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My dad sent me an mp3 of this song when I was 12 yrs old, on the day he left my mom and was waiting to board a plane from the UK to Boston in America.. the day he decided he needed a fresh start on his life, 3000 miles away from his 2 confused and scared sons.. and I still love it
There was a lot more that happened to Steven Page. He actually came to my university and gave a talk to the first-years. He had a lot of problems with mental illness that he was having problems dealing with. He's actually doing a lot of good what he's doing now, he very actively involved in Mental Health Awareness and that's a very noble thing.
Some people try to put other people in a box or pretend they are made of plastic. There isn't an easy solution to us we are all complex. If he is doing good and cares about what he does then no one has a justifiable reason to do anything but support him.
A bit overstated, but I feel you. If they had produced more of this sort of work as opposed to moving into commercial sound after the first two albums... perhaps went acoustic side 1 / electric side 2 or something, they might have been more recognized. I think their commercial stuff was creative, but lacked the soul this album had.
Featured this song at my brother's funeral last year... He took his own life at 33 yrs of age. We grew up with BNL. Gordan is one of my favourite albums.
This is the song I listened to over and over again in the months after my mom died. I couldn't grasp how life was supposed to just keep going as it had now that she was gone. I suppose I owe BNL a massive thank you for helping me get through such a painful time.
I first heard this song on an episode of Homicide Life on the Street. It was a Thanksgiving episode themed episode too. My mom passed away a couple weeks ago, and I’m in your exact situation. I hope you’re doing well.
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Reminds me of my marriage to my son's mother. How she was right about my addiction, cost me everything yet I never admitted it to her. I just went through the years lying to myself just to make it through the day. Knowing is half the battle but for myself it took a cataclysm of epic proportion for me stop it all.
I do not believe they play some of the older songs that are so associated Steven Page's unique and powerful voice... What a Good Boy, Jane, Break Your Heart. Others work and I like Ed Robertson or others voices. I love those songs, but some you could not do justice w/o Page.
I knew of them, but never heard any of their songs, his voice gives me the goosebumps, the words are full of emotions I can perceive in my soul. I can’t believe I never stopped to listen. Officially in love with this band❤️
Not to be a Debbie downer but it fucking astounds me that they’re best known for stuff like One Week and Another Postcard and not for their insanely touching emotional pieces
Yes he does but needs to cut down on the cigs. Met him recently at one of his shows. Saw him outside of venue as I was walking up, and he was smoking away. Nice guy...guarded...but nice.
"I go to school, I write exams, if I pass if I fail, if I drop out does anyone give a damn? And if they do, they'll soon forget. 'Cause it won't take much for me to show my life ain't over yet." As a grade 12 student, this song, and especially these lyrics, mean the world to me. Thank you, Barenaked Ladies, for the amazing songs that will be in my life forever.
steven page has to be one of the most unique and talented singer songwriters out there!!! no wonder they cover bruce cockburn songs as he is the MASTER of these style of songs...awesome!!!
The barenaked ladies are classic! I've been listening to them for 18 years.. that's how old this song is! Brilliant! Great lyrics... heart felt for teenagers and just for life!
BNL was and is an incredible, yet underrated band! This song is so beautifully written and performed, and their song list is just as great. It's a ride down wonderful memory lane for me!
Me too! That show had some great songs that I hadn’t heard before… another one is “Can’t Find My Way Home.” It was a great show and the songs they picked really summed up each episode…
I remember that one time our basketball team was on a trip and we were on a ferry, and I began listening to this song. One of my teammates asked me when the song was over if I could "Turn off my country music," and it took all of my willpower not to strangle them.
This song just touches me so deeply. I'm not sure why. Listening to it can bring me to tears. Singing along with it fills me with energy that can chase the blues away.
I love it. BNL rock. I got into them back in the 90's and no-one I knew had heard of them. A cople of us were playing guitar and stuff and my best mate and I got into them. We usually listen to country and rode in rodeos and stuff in Australia, so it was quite a shock to some of our friends when we pulled out the guitars and belted this song out and other BNL songs.
This song never ceases to hit me straight in the heart. It's as if they were there with me through my youth. No regrets but so many things left done and so much more to do. The inner child better be along with me on the ride if I'm going to move forward. Thank you boys for this song. You made at least one person contemplate the irony of life.
