1. Are you okay mentally? 2. What is your biggest fear? 3. What is your greatest need? 4. What is your biggest challenge? 5. What is your greatest regret? 6. Are your currently proud of the man you’ve become or are you disappointed? 7. Am I satisfying you physically? 8. Am I satisfying you mentally? 9. Am I supporting you mentally and emotionally? 10. How can I be better for you?
Here's some other questions. 1)What makes you feel loved? 2) What do you need? 3) When you fantastized about love, relationship, and marriage what was the fantasy? What was happening in that relationship? What was that woman doing for you? What specific things were happening? What specific things was she providing for you? 4) What could I do better? 5) What would you like me to do more of? 6) Is there anything you're missing in this relationship from me that I have the capacity to do or that you believe I have the capacity to do? 7) If you change anything about the way I show up in this relationship, what would it be? 8) In a perfect world, in a perfect relationship how would I be acting? How would things be?
Amazing Great Questions❤ Some Keys - Don’t ask these questions to create an argument - If there is too much tension on a question, maybe come back to it - Be as patient as possible with a listening ear and heart - If there is an offense taken by his response, go think about & pray about it, rather than throwing darts at him I believe as women, we have to ask GOD to prepare us for what we’re asking and that is also mentally, emotionally, etc. You’d be surprised.
I’m thinking, if they’re asked these questions back to back and in an interrogation format and feel the questions are not coming from a loving and supportive place, they might feel under pressure and refuse to answer. Or like the other commenter said, they may not be ok in some way. There’s some finesse required.
All they gonna do is tell a damn lie! And tell you what he thinks you need to hear , two weeks later he in the ER having a mentally unstable breakdown over a cold fish sandwich from The Golden Arches via the drive up
Excellent questions. I've been with my guy for over 10 years, married for 5. He's not the most forthcoming dude when it comes to matters below the surface, so I make a point to check in using these questions from time to time. I love and treasure my man and our relationship, so it's important to remember that we are both not mind readers 😍
King, these questions are extremely deep yet, real! They cut to the bone immediately! Listening while you specify, these questions should be asked before, during, and while, exsiting with anyone! Some of us change like the seasons via behaviors versus self awareness! I'm learning to ask, then grant the opportunity for manifestation of these characteristics. While making sure to offer the same in return!
I hear you and agree that these are really good questions to ask. But the information is dependent on how honest and truthful that person really wants to be with you....many people are not honest 🤔 to themselves about themselves!
You have a point here. I experience this.. by only returning his same question to him because he let me believe that he is shy. .... so I thought: don't go to extreme and compromising of questions, ... and it hurt not getting his response on his own returned question. It only let me to believe so much negativity of him altogether. Run fast.. (= kore purba... pia pa kiko mi tin bo)
1 are you okay mentally 2 what's your biggest fear 3 you biggest need 4 your biggest regret 5 biggest challenge 6 proud of your man status 7are you satisfied sexually 8 mentally satisfied 9 do I stroke your ego 10 how can I be better for you
What does being proud of yourself or not proud mean? It seems people are proud when they had little to nothing to do with the success... For instance a parent that really wasn't there, involved but feeling proud whereas the parent that was all in, feel like they could have done more. So what does, what he's proud of mean?
That’s GREAT STUFF Coach Ken!!! Those Are All Great Questions To Segway Into Starting Meaningful Conversations, As Well As, Key In On How To Love On That Man In A Proper Way By Finding Out What His Needs Are… I ❤It!! THANK YOU 🙏🏾
@@CoachKenCanion I believe that I should not. It should be a mutual discussion of what WE can do. Not just what I can do. Working together is what makes a relationship work. It’s wrong to insinuate that a woman is the only one that needs to make the effort.
@@emmat8403 Who is insinuating, not me. Both parties should create a partnership, however; this post is about the mental health issues men face today. Why is that when someone says anything about what a man needs, many woman never accept it at face value and says a man does need that. It always comes with conditions.
