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I simply asked my husband what direction do you want our relationship to take? My husband told me I want to marry you. At that point we both made a decision to only date each other...My follow up was no one can call me his fiance without the symbol of the engagement ring & no one can be engaged to me without publicly celebrating & announcing our engagement and planning our wedding. This discussion took place prior to becoming intimate. We were married within 2 years of dating and our first 2 years planning our wedding increasing our spiritual, educational, & Leadership goals. We have been married for 19 years!
19 years 19 likes. Starting on 19 comments
Beautiful!
Great question I’ll take this with me
thanks for sharing
That's a good one never thought of that "what direction.." 👌guess whatever works.
I asked my ex: if I were you daughter and she was dating someone like you, what would you tell her? He said, “I would tell her to run.” 😳 He’s my ex for a reason!
👌👌👌
he sure is. lol
Ohh that's a reallyyy good one. I'm stealing that.
On it
@Kahoot Money and that's why she asked . Half of y'all know you ain't no good and thats why you wouldn't be able to face your daughters about the extent of the horrible behavior men have. Let's be real!
Some are pathological liars. They’ll lie and lie and lie
Exactly
And even through the lies, women will continue to date that man, find out more nonsense about him then after being taken through the ringer, tell the world how much of a loser he was. It happens time and time again it ridiculous. It’s very very simple. Pay attention to the signs, I don’t care what the hell he says out his mouth.
That was my recent experience
U said it so well 👏
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👍🏽❤️.. Lie to your face like it's truth 🤦🏾
I asked a guy who was hot and cold with me this question: How do you deal with a girl you really like? He said he would have to see her often. It seems he realized he wasn't doing that with me and he tried to explain away his obvious behaviour. I asked him if he plays chess. When he said yes I said, "Checkmate."
He lost that game because I moved on that day.
Pure GOLD! 👏🏾 “checkmate!”
It take a lot of courage to stand in your truth.😌
Smart, Sis. Kudos!
He should of asked you if that would universally apply to all generic relationships, and do you consider this relationship generic.
Guess you caught him by surprise
Love it💯😊🌻🌹💖💖💖😂🤣😂🤣
Don't ask him Ish. He gone do what he wanna do no matter what he says. Just watch his actions you'll know all you need to know🧐
Facts!
Exactly!!!!
I second and third that motion...No need to ask him anything just make sure you got another one waiting in the wings best believe he does....
I get it but sometimes observations takes too long. Ask then observe.
This! Guys will give you allll kinds of lip service about what they want, who they are, where they're going, and what they'll do for you. Just pay attention to actions and red flags. DO NOT ignore the red flags. I feel like that's most people's biggest mistakes with dating in general, myself included smh
And if the answer is not in your favor, do NOT try to make him CHANGE HIS MIND. Accept it without cussing or calling him names, and just step off with your dignity intact… God was gracious enough to let you hear TRUTH
Yeah ask this 2days ago got the wrong answer. Accepted it and left though it hurts a little but ma dignity and respect is intact
@@fokaaveril3348
I like that. God’s best to you
Amen
DIGNITY that's a IGNORANT word to use . person has every right to be pissed off and speak their mind to the slimy piece of shit you don't lay down like a weak dog!!!!
Amennn
I ain’t asking a man NOTHING. God speaks very clear and very loud! 😂😂😂
I may not ask that, but even Jesus asked questions.
You may not know what she is saying but I know very well what she is saying when she said God speak loud trust me he speak loud to his sheeps . I know for me I have a personal relationship with my heavenly father and when he speaks he speaks and he's a gentleman at heart 🙏🏿🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏼🙏🙏🙏🏿🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏼🙏☠️🙏🏿🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏼🙏
@@tonyacarpenter9033Jesus did ask questions but it was to benefit the people he asked. He already knew the answers.
I asked my date at the time a very serious question before we moved on to being BF and GF: " I see myself being with someone I can be married with and grow a future with...do you feel the same way?" He said "its funny you say that, I also have the same future in mind!".....we've been married now 17 yrs with 4 kids and we're still growing. 🥰👩❤️💋👨
Very romantic. Thank you for sharing❤
If you even have to ask, he’s not.