Just a great song!!!! Only saw them once at Turning Stone Casino in Up-State New York for their holiday tour about 5 years ago and loved it! I need to go again sooooooooooooon!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I love music. Steven page has a talent that I envy. If I could evoke the same emotion that he makes me feel I would sing. I wouldn't let anything get in between that. I feel he had the potential to be a classic voice that generations could appreciate. I would never let that go.
Holy cow ... where did 36 years go? In my brain BNL is a fairly new band. I suppose this means I'm older than I think. The scene at 2:07 reminds me of my High School friend who kept me grounded when the other kids were rolling their eyes at me.
My favorite BnL song (although One Week) is catchy. Had never heard it until it was used during the closing minutes of an episode of "Homicide: Life on the Street".
That's how I found it also. Next day I went on a Homicide Usenet group and asked them to tell me what song it was. I knew it was BNL, couldn't mistake the voice, but I only knew Be my Yoko Ono and If I had a Million Dollars. This song blew me away and brought me to tears.
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Just got done watching Homicide: Life On The Street, Season 4 episode 5. The premise is about a man's son who was murdered because someone mistakenly thought he was gay. The detectives inform the father as he arrives home alone Thanksgiving Day after burying his son, that the killers were caught as this song played in the background. I didn't know who sang it at first but I said, "Damn, I know that voice!" I Googled a line and it brought me here. I could've kicked myself for not realizing who it was, being a long time fan of the band.
In my humble opinion, this is their best song. It's SO beautiful.
I agree! It's always been my fav!
Definitely one of my favorites
Definitely. This and The Flag are their best songs imo.
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My dad sent me an mp3 of this song when I was 12 yrs old, on the day he left my mom and was waiting to board a plane from the UK to Boston in America.. the day he decided he needed a fresh start on his life, 3000 miles away from his 2 confused and scared sons.. and I still love it
What a voice this guy has. One of the most unique voices ever. You can always tell almost immediately it's Barenaked Ladies.
This song's got a Tracy Chapman-vibe.
Steven Pages voice… wow.
Gordon was a banger of an album. Nearly 30 years after its release, and I still come back to it.
It's in my top 10 albums of all time.
When my dad died this was my song
100%
It really is a masterpiece.
There was a lot more that happened to Steven Page. He actually came to my university and gave a talk to the first-years. He had a lot of problems with mental illness that he was having problems dealing with. He's actually doing a lot of good what he's doing now, he very actively involved in Mental Health Awareness and that's a very noble thing.
Some people try to put other people in a box or pretend they are made of plastic. There isn't an easy solution to us we are all complex. If he is doing good and cares about what he does then no one has a justifiable reason to do anything but support him.
It's a shame what his band, and label did to him...
Its hurts how underrated these guys are.
A bit overstated, but I feel you. If they had produced more of this sort of work as opposed to moving into commercial sound after the first two albums... perhaps went acoustic side 1 / electric side 2 or something, they might have been more recognized. I think their commercial stuff was creative, but lacked the soul this album had.
be grateful for being one of the people who, for whatever reason, got to experience them.
I feel the same way ❤
This was the song I played on repeat during my four-year battle with cancer. ❤️
You beat it. ❤ 💪🏻 🫵🏻 That’s awesome. Seriously, it takes more strength than I can imagine.
I hope you are doing well. God bless.
"I wake up scared
I wake up strange
and I wake up wondering if anything in my life
is ever gonna change"
...just HURTS, man.
YUP 💔💔😭
One of the greatest ballads ever written.
If you grew up in Canada, and particularly in Toronto, this song is like an anthem for the soul
This song still has tears streaming down my face.
I was lucky enough to see them live from the second row at a charity Christmas concert. 💙
When my dad died this was our song
@@kylecollins7195 I'm so sorry you lost your dad. I hope this song brings you comfort, and not just sadness. 💙
@@kylecollins7195 sorry for your loss.
I saw them is Charlotte NC. First concert with my wife.
Featured this song at my brother's funeral last year... He took his own life at 33 yrs of age. We grew up with BNL. Gordan is one of my favourite albums.
I am so sorry to hear, Mark. This was 4 years ago. How are you doing today?
Bless you
This is my wife and my wedding song too.
Mark Oliver I am so sorry. This was a few years ago I hope you have found peace in your loss
I’m so sorry for your loss.