Here is Coach, I am saving this. I could say I’ve only had three relationships in my life where you could ask these questions to a man. But from now on, it’s going to be nothing but questions and honest answers. The first one though, are you OK mentallyno one I’m saying no one is gonna answer the truth. That’s like when I used to pull over people and they would say I only had two beers.😂😂😂 once again, Coach thank you
Coach these are some great questions that draw out deep💦💧🚰⛲️. When we ask these questions we have to respectfully listen to the answer with keen interest and we have to prepare our heart for the answers we receive and be willing to put into practice the things our mate is conveying to us.. Humility is the key 🔐 that will unlock the ❤ and innermost feeling our our maté because these kind of questions draw out what in the heart.Ultimately Love is the motivating factor that will encourage us to draw closer to each other. It’s unfortunate that many couples do not have the tools necessary to build a long lasting friendship, marriage because the very thing they fear will require hard work and understanding. You 💅it again.. Thanks coach.😅
I generally find these things out thru conversation. Direct questions can be awkward if you haven’t built up enough trust. If it’s within conversation, you learn so much more than an inquisition.
Men should support each other because they understand each other’s pain and the pressures they have been faced with as a man. A woman in no way, can even understand a man’s struggle, even if she asks him to explain it. This video basically is under the miss guided, conception that women are to be the therapist, mommy, friend, encourager, fixer, doormat, idolizer, codependent, partner of her man. Your romantic partner is not meant to be the everything and end-all and be-all. That’s why you need to have friends, professionals, associates, a community of supportive people to rely on throughout your life. If you put any male or female in a partnership under this amount of pressure to fix all your issues, your relationship will break very quickly no one is put on earth to fix other peoples problems
I disagree. His romantic partner should be concerned about his mental health. Many times they are the first point of contact. I totally disagree with this post
I watch you religiously you give great advice to all of us I’m not in a relationship I been single for many years but at least I learn in the meantime what I need to do next time I chose to be with someone Worth knowing.. thanks you give us guidance and great support 🎉
I asked these questions in a conversational way to gauge insight on his mindset . It provided clarity . For me to make a choice during the dating process. Let’s just say I cut my losses early. Overall he was a great guy, but not functioning at the level I need him for a relationship with me.
Wow. Thanks for sharing this information with me and the world. Alway keeping your topics 💯. I live😂you coach. Your a Great Role Model. Real man talk. God bless you. You are Amazing. 😊❤
Yeah, bc he may tell u he's quiting his job n YOU to take 100% responsibility for him and his/her expenses....are u prepared to do that? I'm VERY careful about asking ppl about their needs....often times it's too much, n I will never be able to suffice others needs.
Pretty good list but I don’t think most men really talk like this this man is beautiful and has exceptional verbal communication skills 😊 Liked what he saying but didn’t think it was a reality conversation
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1. Are you okay mentally?
2. What is your biggest fear?
3. What is your greatest need?
4. What is your biggest challenge?
5. What is your greatest regret?
6. Are your currently proud of the man you’ve become or are you disappointed?
7. Am I satisfying you physically?
8. Am I satisfying you mentally?
9. Am I supporting you mentally and emotionally?
10. How can I be better for you?
Right
Thanks
That a good question for some Americans, but from another religion etc..
Thanks Beloved
Now it vice versal
Here's some other questions.
1)What makes you feel loved?
2) What do you need?
3) When you fantastized about love, relationship, and marriage what was the fantasy? What was happening in that relationship? What was that woman doing for you? What specific things were happening? What specific things was she providing for you?
4) What could I do better?
5) What would you like me to do more of?
6) Is there anything you're missing in this relationship from me that I have the capacity to do or that you believe I have the capacity to do?
7) If you change anything about the way I show up in this relationship, what would it be?
8) In a perfect world, in a perfect relationship how would I be acting? How would things be?
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I need my note pad lol 😂 theses are all good?
