    @Juxxize 11 лет назад

    you make it look so easy , i hope i can do it when my twins are born

  • @tw1nm0mmy
    @tw1nm0mmy  12 лет назад

    Thank you for the feedback! Congratulations on nursing your twins!

  • @honeyflowerchild
    @honeyflowerchild 12 лет назад

    hello, Im a mother to 4 month old boy girl twins also, I watched this video before they were born and you have really helped me, feeding both babies together has been wonderful, unfortunatly I had to switch to formula a month ago, but I still use this way to feed, Lately my two have become a lot more boisterous and demand to be burped at the same time, basically my question to you is, how long were you able to feed this way, at what age did you have to give it up? what did you do next?

  • @RaisinLib
    @RaisinLib 12 лет назад

    Wow, this gives me hope! I just weaned my 18 month old because I'm 5 months pregnant with twins. Being able to nurse them is super important to me. Did you ever nurse them one at a time? Have they always been on a schedule? And are you able to nurse laying down at night so you can sleep?

  • @tw1nm0mmy
    @tw1nm0mmy  12 лет назад

    Of course you can. Thanks for your comment!

  • @tw1nm0mmy
    @tw1nm0mmy  12 лет назад

    Thanks for the feedback. Congratulations on breastfeeding your twins!

  • @clairebear0713
    @clairebear0713 13 лет назад

    Thanks for the info!!
    Very helpful!
    You're not a dork, you're awesome!

  • @tw1nm0mmy
    @tw1nm0mmy  12 лет назад

    Congratulations on breastfeeding your twins! Hope it is still going well for you.

  • @monique5714335
    @monique5714335 12 лет назад

    awsome vid!! i only 10 weeks with my twins and really wanted to tandem feed them. how do u manage to keep the on he sae schedual so that u can tande feed??

  • @Gbeans10
    @Gbeans10 13 лет назад

    YOU GAVE ME HOPE!!! THANK YOU FOR THIS VIDEO!!

  • @tw1nm0mmy
    @tw1nm0mmy  12 лет назад

    The flat side goes down on your lap, and the slightly sloped side faces up. This should help keep your babies from rolling away from you.

  • @tw1nm0mmy
    @tw1nm0mmy  12 лет назад

    I used the EZ-2-Nurse pillow, which is available from several online sources. As you can see, it took quite a collection of just the right pillows to make things comfortable for me -- when I did it without all of this, my back would get sore, too. Good luck, and hang in there -- it gets easier!

  • @emoothart
    @emoothart 13 лет назад

    Fabulous video. You make it look so pleasant!

  • @cutemorena1
    @cutemorena1 12 лет назад

    The pillow I have is the ez2 nurse pillow. It's kinda sunkin in dose that side go on your lap or is that the side u put your babies on???

  • @blackstarr5
    @blackstarr5 13 лет назад

    @tw1nm0mmy: Mine too, til about 5 or 6 months. Then he was too distracted by EVERYTHING, so we moved to the bedroom where it's quieter.

  • @mariafernandabonacorsoroch1203
    @mariafernandabonacorsoroch1203 5 лет назад

    greetings from Brazil. A very helpfull video, thanks!!!!

  • @Thinknappythoughts
    @Thinknappythoughts 14 лет назад

    Question: Do you have to switch them to the alternate breast at any point during the feeding?

  • @eskaposaglit7995
    @eskaposaglit7995 4 года назад

    can you send a link where you both that nursing pillow? i love itttt

  • @erinwilliams1743
    @erinwilliams1743 6 лет назад

    Thank you for posting- I'm having b/g twins in july and want to EBF them like I did for my second child- I want it to be successful and dont want to have to do formula

  • @THEOUTLAW78
    @THEOUTLAW78 13 лет назад

    what would help is seeing them latch on if they find it right away or if u hve to guide them to your nipple..

  • @bethanyjane
    @bethanyjane 12 лет назад

    May I ask whether you're using Boppy breast feeding pillows as props or Boppy newborn loungers? Thanks!

  • @keithaltizer50
    @keithaltizer50 7 лет назад

    this video was super inspiring. what is the name of the breastfeeding pillow you used?

  • @tw1nm0mmy
    @tw1nm0mmy  12 лет назад

    Both babies gained weight at the expected and healthy rates, so I never worried about supply. Once they started sleeping through the night, I still got up at night to pump, because that was the time my body made the most milk, and then I could use that when it seemed like they needed a little extra or when I needed to be away from them.

  • @nprice436
    @nprice436 3 года назад

    Thank you this video is very informative and clear.

  • @moongazerfarms
    @moongazerfarms 5 лет назад

    Were your babies always that calm after a feeding? My one month old twins still fuss after a feeding...