7 Strategies Cheaters Use to Create Convincing Lies

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  • Опубликовано: 14 июл 2024
  • Those that cheat on their partners are often quite skilled at covering their tracks.These are some of the most common strategies that cheaters use to create convincing lies.
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  • @rionpk9888
    @rionpk9888 2 года назад +53

    It's amazing catching them and they still lie.

    • @stevec3892
      @stevec3892 2 года назад +3

      They all lie , my ex tore her apart her ex and yet cheated on me with him

    • @MattMussett
      @MattMussett Год назад +1

      Yeah I caught mine with a guy that cleans horses and looks like a creature🤣😂
      What a backstep

    • @katieelow8892
      @katieelow8892 День назад

      Yep pure disgusting people !!! My gf cheated after 6 years of unconditional love and care

    • @ashnilnarayan1081
      @ashnilnarayan1081 Час назад

      My ex girlfriend cheated on my multiple times with multiple different guys I found out that she was cheating on me from the day we made started talking she then started dating one of the guy she cheated on me with she then cheated on him with me so I stopped talking to her I later found out that she's been cheating on him with other guys, she's that bad that she went to his birthday on the Thursday and met up with a different guy the next day.. she blamed everything on me made it seem like I was the problem but I was never the problem and I finally realize that I was never the problem, she recently tried to talk to me again but I said sorry we should just stay as strangers lol

  • @bringingproductstolife
    @bringingproductstolife 3 года назад +81

    1. Choose Partner Who Has Integrity
    2. They Stay Close to the Truth
    3. They Provide Plentiful Details
    4. They Elicit Your Sympathy (if you're feeling sorry for them you won't be suspicious of them)
    5. They Use Supporting Evidence (real or manufactured, don't go looking)
    6. They Employ Distractions (easily focus your attention)
    7. They Make You Doubt Yourself (gaslighting)

    • @dangermartin69
      @dangermartin69 3 года назад +12

      Been there. Unreal the ease with which they lie.

  • @pdbess2011
    @pdbess2011 4 года назад +115

    My husband always made me think that I was crazy

    • @theguynextdoor4978
      @theguynextdoor4978 3 года назад +11

      That's gaslighting.

    • @1kmilez
      @1kmilez 3 года назад +5

      same here, he wasnt even my husband.. just a bf.. but the pain and hurt he caused me is unforgettable...
      🇪🇬💔🇵🇭

    • @pdbess2011
      @pdbess2011 3 года назад +3

      @@1kmilez I know what you mean, it was awful and he says that he doesn't remember most of the things he said and did

    • @1kmilez
      @1kmilez 3 года назад +2

      @@pdbess2011 and i found out he cheated on me.. apparently before he met me he already was in a relationship with a widow and he cheated on her and made me think im her first gf, therefore cheating on me too... 💔😤 im in awe of how he manages his time..

    • @pdbess2011
      @pdbess2011 3 года назад +5

      @@1kmilez I have been married for 10 years now and found out last year that he had a relationship with her for a year and a half..came home to me every night, but the worst part was when my son passed away 😢

  • @danodarkside6573
    @danodarkside6573 4 года назад +87

    People reap what they sow. If you continue to do wrong, lie cheat it will catch up with you eventually & if you do bad things..bad things will happen to you!

    • @natashajo1870
      @natashajo1870 4 года назад +6

      Mine has health problems now
      Gallstones
      He has been in hospital three times in ten years because of them
      I really think it’s because he cheats on me and the guilt and secrecy brought this illness on
      Karma is a bigger bitch than I can ever me!

    • @Onlinesully
      @Onlinesully 3 года назад +1

      Natasha Jo
      I wouldn't wish bad or want bad for the person who did dreadful stuff to me.

    • @Onlinesully
      @Onlinesully 3 года назад

      Dee Roy
      i accept that this is your point of view and how you feel about it.
      for me it was something far more complicated and unfortunately isn’t quite that simple.
      but I totally understand why you see it that way. i really do.
      and i hope that life is good to you. isn’t that what we all want too.
      take care.

  • @sharathnb
    @sharathnb 4 года назад +140

    I can't believe, every video I see, the comments section r filled with people with broken hearts.. infidelity is painful, may be it's time we educate children from small, so that we can make this world a slightly better place

    • @Theultimatebohab7137
      @Theultimatebohab7137 3 года назад +5

      its getting worse my ex wife cheated on me for the last 4 years of our marriage and off and on for the entire 14 years... i was always just crazy...

    • @sharathnb
      @sharathnb 3 года назад

      @@Theultimatebohab7137 hope you are doing good now. Surely, time will heal. Me and my wife wife have decided to stay on, it wasn't easy, but things are getting better

  • @82vettesable
    @82vettesable 5 лет назад +70

    It really stinks that people cheat in the first place, but never think it's you they're the ones with the demons that they have to deal with and ultimately at one point in their life they will have to answer to this..

    • @TheSourKraut
      @TheSourKraut 5 лет назад +6

      Robert Moritz AMEN, brother. but in my experience the lying seems even more calculated after the cheater has been exposed. and that makes everything so much worse. I have become allergic to lies to the point, I get physically sick when being lied to, often before I even realize that I'm being lied to. I can't even trust anybody anymore for fear of being lied to.
      the cheater seems fine, though, that I'm the one who's messed up for life while she lied to herself long enough to believe her own excuses.