It worked for her though doesn't mean it's gonna work for everyone and everybody...
I was thinking this, because mine _led_ with his intentions, then asked _me._
Remember, though, that people differ. Some might need to be asked.🤷🏽♀️
🙏🏽💛
Oh please. You need to ask because you may be in the same pages yes and he's leading as you want but the details may be different. The timeline especially. What ... so ypu just let him lead you to oblivion with his actions 😒🤣 ofcourse you have talk and ask the questions that need to be asked and answered tf. Yall are the ones who find out things about the man after you have tied the knot and cry why he didn't tell you he didn't want kids or had a vasectomy... gurllll you never asked.
@@BL3SSed-Bliss This is the rarest thing I've ever heard of a progressing relationship. What did you do to attract someone w/ this level of clarity who also had accountable ppl around him & this kind of follow through? This sounds like a real unicorn situation. Also, are you rich/famous or a genius of some sort? 🤔
Yeah maybr
Be careful sharing your needs to a covert narcissist. What you say will be used to secure you deeper into a situationship only to ultimately destroy you.
thats EXACTLY what I call connections with anyone on the narcissistic spectrum... you are not in a relationships, OR a marriage; you are their MAIN SUPPLY. you are a in a situationship
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 A lady who suffered at the hands of a narcissist says that’s what happened. They’ll probably give an answer of what their current behavior is also 🤦🏾♀️
@@celissewillis9399 You didn't make this up. You got this from whatever coach you watch. These are the exact terms that are used.
@@KK-bq3ns actually, NO, I didn't... I don't spend my days binge watching coaches... that comes from my own awareness AND experiences, having dealt with them in both personal & professional relationships.. I have never heard any narc "coach" mention the term "situationship", but that IS what the dynamic is with one... & I never said that I made it up, so don't be putting assumptive words in my mouth. I said its what I've felt drawn to call them.
@@celissewillis9399 Again, you don't have to binge watch anything. I know for a fact, situationship AND supply are terms used by coaches (some) to define narcissistic encounters. I have hella experience with sick mofos but those terms are coined by 1 coach in particular! Point blank period.
My boyfriend was the first to initiate a relationship before me and he never stopped pursuing me since we met. He’s always stayed consistent and actions remains the same.
How are you as a person to have someone stay consistent and never stop pursuing you?
@@mabelidove6813
All she did was be herself!
If someone wants you for marriage, they will want you because they like who you are. They won’t try to change you. But you must watch out for red flags 🚩 from narcissists who mirror you to trap 🪤 you. Then they show you the monster 👹 that they really are 😮!!!
Be a bit out of reach at times.
You don't need to ask him anything. His actions will speak for themselves.
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💯
I agree.
To those who say don’t ask him anything, baby, you missed the forest for the trees. You’re not asking bc you need him to tell you what’s next. You’re asking to make sure he is the one you also want to marry. Men are not mind readers, and yes, men will move mountains to be with you, however, men also need to know they are useful in your life. Men need to know they have a role in your life to show up and move those mountains. Healthy relationships aren’t spill your guts first, then me next, no. You cannot demand someone to be trustworthy and you lack trust. Speak up, communicate your needs effectively, then observe. If he doesn’t want to meet your needs, or can’t meet your needs, that’s okay, no harm no foul, but have enough courage to leave❤
Thank you for saying everything I was feeling about this video
This is dead on Point🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🫶🏽
@@chiquitamcnair375🔥
Well said!
Exactly!!!! 💯
There was a guy showing me some interest...During our talk, I asked him " If u were a woman, would u date a guy like yourself?" He became quiet and slightly screwed up his face....🙃There was my answer. We never went on a date and I'm glad I asked him that question face/face. Some questions u can't ask over a phone.
OMG this question takes me back to when I asked the man I was dating "if I was the woman you were looking for would you introduce me to your kids"? His response was a quick YES. Needless to say I was never introduced to his kids so right then I knew exactly where I stood. Nothing beats a profound surprise question. The truth came out. I got out of there soon after.
😮😮😮
He could introduce you to his kids but that does not mean he is ready for commitment or your relationship will be succesful..He can just be an insecure man and prioritize his kids more than the relationship itself... I just speak by experience, I ended up a 5 year relationship with my boyfriend hoping that we could build together and have a sense of progresss, but the guy just wanted all the benefits I could provide to him, with no intentions on build together or get married.
