"I Hope This Grief Stays With Me" - Andrew Garfield Fights Back Tears And Celebrates His Mom

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  • Опубликовано: 22 ноя 2021
  • Andrew Garfield gets emotional when talking about the recent loss of his mother, and relates her life to the life of Jonathan Larson, the man he portrays in the new film, "Tick, Tick, Boom!" #Colbert #TickTickBoom #AndrewGarfield
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  • @changveronicas
    @changveronicas 2 года назад +12176

    cant help but noticing how he manages to honor his mother, his dad, his brother, steven, lin manuel miranda, all his supporters, and the musicians just in this short segment. absolutely a class act and a master of gratitude.

    • @eliastalks7411
      @eliastalks7411 2 года назад +202

      He comes across as a very genuine, kind, gentle person. A human being. Someone who is aware of their privilege and influence, and uses it for good. Increasingly, and particularly in Hollywood, that's a rare thing. Keanu has a similar energy.

    • @hannibanani029
      @hannibanani029 2 года назад +42

      And of course Jonathan Larson ❤

    • @albertluu
      @albertluu 2 года назад +40

      Andrew is one of the classiest Americans with a British accent.

    • @falcular
      @falcular 2 года назад +14

      dude's a king

    • @Movingmts111
      @Movingmts111 2 года назад +8

      We love to see it. And feel it 🥺

  • @tonyincs
    @tonyincs 2 года назад +8655

    Props to Andrew for being so honest with his feelings.
    And the same for Stephen for allowing him to uninterrupted.

    • @99annanic
      @99annanic 2 года назад +140

      This is why Stephen is one of the best late night hosts right now.

    • @cameroncothern3218
      @cameroncothern3218 2 года назад +110

      also props to him for not shoehorning in a question about Spider-Man

    • @kCm003
      @kCm003 2 года назад +55

      He was just present with him. What a class act

    • @FabbyTravy
      @FabbyTravy 2 года назад +26

      @@99annanic This reminds me of the conversation he had with then VP Biden not long after Biden's son died of brain cancer. Similarly respectful, honest and genuine interation.

    • @time-a-wasted
      @time-a-wasted 2 года назад +9

      @@cameroncothern3218 Definitely. I get the hype everyone had, but it was just so disrespectful, imo. Sure, he did a great job in that movie, but he wasn't allowed to talk about it, which should be obvious to anyone in show business. And he's also there to promote the movie that he IS allowed to talk about and did an absolutely fantastic job in.

  • @alibrooks7495
    @alibrooks7495 2 года назад +4452

    "i hope this grief stays with me because it is all the unexpeessed love i didn't get to tell her" i really could not have put it better. what a wonderful way to look at grief

    • @limeminun6042
      @limeminun6042 2 года назад +15

      truly

    • @BBCord
      @BBCord 2 года назад +53

      What he said will help so many. I hope more people stumble upon this clip just for this piece of wisdom from Andrew

    • @Ghostface4045
      @Ghostface4045 2 года назад +48

      “What is grief, if not love persevering?”

    • @ellap6828
      @ellap6828 Год назад

      But doesn’t that mean he didn’t give her enough love while she was alive? Or it’s bc she’s gone so he can’t give her more type of thing?

    • @DannyFromLA23
      @DannyFromLA23 Год назад +7

      My mom passed last year. This clip has helped me immensely.

  • @flash_mercenary4033
    @flash_mercenary4033 2 года назад +9030

    “What is grief, if not love persevering?” Andrew is an absolute angel, it’s heartbreaking to hear what happened but hopefully it makes him even stronger than what he is now…such a remarkable human being with outstanding strength.

    • @Noemieorokia
      @Noemieorokia 2 года назад +88

      It’s vision

    • @Miroslava_Ivanova
      @Miroslava_Ivanova 2 года назад +187

      It still blows my mind that a show about a red robot-man and his super-powered witch wife could hit you that hard emotionally, and yet it's such a beautiful sentiment and as Andrew showed here such a real human feeling, this whole part of the interview is incredible and it brought tears to my eyes, how something so sad can be turned into something so beautiful.

    • @justinchey2281
      @justinchey2281 2 года назад +32

      I never fully grasped that quote until you put this context to it. Thank you.

    • @ralftoonz7474
      @ralftoonz7474 2 года назад +13

      I’m already crying😭💔

    • @kels1009
      @kels1009 2 года назад +18

      For us all who have experienced loss of a pet or family member we know what grief is. Stays with us until we pass. I lost my only brother a year ago.

  • @naomimoss3625
    @naomimoss3625 2 года назад +10359

    “It’s the unexpressed love.” What a beautiful sentiment.

    • @thethirdcrouch
      @thethirdcrouch 2 года назад +117

      love persevering

    • @helenchristie6530
      @helenchristie6530 2 года назад +95

      It’s perfect. I lost my husband very suddenly after a short marriage, the love I feel for him, the love I still want to share with him is heartbreaking.

    • @KelRylo
      @KelRylo 2 года назад +32

      Lost some loved ones a few years ago and still take it pretty hard and hearing grief put in this way really helps me see this part of my life in a more positive way. I just clicked this looking for spiderman stuff.

    • @mkfd4571
      @mkfd4571 2 года назад +58

      Omg…. I immediately started crying. I’ve never heard someone encapsulate grief so well….

    • @mkfd4571
      @mkfd4571 2 года назад +17

      @@helenchristie6530 I’m so sorry for your loss, Helen… my sweet mother’s name was Helen…

  • @eddyk3
    @eddyk3 2 года назад +10776

    Didn't mention Spider-Man once. What a class act Stephen is.

    • @lettuceskin7500
      @lettuceskin7500 2 года назад +112

      @Detective WebHead couldn’t agree more

    • @RaymondHng
      @RaymondHng 2 года назад +225

      He's here to talk about his new film _Tick, Tick, Boom!_ , not about Spider Man.

