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3 Signs You Have A Soul Tie/ Affair recovery

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  • Опубликовано: 18 авг 2024
  • Did your affair end and you feel like you can't let go or move on? In this video, I share with you some information about soul ties and how they bind us to our affair partner. You don't have to stay stuck in the past and you can love again.
    Here are the Bible verses that speak about healthy soul ties. Genesis 2:24, Mark 10:8, Ephesian 5:31
    If you would like to read more about soul ties I wrote a blog post moderndayeve.c...
    If you would like more information and tips on how to end an affair, you can read the blog post here:moderndayeve.c...
    My course on How To Survive The Withdrawal Stage When An Affair Ends: moderndayeve.c...
    If you would like help learning how to heal from infidelity and transform into a better you. I offer a free 1 hour 1:1 chat.
    Schedule a free session with me: calendly.com/s...
    Please feel free to email me: stacey@moderndayeve.com
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Комментарии • 43

  • @staceychenevert
    @staceychenevert  3 года назад +6

    Hi I hope you found this video helpful and remember don't stop growing and learning from infidelity.

    • @luzstar9934
      @luzstar9934 3 года назад +1

      I wish to support my husband if I knew he is still soul tie but he doesn’t share with me and if I ask he said: wherever happened is in the past.
      After God heard my prayers my husband abruptly end up with his affair partner, I never understood what exactly happened and things still unclear for me and I feel the battle is in my mind because I know how strong the bond was basically I’m the one who needs help to overcome this situation 😔

    • @staceychenevert
      @staceychenevert  3 года назад +1

      @@luzstar9934 Hi, it is very hard for men to open up about their affair. It's not uncommon for them to want to forget it happened. It is a battle in your mind especially with all the unanswered questions etc. If you need help I work with the BS also and I would be happy to speak with you. I have a link in the description where you can set up a chat. In the meantime ask God to open his eyes so he can see what you need from him durning this time.

  • @user-sy4fe5vg6b
    @user-sy4fe5vg6b 2 дня назад

    We cannot control what our minds think only how we act upon those thoughts. Trying no contact for the second time, it is torture. This was a decades old affair that resurfaced to become an emotional affair and is just as painful as the first time. I am praying.

    • @staceychenevert
      @staceychenevert  2 дня назад

      I'm sure it is very painful. The second time around is almost worse than the first.

  • @1ilax
    @1ilax 2 года назад +3

    for me it's the smile , the imaginary world we created, music , laughs , being so gentle and loving, I miss it and cant replace it... 8 weeks no contact, something really bad happened last week between me and my husband that broke everything we have built in this 8 weeks , and I'm struggling bot to get in touch ..I really am

    • @staceychenevert
      @staceychenevert  2 года назад +4

      Hi, 8 weeks is the danger zone, where the temptation to reconnect is the strongest. Hang in there you made it this far without giving in. Because giving in now would set you back and undo all the progress you have made. Instead ask yourself what males me feel like I need to run to an u healthy relationship?

    • @1ilax
      @1ilax 2 года назад +4

      @@staceychenevert as I feel like it makes me "happier" than marriage ,more lively, the way he makes me feel, the excitement,all of those things that I'm missing in my marriage really. We have worked on them with my husband he has been brill, but he has done something recently that undo all the work we have put and we are going through a huge crisis. The problem is instead of trying to work on our marriage again , it put me off it all and I'm looking for a quick fix. why the married affair partner ? why I'm not even looking elsewhere?he is never gonna leave his wife, and I seem not to care as long as he can give me all of those great feelings for that very moment ...sad really

    • @1ilax
      @1ilax Год назад +4

      @@kingtiger322 I've stopped the affair instead, don't have any feelings for thr guy anymore and can't believe that I had

  • @Kakkoii_ne
    @Kakkoii_ne 2 года назад +1

    I am there right now. Everything you read about your blog post is what I am going through. I am having such a hard time. Really.

    • @staceychenevert
      @staceychenevert  2 года назад

      It's so hard breaking a soul tie but remember it can be done, don't give up

    • @Kakkoii_ne
      @Kakkoii_ne 2 года назад

      @@staceychenevert thank you very much. It has been over a month, and I am still struggling. I can't stop. She is in my mind and thoughts. It is driving me mad. I want to move past this, but can't. omg. I already threw out, everything that reminds me of her. broke contact, but I still hope that I accidentally run into her and keep looking at my phone, every time I get a text and hope it is from her. But nothing. I am a total wreck inside. I will send you an email and try to get something started to recover. I really need help to move past this.

    • @staceychenevert
      @staceychenevert  2 года назад

      @@Kakkoii_ne yes recovery is a beast. I wish it wasn't so hard to get through. I can definitely help you
      I'm looking forward to hearing from you.

