My Life Was Changed Forever After My Brother's Tragic Murder (Busy in Brooklyn’s Full Story)

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  • Опубликовано: 29 сен 2024
  • Chanie Apfelbaum, the creator of "Busy in Brooklyn," is a renowned kosher food blogger based in Brooklyn, New York. Her life changed dramatically when her brother was tragically murdered on a New York highway. As a single mom, Chanie turned to cooking as a source of healing and purpose. Her blog shares modern, approachable kosher recipes that cater to busy lifestyles and special occasions, inspiring readers with her resilience and passion for kosher cuisine.
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Комментарии • 43

  • @jacklanger
    @jacklanger 3 месяца назад +25

    Thanks Gitta for helping me with the interview. Chanie thank you for sharing and for your resilience 🎉

  • @bonnieschechner9476
    @bonnieschechner9476 3 месяца назад

    Resilience

  • @perrycomeau2627
    @perrycomeau2627 3 месяца назад +10

    I'm a Vietnamese cook. Phil taught me. We're Jewish.

  • @leahhiller8674
    @leahhiller8674 Месяц назад +1

    I am divorced for a few years.dont agree with you.i still think that divorce is a stigma in the frum world.over the years i have heard disgusting insensitive remarks from men and women.reached out to so many rabbanim and private people.very little support from anyone.only rabbi z.wallerstein would listen and try to help me while at the end of his life.word has it that rabbi gissinger of lakewood also cared.others have no desire to support and help.this all has been very painful for me.i am older and ill today.i look and rely just on hashem nowadays.leah from lakewood.

  • @lynnedwards1727
    @lynnedwards1727 3 месяца назад +8

    Yes, food creations are a great unifier.

  • @rachelblum3837
    @rachelblum3837 3 месяца назад +3

    Resiliant! Enjoyed it! Gitta, please don't let little kids come too close to the food processor. My son stuck his hand down the chute and sliced his finger tip while helping me make the cole slaw for shabbos.

  • @ShuiHaber
    @ShuiHaber 3 месяца назад +5

    I like the duo, bring your wife on more often

  • @bonnieschechner9476
    @bonnieschechner9476 3 месяца назад +1

    My favorite podcast. Loved meeting Gitta! Your wife is so sweet! Chanie is inspiring! Can she make a vegetarian cookbook?

  • @rachelneuman3583
    @rachelneuman3583 3 месяца назад +8

    Ari is buried next to the Rebbe

  • @AvivaAzoulay
    @AvivaAzoulay 3 месяца назад +1

    Hey hello. What you don't think you can learn a lot from inspirational women! The book is not limited or solely targeted.

  • @perrycomeau2627
    @perrycomeau2627 3 месяца назад +3

    Finally someone understands me.

  • @BenSkyLakewood
    @BenSkyLakewood 3 месяца назад +1

    Starstruck is funny (to me) as I've never even heard of this person.

  • @Xfcf-b1n
    @Xfcf-b1n 3 месяца назад +3

    🙏🏽

  • @VivianRusso13
    @VivianRusso13 3 месяца назад +2

    Resilience!

  • @אננסמלכה
    @אננסמלכה 3 месяца назад +5

    I really appreciate that you brought your wife on it gives a whole new dynamic to the interview I love it between RUclips please bring her on and this stuff is amazing keep up the great work especially in this episode❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤Love it has a little bit of everything it’s funny it’s entertaining but also very inspiring and I really appreciate that I also appreciate how Chani kept it so real!

  • @steveneumann32
    @steveneumann32 3 месяца назад +2

    Resilience. Hi Gita 👋

  • @perrycomeau2627
    @perrycomeau2627 3 месяца назад +1

    I do not do ties. The Nehru jacket is much more comfortable for me.

  • @hillarymacadam424
    @hillarymacadam424 3 месяца назад +2

    Hallelujah

  • @sarawilansky3049
    @sarawilansky3049 3 месяца назад +1

    Very good podcast

  • @hex6879
    @hex6879 3 месяца назад +1

    Will be making this for my family in israel

  • @JamalELHANOJAMA
    @JamalELHANOJAMA 3 месяца назад

    In my sign Spread my name DAJJAL for my chains be unchain in this Island country Philippines for I can fulfill my obligations

  • @ShuiHaber
    @ShuiHaber 3 месяца назад +2

    How was the Challah?