I'm going to use this thank you so much
Love this excellent questions
Love your questions better than ......
Great questions!!❤Just be careful you are not the only one in the relationship asking…😅😑
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And some of these questions should be discussed with his therapist 😂
Excellent point 👍
Ha ha
I know that right !!
Amazing Great Questions❤
Some Keys
- Don’t ask these questions to create an argument
- If there is too much tension on a question, maybe come back to it
- Be as patient as possible with a listening ear and heart
- If there is an offense taken by his response, go think about & pray about it, rather than throwing darts at him
I believe as women, we have to ask GOD to prepare us for what we’re asking and that is also mentally, emotionally, etc.
You’d be surprised.
Some men can’t answer questions,they get irritated and shut down.
I’m thinking, if they’re asked these questions back to back and in an interrogation format and feel the questions are not coming from a loving and supportive place, they might feel under pressure and refuse to answer. Or like the other commenter said, they may not be ok in some way. There’s some finesse required.
And them type I get rid off if I can't talk to you we ain't got nothing to talk about
@@Artisancove most definitely you have to play it out
Exactly! They will turn that into an argument. I also believe that they won't tell the whole truth.
So true!!
I’ve asked these questions and the results were astounding. Thank you for the confirmation
I have asked some of them and the answers that I received let me know that I did not belong with that person.
You are so welcome
Fears, regrets & disappointments ....ugh & he was feeling so peaceful until I brought this up 😬oops
😂😂
😂😂😂
WooooW, this is so true🤍 sometimes we tend to forget that such convos need to be had💯
All they gonna do is tell a damn lie! And tell you what he thinks you need to hear , two weeks later he in the ER having a mentally unstable breakdown over a cold fish sandwich from The Golden Arches via the drive up
What’s your problem?
😂😂
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@@gunthermcleon5861 ,😂
YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY RIGHT! BECAUSE IF HE WANTS YOU HE WILL TELL YOU WHAT YOU WANT TO HEAR!!
Excellent questions. I've been with my guy for over 10 years, married for 5. He's not the most forthcoming dude when it comes to matters below the surface, so I make a point to check in using these questions from time to time. I love and treasure my man and our relationship, so it's important to remember that we are both not mind readers 😍
These questions are fuel for an emotionally/ mentally or physically abusive man.
Exactly 💯
Those are powerful questions. I hope they can be answered sincerely and truthfully
King, these questions are extremely deep yet, real! They cut to the bone immediately! Listening while you specify, these questions should be asked before, during, and while, exsiting with anyone! Some of us change like the seasons via behaviors versus self awareness! I'm learning to ask, then grant the opportunity for manifestation of these characteristics. While making sure to offer the same in return!
yes, our world need more deep communication and show more concern. love your channel, sir💯
Thank you, Gerri
You're welcome 🌺happy holiday's
Great questions and he will feel so loved and supported that you thought enough of him to just check in and be attentive to his needs.
I hear you and agree that these are really good questions to ask. But the information is dependent on how honest and truthful that person really wants to be with you....many people are not honest 🤔 to themselves about themselves!
You have a point here. I experience this.. by only returning his same question to him because he let me believe that he is shy. .... so I thought: don't go to extreme and compromising of questions, ... and it hurt not getting his response on his own returned question. It only let me to believe so much negativity of him altogether. Run fast.. (= kore purba... pia pa kiko mi tin bo)
Thank you for this Coach! This will serve as a blueprint to our future discussions.
I just forward these questions to myself all on the questions women should ask when dating. Thank you Coach! ❤
I did the same thing. This video make me want to ask him and then have him ask me the same questions.
You're so welcome!
These are quality questions to get to know each other at a deeper and more profound level
I hope he’s encouraged to ask the same of his woman. Her needs an wellbeing are equally important if the relationship is meant to be a healthy one.