    • @82vettesable
      @82vettesable 5 лет назад +4

      Oh they never will admit they did wrong, it's always us ! the woman I dated, her daughter knows all about her and everything and they don't even hardly talk I communicate with her two kids and her ex-husband every now and then and I know that probably eats her up inside.

    • @elizabethmirabile678
      @elizabethmirabile678 4 года назад +2

      I’m still being told it’s my fault cause I went back to work when he retired and he was lonely. It’s been over 1 1/2 years and I’m still heartbroken. I work in a major company where the affair partner works as well as I. Didn’t know I was being played by her to get to him

    • @yayapor9012
      @yayapor9012 3 года назад

      .My wife and i got Married last year and we have been living happily for a while. We used to be free with everything and never kept any secret from each other until recently everything changed when she got a new Job in NewYork months ago, we have been in a long distance relationship for some months,She has been avoiding my calls and i got suspicious of her cheating.I asked my wife about it and she told me that she is always busy and working ,We had a big argument about it,this went on for long until one day i decided to notify my friend about this and that was how she introduced me to Mr James a PI/Hacker who helped her when she was having issues with her Husband. I never believed he could do it but until i gave him my wife’s Mobile phone number. He proved to me by hacking into my wife’s phone. where i found so many evidence and proof in her Text messages, Emails and pictures that my wife has an affair with her co-worker. I have sent all the evidence to my lawyer. I just want to thank Mr James for helping me because i have all the evidence and proof for my lawyer, You can contact him on Gmail (cyberspyhacker2017) or WhatsApp +14093445982,I Feel so sad about infidelity

  • @nicolapetersen1633
    @nicolapetersen1633 4 месяца назад +5

    Why are there so many people getting cheated on?
    All the liars and cheaters should get their own city so they can lie, and cheat on each other, and leave the rest of us alone!
    It's disgusting and disturbing to say the least.

  • @kanika9995
    @kanika9995 3 года назад +54

    They are miserable toxic lost souls whom in reality are cheating themselves.

  • @somebodykind1167
    @somebodykind1167 4 года назад +64

    My boyfriend cheated on me ,and he’s trying to convince me but I didn’t and I won’t forgive him ,never give a second chance to a cheater 😏✌🏻thank you Next ..

    • @user-ym3cm8xs3p
      @user-ym3cm8xs3p 4 года назад +4

      You are absolutely right. There is no "it will never happen again". If they can get away with it once, then they will con TV indie to degrade your trust by cheating. It's a humiliating discovery. I meant humbling experience if you c as n look at it from that perspective. Especially when you are the last one in the room to find out, it acknowledge that it happened.

    • @brightpage1020
      @brightpage1020 3 года назад +1

      Stay strong! Keep up the great work. If he’s just a boyf perhaps you two don’t have kids together yet. Let him go while you still can. Good on you for being so brave in sharing.

  • @ashcoolik4492
    @ashcoolik4492 3 года назад +83

    So true about the part about integrity!!!
    Before my ex, I couldn’t believe anyone would find lying easier than telling the truth

  • @tanamo4632
    @tanamo4632 3 года назад +73

    They’re not necessarily great liars, it’s just that you don’t want to accept the truth, so you’ll try to ignore the red flags, because the reality is too painful.

    • @RicardoLopez-ty4kn
      @RicardoLopez-ty4kn 2 года назад +2

      Facts

    • @HorrorWorldx
      @HorrorWorldx Год назад

      Yeah lol

    • @luckyjaff855
      @luckyjaff855 Год назад

      you spoke my heart out and the brutal reality

    • @johnconde8837
      @johnconde8837 5 месяцев назад +1

      So true unless we catch them in the act they just keep on lying or have a video .

    • @user-eq4il1jy6c
      @user-eq4il1jy6c 3 месяца назад +1

      Don't buy that, I confronted both my wife and her affair partner. Both lied their hearts out.
      When they were caught out, he kept denying this to my face whilst my wife was sitting in the same area finally admitting what had been going on.
      How do you figure that out??

  • @johnpacheco1316
    @johnpacheco1316 4 года назад +111

    I found out my wife cheated with her ex whom she smeared to me. Saying he was this,that,etc. Such a sad shame. I've also uncovered so many other lies as well. Keep your head up everyone who has been cheated on! There are still descent people out there for us!

    • @pdbess2011
      @pdbess2011 3 года назад +11

      Thank you, I needed this today.....it's crazy how someone can look you in the eyes and tell so many lies 🥺🥺 especially your so called best friend

    • @kanika9995
      @kanika9995 3 года назад +8

      Resonates much.

    • @stevec3892
      @stevec3892 2 года назад +8

      They all do that

    • @Jeff-uq7iu
      @Jeff-uq7iu 2 года назад +4

      Same it was her supposed abusive ex. Her lies were very creative lunch meetings long meetings dr appointments yoga. She was never home. Her anxiety went through the roof. She blamed me for her anxiety but it was her fear of being found out. What's sad is her son knew he's 16 and I've known him since he was 4

    • @kendallcjones9032
      @kendallcjones9032 Год назад +3

      @@pdbess2011 they look you dead in the eye and so casually lie; “you know I would never do that. You’re the only one for me.” “I’ve been such and such place the entire time, don’t you trust me?!” Dead lies… not even a flinch. What she didn’t know is the very question I was asking her, I already knew the answer to, I was just trying to see what she would say. She lied, lied, and lied with complete ease. It sent a chill up my back.