    • @chrisgomez17
      @chrisgomez17 2 года назад +4

      He should’ve brought it up

    • @fiddleandfart
      @fiddleandfart 2 года назад +96

      He's done so much more than Spiderman! He was amazing in "Angels in America!" Such a good and likeable actor!

    • @calebsmith9773
      @calebsmith9773 2 года назад +33

      @@chrisgomez17 what for?

  • @keithtanyf
    @keithtanyf 2 года назад +6278

    Just wanted to say I really liked the way Colbert handled Garfield's answer on his grief. Looked him in the eyes, thanked him for sharing, held his hand with both his own. And that's enough, because the pain they feel is their own, and you are not there to say you know it, because you don't. You only have to show that you are listening, that you are there for them. Brilliant.

    • @Adriana-eu6ty
      @Adriana-eu6ty 2 года назад +161

      But Colbert probably knows the feeling. He lost his father and two brothers in a plane crash, I believe.

    • @jessykaros
      @jessykaros 2 года назад +5

      huh? I can't say I know their pain of losing a loved one? grieving a loved one is a common human experience. I'd say it's hard to find someone who hasn't gone through that pain.

    • @diegoariel4449
      @diegoariel4449 2 года назад +76

      @@jessykaros People in pain don't always want to hear your story, they just want you to listen.

    • @jessykaros
      @jessykaros 2 года назад +2

      @@diegoariel4449 okay but that's rather selfish of the person who is speaking about their pain and yet doesn't let me speak about mine. even going so far as to say I'm not there to say I know their pain because I don't know their pain like OP stated. pretty self centered of them. kind of makes me wonder if they should be speaking to a diary instead of a person if they want to be treated like their pain is the only pain that matters.

    • @piepie3178
      @piepie3178 2 года назад +37

      @@jessykaros it's not like you can't talk about your pov too because they're selfish, but rather hear them first to let them know that they're being heard, their feeling is accepted and you're there for them. There's nothing wrong if you want to talk about your problem too, but we did all of that to respect them so you can be respected as well

  • @CorrinaRoseWrites
    @CorrinaRoseWrites 2 года назад +2723

    "I love talking about it by the way so if I cry, it's only a beautiful thing. This is all the unexpressed love, right? The grief that will remain with us until we pass. We never get enough time with each other..."
    And he ends his beautiful speech with "thank you for letting me talk about her."
    😭😭😭😭

    • @luanafarina3626
      @luanafarina3626 2 года назад +2

      💔💔💔💙💙💙💙

    • @marsmama3919
      @marsmama3919 2 года назад +5

      Lost my own mother. This is exactly how I feel. What a beautiful way to honor her.

    • @KungFuuBaa
      @KungFuuBaa Год назад +4

      I talk about my mother whenever given the chance, and I also thank the folks listening for letting me do so. I miss her terribly. ❤

  • @iwnunn7999
    @iwnunn7999 2 года назад +5984

    Didn't expect the emotion I felt Andrew talking about his mother. Not tearing up wasn't an option

    • @lawrup
      @lawrup 2 года назад +51

      This is a masterpiece for those who are afraid of being happy and have a avoidant personality that feeling of being loved scares the shit out of the person with this personality and that if they shut off their personality and in a specific mind set they would rather leave the world a better place for the next generation rather than being loved and when they are in a fresh relationship the avoident self sabotage themselves

    • @Torey3D
      @Torey3D 2 года назад

      Agreed

    • @TPRM1
      @TPRM1 2 года назад +30

      Just about the most beautiful treatise on grief I’ve ever encountered.

    • @polarfroge
      @polarfroge 2 года назад +16

      If this doesn't bring at least a single tear, you should question your humanity.
      AG is THE intersection of acting ability, sincerity & humility. LMM made an excellent casting choice/gamble.

    • @izzyolivero7304
      @izzyolivero7304 2 года назад +3

      Immediately started to sob and I wasn’t expecting it at all

  • @mariakal605
    @mariakal605 2 года назад +3986

    It makes me think of that scene in Fleabag when she's talking about the passing of her mother and says "I don't know where to put all the love I have for her." Grief really is unexpressed love.

    • @1000scarlett
      @1000scarlett 2 года назад +20

      was just thinking about this!!

    • @charlene777
      @charlene777 2 года назад +5

      YES

    • @MyEmmert
      @MyEmmert 2 года назад +20

      And her friend says that she can give that love to her😒

    • @Gnostic72
      @Gnostic72 2 года назад +36

      Grief is not only unexpressed love but love persevering.

    • @charlie5115
      @charlie5115 2 года назад +3

      Thought of that scene too 😭😭

  • @philipbloom
    @philipbloom 2 года назад +3241

    Andrew has such a beautiful soul.

  • @kanishka0717
    @kanishka0717 2 года назад +2828

    Andrew is such a great personality, so humanistic and so gentle. It's his natural charm and I can't begin to express I'm so glad to be alive during his time

    • @takeisha1220
      @takeisha1220 2 года назад +10

      I agree.

    • @Tuesdaylane21
      @Tuesdaylane21 2 года назад +8

      You and me both bestie

    • @Kinobambino
      @Kinobambino 2 года назад +5

      Also carry that same energy for yourself. Be happy you're alive for your time

    • @madelynstoltzfus
      @madelynstoltzfus Год назад +2

      exactly. Like people who don’t like him? Like my whole family? I don’t understand?

  • @TheCoolCookieKitchen
    @TheCoolCookieKitchen 2 года назад +4328

    Andrew is so deep and loving. People who get to be around him are better for it.

    • @sandracoatsworth3137
      @sandracoatsworth3137 2 года назад +51

      So true! I was blessed to be able to spend a short time getting to know Andrew on this deep level and you are absolutely correct, he is a genuine and authentically beautiful soul.

