Yara is way too good for Jovi. I don’t understand how she puts up with him but I’ll applaud her once she leaves and then watch that’s when Jovi will be begging for her ☹️
She's still with him because he makes a lot of money. She has an easy life if the only thing she's worried about is looking pretty for him. She knew what she was getting herself into with Jovi, a guy who frequently goes to strip club. If having strippers was a rule-breaker she shouldn't have married him. But he's rich so...but she's crying for nothing because he doesn't want to marry a stripper. Guys like Jovi know that there are 2 kinds of women: wives, and strippers. So Yara has nothing to worry about
She needs to ditch that POS, once he is out, her insecurities will disappear and I bet she could get a job in a blink of an eye. And might get a new husband who would actually spend time with her and the kid and respect her by not calling ex bootycall to dance for his friends. I hate that guy.
Well I saw it coming. He shouldn’t have cheated 10-12 times got a yeast infection and texting 💬 other people at the resort. Kalani loves him he’s the father of the kids.
This is exactly why Jovi wanted yara pregnant. He wanted to her to stay home and be distracted by a baby while he's out gallivanting with strippers and thots.
@@faustopacheco120 - Jovi is an idiot. He should have gotten his mom pregnant, while Yara went out and danced. By danced I mean stripped. By stripped I mean anything sexual, perverse, demeaning, or degrading that anybody requests or demands for their visual and/or physical pleasure in exchange for cash.
All women need to have complete control over their reproduction. It's the key way a man can gain control over you. He knew what he was doing...and she knew she had to get on birth control.
And remember how terribly he talks to her? We’ve seen him cuss her out in the car with their children and her mother there. And he does NOTHING to help her with the kids or the house. He’s just been awful.
His sister is going to strangle her when she finds out about their divorce. I’m sure he will try and get as much money as he can out of her to give his mom
And she doesn't value her kids or she would have waited a few years for them to grow up. A few years of her pretending to be happily married aren't worth more than her kids futures, which will now have a fucked up broken relationship as their template.
hard to tell This is eventually a drama show Some decisions don't seem logical in real life Why would he hide something if it is aired on tv? For me it feels like producers are saying to them act like this or do this for extra money and they do it it is entertaining but most is not real
Jovi’s addiction to lust, strippers, lying & unfaithfulness is the cause of Yara internalising it; mirroring & validating old ugly messages about herself; low s/esteem
Yara really feels like she isn’t enough for Jovi and that’s heartbreaking to see!! Anyone that’s been there knows exactly how that feels 😭 she has a lot to offer someone and I hope she finds that person.
She's good sure. The thing to keep in mind is if her man were the least bit submissive in anyway she'd likely steam roll him. She and He have way to much attention to not overthink if they're happy enough for each other. Hence the reason why her man actually wants her to feel this way. It's a power tactic
I bet that Yara if she dump this POS of Jovi, would get so many job offers and a man that would value her in seconds, she just needs to get rid of the bag that is dragging her down emotionally
Exactly! she taught him how to treat her! he cheated and he got away with it so he kept cheating! that's just kind of how it goes in this type of unhealthy relationship. that's why people get a divorce!
It’s why men hate that divorce is an option. They complain today and claim they want things to go back to the way it was. What they mean is they want to engage in bad behavior and the women be trapped. It’s crazy and toxic af
he Broke up with her and she went back to the resort he worked at purposely to get back with him... she is desperate as always and with the new guy from Hawaii, yea won't be no different. She's being swindled and that new guy just wants attention and fame.... she embarrassed her kids dad with oversharing and didn't protect her kids from all that. She threw him under the bus repeatedly to justify wanting to move on with the guy she cheated with. Horrible.
@@Sarina2511 nah she knew the whole time and accepted those behaviours repeatedly. And now she did the exact same thing she claims was so painful and hurtful. Make It make sense please.
You know that Jovi will be one of ‘those guys’ who’ll be all snotty crying, & telling everyone who’ll listen how “She did him dirty”, when Yara finally dumps his raggedy ass.
I’m going to be completely honest, if I was married to a simpleton like Asuelo who was cheating on me for years, I’d be looking for his replacement ASAP, no if’s, and’s, or buts. He should be put out with the trash!
@@katechan8262She didn't "cheat back " she got a hall pass. 😅 After being cheated on for an entire relationship Kalani has a lot of catching up to do... she needs to leave Asuelu. I don't feel bad for him at all.
That revelation that Jovi wouldn't be with Yara's if her body changed, is absolutely heartbreaking, especially if she was already feeling insecure about herself. Her mother clearly put a lot of emphasis on physical beauty as well, but Yara is both, both inside a a wonderful mother and role model to Myla and as a beautiful woman who keeps herself up. I hope the work she is doing mentally is helping her gain the strength to see her worth, i think she is so genuine.
@@jaywezzy91 I'm so over guys making comments like this. REALLY? Most women don't want men who are balding and can't keep it up like they did in their youth, but that's what they get by the time they're entering their late 40s, when a lot of women are having a sexual reawakening due to a hormonal shift, but they stay with their husband's, even if they are the much better looking, comparatively, counterparts. Out of loyalty and love. Not "acceptance". Why even bother pointing something out? Yara is far from out of shape.