  • @tonyawhitehead2209
    @tonyawhitehead2209 3 года назад +65

    I am just SOOOO amazed at how they can lie right in front of your face!! It provokes anger in me like nothing else! I just got a story that he was going to barbecue for some people at 2:00AM, in the rain because they liked how he barbecued so much! He even left with meat in his hands to barbecue! These people are RUTHLESS! I just don't get how they lie right in front of you?!! It's truly mind BOGGLING to me! Thanks for sharing your story too. Much love to you ❤️

    • @nryane
      @nryane Год назад

      The ex did something like this, one Friday evening. He “had been invited to the birthday party of a friend’s child”!!!
      Like, WHO invites adults to a child’s EVENING birthday party?!!!
      Incredulous! He actually thought I would believe him!

    • @BBurns22
      @BBurns22 Год назад

      Lol what happened when he came back? Because if I was you I would have asked him to bring some BBQ back for me lol.

  • @jasonsanborn9711
    @jasonsanborn9711 2 года назад +18

    My girlfriend gets text messages from a coworker everyday when she's home from work and she tells me it's about work and it's part of her job but when I ask her to see these messages she gets all defensive

    • @jmcrjc6799
      @jmcrjc6799 2 года назад +10

      She is cheating on you grab the phone out of her hand trust me...Privacy is just a ploy for secrets been there done that.If she has to hide her phone or get super guarded over the phone or social media accounts.I would demand it right on the spot because no room with secrets are in a healthy in a relationship.

    • @johnlefosse7902
      @johnlefosse7902 2 года назад +5

      Shes cheating on you, that happened to me

    • @paul9570
      @paul9570 Год назад +5

      A message to all people.
      If your wife/ husband has a so called friend from work of the opposite sex who is texting them everyday outside of work then they are having or begining to have an affair. ....simple

    • @davidmarsh3533
      @davidmarsh3533 11 месяцев назад +2

      Run for the hills mate

    • @WashedCoachWith3Chips
      @WashedCoachWith3Chips 10 месяцев назад

      Bro, I had the same exact thing happen to me recently! Days ago to be exact. She started a new job and all of a sudden all i hear is "arty this arty that." Her fat boss. I'll get back to that.
      I saw him on FB and thought ah shit I have nothing to worry about he looks like Earl Sinclair from "Dinosaurs" But a lot of my soon to be ex's habits changed quickly. More makeup, dieting, no interest in me at all, smiling at her phone, passcode, phone upside down and her snapchat location turned off. I've never been possessive I was always under the impression I could trust her. In the beginning I had MULTIPLE chances to f around her. I never crossed that line. Because I know what cheating does and EVERYONE gets caught. I wanted to make my marriage work and have a partner for life. Thinking about how much her parents and I get along, what they've done to help us at times w/ fixing our appliances. So I refused to be a piece of shit who dishonors my vows. ANyways months passed I finally catch wind about how her and Arty the fat piece of shit boss were acting at the gym they attend. Like I said I looked at him and saw no threat. FOr one I could kick his ass in a fist fight, he may make more money and have a better job. COOL GREAT don't care! I confront my wife and immediately it turned into me in tears to a big "FU deflection" EVERYTHING I'm doing wrong! and "he's just a friend"
      6 months pass I'm still suspicious and I got a DM from Fat boy's now ex confirming she went through his phone and found incriminating shit. She asked if I had any idea and his reply to her was "She'll take care of him." You can't make that up. I confronted my soon to be ex and she still denies it, chalks it up to fat boy's ex being "crazy" So i asked "why would she specifically try and sabotage our marriage and target you?" Why go through all that trouble? I said I have screenshots of fat boy and his ex texting and he basically admitted to cheating with her HIS EMPLOYEE mind you! Then "oh you're crazy! You're in your own f'n head!" Ugh it sucks dude but PAY CLOSE ATTENTION!

  • @We_Are_Borg_478
    @We_Are_Borg_478 2 года назад +21

    The one comfort I can offer you people is that if YOU are an honest, good person in your relationship, you won't feel bad when you get dumped or cheated on.
    You know that you were pure, and anything your lover did becomes irrelevant.
    You have your morals and your life. You've lost nothing.

    • @brennycotter6634
      @brennycotter6634 2 года назад

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      @brennycotter6634 2 года назад

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  • @pdt1973the1st
    @pdt1973the1st 4 года назад +59

    I've seen all of your examples in this last 32 days in one way or another. I never saw it coming and it destroyed me. Thank you for your videos and your incredibly soft delivery

    • @raqueljones6607
      @raqueljones6607 3 года назад +4

      It’s such a terrible feeling. I’m going through it right now too. I seriously wouldn’t wish this pain on my worst enemy. I can’t believe such people are in this world. Keep your head up. 😞

    • @pdbess2011
      @pdbess2011 3 года назад +3

      I know what you mean 🥺, someone you thought that you could trust with everything.