    • @brodie2005thegamer
      @brodie2005thegamer 2 года назад +1

      Stephen Colbert died.

    • @flyinglions2223
      @flyinglions2223 2 года назад +9

      @@sandracoatsworth3137 Can you elaborate? You got to meet him?

    • @sandracoatsworth3137
      @sandracoatsworth3137 2 года назад +9

      @Flying Lions yes, I attended a small Intensive and he was one of the 13 participants.

  • @Tubeviewer1290
    @Tubeviewer1290 2 года назад +4123

    Andrew Garfield said this so heartfelt and beautifully. I’ve certainly heard about grief helping you mentally, but never in this perspective before. It makes me like Andrew even more. It’s nice that he felt comfortable at some level to share something so personal and cry in public. I think it’s great that Andrew and his brother and father are so close too, and they have a strong love. And about the love for his mother being shown through art is nice too.

    • @larrytanksley1119
      @larrytanksley1119 2 года назад +3

      Well said Adria.

    • @rougeandrei9095
      @rougeandrei9095 2 года назад +1

      You gotta be Kira from Twitter, right?

    • @KickSilverOMG
      @KickSilverOMG 2 года назад +2

      It's 2021 shouldn't it be normal already to share our feelings in public by now?

    • @hannahfenzl5682
      @hannahfenzl5682 2 года назад

      @@KickSilverOMG I don't exactly think that it's something to be placed on a scale of normalcy. Feelings, no matter who you are sharing them with, are the most intimate human connection. You never know what reaction you will get for bearing your soul as he did, and even though most people will come back with the kind response that this audience did, there are a lot that wouldn't have reacted so kindly. Andrew is strong to be so open in front of so many people. Because yes, even though it is 2021, and all feelings should be accepted, there's still that human part of us all when we begin to open up that says "what if they judge me"

    • @KickSilverOMG
      @KickSilverOMG 2 года назад

      @@hannahfenzl5682 True

  • @Derpital
    @Derpital 2 года назад +771

    He usually stutters a lot, wich is endearing on it's own. But the moment he started to talk about his mom he stopped his stuttering. It honestly felt like everything he was saying after bringing up his mom was so heartfelt and pouring with emotions. It just shows the respect and love he has for her

    • @cngotham4111
      @cngotham4111 2 года назад +47

      I think he stutters really fast because he's very energetic and probably thinks fast. But at this moment everything slowed down and thought very clearly and even let his heart speak. It was a beautiful moment to see on air.

    • @fauzianalwoga1002
      @fauzianalwoga1002 11 месяцев назад +2

      His mom is his confidence just like mine. Unfortunately they are both dead

    • @varunikaloganathan2101
      @varunikaloganathan2101 10 месяцев назад +1

      @@fauzianalwoga1002I’m so sorry for your loss ❤

  • @tiagomaqz
    @tiagomaqz 2 года назад +680

    This is the most amount of love I’ve seen in 7 minutes in a while. “Grief is nothing but unexpressed love”. I love that!

    • @bobcatbigpaws5597
      @bobcatbigpaws5597 Год назад +1

      He had me crying because I think I my beautiful mother who has read the Bible twice in her life. When she started getting to the point she knew she wouldn't be here to many years ahead was when she read the Bible a second time. She knew every word and meaning in the Bible with a 6th grade education and I can hardly pronounce many of words and the understanding with a full course education. My grandfather taught himself how to read and studied the Bible and taught this to his kids. He never went to school and was a brilliant person in reading and writing. He read many different books on religion and listened to tapes of a well known person who studied the Bible. I wish my grandfather were here to speak to people about what he learned because we would all believe in God and know he really exist. I believe Andrew is a Christian and by this his pain from losing his mother gives him hope that he will see her again in God's time to call us home.

  • @captlanc
    @captlanc 2 года назад +2165

    This is something incredible, how strong and brave he is. He takes deep breaths to carry on with poise. He is unafraid of exposing his vulnerability and emotions to the world. He is emotional but he doesn’t let them take charge of his person. This is what strength looks like. It is not the repressing of emotions, but the ability to express them without succumbing to them.

    • @ailistorenyoga7312
      @ailistorenyoga7312 2 года назад +4

      💕

    • @jdshady8381
      @jdshady8381 2 года назад +21

      Wow you have put it in such a beautiful way

    • @minahdrama5175
      @minahdrama5175 2 года назад +14

      Well said. Thank you for that

    • @Squeebbles
      @Squeebbles 2 года назад +19

      Also he decided to shoutout his brother mid-interview for his work as a doctor and get him a standing ovation

    • @hellostephanie
      @hellostephanie 2 года назад +18

      💯 youtube has so much noise and garbage but in it there are occasionally beautiful gems of life lessons like this on how to be a quality human being .

  • @bunso0816
    @bunso0816 2 года назад +2043

    Andrew Garfield's mind, and his heart, is beautiful. All of that translated to his acting and it's the most magnificent art I've seen.

  • @FootlessJo
    @FootlessJo Год назад +94

    They way he talks about grief is pure and freeing. I really appreciate hearing this. 💔💜

  • @Galero15
    @Galero15 Год назад +58

    This is the kind of shit we need to show boys AND men. Emotions aren't weakness. Crying isn't for the weak. Being open and loving and loving openly - that's the gift of life. It's yours. Don't deny yourself a life of living in the pursuit of pretending something you're not.

  • @anne_bckmnn
    @anne_bckmnn 2 года назад +1262

    I’m sobbing! Andrew just always seems to find the most beautiful words.

  • @edwardedison1661
    @edwardedison1661 2 года назад +941

    Andrew Garfield is honestly one of the most genuine, heartfelt, passionate, and amazing human beings.