@@9livesalicat86I’m not speaking about yara currently. I’m talking about the fears men have, we are very visual people. You would be shocked to know how men go about selecting their partner if you knew the truth. And are you saying that you would take issue if your man was bald? I don’t think so, but as far as sex drive I think that’s an individual thing. Every woman wouldn’t tell you their man can’t get it up, hell even big ED doesn’t have ED
@@jaywezzy91 I think you would be shocked to learn that not all men are visual; that there ARE men who are intellectual. And no; typically balding isn't a sign of a man's virility; my brother is a firefighter for instance and most of the men in the force are going bald, and have taken the plunge to shave their heads, and yet still check the "hot firefighter" checklist for most women. Most women will over look that and call it "becoming distinguished". On the other hand, women know nothing but insecurities as they have children and they worry what their husband's will think about inevitable changes their body has to go thru. I think your view point on relationships in really shallow. We all change with age; no one is looking forward to it. The fact that Jovi thinks he could leave Yara is she changes without excusing the fact his personality sucks is pretty awful of him. And if you aren't discussing Yara, and you're only pointing out MEN don't want FAT WIVES... well. You're making a broad over-generalizaton. There are lots of men who think thin is out and like a little "cushion for the pushing", as they say it. Unfortunately unhealthy people will get with unhealthy people as well and continue the cycle, so. Speak for yourself?
I think I lack empathy because I busted out laughing at Asuelu's lil meltdown. Also I wanna know why the heck did Ed bring up Yara's child..so uncalled for.
I felt like he did it because Yara asking about it brought nothing to Jovi… so he said explain it to Mila (the daughter) because Jovi will know how absolutely filthy wrong it is to do what he did. And if a guy did what he’s doing to his daughter…. He’d hate it but just not for Yara…. Pure reaction I believe
I had a boyfriend in high school who played soccer and was controlling, possessive and a massive flirt. He would tell me to shut up and once chocked me bcz he was jealous i was talking to some other guy. I stayed away from sexual stuff and never fave him sex ever..I was very strict and religious but dude i dodged a bullet.
They wouldn’t be together if she didn’t get pregnant. But she needs to move on and take the kid with her! Yara is strong, beautiful, successful, well traveled…. Has a strong moral compass… I literally have no idea what she sees in jovi.
Jovi strikes me as the typical (overused term) narcissist, compounded w/ a drinking problem & sex obsession. I'm totally bewildered that Yara stays w/ him. He simply isn't husband material. She deserves much more. So sad.
@@marknewton6984boring and complains. I only noticed when Liz pointed it out. They're both with each other for looks (yara Jovi). Neither have outstanding values or qualities Yara seems like an angel (that's a stretch) simply because Jovi makes bad decisions. She would be a headache to be around
Jovi just wants to escape his responsibilities as a father. since day 1 its always been Yara or his mum doing the childcare. THATS why he wants another kid so that Yara will be completely busy with the kids, she'll be less likely to leave the bigger the family is and it'll be harder for her to leave and be a single mum. i dont think he genuinely is trying to trap her but he knows he wont be the one taking care of the kids
For once I loved Ed snitching about Jovi and giving him payback for telling on the other guys to make himself look better. Honestly he deserved it. And they are both awful so I don't give AF about how well they get on.
Jovis secret is that he’s a scumbag. That’s his big, deep dark “secret”. As soon as Yara understands that - everything else will make so much more sense!
@@russellgarza9059Who knows but it’s still cheating. If some others don’t consider it that, they do. That’s all that matters. Way I see it; once you start talking to someone romantically or sexually; you’re already there. You cheated.
Yara is such a beautiful young lady and it breaks my heart to watch Jovi dismiss her feelings, destroy her confidence and make her think that she's doing something wrong. He's hell-bent on crushing her spirit and making her think that he's her only option and she just needs to accept all of his bullshit. I pray that she gets away from him before he destroys her anymore than he already has. She and tgat precious baby girl deserve better. ❤️
Jovi is a spoiled, very hurtful narcissist. First, when he told her to SHUT UP, you know he treats her horribly. Then he wouldn't give Yara the phone and said "Stop, its over. Ok?"!!! What?!! I wonder what his mom will think of him now. She took his side about the birth control, which was none of her business. I dont think Jovi really wants another child, I think he just threw that out there thinking that it would change Yara's mind about getting a place in Europe. I feel so bad for Yara😥
We all saw it coming. She was done with him before they got to the resort. I do believe he was distraught, she let him get away with it for so long that he was probably thinking that she would take him back again. And Yara just needs to leave Jovi. I know they have a kid but it's way more toxic to stay together with a partner that makes you feel insecure. She's a gorgeous woman, the fact that he makes her doubt how beautiful she is it's terrible.
she went on the resort to get $ and publicly humiliate him by oversharing details. things that you don't need to say to part ways but she did because she was actively cheating and wanted to defend her actions, only way to do that is completely expose him on national tv while she left the marriage therapy resort where the husbands and kids are there so she can go have sex with another guy. WTF?
Girl, I am right with you because I would have tried to wrestle his ass off of the boat to throw him in the ocean 😂 I don’t give a fuck if we both fell in there together
@@Xxxxkejti I totally agree with you, and the part that hurt me The most was when Yara was questioning herself and trying to compare herself to a stripper and saying that if she knew how to act like a stripper she would be that but she’s not and he was just staring at her silently like a dumb ass… i wish I could hug her
@@seawhorse9866 yes this made me so sad..how can your partner make you feel that way? Its heartbreaking. She is wonderful mom has great personality is witty smart calm and obviously beautiful stunning and gorgeous. And yet she's with.......Jovi 💩🤡 Unbelievable. Girl you deserve so much more. (I am haiting so much on him but I know it can all be scripted bla bla I'm just judging what i see ok.)
I think her childhood trauma has a lot to do with it. Her partner is supposed to be her safe space, and Jovi is not. When your partner is like that it adds to that trauma. At 33 I understand completely. I’m still recovering.