  • @88888888mummypig
    @88888888mummypig Год назад +5

    A cheat when confronted turns tables ! Tries to blame you
    Liars !!
    Plentiful details , yes !
    Sympathy ! Yes ! I have
    Stomoch pains !!
    Distractions !!! Yes !!
    Has lighting !! Yes all me !!
    GOT IT !!
    LIGHT ON

  • @thunderbird6777
    @thunderbird6777 3 года назад +7

    You just exposed a SOCIOPATH!!!! Thank God you are away from him and are so beautiful inside and out!!!

  • @tedschmitt178
    @tedschmitt178 2 года назад +45

    They cheat and then they blame you for “making” them cheat. Then they will also tell you that “there’s really no excuse for cheating”. Yep, my ex wife said that after her two affairs. Well, the two that I actually know about.

    • @brennycotter6634
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      @brennycotter6634 2 года назад

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    • @MattMussett
      @MattMussett Год назад

      So true . Know your worth

    • @willglazier9792
      @willglazier9792 10 месяцев назад

      Who left who. Im going through this shit now. All i got my gut feeling and all her ssus behavior.

  • @kimxxxoxo5826
    @kimxxxoxo5826 2 года назад +5

    My daughter father made me think I'm crazy all the time..he calls me paranoid when Im already know the truth. People won't gossip if it was not true

  • @lil--mo2025
    @lil--mo2025 3 года назад +14

    That was precisely what I’ve witnessed over and over again with pretty much every women I’ve ever fallen for. One of the greatest aspects of this for me is the opportunity to see how terrible I was throughout my teens and twenties while I was actively drinking. I wasn’t really a cheater, but I’d certainly lie and sneak around to party and have other options. I guess this last young girl was more of my Karma catching up to me.

  • @kamran6072
    @kamran6072 4 года назад +14

    At least some of you have gfs or wives that have enough respect for u to tell u. Unlike mine who likes to undermine my intelligence lie and gaslight me. One day she will be cheating on and manipulated just like she's done to me. She doesn't see what she's got but she'll realise when she gets in a relationship with a cheater and her life will be so fake it will screw her mind. I'm genuine as fuck and I expect the same in return. Oh well. I know my worth and 'our dream' will become just my dream and she can go back to a boring life surrounded by shit people going nowhere in life.

    • @katiecavallero2991
      @katiecavallero2991 4 года назад +2

      Kam Ran my ex is currently in a relationship with someone who is engaged to someone else. My ex cheated on me compulsively, while I sat back and believed the lies and accepted the gaslighting. At the time, I didn’t know what gaslighting was.
      Stay genuine, and our exes will get what’s coming for them.

  • @mindybailey3532
    @mindybailey3532 Год назад +6

    Mine would tell me what kind of person or particular type of woman by height, hair color, body shape, particular, feature that he hated and guess what? Whichever he was talking bad about was what the woman he was interested in had.

    • @lisaarends8742
      @lisaarends8742  Год назад +2

      Isn’t that wild how they do that? Once we find out, it seems so obvious - and juvenile.

  • @yasmeinalbechary2501
    @yasmeinalbechary2501 Год назад +5

    one thing i’ve realized that they do is tell you they’ve been cheated on before

    • @LizEarthAngel3
      @LizEarthAngel3 Месяц назад

      Yes this, twice now, both cheaters, second cheater even knew how my husband hurt me than did the same they don’t care, best thing we can do is walk away and go no contact

  • @nicolee7302
    @nicolee7302 4 года назад +23

    At some parts of the video I could really feel the pain she went through and how much it hurt her :( I know she said in her previous video that it was 8 years ago I believe, but that doesn't mean her emotions and feelings of hurt and pain that she felt at that time, have been forgotton.

  • @haydeejohnson8290
    @haydeejohnson8290 4 года назад +30

    My ex used to make noises after a lie.
    When he got up from the couch, ohhh his bones would hurt like a poor old man. There was always an "Ouch" here, "Ouch" there, "Ouch" everywhere. His objective was to distract from the lie he just told, with instant sympathy for his
    coincindential random pain.

  • @OriginofX
    @OriginofX 3 года назад +7

    The pain I can see on your eyes while telling. It's so true and hurtful. I'm feeling very sad for you. You please take care..
    It's happening to me just month ago, I can understand, why it's so painful

  • @Njoumanoura
    @Njoumanoura 2 года назад +3

    The most valueble advice: THE CHEATERS JEALOUSY.

  • @teresahudson977
    @teresahudson977 2 года назад +4

    The fact that those of us who are the most trusting are the ones who get hurt the most is the sadist part of a CHEATERS GAME!

    • @lisaarends8742
      @lisaarends8742  2 года назад

      It is sad. And it changes how we trust forever.

    • @DoubtingThomas333
      @DoubtingThomas333 Год назад

      Honest people feel the pain and pay the price.

  • @AngyNags
    @AngyNags Год назад +4

    You got them exactly correct! Can’t believe how accurately you mentioned the traits!