This is the song I listened to over and over again in the months after my mom died. I couldn't grasp how life was supposed to just keep going as it had now that she was gone. I suppose I owe BNL a massive thank you for helping me get through such a painful time.
I first heard this song on an episode of Homicide Life on the Street. It was a Thanksgiving episode themed episode too.
My mom passed away a couple weeks ago, and I’m in your exact situation. I hope you’re doing well.
@@dabearcub mom died 18yrs ago, 3/16/04, and this turned on the waterworks to the point where I realized I never dealt with it.
@@toms8483 thinking of ya buddy…
@@dabearcub thanks man, you too. I don't know anything about u, your age, whatever, but I'm sure when when someone loses their mom it's the same at practically any age. Hang in there. U will never get over it but you will accept it and her memory will live in you forever. The toughest thing for me is that she never met my daughter who is 8 years old now but her middle name is her own and my daughter asks about her sometimes and I get to talk about her and it helps.
My Dad passed away about 7 months ago and I can't stop listening to this song . It really speaks to me.
When I was born
They looked at me and said
What a good boy
What a smart boy
What a strong boy
And when you were born
They looked at you and said
What a good girl
What a smart girl
What a pretty girl
We've got these chains
Hanging 'round our necks
People want to strangle us with them
Before we take our first breath
Afraid of change
Afraid of staying the same
When temptation calls
We just look away
This name is the hair shirt I wear
And this hair shirt is woven from your brown hair
This song is the cross that I bear
Bear with me
Bear with me
Bear with me
Be with me tonight
I know that it isn't right
But be with me tonight
I go to school
I write exams
If I pass if I fail if I drop out
Does anyone give a damn?
And if they do
They'll soon forget
'Cause it won't take much for me
To show my life ain't over yet
I wake up scared
I wake up strange
I wake up wondering if anything in my life
Is ever gonna change
I wake up scared
I wake up strange
And everything around me stays the same
It's the hair shirt I wear
And this hair shirt is woven from
It's woven from your brown hair
This song is the cross that I bear
Bear with me
Bear with me
Bear with me
Be with me tonight
I know that it isn't right
But be with me tonight
I couldn't tell you
I was wrong
Chickened out grabbed a pen and a paper
Sat down and I wrote this song
I couldn't tell you
That you were right
So instead I looked in the mirror
Watched TV, laid awake all night
We've got these chains
Hanging round our necks
People want to strangle us with them
Before we take our first breath
Afraid of change
Afraid of staying the same
When temptation calls, yeah
This name is the hair shirt I wear
And this hair shirt is woven from
It's woven from
It's woven from hair
This song is the cross that I bear
Bear with me
Bear with me
Bear with me
Be with me tonight
And when I was born
They looked at me and said
What a good boy
What a smart boy
What a strong boy
And when you were born
They looked at you and said
What a good girl
What a smart girl
What a pretty girl, yeah, yeah
Reminds me of my marriage to my son's mother. How she was right about my addiction, cost me everything yet I never admitted it to her. I just went through the years lying to myself just to make it through the day. Knowing is half the battle but for myself it took a cataclysm of epic proportion for me stop it all.
The live version of this song is ridiculously AMAZING!!! This is/was a band is/was better live than on a studio album!! I miss them:(
The live version gives me goosebumps evey time
Saw them in concert last night in Columbia SC and they didn't play this! I was sooooo bummed. It is, by far, my favorite song ever.
Saw them last night in Augusta & thought the same
I do not believe they play some of the older songs that are so associated Steven Page's unique and powerful voice... What a Good Boy, Jane, Break Your Heart. Others work and I like Ed Robertson or others voices. I love those songs, but some you could not do justice w/o Page.
Ed's not gonna sing the ballads
I knew of them, but never heard any of their songs, his voice gives me the goosebumps, the words are full of emotions I can perceive in my soul. I can’t believe I never stopped to listen. Officially in love with this band❤️
if you havnt already, listen to Brian Wilson. its one of my all time favourite songs and its beautiful
Not to be a Debbie downer but it fucking astounds me that they’re best known for stuff like One Week and Another Postcard and not for their insanely touching emotional pieces
Great song, kinda sums up my life. I can relate to this. Steven Page has one of the best voices ever.
agree man, 100 percent
bnl ddoesnt need steven to be succesful but they need him to be great
Yep
Yes he does but needs to cut down on the cigs. Met him recently at one of his shows. Saw him outside of venue as I was walking up, and he was smoking away. Nice guy...guarded...but nice.