    • @Softsoul.
      @Softsoul. Год назад

      @@Kakkoii_ne how are you doing now?

  • @kellynorman8509
    @kellynorman8509 2 года назад +1

    Definitely there at this point. Struggling

  • @simfora8053
    @simfora8053 2 года назад

    I’m 17 and a guy but I am needing videos like this so thank you.

  • @kellynorman8509
    @kellynorman8509 2 года назад

    I truly believe this is best video you’ve done!!!! So thankful for you!

  • @kellynorman8509
    @kellynorman8509 2 года назад +3

    Withdraw to loneliness and sadness? Meaning this is where you like to stay in your emotions? Cause if so…..I’m there. 7 weeks no contact and the urge to contact and the fight to not do it, along with missing him and the memories are destroying me.

    • @EButta71
      @EButta71 2 года назад

      I'm 3 weeks no contact-some days are better than others. How are you doing now?

    • @kellynorman8509
      @kellynorman8509 2 года назад +2

      @@EButta71 I am doing much better as far as not letting him consume my thoughts and my grief stage is getting better. Now though I am in the beginnings of rebuilding my marriage and that is painful seeing his pain.

    • @EButta71
      @EButta71 2 года назад +1

      @@kellynorman8509 thank you so much for sharing. I feel encouraged to know that there are more manageable days ahead. I think with the year ending I'm doing so much reflecting and it's painful. I'm wishing you strength and peace as you refocus on your marriage and rebuild what you already have--our marriages may not be the same but I believe it's possible to be even better than before 🙏🏾 Best of luck to you💞

    • @Softsoul.
      @Softsoul. Год назад

      @@EButta71 so kind of you

  • @kellynorman8509
    @kellynorman8509 2 года назад

    I see this coming to be true right now!!!

  • @katielung6515
    @katielung6515 2 года назад

    i love your poem, you are so beautiful. Thank you

  • @blakeepperson3902
    @blakeepperson3902 2 года назад +4

    Sex creates soul ties correct? 1 Corinthians 6:16. Two souls marrying through sex. This seems to be a watered down western version of Christianity.

  • @therydaniela1279
    @therydaniela1279 2 года назад

    Thank you so much for your videos!!

  • @lucid5411
    @lucid5411 Год назад

    I’m wondering how you apply this to your situation because your husband was your affair partner. You didn’t end that affair in favor of your first husband ????

  • @melodykubiak5850
    @melodykubiak5850 Год назад

    Just letting you know, all of the links in the description box are broken.

  • @gwendolynpugh3554
    @gwendolynpugh3554 Год назад

    Hi Stacey,
    Are you saying that the person the we form a soul-tie with affect the brain just like an addictive behavior or substance would in the brain

    • @staceychenevert
      @staceychenevert  Год назад

      Yes falling in love lights up the same region of the brain as an addictive drug would.

    • @gwendolynpugh3554
      @gwendolynpugh3554 Год назад

      Thank you so much for sharing this information . It has really helped me to understand and develop a compassionate attitude; instead of a judgmental one ; towards people who do have affairs . I know that it is only by the grace of God that I have not stumbled in that particular area and I know that being judgmental is also a sin and you have helped me tremendously to assist me in understanding how soul-ties are formed. Thank you !

    • @staceychenevert
      @staceychenevert  Год назад

      @@gwendolynpugh3554 welcome 💕 I'm so happy to hear this.

  • @tneita3166
    @tneita3166 3 года назад

    I don't understand what you are saying about
    Soul ties, I mean God gave you your soul tie
    In your husband but you say that God gave
    You your ( soul tie in the Af.) so what about
    Your husband, or are you saying that Af partner's
    Also soul ties, I am confused,,,.

    • @staceychenevert
      @staceychenevert  3 года назад +3

      God created soul ties when he said the two shall become one flesh. So whenever you have sex with someone you become one flesh with that person. Therefore create a soul tie with them. SO you can have a soul tie with more than one person.

  • @followyourpassion8378
    @followyourpassion8378 Год назад

    Not sure if I can follow that logic. When soul tie with affair = actions based on emotions = bad. When same thing with primary partner = good?
    The relationship with the primary partner typically underwent a similar bonding/chemicals/emotions pattern as the new relationship with the affair partner does.
    Not all is limerence. Humans must face mortality. Whom you spend your time with and what colours of the emotional spectrum you want to feel in your life is an important choice.

    • @staceychenevert
      @staceychenevert  Год назад +1

      Emotions are not bad but if you are married and in love with someone else its a painful and destructive situation you have gotten yourself into.