    • @lisaarends8742
      @lisaarends8742  Год назад +4

      It’s wild how it’s like they all read from the same script

    • @HorrorWorldx
      @HorrorWorldx Год назад +1

      @@lisaarends8742 that’s what it seems like lol

  • @karenabellaong9274
    @karenabellaong9274 2 года назад +1

    Love the last 2 lines. Wasn’t expecting that. Brilliant heart. Blessed be.

  • @saynotohookups
    @saynotohookups 17 дней назад

    I saw a comment on Facebook that someone made: cheating should be outlawed. I agree.

  • @hockinghillsalive3624
    @hockinghillsalive3624 3 года назад +4

    Wow.
    I sincerely hope that you're better now. I feel your pain and disappointment.
    This is a great video. Thank you for sharing with us.

  • @DynamiteKid1224
    @DynamiteKid1224 4 года назад +8

    Thanks again a ton! You're such a lovely person, God bless you!

  • @harrychul785
    @harrychul785 Год назад +2

    Thank You Raz, this has really brought a lot to light with this information you have provided. I'm certain my g.f. that's in a divorce now is also seeing at least 2 other men in her "side" business. She has altered stories, asked me many times do I trust her, and said to me I'd never cheat on you. But she told me had a few years ago she gave a guy a b**** and her justification was her husband might be involved with another or other women

  • @jimmycoco6506
    @jimmycoco6506 2 года назад +4

    I can almost feel your pain through your words.
    All great points and dead on.
    It's just so sad that a person has to go through so much pain to gain this knowledge

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      @HorrorWorldx Год назад

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  • @fletaburr191
    @fletaburr191 2 года назад +3

    He makes me feel I'm the bad one paranoid

  • @AbdullahShubbar
    @AbdullahShubbar 4 года назад +6

    Thank you...
    This made my night a little bit easier...

  • @brianyerger583
    @brianyerger583 2 года назад +1

    Thank You Lisa, this has really brought a lot to light with this information you have provided. I'm certain my g.f. that's in a divorce now is also seeing atleast 2 other men in her "side" business. She has altered stories, asked me a you times do I trust her, and said to me I'd never cheat on you. But she told me had a few years ago she gave a guy a b****** and her justification was her husband might be involved with another or other women

    • @carlathompson9308
      @carlathompson9308 2 года назад +1

      Ok I'm sorry but there is aoo many things with your statements and qhat you are doing here
      If she is getting a divorce that implies she is still married. You are helping her cheat.
      2 why do you think she is getting a divorce he r husband got tired of her lying ass
      3 she is not her boyfriend you are a side piece.
      4 dude wholesome single girl from a shared friend group of church right now you are playing with dynamite
      5 if she is willing to cheat with you what makes you thinks she won't cheat on you

  • @aaronfritz98
    @aaronfritz98 2 года назад +5

    My wife had 2 affairs and the second time she lied even further to move this man into my home with my kids by having me falsely arrested… I’d like to share my story… it’s something I need help with…

  • @brightpage1020
    @brightpage1020 3 года назад +1

    Thank you! This is amazing and so helpful!

  • @Hrov
    @Hrov 2 года назад +1

    This is helping me put all the pieces together but just feeling empty lost and confused and hoping I can pull through this

  • @DouglasMoreland-qd5cz
    @DouglasMoreland-qd5cz Месяц назад

    I love when they say they want happiness in their lives yet run to a person who knows their married with kids most of the time and they think this AP is going to give them that happiness…such BS!

  • @farazidris9280
    @farazidris9280 Год назад +2

    My x was the biggest cheater. She stooped so low to cover her infidelity, more than her cheating its the lengths she went to cover it up with lies and manipulation which made me sick.

  • @americandad4864
    @americandad4864 2 года назад +3

    Great video .
    I would offer one more action of a “cheater”.
    A cheater will garner support from family and turn them against you .....
    Good luck Ma’am 🇺🇸

  • @racailmagdalene5584
    @racailmagdalene5584 3 года назад +4

    The guy I fell for always said I was the only one. But I've never been the only one. He made up so many excuses why he never took my calls or responded to my text. I do have medical issues. So he made me feel guilty about my absence. He blamed me for everything. But I hate cheaters.

    • @teemillion123
      @teemillion123 3 года назад

      I believe trust in relationship is overrated. After my husband was always making calls at night , I would ask and he would just wave off those calls as unimportant.I couldn’t deal with all his lies anymore at some point. Then I decided to find a way to know what was going on and I had to talk to a colleague of mine at work which referred me to this great hacking team ultimate hack who helped clone his cellphone without having to touch his device. To my surprise my husband has been a cheating Narcissist. and I’m glad i found out all his secrets and infidelity and how he planned on using this pandemic to get back to me. I got access to his Facebook, iMessage, GPS location , WhatsApp, Call Logs and Text Messages both recent and deleted ones with a remote link that was processed . I’m here in New York and was able to access my husband’s phone even while he was away in Australia cheating on me. I was heartbroken when I found out about all the conversation my husband was having with other girls and how he was flirting on dating site. I am glad I was able to get help. you can contact them via email at ultimatehack003(at)gmail com or via WhatsApp,text or call +17202954268 now i have enough evidence to go through divorce but I’m not sure if I should let him go or stay cause we have 4 years old girl together. Please I need advice to know if I should give him another chance or just let him go.