  • @crazylampy8455
    @crazylampy8455 2 года назад +1744

    I've been carrying my grief like a weight that drags me down into a depression but the way Andrew has reframed it so beautifully, I will try to see it as a light that lifts me out of the darkness I've been hiding in!
    So wonderfully said!! 💜

    • @EvelynSaenz13
      @EvelynSaenz13 2 года назад +4

      ♡♡♡

    • @bethanyh4687
      @bethanyh4687 2 года назад +45

      But also remember to let yourself feel bad on some days, just don't let it keep you feeling bad. I've learned to put aside certain times of certain days to just let myself 'feel' whatever I need to feel, if that makes sense. Your feelings and your grief are valid.

    • @omarabsar123
      @omarabsar123 2 года назад +8

      You can do it! You have my support! 😊

    • @MoreFriesplease
      @MoreFriesplease 2 года назад +9

      Sending hugs

    • @Kinobambino
      @Kinobambino 2 года назад +2

      How are you doin ❤❤❤

  • @kostasviper
    @kostasviper 2 года назад +562

    I love the fact that Stephen said nothing afterwards and just gave the man his hand. What a class act. Also loved his reaction when he asked Keanu Reeves "What do you believes happens when we die?".

  • @seriliaykilel
    @seriliaykilel 2 года назад +2246

    Absolutely moved and gutted - we are approaching the end for my father and these were hard but beautiful words to hear.

    • @MISNM0
      @MISNM0 2 года назад +13

      🕊

    • @rc27td
      @rc27td 2 года назад +33

      cherish it all, of course you will. and know there are so many sending you and your family love. you will meet again, hold on 🤍

    • @QwentyJ
      @QwentyJ 2 года назад +33

      Lost my father a few months ago. Make sure you say everything you want to say while you can

    • @daniellamcgee4251
      @daniellamcgee4251 2 года назад +31

      The conversations end, but your father is woven into the fibres of your being, so you can't lose him. Even when his influence on you ripples out to others around you. And then in turn, to those people who pass on some of his essence to effect more people, and so on... The emptiness of loss of the relationship is the contrasting shadow that highlights all those bright moments that you have gained in your years of knowing him. And those memories, his love for you, are yours to keep; the smile through your tears for those personal precious moments. Even as the powerful waves of grief lessen, you can smile that secret smile of knowing, with gratitude for such a man, such a father, as part of your life, and part of who you are.

    • @penske3469
      @penske3469 2 года назад +5

      @Joffrey Baratheon 💯 well said

  • @cloudwatcher608
    @cloudwatcher608 2 года назад +885

    One of the things I love most about this interview (and there are many) is how seriously Jon is taking everything Andrew is saying. He isn’t trying to make a joke or bringing the attention onto himself, but he is completely present in that moment of vulnerability and heartbreak. I’m so glad this show leaves room for men to express this emotional vulnerability that is so essential to our wellbeing.

    • @kathleenclark5877
      @kathleenclark5877 2 года назад +17

      Well said! I was thinking the same thing. Thanks for sharing so eloquently.

    • @addiatmeikokusuma8058
      @addiatmeikokusuma8058 2 года назад +31

      Jon? Who is Jon? You mean Stephen right?

    • @purpleplanetary
      @purpleplanetary 2 года назад +43

      @@addiatmeikokusuma8058 The leader of the musical band, him and Andrew are friends and possibly alumni...I believe?

    • @addiatmeikokusuma8058
      @addiatmeikokusuma8058 2 года назад +3

      @@purpleplanetary oh.. Thank you..I did not notice

    • @michaelfoxbrass
      @michaelfoxbrass 2 года назад +19

      Your observation is what makes this particular talk show unique and compelling. Sincerity. Faith. Compassion. Love.

  • @sydneyp3357
    @sydneyp3357 2 года назад +1216

    This hit home for me.
    My twin was killed in a car crash July 22, 2020. It was not her fault. Ever since then I've been carrying a lot of hurt and a lot of grief. I've never heard grief put this way before, "unexpressed love" and finishing their "song". Thank you Andrew Garfield for putting that the way you did. A lot of people needed to hear that.

    • @hexlight9021
      @hexlight9021 2 года назад +26

      I'm sorry for your loss

    • @ohboilien
      @ohboilien 2 года назад +27

      Thank you for sharing. I lost my mom 7 years ago and it helps me to read the other comments here. Sending you strength and patience and love ❤️

    • @omarmahmoud5786
      @omarmahmoud5786 2 года назад +4

      Be strong

    • @SuperSaiyan3985
      @SuperSaiyan3985 2 года назад +2

      That’s terrible. I bet it was like half of you died.

    • @omarmahmoud5786
      @omarmahmoud5786 2 года назад +21

      @@SuperSaiyan3985 not helping 😑

  • @parkviewmo
    @parkviewmo 2 года назад +586

    It is so easy just to fall in love with Andrew Garfield! He just exudes love, and, I suspect, that flows out of a wonderful family!

  • @alexhood8628
    @alexhood8628 2 года назад +722

    This is one of the most genuine actors I’ve seen

    • @Seven-ib9ky
      @Seven-ib9ky 2 года назад +5

      Like so genuine

    • @shanouboubou
      @shanouboubou 2 года назад +8

      Yes, he's incredible. He's always so well spoken and indeed so genuine. It's so rare nowadays.

  • @Dream1ng
    @Dream1ng 2 года назад +676

    That hurts, when he said I hope this grief stays with me.

    • @beccarind4854
      @beccarind4854 2 года назад +25

      The grief is unexpressed love. and his cup runs over 💚

    • @holdon4992
      @holdon4992 2 года назад +16

      Ah, when you love someone that deep, it never leaves you. He won’t have to worry about hoping the grief stays with him. It always will.