Men can't ever take the shit they've done to their woman. Men act like they done died. Kalani I kissed him.. Asuelu died, we fooled around he died, he flew in to see me Asuelu died. Asuelu cheated multiple times and didn't appreciate her and the family he made. Another man swoops in. He made that love die, bye 👋😂 Kalani come alive 👑
Ya but you can’t talk about someone’s daughter like that It’s unnecessary and childish especially with how young his daughter is even if what ed says is right
Yara needs to run! Women here's some advice in case you don't know. Doesn't matter how beautiful you are or how well you have your life together ~ they will still cheat!! It's not you, it'd them. And you can't fix them
That’s right, I always say “You didn’t cause it therefor you cannot fix it.” Something is wrong inside those men, they need to unpack it themselves. Yara must not ever feel any burden on herself, or ever think she’s not good enough. It’s simply not true.
I laughed so hard at Asuelu, he literally hurts their relationship going women to women and expected compassion and still companionship??! I hope Kalani finds better and her children deserve better
Damn my heart goes out to her for Yara its bad enough that you had to deal with this when she was a child now she has to deal with this with her husband.. damn…
He can't resist being the bad guy for attention or trying to make himself look good, I mean he broke the bro code in minding his business even if it's on a TV show
I went thru the EXACT same thing Yara is going thru & it’s so sad. We are both beautiful smart women who are desired by men but it doesn’t feel like it when the ONE man you want to feel desired by makes you feel undesirable. She deserves better & I pray she finds it w or w/out Jovi. 🥺💜🙏🏽
Same my ex was a porn addict and even tho other people always hit me up, I felt so insecure about his addiction and thought I am not good enough or that I’m ugly
@LuciixLucci - To you and the two woman that have replied to you so far. You each need to enroll in my 15-Day program to restore and build self-esteem. You will feel wanted and valued by the end of this program, guaranteed. The only difference between the successful graduates of this program and my extremely valuable sports card collection is that I would never lick or bend the card collection.
Idky they let it go this far? Asuelu cheating more than 10xs and Klani allowing it? But at least she finally saying that she wants a divorce and wants to move on. Definitely, the right things to do are the hardest choices. Hope she finds happiness and Asuelu learns from this..
very classy of her to go from a husband to a boyfriend.. while married and at a marriage resort with her husband and kids... nothing justifies that either
I feel terrible for Yara. For her to be brought on this show and is being embarrassed by her husband who she is only trying to create an emotional intimacy with. I’m dying for someone to give Ed a slap
Asuelu was soooo melodramatic! He finally got a huge wake-up now he finally feeling what he did to Kalina, and then again, he sorry not sorry he got caught!
I'm not surprised after hearing all the cheating and then she spent the night with Dallas. I was like, "It's done, it's over." The divorce will make his family happy. I agree, the addiction that Jovi has has nothing to do with Yara. This is ALL JOVI and he needs to get it under control or he's going to lose an amazing woman. Ed needs to stop bringing up kids. He's gonna come across the right person on the wrong day with nothing to lose and they are gonna get him. He needs to stop stirring the pot.
@@marknewton6984 He’s possibly the biggest shit show around. Jovi goes to a marriage retreat with his wife, only to drag two other guys to a strip club, then he acts like he just “went along for the ride”. Jovi knows how much it upsets Yara, & he knew damned well he’d get busted, so it says a lot about his lack of respect, & his feelings of entitlement, like he can do whatever he wants to do. Miss Gwen will get her lil Jovi back in time, no doubt. Maybe Jovi should be single again, very soon?
Yara broke my damn heart. She’s insanely beautiful. The fact Jovi just sat there and didn’t deny the things she was saying about herself was a bigger red flag. I just sat there like dude! Tell her “No no no. This has nothing to do with you lacking anything. This is a problem within myself. You are beautiful inside and out, and I hate that I made you feel that way.” To be very honest I can relate to her. My husband also struggles with a sex/porn addiction. It’s caused him to go over the line many times. I use to keep it on my shoulders thinking something must be wrong with me for him to do what he does. Until I had a total awakening. Age brought wisdom and I realized I was putting something on my shoulders that didn’t belong to me. Anyone else out there going through it, please know that you didn’t cause it and you cannot fix it. They must see the light and be willing to do the work. You are not imperfect and it has nothing to do with you not being enough. I know it sounds cliche as hell, but it truly is true. Take that weight off your shoulders and give it back to them where it belongs; and let them unpack it. It’s not yours to carry.
These have to be the worst therapist ever. They refused to call out Angela's trashy behavior. Both Kelli and Molly left before the end. Kalani snuck out to cheat with another man and then asked for a divorce. And not to mention the remaining men took a trip to the strip club
angela holding the tablet and turning it so michael can see everything is hilarious
Lmaooooo
Omg I was cryin 😂😂😂
WAHAHAHAHA WTF
I was thinking the same thing 😂
I’m screaming 😂
Asuelu acting dramatic AF... after he got yeast infection in his mouth!!!! 😂
Thank God, it wasn't HIV. It could have been worst.
Thaaaaat part!
Yesss😂
😂☠️
I would’ve divorced him
Too 😂
Yara is way too good for Jovi. I don’t understand how she puts up with him but I’ll applaud her once she leaves and then watch that’s when Jovi will be begging for her ☹️
And he wonders why she bought a backup apartment back home.
They both suck. I lost all respect for her after she told his parents to go home after riding for 3 hours. She is very self-centered and so is he
She's still with him because he makes a lot of money. She has an easy life if the only thing she's worried about is looking pretty for him. She knew what she was getting herself into with Jovi, a guy who frequently goes to strip club. If having strippers was a rule-breaker she shouldn't have married him. But he's rich so...but she's crying for nothing because he doesn't want to marry a stripper. Guys like Jovi know that there are 2 kinds of women: wives, and strippers. So Yara has nothing to worry about
She needs to ditch that POS, once he is out, her insecurities will disappear and I bet she could get a job in a blink of an eye. And might get a new husband who would actually spend time with her and the kid and respect her by not calling ex bootycall to dance for his friends. I hate that guy.