  • @siprabiswas7084
    @siprabiswas7084 Год назад

    Yes all u said is true.. gone through same experience these pathological liars attack our integrity first 👍

  • @loriwhalen2321
    @loriwhalen2321 5 лет назад +16

    Thank You so much for sharing your painful but wise experience. You're a beautiful person.

    • @82vettesable
      @82vettesable 5 лет назад

      Well thank you Lori, I appreciate you.

  • @dirtlump
    @dirtlump 3 года назад +2

    Wow.... really good points.

  • @KevinSmith-xt8xr
    @KevinSmith-xt8xr 2 года назад +3

    if a women says wowwwwww or what are you talking about ... just break up

    • @mmmccc3657
      @mmmccc3657 2 года назад +1

      This is funny bcuz my wife says this all the time..

  • @wassamatta4uny550
    @wassamatta4uny550 2 года назад +2

    I fell for it because I was stupid and gullible. Now I'm an asshole to protect myself.

  • @ernestgibson8950
    @ernestgibson8950 2 года назад +2

    Thank you i am 62 been married 25 year just found out

  • @Lexioso
    @Lexioso 2 года назад

    Peace and love to you ❤️, thank you for sharing 🙏🏽

  • @wizardofahhhs759
    @wizardofahhhs759 10 месяцев назад +1

    My wife made it easy for me to believe because she was a waitress and her work schedule was always changing. I had no reason to doubt what she was telling me.

  • @jacquelinefloyd3648
    @jacquelinefloyd3648 3 года назад +6

    That’s exactly what my husband did told me he was sexually abused when he was a child and had never told anyone. I don’t even know if it’s true!! He just have got caught up with his mess!!

    • @Divergent333
      @Divergent333 2 года назад +2

      Wow that must be common. Mine told me the same

    • @Connor4x4
      @Connor4x4 2 года назад +2

      My recent ex girlfriend said the same

    • @alyciamarie4163
      @alyciamarie4163 Год назад +1

      Mine did as well. The kicker? I don’t think he was but I believe he knew I was before I even realized …

    • @user-qj6jb9nk9w
      @user-qj6jb9nk9w 10 месяцев назад +1

      My cheater ex told me the same thing! All lies. Even said this one woman he had sex with had r-‘d him!! That was before we had met, but he couldn’t even admit to sleeping with her so he said she took advantage of him. Said he was r-‘d as a teenager and has a lot of trauma and that’s why he cheated. Unbelievable.

    • @peterbalac1915
      @peterbalac1915 7 месяцев назад

      All these cheaters have the same thing in common, they are all looking for the sympathy vote it clouds your rationale thinking.

  • @frankiereno
    @frankiereno 2 года назад

    You are so sweet and beautiful that I cannot see how anyone could cheat on you. So sorry you went through that., I’m going thru it too and trying to get strong enough to stop my love. It’s hard but I pray God helps to make it easy!!!

  • @malisamasterson7389
    @malisamasterson7389 3 года назад +1

    Learn a lot from her 100 percent right

  • @michaelreed9805
    @michaelreed9805 2 года назад +4

    I did the same thing. I ended up forgiving her to the point I was used to her behavior. to the point it didn't bother me and I knew it was time to walk

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      @brennycotter6634 2 года назад

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      @brennycotter6634 2 года назад

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    • @michaelreed9805
      @michaelreed9805 2 года назад

      @@brennycotter6634there's no way would I even consider putting myself through that again...life's to short

  • @clydebevi6393
    @clydebevi6393 2 года назад

    It's good to know and get the power back. Once you have the power back you can crush them. They broke your heart and now it's your turn.

  • @dave7mmhunter105
    @dave7mmhunter105 2 года назад

    Its. A SHAME you had to go through all of that . There are people your can Love and Trust and Who Are Faithful.

  • @stephanierobinson6587
    @stephanierobinson6587 2 года назад +3

    Me and my husband have been together married in Feb 42 years been together 45 as long as he would talk things out I had no worries when he quit talking wouldn't let me on the computer won't let anyone touch his phone or anything then he tried to say all these sites just appeared.Well we are in a sexless marriage over 13 years he had stroke and heartattack he says he can't and doesn't want to try..So we have handicapped child he got so mentally abusive I told him I was leaving.Its hard with our son. But hopefully if things workout I can leave next May or june

  • @leannetrevino4044
    @leannetrevino4044 Год назад

    💯... didn't want to believe the TRUTH.

  • @rosab6094
    @rosab6094 2 года назад +1

    This is horrifyingly true.

  • @MrRemirem88
    @MrRemirem88 2 года назад

    I'm so sorry that you had to go through that

  • @johnconde8837
    @johnconde8837 5 месяцев назад

    The worst is when they hide behind their job and business with someone. Everything goes back to work business meeting phone calls Texting it’s all business related .It is a pass to spend time with the person.

  • @Richard-hx6mi
    @Richard-hx6mi 5 месяцев назад

    It´s funny how you can see the guilt eating them up alive on the inside. Admitting the truth and having to face the fear of embarrassment is difficult for liars!