    • @MissArgal
      @MissArgal 2 года назад +2

      It anyways will stay for the rest of our lives. I certainly can feel him being on the same boat.

    • @AleQuag
      @AleQuag Год назад

      Grief is still loving your lost one. Forgeting is not an option.

  • @Shazia44
    @Shazia44 2 года назад +335

    “Grief is all the unexpressed love”, what a beautiful statement ❤️ R.I.P. Andrew’s Mum, she will be so proud looking down at you.

  • @aquablue2551
    @aquablue2551 2 года назад +520

    My mom passed away yesterday. I'm still reeling from the shock of the situation. It was so sudden. But I could have never asked for a more amazing woman to come into my life. I'm so grateful for her.

    • @anushkamalviya7746
      @anushkamalviya7746 2 года назад +12

      Extremely sorry for your loss...Her love will always remain in your heart❤️❤️

    • @aquablue2551
      @aquablue2551 2 года назад +3

      @@anushkamalviya7746 thank you so much!

    • @delilahtaylor7247
      @delilahtaylor7247 2 года назад +8

      I lost mine last year, suddenly as well. Big hugs to you.

    • @aquablue2551
      @aquablue2551 2 года назад +4

      @@delilahtaylor7247 thank you. I'm so sorry you had to go through that. It's the worst feeling in the world.

    • @keilanimouton2749
      @keilanimouton2749 2 года назад +3

      I’m so sorry for your loss. I’ll pray for you. I pray that God comforts you and heals you! 🙏🏾❤️

  • @jamiejames2078
    @jamiejames2078 2 года назад +655

    Andrew Garfield had been less than a passing thought in my head, until this interview. I couldn’t have told you a single thing about him, other than that I was pretty sure he was an actor in whom I had little-to-no interest.
    After watching this interview, I can assure you I’ll never forget him. I will watch everything he’s in. What a human being.
    Sometimes-rarely-television has the power to transcend its medium and truly touch you; this was one of those times.

    • @lakshmiyamajala471
      @lakshmiyamajala471 2 года назад +29

      If you are going to watch his filmography start with Boy A, its a British film for which he won a BAFTA absolutely brilliant performance.
      Still to this day one of my favorite performance of his.

    • @VLVALLE
      @VLVALLE 2 года назад +26

      He's a brilliant actor and really carries his heart on his sleeve. Definitely take a deep dive in his work. Boy A, The Social Network, Hacksaw Ridge, Silence, Never Let Me Go, I'm Here and most recently Tick Tick Boom are golden. X

    • @marydonohoe8200
      @marydonohoe8200 2 года назад +3

      Ditto. Just ditto. 🙏🏼❤️☺️

    • @evelynoliveira9447
      @evelynoliveira9447 2 года назад +1

      beautiful said 🙏🏻

    • @kasondaleigh
      @kasondaleigh 2 года назад +1

      100% agree. I will follow this man now, knowing what a kind soul he had.

  • @livelaughpuke
    @livelaughpuke 2 года назад +260

    Grief is one the greatest teachers in life yet it's the teacher no one wants to meet

    • @jennyeliza7350
      @jennyeliza7350 2 года назад

      So true, be blessed.

    • @teresitauy5532
      @teresitauy5532 2 года назад +4

      Well said .

    • @PoeLemic
      @PoeLemic 2 года назад +2

      DD ... Yes, it's a hard and absolute teacher, but I've learned so much. Only through pain, do we learn the lessons. Even recent, it's taught me again how precious life is. I lost a beloved pet of almost 16 years, and I fight daily to remember the good times and not cry. It's not the passing that is bad, but it's the missing her daily that is what hurts. So, again, Grief reminds me that we all only get so long here.

    • @nanish7749
      @nanish7749 2 года назад +3

      Well said it. I lost my dad to covid 19 in march. Never expected... My days with him at the hospital haunt me everytime through my head. Until this day , I still cry... Some days aré better AND others justo, a deep hole in your stomach.. its incredible..that he isnt with us anymore. Pray to God, for him.. for all the people who died from covid , to be happy and eternals in heaven. But one thing for sure, they got us in a signature that nobody want to enroll for. But some way some how, we have to deal trough a love one.

    • @ginganinja1548
      @ginganinja1548 2 года назад

      Oh wow! That caught me off guard 😣😢😥😭

  • @AlokaNiran
    @AlokaNiran 2 года назад +77

    "I hope this grief stays with me because it's all the unexpressed love we couldn't share with each other" - Andrew Garfield

  • @tipilot3791
    @tipilot3791 2 года назад +153

    Andrew is the most textbook actor in the best way. He's so clearly born for this. Im surprised he survived being born with his heart so far up his sleeve.

  • @FreeArtsakh2024
    @FreeArtsakh2024 2 года назад +677

    You never get over of losing your mother. I cry everyday!

    • @maryrosekent8223
      @maryrosekent8223 2 года назад +36

      How long has it been? How old are you and how old was she? I’m terrified knowing my mother’s inevitability going to die. I still grieve for my grandparents and that’s been 21 and 35 years.

    • @markmh835
      @markmh835 2 года назад +66

      I lost my mother 24 years ago when she was age 60 -- the age I am now. No matter your age, you forevermore feel like an orphan. 😢

    • @rex-racer
      @rex-racer 2 года назад +25

      @@markmh835 I lost both my parents. What you say is true. I’m with you in spirit through cyberspace. Wishing you peace!

    • @thundafundamentalist
      @thundafundamentalist 2 года назад +16

      There needs to be a way out, other than suicide. Let me know of one please. I can't do life without mom. Just can't.

    • @francescafrancesca3554
      @francescafrancesca3554 2 года назад +36

      @@thundafundamentalist You don't have to now. And when the moment comes, you can do it. You will be able to do it. Their love makes us stronger, and they would've wanted us to have a good life. An I believe that they never truly leave us. They watch over us, loving us still. Because in the end. Love is what remains. May you have a wonderful life and cherish those in it, not because of the fear of loosing them but for the joy of having them near. Have a loveful life, internet person. May your mom have very good health c: Good day.