@@tmalaklaryka She has her own business. Im sure she would be fine
This man is hurt???!!! He cheated on her 10-12 times and still messaging girls at the resort! He was asking for a divorce!
Or to meet Jesus..
Well I saw it coming. He shouldn’t have cheated 10-12 times got a yeast infection and texting 💬 other people at the resort. Kalani loves him he’s the father of the kids.
And he sa her
He’s a savage
If i was with a whale like her o would cheat 100 times lol
This is exactly why Jovi wanted yara pregnant. He wanted to her to stay home and be distracted by a baby while he's out gallivanting with strippers and thots.
uh his mom babysits while yara goes out
@@faustopacheco120 -
Jovi is an idiot. He should have gotten his mom pregnant, while Yara went out and danced.
By danced I mean stripped.
By stripped I mean anything sexual, perverse, demeaning, or degrading that anybody requests or demands for their visual and/or physical pleasure in exchange for cash.
All women need to have complete control over their reproduction. It's the key way a man can gain control over you. He knew what he was doing...and she knew she had to get on birth control.
His mom is the real MVP
He clearly doesn't value Kalani or he wouldn't have cheated on her repeatedly.
Say it again!
And remember how terribly he talks to her? We’ve seen him cuss her out in the car with their children and her mother there. And he does NOTHING to help her with the kids or the house. He’s just been awful.
That’s a lie! Women can’t understand why men cheat, so yall explain it in ways yall understand. You just don’t get men.
His sister is going to strangle her when she finds out about their divorce. I’m sure he will try and get as much money as he can out of her to give his mom
And she doesn't value her kids or she would have waited a few years for them to grow up. A few years of her pretending to be happily married aren't worth more than her kids futures, which will now have a fucked up broken relationship as their template.
Jovi is really breaking Yara's self-esteem and confidence in herself. they too, must get a divorce.
💯 this part
hard to tell
This is eventually a drama show
Some decisions don't seem logical in real life
Why would he hide something if it is aired on tv?
For me it feels like producers are saying to them act like this or do this for extra money and they do it
it is entertaining but most is not real
Yes!! Why does he still have strippers numbers in his phone?? That’s crazyyyy
Jovi’s addiction to lust, strippers, lying & unfaithfulness is the cause of Yara internalising it; mirroring & validating old ugly messages about herself; low s/esteem
Jovi should care about honoring his wife as much as he does his daughter
Never
He barely spends any time with his daughter… so why does he want another kid smh
Yara really feels like she isn’t enough for Jovi and that’s heartbreaking to see!! Anyone that’s been there knows exactly how that feels 😭 she has a lot to offer someone and I hope she finds that person.
Jovi is such a loser Yara can do so much better. I do not understand why Liz stays with big Ed. A complete loser. Ed was just trying to be a big shot
He's a simp. She's such a good person
She's good sure. The thing to keep in mind is if her man were the least bit submissive in anyway she'd likely steam roll him. She and He have way to much attention to not overthink if they're happy enough for each other. Hence the reason why her man actually wants her to feel this way. It's a power tactic
I bet that Yara if she dump this POS of Jovi, would get so many job offers and a man that would value her in seconds, she just needs to get rid of the bag that is dragging her down emotionally
@@tmalaklaryka You can't seriously believe that guys are just lining up to be with a single mother.
I DIED when Angela said “Michael wants to tell Jovi something, here!!” and she just hands him over 😂
😂😂😂😂😂
Me too lolol
😅😅😅😅
Nope what did it for was when it was time to get off the boat she told him watch his step 😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I'm weak 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I can't stop laughing everytime the camera pans over and someone is holding Michael
😂😂😂😂I'm crying 😂😂
😂😂
Right 😂😂😂
I want to see the show from Michael’s perspective.
😂
Jovi is not even cute like that🙄...Yara needs to move on with her life period...smh
💯💯
Stop with the strong single black mother advice
@@rome2989 ha!!..something you will clearly never be...😒
Why did you have to bring up her colour? Your weird for that
@@kemi182...Right! Like anyone with a brain and common sense would advise her to move on🙄...trolls will be trolls 🤷🏾♀️
He baffles me he really does. He clearly is so distraught at the fact of the divorce. However, he cheat's over 10 TIMES!! like he don't make sense
Exactly! she taught him how to treat her! he cheated and he got away with it so he kept cheating! that's just kind of how it goes in this type of unhealthy relationship. that's why people get a divorce!
It’s why men hate that divorce is an option. They complain today and claim they want things to go back to the way it was. What they mean is they want to engage in bad behavior and the women be trapped.
It’s crazy and toxic af
Including while she was pregnant!
I don't feel bad for him.
Asuelu is low IQ. If he were tested, he would definitely score lower than average intelligence.
I must be heartless because I laughed my butt off at Asuelu’s panic attack😭
🤦🏽♀️🤣🤣🤣
That,s cruel, he doesn’t know any. Better..check out his family? Really. Mean. Diana
😂😂😂😂
@@mjMJ-1973 he was being over-dramatic AF considering his own behavior😭LOL
He wasn’t crying and hyperventilating while he was cheating 🤷🏾♀️🤣
Jovi would never had told yara until the stripper eventually got pregnant…. So good for Ed on this one!
Yup
I cant believe Kalani saved herself for a man like that 🤮
She has low esteem.
It happens unfortunately
he Broke up with her and she went back to the resort he worked at purposely to get back with him... she is desperate as always and with the new guy from Hawaii, yea won't be no different. She's being swindled and that new guy just wants attention and fame.... she embarrassed her kids dad with oversharing and didn't protect her kids from all that. She threw him under the bus repeatedly to justify wanting to move on with the guy she cheated with. Horrible.