  • @kingcaid7
    @kingcaid7 3 года назад +4

    How bout a video as to why guys who reject a womans love out of fear of commitment fall under the same lines as a cheater?

    • @reneekelley4279
      @reneekelley4279 3 года назад +2

      My husband and i got Married last year and we have been living happily for a while. We used to be free with everything and never kept any secret from each other until recently everything changed when he got a new Job in Texas months ago, we have been in a long distance relationship for some months, he has been avoiding my calls and i got suspicious of him cheating.I asked my husband about it and he told me that he is always busy and working ,We had a big argument about it, this went on for long until one day i decided to notify my friend about this and that was how she introduced me to Mr John a PI/Hacker who helped her when she was having issues with her Husband. I never believed he could do it but until i gave him my husband’s Mobile phone number. He proved to me by hacking into my husband’s phone. where i found so many evidence and proof in his Text messages, whatsapp,instagram and other social media including pictures that my husband has an affair with his co-worker. I have sent all the evidence to my lawyer. I just want to thank Mr John for helping me because i have all the evidence and proof for my lawyer, You can contact him on Gmail (ultimatehack003 ) or WhatsApp +17202954268, i Feel so sad about infidelity.

  • @michaelreed9805
    @michaelreed9805 Год назад +1

    Save all texts and take notes for reference. They will drive you crazy making you second guess yourself

    • @lisaarends8742
      @lisaarends8742  Год назад +1

      I used to keep "proof" in my purse for those first few months to remind me I wasn't crazy.

    • @michaelreed9805
      @michaelreed9805 Год назад

      @@lisaarends8742 I didn't realize anything until 6 or 7 months ...started saving texts a few months later. I just didn't think someone could be that way...to trusting maybe. now life is good...the love was crushed. and looking back reveals even more that I missed. Lol, it's amazing how someone like that actually exists and not some actor types on a Jerry Springer episode...lol

    • @lisaarends8742
      @lisaarends8742  Год назад +1

      @@michaelreed9805 It's quite a disturbing realization.

  • @valeriemartinez7165
    @valeriemartinez7165 2 года назад +1

    Hello I’m really happy u shared this video i been feeling it’s my fault

  • @kimxxxoxo5826
    @kimxxxoxo5826 2 года назад

    I caught someone doing cheating & it's already well-known but still does not want to admit the truth!

  • @aaronshaw9982
    @aaronshaw9982 2 года назад +1

    I cannot prove my Fiance and my Brother had an affair but what you have said makes me more convinced that they did,
    They made me so paranoid that I actually collapsed in car park ending up in hospital, both her and my brother both smeared each other, as they both know I am trustworthy and take people at face value,
    I still cannot prove that they did,

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  • @nryane
    @nryane Год назад

    TRUTH!
    I have the power!

  • @SteelLighter
    @SteelLighter 2 года назад +2

    I mean what the hell?!! You know everything OMG

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  • @dlvox5222
    @dlvox5222 2 года назад +3

    My wife claims that she doesn’t have time to cheat on me.

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      @brennycotter6634 2 года назад

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      @brennycotter6634 2 года назад

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  • @johnathonaclinton8080
    @johnathonaclinton8080 2 года назад

    Thank you.

  • @retiredafce3373
    @retiredafce3373 2 года назад +3

    It’s prevalent! My ex wife and every girlfriend I’ve had has or is cheating.

    • @williamclayton9566
      @williamclayton9566 2 года назад +2

      Maybe it's you.

    • @retiredafce3373
      @retiredafce3373 2 года назад

      @@williamclayton9566 more then likely it’s me.

    • @BH-os2xv
      @BH-os2xv Год назад +1

      Same. Don't blame yourself. It's they're fault.

    • @retiredafce3373
      @retiredafce3373 Год назад

      @@BH-os2xv yes, it took me a very long time to realize that.

  • @boomersD9CAT
    @boomersD9CAT Год назад +1

    I’m closing in on confirming that my Fiancé has been cheating on me. She tells me I need a counselor, and I’m losing it. No I don’t need a counselor, but that’s her attempt at gaslighting me. I’m waiting on the results of a DNA infidelity test, and I’d be a liar if I didn’t say I hope it’s a match for my DNA,not a stranger.Crushing

    • @lehlohonolowa-makhakhe8798
      @lehlohonolowa-makhakhe8798 8 месяцев назад

      So what did you find out?

    • @boomersD9CAT
      @boomersD9CAT 8 месяцев назад

      @@lehlohonolowa-makhakhe8798 She’s been cheating on me for almost two years…I broke off the engagement, and thank my lucky stars that I never married her. 6 years of my life down the, but a valuable lesson learned !🙏🏻

  • @ashnilnarayan1081
    @ashnilnarayan1081 Час назад

    My ex girlfriend cheated on my multiple times with multiple different guys I found out that she was cheating on me from the day we made started talking she then started dating one of the guy she cheated on me with she then cheated on him with me so I stopped talking to her I later found out that she's been cheating on him with other guys, she's that bad that she went to his birthday on the Thursday and met up with a different guy the next day.. she blamed everything on me made it seem like I was the problem but I was never the problem and I finally realize that I was never the problem, she recently tried to talk to me again but I said sorry we should just stay as strangers lol

  • @wz4498
    @wz4498 2 года назад

    I wish I had of been able to meet someone like you,as I was with a woman for the new 6 years,and just to found out that she cheated on me,and also she put me through so much emotional turmoil and she was very Much a narcissist,and managed to pull a wool over my eyes,and this sucks,as I was very faithful to her,as I cannot stand the cheating game at all as I give my whole heart to whoever I am with. Anyways,thank you for reading this,and feel free to send me a reply,and God bless you,and be safe,
    Bill.