@@fialdycamilo4023 I agree with you. He turned out to be very insecure and had narcissistic traits. I was never good enough or ever did the right thing in his eyes. He would speak to his daughter like a princess then turn around and call me everything in the book. I once said to him if I could get an ounce of the love you give your daughter I would be happy. It was very traumatic for me and the little self confidence I had began to fade. It became toxic and I decided to get out. I knew I deserved better than that.
He prolly wouldn't let you meet his kids bcz he was still with they mamma
@@jayjamgold815 sounds like triangulation to me. Narcs love pitting one against another to make you jealous and raise their value. Glad you got out.
I’ve asked that to a few men. They said “I’d marry me!” Men lie to get their way. They are not stupid ladies. 🤦🏽♀️
My most recent ex said the same thing
If you have to ask you already know the answer.
They are not stupid but liers
Because he said it does not mean He means it. So, has a lady be vigilant, check deeply his behaviors because that is gonna tell if he is just a fucking liar or not. Peace🙏
Right. This question is an easy way to lie.
Ive learnt today. Im 60 and I know you are never too old to learn and improve.
If you have to ask him ANYTHING, he's not serious. A man who wants something will move heaven & earth to get it. He will pursue it regardless of consequences or actions of others. Men don't make idle conversations. They're ALWAYS IN PURSUIT OF SOMETHING THEY WANT
True, a men will try to lock you ASAP when he truly sees value, you don t have to ask him nothing
So very much true!
Very true but still doesn’t hurt to ask anyway. Actions should match words and vice versa. You could have a feeling but then they have no idea if your intentions so by you asking or presenting these types of questions let’s the man know he’s heading in the right direction.
The key words you said is “a man who wants something”.. men will hang in there for years and move Heaven and earth until they get what they want, even if that something is just to get you on your back. Women we have to pray and ask God to show us these men’s Spirits so we can have some inside intel on what kind of person we’re really dealing with
Yup. Don’t have to ask. If he is your forever man, you will know.
I use to be a manipulator. If you ask, I will tell you what you want to hear. Your questions help me manipulate you. Maintain constant eye contact when talking and listening. It will help you notice deceit on most people.
You manipulate lady who are stupid and naïve. I am not though.
What made you stop being a manipulator?
As a woman it's a red flag if a woman makes direct eye contact with me... I feel she will be a manipulator also... where's the " let me look away sometimes so I don't cause the other person to feel uncomfortable " .... I feel there's a lack of empathy
@@hereisayana8207 Maturity is why I stopped.
Looking away is a trait that's common to people up to no good, or lying. They look away as a defense mechanism. They believe it prevents you from seeing their true intentions.
@@Placeitinmybox1just like the saying your eyes are the window to your soul
@@Placeitinmybox1Manipulation & lying are dangerous actions. They warrant God's judgement, which is very serious. I've struggled with sin in past relationships, too. The key is to accept Jesus as your Lord, repent, & be saved.
Finally, a coach online that says "one question only, here it is.." and actually gives it to you 😂
And in less than 5 mins
Girls its so true!!!! He tells you to pursue others...Fu*k him and move on
Great
May as well get one out of him before you go.😉
Lol! Don’t f*** him literally! Let him keep all his demons and diseases & move on! 😘 If more ppl would wait until marriage - knowing the person you go there with is actually worthy - or at least giving yourself the best chance of that, this whole world would be a better place. God bless. 🦋
@@queenj.8i895 THANK YOU. My thoughts exactly!! Unfortunately there is gonna be a lot of people that will jump in bed from day 1. However that ain’t me and it’s never been my style.
The fact that women would have to go through this is sad. A man should just be taught to be transparent of their intentions. Why do we have to play mind games? This is sick
One guy told me it was love at first sight, for him. Said he wanted to be with me, but also told me that I should do the 5-year marriage plan. I asked what that was. He said I should marry a guy, stay for 5 years then take ALL his money. And do it again. I was horrified. I Could not enter into a marriage with the intention of just using him. Now I know that's what he did to me, but more than 5 years before I just couldn't take it.