It’s shitty because she didn’t know he was like that. She learned he was like that.. :(
@@Sarina2511 nah she knew the whole time and accepted those behaviours repeatedly. And now she did the exact same thing she claims was so painful and hurtful. Make It make sense please.
For once I’m not mad at Ed, Yara deserved to know what Jovi was doing behind her back
Yeah, but Ed was doing it, too.
But nobody likes a snitch, & Ed is definitely a snitch & a snatch.
@@dennismiles1😂😂😂😂😂
Exactly, if I was yara I would want to know what he's doing behind my back, wether that's being a snitch or not she deserved to know
@@dennismiles1 I would rather be a snitch for these kinds of things than cover for someone who does things like Jovi idk 🤷♀️
These men not realizing they were batting out of their league and throwing it all away. 🤦♀️
You know that Jovi will be one of ‘those guys’ who’ll be all snotty crying, & telling everyone who’ll listen how “She did him dirty”, when Yara finally dumps his raggedy ass.
This
Seriously
He deserves the divorce cheating 12 times is so wrong. Its about time kalani stands up for herself. Hope she has a great relationship with dallas.
Her cheating back is also pathetic childish
Dallas might not be the one, i know she also feels some guilt towards her actions. All that matters now is that they are able to co-parent well.
I’m going to be completely honest, if I was married to a simpleton like Asuelo who was cheating on me for years, I’d be looking for his replacement ASAP, no if’s, and’s, or buts. He should be put out with the trash!
@@katechan8262She didn't "cheat back " she got a hall pass. 😅
After being cheated on for an entire relationship Kalani has a lot of catching up to do... she needs to leave Asuelu. I don't feel bad for him at all.
@@katechan8262 Asuelu what going around come around you cry baby….
That revelation that Jovi wouldn't be with Yara's if her body changed, is absolutely heartbreaking, especially if she was already feeling insecure about herself. Her mother clearly put a lot of emphasis on physical beauty as well, but Yara is both, both inside a a wonderful mother and role model to Myla and as a beautiful woman who keeps herself up. I hope the work she is doing mentally is helping her gain the strength to see her worth, i think she is so genuine.
How many men actually want a fat wife? None but we just accept the situation
@@jaywezzy91 I'm so over guys making comments like this. REALLY? Most women don't want men who are balding and can't keep it up like they did in their youth, but that's what they get by the time they're entering their late 40s, when a lot of women are having a sexual reawakening due to a hormonal shift, but they stay with their husband's, even if they are the much better looking, comparatively, counterparts. Out of loyalty and love. Not "acceptance". Why even bother pointing something out? Yara is far from out of shape.
@@jaywezzy91most women don't want a fat husband either... Yet we put up with their beer belly's and all the rest of it. Stfu and grow up
@@9livesalicat86I’m not speaking about yara currently. I’m talking about the fears men have, we are very visual people. You would be shocked to know how men go about selecting their partner if you knew the truth. And are you saying that you would take issue if your man was bald? I don’t think so, but as far as sex drive I think that’s an individual thing. Every woman wouldn’t tell you their man can’t get it up, hell even big ED doesn’t have ED
@@jaywezzy91 I think you would be shocked to learn that not all men are visual; that there ARE men who are intellectual. And no; typically balding isn't a sign of a man's virility; my brother is a firefighter for instance and most of the men in the force are going bald, and have taken the plunge to shave their heads, and yet still check the "hot firefighter" checklist for most women. Most women will over look that and call it "becoming distinguished". On the other hand, women know nothing but insecurities as they have children and they worry what their husband's will think about inevitable changes their body has to go thru. I think your view point on relationships in really shallow. We all change with age; no one is looking forward to it. The fact that Jovi thinks he could leave Yara is she changes without excusing the fact his personality sucks is pretty awful of him.
And if you aren't discussing Yara, and you're only pointing out MEN don't want FAT WIVES... well. You're making a broad over-generalizaton. There are lots of men who think thin is out and like a little "cushion for the pushing", as they say it. Unfortunately unhealthy people will get with unhealthy people as well and continue the cycle, so. Speak for yourself?
Yara thinking she’s the problem is the saddest thing.
I think I lack empathy because I busted out laughing at Asuelu's lil meltdown. Also I wanna know why the heck did Ed bring up Yara's child..so uncalled for.
That meltdown was hella fake
Ed just likes to stir up the pot so the attention will be on him playing a bad guy he even broke the bro code and minding his own business
I felt like he did it because Yara asking about it brought nothing to Jovi… so he said explain it to Mila (the daughter) because Jovi will know how absolutely filthy wrong it is to do what he did. And if a guy did what he’s doing to his daughter…. He’d hate it but just not for Yara…. Pure reaction I believe
@@russellgarza9059so the bro code is seeing ya homie cheat and don’t say anything?
If my husband told me to shut up like that repeatedly that would be enough for divorce.
Hope so.
I don’t play like that, he have gotten a smack down on his way out the door. But thats just me…
This why you never get marry anyway
I had a boyfriend in high school who played soccer and was controlling, possessive and a massive flirt. He would tell me to shut up and once chocked me bcz he was jealous i was talking to some other guy. I stayed away from sexual stuff and never fave him sex ever..I was very strict and religious but dude i dodged a bullet.
Melicia needs her own show asap! ❤
PREACH
💯
what kind of show ????
Recaps on all these binge shows lol and exclusives with the cast@@Jsarmy87124
She should take over as host on the tell all
The kicker for me was Michael getting into the conversation and interacting via the tablet with everyone during the drama on the boat 😂😂
I couldn't believe that they had to go in early because Michael got seasick.