  • @parveenkaur1502
    @parveenkaur1502 4 года назад +9

    right breakup get divorce and free your self ..... but anybody who is in a relationship or marriage cheating they all gonna get their bad karma( hard very hard)

  • @ap630
    @ap630 3 года назад +4

    Wish I would of seen this video 10yrs ago...:(

  • @MzTinkerbell
    @MzTinkerbell 2 года назад +1

    Spot on! My ex did all 7😆

  • @gemdandy7350
    @gemdandy7350 Год назад

    I'm in disbelief that a man would cheat on you! That's what women say to me about my wife cheating! I'm right in the middle of this process, just patiently waiting for it to play itself out! I know now after a lot of research that a cheater is going to cheat! I feel for anyone who is in this situation. Just remember, no matter what you think you could have done it would have happened anyway. The grass always looks greener on the other side of the fence! God Bless!

  • @Shinkyogan
    @Shinkyogan 4 года назад +1

    6 & 7!!

  • @marafenton8178
    @marafenton8178 2 года назад +2

    My X choose people who scored high on the big 5 personally test or OCEAN(H)..... low on the dark triades. Oh married too!

  • @johnjulioratchford6110
    @johnjulioratchford6110 3 года назад

    Nice!

  • @workinprogress3942
    @workinprogress3942 2 года назад

    How can would anybody even consider cheating on you. I myself have just found out that my wife of 30 years married ( I'm 48 ), while at her birthday party she invites her male coworker and along with both of their actions that day, it was definitely somthing to look into. She swears up n down but it's sad to think after so many years she has words with a coworker.

  • @jf1341
    @jf1341 10 месяцев назад

    Thanks sister 🙏🙏

  • @redoak3809
    @redoak3809 2 года назад +6

    Your video was spot on! More thoughts...
    "I wish I had cheated, since you accused me. I might as well, now"
    Or, how about... "You have no proof!"
    The gut feeling pretty much tells all...

  • @terryhill9901
    @terryhill9901 Год назад +1

    I had affairs for years,only mine was with drugs,and work, I could of had women but didn't go there

    • @lisaarends8742
      @lisaarends8742  Год назад +1

      You make a good point - we can use so many different things as ways to avoid and distract.

  • @twistedraffo
    @twistedraffo 2 года назад

    I feel you

  • @jamesvalentine4597
    @jamesvalentine4597 Месяц назад

    So sorry to hear about the painful lies a deception that you had to suffer at the hands of this very sad and selfish person. You my lovely are farrrrrrr better off without this pathetic little ego maniac.I once watched a program on relationships and the female phycologist said you show me the most beautiful woman and I show you the man who will cheat. You are that beautiful beautiful woman 💕You are a million miles in front and some very lucky man is about to meet you and love you for the beautiful person you are O how I wish it could have been me 😡💝👏✌️🙏

  • @gabrieljones4866
    @gabrieljones4866 2 года назад +1

    What kind of a git of a man would cheat on an articulate, intelligent wee bonnie lass like this?!

    • @lisaarends8742
      @lisaarends8742  2 года назад +1

      A man who was wrestling his own demons and hurt others in the fight 😢

  • @evaschnell9800
    @evaschnell9800 Год назад

    Cheaters aren't worth your love and your presence. Shall they stay with their sidepieces, who agree in lying.

  • @purpleliver12
    @purpleliver12 3 года назад

    I was wondering a topic that I couldn't find discussed, what if someone, not your partner, wants to accuse you of cheating with them to hurt you. How could you refute them?

    • @garystinten9339
      @garystinten9339 2 года назад

      Have your partner there and ask that person in front of your partner "what would make you think I'd want to cheat on !t partner"..
      Before doing this, let your partner on it before asking..

  • @Micklepicklee
    @Micklepicklee 4 года назад +4

    i was cheated on 2 days ago we just got a house together 2 months ago she did everything you just but not only did she cheat she made me feel so bad about my self that i almost gave up in this world and she still rode that just so she could be happy

  • @dave7mmhunter105
    @dave7mmhunter105 2 года назад +1

    The 1 thing You forgot to tell is , What's Did He Do that SHOWED YOU HE WAS CHEATING ???

  • @Divergent333
    @Divergent333 2 года назад

    Absolutely

  • @michaelreed9805
    @michaelreed9805 Год назад

    They have patterns for sure. they are evil selfish people that know no empathy

  • @dangermartin69
    @dangermartin69 3 года назад

    If you think your wife is cheating or maybe had a fling with your friend and you talk to her about it, if she denies it but then turns around and says something like " I think if your friend found out your were saying this, he'd be really angry with you", did she actually do it? Anyone, please give me your input. Also, yes, my wife had a six month affair with a former co-worker many years ago, while we were married. It was ugly.