Now I have nothing , and I wasn't looking for marriage at the time we met
@@recoveringsoul755 SMH I am so sorry that happened to you. It's sad to say that some humans really only view others as a means to an end. It's so unfortunate that good people have to share space with bad people. It's a shame and again I am sorry for you having gone through that experience.
@@justle3218 Thank you for your compassion. Appreciated
@@recoveringsoul755 Wait a minute. Are you saying he married you stayed for 5 years than took everything? But he was telling you to do that.. what on earth
@@bellaapple2166 he was basically confessing his intentions. But I stayed way too long
There is never just one question there is action and accountability . Everyone can talk bs
That's why you compare his actions with his speech.
BINGO!
Indeed
Accountability love that
I’m too straight forward!What are your intentions? What u looking for currently? 😂 Forget all the Dr Suess nursery rhymes, just be upfront and get to the point! 😂 People make dating and relationships harder than it has to be and it’s actually really simple if u have standards and can smell BS ❤
Girl this was so meeee! All the what’s your favorite color and your favorite girl I skipped that and went straight to the point because we GROWN!!!
Thank you. Two years later, I'm happy being alone trying to establish and accomplish everything I've wanted without the narc!
Welcome
actually winning!!!! good for you😊
What do you consider getting married to fast? Like in two months ?
@@stevenkovler5133 I don't have a time frame. It is based on knowing if your core values are in alignment
@@stevenkovler5133
I'm not getting married! No need to deal with cheating and drama!
Yeah. Right. So many have said they have honorable intentions, want to pursue marriage...then break up. Doesn't matter what you ask, or what they say. They do what they want. Lol
That is true. I prefer to see how he acts not what he says.
"Would you like to take this to the next level and start dating?" "NO" "Okay". We just need to be straight forward. I dont wanna read btwn the lines, go on 55 dates.
Omg yes 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🙌🏾🙌🏾
Men lie on that question too😒
On every damn thing 🤦🏽♀️
🤣
Look at the source telling women to ask this dumb ass question! 😂😂😂
So you ladies don’t have womanly instincts? 😂😂😂 On our first date l told my husband the only man l was sleeping with was my husband. If he had other plans, he could go to hell now. We were married less than two years later and that’s when he got the cookie. #30years
@@MayMay-el4wg that's great you dodged a bullet of baby mama. Alot of ladies give it away so their boyfriend doesn't leave them but the fact is they give them babies and dump them. They say sex makes the relationship strong and I believe more now than before that it is perfect for marriage. It is better to preserve yourself for marriage.
Ask that nigga for some money 💰 this works EVERYTIME
Facts 😂
What if he likes you but doesn't want to be used either so soon but wants to see if you like him for who he is also?
Lol
@@hereisayana8207
All thats cool
But if he feels used just to take you out on dates?
Not a good choice!!
Maybe a friend over phone
No physical contact!
If stingy?
Nothing you can do with someone like that
Best to let him be!!
Most definitely
I think this is a great question. Even for the liars and/or men that play with emotions, a grown woman that knows what she wants will be able to tell if he is lying or serious with his response.
Pray for discernment if you lack it because you will be able to see right through any and everyone that is not good for you.
I ask him to take a test online so that we can know one another’s love language. One of his was spending quality time. Which he never seem to have for me. So I got the picture.
What is the name of this test
Nah most of them lack serious emotional intelligence so 99 percent of them when asked that question are gonna duck and roll shrugging their shoulders saying, "I don't know, that's a weird question"
Yep are some are going to at minimum play dumb to avoid actually answering.
And that's also the answer
@@alego8072 got me there. That's the truth. Didn't think of it that way ❤️🙏
I asked my ex how would a guy act if he was interested and he said, all guys are different…
@@mariparader what is the bottom line answer?
If you have to wonder if he’s serious, he’s probably not serious.
Nobody is serious this days ..
The question, “if you were me, and you wanted to pursue a relationship, what would you do?” His, response, “I’d probably look around- date others.”
If he says this, you guys are not on any special level and he doesn’t even consider you two to be dating. His consistent communication and excitement to take you out is a clue that he is into you. His affection and respect towards you is shown in public is another signs. If he comments on other women while out, works long hours, and is quiet until you reach out- he’s not interested in you.