😂😂😂😂😂
@@showtime951😂😂😂😂😂
I feel so sorry for Yara i feel like she really cares and wanted to work on things while Jovi is so carefree and childish..
Jovi is given I married a good girl cause that's what I was raised to marry but I really want a FREAK
They wouldn’t be together if she didn’t get pregnant. But she needs to move on and take the kid with her! Yara is strong, beautiful, successful, well traveled…. Has a strong moral compass… I literally have no idea what she sees in jovi.
@@Kelly-mi1yz 100%
He is such a creep. What she sees in him, I’ll never see but hopefully she drops him like a hot potatoe soon. She really needs to
Jovi strikes me as the typical (overused term) narcissist, compounded w/ a drinking problem & sex obsession. I'm totally bewildered that Yara stays w/ him.
He simply isn't husband material. She deserves much more. So sad.
This whole thing is messy. Jovi is so damn dismissive. You can see how he tries to weasel out of things and make bs excuses. Good luck, Yara.
Them holding a tablet of Michael on the boat is sending me 😂😂😂😂😂😂
I’m just wondering like how hard is it to get him visa
Yara looking for apartments behind Jovi's back is starting to make more and more sense now . . .
yara is so perfect. i only hope she wakes up one day and sees that forreal. she’s an angel.
A little boring perhaps...
@@marknewton6984boring and complains. I only noticed when Liz pointed it out. They're both with each other for looks (yara Jovi). Neither have outstanding values or qualities
Yara seems like an angel (that's a stretch) simply because Jovi makes bad decisions. She would be a headache to be around
@@rains5 Yes Yara is pretty but pretty girls are everywhere. She bores me. Jovi is immature and should not be married.
No body is an angel!! Come on now !!
Jovi just wants to escape his responsibilities as a father. since day 1 its always been Yara or his mum doing the childcare. THATS why he wants another kid so that Yara will be completely busy with the kids, she'll be less likely to leave the bigger the family is and it'll be harder for her to leave and be a single mum. i dont think he genuinely is trying to trap her but he knows he wont be the one taking care of the kids
Well say the word divorce three times like Candyman it's hitting homeboy harder than an avalanche LMAO😂🤣😂🤣😂
Beatle Juice, Beatle Juice.. Beatle Juice
I'm crying 😂
@@oaklandmade007 🤣😂🤣😂🤣
@@shelley4746 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
@@oaklandmade007
Your the only person I’ve seen online so far who’s also from Oakland. The rest don’t know what they’re missing.
For once I loved Ed snitching about Jovi and giving him payback for telling on the other guys to make himself look better. Honestly he deserved it. And they are both awful so I don't give AF about how well they get on.
Jovis secret is that he’s a scumbag. That’s his big, deep dark “secret”. As soon as Yara understands that - everything else will make so much more sense!
i mean Asuelu cheated 12 times so....
But did he meet and screwed anyone else, I mean they said he talked but was there any action
@@russellgarza9059Who knows but it’s still cheating. If some others don’t consider it that, they do. That’s all that matters.
Way I see it; once you start talking to someone romantically or sexually; you’re already there. You cheated.
Seeing Asuelu squirm like that made my life ngl 🤭
Yara is such a beautiful young lady and it breaks my heart to watch Jovi dismiss her feelings, destroy her confidence and make her think that she's doing something wrong. He's hell-bent on crushing her spirit and making her think that he's her only option and she just needs to accept all of his bullshit. I pray that she gets away from him before he destroys her anymore than he already has. She and tgat precious baby girl deserve better. ❤️
Seriously I don't get what she sees in Jovi
@@johnsilva1225I agree, he repulses me sm
Jovi seems like a frat boy that never grew up.
Yara grew up without a father. She would never leaves Jovi, she would be always wanting her daughter to have a father in her life.
@@johnsilva1225💲💲💲💲💲
Jovi don’t realize there’s a lot of people watching this show who would love to love yara the right way
For awhile, anyway...
@@marknewton6984
C’mon Mark, don’t you think Yara’s pretty?
name one
Jovi is a spoiled, very hurtful narcissist. First, when he told her to SHUT UP, you know he treats her horribly. Then he wouldn't give Yara the phone and said "Stop, its over. Ok?"!!!
What?!!
I wonder what his mom will think of him now. She took his side about the birth control, which was none of her business.
I dont think Jovi really wants another child, I think he just threw that out there thinking that it would change Yara's mind about getting a place in Europe.
I feel so bad for Yara😥
I think his mom may be part of the problem.
I wanted to tell jovis mom
To piss off
Literally I think he thinks a secound child will fix them, no sir that’s not how it works !!! He justs want a baby in her so she won’t leave..
I wish Kelly was still there. He could’ve knocked out both Jovi and Ed, he has nothing to lose 😂
We all saw it coming.
She was done with him before they got to the resort. I do believe he was distraught, she let him get away with it for so long that he was probably thinking that she would take him back again.
And Yara just needs to leave Jovi. I know they have a kid but it's way more toxic to stay together with a partner that makes you feel insecure. She's a gorgeous woman, the fact that he makes her doubt how beautiful she is it's terrible.
she went on the resort to get $ and publicly humiliate him by oversharing details. things that you don't need to say to part ways but she did because she was actively cheating and wanted to defend her actions, only way to do that is completely expose him on national tv while she left the marriage therapy resort where the husbands and kids are there so she can go have sex with another guy. WTF?
They have two kids and are a happy couple.
The way yara says strippers is soooooo freaking cute 😍 'streeeeperz' 😅😅
😂😂
My
Yes it's cute
🤮
I love her so much😩😩 So sweet!