This is as good if not better than any other song the Ladies ever did. It surprises me how overlooked it is. Steven at his absolute best.
@Envoy Lovers in a Dangerous Time is very good as well. Bruce Cockburn is criminally underrecognized, but the Ladies improved on that one.
@Envoy I was fortunate enough to see Bruce in person playing at a bar in Minneapolis. A couple hundred people.
I haven't heard this song in over 25 years, I'm not sure how I got back here, but I'm damn sure I did.
This song is my song from my parents. Their song. Brings me to tears. Love them both so much!
Most underrated and BEST song they ever made!
Why was this song not more popular?
'Bear' with me?
When will I finally profit from other's loss?
AWESOME SONG
It's funny when I listen to this 1992 doesn't seem like it was that long ago.
Yeaaaah 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼 damn time flys by. I remember when my brother just got their cd. I’d sit in his room and chill. Brings back a lot of awesome memories
This is the greatest song ever written I love Barenaked Ladies so grateful for their music. They have help me through dark times in my life
"I go to school, I write exams, if I pass if I fail, if I drop out does anyone give a damn? And if they do, they'll soon forget. 'Cause it won't take much for me to show my life ain't over yet."
As a grade 12 student, this song, and especially these lyrics, mean the world to me. Thank you, Barenaked Ladies, for the amazing songs that will be in my life forever.
steven page has to be one of the most unique and talented singer songwriters out there!!! no wonder they cover bruce cockburn songs as he is the MASTER of these style of songs...awesome!!!
No one has a voice like this guy!
I just love the raw emotion in Steve's voice
Steven Page's voice is incredible!
Just thinking of an old friend that introduced me to this band so many years ago in high school. Miss u buddy
The barenaked ladies are classic! I've been listening to them for 18 years.. that's how old this song is! Brilliant! Great lyrics... heart felt for teenagers and just for life!
I liked this album when it was released even though not many of my University friends liked them yet. LOL
BNL was and is an incredible, yet underrated band! This song is so beautifully written and performed, and their song list is just as great. It's a ride down wonderful memory lane for me!
What an emotional punch!
I first heard this song on an episode of Homicide: Life on the Street. I was instantly struck by its beauty. I love it still. Thank you, BNL.
Me too!
That show had some great songs that I hadn’t heard before… another one is “Can’t Find My Way Home.”
It was a great show and the songs they picked really summed up each episode…
@@markkelley6675 Agreed. The song appeared in the HLOTS episode entitled "Hate Crimes."
I remember that one time our basketball team was on a trip and we were on a ferry, and I began listening to this song. One of my teammates asked me when the song was over if I could "Turn off my country music," and it took all of my willpower not to strangle them.
What an amazing experience! The singer's voice just grabs you. This is an astounding
Experience. Love it.
This song just touches me so deeply. I'm not sure why. Listening to it can bring me to tears. Singing along with it fills me with energy that can chase the blues away.
It gives me goosebumps! Few songs do. It's so melancholy and hopeful but also dismal.
It is a gift to appreciate music the way you can. I know that as I also can.
MY FAVORITE song by them I cry when i hear this song
I love it. BNL rock. I got into them back in the 90's and no-one I knew had heard of them. A cople of us were playing guitar and stuff and my best mate and I got into them. We usually listen to country and rode in rodeos and stuff in Australia, so it was quite a shock to some of our friends when we pulled out the guitars and belted this song out and other BNL songs.
It is still one of my all time favorite songs - very haunting...
BNL is timeless and completely underrated 💞
This song never ceases to hit me straight in the heart. It's as if they were there with me through my youth. No regrets but so many things left done and so much more to do. The inner child better be along with me on the ride if I'm going to move forward. Thank you boys for this song. You made at least one person contemplate the irony of life.
Just a great song!!!! Only saw them once at Turning Stone Casino in Up-State New York for their holiday tour about 5 years ago and loved it! I need to go again sooooooooooooon!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
One of my favorites. I wish more people knew who these guys are. They are amazing.
Their best stuff was in the Andy years. Brothers Creeggan forever!
a perfect recording ...whoever engineered this recording in the studio is a master... and a great song... if not one of the bes....t to work with
Stunning. Brought a tear to my eye. Wasn't expecting that
There is none better than these wonderful souls! This song is so astounding!