Knew someone who asked a guy "Stay or play?" He said stay and they eventually married.
Actually very simple 👌 good one
I did this many years ago with an ex. I said if you were me, would you date you? He said, no. I replied, there you go.
I WON'T ASK HIM ANYTHING.TALK IS CHEAP AND COULD BE A LIE SO I LOOK AT HIS ACTIONS. THAT DETERMINES EVERYTHING FOR ME.💯
Most of the time they tell you, women like to ignore very obvious red flags. My husband told me he loved after 3 weeks of dating (we knew each other longer than that), if a man is serious about you he’s not wasting time believe that
Actions speak louder than words.🤴🏻
This is a difficult question to ask but you are so right. I asked myself the question and it made me check myself..Thanks Coach! 👍🏾
I was a single mother of 1 boy & I told my husband that if he wanted kids, he needed to keep going because I was done. He's been my best friend & rollie ever since. We just celebrated 11 years this month.😍
Oh wow!
@Kiara My bad. My little ole tale is unimportant to you. Having such a bad day you feel the need to take a 💩 on someone else today?
I ask someone that I was dating, where you think this is headed? He said no where! I started dating his neighbor!! We still together 👍👍
I'd never ask someone that. It's chasing.
I am abstinent so they know they can't tap it if they don't put a ring on it. Has a way of screening out those who are not right for me and makes the right type very serious about me.
🙌🏼 YES
Ok you honestly think a man is going to marry a celibate, non virgin?
@@SimonKnight1023what?
@@Jenny-fl5cn I’m asking you a question
@@SimonKnight1023I am a virgin but I know people who were not virgins but went abstinent and later got married.
So yes, I honestly think men marry celibate non virgins because I have observed it. Even if I wasn't a virgin, considering my relationship with christ now, I would have become abstinent and any man who doesn't respect my choice to become chaste will simply have to go even if it means I will remain unmarried. The same way I cut off men who try to pressure me into sex. Marriage is not my ultimate goal.
Do you have any other questions?
Trust me if you don’t ask questions or let him know what it is you expect of him then that’s like telling him “Hey anything goes do what you want I don’t care”. We have to ask the questions, listen closely to the answers and watch the actions all while taking our sweet precious time giving up the drawers.
He’s just going to lie to tell you whatever he thinks you want to hear so he can get what he wants.
Some of them are really smart at this
How is he gonna get what he wants ? Until he marries me he’s not getting any sex. He can talk till he turns blue . No marriage, no sex.
Thats provided he knows how to tell the truth
Do nothing ladies just watch him and listen to his words and give them nothing. No clues. No questions. They talk more when you're less direct or talkative.
Amen!
🎯
True!
This! I experienced both sides of that coin
That is true. If we pull away, we dont say much they will start speaking. They will reveal their own intentions right away
Unless he’s a liar and tells you what he thinks you need to hear so that he can gain access to more intimacy.
Nah…I’d rather focus on the Actions Periodtt darling. 💯✅🥰
Unless he's a manipulative liar. There are men (and women) who will tell you whatever you wanna hear. Only if they're honest will you KNOW. Some are honest, but folk don't wanna believe, nor listen to be truthful🤷🏽♀️
Some women already know when a man is serious or not regarding a serious relationship. Some women just seem to think if they stick around long enough they can change a man’s mind tho.
before I got married I also had a rule that he's not allowed to tell me he loves me unless he's already proposed or doing it while proposing
Thats a great idea to me because the fake love bombing makes me sick!
Exactly.
Ladies, never tell em what you lookin for. Watch their actions and you decide what you want to do. If you tell em they can morph into that just to get what they want
You don’t have to ask. He will let you know.
Sincerely the wife of a real 1 ❤
That is a great question. Some guy will give you a simple answer and some guy will give you the answer you need.