  • @laalaa99stl
    @laalaa99stl 2 года назад +590

    Whoa. Chef Andrés must be cutting onions backstage. I'm... very sorry for the Garfield family's loss but am glad he had a chance to get some of it out. And he's right, Stephen. You sew up our wounds.

  • @alfonsonation
    @alfonsonation 2 года назад +35

    Andrew Garfield pointing directly at Stephen and Jon saying "You sow up our wounds" is among the most powerful, necessary, and fulfilling gems in late night history. Because it encapsulates the very essence of what makes Late Night so successful and admired. Comedy is a release. It's an escape. And what Stephen and Andrew does in their own respective arts has literally sown up millions of wounds across the world. What a time to be alive. 💙

  • @julianaortiz09
    @julianaortiz09 2 года назад +264

    I’m really hoping he continues to get the attention he is getting lately, he is such an amazing actor and human being! He deserves this and more

  • @jogo5083
    @jogo5083 2 года назад +511

    Stephen has opened his heart and discussions about grief and everyone is better for it. To the man who sews up our wounds - thank you.

    • @forest_maiden
      @forest_maiden Год назад

      I got tears in my eyes when Andrew said that. Stephen is truly a class act.

  • @onan.o2308
    @onan.o2308 2 года назад +202

    "we never get enough time" is all i felt while griefing my dad

  • @Sam-ge5vf
    @Sam-ge5vf 2 года назад +494

    This movie and interview shattered me. I lost my older sister in April and my life has utterly stopped moving. And yet I know this grief will never end nor do I want it to because it really is all my unexpressed love. She was only 26. My better half. I love you Steph and I miss you everyday.

    • @ivsbanks
      @ivsbanks 2 года назад +13

      I genuinely pray for your solace, for your healing my dear. It may be cliché to say, but you now have your own personal angel watching over you. My deepest condolences for your loss and my sincere prayer for your healing. ❤️

    • @theatreprincess41101
      @theatreprincess41101 2 года назад +7

      I lost my sister unexpectedly in August. She was 40. So I understand how you feel. Sending all my love to you and your family. What Andrew said was so beautiful.

    • @siscatri6694
      @siscatri6694 2 года назад +10

      Hi Sam, I hope you wakes up in a good side of the bed today, I hope your water is as fresh as the waterfall, I hope your coffe is the most delicious coffee and your breakfast is complementing the beauty of your day, I hope your day goes well and I hope good things and only good things come to you, wheter there is sunshine or the the weather is not bright, I hope the warmth of everyone's kindness embrace and protects you, your older sister is very proud of you. Have a good day Sam, thank you

    • @deerheart87
      @deerheart87 2 года назад +1

      I lost my beautiful ex last year it’s so painful as he was beautiful x

    • @forest_maiden
      @forest_maiden Год назад +1

      I’m so sorry for your loss. Next week is ten years since one of my best friends passed away suddenly at the age of 26, and I am still struggling with it. It does get easier but never goes away.

  • @theKayPeeAy
    @theKayPeeAy 2 года назад +117

    No matter how many times I watch this interview I always end up in tears. John Batiste's face makes it worse. Stephen is so gentle, and Andrew is so graceful. What a great interview.

  • @wideawake5630
    @wideawake5630 2 года назад +206

    Garfield is a deep and lovely person. Wise beyond his years.

    • @izza526
      @izza526 2 года назад +3

      He is 38 .. he jst doesn't look it .. he is wise for his years kek 😂

    • @emmersonjaymindog4008
      @emmersonjaymindog4008 2 года назад

      @@izza526 Yes he looks 29

  • @myrnashoults9735
    @myrnashoults9735 2 года назад +34

    Stephen Colbert, when you took Andrews hand at the end of the interview and squeezed it, that gesture was pure love

  • @jeffsavilleproductions
    @jeffsavilleproductions 2 года назад +108

    Listening to Andrew talk about his Mom was so moving.

  • @katie.beattie
    @katie.beattie 2 года назад +125

    he’s such a poet. so beautiful how gratuitous he is and so in touch with himself and his connections. this is what a man is, we love you andrew garfield.

  • @elenastone1471
    @elenastone1471 2 года назад +167

    Andrew's Mother raised an amazing and heartwarming gentleman! Rest in peace to her and God bless Andrew!

  • @krisztinatoth95
    @krisztinatoth95 2 года назад +345

    Don’t mind me. Just swimming in my tears after watching a late night clip on RUclips. Love you all. Let’s embrace this ride while it lasts.

    • @MISNM0
      @MISNM0 2 года назад +3

      🥰

    • @Anna-914
      @Anna-914 2 года назад +3

      💜🥺

    • @BroAnarchy
      @BroAnarchy 2 года назад +3

      Amen ❤️💙💛

    • @m1k1254
      @m1k1254 2 года назад +2

    • @king1maduro
      @king1maduro 2 года назад

      I love all of God's children. Even the ones I don't agree with. we must pray for all of us.

  • @ashhole2955
    @ashhole2955 7 месяцев назад +4

    This is the best interview I have ever watched in my life

  • @schawdaya
    @schawdaya 26 дней назад +1

    I love how quiet the room got when he started talking about his mom. Shoutout to Stephen for not interrupting

  • @gh5208
    @gh5208 2 года назад +591

    Phenomenal message about appreciating each other, and "sewing up wounds" , a message to which everyone can relate. So eloquently said....

    • @MISNM0
      @MISNM0 2 года назад +4

      Phenomenal indeed.