1 are you okay mentally 2 what's your biggest fear 3 you biggest need 4 your biggest regret 5 biggest challenge 6 proud of your man status 7are you satisfied sexually 8 mentally satisfied 9 do I stroke your ego 10 how can I be better for you
Great questions, absolutely great questions, I’d say these are healthy questions for both partners to ask and answer in a relationship.
Thanks - we are always covering our husbands/spouses and who’s checking in on us as women.
...these are good and makes alot of sense..thank you
What does being proud of yourself or not proud mean? It seems people are proud when they had little to nothing to do with the success... For instance a parent that really wasn't there, involved but feeling proud whereas the parent that was all in, feel like they could have done more. So what does, what he's proud of mean?
That’s GREAT STUFF Coach Ken!!! Those Are All Great Questions To Segway Into Starting Meaningful Conversations, As Well As, Key In On How To Love On That Man In A Proper Way By Finding Out What His Needs Are… I ❤It!!
THANK YOU 🙏🏾
Wow that's awesome profound. Thank you. Blessings
Love it!
Thanks!!
He needs to ask me those same questions back then.
True, Do u agree you should ask him? or not
@@CoachKenCanion I believe that I should not. It should be a mutual discussion of what WE can do. Not just what I can do. Working together is what makes a relationship work. It’s wrong to insinuate that a woman is the only one that needs to make the effort.
@@emmat8403 Who is insinuating, not me. Both parties should create a partnership, however; this post is about the mental health issues men face today. Why is that when someone says anything about what a man needs, many woman never accept it at face value and says a man does need that. It always comes with conditions.
@@CoachKenCanion I think those make good vetting questions to some degree Im not into premarital sex so all those other questions um nah...
This is a save, thank you🎭💫🗝️
You're welcome!
He would freak out.
Yess I will
Both need to be asked these questions
Thanks!
I appreciate you
Omg I ask him these questions every chance I get…
This has to be a setup 😅
I have to give thumbs up
I agree with this
Thanks
Awesome questions! Thanks 😊
You're so welcome!
So positive
This is amazing something people don't ask
Thanks for sharing this message
You are so welcome
These are great questions! Funny thing I have asked my man a couple of these before ever seeing this but thank you for all of it!
Thanks for sharing this
Thank you
You're welcome
Be better to the honest for every thing no cheating exprsobyoubr true feelings
Thank you 💯🥰
That goes both ways. Women are natural nurturers. Men need to be asking women those questions.
Here is Coach, I am saving this. I could say I’ve only had three relationships in my life where you could ask these questions to a man. But from now on, it’s going to be nothing but questions and honest answers. The first one though, are you OK mentallyno one I’m saying no one is gonna answer the truth. That’s like when I used to pull over people and they would say I only had two beers.😂😂😂 once again, Coach thank you
Coach these are some great questions that draw out deep💦💧🚰⛲️. When we ask these questions we have to respectfully listen to the answer with keen interest and we have to prepare our heart for the answers we receive and be willing to put into practice the things our mate is conveying to us.. Humility is the key 🔐 that will unlock the ❤ and innermost feeling our our maté because these kind of questions draw out what in the heart.Ultimately Love is the motivating factor that will encourage us to draw closer to each other. It’s unfortunate that many couples do not have the tools necessary to build a long lasting friendship, marriage because the very thing they fear will require hard work and understanding. You 💅it again.. Thanks coach.😅
Whoaaaaa.... Love the questions hope he answer when I'm ready to ask them? LOL.. Thanks Coach.
I generally find these things out thru conversation. Direct questions can be awkward if you haven’t built up enough trust. If it’s within conversation, you learn so much more than an inquisition.
And if he answers at least 2 of them. He's a keeper. If he answers all 10 be afraid! Be very afraid! 😂
😂😂 he's not gonna answer none of them truthfully 😂😂
Men should support each other because they understand each other’s pain and the pressures they have been faced with as a man. A woman in no way, can even understand a man’s struggle, even if she asks him to explain it.
This video basically is under the miss guided, conception that women are to be the therapist, mommy, friend, encourager, fixer, doormat, idolizer, codependent, partner of her man.