How about “what are your intentions?” Let’s get straight to the point here
i hit them with them interview questions like, so where do you see yourself in 5 years?? Lol
GOLD!!! However, this only works on truly transparent, emotionally intelligent men. The men who don’t want to hurt feelings or equally waste time. The ones who are turned off by playing/having received mind games, sneaking, and ulterior motives. The men who just understand, communicate, and move on with the path😮💨🤞🏾💚. Hopefully you’re well aware of the type of man he is prior to asking this question to avoid prepping for lies or failed efforts following his words🥺🤞🏾.
The best question ever ladies!
Listening to coach Canion.
By asking this question I found the intention of my exes.
Thanks to Coach Canion I found my husband the healer & protector of my heart & soul, my soulmate
Wonderful!
Wow ! That's really a blessing for both of you!
After our first eye contact, we went on date 10 days later on superbowl, had sex, he spent the night. After that I asked if we were boyfriend girlfriend. He said we are getting to know one another and it could lead there. Married less than 7 weeks later, a business and 3 babies. I love me some him.
Also..what does a succesfull relationship look like to you, after a year? 🤔 Question Also works after job interviews🎉
The job interview 😍🥰😘💕😍🙏
Thank you for helping women, and not berating them.🙂👍
Always!
When a man is interested you never have to wonder, never! When you find your self wondering when he will call for the next date, move on, when a man is interested he securing the next date before he leaves on the present date. If your not interested in an interested man, go ahead, play that game.
A person can and will tell you what they think you want to hear. Watch them. Watch their actions and How they treat you and others around you. “Actions speak louder then words”
I don’t want to date anyone so I’d be direct I’m
not you, I don’t want to date and I don’t want you. Keep things real. I hate hypothetical questions. But you can get a lot of answers from this question. Thanks for the advice
TALK DOESN'T PROVE SERIOUSNESS, HIS WAYS AND ACTIONS DOES😊😊😊
I'm glad you got right to the point of this without dragging it out. ❤️
Thanks Felisa
I answered to myself open up and be more honest then immediately had a Playa response for this action!
My suggestion is ask the man if he wants to be serious, if he says yes then monitor the actions of what you deem a serious relationship to be!
All a man is going to do is list off a bunch of things he requires from you and then when he's gotten what he wants for however long, it's see ya later. Men are on podcasts saying this.
If he's doing that you have your answer. O odyshould be required to jump hoops to be chosen. Keep your legs closed.
@@sweettreatsoverload4296 EXACTLY. Legs stay closed.
@@sweettreatsoverload4296 until he puts the ring in that finger and become your 💞
Coach! You nailed it again, and so eloquently! Thank you!
Glad you liked it!
My ex told me this. We’re currently not together, but he told me that if I’m serious about dating I should date the type of man that I want and figure out the things that he likes or the type of women that interests him. If I knew to ask this question a long time ago, I would have been engaged by now. I was dating wrong and surrounded by all the wrong people.
“If you were me and you wanted to persue a relationship what would you do?”
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I'm not asking no man s*** cuz people tell you exactly what they want you to hear all you have to do is go by people's actions they will show you whether or not they want to be serious with you if a man really want to be serious with you he will show you in different ways
Thanks coach for this valid question! 👍
Damn this is the most information I got off the internet in a long time lmao!! I’d pay for this!
Oddly enough I have .I said if I were your sister and dating someone like you what advice would you tell her. He said leave him alone.🤯😵💫
What puzzles me is that they KNOW they aren't up to scratch but unless it's a woman that's blood related to them dealing with it they don't care 😞
The simple question is
“If you were me and you wanted to persue a relationship
What would you do? “
I like that question, it’s straight to the point…🤣😂
This isn’t sound advice or fool proof bc too many men are lying narcissists… there’s a better way more discreet way to find this out without depending on their honesty…. LOOK AT THEIR ACTIONS. And if u want to see how serious a man is? Ask him to help you with something. I promise he will show u who he is and what his intentions are.
Yep, if u Wana know how serious he is. Just ask him to help u with something. U might never hear from him again haha
I just asked and his response was "Where we watching the game tomorrow"🤣
I’ve definitely asked men this question. It’s usually I don’t know when they know exactly what they should say but like to reap being around you
And the one answer to you….brilliant. Thank you!
Thanks Kim
Can this man sing what a wonderful world already 😭😭😭
What if he is a liar and says things you want to hear in order to manipulate you into a relationship.