    • @Alinaz87
      @Alinaz87 2 года назад

      Agreed 1000000000%

  • @neuropsychroberts8922
    @neuropsychroberts8922 2 года назад +156

    I'm crying. All I wanted was a video to watch while I made a coffee. That was some unexpected beauty. 😭

    • @MISNM0
      @MISNM0 2 года назад +6

      I'm watching things to start the day and probably feel similar to you bc of this.

    • @teresitauy5532
      @teresitauy5532 2 года назад +2

      Totally . Best interview ever . So sorry for the loss of your mother ,rest in peace . Andrew ,you have a beautiful heart inside out .

  • @erikadavid393
    @erikadavid393 2 года назад +80

    I cried over "I hope this grief stays with me". Coz I still cry over the loss of loved ones, and sometimes I feel I'm overreacting coz they passed a long long time ago but here you are Andrew G. telling me this is a beautiful thing.

  • @alishagodschalk147
    @alishagodschalk147 2 года назад +83

    I have so much respect for Andrew because he was able to talk about grief in a way not so many people do. I love him dearest.

  • @williamdillard5060
    @williamdillard5060 2 года назад +205

    He touched Steve's heart with that one. It's so good to see in these dark, divided times. ✌

  • @Mater_Lachrymarum
    @Mater_Lachrymarum 2 года назад +126

    He’s a deeply beautiful man, this was so moving.

  • @hails97751
    @hails97751 2 года назад +25

    The way Andrew speaks about people he loves is so tragically beautiful.

  • @banannaboat
    @banannaboat 7 месяцев назад +4

    I come back to this video whenever I need a reminder of the unexpressed love for my mama. 🙏♥️

  • @jackieblue512
    @jackieblue512 2 года назад +72

    The way he talks about grief is the most beautiful thing I have ever heard

  • @belmontks3610
    @belmontks3610 Год назад +30

    “I hope this grief stays with me” is such a true statement. My dad committed suicide 7 tears ago , I love talking about him/listening to song that make me remember him, both in a positive and a sad light…My biggest fear is the day coming where I don’t get choked up/emotional when talking about him. He was the best.

    • @lindzriddb
      @lindzriddb Год назад +2

      I am SO sorry for your loss. You’ll be in my thoughts. I lost my dad 14 years ago this last October. I’ve never heard grief explained this way until he said it the way he did, and it was almost freeing, like an epiphany to me as to why it still hurts so much. I still cry and get emotional to this day when I think of my dad, but from this moment forward it will always be a “beautiful thing.”

  • @mariod2098
    @mariod2098 2 года назад +230

    I have heard two of the most beautiful takes on grief this year. On WandaVision: Vision: “What is grief, if not love persevering?” … and now Andrew Garfield on this interview.
    What a perfect time to hear these things. I’m sure many people needed to hear this and I hope it helped some. #AndrewGarfield

    • @collinnc2001
      @collinnc2001 2 года назад +2

      He truly said it best

    • @VioletEmerald
      @VioletEmerald Год назад

      I've heard many times over the years that grief is love with no where to go, but I'm glad more and more people are sharing this sentiment broadly.

  • @kaylinworthy
    @kaylinworthy 2 года назад +166

    andrew is one of the most honest people and artists i've ever seen, so much so that it even shines through his performances on screen. seeing an actor, especially a man be so open and vulnerable is truly something special.

  • @laurelrobbins8673
    @laurelrobbins8673 2 года назад +136

    I love what Andrew said about grief. I have to wonder if some artists leave us so soon because of the fire that burns within them. My son passed at age 36, and he was an incredible artist. I listened to those words with tears in my eyes for my son David, for John, and for Andrew’s mom.

    • @LilyGazou
      @LilyGazou 2 года назад +5

      I’m so sorry for your loss. 🌺

  • @alainalively7924
    @alainalively7924 2 года назад +38

    And this is why Andrew Garfield is my favorite celebrity, he’s so real, so raw and I literally love his sweet kind soul

  • @natos8191
    @natos8191 2 года назад +151

    so comforting, humanistic and such a genuine energy, i’m glad to have come to know him and be alive in his time

  • @xo.makenna28
    @xo.makenna28 2 года назад +19

    Stephen is so respectful to his guests. He lets them speak and he is so kind to them as well.

  • @hallwayshots1258
    @hallwayshots1258 2 года назад +43

    i think andrew is such an expressive actor because that’s just who he is in general and he just makes it art. it’s beautiful

  • @MadAboutBrows
    @MadAboutBrows 2 года назад +56

    I'll be 44, and my mom died when I was 18. What Andrew said was incredibly beautiful and wise and loving. Amazing 👏

    • @LilyGazou
      @LilyGazou 2 года назад +3

      My mother died so young, I never had the chance to develop a mature relationship with her.
      18 is very young to have such a loss. 🌺

  • @K-Choi
    @K-Choi 2 года назад +32

    Man the way Andrew said in his interview with Stephen Colbert: “Jon and my Mother were both artists and they were warriors of art and they knew the power of leaving the world in a slightly more beautiful state than when they found it” makes this video hit even more in the feels

  • @sarahroddey2937
    @sarahroddey2937 2 года назад +15

    "grief is the unexpressed love you never got to share with them" is one of the most powerful things I've ever heard anyone say.