This reminds me of summer, and it's so amazing! I LOVE this song!!!! It brings back such great memories!
This song embodies the inner turmoil of a character I'm writing about right now. Playlisted!
It seems like this song just came out yesterday, but 20 years has passed wow, it sucks gettin old! One of my all time favs...
Love this song help me through so much. Love this band my all time favorite.
J'adore ce groupe canadien... Leur musique est très belle.
Steven Page is a genius.
Love BNL with Steven Paige. Reminds me of trying on maternity clothes 27 years ago as this song was blasting in the dressing room at Thyme. Nostalgic.
they asked me to sing at graduation. so i chose this song. first thing that came to mind
2:27 ... insane verse!!!
Just saw “Stonewall” And this was the song that ran with the closing credits. Really powerful.
Have loved this song since it was used on the Intervention series. ❤️
I love music. Steven page has a talent that I envy. If I could evoke the same emotion that he makes me feel I would sing. I wouldn't let anything get in between that. I feel he had the potential to be a classic voice that generations could appreciate. I would never let that go.
I am moving, and Old Apartment keeps replaying in my head, over 28 years, was 3 yrs old in this house...
A band that hit a creative vein with more songs than they had any right to, but here they found an artery.
This song helps so much when my dysphoria is overwhelming
Brilliant guys. TY
This is a hell of a lot better than If I Had A Million Dollars
The sound of an era.
Awe. Reminds me of my college days. Good music.
best canadian mband ever! no questions asked
Holy cow ... where did 36 years go? In my brain BNL is a fairly new band. I suppose this means I'm older than I think. The scene at 2:07 reminds me of my High School friend who kept me grounded when the other kids were rolling their eyes at me.
a song with meaning! hard to find these days!
BNL were one of the best bands ever!
The lyrics really roll together well in this song. Mr. Page does a great job as well.
I keep coming back, it's so good.
one of my faves for them. They are truly amazing when he came here to scotland. Lovely every second.
This song is painful- in a great way. Powerful writing.
Still one of my favorite songs ! 2023
I've never loved a song so much, while hating the video for it so much.
Great song, and heartbreaking at the conclusion of the Homicide, Life on the Street episode "Hate Crimes."
Homicide is one of my favourite dramas. I was very moved when they had this song in the drama series.
My favorite BnL song (although One Week) is catchy. Had never heard it until it was used during the closing minutes of an episode of "Homicide: Life on the Street".
That's how I found raining in Baltimore by Counting Crows. Just bought Homicide the complete series. on season 4.
That's how I found it also. Next day I went on a Homicide Usenet group and asked them to tell me what song it was. I knew it was BNL, couldn't mistake the voice, but I only knew Be my Yoko Ono and If I had a Million Dollars. This song blew me away and brought me to tears.
What a great great song!
I can't believe this video is so bad, the song is so fantastic, the singer's voice is really staggering. Someone didn't think it through
some of the best songs have the worst videos tbh. look up "i'm in it with you" by loreen and you'll see what i mean.
Wonderful
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SOOO BEAUTIFUL BY THEM❤❤❤
Just got done watching Homicide: Life On The Street, Season 4 episode 5. The premise is about a man's son who was murdered because someone mistakenly thought he was gay. The detectives inform the father as he arrives home alone Thanksgiving Day after burying his son, that the killers were caught as this song played in the background. I didn't know who sang it at first but I said, "Damn, I know that voice!" I Googled a line and it brought me here. I could've kicked myself for not realizing who it was, being a long time fan of the band.
I always get goosebumps listening to this song
Just saw Steven Page last night in Ridgefield CT...what a show ...what a voice...much love
I love playing this song live🎉
I love this song. Lyrics are cute and romantic
Beautiful song.
Oh man just thought of this song tonight for some reason, one of my favorite by BnL. Takes me way the hell back lol
I love this album.
Takes me right back to my college days.
This would be a fantastic duet song
This song is one of my fave BNL hits. (Admittedly one of many but whatever...)
This is probably my favorite BNL song. ahhhh....
Amazing song.... so right on... just to the t.... exactly what this world does to us.... love you guys:)
this song is the cross that I bear... bear it with me.. bear it with me... be with me tonight...
I love this song
This song is hauntingly beautiful.