Need a way to detect liars faster because I sometimes fail to notice when a man lies until I am in the relationship, I usually only detect them once I'm already into the relationship.
I told my fiance on the first date he's gonna be mine and he said ok two months later I had a ring 😊 he's my heart 😂😂😂
"""CORRECT !!!" "
I once asked a Man, who was trying his best to get me to date him.
I asked him
(( WHAT DO YOU WANT FROM ME. ?))
HE HUNG UP ON ME & NEVER CALLED ME AGAIN...
I GOT AN INSTANT ANSWER..... WHEN HE HUNG UP ON ME I KNEW HE WAS FULL-OF-IT !!!
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Aw , that’s such a profound and simple but direct question that answers so much ❤
But also a woman should be able to tell by the way an actions of the man if the woman has to chase the man then he's obviously not interested in long term there are many characteristics and different things that are available and out there for you to pay attention to in the midst of the relationship. Does he ask about your kids does he talk about a future with you is he always looking at other women as he's walking past people. Does he ignore you when you talk these are also very good very important things to look for. Also the best information that I can give somebody that I would like to share because this is a great topic. Is if your kid was dating that person would you have them stay with them. Would you think that it's a healthy choice for your child. Most people aren't willing to accept better for themselves. But it when it comes to your child and you put your child in the situation that you're in that will also give you your answer
I never asked he committed because he Love God and already knew!
hes a man of his word and he plays no games
We need to also ask are you in debt? I met a man who waited 6 months to tell me he owed the IRS almost $30,000, and would I still marry him? I guess you can guess my answer, one he was not the one for me. I was more man than he was, lol his ways were a little creepy. I would be a fool to marry someone in debt so IRS can dig into my plate. I am a divorced, single mother of 1 he had no kids and never married. I am well established in my own 4 bedroom, 3.5 bath home, 2 master ensuites, fireplace, pond, my own office, a gym room, the dog has his own room, and sitting on acres. I have multiple cars, and a well established career and more. He had a 3 bedroom townhouse, 2 baths seemed to have a good paying job with a pension that would end. I made way more money than he did. He had a dog that appeared to be his girlfriend if you only saw what I saw. I will be 50 soon, he was 56 smdh. He was really sweet, but had a lot of issues with still keeping in touch with an ex-girlfriend who text him frequently, and going to functions every year where she was. I never went. He seemed to get off on that. He was like a damn child always wanting to go out, and spend money, but couldn't pay an IRS bill, needless to say he was paying for the dinners at first, then I ended up paying. I suddenly had a medical emergency he was there for me, but if you knew what happened can you believe he still expected for me to run the streets with him, and dance, and be ignorant. I was uncapable of even walking by myself at that time, selfish ass. I said wow. I told him to kick rocks, and ghosted him. He was not marriage material, then tried to act as though he dumped me by mailing a letter to my home 3 weeks later when he hadn't heard from me, so immature. I never responded, boy bye! This is why I never want to marry again some men can be so needy, and I don't need you in my bank account, when they have nothing to offer, not a dime saved....run.
I appreciate you for telling women what we need to know. I've been through a few and now I know Somethings, thanks to you.❤😊
You are so welcome
Just ask if he wanna he marry.... They run when u bring up this question. Well, boys run...
I ask, "What are you looking for in a partner?" If I get something like, "A smoking hot body!" or "Someone to go on trips with." I got my answer. Next!
Action speaks louder than words...
I just asked him “what’s your 5 year plan?” Lol But seriously, you don’t have to ask anything. Just watch his actions.
Lol yes, it's not about the responce, it's more of the actions that follow through.
Nah. They'll lie. Look at behaviors...words mean nothing. ACTION speaks more volumes.
Thank you.
That is a question that would make someone pause and that is an answer in itself. I am at a point of not wanting serious distractions right now but I will keep that one in mind. Every phase of life changes in time.
I asked this and I got” be you I guess” lmaooo! I said, thank you! And beat it😂❤
Yeah but a lot of men on the scene these days are narcissists who will tell a woman what he thinks she wants to hear. Use discernment and check his actions match his words! Men show us how they play the game via their actions. Words don't mean anything unless backed by behavior.