Kay, it really struck me you saying what you did last week. I have cried so many times in public, walking down the street, in a gym class, on a train etc wgilst trying to hide it after my parents died . I always felt I had to hide it and wondered why I was the only one who had this sadness. It made me think of how a society we dont allow sadness openly. it really normalised my experience of grief listening to you. I found it then hard after the class ended to then put on a smile on my face when i bumped into someone from the class walking out and pretend everything is good. Why do we find it so hard to be honest around how we feel when it is deemed negative, it isnt negative, just the human experience that everyone will go through at some point, losing someone so close, Maybe we hide it as we feel It would make them sad or upset so you hide it to protect them. Thank you again for sharing!!
As a man I feel I shouldn't cry and I never want to cry in front of people. However I also sometimes let go when I'm in bed. I never cry for myself it's usually about things happening in the world or anything bad happening to children maybe they are sick or just tears of joy.I feel very much for other people if they are having a hard time but I still won't cry in front of people. I'm weird like that.
So when my mom passed away I was also dealing with a sick husband and daughter. I also babysat my granddaughter who was only months old 6 days a week. She didn't talk yet so I would put on Grey's Anatomy and I didn't make any noise because I didn't want to scare my sweet granddaughter but the tears would just stream down my face. That went on for a couple months at least.
Many years ago, Oprah had a guest who had been diagnosed with depression and medications weren't working for her. So she decided to let herself cry. She said she cried every day for a year and then was fine.
I don’t cry and it was always hard for me to or emotions in front of people. My American husband cries over the smallest things, when we first met and he would cry over seeing me he would cry. If we got into an row and I would give him the silent treatment he would cry. He’s wet sensitive and would cry at our kids sports events. It comes easy for some people and for others it doesn’t.
I cry every day, not sure if it’s a good thing, I try to do it on my own, sometimes in the bath, sometimes walking the dog. My daughter knows I do this, if there’s anything sad on tv or instagram my daughter makes me turn it off. I don’t have any control over it, I feel so sad sometimes but I also cry about happy things, even music makes me cry.
Good conversation ladies crying is perfectly normal and human and we do alot of time hold it in our fear of judgement or shame or just not wanting to look weak BUT ITS OK TO CRY AND MAY EVEN BE GOOD FOR US WE SHOULD ENCOURAGE CRYING WHEN WE ARE YOUNGER WE ARE TAUGHT DONT CRY BUT REALLY WE SHOULD OF BEEN SAYING ITS OK TO CRY 😭
It's a cultural thing. A British thing. In other countries crying is natural. You cry ehen you share with your friends what's going on with your life. No-one feels embarrassed or uncomfortable
Kay, it really struck me you saying what you did last week. I have cried so many times in public, walking down the street, in a gym class, on a train etc wgilst trying to hide it after my parents died . I always felt I had to hide it and wondered why I was the only one who had this sadness. It made me think of how a society we dont allow sadness openly. it really normalised my experience of grief listening to you. I found it then hard after the class ended to then put on a smile on my face when i bumped into someone from the class walking out and pretend everything is good. Why do we find it so hard to be honest around how we feel when it is deemed negative, it isnt negative, just the human experience that everyone will go through at some point, losing someone so close, Maybe we hide it as we feel It would make them sad or upset so you hide it to protect them. Thank you again for sharing!!
Definitely Fran ❤🤝🫶
As a man I feel I shouldn't cry and I never want to cry in front of people. However I also sometimes let go when I'm in bed. I never cry for myself it's usually about things happening in the world or anything bad happening to children maybe they are sick or just tears of joy.I feel very much for other people if they are having a hard time but I still won't cry in front of people. I'm weird like that.
So when my mom passed away I was also dealing with a sick husband and daughter. I also babysat my granddaughter who was only months old 6 days a week. She didn't talk yet so I would put on Grey's Anatomy and I didn't make any noise because I didn't want to scare my sweet granddaughter but the tears would just stream down my face. That went on for a couple months at least.
Many years ago, Oprah had a guest who had been diagnosed with depression and medications weren't working for her. So she decided to let herself cry. She said she cried every day for a year and then was fine.
I don’t cry and it was always hard for me to or emotions in front of people. My American husband cries over the smallest things, when we first met and he would cry over seeing me he would cry. If we got into an row and I would give him the silent treatment he would cry. He’s wet sensitive and would cry at our kids sports events. It comes easy for some people and for others it doesn’t.
I cry every day, not sure if it’s a good thing, I try to do it on my own, sometimes in the bath, sometimes walking the dog. My daughter knows I do this, if there’s anything sad on tv or instagram my daughter makes me turn it off. I don’t have any control over it, I feel so sad sometimes but I also cry about happy things, even music makes me cry.
Good conversation ladies crying is perfectly normal and human and we do alot of time hold it in our fear of judgement or shame or just not wanting to look weak BUT ITS OK TO CRY AND MAY EVEN BE GOOD FOR US WE SHOULD ENCOURAGE CRYING WHEN WE ARE YOUNGER WE ARE TAUGHT DONT CRY BUT REALLY WE SHOULD OF BEEN SAYING ITS OK TO CRY 😭
It's a cultural thing. A British thing. In other countries crying is natural. You cry ehen you share with your friends what's going on with your life. No-one feels embarrassed or uncomfortable
Jane went to the jungle for a few days to cry
They cry everyday on the show when a topic comes up that offends them
Colleen Nolan must rent a room at itv.Never off the show; talking 👄 over people. That's her .
Colleen doenst let anyone else speak its all about her as usual !!
Yes she does let other people speak
Kay asked her and she was telling how she experiences grief and I bet alot of people relate to her Colleen egnore the haters ❤
Colleen Nolan never off the show, Dose she rent a room at itv .Gloria looks terrible: she should be at home 🏡 looking after herself.