  • @ruraljuror1734
    @ruraljuror1734 2 года назад +86

    I don’t know much about Andrew Garfield, but I too recently lost my mother (to COVID last January) at the young age of 59… I definitely cried at the comments he made about unexpressed love. So very (and tragically) relatable. 🥺

    • @Rebecca-ez3nl
      @Rebecca-ez3nl 2 года назад +3

      I’m so sorry for your loss ❤️

    • @ruraljuror1734
      @ruraljuror1734 2 года назад

      @@Rebecca-ez3nl thank you

    • @mayravaldivia7877
      @mayravaldivia7877 2 года назад +1

      I lost my father the same time as you, if didn't have a great relationship with him
      But I completely understand. ❤

    • @PoeLemic
      @PoeLemic 2 года назад +1

      @@ruraljuror1734 Sorry for your loss, especially due to something that all of us should have prevented. For me, I lost my father a few years back, and I think of him daily. I've done my best to move forward, but it's hard -- especially at the first. So, go easy on yourself. It's really a "tough road" if you were close, as I was with my Dad. He wasn't the best man that ever lived, but he did the best that he could with what he had. So, you are not alone. One of best things that helped me was going to some grief therapy get-togethers and doing some individual counseling. It sounds weird, but it really, really helped me process it. So, I hope you are moving forward and not being consumed by grief, as I was at the first. So, if you want to chat about it, I'll reply. Know people care about your loss, even if they don't say it ... So, you're not alone.

    • @prayerwarrior3030
      @prayerwarrior3030 2 года назад +1

      I'm sorry for your loss. Too lost my dad last to covid. Grief is real and hard but one thing g I stick to in these hard times is take one day at a time. To take the time to grief..grief is normal. Most importantly is to keep the memories of your father pondered in your ❤ heart. Like the bible says there is a time for everything. A time to laugh ,a time to cry.

  • @artichokie791
    @artichokie791 2 года назад +22

    One day, even if it is 10yrs from now, Andrew Garfield will be seen as one of the greatest actors in modern history of cinema.

  • @steffanyrivera-smith3643
    @steffanyrivera-smith3643 2 года назад +10

    When my dad passed, someone told me that grief is love persevering. It's so true!

  • @parkerevans8006
    @parkerevans8006 2 года назад +30

    Andrew is such an underrated actor. He’s one of my favourites

  • @heyheytaytay
    @heyheytaytay 2 года назад +80

    As someone who lost his mother to cancer at 29, I can confirm that the grief does stay with you. To reference another play, the grief is like a brick you keep in your pocket. After a while you forget its there, sometimes. But the reminder that it's there is constant.

  • @RobVespa
    @RobVespa 2 года назад +29

    The more I see of Andrew Garfield, the more I like him...

  • @yomommastupid
    @yomommastupid 2 года назад +18

    That part of Andrew talking so eloquently about his love for his mother really got me...

  • @billybobtexas
    @billybobtexas 2 года назад +7

    Hes a beautiful dude, man… at the top of my list of people I’d totally have lunch with.

  • @jpjordan90
    @jpjordan90 2 года назад +64

    Folks like Andrew are (or should be) the real 'influencers' of today

  • @johaniffsofiz
    @johaniffsofiz 2 года назад +31

    Best description of 'grief' ever heard.."all of the unexpressed love" 🥺

  • @angiehh516
    @angiehh516 2 года назад +6

    Is there anyone on earth more charming than Andrew Garfield?

  • @angeldquintas
    @angeldquintas 2 года назад +108

    I’m not really into musical theater but I do like Andrew. Listening to him talk about his mother made me think of my grandmother who I lost almost 8 years ago. We do carry this grief with us forever.

  • @pralina8051
    @pralina8051 2 года назад +6

    The most beautiful quality in a person is tenderness.
    Andrew seems to be a delightfully sensitive man, untarnished by fame, success and ego. This is so rare..

  • @michaelmulvey6753
    @michaelmulvey6753 2 года назад +140

    What a brave person to allow himself to be so vulnerable being watched by millions of people. There isn’t a day that goes by that I don’t think of or grieve for my parents; he put into words exactly how I feel.

  • @gentleeyes
    @gentleeyes Год назад +25

    I'm grieving hard today and this hits right on the mark. What a wise soul he is.

  • @schorli183
    @schorli183 2 года назад +35

    I didn't know he lost his mother. What a wonderful expression he's found in saying that grief is the unexpressed love that stays behind.

  • @mortviolette284
    @mortviolette284 2 года назад +93

    I certainly wasn’t expecting to cry this morning. Although he expressed himself eloquently, I think we are all reacting to the true expression of his soul.

  • @thetwilightzone4204
    @thetwilightzone4204 2 года назад +82

    Andrew is a gem. A true poet with his words. He is a wonderful and genuine soul and I can feel his deep passionate towards his art form. He’s such an amazing person and really a once in a lifetime kind of guy. LOVE THIS MAN.

  • @jacquelinel8156
    @jacquelinel8156 2 года назад +1

    That is such a beautiful way to look at grief.

  • @kateteac8511
    @kateteac8511 2 месяца назад

    Awe. My heart. What a beautiful way to honor his Mum. 💕

  • @Vikram777ish
    @Vikram777ish 2 года назад +9

    Love and respect to Andrew Garfield 🤗

  • @chibixleon
    @chibixleon 2 года назад +46

    We need more of this man, in anything and everything.

  • @jodijohnson23
    @jodijohnson23 2 года назад +7

    I can’t handle my tears when a grown man cries. But I need to find a man that clearly loves his mom like that. It’s beautiful!

  • @patriciahenao7843
    @patriciahenao7843 2 года назад +2

    “She was the best of us “ ……………😢 I love him .

  • @alvacardona6243
    @alvacardona6243 2 года назад +4

    Andrew Garfield, you're a beautiful person

  • @cottodotto
    @cottodotto 2 года назад +20

    I wish I could get the entirety of the “grief” monologue tattooed on me or just framed somewhere in my apartment forever.
    Been grieving my mom for more than a month now, and it’s only getting more painful with each day, but Andrew’s words have touched my soul and even somehow made me feel better in some weird sense.

  • @queenvamp6115
    @queenvamp6115 2 года назад +18

    the way he talks about his mother made me sob, he has such a beautiful soul what an amazing guy

  • @kolisionn
    @kolisionn Год назад +8

    That tribute to his mother brought so many tears to my eyes