Jovi should be thankful that Yara dosent have my temper. He would be wet not from the drink but the ocean. Jesus.
Girl, I am right with you because I would have tried to wrestle his ass off of the boat to throw him in the ocean 😂 I don’t give a fuck if we both fell in there together
@@seawhorse9866 🤝🤝 same and honestly I'd be divorcing him even though the y have a baby. Jovi is a kid itself.
@@Xxxxkejti I totally agree with you, and the part that hurt me The most was when Yara was questioning herself and trying to compare herself to a stripper and saying that if she knew how to act like a stripper she would be that but she’s not and he was just staring at her silently like a dumb ass… i wish I could hug her
@@seawhorse9866 yes this made me so sad..how can your partner make you feel that way? Its heartbreaking. She is wonderful mom has great personality is witty smart calm and obviously beautiful stunning and gorgeous. And yet she's with.......Jovi 💩🤡 Unbelievable. Girl you deserve so much more.
(I am haiting so much on him but I know it can all be scripted bla bla I'm just judging what i see ok.)
@@seawhorse9866😂😂😂
Kalani did the right thing, I can't believe Yara is insecure, she is absolutely a wholesome Beautiful women and really sweet
I think her childhood trauma has a lot to do with it. Her partner is supposed to be her safe space, and Jovi is not. When your partner is like that it adds to that trauma. At 33 I understand completely. I’m still recovering.
@@introvertedweirdgirl2687 🤍🥺Am glad your recovering and I know I don't know you but am proud of you and you deserve better❤️😊
“Mee maw” was outta pocket 😂 I laughed a little too hard at that.
For once Angela wasn’t being awful. Come thru mee maw!
0:10 She was hesitant but I can't blame Kalani for shaking her head in a yes form.
yea bc she can't take responsibility for ANYTHING ever so she made him say it for her
Men can't ever take the shit they've done to their woman. Men act like they done died. Kalani I kissed him.. Asuelu died, we fooled around he died, he flew in to see me Asuelu died. Asuelu cheated multiple times and didn't appreciate her and the family he made. Another man swoops in. He made that love die, bye 👋😂 Kalani come alive 👑
Niceeeee
Sounds like a freaking song for Kalani
Asuelu die multiple times, Kalani comes Alive!
Fucke yeah hehehehe
😂🫶
exactly, men love to dish it out but can't take it back.
DALLAS AINT GONNA STICK AROUND LMAO
@@Scythesyn I said he was? Oh no I didn't 😂 now carry on....
Lmfao “Big Ed must have a guardian angel”, that part made me laugh out loud
I mean Ed isn’t wrong. One day their daughter will watch this and Jovi will have to explain to her the whole strip club thing 😂
Also, Yara was going to find out when she watched the show lol
This cos why tf do your exist to be annoying
@@theultimaterental don’t forget their dad cheating 13 times on their mom. him getting felt up on by strippers … that’s sick.
@@dizzydfizz123 It’s all gross. I’m on no one’s side.
Ya but you can’t talk about someone’s daughter like that
It’s unnecessary and childish especially with how young his daughter is even if what ed says is right
Kalani is right to move on, she shouldn't feel bad because Asuelu deserves it. Please move on with your beautiful kids
she doesn't put the kids first...its very clear from all of her actions
Moving on doesn't mean commiting adultry.
Asuelu basically made it an open relationship, so that’s on him! Live your best life girl
@@misssunshine8469when was he putting his kids first?
And Asuelu get to f-ing that sister immediately. She's a hard worker in the sack.
Yara needs to run! Women here's some advice in case you don't know. Doesn't matter how beautiful you are or how well you have your life together ~ they will still cheat!! It's not you, it'd them. And you can't fix them
We are what we are.
That’s right, I always say “You didn’t cause it therefor you cannot fix it.” Something is wrong inside those men, they need to unpack it themselves. Yara must not ever feel any burden on herself, or ever think she’s not good enough. It’s simply not true.
Jovie isn't even a catch I don't know what she sees in him. His is just creepy and inconsistent with the relationship
Jovi should be soooo lucky that Yara even looked his way back then. 🤦🏽♀️ he’s not even “ok”.
it just killed me with laughter watching Angela roll Michael on the screen around 😭 Flipping it so he can see the drama unfolding 😭
I laughed so hard at Asuelu, he literally hurts their relationship going women to women and expected compassion and still companionship??! I hope Kalani finds better and her children deserve better
The way big Ed is holding Michael cracks me up hahahahahah
Is Angela moving the tablet so Michael could see Yara leaving for me 😂😂😂
Damn my heart goes out to her for Yara its bad enough that you had to deal with this when she was a child now she has to deal with this with her husband.. damn…
Angela telling Michael to watch his step as she gets off the boat 😅😂🤣
You are a beautiful woman you don’t need to apologize for anything he needs the help.
SHEEEE needs help!
People taking turns to hold Michael 😂😂😂
Big Ed giving the police report 😂👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
He can't resist being the bad guy for attention or trying to make himself look good, I mean he broke the bro code in minding his business even if it's on a TV show
He's a snitch.
Angela portraying Ursula with that tablet stick! 😂 📱🔱
It was painful to see Asuelu’s reaction but he’s really seeing the consequence of his actions.
Ed is a mouth looking for damage, what an ass ! Trouble maker, what does his daughter think of this mess ? 😡
I want give Yara a hug 😢
Yara, you are so beautiful! LEAVE HIM! He will never change ,don't let him make you feel insecure, that's what he wants, he wants you controlled !