  • @1mocole
    @1mocole 3 месяца назад +19

    I think you should consider making this a standard practice to bring your wife on when you have female guests.
    Your content is impactful and reaches people worldwide. However, it's a bit odd when you have a female guest dolled up with a full face of makeup and hair done as if she's headed to her own wedding, sitting a three feet away, locking eyes and shmoozing for an hour one-on-one with each other. It's a setup that feels off and that also may present dangerous impression for how frum men and women should be interacting with each other.
    I would think your typical mainstream rav nowadays would not recommend this.
    Being honest I don't think this is a frequent issue-most of your episodes are completely kosher. But, I think you should keep this in mind moving forward and either bring your wife along or maybe introduce a female host for these episodes. Discussing personal topics like dating struggles (like you did a few episodes ago) one-on-one with women just doesn't sit right.
    I'm all in for the topics you cover with women; they're crucial for the women in our community and should be spoken about. I just think you should rethink how you conduct these interviews.
    Keep up the great work!

    • @Eitanlevy36
      @Eitanlevy36 3 месяца назад +3

      I Agree with you 💯

    • @rachlovesthebeatles
      @rachlovesthebeatles 3 месяца назад +4

      I do not agree. It is not inappropriate. I prefer Yaakov’s one on one interview style.

    • @LivingLchaim
      @LivingLchaim  3 месяца назад +3

      Thanks for the well-thought out feedback. Oh we wish she'd be available all of the time.
      Every interview is conducted under the guidelines and umbrella of our typical mainstream Rabbanim.
      We don't think this public platform is the best place to have this conversation and happy to have it offline.
      Will try to address a few points:
      1) 95% of the time there are others in the room with us (spouses of guests, Lchaim staff) or in our studio walking in and out).
      2) Keep in mind this isn't a private conversation, we literally have 3 cameras and a few microphones recording everything.
      3) This isn't actually a one-on-one conversation, at least that's how we look at it. It's a guest getting a platform and the host is there to represent the thousands of people at home.
      Lastly, keep in mind, the goal of this is to help people reach their full potential. If your Rav watches/listens and decides that this will bring you further from growing closer to Hashem - we understand and respect your decision to not watch (it'll make us sad, but our mission is to ensure everyone is following Das Torah the right way).
      There have been episodes that never happened or we had to stop because our Rabbanim suggested we take a different approach.
      And just to reiterate, we appreciate your feedback very much. Really. 🙌

    • @SK-ii6tc
      @SK-ii6tc 3 месяца назад +1

      "hair, makeup, wedding", etc. Stop being such a drama queen, calm down!

    • @1mocole
      @1mocole 3 месяца назад +2

      @@LivingLchaim Appreciate the reply. All valid points you are making. All I can say is that it may be beneficial to also think about how it appears from the viewers perspectives. Your points are valid that there are other staff in the room, cameras watching you, etc. but the viewers are not seeing this perspective and therefore it gives off a different impression.
      Bottom line is since I left my comment there have been 20 thumbs up on it, so it seems that many people are sharing the same sentiment. (in contrast only 5 people left thumbs up to comments that are disagreeing me)
      Anyways, I didn't mean to start a big deal here. Just keep up the good work you are doing!

  • @IleneEasterly
    @IleneEasterly 3 месяца назад

    Resilient! Wonderful podcast!

  • @yuditglass4550
    @yuditglass4550 3 месяца назад

    Resilient

  • @nyisles87
    @nyisles87 3 месяца назад

    Hy'd

  • @AsifIqbal-d7u
    @AsifIqbal-d7u 3 месяца назад

    Hello

  • @willschneider7252
    @willschneider7252 3 месяца назад +3

    resilience this interview inspired me!

  • @LK-eh3jk
    @LK-eh3jk 3 месяца назад

    Like you know. Like you know!!!!!!!

  • @janehekel2145
    @janehekel2145 3 месяца назад

    How did they know the accident was a terrorized act?

    • @chatisawasteoftime
      @chatisawasteoftime 3 месяца назад

      Read up on it. The question should be why was this called "road rage" when it reeked of terrorism.

    • @janehekel2145
      @janehekel2145 3 месяца назад

      @@chatisawasteoftime Why do you say it reeked from a terrorism attack? I do not know the story

    • @chatisawasteoftime
      @chatisawasteoftime 3 месяца назад

      @@janehekel2145 Research the story. It's out there.