Your romantic partner is not meant to be the everything and end-all and be-all. That’s why you need to have friends, professionals, associates, a community of supportive people to rely on throughout your life. If you put any male or female in a partnership under this amount of pressure to fix all your issues, your relationship will break very quickly no one is put on earth to fix other peoples problems
I disagree. His romantic partner should be concerned about his mental health. Many times they are the first point of contact. I totally disagree with this post
I watch you religiously you give great advice to all of us I’m not in a relationship I been single for many years but at least I learn in the meantime what I need to do next time I chose to be with someone
Worth knowing.. thanks you give us guidance and great support 🎉
Love this :)
I asked these questions in a conversational way to gauge insight on his mindset . It provided clarity . For me to make a choice during the dating process. Let’s just say I cut my losses early. Overall he was a great guy, but not functioning at the level I need him for a relationship with me.
Great questions. I'll keep these questions for the next relationship I get in.
my man said he fear of loosing me
for his greatest fear xx
great questions btw
Thanks for sharing this information with me
Those are great questions! 🌻
I think so too!
Those are some great questions. I know I have asked some of those questions during the course of our relationship but I need to know before hand
TYVM agree excellent questions 2 ask
love this !!! asking my man rn.
So true!! Thank you
You are so welcome
Thanks real men are hard to find
Tip for if your partner doesn't like direct questions, there are some card/online "games" with some of these questions
These sound great to ask each other in a relationship
Thank you. Amen
This is a really good list ❤
Thank you! 😄
Wow. Thanks for sharing this information with me and the world. Alway keeping your topics 💯. I live😂you coach. Your a Great Role Model. Real man talk. God bless you. You are Amazing. 😊❤
You are so welcome
That’s great and all but what if the answer I get is I don’t know what I need for myself ??
Great question to ask
Thank you, those are great questions! 🌻
Much gratitude 🥰
You’re welcome 😊
Gr8 questions
Does this go for men also.. to ask their woman ??
I'm waiting for 10 questions a man need to ask his woman 😊
Great question ❤❤
Great questions
#7 gone be the biggest lie 😂
Hmmmm number 10! 👏
Thanks
Only ask questions if you are prepared for the answers 😉
Yeah, bc he may tell u he's quiting his job n YOU to take 100% responsibility for him and his/her expenses....are u prepared to do that? I'm VERY careful about asking ppl about their needs....often times it's too much, n I will never be able to suffice others needs.
These men are not going to answer these questions. They do not communicate effectively, they shut down and become argumentative
Bruh this sound like an interview 💀
Exactly
If he can’t answer he’s either totally shut down emotionally and has issues that HE needs to work on or he’s playing you!
How are feeling Mr. Hammer we haven't heard no music come you in a grip.
😂😂
After question #1 he would say “Hey Honey, I just want to finish reading this hardware catalog “.
Am just laughing out loud
Those answers speak volumes of who that man is or where he is going....or not!
🥰🥰🥰🥰 Thank you
You’re welcome 😊
What if I have asked these questions before and I don’t get any answers
No answer IS an answer.
Am I satisfying you physically? Umm, I’m celibate. That would be a question for my hubs. If no hubs, I won’t need to ask that question.
I can’t get him to answer nothing! We shall see!
I HEAR YOU🤯
Seems like the job of a healthcare provider.
SHOULD BE ANSWERED BY “BOTH” PARTNERS IN A VERY HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP
Speak it Speak it💯
Pretty good list but I don’t think most men really talk like this this man is beautiful and has exceptional verbal communication skills 😊
Liked what he saying but didn’t think it was a reality conversation
Powerful .That is so true.
Love
Money
Someone will be together in my whole life
Im good mood mentally!!!: yes❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
When do you ask those questions at the beginning of a relationship or more3-6 months ?
Questions are the samr for
men to ask women.Both ways,don't just be one sided , don't be selfish.
That's some real game p