I went thru the EXACT same thing Yara is going thru & it’s so sad. We are both beautiful smart women who are desired by men but it doesn’t feel like it when the ONE man you want to feel desired by makes you feel undesirable. She deserves better & I pray she finds it w or w/out Jovi. 🥺💜🙏🏽
Same. It's not a nice feeling it erodes away at your self esteem
Same my ex was a porn addict and even tho other people always hit me up, I felt so insecure about his addiction and thought I am not good enough or that I’m ugly
@LuciixLucci -
To you and the two woman that have replied to you so far. You each need to enroll in my 15-Day program to restore and build self-esteem. You will feel wanted and valued by the end of this program, guaranteed. The only difference between the successful graduates of this program and my extremely valuable sports card collection is that I would never lick or bend the card collection.
Idky they let it go this far? Asuelu cheating more than 10xs and Klani allowing it? But at least she finally saying that she wants a divorce and wants to move on. Definitely, the right things to do are the hardest choices. Hope she finds happiness and Asuelu learns from this..
She needed an out before she left. Like a boyfriend
very classy of her to go from a husband to a boyfriend.. while married and at a marriage resort with her husband and kids... nothing justifies that either
@@misssunshine8469Okay, Asuelu.
All the couples together Angela face time😂😂😂
Sounds a lot different coming off your lip. I feel for her. He cheated on her their entire marriage. All these men on this show are unfaithful.
I feel terrible for Yara. For her to be brought on this show and is being embarrassed by her husband who she is only trying to create an emotional intimacy with.
I’m dying for someone to give Ed a slap
Imagine going from husband to forcing yourself into the friendzone. Broooooo
Asuelu was soooo melodramatic! He finally got a huge wake-up now he finally feeling what he did to Kalina, and then again, he sorry not sorry he got caught!
I'm not surprised after hearing all the cheating and then she spent the night with Dallas. I was like, "It's done, it's over." The divorce will make his family happy.
I agree, the addiction that Jovi has has nothing to do with Yara. This is ALL JOVI and he needs to get it under control or he's going to lose an amazing woman.
Ed needs to stop bringing up kids. He's gonna come across the right person on the wrong day with nothing to lose and they are gonna get him. He needs to stop stirring the pot.
Imagine if Jovi threw Little Ed overboard? That would have been golden reality tv.
Asuelo's reality is going to hit the ceiling When he realizes rent is due and he has to live by himself without her kalanai family's support.😂😂
Melicia you’re awesome and spot on!!! I wish Yara would listen to your pearls of wonderful wisdom!!! ❤
After what she has been through with Asuelu family. She deserves to be happy in life....
100% + Asuelu himself was also disrespectful to Kalani whilst he was unemployed and living in her parent's home
Asuelu acting like he has spasms after disrespecting his marriage the whole time not expecting kalani yo be brave enough to leave him.
He is ....not bright.
@@marknewton6984
He’s possibly the biggest
shit show around. Jovi goes
to a marriage retreat with his wife, only to drag two other guys to a strip club, then he acts like he just “went along for the ride”. Jovi knows how much it upsets Yara, & he knew damned well he’d get busted, so it says a lot about his lack of respect, & his feelings of entitlement, like he can do whatever he wants to do. Miss Gwen will get her lil Jovi back in time, no doubt.
Maybe Jovi should be
single again, very soon?
Jovi flinching at big ed😂😂. Hilarious
The audacity of Jovi when he looks like both beavis and butthead combined
Not he sound like he giving a police report 😂😂😂😂
Kalani gonna run into a relationship with Dallas and that's gonna end badly too.
Kehlani got her lick back! I’m not even mad at her!
Jovi is weak af.
I hope he's not surprised if his daughter ever dates someone like himself. A narcissist!
Love how the boat is speeding to land as the fight is getting more intense 🤣
Where’s mama Gwen? She went at Yara so hard about being on birth control. Yara would be out of her mind to get pregnant again.
I love you melicia, what you said to yara at the end of the video. Touch my heart! Always waiting on your recap! Sending hugs
Jovi is sick. Yara he will never change
I love the way you unpack these with so much depth
I got mad love for yara. I hate she doesn't know how gorgeous 😍 and perfect she is ❤
Yara, you could do so much better ! And you deserve better , you are a good woman ❤😢
So, he cheated 12 times and you still decided to have kids. Its time to move forward girl.
I would’ve thrown big ed off that boat 🤣🤣🤣
Yara could be a model , if they divorce its Jorvis lost
I want to hug Yara. That poor heart of hers is shattered.
She is the best host, love her takes.
The only good thing Ed has ever done, telling Yara about jovis shenanigans 😂
Yara broke my damn heart. She’s insanely beautiful. The fact Jovi just sat there and didn’t deny the things she was saying about herself was a bigger red flag.
I just sat there like dude! Tell her “No no no. This has nothing to do with you lacking anything. This is a problem within myself. You are beautiful inside and out, and I hate that I made you feel that way.”
To be very honest I can relate to her. My husband also struggles with a sex/porn addiction. It’s caused him to go over the line many times. I use to keep it on my shoulders thinking something must be wrong with me for him to do what he does.
Until I had a total awakening. Age brought wisdom and I realized I was putting something on my shoulders that didn’t belong to me.
Anyone else out there going through it, please know that you didn’t cause it and you cannot fix it. They must see the light and be willing to do the work. You are not imperfect and it has nothing to do with you not being enough. I know it sounds cliche as hell, but it truly is true.
Take that weight off your shoulders and give it back to them where it belongs; and let them unpack it. It’s not yours to carry.
Angela holding the stick with Michael on video chat is taking me out 😂😂
These have to be the worst therapist ever. They refused to call out Angela's trashy behavior. Both Kelli and Molly left before the end. Kalani snuck out to cheat with another man and then asked for a divorce. And not to mention the remaining men took a trip to the strip club
Everyone passing the tablet around LMAO. I died laughing when Big Ed was holding the tablet. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